@@MannyMannyG Instead of spending so much time watching cats take a sh*t, try jumping on a treadmill. She doesn't 'have to' share anything and why would she give details, it's no one's business.
It is her video, so I guess its her perspective since the other guy already did his video. Wont it be counter intuitive to repeat someone else's perspective?
This is exactly why Western men go to the Philippines in the first place. She talked herself into a divorce like so many Western women do. Quite possibly had some coaching from single friends. So tired of seeing this BS. I wouldn't marry a Western woman at this point if you paid me. They've been gassed up for decades. They haven't been empowered they've been brainwashed and many will end up alone.
So you evolved and grew in life with Michael getting you to that level of independence and then you dumped him because you were strong enough. Typical woman.
@@Psycho-Nomics maybe you didn't watch her video it's all about me me me when you put your life on social media it's open for assumptions and speculation. Can't take the heat don't put it out there for the world to see.
@@joerex2612 it's pretty obvious what's happening, and the fact that she keeps saying they just grew appart is woman code for men i just decide to dump him and don't want to have to take responsibility for my choices.
Why would someone get married and think that marriage ends if you "grow apart"? I thought getting a marriage meant that you are going to agree to work on coming back together if you drift apart. lol
They are at different phases in life. She wants to pursue something different (modeling and cosplays) and he wants to keep traveling and vlogging. They see a lot of opportunities for themselves in the Philippines, but they can’t achieve their goals at the same time if they stay together. Marriage is about compromise, whether we support our spouse in achieving their dreams while we wait a few years try achieving ours or you both go for it and the marriage doesn’t work out, which is what they decided to do. She’s much younger than he is too which is why their interests didn’t seem to work together. I had a feeling this would happen. Anyway, we wish them well.
@cwayzums dude, you can pursue your interests without being divorced. This girl makes a mockery of marriage typical of Western women. The only reason for divorce is negligence or abuse from the spouse otherwise you're supposed to work on any issues.
I can tell Mike truly loved you. It seems like you wanted this to happen. You used him to grow financially and once you reached your goals you left. Don’t sit there and say you both grew apart I don’t think so, I can tell he didn’t want this to happen and he loved you truly.
@@ginag17 that's all fine and good but they both made the divorce and why they divorced public. As soon as they did that they opened themselves up to criticism. Her rationale sounds disingenuous and mostly excuses for her own selfishness. So take your fortune cookie proverb and shove it.
New to channel. I picked up on the fact that their was zero affection from you to him. Not like other couples on UA-cam. From my perspective it appears you are the one pushing this. Not a negative comment, just an objective observation. The grass is not greener. Make sure you are doing the right thing. Time is moving.
She seems like she wants to be the main character of her own show. When you’re married, you’re still two separate persons despite being “one in body.” How can marriage work? By allowing your man to take the lead, and be submissive to one’s husband. That’s how it was from the old patriarchs of the Old Testament, and it’s still the same in our own time. She has the modern feminist view, and can end up being a cat-caring person the rest or her life. Her value in the eyes of men starts falling fast at thirty, while men’s value in the eyes of women keeps going up beyond forty or fifty and even older. He has a major advantage, only she doesn’t know it. Regrets will be too late!
How about NOT being submissive to anyone? If it is in one’s interest to follow the tenets of a religion, then one should do so. I would suggest that Bianca has no obligation to do the same. The “old” testament stretches back back a few thousand years. Homo sapiens stretches back >200,000 years and other Hominids 2.0 million or so - all with the same characteristic. Females reproduce, and we males are generally good for providing genetic diversity. If just up to us, our species would have been lost long ago. Yet we are supposed to be dominant over females? Methinks that has more to do with preference and a bit of bullying than with biology and logic. Most of the rationale (men are smarter, men are more logical, etc.) has been debunked long ago.
@@samquinn6427 , how can you be so sure? By being a divorced woman, she has already lost 90% of her value in the Philippines. Perhaps in Canada, her value lost would be less, but less value nevertheless.
Nothing says "I like a private life, I'm shy, and I don't like to put my life out there for everyone to see" like having a UA-cam channel.😂😂😂 This sh*t cracks me up every time I hear it. Couldn't be more of a Western statement if you tried..🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
Modern woman, guys this is a prime example. When they use terms like " we grew apart" " we need to start our new lives" . How about you tell us the truth, it was you that decided to end the relationship. Well its a blessing in disguise for him. You will have men in your life , but they will be be there not because they want a wife. This will be the last i will watch of your channel.
Ironic, not simping here but why would you mention the Lord here? Can you tell me in your bible where your Lord Jesus took a big rock and joined the fray in stoning a woman? And yes i said your because your Lord seems to be a different one from the one that is portrayed to be forgiving to sinners and all humans.
I know exactly what she is going through. My relationship just ended on January 20th 2024, after 10 years, a few million Pesos, a house and a 9 year old daughter. all because I'm busy working in America, for a secure future. My Filipina moved a guy into our condo, lied to me for a whole year, just to give me the biggest shock, when I landed in the Philippines recently. Stay safe.
@@isreeramotar3868 I am very sorry to hear of such a betrayal. If you bought the condo yourself, especially before she moved in, perhaps you can keep it. I wish you the best and that you find a more loyal partner once you have time to heal from this shock.
You "Weren't growing separately" You weren't growing up. Watching your other videos, it is so obvious that you were taking more than giving in the relationship.
Of course its for the viewers to judge, that's how interaction works. It's going to be incredibly difficult to sustain living anywhere on 1 video a fortnight that gets 6.5k views anyway. Can see things unravelling pretty quick once the house lease expires.@@limtseho3540
@@limtseho3540actually you’re wrong. When people want to put their entire lives online, then they will be judged. If you don’t want that to happen, don’t make your entire life public🤷🏻♂️
wat a cop out. it disturbing when i hear married couples say "we grew apart" when you take the oath of marriage its all about growing a life together and compromising. there's way too much selfishness in Western culture
People do grow apart. It happens. Those that recognize it and make changes to be happy are bigger people than the ones that hold on to an archaic doctrine that makes them miserable.
Imagine agreeing to get married and thinking that ends if you "grow apart." Why even agree to a marriage in the first place? Haha. Of course you should know you will grow apart in advance.
@@MrBroccoliGuy Growing apart takes years. Years longer than they have been married. This is simply her dropping him because she has no use for him anymore. A change of mind. 😆 Oh well it's all out there for public consumption and any decent man wouldn't waste his time committing to that.
Both partners have to keep working on a LIFETIME commitment. You don't give up on people you commit to for no solid reason it shows a lack of character.
Marriage is the longtime promise and commitment to take care for the needs of another person for the rest of your life, as only to think for yourself. Each partner has agreed to work on and maintain this relationship for a lifetime. Unfortunately, we have forgotten how to work on a relationship. For this reason, marriage should be very carefully considered and a person's character carefully evaluated before deciding to take this crucial step. In my opinion, there shouldn't be an exit out of marrage. Why would you want that? You have made a binding commitment. Just like when you give birth to a child, you are making promise to care for this child and to be there for it for the rest of your life. There is no way to dodge the responsibility away from you.
