Bride And Mum Argue Over The Budget For Pnina Tornai Dress! | Say Yes To The Dress
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Rachel really wants a Pnina dress and knows her dresses have a big price tag and is willing to pay up to 10 thousand for one, the problem is her mum only wants her to spend 3…
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I can’t stand people that say they are “extravagant or have expensive taste” but it’s never with their own money….
Exactly. First brat bride sneering that she'd not even looked at the price disgusted me. So glad she got nothing. She deserved nothing. If I was her mother I'd tell her to buy or make her own dress.
Not only do they say it, they actually are bragging about it as if it were a good trait.
@@kateyare4708 Exactly and those people have no shame.
Of all the vile brides I have seen on this show, she is the worst
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Oh yeah well, her mom said it all, the groom is there to give her daughter whatever she wants! Good luck w/that dude!
She has a budget of $10,000 but she's not even paying for it herself, she's letting everyone else pitch in!!??
HELL NO! Get the dress *YOU* can afford. I really hope Kenny comes to his senses & runs for the hills
Why start married life in debt?
@@Crystal_Blue_PersuasionExactly and especially over a one time dress. What a big waste!
I love David's dresses. Color underskirt,,pretty. Different
What’s funny is that you know she hasn’t talked to anyone about pitching in, like she’s hoping everyone would offer to pitch in AFTER she finds the dress. Sweetie, that’s not how it works!!!!!! 😂😂😂
I have seen some very nice dresses under 3k that look better than the more expensive ones. Maybe the material isn't as great but for a one time dress, the look may be all that matters.
"Kenny is the perfect guy for me because he's always putting others before himself." So he's the perfect guy because he'll do anything for her without any thought for himself. Poor Kenny.
Yes, and she's perfect for him because she never gives a thought to his needs or wants. Match made in....?
That struck me wrong. I really hope she will also be selfless in this relationship.
@@shauntaft1147I agree and hate selfish people like that regardless of gender.
@@shauntaft1147haha. Sure. Hopeless.
Like her mom said: she wants, wants. I had a friend like that. She married the guy for his retirement fund of $500,00 which she managed to spend during the first five years of their marriage. He could not say no to her. If she did her response was: you are to keep me in the life style that I want. He passed away from cancer. She had to foreclose on the house and buy a cheaper home. She still spends money like it grows on trees. She has very few friends now. I see the first bride’s future like this. If her fiancée can’t tell her no now, the marriage will be hell. She may pop out a few kids to make him feel trapped (like my friend did).
I loved how Melissa wss so different from the first bride. She had a smaller budget but looked so timeless, chic, and sophisticated in the gown she chose. And her mom was so supportive and loving.❤
She looked beautiful! I wonder how much that dress was - I wish they had told us the price.
The most marked difference was the fact that the first girl was all about looks and superficiality and the second one was down to earth, sentimental, and cared about what really matters in life
She made the dress look so beautiful , a nice beautiful diamond looking belt would have looked very nice too. So happy for her 💗
And that special necklace from her mom made her wedding dress special and meaningful
She looked like a bride should beautiful
The second bride to be proved you don’t always have to spend thousands of dollars to get a beautiful gown.
In fact all above 7000 are tasteless and over the top.
Absolutely.. these r the best dress finds
Seriously, if somebody else is paying for your dress, family or not, you need to respect their price point and not hope for them to change their mind. I LOVE Pnina Tornai dresses, but they're not inexpensive.
Can you say gold digger? I feel sorry for the man she marrying, he will have to work himself to death with the way she wants to spend money.
@@BlueMoodey someone did some research and said they’re divorced
And obviously the bride doesn’t have any savings herself. Wonder why…
True to respecting other budget but the wiggle room should be no more then 500$ over 500$ or less over budget
If I were her mom I would pay any price. After the wedding she'll become somebody else's responsibility! Any price is not too high!
The first bride doesn't care about the dress, just the price. It is all about status for her. They should find a beautiful dress for 3,000 and tell her it is 10,000.
That wouldn’t work though because she wants Pnina and they have nothing even a teensy bit similar to that last dress for anywhere close to 3k anyway.
Lol
I love how confrontative the mother is, but still polite and not shaming. Also, she looks younger than her daughter 😂
Yes the mother look so young and beautiful
Her mother is no nonsense. Good for her.
Kenny run as fast as you can. This girl is spoiled
She gives new meaning to the world "spoiled."
Seems like she's spoiled by him too
He did run as they divorced.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjReally? Where did you find that out??
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Seriously?
Wow, what a contrast in brides and dresses. The second bride and gown are simply beautiful.
