Why Did A Young Mother Vanish And Leave Behind Her 10 Year-Old? | Nightmare In Suburbia | Real Crime
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- The Sat Nav Killer: Detectives discuss how they caught the killer of 29-year-old Vitalija Baliutaviciene, who was kidnapped on her way to work in Peterborough in 2011
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What part of Vitalija's story shocked you the most? Share your reactions or any similar cases you'd like to learn about.
The typo in your title.
How messed up the legal system can be.
Your terrible choice of title shocked me the most
That all the Red flags reported and still police did nothing until she was murdered, leaving a 10 year old child an orphan.
Most shocking part, how convenient that she had to walk into town on the very day he showed up with the van. Don't they have taxi cabs in that town?
Vitalija was kidnapped and murdered by her crazy ex. Not vanished or abandoned her son!!!
It was something that they had to consider. They do consider all avenues when dealing with missing persons
This is absolutely devastating. Her poor little boy must have had a very hard time without his mother.
Children caught in the middle of this sort of thing can so easily themselves go wrong. Hope he has a decent upbringing and is able to stay straight.
Under these types of circumstances, NEVER forgive your abuser, never give them a second chance. If they were truly sorry, they would have never hurt you in the first place. Forgiving this type of person only gives them permission to continue.
True indeed
I needed to hear this, thank you stranger. Wishing you the best 😄
Also, NEVER blame the victim. I am sure you didn't mean to in your comment, but it sounds like it.
Exactly! It's why I despise the quote "it's better to ask for forgiveness than permission."
No! that implies they don't care about consent/other persons autonomy!
Don't give people the forgiveness if they keep breaching your boundaries. Get out.
No! Forgiving is forgiving g yourself! Not forgetting.
My issue is that Life In Prison, SHOULD MEAN JUST THAT!! NO PAROLE PERIOD!!! DO you think these victims and their families receive JUSTICE when a murderer will eventually walk the streets? NO THEY DON'T!
My family got no justice . They downgraded from murder to manslaughter and sentenced to 8 years. Even in court his defence was trying to blame my cousin , saying she gave as good as she got , yet he had no injuries. He killed her in their home .
England is pathetic for crime
He is a sociopath.
1,000% agree 👍
No, they don't.
@@CollieneDawson-hw7bjso is Australia, piss poor sentencing for capital offences
Poor woman. May she rest in peace and may her son always feel the warmth of her eternal love. This was nearly me once upon a time. 5 years of fear and pain every day. If you know someone who suffers, keep an eye on them..
Best to make a report with the police and send him a message to let him know he is on their radar
@thomasvalentine4636 I did a while ago, just incase..
With all the apparent signs and evidence at their disposal that this woman was gonna be killed, authorities did nothing. She had to die for them to take her life seriously.
That's EXACTLY what I was thinking too. At the end that officer said you can always come to the police, we can help you, HA, she went to you several times, & you offices & authorities didn't do ****, UNTIL she went missing & was too stupid to realize OMG he was going to kill her. That should've been a well known fact BEFORE he kidnapped her & killed her! I'm not in the UK, I'm in the USA & sounds like the same story here, O go to the police they will help you, NO they won't, once you go missing or your body is found, then they think what could we have done to protect her? That's like getting a protective order that's seriously laughable, the suspect ONLY thinks its just a PIECE of PAPER that's it. Paper is NOT going to stop someone from hurting or killing anyone, but there too stupid to realize that, or just don't wanna acknowledge their damn job.
I tried too years ago after I got married & had an ex that refused to leave me alone, so I TRIED to get a Protective order, they refused me saying unless I either married or have his child they couldn't help me at all! So I had to do something I never thought in a millions years I'd do, get a gun & learn to use it, as I was terrified of guns all my life! it took years to get him to leave me alone. Even his wife told the police what he was doing but she too thought it was funny! They lived about 30 mins from us, the police there said because he was harming me in our town 30 mins from them, they refused to help me, BOTH ends the police REFUSED to help me at all! I lived in fear for damn near 15 years before he was caught doing that to someone that lived in the same building as them! Both him & his wife were arrested & jailed for (get this..... 10 years), but it was enough to move & him not knowing anything about me of where I was at all.