You guys won't remain friends. I'm 50, and know for facts you devastated him. (I watched his take) He can barely talk...damn he's got strength. He'll be fine because you act like a spoiled little girl and slowed him down.
This is a great example of why divorce is far too easy in the west. "We grew apart", suddenly means more than a life long commitment and vow. From the sound of it there was no infidelity, no domestic abuse, no verbal abuse. Sorry Bianca, it sounds like you got bored, had an itch, and decided you dont need a man and are chasing the girlboss pipedream. That's gonna sting one day when you look back at what was thrown away. Im sure there were issues, thats part of being a married adult. So is working through those things with that so called partner. Im sure ill get hate for telling it like i see it, but honestly you need to hear it.
I can’t agree more, you said everything I would also like to say…well done you. My own opinion in a marriage it takes two to tango. I’m a mum, a grandma and have been married to the same man my husband for nearly forty years prior to that we lived together for five years before we wed. Everything isn’t perfect as we go through there were hurdles but because we love each other we’re still together to this day. Communicate and be honest, bring out everything you feel inside you and try to solve your problems calmly. I think communication is very important in a relationship let your partner know how you feel and jealousy don’t get you nowhere. Good luck to all your endeavours.
@@pollybean900I agree with you. My parents are still married, over 60 years and counting and I've seen the challenges that life throws at them and how they handled it together, how they treated each other with love and respect.
She acts like a 12 year old with all the cosplay. Thinks she is all that and some kind of a model. Waiting for some rich Chinese guy to pay all the bills.
It is a great opportunity for Mike to find a really good non-western traditional woman in the Philippines. He seems like a really great catch and a nice man all-around and it is good that you set him free so he can find just that!
She was growing separately. He was already grown 😮. He married Davina and she turned into Bianca. Great no children involved. modern women dont want follow a mans lead. That will eventually be their downfall.
Your take on your marriage is weird. In Michael’s video he eluded to you pursuing modeling and other ventures. Coming from California I see this time and again where there is 2 million actors and 1 million models. I think some one blowing smoke up your butt telling you that you could be a star and you bought into the lie. Let’s be real I follow you on IG and although 4,000 people is deceit there are also dog IG’s that have 100,000 followers so on the grand scheme of things you are not showing much potential to be a star. Please reconsider your life before you lose a good guy because you chased a lie that you told yourself.
Well it's not like they both don't come from Western society and culturally they both were raised from Canada so I wouldn't take this situation the same as finding an actual Filipina who was raised in the Philippines and the culture has more emphasis on working through hardships in marriage and Western culture just pushes how easy divorce is as an option. As a Western brought up culture it's not shocking at all as it's super rare to see a foreigner getting divorced from an actual Filipina born and raised here that isn't looking only for money because there are many here lol. Like she explained she "grew" into a different place and found herself and that's exactly a Western outlook on why divorce is so high.....it's totally fine to search and find new things and grow as an individual but in my eyes if you can't grow with the person you choose to marry ( should be a forever decision) then it's actually an excuse to either try new men/woman or the life you want to live is in a class of society your partner is not apart of.
@@daryn2826 @mellingensander and @americanmike1957 did not say anything about Filipinas nor about being raised anywhere. They just said what every man should know about every woman on the planet: she'll *TAKE* from you and, if she finds someone better (in her opinion), she'll viciously dump you. AKA hypergamy. No nationality or anything involved. It's just in women nature. The sooner men learn it the better.
Burt wants his brows back.... I got my greencard, i got $$$ for nothing few bjs, now im empowered brave woman....Whats BEST FOR ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME...
If you are going to move forward in your life This how it should be ● no phone call ● no asking him when have trouble with your vlog ● you cannot ask Mike to fix aomething broken ● When your stuck somewhere call a girlfried or something ●When you dont have any money for rent,groceries,etc..etc.. call your parents instead ●this is what i call growing apart .Just a thought not a sermon
Strange growing apart , why have a wedding , if not sure to love or like the person you living with. Life is never easy,you have to work all the time and all days on a relationship. I think social media have big part's in relationships. Better stop social media than a relationship.
What a selfish demon ,I'm sad as she smiles like a joke was told I hope he cuts all contact,bigger better deal don't happen and these social climbers try to come back or be friends,no men if they need space or something else ,ok I hope she is happy but no friendship ever helps the man. Sad but break ups are not a happy thing so don't fall into friendship trap men
There were some videos where I saw he was scary....the split is inevitable They were eating and he accused her of taking his knife On another occassion, he didnt want her to talk, but these videos may have been deleted
Yes, a "fake" internet life can ruin a "real" relationship...... I understand why you don't want to talk about it in "your" public forum....... Because everyone already knows you were the shallow part of the relationship...... Good luck living with this discission.......
I just looked at a few comments and I feel there's too much negativity towards Bianca. I just want to comment about how she was feelng as she was doing this video... As I watched this video, I started to empathize with how she was feeling as she was making this video. I know it was a difficult subject and sometimes you just ramble.... I've done the same... Good people sometimes don't say or choose the right words to convey their feelings correctly, and things look bad. So you have to think about that. I felt her nervousness at the very end and I thought maybe she was going to cry.... I've been there... I'm sure it was a tough emotional reveal for her. As a fellow introvert, I know we only have so much energy to appear extroverted... I felt she was running low at the end. As an introvert, I hope she will do okay on her own... Let's not cast hate at her. She has done us no harm.
So let me get this straight? She said they split up amicably. That Mike did not do anything wrong. He also gave her the channel he worked hard for (very gentleman of him). He treated her right. He is not abusive but actually very supportive of her. And yet she files for divorce because she wanted something more (a fantasy I guess lol, a perfect world that does not exist?) Not happy anymore, more like she got bored. Well lady, such is life! Life is tough, it is not always happy. But I guess it’s just all about her. I wonder how she’ll feel if Mike is the one who decided to divorce for the same reason???? Just curious!!! I hope our Filipinas who look up to her will not imitate this. It’s not a good example. Marriage is a commitment, it’s not something you just let go of because you got bored and felt unhappy.
So much assumption and judgement based on very limited information. What do you actually know outside of what they're willing to share? Do you actually know what's going behind the scenes? These are two grown adults who have decided to go their separate ways, and that's that. F*ck off with your unwarranted nuggets of knowledge.
Ah Now I see what people are talking about. Yeah you got the Westernized Sickness...While people do grow apart giving up is not part of the solution it never is..I grew apart from my Ex but she regrets it now Trust you women wont get it until you hit that wall. Hey but luck to you!!! Why I dont choose Beautiful over Submissive. Big reason here folks Beauty is vain but that woman that is Fear for the LORD and is SUBMISSIVE is one to be treasured..Good luck with Cats you need about 5 to make you happy...
Got to ask tho, why was Michael so quick to post that he's going to be single? Bianca might not show that much emotions as she took a lot of time off to process things. What they show on the screen isnt always what they feel.
