My parents have an 8 year age gap, but they met when my Dad was 27 and Mum was 35... there's no problem with a couple's age difference, it's the fact she was underage
Exactly no problem with dating someone older but NOT when your a child and hes an adult .like why was he anywhere near children in the first place likely when she was drinking
I agree. My husband is 10 years older than me. We met when I was 20. Had we met when I was 14, our relationship would be completely different because I would not have been ready for a relationship and he would have been able to mentally and emotionally overpower my free will very easily. Additionally, I would not have had time to develop my personality and sense of self; my sense of self would have developed _around_ my husband. An age gap is fine. An adult having a relationship with a child is not.
Yeah my ex used to do this I was 16 when he was 21 and didn’t like how childlike I was but I had to remind him that he was with a child so he had no right to say that
For me it is about the age gap. People too young datting older men or woman tend to be easely abused, like they dont have the time to grow up knowing themselves, because your adult boyfriend or girlfriend tends to tell you What to like, how to do stuff and the younger one assumes thats True since they're old and love you they know Whats best and you love them so you want to please them. Sometimes you Will do something you dont like or is not prepared to do because you dont want to be "the child" in the relationship since the Man or woman always told you how mature you were for your age. This is dangerous in relationships because in dating and marriage things should be as equal as possible.
@@cammilaas there are 8 years between me and my partner and we've been together 6 years and never had these problems. I can understand if you were in an age gap relationship that went like that but not all of them are like that...
@@cammilaas I think OP was saying the same thing. As in a 7 year age gap doesn't matter if you are 90 and 97 or 46 and 53. So it's not about the age gap it's about underage children dating older people.
and the fact that she is a stay at home mom, basically forcing her in a situation were she will always be dependent on him. Her parents should have made her focus on her education if nothing else
He fancied a child. That’s a fact. He may be nice but he fancied a child. He acknowledges and treats her like a child. He says he doesn’t expect much of her as she’s so young and isn’t able to take her seriously.
I'm angry. I can understand how he wasn't charged with anything!? If my child came home with a grown adult I would seek help for my child and make sure the grown arse adult was sent down. None of this happened for this young girl!? :( poor thing has been let down by all the adults who should have been protecting her.
same! I'm almost 23, dating a 19 year-old and she's very mature but I still feel like there's a country between us in experience. Can't imagine seeing a younger person that way. Is nasty.
I don’t think he should be locked up because if she is happy and nothing is wrong with her and he seems like a caring guy better the some guys her age and if you parent see nothing wrong and they want to protect her it okay not saying it is not illegal but in this situation it is not just my opinion
@@xxalixireo7855 It doesn't matter whether she was happy or not, a 14 year old doesn't have the capacity to consent. I'd argue that a 16 year old doesn't either, despite 16 being the age of consent in the UK, but that's a whole other thing. Regardless, she was a child.
Exactly! It's sad to see how she's effectively missed out on the young, carefree days by speeding up her life. I'd love to know how they're getting on now x
I knew kids who were legit dating at 11/12 when we first arrived in secondary school. A couple of kids in my form class were together for virtually the whole school year after he asked her out in the first couple of weeks. They were like the form ‘power couple’ lol. My childhood best friend (her birthday is at the start of the school year) also started going out with boys at 12, including boys in her older brother’s year who were in their early teens (though I doubt her parents knew about them).
Maybe mom already knew, assuming abuse had happened. I asked my mom for the talk at age 9 because I was super curious, but nothing had happened to me and my mom was very vigilant of myself and my sister. I certainly wasn't running around at this girl's age having babies.
It's usually indicative of that if the child is "seducing" MUCH older ppl...however at a young teen age your sexuality is budding through and it's typical to experiment within ppl your own age.
@@travelwithtray7179 I think its also her never having had enough life experience to understand how to be her own person & this is her first serious relationship so she's obviously all head over heels for him .
Yep . She’s young and obsessed and in love in a crazy way right now . She will wake up one day when she’s about 24/25 and realize all her mistakes and how she should have loved herself instead of looking for love with a guy and a baby
So the mom says she gives her 14 year old CHILD permission to be in a relation with a 21 year old and Social Services says..."OK...good enough for us..carry on?"
A lot of teen moms have older boyfriends. We need to stop shaming these young girls for getting pregnant and prosecute these older men who are preying on children.
The adults who try to normalize these situations (I refuse to call them relationships) are just as bad. There is nothing okay or normal about a grown man manipulating and victimizing a 14 year old girl.
No way! this is not normal… it’s so wrong. if this was my daughter we’d be moving far away and I’d be putting things in place so he never came near her again… he was literally a 21 year old man having sex with a 14 year old only just teenager
I don’t think he regrets the relationship but perhaps regretted not using contraception from the outset and still never learned his lesson after Natasha was born. (Isn’t that little girl his double?) He seems responsible as in wanting to work and provide for his family. She is insecure checking up on him when he is out. Didn’t she do well with the combination of hypnobirthing and using the pool? Hardly a murmur from her and the baby will be calmer as a result.
yeah your so right, she should be having babies with another child! not a man who loves her and has a job and wants a family and takes care of her and his family! she would be much worse off with someone her own age and she would be a single mom if she had a baby to someone her own age! its just the hard truth of it and what they are going through now is normal shit that every couple goes through! her being with a kid her own age would be the worse thing for her.
That man is dangerous! She looked younger than she is on top of being 14 when they met. My older daughter is 12 and I can't even imagine. Her mom dropped the ball and he should absolutely be prosecuted for this.
See, the thing is I know grown couples with age gaps of like 10 years, but they didn't start dating when one person was underage. So I don't necessarily think the age gap is bad, but the fact he was 21 and her 14, is concerning. Additionally, its gross that she got pregnant so young by a man so much older
So we just going to pretend that it's normal and okay that a 21 year old man is 'dating' and taking advantage of a 14 year old child. This is so wrong on so many levels
I have a daughter myself and if she turned 14 was dating a 21 year old, I’d kick his arse into the middle of next week. Ain’t no chance I’m letting my daughter around someone of that age. If she ends up hating me then so be it but 10 years from that she will thank me
@Winter11158 Some 14 year olds choose to take the drugs such as heroin offered to them and get hooked, just because they technically consented at first it doesnt mean they understood the ramifications of it.
That's exactly what I thought, too! And what leaves me speechless:...we noticed "something is wrong..." So they haven't learnt from the first time when noticing "something was wrong" meant that she was pregnant....???
I got to keep that quote in mind because its very much true , these groomers lose interest soon as these girls hit a certian age ( ex : leonardo decaprio) He picks them as young at 19 and leaves them fresh at 25 .
@@mariec3527What Leo does isn't grooming, it's basically sugar dating. I'm sure any young woman who gets with him at this point knows what to expect and doesn't take the relationship too seriously. That's completely different from a 23 year old seeking out a 16 year old and saddling her with permanent responsibilities (children) then leaving her high and dry.