So the police saying go to them, NOPE, do it my damn self, the police will only do so much & then stop as its too much for them!
I took a gun class years ago, the instructor was a retired cop, & he advised us to never rely on the police to prevent crime, what they do is show up after the crime has been committed. Sad. But I firmly believe that they’re so used to nothing, except shoplifting & small stuff that they don’t know how do handle the BIG tragic events, like this one. A driver smashed into my car a while ago, as he did a U turn right into my car, but the cop was too lazy to give the guy a ticket, so it had to got to arbitration, where I won, then met 2 other ppl right after my wreck who said the same thing. Often, they’re burnt out & Too complacent to do their jobs.
Sadly it's the same for everyone, you can have a stalker in your garden & you'll be told sorry, they're not actually doing anything wrong.. if they enter the property then we can do something.
If they've entered the property it's already too late.
Also found it interesting how whoever the blonde lady was said something to the effect of 'we had no evidence he was back in the country.' AFTER she'd gone in to report it just to be told 'well... we've seen nothing from his passport.' Like fake passports have never been heard of before.. tf is that? & if it's as easy as just calling up the phone to hear if there's an international tone or whatever, why didn't they do that with her in the room when she reported he'd been seen in the area? Seems like that would have been the perfect time to check but no, we'll just check his passport even though he knows he's a wanted man. 🙄 like if you want a job you can be lazy at.. police officer is not the job for you.
@@tamarascoloringcoven718the law has changed now regarding non fatal strangulation and coercive control . Police can go ahead and prosecute even without your cooperation. Many lie say they didn’t do that . She beat herself up and trying to blame me . We can’t carry guns in the UK
@@tamarascoloringcoven718I agree with what your saying…it’s the same story every time…I am sorry you went through what you did for so long…it must of been hell…I hope you are happy now ❤
I’m always shocked by the UK Courts. Strangling is obviously attempted murder but the courts reduce the charges to common assault. Even with witnesses.
It’s now non fatal strangulation. Which can carry a custodial sentence of up to 5 years
Agreed, although hindsight is a wonderful thing. But I can't believe this foreign national wasn't permanently banned from the UK, and that it could not be enforced.
I mean we're an island ffs it ought not to be that difficult to keep someone out
@@splinterbyrd We can’t keep foreign criminal elements out either. Apparently Biden doesn’t think we have enough of our own.
The judge who give out light sentences should be jailed
Ḍ@@michaelmcginley7930
She looks like a sweetheart. I hope her son will not forget.
At age 15, I went up against my own abusive father after he smacked my mom. Suddenly, I lost it and all my fear turned to anger. 1 coffee table in his back and an end table upside his head stopped it all from then on! He got a speedy trip to emergency room and several nights in jail. My mom filed for divorce. Ladies, please Don't Think you have to take this kind of crap! Think Positive!
You were so strong, thanks for your positive message , do hope you and your Mum have a good life now xx
& also men dont think you have to put up with this kind of crap also
@@derekpenton3503 thanks Derek, that means so much.
You looked out for your mum and quite possibly saved her life altogether.
Well done to you ❤
Yeah, men can also become victims of domestic violence. Its not an issue that solely affects women. It can also be harder for men to admit that they're suffering domestic violence. They're so often not believed
RIP. I'm sorry you felt you couldn't get help. Prayers for your son. I am a survivor of domestic abuse and I'm lucky to be alive and free of my abuser.
Good for you. Well done. The leaving is the hardest part. You are evidently very brave & tough.
Bless you x
She took him back once.....sad
All of us survivors are lucky to be alive, wish you every happiness in the future,you certainly deserve it.✊❤️❤️
same, so many women are lucky to be alive. I really am sick of men. Glad you are living a much better life,all the best.X
Never ever take a violent ex back they will never change. I've seen this on so many stories and they all end the same.
Well said, ive drilled into our daughters, I saw it in my youth and had to leave home with one of my brothers when we stopped mammy being hit.