You going to end up a single unhappy old lady with no babies. You let satan take you. Props to you for doing Mike a favor letting him go so he can have a real woman with values and everything he deserves
Bianca… I understand you are an introvert and have difficulty expressing emotions socially. But, I know one thing, it’s very difficult to find that right person and what you and Michael have is one in a million of souls matching. Just don’t regret going for your passions in life, while leaving your marriage behind. I was young once, but I knew, I wanted my husband beside me always during my struggles and goals. (My husband and I, have been together for 15 years, since I was 17 1/2) Which became our struggles and goals, you kind of have to think about marriage as one person, and not two bodies. That’s how we connect, spiritually, emotionally and physically. “ I put him before myself, and he puts me before himself.” Just please rethink all of these emotions. God placed you guys together for a reason, look for signs of the universe to give you understanding. Don’t back down just because silly emotions took over; think deep within yourselves and hearts. ❤ be strong about it, I know you have it in you to dig deep into yourself. You don’t want another guy, who will only be in a relationship with you for themselves.
Wow you people are not in their shoes so just shut your mouths. Michael is yes a nice guy but really robbed the cradle with Bianca and he jumped into a new relationship with another young girl. You cannot blame one or the other. This is their lives and you cannot judge when all you guys are just onlookers.
You look nervous as you rambled aimlessly in your speech. You failed to feed your listeners with fresh, new content. Novelty and freshness are two components of a successful vlog. What you mentioned, there was nothing novel about it. Michael had already mentioned that in his video filmed in a park in Dumaguete City. Try to make an outline of your subject matter before appearing publicly. But your 5M followers will continue to support you because you certainly possess enormous potential.
this is an example of a strong independent woman, she needs no man ✊, please keep up the good work, just don't look for alpha male in the Philippines 😁
pepto bismol will sooth your churning stomach. I might also recommend water with electrolytes, much better to clean out your stomach than to endure dry heaves.
Mike gave up the channel because he’s interesting and he knew he was going to be able to build it up. There is no reason to watch this girls channel lol
So you kept the western independent woman mindset and once you found some success in the Philippines with the modelling/streaming etc. you dropped him. The wedding vows didn’t mean anything. Careful out there guys. Just because she is asian doesnt mean she is traditional and loyal. Pay attention to the clues. Never marry a modern western woman
Mike giving this main channel is so noble. It makes sense now why this channel had far more subs than Mike's, which appear to be the new channel. Even you separated, he still know how to take care of you. Nice.
Noble? Dude is laughing, he starts a new channel and his vids are already getting a lot more views without the higher subscriber account. Starting a fresh channel is a display of confidence.
its Mike who made this channel grow, and made famous, you admitted it you were just behind in all these things he does all the work.... so lucky you girl he is so generous he gave it to you and start his own I mean chose to use the lower subscriber channel ..... reward is near to him,
Flipinas show no emotion when separated they find another move on and that’s how it is , I have seen many that don’t care once they gone they get ready go out find another and don’t really care
I have been married to a wonderful woman from the Philippines for 20 years and she is everything I could want in a woman and we will be together for life. You were born in the west and have a western mentality. Western women file for divorce 80% of the time, and that fact is why over 60% of men have left the dating market altogether. They would rather remain single than risk divorce and devastation both spiritually and economically. You seemed to get more and more big headed by all the attention you received there and I saw your attitude go down steadily with time because of it. Michael is a good man that really loved you. You seem to think the grass is greener and want to play the field but this is how things will play out. You will find men to sleep with you but will never commit to a long term relationship. This is especially true of western men who would never want to deal with your western mentality when there are millions of sweet traditional Pilipinas to choose from. Michael on the other hand is a reasonably good looking tall foreigner with blue eyes and will have women resembling models going after him and are lining up as we speak to gladly take your place. It won't be long you will see how happy he is with his new girlfriend (a total knockout mind you) who will be a loyal, loving girlfriend, and eventually his wife for life. You will get to play the field for a while but life flies by then you'll hit the wall and realize no one is going to commit to you when there are younger, prettier, and loving women to choose from that won't leave you because they want to explore themselves. I think there is a quote from Don Henley's New York Minute that says it all: "You find somebody to love in this world, you better hang on tooth and nail", truer words never spoken......
I can understand your feelings. I felt the same. My husband and I “grew apart”, it felt like all the feelings were gone. I had zero desire to get back together, we separated and lived separately for a year but because we have a child, we agreed we should atleast do weekly counseling. We are now back together and honestly happier than we’ve ever been. I never thought it possible but it happened. Slowly but surely. We had neglected the relationship and hardly communicated. So it broke down. But we built it back better and we’ve learned how to avoid another break down. Now I regret that we ever separated during that year. I know you two don’t have children but you did make a vow. I would strongly encourage you to at the bare minimum give counseling a try. Really be open with it and give it enough time to see if it works. If for no other reason then to avoid any possible future regret. Sending love to you both 🖤
@@gg_Javier huh? We already had a child. Hes 11. Lol When all hope was lost between us, we decided we atleast owed it to our son to try marriage counseling to see if we could resolve our issues before just getting a divorce. And we did work it out and are very happy. When we couldn’t find the motivation for each other, we got motivated to atleast try for him and it worked. There was no abuse, cheating, toxic environment, etc. we just felt like we fell out of love, and were roommates basically, which seems to be the same situation with them. Marriage is hard. Counseling can work. I just don’t know if we would’ve tried it without our son but I wanted to hopefully give her encouragement to try. That’s all.
Actually your UA-cam channel will not grow easily if Michael is not doing Hardwork, in every videos you had with Michael as you can see he do more work than you.
thanks for clarifying...its unfortunate..but stuff happens...i myself was always curious to what happen and thought maybe there was a 3rd party ... take care... you dont need to be a professional in vlogging....just do you.... your still young. thanks for the videos....
@@fkoff7649 Including that Michael already posted on his channel that she was going to post about it too and he thought she already would have before now. She post this because there was pressure on her to do so.
Yes, same here. Moving to the Philippines, and living there can do wonders to a marriage of foreigners, in a negative way. Same with me. Young Filipina ladies being attracted to older men say everything.
Trash. This is why marriage is a dumb idea for men these days. It just sinply no longer means anything. He should've just kept you as a friend with benefits and went on to live his best life.
As I was telling Michael, I am saddened to hear you two are throwing in the towel on your marriage. I have also watched Michael's video with his side of the story. Marriage is tough even on a good day. There are the good, the bad, and the difficult times. All Relationships take work, but both of you have to want to make it work. Michael seems devastated over this decision. You two make a great couple. Since you are Canadian, staying separated for a year in the Philippines will be tough. I hope you have both carefully weighed all the pros and cons of your relationship. I would try a minimum of 3 months of marital counseling first. I was always given good advice that no amount of success will compensate for failure in the home. I hope you and Michael will try to work through it first. I wish you both the best.
