Boundaries: It’s Time To Stop Dancing With Dysfunction | Lysa TerKeurst

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  • @elevationchurch
    @elevationchurch  Рік тому +104

    eFam! Elevation Nights with Elevation Worship and Pastor Steven Furtick starts on April 18th! For tickets and more information, go to www.elevationnights.com/

    • @blasmincover7458
      @blasmincover7458 Рік тому +4

      Happy birthday Paster Steven🎂🎂🎂

    • @blasmincover7458
      @blasmincover7458 Рік тому +2

      Happy birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Рік тому +2

      Feliz cumpleanos, pastor...period!🤩🤩🤩🤩

    • @christinejones3152
      @christinejones3152 Рік тому +1

      @@blasmincover7458lerlele my eyes❤that was great 👍 About dysfunction so accurate

    • @christinejones3152
      @christinejones3152 Рік тому +1

      🎉 Ty Ty g Trading Pleaser’s are Dysfunctional two

  • @RoseHowerton
    @RoseHowerton 3 дні тому +382

    Thank you Jesus, I was homeless, until Jesus remembered me and sent me a good broker MRS JASMYN WARD, She helped me a lot and my life totally changed... Hallelujah, Our Lord Jesus have lifted up my life!

    • @TamaraJPackard
      @TamaraJPackard 3 дні тому

      I'm 51 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @MariaBeatrizAlvarado
      @MariaBeatrizAlvarado 3 дні тому

      @@TamaraJPackard
      I'm 56 years old, retired, and now earning $40,000 a week. Watching this video has deeply inspired me and brought back memories of the many struggles I faced throughout my life to get to where I am today. It's a reminder of how far I've come, and it fills me with gratitude for the journey. The lessons I’ve learned along the way have shaped me into who I am now, and I’m more motivated than ever to continue growing and embracing new opportunities

    • @elematte
      @elematte 3 дні тому

      @@TamaraJPackard It’s Jasmyn Ward who’s behind all of this-she’s truly changed my life. Her guidance and support have opened my eyes to new possibilities and helped me overcome so many challenges. I’m forever grateful for her influence and the transformation I’ve experienced because of her.

    • @RafaelJimenez1
      @RafaelJimenez1 3 дні тому

      @@TamaraJPackard Yeah!! Mrs Jasmyn Ward services is the best, I got a brand new Lambo last week and paid off my mortgage loan thanks to her wonderful service.

    • @PaigeAnnHegland
      @PaigeAnnHegland 3 дні тому

      how can I reach out to Jasmyn's

  • @worshiplibrary7157
    @worshiplibrary7157 Рік тому +1400

    The dear person that's reading this, we don't know each other but I wish you all the best in life❤ don't ever blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious and a key to a happy life…

    • @operationsmossa9896
      @operationsmossa9896 Рік тому +10

      Amen!

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Рік тому +7

      What are boundaries without restrictions? Help!🌫️🌫️🛀🛀

    • @hollycadam3455
      @hollycadam3455 Рік тому +5

      @@melaniemartin730 exactly!

    • @ashleysmith3627
      @ashleysmith3627 Рік тому +18

      May God bless you and all who read this. Thank you Lord for each and every person here. Your amazing Lord and I love you in Jesus name Amen

    • @louiselalande29
      @louiselalande29 Рік тому +5

      Wow,thankyou

  • @sabinej.4934
    @sabinej.4934 Рік тому +725

    "We will always desparately want from other people what we fear our God will not provide." - Lysa TerKeurst

  • @ArleneDavid_
    @ArleneDavid_ Рік тому +307

    29:27 “Adults inform, Children explain” straight 🔥

    • @koalalou68
      @koalalou68 Рік тому +1

      Wow...

    • @paisleymariehamlin
      @paisleymariehamlin Рік тому +7

      Word. 👌💯 No is a full sentence.

    • @noladean6216
      @noladean6216 Рік тому +5

      Loved this Boundaries lesson; just so timely for me! Thank you Jesus ❤

    • @AbigailDisciple
      @AbigailDisciple Рік тому +1

      Amazing Recap 🎉❤

    • @mikkiallen8689
      @mikkiallen8689 Рік тому

      63 years old and thankful to hear this good word. I have a caretaker type personality and it has ALWAYS been difficult for me do this.