That is illegal but there is nothing about the age gap being wrong. Like a 23 and 30 year old is ok, it is the fact that she is actually illegal and someone like the boyfriend shouldn’t see her that way!
I have a very strong gut feeling that the 21 year old dad is only staying with her because he didn't want to be charged for having sex with a 14 year old. I bet if he had bounced once she discovered she was pregnant, her mom would've pressed charges (which is what she should've done anyway). He doesn't seem genuinely happy to me. He can't wait to get away from her every chance he gets. I feel so bad for her because her childhood was ripped away from her. She deserves better than him too.
Agreed, she now not only has a boyfriend, but also the responsibility of 2 kids. Difference is that he will do what he wants in life. He has picked a kid to have a relationship with because he is simply not a responsible adult himself. He was 21 and already had a kid with another woman, so what was he doing chasing after anyone else, let alone someone who is legally a child. As an adult he can not even take the responsibility of using contraception, getting her pregnant in about 3 months from meeting her and getting her pregnant again. What was he doing getting anyone pregnant when he has no home to provide for them, the council has had to provide a home. Then he loses his job and is moaning about buying a present for his daughter's birthday, yet he still finds money to go out for a night out with his mates.
@@banana9106 agree irresponsible guy has no business getting anyone pregnant or being a dad and should date someone his own age stop getting this teenager girl pregnant get a freaking job already to help support the kids he keeps bringing into the world 🌍 start using freaking condoms.
Seeing the pictures of them together it's like dude shes a CHILD !! You can absolutely see it No way did he really think wow this is a 18 year old girl
When I was 14 turning 15, I was also manipulated by an older man. At least it didn’t end up like this. I blamed myself for being stupid and it’s been already almost a decade since this ”relationship” I keep working on not putting the blame on myself. I was a child. Even if my parents would’ve tried to stop me, I probably wouldn’t have listened to them. I thought what I had was love without even knowing what love is. I do not blame her, she is a victim, it is so sad that everyone around her let her down. The dude is a predator.
@@salami8962 it’s an old show but they mentioned that Dan is the only working figure so the mom is a stay at home mom and Dan brings the money in so I do think it would be a bit complicated for her but he is a groomer it’s disgusting and the fact her mom signed a paper saying that she and her daughter are okay with this it’s all disgusting to me.
Kelly always looks at Dan lovingly but Dan looks like he is forced in the relationship. She just seems so much more in love with him than he is with her.
Sorry, but what kind of mother/ father signs a document to support their underage daughter dating an adult. It's against the law for a reason. This is messed up. If this was me my mum would have reported it before anything happened and that's just being a responsible parent. I try not to be judgemental but this is just no.
How did their paths even cross when he was 21 and she was 14? It would be like a third year uni student having a baby with a child that hasn’t even sat their GCSEs?? I hope they’re good parents for their babies still but the age gap is so apparent. Legally and morally very wrong that at 21 he was attracted to a child and had feelings towards her straight away :/
Imagine literally spending your entire adolescence PREGNANT! What a nightmare! Like teenage hormones weren’t enough, you gotta add the pregnancy ones, the fact that you don’t even know who you are or what you want PLUS caring for another human being
"I don't expect much from her" No. Just sex. UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A MINOR Also they did not GET the house, they were GIVEN it (nothing wrong with that for people in need but this girl needs to be at home and him in a jail cell) but seriously like this girl is still a child,she showed she can barely cook, what does that say about her being able to handle kids?
About the cooking part, my mum was the shittiest cook but she was the best mum in the entire world. My mum tried to learn but she was naturally bad at it. Your point in everything else is valid but don’t compare her cooking in keeping her kids happy, alive and healthy.
How is this guy not in prison for sleeping with a CHILD?? "Very nice guy" the mother says, well guess beings parent differently huh. My 18yr old child knows better.
I have a 15 year old daughter, this guy would gp on a long holiday if he tried that bullshit with my daughter, that is the parents job to protect your child
I have no sympathy for this man. He says he sounds depressed. He should be in prison. He's the adult in the relationship. He should be sorting birth control. If I was her mother there's no way I'd have signed the papers to say it was OK. 14 is a child
He was attempting to make himself a victim in the situation to gain sympathy. It’s very deceptive and probably plays a lot of mind games on the girl. If you look at how he was talking to the girl saying “I never listen, or do anything right” he was manipulating her to feel pity
elizabeth hazel your message about avoiding racial stereotypes was valid but totally lost credibility when you peppered your reply with similar negativity. Make your point without the hate. It sets a better, positive example for others to follow. Wishing you all the best. And DJSqueaky too. Let's keep things positive!
DjSqueaky What a sweeping statement, I'm almost fifty and I look very young. Obviously if people cook themselves out in the sun and smoke etc of course we are going to accelerate the ageing process. It's how a person looks after themselves plus genetics. Just because one is white , doesn't mean they will age quickly. My mom is in her early seventies and she did have a lot of sun in her past but she still looks really young and she's white, my twenty five year old daughter still looks like a teen. I really detest these sweeping generalisations. Also if people keep frowning and raising their eyebrows that creates lines and wrinkles.
I don't care how nice he is. No man is going to be around my underage daughter like that. Police or something would be brought in. What they mean you had to sign something saying you agree. Somethings wrong with this.
Tbh if it was an underaged boy dating an adult female, people would react not as harshly as they would in this situation but don't get me wrong, both situations are very wrong and illegal.
Absolutely disgusting . "Boys will be boys"??? You were a GROWN MAN. I hope this footage of him being so annoyed that she is a child when it isn't her fault being on the internet forever isn't a source of trauma for her as an adult. I really hope she's ok.
No need to send him to jail, he already made a prison for himself. I wish them all the luck though. Poor child, she should be living her life. They seem like good parents though. Best of luck to them both.
in britain, it actually is normal imo. the bit about dating paedos isn’t normal but getting drunk as a teen and doing illegal stuff (like weed and shoplifting) is common amongst the popular people.
It depends on the area and school tbh . If you're in a bad area and at a bad school, it's common but otherwise? If you live in a decent area, it's not normalised -
Dan looks absolutely miserable. The only time he looks remotely happy is when he's holding his daughter. He probably should have thought about how miserable he would be getting hooked up with an immature, insecure child. Dan looks like he has one foot out the door, he might be doing the right thing by staying, but you can tell he doesn't want to be there and I have serious doubts this relationship will last.
When she was holding the baby waiting for Dan to get home saying sometimes she stands and waits for him for half and hour or more seems just like she’s excited for HER daddy to get home from work
Kelly said that she ONLY had 5 or 6 short term relationships before she met Dan... wth!! Was she never home this girl? Where was she having these relationships at that young age? My sons are 21 and 25 and still not thinking about having children any time soon. They have a life and a career 🙄 . This girl is going to be very bored when she's older .