We really dnt know they will not tell us the real reason I asure you its not whatt it seems only they know for sure why they are not together hope they do tell is the reason one day because what they saying is the reason is hogwash I got a divorced from my wife it was for her cheating so only time will tell I hope they get help I really love both of their vedioes
Look girl, I strongly believe that both of you shouldn't have separated because of disagreement in your marriage. Disagreement should not be a recipe for divorce. Deep disagreement in any relationship is necessary but it should bring married couples together not separation. I believe that if couples separate or divorced for disagreement either one person or both don't love each other
Dear Bianca, I'm going to take the proper amount of time to write this. So when you have a block of time, here we go... I know it's tough for you, but you did the right thing by telling us. Making a vlog about it is difficult, because it brings the reality home. As a much older gentleman, formerly an introvert, what you are going through is understandable; I can relate. Because you are much younger, who you are, changes quickly. this is normal. So even if your husband was "THE" perfect man for you in the past, everyone changes over time. It is not for me to say if splitting was the right call. Over time, I expect you will have an enhanced appreciation for what you had. This is also normal and part of the learning process. Understanding and accepting this will help you in the future, when you are in a committed relationship. Know, and accept that drift in your future relationship, and you can choose to be happy together, regardless. Regarding your personal life moving forward, know that you can choose to keep some things private, as you like. Where you draw that line, is up to you. I recognize your ex as an honorable gentleman; he did the honorable thing to give you the huge subscriber base, no doubt to help you prosper towards your goals and to help meet your needs. Please honor his gift and secure your future, by helping your channel thrive. Much like a plant, it requires care and feeding to be fruitful. Learn to differentiate between the trolls, and your loyal fan base who will give you constructive criticism and suggestions for you to consider, to improve. You can even ask trusted subscribers for suggestions on what they liked or didn't like, or how to do better. You don't have to accept every suggestion, but it would be wise to do a reality check to consider if they are right. For example, comments regarding camera shake in the last video. Over time you can learn technical things that will help you as well, like camera settings for different situations. Don't worry too much about it. It will come with time. Different perspectives can show you your blind spots, and this is very valuable if you want to be able to create great vlogs with ease. and, it WILL get easier. There are ways you can build your confidence and reach a high standard of excellence. Here are a couple examples. - don't say you are bad at this. Instead, understand you are progressing and will get better over time, as you have already noted in this video. Here is one way to accelerate the process. - For informational videos that aren't recording live events, such as this one, use this process. 1. Write down a list of super short bullet points that address everything you want to communicate. 2. Arrange those bullet points in a logical manner, that flows well. 3. Turn each bullet point into prose (English, like as you would speak it). Revise as needed to be clear or better quality. 4. Do a test run, speak all the items in the rearranged order. 5. Tweak if necessary. 6. Record, edit, release. From memory is best. Be sure to express your personality as well, who you are is what people appreciate. Believe in yourself.
Wow, this is a tragedy. Such an amazing couple. What I’ve learned from this I’m 45 years old. I guess I’m gonna stick with Filipinos close to my age.🙌🏻
Both you have different stories for divorce, but both of you are good to see together as usual as earlier. Look good, understanding and better do not accuse each others for any reason. Both of you have to understand their own mistakes then there is not a problem to get divorce. Hope for the best and think twice please both of you before separating each others. Separating is easy but living with love is difficult, so you both have to think better for both your life.
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80% of all divorce is initiated by women, just the facts.
@@MannyMannyG Instead of spending so much time watching cats take a sh*t, try jumping on a treadmill. She doesn't 'have to' share anything and why would she give details, it's no one's business.
I call BS
lolz i was thinking the same@@wanabetruckerdave3776
I heard a lot about “me” in this video.
It is her video, so I guess its her perspective since the other guy already did his video. Wont it be counter intuitive to repeat someone else's perspective?
As it should be.
This is exactly why Western men go to the Philippines in the first place. She talked herself into a divorce like so many Western women do. Quite possibly had some coaching from single friends. So tired of seeing this BS. I wouldn't marry a Western woman at this point if you paid me. They've been gassed up for decades. They haven't been empowered they've been brainwashed and many will end up alone.
@@ginostrings symp
@@TJ-hy7gd amazing
So you evolved and grew in life with Michael getting you to that level of independence and then you dumped him because you were strong enough.
Typical woman.
you don't know what's happening in their private life, don't speculate.
Ah, applying a stereotype to a relationship you know nothing about... You must be an intellectual.
@@Psycho-Nomics maybe you didn't watch her video it's all about me me me when you put your life on social media it's open for assumptions and speculation.
Can't take the heat don't put it out there for the world to see.
@@joerex2612 it's pretty obvious what's happening, and the fact that she keeps saying they just grew appart is woman code for men i just decide to dump him and don't want to have to take responsibility for my choices.
OP being misogynistic.
Well....one is a still coming out as a child one is an adult. I can see why it wouldn't work.
and the "child" is now in Roxas.
With a much better quality lady. @@Jimbo-v3m
Why would someone get married and think that marriage ends if you "grow apart"? I thought getting a marriage meant that you are going to agree to work on coming back together if you drift apart. lol
He is a simp
@@smacktard6051 Most women in the west think like Bianca. As a man why get married? just have fun with these girls for 6 months and move on.
They are at different phases in life. She wants to pursue something different (modeling and cosplays) and he wants to keep traveling and vlogging. They see a lot of opportunities for themselves in the Philippines, but they can’t achieve their goals at the same time if they stay together. Marriage is about compromise, whether we support our spouse in achieving their dreams while we wait a few years try achieving ours or you both go for it and the marriage doesn’t work out, which is what they decided to do. She’s much younger than he is too which is why their interests didn’t seem to work together. I had a feeling this would happen. Anyway, we wish them well.
@@cwayzums she is not mature yet hope Mike finds a nice mature 20ish Filipina
@cwayzums dude, you can pursue your interests without being divorced. This girl makes a mockery of marriage typical of Western women. The only reason for divorce is negligence or abuse from the spouse otherwise you're supposed to work on any issues.
I can tell Mike truly loved you. It seems like you wanted this to happen. You used him to grow financially and once you reached your goals you left. Don’t sit there and say you both grew apart I don’t think so, I can tell he didn’t want this to happen and he loved you truly.
at the end of the day, she still a gold digging 3rd World Asian
You shouldn’t judge when you don’t know all the facts.
@@ginag17 Get back in the kitchen
@@ginag17 that's all fine and good but they both made the divorce and why they divorced public. As soon as they did that they opened themselves up to criticism. Her rationale sounds disingenuous and mostly excuses for her own selfishness. So take your fortune cookie proverb and shove it.
@@ginag17 No just by her actions. Speaks Pok Pok.
New to channel. I picked up on the fact that their was zero affection from you to him. Not like other couples on UA-cam. From my perspective it appears you are the one pushing this. Not a negative comment, just an objective observation. The grass is not greener. Make sure you are doing the right thing. Time is moving.
She seems like she wants to be the main character of her own show. When you’re married, you’re still two separate persons despite being “one in body.” How can marriage work? By allowing your man to take the lead, and be submissive to one’s husband. That’s how it was from the old patriarchs of the Old Testament, and it’s still the same in our own time. She has the modern feminist view, and can end up being a cat-caring person the rest or her life. Her value in the eyes of men starts falling fast at thirty, while men’s value in the eyes of women keeps going up beyond forty or fifty and even older. He has a major advantage, only she doesn’t know it. Regrets will be too late!