  • @carolineehling
    @carolineehling 3 місяці тому +39

    "Jesus did not lay down his life to enable bad behavior to continue". LOVE THAT.

  • @tosheacollier2039
    @tosheacollier2039 Рік тому +61

    A boundary is loving other’s well , so we don’t lose who we are. ❤

    • @Switzer1234
      @Switzer1234 8 місяців тому

      A boundary is loving OTHERS (not OTHER'S) well. No apostrophe in OTHERS.
      An apostrophe is to show possession/belonging to.

    • @blancamunoz6059
      @blancamunoz6059 7 місяців тому

      I don’t understand

  • @michellethomas6735
    @michellethomas6735 Рік тому +197

    Profound! Boundaries =
    "The ultimate purpose is to love others well, without losing the best of who we are."
    -Lysa Terkeurst
    Thank you for such an informative and important message.

  • @lavenderchai1613
    @lavenderchai1613 Рік тому +131

    Work boundaries are a must, especially in an environment of worldly people. Please pray for me and my work environment. Thank you.

    • @elevationchurch
      @elevationchurch  Рік тому +14

      Lavendar Chai we are lifting you up in prayer today. Dear Lord we pray for wisdom and grace for Lavender especially when navigating the work environment. May Lavender please you, Lord, by desiring, asking for, and utilizing a discerning heart full of wisdom. It's in Jesus name we pray, Amen.

    • @lavenderchai1613
      @lavenderchai1613 Рік тому +4

      @@elevationchurch thank you so much! I will pray for you as well. Dear Heavenly Father, I want to express my gratitude for elevation church, and their prayer support. What perfect timing you demonstrate to all of your children. I ask for kingdom love and mercy and delightful deliverance along with your loving guidance and protection in all of our days. Forgive us of our trespasses as we forgive those who have trespass against us and deliver us from the evil one, for thine is the kingdom and glory forever and ever amen. Glory to you Jesus 🩸❤️

    • @Connie10000
      @Connie10000 Рік тому +2

      ​​@@elevationchurch What a beautiful prayer! Please pray for me too...being in my 50s I would never have believed the amount of abuse/demeaning supervisors & coworkers put in my path & low pay. Fear has crept in as I recently lossed my job due to under the table xyz's. Im such a professional, personable & dedicated employee. I'm new to Summerville SC from WI as a single person on a God-Move. I'VE attempted to find a home church where I feel as true genuine family , mutual relationships NOT JUST on Sundays. My bday & Holidays should NOT be alone. My dog, Faithie (like Faith in God) passed. Plus I had to purchase a different car same time as lossed job. Caught sick at work then new neighbors smoking pot. Now ill. Help pls. Each time I seem to set a boundary...retaliation rears it's ugly head.
      This is only part of my story being here over 1 year. No fam back home. Thank you Jesus for peace love smiles connection joy & financial freedom... the LIFE I imagined. AMEN❤

    • @Connie10000
      @Connie10000 Рік тому

      @Elevation Church Pls I am crying out for prayer. Pls send a Prayer Warrior like myself or more anointed to come against the enemy. SEE MY REQUEST ABOVE

    • @mariatripp
      @mariatripp Рік тому

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @janicep1508
    @janicep1508 Рік тому +8

    I liked this, and mostly agree. But we are also called to carry our cross. Love is sacrificial. I'm going to do whatever it takes to care for my elderly dad, even if his mind doesn't always understand boundaries or my energy level. It's ok, I love him. God will give me more than I need if I surrender it to Him.

    • @bonnieboulter9486
      @bonnieboulter9486 2 місяці тому

      It's true, I cared for my parents til their passing. But there still needed to be appropriate boundaries. With dementia, their behavior was often inappropriate. But they couldn't help it. One of mine was respite care. Caregivers need to find what works for them.

  • @dominiqueh6287
    @dominiqueh6287 3 місяці тому +20

    Boundaries can be so hard, especially when you have to use them with parents. Never been truly loved by my parents but constantly trying to please them and hope they'll just care enough.. cycle has been going for 30 years and it still hurts but today I choose to set boundaries to not lose who I am and know my heavenly Father has always loved me

  • @KingdomCultureJa
    @KingdomCultureJa Рік тому +7

    WOW! One expression. This message is an example of just how everything we need is written in the word. Thank you Lysa, we needed it. #lifechanging

  • @dvnwifey222
    @dvnwifey222 Рік тому +22

    I also think that when we know God has ordained someone to be in our lives, we tend to pull back on boundaries and give them special passes/treatment. This shouldn’t be so. We should hold everyone to the same standard. I love how she talked about giving someone level 10 access when they haven’t shown level 10 responsibility!

