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- Опубліковано 5 січ 2024
- This is the story of Becca, who’s mental health struggles and self loathing pulled her into a downward spiral. As a former alcoholic she’s overcome a lot already. But she needs help to tackle this mess. We clean with her and share tips and cleaning motivation.
The cleaning and organizing process begins with Diana and Janet helping Becca distinguish between what’s 'loved' - items that still hold meaning and use for her, and what’s 'dead' - the things that no longer fit in her life. Our new cleaning video series, is called, 'Loved or Dead'.
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Witness the incredible transformation of a space that's been neglected as we tackle the clutter, mess and chaos to discover the answer to the question, “why doesn’t she clean?” If you need cleaning motivation, you'll find it here!
We cleaned for free and teach our decluttering method to declutter and organize your home. Keep what you love and make it easy for you to use and locate. Discard or donate what's dead to you. It's very satisfying to do go through this process!
You won't believe her friend's reaction when he saw her clean house - and what happened after we left! In this heartwarming episode, we take you inside an overwhelming and emotional journey of extreme home cleaning.
Experience the emotional rollercoaster as we try to find the answer by seeing what's 'loved' and what's 'dead' to her. Watch as we do more than just a clean home, but help give Becca a fresh start and a renewed sense of hope in the future.
If this story moves you, we invite you to like, comment, and share this video. Your engagement means a lot to us because it helps us continue doing what we love - transforming homes and lives through cleaning.
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Meet Rebecca, a single professional living with her cats in a 2 bedroom apartment that has become a reflection of her inner turmoil.
The episode begins with hosts Janet and Diana going to Rebecca’s residence. They’re instantly confronted by the extent of neglect and disarray. Her home, once pristine, is now in a state of chaos that mirrors the state of her personal struggles.
Rebecca's story is told through interviews and narrations.
She had a tumultuous marriage marked by her alcoholism and mental health challenges. Despite her efforts to maintain the home in the hope of her partner’s return, the marriage ended, leaving Rebecca devastated. This emotional downfall is manifested in her living environment, which is in a state of clutter and neglect.
We sort through the mess including bedrooms, and a practically unusable bathroom and kitchen.
As the cleaning progresses, we share more about Rebecca's life. Viewers learn about her past aspirations, fears and dreams for the future, including how she gave up a baby for adoption. Her best friend James gives his perspective and is amazed by the changes.
The episode reaches its emotional climax as Rebecca begins to participate in the cleansing process. A particularly poignant moment is her decision to discard her wedding photos, a symbolic act of her ready to accept the end of her marriage and move forward in her life.
As the space clears, so does Rebecca's demeanor. The clean, functional spaces help her build hope and confidence.
At the end, we reflect on the journey and how important it is that Rebecca does this for herself, not for someone else. The episode ends with an uplifting note. Rebecca shows us how she’s maintained her home. It’s the 4th of July and she has friends over to watch fireworks. The transformation, both of the home and of Rebecca, stands as a testament to the power of physical and emotional decluttering, a core tenet of the "Loved or Dead" series.
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Amazing transformation! James is such a sweetheart, bless him for supporting and encouraging her and trying to help. Mental illness is rough, I’m glad she kept it up.
I met him then Diana interviewed him. So I wasn’t expecting his reaction when he walked in. IIt was so raw. Everyone needs a friend like James and he’s a big part of her being able to maintain things.
no she is just lazy
What an amazingly brave woman!!! I wish her all the best in her continued recovery. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
its not depression-it is jus being lazy
I am so happy for her. I think her and her gentleman friend are so sweet together.
this is such an amazing show! what youre doing for people is incredible! ❤❤❤
Thank you Erin!!!!
Thank-you for recognizing, acknowledging and respecting those of us with depression. New subscriber because of your compassion.
its not depression-it is jus being lazy
I loved her transformation and am glad Zerorez was able to sponsor this and help her get a truly clean home!!
Yes, we were so happy to have Zerorez be part of our journey and to help Becca.
The carpet still looks very clean. I have had carpets cleaned and after a while the stains came right back. They really cleaned the carpet. Will have to see if I have them in my area. Her transformation was incredible. ❤❤❤
I loved this! I was especially touched by how sensitive and loving you spoke about Rebecca while never shaming her. It left me inspired!
Thank you, it means a lot to us to choose the right people. We genuinely enjoy working with them and we bond.
We know it takes a lot of courage to let us in. It’s even hard for me to show some things, so I understand.
The worst thing is being too embarrassed to accept help.
Thank you for letting us know your thoughts and that it inspired you!
yes-shame her-until she cleans her home
I hope Rebecca can now let go of her past, and find happiness going forward. It’s awesome that you involved her in the cleaning with teaching instead of just doing it for her. Beautiful transformation!!