How about NOT being submissive to anyone? If it is in one’s interest to follow the tenets of a religion, then one should do so. I would suggest that Bianca has no obligation to do the same. The “old” testament stretches back back a few thousand years. Homo sapiens stretches back >200,000 years and other Hominids 2.0 million or so - all with the same characteristic. Females reproduce, and we males are generally good for providing genetic diversity. If just up to us, our species would have been lost long ago. Yet we are supposed to be dominant over females? Methinks that has more to do with preference and a bit of bullying than with biology and logic. Most of the rationale (men are smarter, men are more logical, etc.) has been debunked long ago.
only true thing in the comments section I would never marry a westernized feminist female@@leapdrive
I doubt she will end up being that: "40 year old woman living alone with her cat."@@leapdrive
@@samquinn6427 , how can you be so sure? By being a divorced woman, she has already lost 90% of her value in the Philippines. Perhaps in Canada, her value lost would be less, but less value nevertheless.
Nothing says "I like a private life, I'm shy, and I don't like to put my life out there for everyone to see" like having a UA-cam channel.😂😂😂 This sh*t cracks me up every time I hear it. Couldn't be more of a Western statement if you tried..🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
Narcissists can be shy too
i knew my wife for 10 days and we married in manila, marriage before vlogs, been married for 38yrs, 3 boys, 5 grand children
Wow, you rolled the dice and landed a good number, lol. doesn;t always end up that way getting married that fast when you don't know someone yet
Pure luck.. congrats
Before internet poison.
me too brother, 14 days, thanks for the example of real commitment
Congratulations you have left a legacy and an example for your heritage to follow ,working not just quitting .
Modern woman, guys this is a prime example. When they use terms like " we grew apart" " we need to start our new lives" . How about you tell us the truth, it was you that decided to end the relationship. Well its a blessing in disguise for him. You will have men in your life , but they will be be there not because they want a wife. This will be the last i will watch of your channel.
Yada yada yada, I'm a bag of chips and I can do better. Well, good luck and don't let the door hit you where the Lord split you.
Ironic, not simping here but why would you mention the Lord here? Can you tell me in your bible where your Lord Jesus took a big rock and joined the fray in stoning a woman? And yes i said your because your Lord seems to be a different one from the one that is portrayed to be forgiving to sinners and all humans.
AS*HOLE!!! first thing comes to mind. PU*K 2nd. and CREE*P 3rd. I am sure this was not easy for her with 137,000 subscribers.
I think we all saw this coming....
I knew it was coming today he was making a video doing his laundry outside lol I be dam if I'm doing that while married
I know exactly what she is going through. My relationship just ended on January 20th 2024, after 10 years, a few million Pesos, a house and a 9 year old daughter. all because I'm busy working in America, for a secure future. My Filipina moved a guy into our condo, lied to me for a whole year, just to give me the biggest shock, when I landed in the Philippines recently. Stay safe.
@@isreeramotar3868 wow, just wow! Very sorry to hear this.
@@smccarthymccarthy😭😭😭😭I’m only human, just can’t understand how someone can be so cruel and cold…
@@isreeramotar3868 I am very sorry to hear of such a betrayal. If you bought the condo yourself, especially before she moved in, perhaps you can keep it.
I wish you the best and that you find a more loyal partner once you have time to heal from this shock.
do you really think you can find a guy better than Michael in the Philipines? LOL look around at all the competition
You "Weren't growing separately" You weren't growing up. Watching your other videos, it is so obvious that you were taking more than giving in the relationship.
Of course its for the viewers to judge, that's how interaction works. It's going to be incredibly difficult to sustain living anywhere on 1 video a fortnight that gets 6.5k views anyway. Can see things unravelling pretty quick once the house lease expires.@@limtseho3540
Everyones allowed an opinion on publicity...hound vlogs.@@limtseho3540
@@limtseho3540actually you’re wrong. When people want to put their entire lives online, then they will be judged. If you don’t want that to happen, don’t make your entire life public🤷🏻♂️
That's pretty much the norm in western relationships.
You broke his heart. He still looks broken even sounds that way. He is just being polite letting you off the hook.
Seems like “She” grew apart . Women initiate 80% of the divorces…
If college educated its 90%
wat a cop out. it disturbing when i hear married couples say "we grew apart"
when you take the oath of marriage its all about growing a life together and compromising. there's way too much selfishness in Western culture
People do grow apart. It happens. Those that recognize it and make changes to be happy are bigger people than the ones that hold on to an archaic doctrine that makes them miserable.
Imagine agreeing to get married and thinking that ends if you "grow apart." Why even agree to a marriage in the first place? Haha. Of course you should know you will grow apart in advance.
As opposed to adultery or legal separation in the Philippines? 😜
i think its different when there is no kids involved
@@MrBroccoliGuy Growing apart takes years. Years longer than they have been married. This is simply her dropping him because she has no use for him anymore. A change of mind. 😆 Oh well it's all out there for public consumption and any decent man wouldn't waste his time committing to that.
Im not happy... the Title story of 80% of men's life. Why couldn't he keep this channel that he put so much into.... Michael is a gentleman. 😊
I cant believe that you can make enough money to live, even in the Philippines, by just doing a few videos a month!
Has he been drifting apart or have you been drifting apart?🤔🙄
She’s definitely the one that drifted away sadly
Both partners have to keep working on a LIFETIME commitment. You don't give up on people you commit to for no solid reason it shows a lack of character.
it just shows there relationship is shallow
Immature
I totally agree.
How old was Michael and Bianca when they got married?
Marriage is the longtime promise and commitment to take care for the needs of another person for the rest of your life, as only to think for yourself. Each partner has agreed to work on and maintain this relationship for a lifetime. Unfortunately, we have forgotten how to work on a relationship. For this reason, marriage should be very carefully considered and a person's character carefully evaluated before deciding to take this crucial step. In my opinion, there shouldn't be an exit out of marrage. Why would you want that? You have made a binding commitment. Just like when you give birth to a child, you are making promise to care for this child and to be there for it for the rest of your life. There is no way to dodge the responsibility away from you.
A marriage is supposed to be for better or for worst. The oath you took. Everybody has flaws. This is going to be a lifecycle. Good luck...
You guys won't remain friends. I'm 50, and know for facts you devastated him. (I watched his take) He can barely talk...damn he's got strength. He'll be fine because you act like a spoiled little girl and slowed him down.
This is a great example of why divorce is far too easy in the west. "We grew apart", suddenly means more than a life long commitment and vow.
From the sound of it there was no infidelity, no domestic abuse, no verbal abuse.
Sorry Bianca, it sounds like you got bored, had an itch, and decided you dont need a man and are chasing the girlboss pipedream. That's gonna sting one day when you look back at what was thrown away.
Im sure there were issues, thats part of being a married adult. So is working through those things with that so called partner. Im sure ill get hate for telling it like i see it, but honestly you need to hear it.