Esther Baker just because you have a child young DOES not mean you can’t have a career, I know many many people who have had children at a young age and they’ve trained as nurses, chefs and some entrepreneurs. Never ever think that you can’t have a career if you have a child at a young age.
@@victoriay1713 and you can definitely have a career and children... but it's very hard! I have children (2 kids, and 3 bonus kids my husband had from previous marriage) and a career, but it took me much longer to develop my career. I'm 33 now, just getting to where I want to be career wise.
The mum being like “he’s a nice guy” actually disgusts me. Her daughter was 14. A crime was committed. Actual nice guys don’t have sex with children smh.
Dan looks so very much unhappy and trapped, as for Kelly she is head over heels. She can't even see that Dan is exhausted and unhappy and sees her as a piece of work.
Dan should be in a prison cell. He is disgusting, and she is just a child. She doesn't understand because her brain isn't developed to maturity yet. When she is 25, she will look back at how manipulated she was and how no adult protected her. Her emotional maturity will likely be stunted at the age of 14 from the abuse.
I can’t believe I’m an adult watching this. All the apparent drinking in the streets I missed out on at 15 lol. The worst thing I did at that age was stay up till 2am
Honestly at that point what could they do? They were in love if they didn't support her she would have just ended up alienated from them and worse off. It seems clear they weren't thrilled with the idea but she's still better off with a supportive partner than a single mum. She was the one who wanted to keep the baby.
@@ronakoth5580 I agree if the parrot say it's ok and then it's ok I don't know why people be cocky over the age gap babe. I mean when we started dating and you were 13 and I was 22 and now you're going to be 18 and I'll be 27.
Exactly, he is nothing more than a kid himself, as he does not appear to be able to take responsibility for contraception, let alone responsible for the products of conception. Made these babies and despite the fact that the state has given a flat, he feels trapped.
He probably stayed just to avoid her parents sending him to jail. 21, living at home, and having unprotected sex with a 14 year old. Real freaking winner right there.
My parents had a 6 year age gap, difference is she was 26 and he was 32! They didn’t have their first kid (me) until my mother was 29. Age gaps are completely fine when one of the parties isn’t underage or being exploited. This is wrong and exploitation. I’m 18 and can’t even IMAGINE already getting married and having babies!
He doesn't strike me as the most responsible of men. He already had a child with another woman and gets her pregnant in about 3 months from meeting her. He doesn't have a home to house them in and has to rely on the council to provide a home. Then he still hasn't learnt his lesson about contraception and gets her pregnant again and loses his job, moans about having the money to buy his daughter a first birthday present, but manages to find the money to go out with his mates.
This is actually sickening how could her parents allow them to just date I do not know! If my daughter was dating a man at the age of 14 there would be hell to pay, its actually disgusting.
I’m sorry, this is illegal right? Imagine being fine admitting this on tv?! Growing up a 14 year old friend dated a 24 year old. They eventually got married. Divorced in HER 20s and now she’s dealing with the trauma that her husband was a nonce.
Grooming being normalized? wonderful. *eye roll* Now shes legal he clearly has no interest in her... she wouldn't cope if he left her which unfortunately is inevitable.
No she's still young enough for him to like but he clearly feels trapped and hates the responsibilities he has now . But yes if he was more than okay hooking up with a child he will do it agian once she's to old which may be at 21
I met my boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 21. I remember his friends thought it was weird that he was with a younger girl, and my friends were all about reminding me that he was older. Why is everyone acting like it's normal there?
That’s literally 3 years apart, thats a pretty perfect age apart and y’all are both adults at 18 and 21 so it not the same as a 14 and a 21 living together and having a baby🙄✋🏻
At the age of 14…. She’s saying age 21 was the highest she’ll go?? That in and of itself is problematic. And her mom’s lack of concern is troubling……also she did not season that chicken!!!!! 😩
Yet he acts surprised when she said they met when she was 14 Hes also telling saying he doesn't expect much from her because of her age hinting he knows she a child and can't fulfill a grown women's role 😑 just disgusting these predators KNOW when a girl is underage
Why did Kelly get pregnant again?? This couple is having a terrible time with one child and having another is just horrible. BIRTH CONTROL...be responsible.
Mom is laughing like this is damn normal. She was 14 and he was 21. Kelly's mom wasn't concerned about age AT ALL and Dan think it's fine. "Boys being boys" Dan, you're a grown man! You don't have sex with young girls and clearly he has slept with young girls too. "Definitely the youngest" bro WHAT? What's not concerning about this man?
There's literally thousands if not millions of marriages happy with a 7 year age gap but the thing is, these work when both partners are on the same level of mental maturity. You cannot have an early teen, a person who is literally still developing mentally and an adult and actually expect it to last. Either the older one is incredibly immature, which is not a good thing or the child is overly mature which isn't right as they need time to be a child.
What a jerk he is! He “trapped” himself. He also should have been the one to be sure that Kelly didn’t get pregnant, especially the second time. She’s the one who got trapped.
You can see in her eyes she feels so trapped and when she says something sad and then laughs she looks on the verge of tears. He seems like he doesn't give a shit about her.
Mum is horrendous. I am a survivor of csa, grooming and dv and work in safe guarding and everything about their "relationship" is screaming "call the police"
I genuinely feel sorry for I can’t imagine the stress she’s under at the age of 16 😕 I know she chose this life but she’s still a child and he doesn’t look like he loves her
Yeah but 4 years doesn't matter when you're of age, and the fact you've said that shows that you're a switched on person, this guys a nonce and she's an idiot
Look 20 is nof 14, and eventually you will realise getting with one person at a young age is fairly demoralising, like when you get icecream many flavours, dont fool yourself there is only lust , desire, need, greed, love is a fantasy
In my country, in few villages, underaged girls are forced to marry men double of their age. They don't have choice. 7years age gap is nothing for them. But I urge whichever girl has opportunity to make her own choice, not forced to get married, please finish your studies and do something out of that. because many girls don't get that freedom of choice.
The friends said he looks 30! Ahaha tbh, I have to agree. It wouldn’t surprise me if they’ve lied about his age. I wonder how much fact checking the show does.
“I sound depressed dun I” ah poor baby. Imagine what it’s going to be like for her when she realises that she has been groomed by a creep who can’t wait to move on to the next child?
How he says when she turns 18 she will go out and get drunk every week like me. He caused her to lose her childhood/teen years there life just seems so boring
My parents have an 8 year age gap, but they met when my Dad was 27 and Mum was 35... there's no problem with a couple's age difference, it's the fact she was underage
Exactly no problem with dating someone older but NOT when your a child and hes an adult .like why was he anywhere near children in the first place likely when she was drinking
My auntie is 47 and her husband is 24 they also have one kid biological daughter ( 3 years old ) and 2 foster kids 7 and 5 years old
I agree. My husband is 10 years older than me. We met when I was 20. Had we met when I was 14, our relationship would be completely different because I would not have been ready for a relationship and he would have been able to mentally and emotionally overpower my free will very easily. Additionally, I would not have had time to develop my personality and sense of self; my sense of self would have developed _around_ my husband. An age gap is fine. An adult having a relationship with a child is not.