She was working with us the whole time. All those bags in her car were full of laundry. We planned to have her leave and then come back but we needed her there. And we really got to know her. Thank you for watching and for your feedback.
I really admire you both. I hope this brave woman can get some help to cope.
This was so great! Thank you for helping her. I love this series. ♥️
Talk about a transformation!!! That's so amazing! 👏👏👏
Thank you John, it' really satisfying to see the change - and how her confidence grew!
You are a great friend❤❤
So happy for Becca and hope her life just gets better and better ❤
This was so cool! Appreciated your vulnerability Becca. Team did an amazing job
Loved this!!
Thank you so much for watching.
That was an amazing cleanup! I’m so happy to see that Rebecca is doing much better and I want the best for her!
What a great transformation
Thank you my friend!
Amazing all around!
Thanks Lorna!
I just found your channel! Love Love Love it!!!!!! Can’t wait to watch more for inspiration and body doubling!!
If only everyone had one friend like him ❤️
Right? He’s amazing! It was so inspiring to meet him and witness their friendship.
Well done ladies! This was so fun and interesting to watch. Such hard work and such an amazing transformation in such a short time!
Thank you, Becky! We’re so happy you watched and liked it!
And I meant to say thank you for being the ppl you are to do this for someone
Hope mama cat owner and her cats happy with their clean house 😻💗
You are amazing ladies ,you and your team are truly angels,changing peoples lives..love watching your channel ..❤x
Thank you 🙏 and welcome
Thank you for giving me the motivation to get up and clean! So happy for her!
That’s the best compliment - it gave you cleaning motivation!
you don't need a video on UA-cam -to make you clean your own house
So VERY VERY cool! Nice work!!
Thanks for stopping by Scott!
I am totally using that oven cleaner trick!!!
Love the new show!
Thank you, it means a lot to us!
Inspiring
TLC where you at?? This is such a great show!
Best compliment!!
Totally true you have to want things to change and then if you get the help it's your restart!
amazing video
We are so glad you enjoyed it.
OK, that was great! The odd name makes sense now. The after photo's were...meh. But, I am a sucker for before and after details.
I love your honest opinion. Thank you!
I have indoor three cats 😻💗. I’m mama cat too. Their cats are important to her too.
I think she would benefit from therapy, so she could talk through and deal with everything she's gone through. Great job on the apartment, I love it!
That coffee is not cheap.😅
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Wow amazimg
Thank you so much.
Great team! Thanks.....I do not believe in obsessive compulsive. I believe trauma grief illness divorce some kind triggers... isolation. Also a bit of all or none perfectionism. Thanks
Thank you!! There is a lot of trauma in the mess. We hope Becca can continue to heal and let light back in.
I need to get me some zero rez
We are happy to hear that! We'd love to help make your home clean and healthy again.
Their friendship is so sweet 🥹 I’m so happy she asked for help, and cleaning someone’s house who really needs help seems like a fulfilling job ❤.
Yes, it’s so fulfilling!
She needs to find someone who appreciates here .She's a real nice person.
She is an incredible person and we agree!
This breaks me bc.... Yeah. 😔
I wish there was more actual cleaning
Thanks for your feedback
My mother needs help. Have you heard of the quantum x?
Words can't express how AWESOME this is that you guys are doing! I'm SOOOOO very proud of you guys and I'm so happy for Becca 🥲 this is just pure AWESOMENESS! I'm so full right now 🥲🥲🥲
And we’re just starting. It’s really fulfilling, thank you for cheering for Becca with us. We hope to do a lot more, so many dreams and this is step one. Thank you so much 💕!
What happened to her cat? Evetything looks beautiful
Given the level of alcoholism she should get a through medical check up including Vit. B1. Worried for her.
We didn’t go into the details of her treatment (not our qualifications) but having a clean home really helped.
@CleanFreakGermaphobe of course. You are doing phenomenally. It's just overlooked sometimes and if she's reading this might be something she can discuss with her Dr. Hugs and love.
Yeah right judgy can't quite be happy for her
I need help.
We will be looking for new homes to clean. Email a photo and a little about you to twomomsreview@gmail.com thanks for watching!
@CleanFreakGermaphobe Is it two "mons" or "moms"? Thank you.
@@daphnelattimer9952 oops, it's moms!
@@CleanFreakGermaphobe Thanks for editing your comment.
This is literally me. Google keeps sending me "memories" of how clean my house used to be. Im Adhd and bipolar and i wish i could snap out of it. Any advice from anyone who has overcome this?
Those are things that can't really be gotten rid of, but you got to work with it! Asking for help with the cleaning is the first step!
I never thought of Google doing that. First, you're not alone in these challenges. Second, start small. Instead of clean the whole kitchen, do 20 items or 15 minutes that you define what you'll do in that 15 minutes. So you will put 20 items into the dishwasher. Only do that. The next day, do it again.