I can’t agree more, you said everything I would also like to say…well done you. My own opinion in a marriage it takes two to tango. I’m a mum, a grandma and have been married to the same man my husband for nearly forty years prior to that we lived together for five years before we wed. Everything isn’t perfect as we go through there were hurdles but because we love each other we’re still together to this day. Communicate and be honest, bring out everything you feel inside you and try to solve your problems calmly. I think communication is very important in a relationship let your partner know how you feel and jealousy don’t get you nowhere. Good luck to all your endeavours.
@@pollybean900I agree with you. My parents are still married, over 60 years and counting and I've seen the challenges that life throws at them and how they handled it together, how they treated each other with love and respect.
She acts like a 12 year old with all the cosplay. Thinks she is all that and some kind of a model. Waiting for some rich Chinese guy to pay all the bills.
It is a great opportunity for Mike to find a really good non-western traditional woman in the Philippines. He seems like a really great catch and a nice man all-around and it is good that you set him free so he can find just that!
A marriage has to be together and selfless.
Michael ran out of money that the true story, Bianca was spoiled rotten little brat
She was growing separately. He was already grown 😮. He married Davina and she turned into Bianca. Great no children involved. modern women dont want follow a mans lead. That will eventually be their downfall.
Yes, sorry but he's a better blogger than you.
Your take on your marriage is weird. In Michael’s video he eluded to you pursuing modeling and other ventures. Coming from California I see this time and again where there is 2 million actors and 1 million models. I think some one blowing smoke up your butt telling you that you could be a star and you bought into the lie. Let’s be real I follow you on IG and although 4,000 people is deceit there are also dog IG’s that have 100,000 followers so on the grand scheme of things you are not showing much potential to be a star. Please reconsider your life before you lose a good guy because you chased a lie that you told yourself.
Jesus I feel so sorry for him...but if nothing else, you gave him a life lesson...
Right, just another case of a guy building up a woman only to get dumped when she gets better opportunities off the back of his hard work.
Well it's not like they both don't come from Western society and culturally they both were raised from Canada so I wouldn't take this situation the same as finding an actual Filipina who was raised in the Philippines and the culture has more emphasis on working through hardships in marriage and Western culture just pushes how easy divorce is as an option. As a Western brought up culture it's not shocking at all as it's super rare to see a foreigner getting divorced from an actual Filipina born and raised here that isn't looking only for money because there are many here lol. Like she explained she "grew" into a different place and found herself and that's exactly a Western outlook on why divorce is so high.....it's totally fine to search and find new things and grow as an individual but in my eyes if you can't grow with the person you choose to marry ( should be a forever decision) then it's actually an excuse to either try new men/woman or the life you want to live is in a class of society your partner is not apart of.
@@American_Mike💯
This will flow like all the others. Watch what happens next.
@@daryn2826 @mellingensander and @americanmike1957 did not say anything about Filipinas nor about being raised anywhere. They just said what every man should know about every woman on the planet: she'll *TAKE* from you and, if she finds someone better (in her opinion), she'll viciously dump you. AKA hypergamy. No nationality or anything involved. It's just in women nature. The sooner men learn it the better.
Burt wants his brows back.... I got my greencard, i got $$$ for nothing few bjs, now im empowered brave woman....Whats BEST FOR ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME...
If you are going to move forward in your life
This how it should be
● no phone call
● no asking him when have trouble with your vlog
● you cannot ask Mike to fix aomething broken
● When your stuck somewhere call a girlfried or something
●When you dont have any money for rent,groceries,etc..etc.. call your parents instead
●this is what i call growing apart .Just a thought not a sermon
Strange growing apart , why have a wedding , if not sure to love or like the person you living with.
Life is never easy,you have to work all the time and all days on a relationship.
I think social media have big part's in relationships.
Better stop social media than a relationship.
Doors opened so she had to leave her husband lol
you are literally everything men should avoid, enjoy living life until you hit the wall and end up alone.
I think he’s too good for you. Michael is the man.
What a selfish demon ,I'm sad as she smiles like a joke was told I hope he cuts all contact,bigger better deal don't happen and these social climbers try to come back or be friends,no men if they need space or something else ,ok I hope she is happy but no friendship ever helps the man. Sad but break ups are not a happy thing so don't fall into friendship trap men
I can see it's your idea for the split. I will unsubscribe. I hope everyone else moves to his channel, too.
There were some videos where I saw he was scary....the split is inevitable
They were eating and he accused her of taking his knife
On another occassion, he didnt want her to talk, but these videos may have been deleted
So better doors opened, huh?
Yes, a "fake" internet life can ruin a "real" relationship...... I understand why you don't want to talk about it in "your" public forum....... Because everyone already knows you were the shallow part of the relationship...... Good luck living with this discission.......
This break up video is just like Michael’s both are as clear as mud on why the marriage is ending.
I just looked at a few comments and I feel there's too much negativity towards Bianca.
I just want to comment about how she was feelng as she was doing this video...
As I watched this video, I started to empathize with how she was feeling as she was making this video.
I know it was a difficult subject and sometimes you just ramble.... I've done the same...
Good people sometimes don't say or choose the right words to convey their feelings correctly, and things look bad.
So you have to think about that.
I felt her nervousness at the very end and I thought maybe she was going to cry.... I've been there... I'm sure it was a tough emotional reveal for her.
As a fellow introvert, I know we only have so much energy to appear extroverted... I felt she was running low at the end.
As an introvert, I hope she will do okay on her own... Let's not cast hate at her. She has done us no harm.
So let me get this straight? She said they split up amicably. That Mike did not do anything wrong. He also gave her the channel he worked hard for (very gentleman of him). He treated her right. He is not abusive but actually very supportive of her. And yet she files for divorce because she wanted something more (a fantasy I guess lol, a perfect world that does not exist?) Not happy anymore, more like she got bored. Well lady, such is life! Life is tough, it is not always happy. But I guess it’s just all about her. I wonder how she’ll feel if Mike is the one who decided to divorce for the same reason???? Just curious!!! I hope our Filipinas who look up to her will not imitate this. It’s not a good example. Marriage is a commitment, it’s not something you just let go of because you got bored and felt unhappy.
So much assumption and judgement based on very limited information. What do you actually know outside of what they're willing to share? Do you actually know what's going behind the scenes? These are two grown adults who have decided to go their separate ways, and that's that. F*ck off with your unwarranted nuggets of knowledge.
EXCELLENT!!!
Ah Now I see what people are talking about. Yeah you got the Westernized Sickness...While people do grow apart giving up is not part of the solution it never is..I grew apart from my Ex but she regrets it now Trust you women wont get it until you hit that wall. Hey but luck to you!!! Why I dont choose Beautiful over Submissive. Big reason here folks Beauty is vain but that woman that is Fear for the LORD and is SUBMISSIVE is one to be treasured..Good luck with Cats you need about 5 to make you happy...
Mike was bordering on tears describing the break up. Good for you that it is much easier.
They say when a couple break up it’s always easier on the female .