My parents have a 13 year age gap and have been together for 27 years . But they also met as adult my mother was 21 when they met
My husband is 9 years older than I but I was 19 when we met.
Dates a child. Shocked that she acts like a child.
Yeah my ex used to do this I was 16 when he was 21 and didn’t like how childlike I was but I had to remind him that he was with a child so he had no right to say that
It's not about the age gap. It's about her being underage
It’s about her missing out on her childhood
For me it is about the age gap. People too young datting older men or woman tend to be easely abused, like they dont have the time to grow up knowing themselves, because your adult boyfriend or girlfriend tends to tell you What to like, how to do stuff and the younger one assumes thats True since they're old and love you they know Whats best and you love them so you want to please them. Sometimes you Will do something you dont like or is not prepared to do because you dont want to be "the child" in the relationship since the Man or woman always told you how mature you were for your age. This is dangerous in relationships because in dating and marriage things should be as equal as possible.
What makes no sense
@@cammilaas there are 8 years between me and my partner and we've been together 6 years and never had these problems. I can understand if you were in an age gap relationship that went like that but not all of them are like that...
@@cammilaas I think OP was saying the same thing. As in a 7 year age gap doesn't matter if you are 90 and 97 or 46 and 53. So it's not about the age gap it's about underage children dating older people.
This is disgusting. She was barely 15 and he was 21. I can't believe none of the adults in this situation stepped up to protect her.
I was in the same situation. I was 14 with a 7 year age gap. 15 years later I realised I was groomed and feel awful about it.
@@PirateOfTheNorthI hope you get the help you need so you don't feel awful about not knowing what was happening to you.
and the fact that she is a stay at home mom, basically forcing her in a situation were she will always be dependent on him. Her parents should have made her focus on her education if nothing else
Isn’t this breaking the law….
@@Johnathonsmumhe shouldve gotten the two years in jail..
He fancied a child. That’s a fact. He may be nice but he fancied a child.
He acknowledges and treats her like a child. He says he doesn’t expect much of her as she’s so young and isn’t able to take her seriously.
He didn't just fancy a child, he impregnated one TWICE, I find this episode nauseating
I'm angry. I can understand how he wasn't charged with anything!? If my child came home with a grown adult I would seek help for my child and make sure the grown arse adult was sent down. None of this happened for this young girl!? :( poor thing has been let down by all the adults who should have been protecting her.
Be not surprised if he will fancy his teenager lock kids up
He doesn’t seem happy at all!! Wonder if their relationship actually lasted. To me; it seems that he feels trapped.
Yes it's called ephebophillia
I'm 20 and I can't look at a 16 year old without seeing a literal child. This bloke needs locking up, she was 14 when they met.
Couldn’t agree more!
same! I'm almost 23, dating a 19 year-old and she's very mature but I still feel like there's a country between us in experience. Can't imagine seeing a younger person that way. Is nasty.
I don’t think he should be locked up because if she is happy and nothing is wrong with her and he seems like a caring guy better the some guys her age and if you parent see nothing wrong and they want to protect her it okay not saying it is not illegal but in this situation it is not just my opinion
@@xxalixireo7855 It doesn't matter whether she was happy or not, a 14 year old doesn't have the capacity to consent. I'd argue that a 16 year old doesn't either, despite 16 being the age of consent in the UK, but that's a whole other thing. Regardless, she was a child.
It was just my opinion
"I had ONLY had 4 or 5, maybe 6 short term relationships..." at 14?? I hadn't even had my first kiss!
Exactly! It's sad to see how she's effectively missed out on the young, carefree days by speeding up her life. I'd love to know how they're getting on now x
I knew kids who were legit dating at 11/12 when we first arrived in secondary school. A couple of kids in my form class were together for virtually the whole school year after he asked her out in the first couple of weeks. They were like the form ‘power couple’ lol. My childhood best friend (her birthday is at the start of the school year) also started going out with boys at 12, including boys in her older brother’s year who were in their early teens (though I doubt her parents knew about them).
Exactly
Here i am being a whole single potato
I didn’t even had a boyfriend till 18 💀
Me neither. I was 18
Being over sexually aware at a very young age is a sign of abuse and her mum just laughed it off?! Wtf
Right! It's messed up
It CAN be a sign of abuse but it's not a given by any means.
Maybe mom already knew, assuming abuse had happened. I asked my mom for the talk at age 9 because I was super curious, but nothing had happened to me and my mom was very vigilant of myself and my sister. I certainly wasn't running around at this girl's age having babies.
It's usually indicative of that if the child is "seducing" MUCH older ppl...however at a young teen age your sexuality is budding through and it's typical to experiment within ppl your own age.
No it's not always ... stop talking nonsense
“I don’t feel like myself when I’m not around him... like he’s part of me” oh my God... poor girl what a harsh awakening is expecting her...
Honestly this whole thing is disgusting and the way both their parents were okay with this makes it 10 times worse
Yeah that's called Stockholm syndrome not love 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@travelwithtray7179 I think its also her never having had enough life experience to understand how to be her own person & this is her first serious relationship so she's obviously all head over heels for him .
Yep . She’s young and obsessed and in love in a crazy way right now . She will wake up one day when she’s about 24/25 and realize all her mistakes and how she should have loved herself instead of looking for love with a guy and a baby
And her getting upset about not being included in his birthday party.
She sounds immature and insecure
Her mum's horrible, you're supposed to PROTECT your child, especially from predators like him, yet she just laughs it off
I know she has no idea she just took her daughters childhood away
The mom was happy she's someone else's responsibility now.
So the mom says she gives her 14 year old CHILD permission to be in a relation with a 21 year old and Social Services says..."OK...good enough for us..carry on?"
Yup . Unfortunately in most places you can even marry a minor as long as you have parental consent. Child services can't do anything which is stupid
Social services doesn’t care about the kids really.
Not sure about the uk but in america parents can give permission for 14 yos to be married. The law isnt great
Why did the mother give consent? Her child is 14!
@@ghostqueen1101 yes. It’s pathetic
Should tell you something if your girlfriend and mother of two children can't come to your birthday at a bowling alley because she's underage...
A lot of teen moms have older boyfriends. We need to stop shaming these young girls for getting pregnant and prosecute these older men who are preying on children.
You're absolutely right. That 47% statistic was appalling
He was aware of her age and chose to break the law and he could even got her pregnant, that should be an aggravating fact in these cases.
Agree the older guy is the adult preying on a child
The adults who try to normalize these situations (I refuse to call them relationships) are just as bad. There is nothing okay or normal about a grown man manipulating and victimizing a 14 year old girl.