I have ADHD (not severe but I get it and have kids with it). We can't say, clean your room! It has to be you can (have or do) this if you do this. An if/then thing. If you do these 3 things (write them down), then you can (reward, something you want to do or have). Or it's a time limit, like 15 minutes of cleaning a specific space.
So for my daughter, it's written down on a sticky note, with a box to check it off:
- Pick up all dirty clothes and put them in the basket.
- Take the basket upstairs and start the wash.
- Make your bed.
Then she shows me when she's finished, she gets her iPad back. Or I drive her to her friend's house. Or sign that paper. Make her a snack. Or whatever it is to get the reward.
I do it to myself too. I tell myself, you can call your friend, after you put the things to be donated, into the back of the car. So my reward is to call my friend. Then tomorrow it's I want to get a smoothie, so I tell myself, get the smoothie on the way back from dropping everything off at Savers. I also put them on my Google calendar so I get a popup on my phone and go and do it. Every day it's blocked off for 15 minutes. I have to say, you can check Facebook, after you do your 15 minutes.
@@CleanFreakGermaphobe thank you. 🙂
I wonder what Rebecca’s issue was with tossing trash…
There has to be something….
If she had tossed the trash it would be fairly okay… the take out containers, the old food….
Well, only fairly… but better than nothing.
She has such a wonderful eye for decoration.
I am sorry to hear about the deep sadness in her life, the weight must be very heavy and unbearable.
Her life issues with her son’s adoption and failed marriage must be overwhelming.
My guess is she feels like she is garbage and so it surrounds her space. The outside being a reflection of her internal feelings/lack of self worth. Maybe not forgiving herself, not feeling loved?
Thanks for your kind, empathetic comment. I hope she feels loved and that life is good for her.
Oh and I have sober for 33 yrs
Depression is so debilitating.
I think it is wonderful that you helped her, but I kind of felt like there was a bit of a humiliation factor to the way some of this was presented. I don't know....I could be wrong, but that was the vibe I was getting initially. I hope she didn't feel ashamed. Like the wiping the refrigerator bit.... I don't think her issue is that she doesn't know how to clean.... Her issue seems to be deeper than that.
This is one of the saddest comments. Sometimes people think by saying someone’s house is a mess or that a mess OSS gross, that we’re by extension saying the person it’s. It’s more that we get used to our surroundings, our smell and atmosphere. And seeing it through another person’s eyes helps us see how bad we need to change.
We wouldn’t be there for hours or pay over $1k if it weren’t needed. That is sobering to consider the cost and weight of the clean up.
But most of us have been there in one sense or another and need help. Becca has so much courage to let is in. She’d watched a lot of our videos. Obviously, tried many things.
Being open to having her friends over and not feeling ashamed is so healing. Because community is part of the solution when you have so much you want to hide.
We’re not psychologists and always try to be compassionate yet teach, is important to us.
In no way do we want to humiliate anyone. My biggest hope is that everyone lives a life they love. Even with it’s messes, ups and downs.
She's had a rough time.
She really has. We hope things are getting better for her. We’re cheering her on.
povera donna credo che lei ha bisogno anche di un suporto psicologico trovare motivazione buona fortuna
That very lazy
How can a young professional be totally clueless on how to clean or even take out the garbage?
It’s called mental illness and depression
She isn't clueless. Her home was pristine 6 months ago. That big of a change is caused by something happening either physically or mentally.
That’s a part where she says she just couldn’t deal with the garbage. There were bags and bags of her cat poop. There’s a place where she discussing just not being about to take care of it. Just like she couldn’t take care of herself. She knew how to brush her teeth and do her fair, she just lost the motivation to do them. That self loathing…
Did you watch this on mute??
Sorry, too much talking. Need more showing the work being down
Thanks for your feedback
They're sharing a story. If you want cleaning with no talking, clean your own home 😊
She is just lazy. Everyone has jobs and stuff going on. I have kids, job, part time job, hobbies, gym, etc and still manage to keep my house clean. There is no excuse for letting trash build up like this
Or maybe there’s a lot of trash on the outside because she feels like trash on the inside…
I have to agree to some extent. To be depressed and unmotivated is one thing but taking trash out as you go down is necessary and not hard. Also if she isn’t able to take care of her animal, she needs to find someone who can. That’s completely disgusting and very unfair to the cat.
You have no clue. A person doesn't go from a pristine home to a disaster because they are lazy.
Well, there we go, ladies and gentlemen. It seems that we have an expert on here but who still hasn't got a clue of what is really going on in life. Let's just pray that you never suffer from any kind of mental health problems.
This just shows your ignorance towards mental health...nothing more, nothing less. Ignorance like yours is a choice
Whenever someone cries on camera I start crying too this was beautiful 🫶🏼😭