Hard to tell. Some people are transparent, others put on a front to hide their pain.
Got to ask tho, why was Michael so quick to post that he's going to be single? Bianca might not show that much emotions as she took a lot of time off to process things. What they show on the screen isnt always what they feel.
@@gabrielsaad2785Nope
@@denniszenanywhere BS
Im sorry that I misjudged you Bianca. I have since realized what a nightmare it must have been living with that "man".
Team Mike.
You going to end up a single unhappy old lady with no babies. You let satan take you. Props to you for doing Mike a favor letting him go so he can have a real woman with values and everything he deserves
You dont like vlogging!! I can tell that!! Be true to yourself.
You could not say it better.... Weird and awkward!... Best of luck to you both ...hope you are not making a mistake ....
Bianca… I understand you are an introvert and have difficulty expressing emotions socially.
But, I know one thing, it’s very difficult to find that right person and what you and Michael have is one in a million of souls matching. Just don’t regret going for your passions in life, while leaving your marriage behind. I was young once, but I knew, I wanted my husband beside me always during my struggles and goals. (My husband and I, have been together for 15 years, since I was 17 1/2) Which became our struggles and goals, you kind of have to think about marriage as one person, and not two bodies. That’s how we connect, spiritually, emotionally and physically.
“ I put him before myself, and he puts me before himself.”
Just please rethink all of these emotions. God placed you guys together for a reason, look for signs of the universe to give you understanding. Don’t back down just because silly emotions took over; think deep within yourselves and hearts. ❤ be strong about it, I know you have it in you to dig deep into yourself. You don’t want another guy, who will only be in a relationship with you for themselves.
It’s very obvious he still adores you too bad you can’t return that affection
She's a self centered girl, if she wasn't center stage she would pout, She thinks she is a super model, She didn't bring anything to the table.
Wow you people are not in their shoes so just shut your mouths. Michael is yes a nice guy but really robbed the cradle with Bianca and he jumped into a new relationship with another young girl. You cannot blame one or the other. This is their lives and you cannot judge when all you guys are just onlookers.
You look nervous as you rambled aimlessly in your speech. You failed to feed your listeners with fresh, new content. Novelty and freshness are two components of a successful vlog. What you mentioned, there was nothing novel about it. Michael had already mentioned that in his video filmed in a park in Dumaguete City. Try to make an outline of your subject matter before appearing publicly. But your 5M followers will continue to support you because you certainly possess enormous potential.
excellent advice
as long as you both are happy , wishing you both the best and i will keep following
😘
these two treated their marriage like it's not a lifetime commitment lmao. growing apart as an excuse. jeesh
this is an example of a strong independent woman, she needs no man ✊, please keep up the good work, just don't look for alpha male in the Philippines 😁
Why are you displaying the UA-cam plaque in the back? You don’t deserve that. Michael built those subs.
Me, me , me is all that I heard.
Makes me puke!!!
Because it is about her now. She's by herself and making it work.
pepto bismol will sooth your churning stomach. I might also recommend water with electrolytes, much better to clean out your stomach than to endure dry heaves.
*makes crashing airplane sound
Good luck in Philippines on your own. You're a dime a dozen there.
Mike gave up the channel because he’s interesting and he knew he was going to be able to build it up. There is no reason to watch this girls channel lol
So much more to this story……but I wish the best for them both!
Yeah she was cheating.
So you kept the western independent woman mindset and once you found some success in the Philippines with the modelling/streaming etc. you dropped him. The wedding vows didn’t mean anything. Careful out there guys. Just because she is asian doesnt mean she is traditional and loyal. Pay attention to the clues. Never marry a modern western woman
Mike giving this main channel is so noble. It makes sense now why this channel had far more subs than Mike's, which appear to be the new channel. Even you separated, he still know how to take care of you. Nice.
Mike is a white knight
Yes props to Mike
Noble? Dude is laughing, he starts a new channel and his vids are already getting a lot more views without the higher subscriber account. Starting a fresh channel is a display of confidence.
We all know Mike is the hero maybe her next cosplay should be Cruella De Vil
its Mike who made this channel grow, and made famous, you admitted it you were just behind in all these things he does all the work....
so lucky you girl he is so generous he gave it to you and start his own I mean chose to use the lower subscriber channel ..... reward is near to him,
Flipinas show no emotion when separated they find another move on and that’s how it is , I have seen many that don’t care once they gone they get ready go out find another and don’t really care
Is it true that 7 Years Prison is the minimum sentence for Adultery in the Philippines?
He was too old for you. Not just chronologically but also emotionally.
I have been married to a wonderful woman from the Philippines for 20 years and she is everything I could want in a woman and we will be together for life. You were born in the west and have a western mentality. Western women file for divorce 80% of the time, and that fact is why over 60% of men have left the dating market altogether. They would rather remain single than risk divorce and devastation both spiritually and economically. You seemed to get more and more big headed by all the attention you received there and I saw your attitude go down steadily with time because of it. Michael is a good man that really loved you. You seem to think the grass is greener and want to play the field but this is how things will play out. You will find men to sleep with you but will never commit to a long term relationship. This is especially true of western men who would never want to deal with your western mentality when there are millions of sweet traditional Pilipinas to choose from. Michael on the other hand is a reasonably good looking tall foreigner with blue eyes and will have women resembling models going after him and are lining up as we speak to gladly take your place. It won't be long you will see how happy he is with his new girlfriend (a total knockout mind you) who will be a loyal, loving girlfriend, and eventually his wife for life. You will get to play the field for a while but life flies by then you'll hit the wall and realize no one is going to commit to you when there are younger, prettier, and loving women to choose from that won't leave you because they want to explore themselves. I think there is a quote from Don Henley's New York Minute that says it all: "You find somebody to love in this world, you better hang on tooth and nail", truer words never spoken......
EXCELLENTT!!!
Western Girl with Western attitude and their Western mindset 😅.
As long as yah don’t change your video style and content then the money will keep flowing
Age gap difference.. He looks more like your Dad not your lover 😊
I can understand your feelings. I felt the same. My husband and I “grew apart”, it felt like all the feelings were gone. I had zero desire to get back together, we separated and lived separately for a year but because we have a child, we agreed we should atleast do weekly counseling.
We are now back together and honestly happier than we’ve ever been. I never thought it possible but it happened. Slowly but surely. We had neglected the relationship and hardly communicated. So it broke down. But we built it back better and we’ve learned how to avoid another break down.
Now I regret that we ever separated during that year.
I know you two don’t have children but you did make a vow. I would strongly encourage you to at the bare minimum give counseling a try. Really be open with it and give it enough time to see if it works. If for no other reason then to avoid any possible future regret.
Sending love to you both 🖤
@bre8164 = It's a TERRIBLE idea to use children to patch up a troubled marriage. 👀 Better choose another option, plzzz ...
@@gg_Javier huh? We already had a child. Hes 11. Lol When all hope was lost between us, we decided we atleast owed it to our son to try marriage counseling to see if we could resolve our issues before just getting a divorce. And we did work it out and are very happy.