If they hit or threaten you come straight home. Tell people expose these people.
Tneir is NO excuse for hitting a woman.
It took me a constant cycle of systematic domestic abuse to learn that myself. But you are not weak, you are not alone and strength can be a kind of weakness. Do not be strong in tolerating physical and emotional pain and there are people that will help. It is not a weakness to ask!
Absolutely not! None! Real Men do not hit women! ... And then I came out of a bar one night a guy was kicking her. She had already crawled under a truck to get away from him. Crying and screaming. I ran at him and knocked him down daring him to get up. She got up instead and then got in my face and told me to mind my own business. That still haunts me these days. I'll never understand that.@@stephenholmes1036
@@xxsweetalkinxxLove you❤
Amazing they employed huge manpower to discover her body. Nothing to protect her or very little whilst alive. Disgusting!
That is normally the case.
Absolutely 💯 It is tragic & ludicrous they take action one she is dead. Too late 💔 for her & her son.
They should have helped her to move location
they don't care@@maggiefitzgerald1276
Absolutely 💯...she should've been put up in a safe house...she been neglected by authorities
Older man, younger woman. He thinks he owns her cos they have a child together. My ex is the same, he went to prison for attacking me on multiple occasions. He still seems to think I belong to him.. I haven’t been with him for almost 10 years. You can’t seem to escape these people, they are sick and twisted. I’m sorry this little boy lost both his parents that day. Dad is jail and Mum in heaven.
There’s no place in this world for these monsters
Its got NOTHING to do with age, Ive seen many good relationships with older men and younger women and vice versa. I was 19 and married a 31 year old.
Its down to individual people this worst i have seen were people of roughly similar age.
Agreed no excuses. You dont abuse women.
@stephenholmes1036 I have to disappoint you. Predators prefer to pick younger women. They are less experienced and less critical.
Just because the man isn't beating his wife it doesn't mean he doesn't control her. You never know what happens behind closed doors. And 19 your has no business to be with 31 years old. what do they have together? Do they have the same friend group? How did they get together?
10 years gab is acceptable once the younger partner is cca 30 years old.
Absolutely
One of the most terrifying cases I've ever heard..the poor lady was terrorised...
So, did he have a role in causing the malfunction of her coworker’s car? A bit coincidental that the one morning she was forced to walk two miles, this evil POS was waiting for her!
I thought the same. I'm sure he did. Too conincidental.
I thought the same. Otherwise, how would he know she'd be walking early alone that day?
Yes that does seem strange to me also ?
absolutely
@bamanana2922, you should join the police force, that was quite sharp.
It’s horrific that these poor women live like this and some go to great lengths to protect themselves and the police still don’t do anything about helping them, that’s why 2 women die every week, so very sad 😢
As many abusers do, he chose a young, inexperienced girl, made her feel.like a star, but treated her badly. then, he most likely hoped that he could control her by making her fear for her son's safety. Such a tragedy.
Not true. My mammy was the same age as my dada. Its simple ive drilled it into our daughters if a man hits you.
Get straight out come home they dont love you its about control.
Mental abuse the same, Tbeir is NO excuse for hitting a woman!
@@stephenholmes1036 that's why I said "many"... Abusers can be any age and so can their victims.
A very sad story a very tragic end prison is too good for he is not finished yet I believe he has got
It in him to do it again and he can do it anywhere really dangerous
20 years is no time. Poor little boy and his Mum tried everything to protect them both.
We can only hope he gets some prison justice during those 20 years.
Strangled her but got let off and fled the country, then done it again and once out on bail he fled the country. Surely they knew he was a flight risk?! Uk justice system has to be the worst 🤦🏻♀️
It certainly is, corrupt AF😩😩
It certainly is, corrupt AF😩😩
As a true crime junkie...how convenient her ride to work broke down the day her ex was there! We didn't hear anything about her car being sabotaged. RIP Vitalija, prayers to your son.
That’s what I thought too.
I think you'll find that he was just waiting for her to appear on the street. Sat nearby the route she would walk to work. He couldn't have known that she would have been on her own that day.
