The Harsh Truth About Being Single in Your 30s

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  • Опубліковано 9 січ 2025

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  • @UmmYusuf40
    @UmmYusuf40 3 дні тому +3

    Allahumma barik you have beautiful energy and confidence, continue being you. The unwanted advice / comments don't stop once your married, so it's best to avoid people that feel entitled. Your loved ones will want the best for you and will accept your views , that's all that you need. Wish you all the best sis

  • @LemonGardenWives
    @LemonGardenWives 3 дні тому +2

    Shereen, salam, your warm bread story made me smile😃-it’s so spot on💥 ! In my personal life and in my work with wives, I’ve seen that waiting for the right time doesn’t lead to perfect marriages (let’s be real, no such thing exists!) but to ones that feel sweeter than the rest and zestier sometimes 🍋(I know personally three marriages like these).So here’s to warm bread and a little sweet in life!" !

  • @kessocamara9191
    @kessocamara9191 2 дні тому +1

    This topic was so enlightening, thank you so much ❤

  • @Somethingintherain
    @Somethingintherain Годину тому

    You are such a gem!!

  • @MASHAH-ym8uz
    @MASHAH-ym8uz 4 дні тому +1

    Yllah… I was talking to you all the time in my mind during this session… I love you girl and the energy and everything coming out of your mouth felt so us ❤❤❤❤

  • @a.m.access
    @a.m.access 4 дні тому +20

    Being a single woman is a great blessing - No Energy waste on men 👍

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  4 дні тому

      😂😂😂

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 3 дні тому +2

      Here we go again with the bashing men thing 🙄

    • @ashfoyowa6689
      @ashfoyowa6689 3 дні тому +2

      They are clueless and bitter. Which is why they are single. I've got no problem with them being old and single but if they were so happy would the be mentioning men every chance they get

  • @saquibdawre8415
    @saquibdawre8415 4 дні тому

    Thanks sheen I have been watching your podcast since last year and I am happy to see you this year also.keep going we learn lots of things from your channel.

  • @adamabubaker4850
    @adamabubaker4850 День тому

    there is a hadith which says "What has come to you was never meant to miss you, and what has missed you was never meant to come to you" can be explained as follows:
    This hadith emphasizes the concept of qadar (divine decree) in Islam. It teaches that everything that happens in a person's life, whether good or bad, is preordained by Allah. Whatever befalls a person was always meant to happen, and whatever does not happen to them was never destined for them. It highlights the importance of having trust in Allah’s plan, accepting life’s events with patience, and understanding that nothing happens by chance or outside of Allah's will. This belief brings comfort and helps a person deal with challenges and uncertainties in life.

  • @rilwanoyekoya4152
    @rilwanoyekoya4152 2 дні тому

    I'm so proud of you, Dr Sheen. You spoke eloquently with taqwa. You're indeed an asset. Look forward to meeting you one day.
    Single life is preparatory stage for successful marriage. And, i think you've judiciously utilized the stage by being a PhD holder at somewhat very young age.
    Once again, i'm absolutely PROUD of you, Dr. Sheen. We share the same school of thoughts. That's why I'm using my single life to develop physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually until i meet the lady i 'click' with, InshaAllah.

  • @sobiak92
    @sobiak92 4 дні тому

    Girl, I love you so much - just listening to you makes me so happy because your so lovely

  • @nasraeid1147
    @nasraeid1147 4 дні тому

    Well said sheen l like the way you presented that story talking about two men who were really striving.

  • @priscillaabere9984
    @priscillaabere9984 3 дні тому

    Thanks for this, Sheen.

  • @Cristanoronaldo-x3d
    @Cristanoronaldo-x3d 3 години тому

    waching from nepal 🇳🇵 , Your voice 😮wow

  • @sabrinahandsome8278
    @sabrinahandsome8278 3 дні тому

    As a married woman in her 30s, I can’t imagine being this way with my single friends. I think I got pretty lucky with my husband so I wouldn’t have useful advice to give anyway 😂. I am so happy that my friends have grown up and have standards now which means they aren’t making the same mistakes as they did in their 20s.
    There’s beauty in singleness, no matter what age.