No way! this is not normal… it’s so wrong. if this was my daughter we’d be moving far away and I’d be putting things in place so he never came near her again… he was literally a 21 year old man having sex with a 14 year old only just teenager
It's more than obvious he regrets the relationship. Should have got with an adult instead of a child.
Alex A Perhaps he left her this is a old program I doubt they are still together
I don’t think he regrets the relationship but perhaps regretted not using contraception from the outset and still never learned his lesson after Natasha was born. (Isn’t that little girl his double?) He seems responsible as in wanting to work and provide for his family. She is insecure checking up on him when he is out. Didn’t she do well with the combination of hypnobirthing and using the pool? Hardly a murmur from her and the baby will be calmer as a result.
yeah your so right, she should be having babies with another child! not a man who loves her and has a job and wants a family and takes care of her and his family! she would be much worse off with someone her own age and she would be a single mom if she had a baby to someone her own age! its just the hard truth of it and what they are going through now is normal shit that every couple goes through! her being with a kid her own age would be the worse thing for her.
That man is dangerous! She looked younger than she is on top of being 14 when they met. My older daughter is 12 and I can't even imagine. Her mom dropped the ball and he should absolutely be prosecuted for this.
See, the thing is I know grown couples with age gaps of like 10 years, but they didn't start dating when one person was underage. So I don't necessarily think the age gap is bad, but the fact he was 21 and her 14, is concerning. Additionally, its gross that she got pregnant so young by a man so much older
Literally 👏👏👏👏👏
I do not care if the age gap is 25, as long as the two of them were adults not minor. That's pedophile to me.
True. My parents have a 10 year age gap, but they were in their 20s and 30s at the time. This guy should be in jail.
Yes I agree with you. No child should be made to have a child. This male should have known better.
The life experience and priorities that a 21 year old and a 14 year old have are completely different as well.
He seems so miserable, feel sorry for the girl being stuck with him. He’s only in this situation due to him being a nonce
IKR? Has he never heard of condoms?
" at 15 you should be running in the street getting drunk"
Lol OK
Melly Stanley I can tell you’re not British hahah x
in the uk that’s normal lol , there’s 12 year old doing it x
Victoria Rodz. I am British lol I just guess there neighbourhood is different to where I grew up as that stuff didn’t happen where I lived x
Edog 112 I’ve never seen a 12 year old on the streets getting drunk wtf
JRXY • probably just a thing that happens in scotland then....
So we just going to pretend that it's normal and okay that a 21 year old man is 'dating' and taking advantage of a 14 year old child. This is so wrong on so many levels
He’s literally grooming her and the way her mom is okay with it is disgusting
Unbelievable isn't it !
She chose him he is not a criminal
I have a daughter myself and if she turned 14 was dating a 21 year old, I’d kick his arse into the middle of next week. Ain’t no chance I’m letting my daughter around someone of that age. If she ends up hating me then so be it but 10 years from that she will thank me
@Winter11158 Some 14 year olds choose to take the drugs such as heroin offered to them and get hooked, just because they technically consented at first it doesnt mean they understood the ramifications of it.
I can't even see what a 21 year old would have in common with a 14 year old. They would be at such different maturity levels.
You could finish your bachelor's degree at 21. At 14, you're still in highschool -- Year 9 to Year 10. Not even Sixth Form.
Sick man....he should be in jail!
According to her friend, they were at the 'same level of maturity', which is disturbing too.
"I couldn't come to terms with her having another one so soon".......As if he had nothing to do with it....
Right? Tf
That's exactly what I thought, too!
And what leaves me speechless:...we noticed "something is wrong..."
So they haven't learnt from the first time when noticing "something was wrong" meant that she was pregnant....???
I remember hearing a phrase that popped into my mind again while watching this.
“He doesn’t like you. He likes your age, he likes that you’re a child”
yes!! i‘m 18 and could never imagine dating a 16 year old, let alone someone who’s only 14! he’s sick and needs to be locked up 🤢
I got to keep that quote in mind because its very much true , these groomers lose interest soon as these girls hit a certian age
( ex : leonardo decaprio)
He picks them as young at 19 and leaves them fresh at 25 .
@@mariec3527What Leo does isn't grooming, it's basically sugar dating. I'm sure any young woman who gets with him at this point knows what to expect and doesn't take the relationship too seriously. That's completely different from a 23 year old seeking out a 16 year old and saddling her with permanent responsibilities (children) then leaving her high and dry.
That is illegal but there is nothing about the age gap being wrong. Like a 23 and 30 year old is ok, it is the fact that she is actually illegal and someone like the boyfriend shouldn’t see her that way!
Yeh because you're an adult at 23...
It's because she's still technically a minor.
Yeah “date” is ok but it is illegal to have sex at that age...
@A G 14 sex with 30 or 80. Still legal in Germany
That's irrelevant. This couple is in Britain. @@samsungdrei
I have a very strong gut feeling that the 21 year old dad is only staying with her because he didn't want to be charged for having sex with a 14 year old. I bet if he had bounced once she discovered she was pregnant, her mom would've pressed charges (which is what she should've done anyway). He doesn't seem genuinely happy to me. He can't wait to get away from her every chance he gets. I feel so bad for her because her childhood was ripped away from her. She deserves better than him too.
Agreed, she now not only has a boyfriend, but also the responsibility of 2 kids. Difference is that he will do what he wants in life. He has picked a kid to have a relationship with because he is simply not a responsible adult himself.
He was 21 and already had a kid with another woman, so what was he doing chasing after anyone else, let alone someone who is legally a child. As an adult he can not even take the responsibility of using contraception, getting her pregnant in about 3 months from meeting her and getting her pregnant again. What was he doing getting anyone pregnant when he has no home to provide for them, the council has had to provide a home. Then he loses his job and is moaning about buying a present for his daughter's birthday, yet he still finds money to go out for a night out with his mates.
@@banana9106 agree irresponsible guy has no business getting anyone pregnant or being a dad and should date someone his own age stop getting this teenager girl pregnant get a freaking job already to help support the kids he keeps bringing into the world 🌍 start using freaking condoms.
Agree with u
@@lisamariealaniz7538 Problem is the people that do this sort of stuff expect the taxpayer to cough up for their fecklessness.
Correct and they are not together anymore.
Her:"I was 14 when we met.."
Him: "Were ya..?"
The man is guilty! why's he acting surprised. Lock him up officer !
Seeing the pictures of them together it's like dude shes a CHILD !!