I honestly lost it at the end when the guy was saying "tell the police, they'll help" will they f--k. I've read/watched way too many cases where domestic abuse/stalking has been a prevalent factor and there's one line the police seem to trot out every time someone tries to get help: "we can't do anything until THEY do something" 🥴 the system still doesn't take seriously enough how dangerous abuse/stalking is and prefers to play down the severity until it's too late. You guys don't help, you're idle until the worst has happened and then you scream we need to do better - start doing that NOW and stop just saying empty words until you're willing to come through on that promise.
If it was there sister/mother/aunt/cousin police would be on 24/7
@@JulieRushworth oh 100%, one rule for them, another for us.
@@namethestars 100% true
Yeah, I thought it was a particularly tone-deaf thing to say in this case because she obviously did go to police many times, but that didn't save her. I mean, I get the sentiment, but why does this official think that his point is the key take-away here?
Life should mean LIFE ….ridiculous that this savage could be released after 20 years !
She was so beautiful 😭 what an evil bastard 😡
Real Crime ! You need to change your title, she didn't leave her son behind, his mother was taken from him.
And she did everything right. This should’ve never happened! The authorities did NOT support or protect her! This is beyond depressing.
No there's no need to change the title.
@lucycarola who runs the world..men
@@JulieRushworth that’s sadly true.
And check your grammar.
so sad this hard working lady lost her life to this evil man, too many women are controlled by men who think its ok to treat women like this
With the ease of illegal entry into every country it is laughable to think he wouldn’t use a fake ID and enter illegally.
right now they reckon there are 800,000 - 1.2 million illegals in London ...
It seems ironic that Vatalia's situation wasn't taken seriously until she was killed. She did everything right; she divorced that moster & pressed charges but the legal system gave him bail & allowed him to come & go as he pleased. RIP Vatalia & blessings on her son.
Why wasn’t she protected against this man, whilst alive?
A wife ought not to be responsible for pressing charges the country should do that.
@@susanford2388how when she’s been trained how to talk away bruises or constant phone calls .
@MiaSummer-cm6cy why not get new phone number?
This muder is on the police’s hands, sheer negligence😩😩
Sometimes I watch these series and I’m in shock! How helpless are these people, especially women against these abusers! It’s braking my heart because everyone knows that he will be able to do something like this!
Rest in peace, beautiful girl 🙏
This is constructive criticism, Not intended in a nasty way whatsoever.
Braking means trying to stop your car/bike etc' e.g. 'while braking the car slid over the ice' break my heart is what you meant. Have a good day/night.
*breaking
There isn't as much protection for woman as you would think.
British police for you. He was in the country less than 24 hours arrested trying to strangle his wife and the released. Why wasn’t he kicked out the country the first time
I wouldn't consider having a violent jealous rage inside of you emotionless. He was just an insecure psychopath.
Yes psychopath
Lack of empathy is a lack of normal emotions. The urge to murder & kill is not a normal human emotion. As I know from my cats' treatment of rodents.
Why didn't give protection s? But to late to help the son when his mother has been killed by the man she continued to report to police .
She has no help at all .
Shocking .
Absolutely heartbreaking. That poor lady and her poor son.😢
This was so creepy. What a horrible life she was living, having to look over her shoulder every single day.
Wtf is wrong with the UK? He fled before so they release him so he can flee again? It doesn’t appear that they provided her with any support or advice on how to deal with an obviously dangerous situation, she shouldn’t have been living in a residence he knew the address of. Did she feel the need to maintain contact on her own for her son or because the courts told her to? Because the guy in the video said there “had to be a level of contact”. Uh, no there should not be a level of forced contact between a victim and their abuser. 3rd party supervised parenting time AFTER he attends counseling and deals with all his criminal matters. The guy has zero consequences for his actions because the court system in the UK apparently treats perpetrators of domestic violence like all they did was get a parking ticket instead of the monsters they are. Disgusting.
They do not give a sh** about women here in the uk.