The second bride was delightful. You can tell that she and her mom have a good relationship.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
What a self serving fiancé poor Kenny has!!! RUN KEN RUN!!!
agree! Poor Ken, she will let him work himself to the bone to buy her everything her heart desires. Immature and selfish.
@@sarahdee374Exactly and people like that are extremely selfish and greedy. They are always me me me!
That is exactly what caught my attention too. She "loves" him so much bc he always puts her before himself and works his tail off to give her what she wants. That is not love. That is superficiality and selfishness. Omg that's scary that herself is on the forefront of her mind in the relationship. All it does is prove she doesn't put him first and this is going to be a one-way marriage😬
This-episode-is-from-2012-or-2013....he's-probably-long-gone..(divorced)..if-he-wised-up-to-her-narcissism.
I understand they're divorced, and she's in the 2nd one already.
As soon as I saw Melissa's face, I knew there would be no problem. When a bride radiates beauty from within, they tend to look beautiful in most everything.
The problem with that is, we are all a mixed bag, days where we are perfectly radiantly, beautiful days where we are not. The issue was with, we are capable of taking accountability. So many people victims when they are stood up to or pushed back on.
Melissa, the second bride, proves that you can buy within your budget and still look sophisticated, timeless and like money was not a consideration at all. She looked absolutely gorgeous in that gown. If your guests are wondering about how much the gown cost, then you picked the wrong gown--they should be wondering "wow, how did I miss how terrifically beautiful she is???"
Elegance and taste can’t be bought, the contrast between those brides makes it very obvious!!
Pnina Tornai are fantasy dresses? Okay. I’m not a fan. I find them gaudy and over the top for my taste.
Agreed. Too gaudy and showy.
Too much $ too much stuff all over the dress
Tacky. They are hard to look at, especially the busy ones with all the jewels.
The price is more like a nightmare.
Pnina Tornai = Totally Expensive, Tacky Tasteless Trash.
I think $3000 is even a lot of money for one day.
I think even $1000 to $2000 is already way too much.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj right. I was married before and My dress was $150. My dress now was $200 retail BUT I paid $50 online and it was still new with tags.
There's no need to pay ALL that money. My dress the first time was a ballgown and crazy and was still only 150!!!!
This one is all lace and slim. I do like bling so gonna add my own Swarovski crystals and still coming in under 100.
Please tell me WHY these people think they can spend thousands on a dress they wear once!?
@@JodiLeaSnakeQueen Exactly and my sister in laws all rented their dresses for only a few hundred. They returned it after the wedding too. There are many nice dresses for less than $1000. But these brides blow so much money on a one time dress. You must be kidding me! My classmate bought one for only $99 and loved it. It is the marriage that is important not the dress and wedding.
I think the brides on this show just want to show off even when most likely don’t even care what they wear.
Agreed. And it’s soooo ungrateful to the mom to act as if her $3000 contribution is nothing.
I agree...but the dress I fell in love with was $3000. And believe me...I tried on many dresses trying to find something else that would top it...but it was the one.
I’m not going to say anything about the first bride because I know all the comments have it covered. The second bride was just adorable and she looked beautiful!💕
The second prode and her mommy are genuinely soo sweet 🥹😭❤️❤️❤️ lucky groom
Take note future Mother In Law!! I would have to sit my sons down and give them a heads up if they ever end up with a woman like that!!!
Me too
seemed like she was quietly taking it all in
This is one of those times when I’d love to know if anyone did some internet sleuthing to see if the first bride is even still married😂
@@erinpescarmona8714 evil me tried to look it up on the Knot website. I do hope this bride figured life out and lived happily ever after with her groom.
@@erinpescarmona8714No, they are divorced.
Over half of Pnina Tornai wedding dresses are tacky. The bride needs a reality check on the low wages corporations pay employees. She believes that if she asks, people will simply hand it to her. If I were her mom, I would cancel any credit card payments made towards the wedding. Let her learn the true cost of living.
The first bride was an entitled spoil brat. I am glad her mom didn't give in and pay $10,000 for her daughter's wedding dress.
I am so sick of calling young women spoiled brats. She was young and looked like she was a few years out of college. Immature perhaps. Her mother did not give off 'my princess is getting married...we'll get her what she wants' vibes. So surely not as entitled as you seem to think.
@@melissam7067 Totally agree. Let's stop giving these women a quiet pass on their behaviour by blaming the parents. They're grown ups who have given themselves permission to act badly. No excuses, no blaming it on others, full stop.
