I'm an intj married to an esfp. Thanks for this video. It helped me to know I was on the right track with my thoughts about esfps. I think you encapsulated esfp very well. My husband is very successful . His job is in a rather dangerous field that is ever changing, so that could be what works for him. He is sometimes spontaneous, but in a very genuine way I find endearing. The biggest struggle we have had is criticism. I am trying to help when I give it, but it can hurt him. Also he tries to use humor when I am getting "too intense" about a subject. That's pretty hit or miss. Lol. Mostly we see each other as having qualities we wish we had more of. We trust, love and learn a lot from each other.
Well I think she’s more Ne when it cones to eye movement, but I also feel so you for you that you got that treatment from her, typology should not be that serious business.
@@lojjo18Nooni Yeah, some were saying Ne back on her type police video. She takes her "business" (all she seems to think this is, not a free intellectual domain) very seriously. Her personality database profile voted her ESFP by hundreds and she forced it be be shut down. Then went on an interview and said why would she care about a bunch of 14 year old basement dwellers (3 of us I know are adults) and that our arguments consisted of her being too pretty to be an INTJ (wtf citation needed). She also deleted one of their comments on her channel which respectfully explained the typing and was getting likes. And she's been involed in suspicious advertising practices with likely fake accounts for her business Snugg. You can go to r/intj and search LiJo, especially the newest Medium comment.
I'm INFP. Just reunited with my 17 yr old ESFP son after a 13 year absence. Thanks for this. So different than my type but very likable & comfortable rapport. Although the tend to easily tire me lol
I am a INTP-Twho is a brutal fact taler and if someon who disagreas will be buenes i hade a suspision if my Big sister is a ESFP and i got tierd of hear bulshit including my father, and i was the only one who could send her back to place. She dident talk back after since cuz i caled her a brain dead freek that she could not tell from reality or a dream and she used the past as a argument I told her «that has alredy happend idiot and ther is nothing you can do aboute it, but you need to see in the future and the present and not hold the past to muth you are not a kid animore but a adult»
I'm sorry I was texting somebody back and forth and they are arguing with me and I was watching this at the same time so everything I said doesn't make sense but when I was texting it and watching this I forgot I was watching this and I was texting somebody and it came on this instead if that makes sense
That's why I showed it to you that's why you don't understand me that's why I'm the way I am and you don't want to understand that people are different to me it's normal to another infp it's normal that's why you seem to want to fight with me all the time and to me that doesn't make sense but if you don't want to learn about why people are the way they are then you always be angry with people and not understanding them
I'm an intj married to an esfp. Thanks for this video. It helped me to know I was on the right track with my thoughts about esfps. I think you encapsulated esfp very well. My husband is very successful . His job is in a rather dangerous field that is ever changing, so that could be what works for him.
He is sometimes spontaneous, but in a very genuine way I find endearing.
The biggest struggle we have had is criticism. I am trying to help when I give it, but it can hurt him. Also he tries to use humor when I am getting "too intense" about a subject. That's pretty hit or miss. Lol. Mostly we see each other as having qualities we wish we had more of. We trust, love and learn a lot from each other.
Love the bit about Se vs Ne possibilities
And wish I could differentiate between both when it comes to reading character personalities
Thank you for the effort
Great video! I love your perspective and how you describe things in an easy to understand way. Thank you for the kind words about us ESFPs! 👏
22:40 yep. That’s very true about us. I am totally directionless a lot of the time.
Beautiful and informative! I hope LiJo can see this and eventually accept her type. Though it seems she blocked my link from view so probably not?...
Well I think she’s more Ne when it cones to eye movement, but I also feel so you for you that you got that treatment from her, typology should not be that serious business.
@@lojjo18Nooni Yeah, some were saying Ne back on her type police video. She takes her "business" (all she seems to think this is, not a free intellectual domain) very seriously. Her personality database profile voted her ESFP by hundreds and she forced it be be shut down. Then went on an interview and said why would she care about a bunch of 14 year old basement dwellers (3 of us I know are adults) and that our arguments consisted of her being too pretty to be an INTJ (wtf citation needed). She also deleted one of their comments on her channel which respectfully explained the typing and was getting likes. And she's been involed in suspicious advertising practices with likely fake accounts for her business Snugg. You can go to r/intj and search LiJo, especially the newest Medium comment.
@@xkenny-personalitydatabase5604 that’s toxic tbh, OPS has a very huge popularity and LiJo is one of those who got typed by this system
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I'm INFP. Just reunited with my 17 yr old ESFP son after a 13 year absence. Thanks for this. So different than my type but very likable & comfortable rapport. Although the tend to easily tire me lol
The one dislike is a person who's jealous of your success
Thank you for your kind words about my type!
Hi! Thank you! Great day! 🤗
- INFP 9 926
Please do one on ESFJs
Thank you!!!!
I think Donald Trump is an ESFP who aspires to be an ENTJ mafia boss.
🥰☺🤙thx!
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I am a INTP-Twho is a brutal fact taler and if someon who disagreas will be buenes i hade a suspision if my Big sister is a ESFP and i got tierd of hear bulshit including my father, and i was the only one who could send her back to place. She dident talk back after since cuz i caled her a brain dead freek that she could not tell from reality or a dream and she used the past as a argument I told her «that has alredy happend idiot and ther is nothing you can do aboute it, but you need to see in the future and the present and not hold the past to muth you are not a kid animore but a adult»
I'm sorry I was texting somebody back and forth and they are arguing with me and I was watching this at the same time so everything I said doesn't make sense but when I was texting it and watching this I forgot I was watching this and I was texting somebody and it came on this instead if that makes sense
That's why I showed it to you that's why you don't understand me that's why I'm the way I am and you don't want to understand that people are different to me it's normal to another infp it's normal that's why you seem to want to fight with me all the time and to me that doesn't make sense but if you don't want to learn about why people are the way they are then you always be angry with people and not understanding them
Okay sure it's whatever you say you have a good night bye