TIPS AND TRICKS FOR BLACK WOMEN TO HELP YOU CHAT WITH MEN ONLINE

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  • TIPS AND TRICKS FOR BLACK WOMEN TO HELP YOU CHAT WITH MEN ONLINE,In this video iam going to be sharing with you the tips and trics for black women to help you chat with men online.Most of my subscribers have been asking me,Bella,how can i chat with a mn online dating apps for the first time?,how can i respond or how can i aproach a man on online dating apps?what are those perfect wods to write in that first message to a guy online?I know if you have never been on online dating apps questions like thses will sound wired to you but the truth is when you are online dating apps that first message is so important coz the way you respond or aproach a guy will tell if you are serious,know what you wnat or you just desparate.So in this video iam helping you not fall in the hands of wrong men and know those tips and tricks on how to chat with men online as a black woman.So will share with you in this video two categories of how to chat with men online,The first is if the guy sends you a message and the second is if you are the one to aproach,how to do it the right way?
    please watch this video to the end iam sure it will be of a help to you.
    #tipsandtricksforblackwomentohelpyouchatwithmenonline
    #onlinedatingtipsforblackwomen
    #interacialdatingonline
    / ikson

КОМЕНТАРІ • 242

  • @miriamkabuo3658
    @miriamkabuo3658 2 роки тому +20

    Thank you Bella , i Hope the majority of women here who are active on your page will return with good testimonies

  • @FebineAwuor
    @FebineAwuor 2 роки тому +8

    These are awesome tips that everyone should look up to. There's so many red flags that people should check on online dating. First message says a lot about someone. You can easily tell their intentions.

  • @lucie25422
    @lucie25422 2 роки тому +4

    My goodness, you really give alot, even how to respond.. God bless you and may your channel grow more to help many ladies

  • @BRENDAKALUNGI-p6z
    @BRENDAKALUNGI-p6z 9 місяців тому +1

    seriously i now know why ive been failing thanks God i found you stay blessed

  • @matsidisojulia
    @matsidisojulia 4 місяці тому +1

    Bella I thank God through you really to mentoring African women. This is so powerful ministry that God gives you to help all the women's. You are really a mother to all African women, who are exposes to this kind of exposure trying to find the really life.

  • @shebacynn1320
    @shebacynn1320 8 місяців тому +1

    Girl you’ve got so good at this. I was watching you in 2019/2020 now I’m back!I know the online dating game very well but I find your story telling interesting 😂

  • @meedalina
    @meedalina 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much bella for your time,and for been sincere. Just keep been real we got your back God bless you 😀

  • @ciaobella796
    @ciaobella796 2 роки тому +3

    Desparado! 😅😅, never be desperate, I totally agree . Love these tips girl and looking mwah 😘 💕 😘😘

  • @cleopatrakhumalo9123
    @cleopatrakhumalo9123 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much I'm into dating interracial you have helped me a lot keep helping us we are learning a lot from you

  • @TwongyeirweAgatha-l6w
    @TwongyeirweAgatha-l6w 8 місяців тому

    I can't stop thanking you my African Bella, I was doing mistakes before I watched this video oh my God, I feel so embarrassed but now am going to take up what you've taught me today. God bless you my dear sister

  • @ShaniNabasirye-sh5uq
    @ShaniNabasirye-sh5uq 6 днів тому

    sis Bella thank you for helping us may God bless u

  • @SharonandFamily
    @SharonandFamily 2 роки тому +9

    You said it all mrembo. You gave all the tips and what to take notes off to avoid getting involved with those wiered people. These video is gonna be really helpful

  • @virginiabernado2616
    @virginiabernado2616 20 годин тому

    this is true respond with the same energy.a hi for a hi😂😂.

  • @glowteebeauty2
    @glowteebeauty2 2 роки тому +4

    Ey those guys that quickly say I love you before even knowing you O.M.G that’s a huge turn off lol .

  • @brendamusekiwa582
    @brendamusekiwa582 2 роки тому +6

    What would we do without you Bella ..
    I'm one person that's less words and usually don't have much to say ,and this helped me a lot.. You are a datlibv sister. .love you Bella

  • @mjnneka
    @mjnneka Рік тому +2

    I laughed a lot while watching this video 😂 thank you bella this is an eye opener.