  • @ParisWiggins
    @ParisWiggins Рік тому +89

    WOW.... I'm literally shocked because I did this for over 15+ yrs and I use to be scared of people not liking me if I say "no" and it will cause me to people please, and God told me I need boundaries. Can't just let anybody have access to me on a higher level if they're not willing to come up on a higher level with me. This is it. This was just for me, at almost midnight word. Glory be to God. Thank you Father God 😘

  • @rebeccamitchell8223
    @rebeccamitchell8223 Рік тому +7

    I am having terrible issues with my daughters and ex husband of 24 years, I didn't choose to ever leave until I could no longer take his abuse. I left the church i was a member, but I told myself I wasn't leaving the lord. I strayed... now ,after 12 long years of searching for a path back to God, now that I finally sought him with all i had, mind ,heart you name it. Now though, my ex and kids have a better relationship than they do with me? Its like I live in the twilight zone??? To the point, my God ,who has been absolutely working real miracles since he rescued me let me somehow hear this ,I was looking for a gospel song , but just before I found this message I prayed not 10 minutes earlier for God to educate me on what boundaries are!!!!! I just want to praise Jesus holy name for loving and forgiving me for turning my back on him. Thank you Lord, and to the woman who God chose to teach me , thank you for your obedience. I forget how important obedience is , when God lays anything on your heart, we should all try our best to do what he is asking. You never know who needs to hear, see what he tells you to share. Thankyou, my cup runneth over.❤

  • @asiacallier1
    @asiacallier1 Рік тому +8

    WOW. Setting boundaries for the protection of others. As a highly sensitive overgiver, that one shift in perception has just changed my life.I have always had his belief that I have to sacrifice myself to honor God by giving more of myself then I feel comfortable with. When it leads to me being used, abused and taken advantage of I explode. I have never looked at setting boundaries as being a form of love for others. Because essentially you are protecting them from being her. Wow just wow

  • @donnacross200
    @donnacross200 Рік тому +7

    "Love others well without losing the best of you are." ✝

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Рік тому +51

    ‘Adults inform. Children explain’ 🔥💜 *coined*

  • @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney
    @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney Рік тому +32

    Loved this. Boundaries, prayer and spiritual warfare saved my marriage and I am so blessed to finally have a healthy marriage!! My mother in law was toooo nice and my husband wasn't familiar with having Boundaries so it was a struggle...but he is happier and so am I. Note: I had to get really tough at times.Thank you Jesus.

  • @pamboire6973
    @pamboire6973 Рік тому +4

    Thanks lysa.. finally this truth is spoken to the church.. never heard about boundaries at a church..

  • @PamRecoveredPeace
    @PamRecoveredPeace Рік тому +57

    I specialize in teaching boundaries to wives who have been betrayed in their marriages and this message was spot on in every way. Lots of nuggets of truth, insight and perspective here. Thank you Lysa :)

    • @desertcat3
      @desertcat3 Рік тому +4

      This is why I'm here don't know where to go after those boundaries are broken again when do you say when

    • @PamRecoveredPeace
      @PamRecoveredPeace Рік тому +11

      @desertcat3 you get physical and emotional space and express protest about the hurtful behavior, and ask for what behavior you need to see instead. And the space is in effect UNTIL they
      Apologize
      Own it without blaming anything or anyone else
      Acknowledge the pain it caused you
      Explain what they will do differently next time
      Offer to make amends, do something to try to refill the good emotions they took away
      Make the words true with changed behavior
      And work to earn back your trust.

    • @yolandachoate7932
      @yolandachoate7932 Рік тому +4

      Thank you Lysa, struggling to build boundaries, with people that don't realize that they are not right at times.

    • @shanefisher6605
      @shanefisher6605 Рік тому +1

      @Pam Blizzard do you have a website or reference for counseling if one is in this situation of boundaries they do not respect and repeatedly are emotionally insincere and hurtful?