Why didn't she call a taxi the day her friend's car broke down? Why didn't the police investigate when her friend saw the ex husband with a beard during his test run under the radar into Britain? Too many unanswered questions but its too late after threatening her.
@@childrenpraisegod1230they did investigate, they said there was no record of him entering the country.
Exactly how would they track down, 'a guy with a beard in town that a friend said looked like her ex.'
At rhat point he was only wanted for common assault. Unfortunately, even if he was caught, the chances of him even getting a custodial sentence was pretty slim.
I'm saddened by the sickness of some human beings 😢 just breaks my soul down.. still, it's important that these type of shows are out there.. to keep us reminded 😢😢
What a demon! No humanity, beyond monster! Hope he becomes a victim himself of someone he has to reside with!!!😢
I hope he never get access to the little boy,
Poor vitalia, I feel she was let down
Intelligence between both police forces should have prevented
Him getting back in to this country
Shocking
Maybe his adult son may track him down?
Minimum of 20 years??
Minimum of 35 years would have been far more fair!!
Poor kid poor mum let down by everyone! That guy is a creep ! Who didn’t think it was him ? I bet everyone thought like me he’d come in under someone else’s name !
Everyone but the police!
To put the sentence into context,there have been armed robbers who have received longer sentences.
He should have got a minimum of 35 years,if not a full life sentence.
RIP young lady.
It should be taught in primary schools how to recognize narcissistic personality disorder, it could save so many ruined lives.
That makes more sense than learning lgbgtxyz
Absolutely, did her son not attend school!
These type of partners never let go he made sure no one else had her Rip to this beautiful unfortunate lady
Dropped his first charge? There could have been a chance to scare him to reality.
Such a sad case. RIP .Vitalija. The life of a wonderful woman taken away and from her son. Brilliant detective work by the police. But this mad, sick beast should have been jailed for a long time after the first attack. If he was she would still be alive and her son would have a mother who is living and they would have a life together.
What an evil man…the lengths he went to, to finally end her life…what a tragedy..she did everything right to protect herself and he still got to her…I do think the police could have done more to protect her…they knew how dangerous he was…poor woman may she RIP ❤
I feel sorry for the little boy who lost his mother.
I can't understand a man killing his partner/ex-partner, but a father hurting his child by taking his child's mother away is beyond me.
@@zoep.2891 ??
What are the odds that the friend has car trouble the very evening her husband arrives in the UK
I lived in a dv relationship for 10 years, my ex husband was arrested and released within hours, with no restrictions on being allowed to come straight home. The day he put hands on the children was the day I fought back
Why wasn't even held on remand after running? How many are abuse victims let down. By law ,
Her life could have been saved if immigration had done their job properly and prevented him from getting back into the UK after he skipped bail, on more than one occasion 😖
Hang on, when some tries to strangle someone else they should not be released. No way. They have attempted murder so a menace in society
Great police work pity the cps couldn't back you up earlier.
Change title, she didn't leave her 10year old behind
Correct, I also was disgusted.
Thank you for clarifying. I hate when they do that.
I think he did something to her mates car for it not to work in the first place for him to be kidnap her in there first place
It just makes sense
May her soul continue to rest in peace . She didn't deserve that
She is dead and he gets 25 years, not very fair, he should never see freedom again.
20 years
@@clivebaxter6354 That is even worse, anyone who takes a life should not be able to go back to his life after 20, she will not be able to ever again!
In most US states it would be life without parole!@@lydiag6245
@@lydiag6245My cousins husband got done for manslaughter and a sentence of 8 years, for smashing her skull to pieces.
it's said 20 years! Why did you add 5 years?
My mind is blown that all he had to do was change his name to get back into the UK!
Absolute craziness
Just think how many evil murders are able to move around & able to keep doing this evilness😩😩
The police will not support you, this was Obvious!
Pure evil.
Why was he given bail the second time he was arrested in the uk and aloud to escape again
I wonder if he rigged the car to commit up her murder. I would have called in sick that day 😢
Absolutely it was his doing.
20 years for a brutal life and murder? And the life suffering of her son? Not enough in my opinion. He should have been given 40 years!