You can absolutely see it
No way did he really think wow this is a 18 year old girl
this guy literally stole her childhood
Takes 2 to tango
@@michellelagrange4769 huh? she was the child, he was the adult.
stop victim blaming
She could've said no and her mom could've stopped it it's not only his fault
@@michellelagrange4769 I agree
@@michellelagrange4769 i would blame her mother. Not her
When I was 14 turning 15, I was also manipulated by an older man. At least it didn’t end up like this. I blamed myself for being stupid and it’s been already almost a decade since this ”relationship” I keep working on not putting the blame on myself. I was a child. Even if my parents would’ve tried to stop me, I probably wouldn’t have listened to them. I thought what I had was love without even knowing what love is. I do not blame her, she is a victim, it is so sad that everyone around her let her down. The dude is a predator.
he is ! why is nothing happening to him?????
@@salami8962 it’s an old show but they mentioned that Dan is the only working figure so the mom is a stay at home mom and Dan brings the money in so I do think it would be a bit complicated for her but he is a groomer it’s disgusting and the fact her mom signed a paper saying that she and her daughter are okay with this it’s all disgusting to me.
@@malaklahlisi8463 A groomer or just slow? You know what I mean? Maybe he cant quite function at his age level.
It was not your fault. I hope you have found healing.
@@YouAreMySunshine2 groomer. He needs therapy if he can’t function at his age level, not date and impregnate a child.
Kelly always looks at Dan lovingly but Dan looks like he is forced in the relationship. She just seems so much more in love with him than he is with her.
It's called grooming
He’s with her because he can manipulate a younger girl rather than a woman his age.
He should be in jail for *sleeping with a child of 14/15
@@thisworldiswonkaI agree! I am concerned for their baby and what life she will live
Sorry, but what kind of mother/ father signs a document to support their underage daughter dating an adult. It's against the law for a reason.
This is messed up.
If this was me my mum would have reported it before anything happened and that's just being a responsible parent.
I try not to be judgemental but this is just no.
All the girls in this programme have the same coat
They share it 😄
Pahaahaha
And they all wear their scarves 🧣 the same way
Maybe that brand should advertise it improves fertility or something.
It's the universal lower-middle class white girl coat. We all have one.
How did their paths even cross when he was 21 and she was 14? It would be like a third year uni student having a baby with a child that hasn’t even sat their GCSEs?? I hope they’re good parents for their babies still but the age gap is so apparent. Legally and morally very wrong that at 21 he was attracted to a child and had feelings towards her straight away :/
He use to hang outside schools that's how they met and offered her some candy
guessing they met on bebo or something
She was 14? And he was 21? Ummm. He shouldn’t even been looking at her like that. Barely in Highschool oml
It would be different if she was 21 and he was 30. Cos they would have been adults. But not 14 and 21. He is going out with a kid its not good.
"She was very sexually aware at a young age" WHY DIDN'T SHE TAKE THE PILL THEN????
I think she didn't mean aware in thay way. She meant she became very very horny
I wonder how the mum found out she was "sexually aware"?
Sexually aware and sexually active are two completely different things
Even if you take the pill you can still get pregnant.
@@laurencoradeath3755 if you take it right its very unlikely though.
Imagine literally spending your entire adolescence PREGNANT! What a nightmare! Like teenage hormones weren’t enough, you gotta add the pregnancy ones, the fact that you don’t even know who you are or what you want PLUS caring for another human being
"I don't expect much from her"
No. Just sex. UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A MINOR
Also they did not GET the house, they were GIVEN it (nothing wrong with that for people in need but this girl needs to be at home and him in a jail cell) but seriously like this girl is still a child,she showed she can barely cook, what does that say about her being able to handle kids?
About the cooking part, my mum was the shittiest cook but she was the best mum in the entire world. My mum tried to learn but she was naturally bad at it. Your point in everything else is valid but don’t compare her cooking in keeping her kids happy, alive and healthy.
He honestly seems braindead, like how dont you ask their age or notice that they are in secondary school😅🤣you have to attend like 5 days a week.
How is this guy not in prison for sleeping with a CHILD?? "Very nice guy" the mother says, well guess beings parent differently huh. My 18yr old child knows better.
EXACTLY! This man needs to be locked the fuck up
Your 18yr old is not a child
@@taylor5182 the brains carries on growing until they are 24 so yes they are still a child.
The guy is a adult
18 years old is an adult in the UK.
this is not a relationship she was 14. he is a groomer This is absolutely disgusting
"I don't expect much from her because I know her age"
Yes. She's a child and you're an adult. Sick man
My daughter just turned 13. I can’t imagine becoming a grandmother in two years that’s insane. This young lady is strong but she is a child.
I have a 15 year old daughter, this guy would gp on a long holiday if he tried that bullshit with my daughter, that is the parents job to protect your child
I have no sympathy for this man. He says he sounds depressed. He should be in prison. He's the adult in the relationship. He should be sorting birth control. If I was her mother there's no way I'd have signed the papers to say it was OK. 14 is a child
He was attempting to make himself a victim in the situation to gain sympathy. It’s very deceptive and probably plays a lot of mind games on the girl. If you look at how he was talking to the girl saying “I never listen, or do anything right” he was manipulating her to feel pity
He looks 40.
Her life could have been so different. They both realise it. He clearly regrets the relationship as he should.
23, he looks 40.
Not surprising for a white boy.
elizabeth hazel your message about avoiding racial stereotypes was valid but totally lost credibility when you peppered your reply with similar negativity. Make your point without the hate. It sets a better, positive example for others to follow. Wishing you all the best. And DJSqueaky too. Let's keep things positive!
@@elizabethhazel15 dude, it's pretty true that white people age really quick. Also, I'm white?????
DjSqueaky What a sweeping statement, I'm almost fifty and I look very young. Obviously if people cook themselves out in the sun and smoke etc of course we are going to accelerate the ageing process. It's how a person looks after themselves plus genetics. Just because one is white , doesn't mean they will age quickly. My mom is in her early seventies and she did have a lot of sun in her past but she still looks really young and she's white, my twenty five year old daughter still looks like a teen. I really detest these sweeping generalisations. Also if people keep frowning and raising their eyebrows that creates lines and wrinkles.
@@Eaglescry195 I live in England and belive me lots of black people look much older.
I don't care how nice he is. No man is going to be around my underage daughter like that. Police or something would be brought in. What they mean you had to sign something saying you agree. Somethings wrong with this.
Well the biggest crime here was roasting that chicken bland.... No seasoning at all
KiraLup 😆
KiraLup
You know most white people don't season there food right
@@KillJoy_Since2017 it hurts my soul knowing that
In the U.K. we have roast chicken with gravy ,so some ppl do t put anything on the meat.that do t mean all white ppl don’t.
hahaha *in a sarcastic tone*
what? I don't know what your talking about, salt and pepper are definitely seasoning lol
“Are you happy?” *awkward laugh and long pause* “yeah uh yeah in a way....”
actually creasing at how they interviewed his dad in a bowling alley ahahaha
Mate 😂 I read this comment right as his part came up and I pissed myself laughing 😂
Send 👏 Him 👏 To 👏 Jail
TheChlozie lets not😶
TheChlozie WHAT NO he’s a brilliant father to Natasha and he will be for more to come when the second baby’s born
Tbh if it was an underaged boy dating an adult female, people would react not as harshly as they would in this situation but don't get me wrong, both situations are very wrong and illegal.