@@melissam7067You her relative? 😂
@@melissam7067she is SPOILED. She didn't care what her fiance had to do to get her the dress. She just had to have an expensive dress. That's SPOILED. They don't seem that well off. Seems selfish of her
@@nikitatrisha1616 she left WITHOUT buying anything. all that talk in the salon may or may not have been true. whatever i dont really care-what bothers me is women in the comments constantly judging and calling out other women. As i said before she looked and acted like a kid. you ever made any mistaken when you were in your 20's? How about if it was broadcast on tv or online? women snipping at other women is the problem. we all make mistakes and say dumb things. a little compassion goes a long way.
No comment on the first. Melissa's mom was PRECIOUS. Her necklace offering was PRICELESS.
Wake up Kenny!! She loves your devotion and the way you put her FIRST . Kenny deserves better , poor soul. Notice no one remembers HER name.
I LOVE first bride's mother. So glad she put her in her place and was like "no seriously WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO?!"
HA. Pay for your own shit if you wanna spend that much.
I love how her daughter looks at her with not a clue. She needs to grow up a lot before she tackles a marriage.
@@9094nancyjYes, she does not sound like she is ready to marry.
What a contrast in brides 👀 that second young lady stunning in every way ✨💚
I can relate to the first mom. Ten thousand dollars for a dress the bride will wear once!?
I think most of us feel that way. I actually asked my sister in law why she did not buy her wedding dress. She said that she was never going to wear it again and has no closet space to store it. That is why she just rented hers and returned it after the wedding.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjall my friends did that, Chinese are usually more budget conscious and practical
@@silentbliss7666Yes, but it is not just a Chinese thing. My other sister in law is Vietnamese and she was on a budget too. She rented 2 other dresses and returned them all. My other Chinese sister in law bought her dress but for a cheap price.
Mom already stretched as far as she could with $3k. She doesn’t owe her daughter any more than that.
Why wasn't the bride showing up with some money knowing how much the pnina costs?
One spoiled little girl, one lovely young lady and 2 AWESOME moms. Amazing how some people think. I hope that guy understands what he is getting with that child bride.
I was disgusted by the first bride and left the video, but then I remembered that sometimes there’s a second bride tacked onto the end. I’m so glad I came back, because she and her mom were precious and washed the bad taste from my mouth after that first one!
My goodness the second bride was just so sweet I think she's going to have a happy marriage
That 3rd dress, good golly, what a dress, looks like something I used to see on that reality show about gypsy weddings LOL
I was thinking the same thinggg
that's basically pnina's whole aesthetic
It is that tired old P Torne they drag out for every other show.
I am sick and tired of seeing it. it is hideous and gaudy.
This looks like an old episode, though..
Lolol
@@TheDoggmom ikr, i've seen that dress about a million times now
Poor Kenny, good for her mom for putting her in her place and glad the future MIL didn’t comment. Hopefully she went back to her son and told him no.
Selfish and entitled. Make her pay the difference.
Mom & daughter aren't shy about bragging the groom caters to her every whim...nothing to aspire to ladies!
Can we give a round of applause for the first mother of the bride. She set her budget, stuck with it, and put her daughter back in her place. I know, it may sound harsh, but her daughter had unrealistic expectations and had to be given a dose of reality
Hi I think she probably expected sister & mother in law to put in as well
Spoilt Brat does not bode well for marriage
Get a Job They should have said
The second bride's dress was absolutely stunning and fitted her like a glove. It just goes to show that a bigger budget doesn't mean a better dress.
She said, _"He's the perfect guy for me because he puts everybody before himself."_
What i heard: *"This* is *not* a 'partnership'. *_I_* come _first,_ *always.* _You,_ your _wants_ and *needs* will be backburnered until *_I_* get what *_i_* want. _Then,_ *maybe* will look at something on _your_ list. But if it's inconvenient for me? _Forget it!"_
I was married to that for ten years before i figured out that, no matter how hard i worked, things were *not* gonna "come out in the wash," and it was *_never_* going to be _my_ turn. That all my "compromises" were actually _sacrifices._
Hope he figures out "narcissists are *not* capable of 'partners' or _cooperation.'_ before the sunk cost fallacy ties him to complicated obligations and wastes a chunk of his life.
Just sayin'
You just said it very well!😊
Perfectly said
Very well said that was how my late evil father was to my mom and us. We had a life of hell until he finally passed away. Selfish people that always put themselves first can never be good partners, parents or people.