What a cowardly bully.
Her beautiful boy would be 23 now. I wish him all the happiness he deserves, which is infinite. ❤
Abusers always go for the vulnerable..in other words they are bullies and predators.
for power and control.
Loss for words. Poor woman. So sad this. This animal should never be released. Well done to our Police Force, you did us proud.
I think it is police's fault. Her friend saw him and when they went to the police to report the sighting, the police told them that he wasn't in the UK, but he was.
She should not have been left alone to walk at 5am, known her circumstances.
A tradegy? That’s an understatement this young mother lived in absolute terror knowing she was doomed and the ridiculous incompetence of the police is beyond a tragedy. This happens in US as well. The laws and justice system is truly broken all over. Much love and condolences to the family and friends who knew her and loved her her memory will live on in all of our hearts 💕
I wish she had changed her address when he went to Lithuania, and he had never been able to find her again.
This guy will be out of prison in 20 years or less. The legal system has little regard for human life. Let's hope the evil man doesn't kill someone else.....
Always living in fear of your safety is hard to comprehend
Ive watch alot of these shows but this one is particularly disturbing snd so sad. A bueatiful young mother just wanting to make a life for herself and seemed such a caring loving mother. May her soul rest in peace
She was very young and vulnerable when she met him. If she had waited longer, she would have known better. She could have seen the red flags before getting involved with a man like this. Poor woman and poor boy!
It could be that, according to the narration, that she could of been 15 or 16 and he would of been around 35 when they met at the hospital. She was young and pretty and it was easy for him to take advantage of her.
@@zeniktorres4320that’s a predator … 15 or 16 with 35 is insane!!! Where were her parents… this is soo heartbreaking 💔
I truly hope it’s true that when these ppl come up for parole seldom get out on their first of many attempts. He should have been given life in Prison without parole!
People need to take threats seriously
If the police had done their job properly in the first place, he'd be in jail for attempted murder and both Vitallija and her son would be safe and free! Sadly, abusive husbands are too often treated with kid gloves until it's too late.
So sad what this women went through . And her poor son . RIP 😢
I watch these things and just feel sick. I am so tired of hearing about men who feel the entitlement over a woman's life. For the love of all that is holy, please, parents, teach your boys better. Teach them emotional competence, empathy, and responsibility. This garbage does not need to keep happening. Ever. Teach your girls that when a man tells you who they are (by actions or words) you believe them the very first time with no remorse or shame.
Same. I feel sickened. I am switching off this video half way through, I cannot watch any more of it.
This is so so sad and how scared she was for her and her son such a beutifull boy and for what all because her ex husband was a violent man abusing a vulnerable woman why men goes to such lengths is far beyond me we truly live in a evil world today
*BEAUTIFUL
AN* evil
I feel horrible for her, she literally always got a ride and when she didn't, it ended in her demise :(
Once again police in the UK don’t shift into high gear until it’s way too late. The porous border with which criminals pass through with impunity is a travesty. As is the failure of the police to act TIMELY to save a young woman before they are abducted and murdered by the known offender. Like a broken record.
Why are police so shocked and surprised like it was a big mystery to solve? it was obvious to anyone that her ex husband did it as soon as she didn't call her son as was her routine. Strangulation is not common assault. it is attempted murder and he should have gone to jail on that day. there were witnesses including the boy. absolutely horrific. please take women who are in fear seriously.
It’s now a crime of non fatal strangulation and carry’s a custodial sentence
Vitalija was hunted and preyed upon by her psychopathic ex husband. An arrogant boastful killer without a drip of remorse. Prayers for her family, friends and beautiful young son who lost his mother in the most unimaginable tragedy. 🙏🏽😢❤
The ex-husband killed her. Her friend did see him and he entered under a false id. I daresay he even tampered with her friends car as it's too coincidental.
*dare say
So sad! Wished she would have called her friend over and both share a taxi next morning! But she was not aware he was in the UK!
her friend saw him and told her, I think it is police's fault for not acting to protect her.
some people just turn into monsters... ego ? entitled ? rage ? jealousy ?