  • @IvanSanchez-cs1co
    @IvanSanchez-cs1co Рік тому +5

    Thank you Jesus, I was homeless, until Jesus remembered me and sent me a good broker MRS SARAH ANN HEIM, She helped me a lot and my life totally changed... Hallelujah, Our Lord Jesus have lifted up my life!!!

    • @ameliawilliams8522
      @ameliawilliams8522 Рік тому

      @Charles John how can I reach out to Sarah's
      services???

    • @okoogbuka5725
      @okoogbuka5725 Рік тому

      Wooow that woman her good work has been everywhere, feel more confident investing with her..

  • @sheila9371
    @sheila9371 Рік тому +41

    I love Lisa and her teachings. Forgive what you cant forget is wonderful.

  • @saragharibi5976
    @saragharibi5976 Рік тому +3

    Your church is lucky to have such an amazing speaker. I believe every church/mosque/etc in every religion needs to have someone to advocate for mental health in a way that their followers will be open to listen to the message, and to make it understandable for them. This lady has the skill set for that, and that's amazing.

  • @gud9706
    @gud9706 Рік тому +5

    46:10-47:30 "You're hesitant to draw a boundary because you're so afraid that the other person will take something from you that they give you that you're not sure you'd be okay without. We will always desperately want from other people what we fear our God will not provide. Keep your eyes on the master."

  • @thechristianmom4716
    @thechristianmom4716 Рік тому +4

    Wow God tries to protect us from pain when He tells us to obey His Word. He knows what’s best for us. Just like an earthly loving father protects his children. He is the beginning and the end. Let’s trust His heart and lean not on your own understanding and all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your path” ❤💡

  • @crystaljohnson997
    @crystaljohnson997 Рік тому +138

    TONIGHT, I LOST MY HOME TO EVICTION FOR MYSELF AND MY KIDS AND MY DOG. WE HAVE NO WHERE TO GO.. PLEASE PRAY FOR GODS WAY FOR US ALL...

    • @robertnonaka8701
      @robertnonaka8701 Рік тому +8

      Praying for you. Praying that God will protect and comfort you.

    • @Silver-cl2bd
      @Silver-cl2bd Рік тому +19

      Jehovah Jireh, Lord, You are our provider!! Open every single door and opportunity needed to provide for their situation! Meet them! Provide for them! Comfort them and pour out your Love upon them during this whole process. We thank you now, in advance, in good faith that we will see your glory in this! Amen 💓

    • @nnekolo6183
      @nnekolo6183 Рік тому +4

      God will continue to keep you and provide for you Crystal Johnson in Jesus Name, Amen 💖🤲🏿🔥

    • @krystalhairston1979
      @krystalhairston1979 Рік тому +4

      🙏🙏

    • @erikmc6385
      @erikmc6385 Рік тому +4

      God please provide for this family in need. In Jesus's name. Amen

  • @christinabrown2533
    @christinabrown2533 Рік тому +38

    Listening to this sermon made me realize and understand more of why I don’t have healthy boundaries and a good relationship with my dad.

  • @torrencebuckner5685
    @torrencebuckner5685 Рік тому +2

    I think I've found a new family óf believers!

  • @OnlyJesusStudio
    @OnlyJesusStudio Рік тому +9

    "Boundaries are God's idea. Adults inform, children explain. Never take your eyes of the master." I love the diving story💦😄!! Keep your eyes on Jesus🔥

  • @charnellestarkey9497
    @charnellestarkey9497 Рік тому +1

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR FURTICK

  • @MrsHMLong
    @MrsHMLong Рік тому +4

    Happy birthday Pastor Steven 🥳🥳🥳 God bless you more than you/we can even imagine! You are appreciated so very much! 💙

  • @1969LRS
    @1969LRS Рік тому +1

    Boundaries are necessary. Certainly have seen the dysfunction in my family and how they have used me for years. But that knowledge has caused me to set boundaries for me and walk away now. God has opened doors I never thought would happen. Clearly each door presented is from God and I am so amazed and thankful.

  • @jinsepiphany
    @jinsepiphany Рік тому +10

    Boundaries isnt just GOOD for you, it’s GOD’s for you 🤩

  • @mariatripp
    @mariatripp Рік тому

    🙏🙏🙏 Keep your eye on the Master, Thank you Lord I love you ❤️

  • @tahomalewis2300
    @tahomalewis2300 Рік тому +24

    What a blessing to hear Lysa preach. I just finished reading her new book. I enjoyed how she delivered this delicate message at Elevation.