Perfectly said ❤ sadly those of us who are givers and truly unselfish fall prey to ppl who don't know how to ever sacrifice compromise or give up their wants. They always come first😢. I'm 50 n just now realizing that I need to put me first sometimes, bc no one else ever does
@deniseandrews113 and
@nikitatrisha1616:
Thank you. I try not to be negative or judgemental on SYTTD videos. Not my life, relatives or wedding. I did actually leave without commenting but "if you see something, *say* _some _*_thing"_* ate at me & i came back. Who knows, maybe she'll see the video, read some of the comments, see what strangers think _and get therapy._ Hey! Y'know, _"Miracles happen every day!"_
The second bride is a classy lady and so is her Mom💖💖
The second bride is beautiful, humble and noble.
I’m proud of the mom of the bride who wanted a Pnina dress. She stuck with what she was willing to help with and gave her daughter a reality check.
It's only ONE day. Seriously...brides have lost their minds!
i am exactly like 2nd bride . Loves minimalistic wedding and everything in life . Simplicity over everything
The second bride and her mom were lovely❤
So she's marrying Kenny because he gives her everything she wants? And she's in tears when she says it. Yeah, that's love for sure!
I understand she's already divorced and into the 2nd husband. Shocker.
Bride 1 Biggest issue is she knew she didnt have that kind of money yet insisted on wearing only that designers dresses knowing they were out of her price range 🙄
And it was her mother that was about to spend the money too
Kenny is in real trouble. This marriage is doomed from the start
That is why they are divorced now.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj information source? I couldn't find any info.
@@sarahgrable7479 Just google her name and you will see.
@@sarahgrable7479It is on the net. Just google her name and you will see it.
@@sarahgrable7479It is on the net.
Kennys the perfect guy for me - That's why he works so hard to get me the things I want..... Well, that says it all doesn't it. Kenny will slog himself into the ground for no thanks whatsoever.
Couldn't compromise on the budget because 'everyone's going to chip in'.... Bit embarrassing when they didn't.
the second bride had a timeless dress! beautiful
I like the way her mom held to her $3000 budget.
Maturity--including Financial maturity--is the key to both be adults and marriage.
Glad the mom stood up
The first bride's mother is so much younger than the bride itself. Melissa is stunning with her dress without drama😅
How about using the $10,000 towards a down payment on a home
The 2nd bride was a great example of a bride with an open mind.
The first bride is going to end up wasting her husband money. You have to be clever with money and invest money for worthwhile things.
Can’t wait to catch this couple on child support court! His best quality is he buys whatever you want. Can’t wait for that bubble to burst.
They are still married with two kids
how delightful the second set of women were compared to the first.... God bless you Randy for putting up with this!!! I feel your pain, I am a catering chef...............
This was over 10 years ago. I wonder if she got the dress, who paid for it, and if she's still married..... anyone do Facebook research????
No, I heard they divorced which is not a big shock.
The difference between these 2 brides is like night and day. Fantasy vs reality.
Wow Rachael’s mom looks so young
I'm sooo glad that the mom and future mil didn't budge on that budget! It's good example of boundaries and fiscal responsibility for a daughter who might have a hard time accepting that she can't afford to have everything she wants.
To set an appointment, they should have a questionnaire for style, budget etc. Maybe a limit to party.
They already do the questionnaire but you know they love to manufacture drama.
Poor mother is thinking my poor son
😅.... right???
She did not look impressed one bit!
Second bride wins hands down with her beauty inside and out.
Mom didn’t rein her in as a child so know she is having to deal with it. I feel for mom and Kenny!
It could be a complicated family situation where Mom has been fighting against the tide for years.
But she did rein her in here though because she was like, “No, bitch, I don’t have time for your shenanigans today.” She didn’t cave in like at all and she was firm and direct. Sometimes you just can’t control your children.
I think her mother really tried hard in the past to nurture her. But she must have gotten her way with her father or someone had over pampered her to cultivate this kind of attitude into adulthood
@@silentbliss7666She is just probably born with a bad character too.
2nd bride, love the first dress she tried
What a huge difference between bride #1 and bride #2.
I’m still cracking up over that lip liner on that consultant, how has no one ever told her she looks like she drew on a fake mustache, whyyyyyy
lol, I always think the same when I see her.
Leave Camille alone! Its her look.
Camille wouldn't be Camille without that makeup. I think it suits her ☺️
@@ExploreLin10 oh me too. She's a total badass.
I love that consultant but lord the makeup gets me
Money doesn’t buy taste or style!
“I love my fiancé because he’s a pushover and I’m a spoiled brat.” Love how Mom put her in her place, made her blush, and march out empty handed.