When we couldn’t find the motivation for each other, we got motivated to atleast try for him and it worked.
There was no abuse, cheating, toxic environment, etc. we just felt like we fell out of love, and were roommates basically, which seems to be the same situation with them. Marriage is hard. Counseling can work. I just don’t know if we would’ve tried it without our son but I wanted to hopefully give her encouragement to try. That’s all.
Actually your UA-cam channel will not grow easily if Michael is not doing Hardwork, in every videos you had with Michael as you can see he do more work than you.
It sad.. but keep on grinding ❤
Are you dating yet
Let me know when u are
I will let u buy me dinner 😂😂😂❤❤❤
thanks for clarifying...its unfortunate..but stuff happens...i myself was always curious to what happen and thought maybe there was a 3rd party ... take care... you dont need to be a professional in vlogging....just do you.... your still young. thanks for the videos....
Of course there's a 3rd party. Lol
Try to work it out, give your relationship another chance. You both look good as a couple. You might fall to hand of a wrong guy.
risk... even failure, is part of life, and a way to acquire wisdom and perspective.
How sad 😂always watching like you both…
Too much temptation for men in the Philippines
He found someone else? & why are you saying u want this sh*t private but you are putting it out on YT?
See me see me see me
@@Denied1 this is why i don't get YTers ~ Is it to get clicks
because maybe a lot of people keep bugging her? so she has to say her part once and for all.
@@fkoff7649 Including that Michael already posted on his channel that she was going to post about it too and he thought she already would have before now. She post this because there was pressure on her to do so.
You were just looking to upgrade!!! Don't lie
TIME HEALS BIANCA,
OCCUPY YOURSELF ,
OR GO BACK TO SCHOOL.
Smart move by her husband… what a ditz….
Best wishes to you and your future. Be yourself. ❤🇵🇭🇺🇸
unsub...
May we who's the third party? 😁😁😁
At least there’s no kids involved. So you both can move on with life and wish you the best.
At the end of the day, it’s more fun in the Philippines 🤟
Yes, same here. Moving to the Philippines, and living there can do wonders to a marriage of foreigners, in a negative way. Same with me. Young Filipina ladies being attracted to older men say everything.
Trash. This is why marriage is a dumb idea for men these days. It just sinply no longer means anything. He should've just kept you as a friend with benefits and went on to live his best life.
I think Mike will be doing that soon. This one will be just a blip in life's journey someday. All forgotten about.
As I was telling Michael, I am saddened to hear you two are throwing in the towel on your marriage. I have also watched Michael's video with his side of the story. Marriage is tough even on a good day. There are the good, the bad, and the difficult times. All Relationships take work, but both of you have to want to make it work. Michael seems devastated over this decision. You two make a great couple. Since you are Canadian, staying separated for a year in the Philippines will be tough. I hope you have both carefully weighed all the pros and cons of your relationship. I would try a minimum of 3 months of marital counseling first. I was always given good advice that no amount of success will compensate for failure in the home. I hope you and Michael will try to work through it first. I wish you both the best.
Many times, distrust is the factor in a divorce. 95% or so. Adultery is one of them. We don't know.
We really dnt know they will not tell us the real reason I asure you its not whatt it seems only they know for sure why they are not together hope they do tell is the reason one day because what they saying is the reason is hogwash I got a divorced from my wife it was for her cheating so only time will tell I hope they get help I really love both of their vedioes
Look girl, I strongly believe that both of you shouldn't have separated because of disagreement in your marriage. Disagreement should not be a recipe for divorce. Deep disagreement in any relationship is necessary but it should bring married couples together not separation. I believe that if couples separate or divorced for disagreement either one person or both don't love each other
Dear Bianca,
I'm going to take the proper amount of time to write this. So when you have a block of time, here we go...
I know it's tough for you, but you did the right thing by telling us. Making a vlog about it is difficult, because it brings the reality home.
As a much older gentleman, formerly an introvert, what you are going through is understandable; I can relate.
Because you are much younger, who you are, changes quickly. this is normal. So even if your husband was "THE" perfect man for you in the past, everyone changes over time. It is not for me to say if splitting was the right call. Over time, I expect you will have an enhanced appreciation for what you had. This is also normal and part of the learning process. Understanding and accepting this will help you in the future, when you are in a committed relationship. Know, and accept that drift in your future relationship, and you can choose to be happy together, regardless.
Regarding your personal life moving forward, know that you can choose to keep some things private, as you like. Where you draw that line, is up to you.
I recognize your ex as an honorable gentleman; he did the honorable thing to give you the huge subscriber base, no doubt to help you prosper towards your goals and to help meet your needs. Please honor his gift and secure your future, by helping your channel thrive. Much like a plant, it requires care and feeding to be fruitful.
Learn to differentiate between the trolls, and your loyal fan base who will give you constructive criticism and suggestions for you to consider, to improve. You can even ask trusted subscribers for suggestions on what they liked or didn't like, or how to do better.
You don't have to accept every suggestion, but it would be wise to do a reality check to consider if they are right. For example, comments regarding camera shake in the last video. Over time you can learn technical things that will help you as well, like camera settings for different situations. Don't worry too much about it. It will come with time.
Different perspectives can show you your blind spots, and this is very valuable if you want to be able to create great vlogs with ease. and, it WILL get easier.
There are ways you can build your confidence and reach a high standard of excellence. Here are a couple examples.
- don't say you are bad at this. Instead, understand you are progressing and will get better over time, as you have already noted in this video. Here is one way to accelerate the process.
- For informational videos that aren't recording live events, such as this one, use this process.
1. Write down a list of super short bullet points that address everything you want to communicate.
2. Arrange those bullet points in a logical manner, that flows well.
3. Turn each bullet point into prose (English, like as you would speak it). Revise as needed to be clear or better quality.
4. Do a test run, speak all the items in the rearranged order.
5. Tweak if necessary.
6. Record, edit, release. From memory is best.
Be sure to express your personality as well, who you are is what people appreciate.
Believe in yourself.
Very good advice. She need this. You point it out well.
Yes I second hummingbird, well said.
Hope youll feel joy always
I still adore him as a friend? 😅
y not😅
Divorce is a disease
Wow, this is a tragedy. Such an amazing couple. What I’ve learned from this I’m 45 years old. I guess I’m gonna stick with Filipinos close to my age.🙌🏻
I'm gonna stick to those 1/3 my age.
Yeah that's a smart idea even Filipinos in their 50's want money
Amazing couple? Obviously not if they’re divorcing over “drifting apart”
I don’t think it’s her age. She’s been westernized so it doesn’t count 😂
I like Mike 👍and you
Both you have different stories for divorce, but both of you are good to see together as usual as earlier. Look good, understanding and better do not accuse each others for any reason. Both of you have to understand their own mistakes then there is not a problem to get divorce. Hope for the best and think twice please both of you before separating each others. Separating is easy but living with love is difficult, so you both have to think better for both your life.
you need to do more cuts lol
Good theraphy,talk and let it out and once its all over,walk away and be happy for each other,a new day beckons ahead.