  • @almarioantaran947
    @almarioantaran947 Рік тому

    Godbless, CHURCH OF GOD, PASTORS ❤ MINISTERS, BROTHERS & SISTERS ❤ FAMILIES, CHILDREN'S ❤ GLORY BE TO GOD.❤ ,

  • @pnew2565
    @pnew2565 Рік тому +14

    Amen - thank you Lysa - glad you faced the truth and stopped marketing forgiveness in a relationship that simply hadn't shown you any remorse or desire to restore. All the effort was from you. You look great and free.

    • @catrinagodon8989
      @catrinagodon8989 Рік тому

      Exactly! I kept my humility, a teaching of Jesus and kept going back and expecting better from that other person. I allowed the mistreatment because I thought that was WJWD. I now realize the difference between forgiveness, good (& required) goodbyes, and why we need to set healthy boundaries. Trust Him and keep looking up for His guidance to let you know that you've already learned those lessons that are preparing you for the next chapter in your life.

  • @funananimunzhelele8650
    @funananimunzhelele8650 3 місяці тому +1

    What a beautiful sermon on boundaries. Indeed a word of introspection on our relationships. Thank God for ministering this to the world 🌎. Never take off your eyes off the master.

  • @mchristr
    @mchristr Рік тому +100

    Christians, let's be careful that we don't view our faith as primarily therapeutic, and all about our happiness. Jesus has promised us suffering and hardship as a way to rid us of our self-centered lives. And yes, that means that often we are called to suffer for the sins of others. But our sufferings are ultimately producing hope in us (Romans 5:3).

    • @theresagorduyn8132
      @theresagorduyn8132 4 місяці тому +14

      I'm standing for my marriage. My spouse has walked away from God. The battle is not with him. So I have created boundaries with God's lead. He has asked me to stand. My husband sees my meekness as weakness but God still asks this of me. So I agree with you, every one has a personal walk with Him. I learn things here, but apply what God shows me.

    • @bonnieboulter9486
      @bonnieboulter9486 2 місяці тому

      Of course there is a place for suffering. Pls look up Joni Erikson who if you don't know who ahe is, broke her neck at age 18, resulting in quadriplegic and now in her 70's. She talks a lot about suffering. But somebody else isn't causing it. At what point do you continue to suffer under the hands of someone else? Lysa used really simple examples. But what if the other is guilty of one or more of the 4 A's: abuse, adultery, addiction, abandonment. That's not Jesus plan. Lysa made it clear and she is not alone; Christian counsellers/ therapists/ authors state much the same; what is measuring stick? When your physical, emotional and spiritual health is compromised. Something will give and it's not good or holy. If children are also involved there can be terrible damage. That has been researched thoroughly that even FOTF acknowledges, when change is not going to occur as needed by the other person and family at risk for damage, one may have to take serious steps. Also look up Dr Henry Cloud who is the co-author of the book"Boundaries". You can listen to his podcasts on youbtube.

    • @bonnieboulter9486
      @bonnieboulter9486 2 місяці тому

      But not to be door mats for abuse. . Her statement, "Jesus did not lay his life down to enable bad behavior to continue." Think his continued responses to the pharisees. He challenged their behavior. Talk about boundaries. He even walked thru them. They could not stop or destroy Him until the purposed time. As regards to suffering; again, NOT for bad behavior or abuse. Unavoidable suffering...THE CROSS, a higher purpose. If you want to hear a Christlike position on suffering, UA-cam Joni Erickson Tada. Who became quadriplegic at 18 and is now in her 70's.