  • @AishaAzmat-h2j
    @AishaAzmat-h2j 5 днів тому +7

    I m 40 . unmarried.

  • @smbenglishsmbmotivation
    @smbenglishsmbmotivation 4 дні тому

    YOUR GREAT WORDS ALWAYS GIVE ME GREAT IDEAS...

  • @Lisa_MikMak
    @Lisa_MikMak 5 днів тому +11

    I think it's badass and strong to wait when you find the RIGHT person and not marrying the wrong one 😉

  • @Shortstories-Tellers
    @Shortstories-Tellers День тому

    You remind me of my one of my good friends ❤

  • @Shortstories-Tellers
    @Shortstories-Tellers 2 дні тому

    You are correct ❤

  • @ivyjerono8927
    @ivyjerono8927 4 дні тому

    Yess sheen increase the volume for the people at the back😅🎉🎉

  • @Sandy83
    @Sandy83 3 дні тому

    I always feel confident and whole as a single gal, making my own money, investing and shopping for a home - until this question gets asked.

  • @caseerdiiriye8519
    @caseerdiiriye8519 4 дні тому

    Marry is no problem when you get good person don't scared tray also make sure person background thank you

  • @chesschessable
    @chesschessable 5 днів тому +10

    There's nothing wrong with being single at any age...

  • @AlinkumarAlinkumar
    @AlinkumarAlinkumar 4 дні тому

    you probably shouldn’t read the book Magnetic Aura if you’re cool with missing out on how attraction really works.

  • @BruzeGa4
    @BruzeGa4 4 дні тому

    seriously, don’t pick up the book Magnetic Aura unless you’re ready to see things differently, no joke.

  • @hamimaa2190
    @hamimaa2190 3 дні тому

    Truee❤

  • @sarveshmathuri113
    @sarveshmathuri113 4 дні тому

    Magnetic Aura book by Takeshi Mizuki ain’t for everyone, it’s for people who actually want to get ahead.

  • @ozzycortes
    @ozzycortes День тому +2

    You don’t have to listen to what society tells you.

  • @banandababa
    @banandababa 5 днів тому +6

    Yeah being over the age of 30 and single is so jarring only because of other people’s reactions to it. It’s quite weird because at 27 for example we are seeing as young but a small 3 years later you are considered OLD it’s crazy.

    • @banandababa
      @banandababa 5 днів тому +3

      I relate to this so much. People find it so weird that my parents aren’t pressuring me about this in the slightest. Of course I would like a companion, but I’m not willing to just go for anyone because I’m older. We can search and if it happens it happens, and if it doesn’t it’s okay and I’m fine with Allah’s decree. Also, I will never believe it’s too late. Is anything impossible when we ask almighty Allah with sincere Dua?

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  4 дні тому

      Litetally crazy behaviour! InshAllah!!

    • @Sandy83
      @Sandy83 3 дні тому

      We are literally avocado's

    • @banandababa
      @banandababa 3 дні тому

      @ huh?

  • @KaranDhru-nm7lf
    @KaranDhru-nm7lf 4 дні тому

    if you’re not ready for real change, skip the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s too much for most people.

  • @quietE23
    @quietE23 День тому

    Thank you sister 🥰 may Allah grant you the best in this life in the next.
    It may include a pious husband or not, Allahu ahlem. Just a reminder that our #1 goal as Muslims is to worship Allah, not to get married. As long as a spouse is a mean to this goal then fine, if not, then there is something to work on. In sha Allah you'll find the best husband at the best time ❤

  • @eswarraotummalapalli9512
    @eswarraotummalapalli9512 4 дні тому

    don’t read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki if you’re fine staying like everyone else, it’s not for you.

  • @mariyam_bashir
    @mariyam_bashir 2 дні тому

    🤍

  • @cismaanmuxumad6798
    @cismaanmuxumad6798 4 дні тому

    You getting mariage becouse there is biological time thate near to findhed you.

  • @DevVyas-od2yo
    @DevVyas-od2yo 4 дні тому +71

    you probably shouldn’t read the book Magnetic Aura if you’re cool with missing out on how attraction really works.