Editors were on their game following with Bride #2 who was humble, gorgeous, and had a beautiful relationship with her Mom, each honoring one another and valuing the life milestone, not a “me day”. 😂
That spoiled brat has quite a temper!😯
My daughter, who likes nice things, is of the attitude less is more. She respected my 2500-3000 budget and found a stunning dress for 2700. She paid for her own veil.
You raised your daughter right 😊
@@nenesspirtualgirlbest9562 thank you! 😊
I know this has been a question before. I would like to see a series done on if the brides got married or not? 🇺🇸
Randy's wedding dresses are way better than Pnina, IMO. Pnina dresses seem to look almost the same or it's the dresses I'm seeing on this show. Bride #2's dress is gorgeous, it's simple and elegant. 😍
Randy does have great dresses. I also really love most Lazaro dresses
Let's focus on the second bride! MAGICAL! ❤️
Spoiled is spoiled and men don't know what they are getting in to when they start off spoiling an already spoiled girl. I wonder if they are still married?
From what I've been reading they are divorced
The first bride clearly has never had to figure out how to make anything work on her own. The blank and then angry look on her face when her mom asked her how she planned to pay for a dress over $3000 tells us she realized she had no plan other than to expect someone else to pay for it. Gross!
Ruuuuuuun Kenny ruuuuuuuuuuuuun!!!! 😅😂😂
OMG!!!! That 3rd Pnina dress is sooooooo beautiful!
The second bride was a refreshing change from the first one. The first one is full of herself and made a spectacle of her appointment. She wasted everyone’s time. One day, Kenny will wake up and say “am I crazy for putting up with her”.
She is so selfish and to “expect” her fiancé to cover her overage that marriage is NOT going to last.
You are right and they did not last.
There are so many beautiful used couture dresses. I think we should bring back people wearing a dress that is passed from bride to bride. My dress is an amazing Mira Zwillinger that has been worn before by multiple brides and I bought for a fraction of the price. The girl I purchased it from loved the dress and was so happy for it to have a new home and be part of another wedding!❤
Oh gosh, no. I'm so squeamish, I would never. I never do thrifting for that reason, too. I can't bear wearing something somebody else has worn before.
@@margaritadankova5061That was why my former friend bought her dress. She did not want to wear something that has been worn by too many people.
@@margaritadankova5061 Your privilege is showing.
Poor Kenny! That girl will only use him as an ATM etc.
The 2nd. bride Melissa is beautiful with the simple dress..here natural beauty shines through.
Sarah's face 😂 1:09 homegirl knew and still humored her 😂
The bride is so fortunate! I hope she appreciates her fiancé.
I don't think Rachel knows what a budget is. It's based around the money you have and not money you want to have.
Poor Kenny, he's in for a lifetime (I give it 18 months tops) of pain.
I hope he had an epiphany and did a runner before the wedding.
The difference between the two brides was striking, the second bride was lovely.
The 2 woman in this video could not be more different. The first one came across as entitled and the second one was so lovely.
I don't care whose dress it is. If you go over budget and someone else is paying for it, that just rude and greedy.
The second bride is adorable 🥹🧿
The huge difference and contrast between the two brides and their mother-daughter relationship. One bride is so sensible, elegant and down-to-earth while the other one is... the opposite
Message to Kenny - RUN!!
Clearly this is a Debtor's Anonymous issue. Clarity is key.
Her fiancé is in for a lifetime with a “gimme,gimme,gimme “ wife. She wants “extravagance “, but someone else to pay for it. RUN AWAY, MAN!!
mom's necklace made me cry.
First bride--what a brat, so uncaring about other people, especially her mother and her fiancee. The second bride was an absolute doll, so loving and caring of others.
I just know "mom" and "Kenny" are getting an earful of a tantrum until they agree to pay for that dress
I’m watching a short, my son hears the narrator say TWO WORDS and he shouted “Thats Sonic! Roger Craig Smith!! OMG!!”
I just thought it was really funny… I know him from “SYTTD” annnd my son knows him as a speedy blue hedgehog…😊😂
the second bride appointment ❤ and the mom is lovely 💕
To the first groom...RUN and do not look back!
She has a small mindset if Pnina is the only designer she looks at.
She doesn’t have good taste either with the dress she likes.
There are other dresses by other designers that can look better on her and she can afford.
Pnina doesn’t come up with a better solution. It’s just “let’s put 2 of my dresses together and make you spend more for a custom gown”
As for Kenny, I hope he ran away before the dress choice cuz chances are she wants him to pay for the dress more.
Lol, her future MIL is thinking RED FLAG!!!