    • @mpbeautyboss
      @mpbeautyboss Місяць тому +1

      I don't get it 😕

    • @dollypardonthemess4153
      @dollypardonthemess4153 28 днів тому +1

      @@mpbeautybossthe verses in Romans tell us that there is suffering, there is more sin but with that there is more grace that increases with it. That’s what God gives us sin+more sin=grace. We will suffer

  • @angiejagroep1513
    @angiejagroep1513 2 місяці тому

    Finally somebody Who understand me!!! Boundaries 👏👏👌👌

  • @ruthinha_ruby_kirkendorfer3771

    " adults inform ... children explain" 🎤‼️

  • @feliciamarte3031
    @feliciamarte3031 Рік тому

    Thank u worship person God, Bless, Bless u and the world♥️🌈♥️

  • @juneandjesus
    @juneandjesus Рік тому +35

    Amazing words of wisdom from the Lord, Lysa. Thank you! Only recently I had noticed the words 'separated' mentioned many times in Genesis1. You have given a new meaning to the word ' boundaries' - to love people without losing ourselves in dysfunction, all the while keeping our eyes on the Master! HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR STEVEN.. YOU BLESS US EVERY WEEK. May God bless you and continue to guide you with wisdom 🙏

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Рік тому

      We're struggling with boundaries...help!🚮🚮🔹🔹

  • @rangy1222
    @rangy1222 Рік тому +1

    Amen help me God so that l will not take my eyes off the Master

  • @operationsmossa9896
    @operationsmossa9896 Рік тому +6

    Glory be to God! Amen for this word, I recieve it!

  • @freeme529
    @freeme529 Рік тому

    Happy, Happy Birthday!! We LOVE You!!

  • @cora-marienelson8876
    @cora-marienelson8876 Рік тому +9

    I think this is maybe the best teaching on boundaries I have ever seen! Thank you Lysa!

  • @christylee35004
    @christylee35004 Рік тому

    Keep your eyes on the dive master. Children explain, adults inform. Powerful Powerful words

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Рік тому +9

    A timely word for my right now. Thank you, Lysa!!

  • @mochristiancy-ve3gb
    @mochristiancy-ve3gb Рік тому

    Woohoo🎉🎁happy birthday Pastor Steven 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @maryadeniran1643
    @maryadeniran1643 Рік тому +4

    Happy Birthday Pastor Steven!!! GOD Bless you and may you have so many more, Psalm 91:16, in JESUS's Mighty Wonderful Name AMENNNN and AMENNN!!!!🙏🙏☺️🥳🥳🥳🎂

  • @lumkaedaniell655
    @lumkaedaniell655 Рік тому +2

    We always want from other people what we fear our God won't provide 🙏

  • @girlaboutlife
    @girlaboutlife Рік тому +9

    Thank you Lord for this message that you shared through Lysa. I have been doing on this amazing journey with God and my therapist where I am finding my voice and setting boundaries in places that I had never considered before. This message solidified that this is a Godly thing and I am on the right path.

  • @MeeMee-fd6lm
    @MeeMee-fd6lm 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for this. God bless elevation church.....❤❤❤

  • @cassandrayoung7612
    @cassandrayoung7612 Рік тому +8

    Wow! This was such an "On Time" message. God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️

  • @ParisWiggins
    @ParisWiggins Рік тому +6

    This is an amazing word. Thank you Jesus🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Anne-l6d
    @Anne-l6d Рік тому +1

    Thanks Jesus for this sermon, its okay to say No.

  • @erikmc6385
    @erikmc6385 Рік тому +6

    Happy birthday Stephen Furtick. We appreciate you and love you. Your very special and I appreciate you delivering God's word in a way that goes straight to my soul.

  • @marykey1996
    @marykey1996 Місяць тому

    I needed this so much! I know this is why anxiety and depression came back into my life

  • @marthabejarano8437
    @marthabejarano8437 Рік тому +5

    Such a great blessing to hear the word of God from Lysa Terkeurst!!
    What a great lesson on boundaries!🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Рік тому

      If it weren't for this teaching, then we're having a hard time establishing boundaries! Now what?🕯️🕯️💡💡

  • @dawnstewart237
    @dawnstewart237 Рік тому

    Happy Birthday Pastor Furtick ! 🎉

  • @bridgetmeredith2518
    @bridgetmeredith2518 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for this AMAZINGLY EMPOWERING message! God bless you

  • @jennamtee
    @jennamtee Рік тому +5

    Happy Birthday Pastor! 🥳 thank you for sharing your preachings online. I hope you had a great day 🙏🏼

  • @almarioantaran947
    @almarioantaran947 4 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤ HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR, STEVEN FURTICK.❤ BLESSING ❤ WE PRAY FOR YOU ,AMEN❤

  • @Ckrissy013
    @Ckrissy013 Рік тому +7

    46:58 what Lysa said right here, made me clinch my chest. This word was one of those messages that you know was meant for you 😢!