I think they are born that way.
Impossible to imagine how constant the effect must have been on her son, ruining so many things in his life, and losing that relationship with his Mother when he was so young. And awful that the sentence of 20 years prison to her murderer seems so weak. But a small salute to the title which Morrison had of 'Detective Chief Inspector' and which Martin Brunning seems to have taken completely seriously. J.
I don't understand. Detective Chief Inspector is a rank used by all constabulary of the British police. We don't invent titles in the UK.
@@paulstevenson6975 Sorry if I was confusing. I only meant that I rather admired the "chief". He seemed like a chief. John.
a beast like that is not a father.
Rip… please please never return to a man who hits you!! Disgusting police let him off when he strangled her so many times!! Heart breaking 💔
are the authorities in that area stupid or something? cases like this aren't an isolated incident and they knew from the past assaults on her and cases i'm sure they've handled in the past that should've given them the experience to know exactly how this would end and they chose not to prosecute the first time they had him in their grasp and the 2nd time with witnesses they still let him out on bail? duh! they were complacent in her demise because of their lack of motivation to put this monster away when they had the chance to keep her safe.
Yep they .. the police... partly to blame.....You don't wait for someone to be murdered for gods sake
How in the world did this man just waltz in and out of the country like that? And why did they leave him out on bail after he fled the UK so many times? This is worse than the legal system in the US.
The same way the UK lets anyone without a passport across the Atlantic in a dinghy and houses and feeds them, no questions asked. Honestly, anyone could be here now.
Because he changed his name and his passport. Its not like they know everyone by sight.
Why do some men want women but also hate them to the point of abuse and worse? It can't always be explained in terms of childhood trauma. Most men are not like this, childhood trauma or not.
Yes authorities missed prosecution. But why didn’t she change her phone number, work, home, name? We all need to take threats very serious. Parental rights are not as important as a parent’s life.
I believe that she could not afford to change her phone number, etc. Making these changes can be costly.
@@hetvandenbergh2503let's see your phone number OR your life. . .
I think she needed the support of her friend and her job in the area and thought contact was best for her son but she should probably have been moved to a safe house out of the area, and had no contact at all with her ex husband as he clearly wasn’t letting her move on
Who named this Episode? She didn't vanish... She was taken, abducted, held prisoner, dragged away, kidnapped. She didn't vanish. CCTV clearly captured the crime..Then she's brutally murdered. In no way does that equal abandoning your child.... Poor choice of words.
I love true crime shows, but I have a hard time watching stories that occur outside of the US. Not only is justice never served in these stories, but there's never even an attempt to serve anything even somewhat similar to something like justice. It's infuriating to watch and it's especially infuriating to listen to law enforcement talk about justice as though they know what it is.
When he abused her from the beginning why did she bring him to the UK at all?
She didn’t he arrived after her with their son
She may rest in peace
This is a case of "If I can't have her, no one can." I have read a mystery book where the man had the same attitude. She had to end his life to stop him from ending hers.
He even took her to Poland? That is extreme..
Lithuania not Poland
@@fatpinkteddy ok
They should get an extra 20 years for not telling where the body is. Its just to cruel to her family
Stellar police work! Sadly though there's no winners, but it's great that he thought he was so clever, but he wasn't. No comfort for his wee son . A father's hatred for his ex wife was more than his love for his child. As I was listening I kept telling her to move house , change her name etc etc. Tragic.
A mother only leaves behind her child if she truly fears for her life or she’s been killed! Those are the only 2 situations possible! A mother’s LOVE for her child can’t be broken!
That's not always true unfortunately
A good mother yes. This poor woman 😢 she loved her boy.
So sad. Men like this need locking up the first time they are abusive!
I know of kids who have been neglected by their so called mothers who disappear all over the place sadly into drugs and men.
Seen this one before, I see the husband went through a lot of steps to conceal the crime. But when police turn the focus onto a crime like this the criminal invariably leaves some clues behind which sink them.
Pure evil man .This poor woman and her son will miss his Mother so much.So very sad.