AGREED
Eww
Absolutely disgusting . "Boys will be boys"??? You were a GROWN MAN. I hope this footage of him being so annoyed that she is a child when it isn't her fault being on the internet forever isn't a source of trauma for her as an adult. I really hope she's ok.
At least he didn't take off when he found out she was pregnant
@@siennanana9969 source? (Not that I don't believe you I'm just curious)
agapegr what a low bar we set 😂
@@birdie0124 with all things considering I guess
What a man ( slowest round of applause).
agapegr that doesn’t deserve recognition, he’s a scumbag period
No need to send him to jail, he already made a prison for himself. I wish them all the luck though. Poor child, she should be living her life. They seem like good parents though. Best of luck to them both.
Omg you follow Zachary Michael too! The world feels so small now haha :) You look super cute btw 🦄
Sadly I don’t see this relationship lasting. The way it started and the way it’s going tells me it won’t last.
I wonder where they are now. I remember watching this around 11 years ago. Wonder if they stayed together
@@srehtaef1824 yeah I wish I knew too.
@@srehtaef1824 they arent together
@@shanleecaulfield7064 they arent together
I can't understand how British teens think getting drunk, getting arrested and dating people in their 20s is normal behaviour at their age😳🙄
Fr im American and I don’t understand this at all
in britain, it actually is normal imo. the bit about dating paedos isn’t normal but getting drunk as a teen and doing illegal stuff (like weed and shoplifting) is common amongst the popular people.
I think the drinking age is 18 so it's not a huge gap between 15 and the legal drinking age but idk I don't live there
@@honeyflower2782 yup, drinking age is 18
It depends on the area and school tbh . If you're in a bad area and at a bad school, it's common but otherwise? If you live in a decent area, it's not normalised -
Chicken wasnt even seasoned...
wasn't made for consumption so it conbusted
😂😂😂😂😂
Also the reason it caught fire was because she poured vegetable oil only on it. Like yeah grease fire waiting to happen especially without foil
It's a damn crime!! Her not even put a little salt and pepper or something to represent seasoning 😒 had that bird swimming in oil
It's a smoked chicken
Dan looks absolutely miserable. The only time he looks remotely happy is when he's holding his daughter. He probably should have thought about how miserable he would be getting hooked up with an immature, insecure child. Dan looks like he has one foot out the door, he might be doing the right thing by staying, but you can tell he doesn't want to be there and I have serious doubts this relationship will last.
I’m sure he would be more miserable Ina jail cell
@@stuffz4040 lmao
@@stuffz4040 that’s the risk his was prepared to take
Probably stayed with her in case he got sent to prison.
When she was holding the baby waiting for Dan to get home saying sometimes she stands and waits for him for half and hour or more seems just like she’s excited for HER daddy to get home from work
Kelly said that she ONLY had 5 or 6 short term relationships before she met Dan... wth!! Was she never home this girl? Where was she having these relationships at that young age? My sons are 21 and 25 and still not thinking about having children any time soon. They have a life and a career 🙄 . This girl is going to be very bored when she's older .
Esther Baker just because you have a child young DOES not mean you can’t have a career, I know many many people who have had children at a young age and they’ve trained as nurses, chefs and some entrepreneurs. Never ever think that you can’t have a career if you have a child at a young age.
I know its very sad😥
@@victoriay1713 old comment, but I just wanted to point out that I think she meant they are just very much career focused.
@@victoriay1713 and you can definitely have a career and children... but it's very hard! I have children (2 kids, and 3 bonus kids my husband had from previous marriage) and a career, but it took me much longer to develop my career. I'm 33 now, just getting to where I want to be career wise.
Shaming the girl will not help anyone but ur ego Karen
The mum being like “he’s a nice guy” actually disgusts me. Her daughter was 14. A crime was committed. Actual nice guys don’t have sex with children smh.
Dan looks so very much unhappy and trapped, as for Kelly she is head over heels. She can't even see that Dan is exhausted and unhappy and sees her as a piece of work.
Oh boohoo! He's a sicko
Dan should be in a prison cell. He is disgusting, and she is just a child. She doesn't understand because her brain isn't developed to maturity yet. When she is 25, she will look back at how manipulated she was and how no adult protected her. Her emotional maturity will likely be stunted at the age of 14 from the abuse.
I honestly can’t believe I’m watching this and neither of the parents stepped in...
I can’t believe I’m an adult watching this. All the apparent drinking in the streets I missed out on at 15 lol. The worst thing I did at that age was stay up till 2am
Honestly at that point what could they do? They were in love if they didn't support her she would have just ended up alienated from them and worse off. It seems clear they weren't thrilled with the idea but she's still better off with a supportive partner than a single mum. She was the one who wanted to keep the baby.
@@petraarkian7720 he should be in prison. It's obvious this "relationship" is doomed.
@@petraarkian7720 well when the police and social services came to mums door she could’ve done something. Pretty simple really
he should be in jail
you say he should be in jail but half the uk have older boyfriends.
@@ronakoth5580 and that makes it ok?
If the parents sign papers to make it legal and say its ok. @@taisvv1284
@@ronakoth5580 I agree if the parrot say it's ok and then it's ok I don't know why people be cocky over the age gap babe.
I mean when we started dating and you were 13 and I was 22 and now you're going to be 18 and I'll be 27.
parrot lol* you mean parents babe and I agree. @@jackandrewmarkfrost6949
22 year old can get a 14 year old kid pregent but cant keep a job to support them. He needs to be in jail with the mom. Shes a child
It infuriates me to see him moping - it’s as if grooming a child wasn’t as much fun for him as he’d hoped.
Exactly, he is nothing more than a kid himself, as he does not appear to be able to take responsibility for contraception, let alone responsible for the products of conception. Made these babies and despite the fact that the state has given a flat, he feels trapped.
@@banana9106he's a pedo, plain and simple.
Do they not know about birth control??
so true
No birth control is 100% you can still get pregnant on any birth control.
Maybe sadly lots of girls are uneducated on stuff like this
My question is, does he know what age of consent is?
@@ronakoth5580 only effective if you use it
I was 13 my boy friend 21. In 1975 I'm still married to him but it was a life of pure hell. Gaslighting violence abuse. DONT DO IT!!!!!!!
I hope you're okay. No one deserves abuse. ❣
Yikes dude get out
He probably stayed just to avoid her parents sending him to jail.
21, living at home, and having unprotected sex with a 14 year old. Real freaking winner right there.
How is mum ok with this
Benefits
my mum would hit me w a slipper
acc more like a tv
Poverty
Ignorance
My parents had a 6 year age gap, difference is she was 26 and he was 32! They didn’t have their first kid (me) until my mother was 29. Age gaps are completely fine when one of the parties isn’t underage or being exploited. This is wrong and exploitation. I’m 18 and can’t even IMAGINE already getting married and having babies!