    • @jenniferhill89
      @jenniferhill89 Рік тому

      She opened my eyes and my mind so much!! Wow wow, all my excuses gone, I am laying down my wants and needs in the name of "love and hope" but I am just enabling bad behaviour😢

  • @donnalazza8429
    @donnalazza8429 Рік тому +4

    That was one of the most beautiful sermons I have ever heard in my lifetime. So eloquent…

  • @khuckleberry72
    @khuckleberry72 Рік тому +1

    Keep your eyes on the Master! He will help us to be the best version we can be!

  • @anxietyrecoverycom
    @anxietyrecoverycom Рік тому +3

    Happy Birthday pastor Steven! I am so grateful for you and your family!! Thank you for all you've given and sacrificed to be used by Jesus to bless others!!

    • @ogundiranmartha4405
      @ogundiranmartha4405 Рік тому +1

      Happy belated birthday Steven furick.This message is prime and quiet needed in this Season...,thank you Lisa

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Рік тому

      Another year around the sun for this pastor!💯💯💯💯💯

  • @mishellepitts8677
    @mishellepitts8677 Рік тому

    I 💕 HOLLY!! SHE ALWAYS BLESSES ME WITH HER SPIRIT!!

  • @diamondbaby6970
    @diamondbaby6970 Рік тому +5

    I love this lady OMG i totally felt her vibe and i'm gonna take her advice 🙏🗣️I needed to hear this Feliz Cumpleaños 🎊🎂 Pastor Stevens 🙏💯👑You and Your wife and this guest speaker rock wow i love Yall

  • @sooocreativedesignsdecorwi2842
    @sooocreativedesignsdecorwi2842 15 днів тому +1

    Thank

  • @bigfrankentertainment
    @bigfrankentertainment Рік тому +3

    happy birthday Pastor Steven! and thank you for having this wonderful woman on to preach!

  • @debbierast3581
    @debbierast3581 5 місяців тому

    Thank you, and I’ve have plenty of disfunction in my life..
    boundaries have allowed me to live healthier, happier,and have better relationships.. TU ❤

  • @samonefrelix65
    @samonefrelix65 Рік тому +6

    Have a wonderful and blessed birthday Pastor Steven🤍🎊 I pray God continues to speak his words through you and also continue to bless you your family and this amazing ministry ❤.

  • @MarionBrady-un5of
    @MarionBrady-un5of 2 місяці тому

    Happy birthday have an amazing blessed birthday and day. I listen to you all the time.

  • @jessicaking-staino3019
    @jessicaking-staino3019 Рік тому +4

    🦋Great message, thanks for posting, God bless!

  • @MichelleWimett-x7q
    @MichelleWimett-x7q Рік тому +1

    This teaching was awesome totally spoke to me that I’m ok

  • @Mslee0415
    @Mslee0415 Рік тому +3

    Great message!!! Happy Birthday Pastor!!! 🎉

  • @thatsjustneti
    @thatsjustneti Рік тому +1

    I love you @Lysa

  • @Mandachu85
    @Mandachu85 Рік тому +9

    You have no idea how badly I needed this message today! I have drawn my boundaries and on Wednesday need to start firm in them because if I don’t I’ll be living in the dysfunction! You just Showed God wants me to set healthy boundaries and he supports them!!! Thank you for this message!! ❤🙏Amen!

    • @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney
      @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney Рік тому

      Boundaries are needed asap, pray take action...maybe add some humor at first but firm Boundaries saved my marriage

  • @nonsonlantlife
    @nonsonlantlife Рік тому +1

    I love this and thank God for helping those of us who people please, and take on the burden/responsibility of we think someone else may feel if we don’t help them or give in. Some may not understand but those of us that deal with this need to hear this in line with the scriptures because we ultimately want to please God (as much as it is humanly possible).

  • @tammyhightower8594
    @tammyhightower8594 Рік тому +26

    Please pray for me my best friend we were so close that she was more like a sister...she suddenly passed away Monday night in her sleep... I know she's where she's wanted to be for years but I'm devastated... I feel lost... pray for me and her cousin Susan please

    • @Thankful305
      @Thankful305 Рік тому +2

      Oh Tammy ~ I know it's been a week since you wrote this BUT, I can feel your pain and hurt. May our Father hold you and help you through this difficult time. In Jesus ♥Name~ AMEN!

    • @paddikeller
      @paddikeller Рік тому

      I am so sorry my preson passed a year ago and it still kills me. Hugs.

    • @elevationchurch
      @elevationchurch  Рік тому +2

      Tammy we are praying for you and Susan today and grieving with you during your time of loss. Nothing in life can prepare us for the death of a loved one, but we have a God who is sufficient in comforting us during our time of grief. Lord God, we ask that you touch Tammy and Susan today and let them feel your comfort. Your word promises us that you heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds and we petition you today to heal the broken hearts of these women. We are trusting in your word that you, Lord, are near to the brokenhearted and save the crushed in spirit. We thank you for your abundant love, mercy and grace and ask you to wipe away every tear from their eyes and fill their hearts with your joy. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

  • @c.c.moreland2233
    @c.c.moreland2233 Рік тому +1

    Yes & Amen her teaching is on fire she is amazing 👏

  • @audreytravis3982
    @audreytravis3982 Рік тому +5

    So great to hear a message from Lysa Terkeurst! I am doing a book study with a friend, and the book we are studying is Uninvited. This book is wonderful. God is using Lysa’s book to show us patterns, perspectives and behaviors that we have obtained through rejection and abandonment. Thank you Lysa for putting into words your most private memories. Thank you Pastor Steven and family for your hard work and dedication and thank you Elevation Church staff for your dedication and hard work as well!

    • @Jamie-rc5kl
      @Jamie-rc5kl Рік тому

      Did you get this on your page to about being a winner. Lol of a giveaway.

    • @audreytravis3982
      @audreytravis3982 Рік тому

      @@Jamie-rc5kl yes just ignoring it. Kinda sad that people use Elevation Church name for their own agenda..

    • @Jamie-rc5kl
      @Jamie-rc5kl Рік тому +1

      @@audreytravis3982 Yes had downloaded telegram and thought something not right so I Uninstalled it. I was looking at a lot of post that had similar to these so I muted that person ignored. Thanks for getting back to let me know.

  • @samanthasullivan5132
    @samanthasullivan5132 Рік тому

    HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTER STEVE!!

  • @aprildavis1034
    @aprildavis1034 Рік тому +4

    Happy birthday, Pastor! 🎉🎉

  • @leratomusi4595
    @leratomusi4595 Рік тому +5

    Happy belated birthday 🎂 Ps Steven, thank you so much for what God is doing through you. We so appreciate it

  • @wombakazembe6610
    @wombakazembe6610 Рік тому

    Happy belated birthday pastor Steven Furtick

  • @karenlegg1131
    @karenlegg1131 Рік тому +3

    Wow I can’t believe the sermon was meant for me for sure thank you very much great ❤God bless you and your wisdom

  • @luckyray577
    @luckyray577 3 місяці тому

    Learning boundaries and to rely on God rather than others. Going thru a hard time, my partner is God. No human. My confidence is in God. My love is in God.

  • @melissamoreno3088
    @melissamoreno3088 Рік тому +5

    You rocked this sermon!!! Just what I needed ❤ God Bless you and ur family

  • @almarioantaran947
    @almarioantaran947 Рік тому

    ❤ HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR STEVEN FURTICK❤ GODBLESS TO YOU ❤

  • @victoriavidaindigo7596
    @victoriavidaindigo7596 Рік тому +3

    Happy Birthday Pastor Steven !!! 🥳🎊🎉

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Рік тому

    Yes, the book of Joshua!!
    Happy bday Pastor Furtick!

  • @kristinesearles8482
    @kristinesearles8482 Рік тому +3

    Happy Birthday Pastor Steven!!! Hope it's as fantastic as you and your sermons are.

  • @LucyKimble-s4j
    @LucyKimble-s4j 4 місяці тому +1

    Well done. (I am grateful those special garments mentioned still exist today.) 😊

  • @heyitsfiance
    @heyitsfiance Рік тому +5

    Happy birthday Pastor Steven!❤️🥰

  • @kimberlytate2623
    @kimberlytate2623 Рік тому +9

    "HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR STEVEN"🙏✝️❤😇🎂🍨

  • @myramariaharris3078
    @myramariaharris3078 Рік тому

    Happy belated birthday... pastor Steven 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈❤️🥰