He doesn't strike me as the most responsible of men. He already had a child with another woman and gets her pregnant in about 3 months from meeting her. He doesn't have a home to house them in and has to rely on the council to provide a home. Then he still hasn't learnt his lesson about contraception and gets her pregnant again and loses his job, moans about having the money to buy his daughter a first birthday present, but manages to find the money to go out with his mates.
6 relationship at 14 wtaf, and 21 and 14 🤢🤢 that's grim
not really does age really matter
It is but she does look older. Her immaturity should of been a clue
ugh@@huerag4849
kizzee marlowxox yes it does
@@1ntisarr no it doesn't she's happy and thats all that matters innit
This is actually sickening how could her parents allow them to just date I do not know! If my daughter was dating a man at the age of 14 there would be hell to pay, its actually disgusting.
I’m sorry, this is illegal right? Imagine being fine admitting this on tv?!
Growing up a 14 year old friend dated a 24 year old. They eventually got married. Divorced in HER 20s and now she’s dealing with the trauma that her husband was a nonce.
You can tell the mom is trying really hard to justify their relationship
she’s just trying to make herself look like less of a horrible mother but is doing the exact opposite 😂
Grooming being normalized? wonderful. *eye roll*
Now shes legal he clearly has no interest in her... she wouldn't cope if he left her which unfortunately is inevitable.
No she's still young enough for him to like but he clearly feels trapped and hates the responsibilities he has now .
But yes if he was more than okay hooking up with a child he will do it agian once she's to old which may be at 21
I met my boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 21. I remember his friends thought it was weird that he was with a younger girl, and my friends were all about reminding me that he was older. Why is everyone acting like it's normal there?
That’s literally 3 years apart, thats a pretty perfect age apart and y’all are both adults at 18 and 21 so it not the same as a 14 and a 21 living together and having a baby🙄✋🏻
Theres 6 years between me and my fella, I was 18 and he was 24, i am now 27 an hes 33
10% of comments he's a sex offender
3% she a cute baby
87% SHE DIDNT FLAVOR THE CHICKEN
At the age of 14…. She’s saying age 21 was the highest she’ll go?? That in and of itself is problematic. And her mom’s lack of concern is troubling……also she did not season that chicken!!!!! 😩
It's my dad's birthday tomorrow and I'm making him a chicken. I'm 29 and I know how to make one, but still, that was just hard to watch...
"I don't expect much from her, I know her age." OH, REALLY?
Yet he acts surprised when she said they met when she was 14
Hes also telling saying he doesn't expect much from her because of her age hinting he knows she a child and can't fulfill a grown women's role 😑 just disgusting these predators KNOW when a girl is underage
@@mariec3527 💯
Why did Kelly get pregnant again?? This couple is having a terrible time with one child and having another is just horrible. BIRTH CONTROL...be responsible.
She’s 16. 16 yo’s don’t make great decisions. That’s why they still have parents to take care of them. This man took advantage of a child.
There are chance you can still get pregnant on birth control.
The fact he admitted to dating mostly young girls and her being the youngest 😬
Dan looks desperately unhappy, more and more as the video progresses.
And she is _so_ dependant...."he is me"....that's very scary.
Dating at 14 now having your second child at 16 WOW! I wonder how many kids she has now
Mom is laughing like this is damn normal. She was 14 and he was 21. Kelly's mom wasn't concerned about age AT ALL and Dan think it's fine. "Boys being boys" Dan, you're a grown man! You don't have sex with young girls and clearly he has slept with young girls too. "Definitely the youngest" bro WHAT? What's not concerning about this man?
As a 15 year old myself, I can tell ya the majority of us don’t run around drunk, I hope
There's literally thousands if not millions of marriages happy with a 7 year age gap but the thing is, these work when both partners are on the same level of mental maturity. You cannot have an early teen, a person who is literally still developing mentally and an adult and actually expect it to last. Either the older one is incredibly immature, which is not a good thing or the child is overly mature which isn't right as they need time to be a child.
All these triggered chicken comments have me dead!! 😂😂😂
So just because they have a kid together he is exempt from the law?
He belongs is prison. Shame on Kelly's parents!
What a jerk he is! He “trapped” himself. He also should have been the one to be sure that Kelly didn’t get pregnant, especially the second time. She’s the one who got trapped.
Literally this.
You can see in her eyes she feels so trapped and when she says something sad and then laughs she looks on the verge of tears. He seems like he doesn't give a shit about her.
Mum is horrendous. I am a survivor of csa, grooming and dv and work in safe guarding and everything about their "relationship" is screaming "call the police"
She bought him WEED for his birthday 😡 disgusting when you’re out of work and have 2 kids to support. Makes my blood boil
I genuinely feel sorry for I can’t imagine the stress she’s under at the age of 16 😕 I know she chose this life but she’s still a child and he doesn’t look like he loves her
My boyfriend and I are 24 and 20 respectively and I would be absolutely devastated if I got pregnant so early in our relationship.
Yeah but 4 years doesn't matter when you're of age, and the fact you've said that shows that you're a switched on person, this guys a nonce and she's an idiot
Things happen
@@zzirGrizz00l she’s going to regret it so bad in the future he stole her childhood and obviously regrets the relationship
Look 20 is nof 14, and eventually you will realise getting with one person at a young age is fairly demoralising, like when you get icecream many flavours, dont fool yourself there is only lust , desire, need, greed, love is a fantasy
@@christaylor7049 you don’t believe in love?
I feel really bad for her. She has no idea what she’s given up, but I will say this she’s a remarkable young women and if anyone can do it, its you!!
m.
In my country, in few villages, underaged girls are forced to marry men double of their age. They don't have choice. 7years age gap is nothing for them. But I urge whichever girl has opportunity to make her own choice, not forced to get married, please finish your studies and do something out of that. because many girls don't get that freedom of choice.
My parents are 11 years apart. It’s about her being underage not the gap 🤚
True
I would have most likely disowned my son for doing something like this. No matter what country it just seems like disgusting predatory behavior
....where’s social services 😳
They said it was ok apparently
This is crazy, she was 14 and he was 21 I fail to understand how social services thought this was okay under any circumstances
@@bapsi418 the mom give the O.K so they are out of the picture by that
The friends said he looks 30! Ahaha tbh, I have to agree. It wouldn’t surprise me if they’ve lied about his age. I wonder how much fact checking the show does.
“I sound depressed dun I” ah poor baby. Imagine what it’s going to be like for her when she realises that she has been groomed by a creep who can’t wait to move on to the next child?
You know what's better than feeling trapped in a realtionship, it's being trapped in a jail cell where this dude belongs 👌😊
How he says when she turns 18 she will go out and get drunk every week like me. He caused her to lose her childhood/teen years there life just seems so boring