  • @ehitywhiteRemedies
    @ehitywhiteRemedies 2 роки тому +2

    You are really a pro, the approach tip, you gave is so on point, if that is written to a guy, sure the man will definitely know that the lady is very serious and respectful. You always nailed it

  • @JudithUwase-n1b
    @JudithUwase-n1b Рік тому +1

    True Bella thanks l have been doing mistakes

  • @lucyanimuri9946
    @lucyanimuri9946 2 роки тому +2

    Bella you are so amazing, you are my favorite UA-camr girl.

  • @doreennakafeero4167
    @doreennakafeero4167 2 роки тому +3

    Wow!! I learned much,"Let him do the chess" Thanks Bella

  • @angelamkandawire7612
    @angelamkandawire7612 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks Bella ,on point as usual.

  • @asingurajoyce8970
    @asingurajoyce8970 2 роки тому +3

    Dear bella....thank you for sharing am on the kisses of Africa and all men do is just visit my profile and that's it.....I know am not all that but it scares me that i put myself all out like that😔

  • @nanaama5377
    @nanaama5377 2 роки тому +2

    You are glowing. Please give us a makeup tutorial with the products you use

  • @preciousbwalya-rs4rp
    @preciousbwalya-rs4rp 5 місяців тому

    Wow since the day i started watching you i have learned Alot and trust me I'm doing better than before

  • @StriversStrive
    @StriversStrive 6 місяців тому

    Hi Bella, I was out of love for nearly 9/10 years,, I started watching your videos this month and kind of motivated to try online dating,, I just hope it will work out for me too,, you are great,, Cheers Strivers Strive

  • @mapalokaunda7900
    @mapalokaunda7900 Рік тому +2

    Thumbs up God bless you

  • @marynakanyika689
    @marynakanyika689 Рік тому +1

    Thank u Bella u a best this is wat l was looking for God bless u shallom shallom..

  • @carolineagwang9359
    @carolineagwang9359 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for teaching me dear because all you have said is happening to me now.

  • @tido2278
    @tido2278 Місяць тому

    Thankyou Bella 😅😅i think i have made alot of mistakes 😂😂its time to learn and do things different...Much love ❤️ 😍

  • @Lydia8013
    @Lydia8013 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for encouraging us my dear

  • @janewambui8514
    @janewambui8514 Рік тому +2

    I now understand where I'm making the mistake

  • @lucie25422
    @lucie25422 2 роки тому

    Weeh.. Hiyo urembo yote mtu mmoja. The hair though👌💕

  • @buluma.lukiya283
    @buluma.lukiya283 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks soo much our sis , for being there for us, always on dating tips

  • @TheresaLerho
    @TheresaLerho 2 роки тому +2

    It's your realness always for me Bella 😍 Great Tips 👍

  • @marthakunda-nn9jc
    @marthakunda-nn9jc Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much Bella you're good to us God bless you dear
    What a great advice to us I'm greatful dear love you dear sister

  • @janeatieno4839
    @janeatieno4839 Рік тому +1

    For sure your videos educates me alot and thanks alot for the job

  • @margaretatieno1137
    @margaretatieno1137 Рік тому +1

    Information well received... Thank you

  • @SanuOfficialTV
    @SanuOfficialTV 2 роки тому +1

    nice video thanks for sharing sending my full support..stay safe and connected..keep posting New friend her

  • @normakamusoko9973
    @normakamusoko9973 28 днів тому

    Thanks for the video

  • @KasambaChilundu-ig1yj
    @KasambaChilundu-ig1yj 10 місяців тому

    Thanks so much Bella.. I needed to hear this

  • @Lydia8013
    @Lydia8013 Рік тому +2

    Hey,Bella',i got guy on line dating,he wanted woman for Marriage ' so he wanted my Whatapp number,we shared since i was Looking for serious relationship,we started chatting on Whatapp ' he wants woman who is Obedient,i asked him what he meant by that ' In his home you have to be dressed in half naked even when his son,is there,i sow this guy was not serious i wondered what he was Looking for,may be to make someone a Slave in his home or,just blocked him,

  • @ChilesheBwalyaMary
    @ChilesheBwalyaMary 4 місяці тому

    God just led me here. Wow, i must succeed on this dating app

  • @serakose7814
    @serakose7814 2 роки тому +1

    Bella you are right I thought whoever asks for phone numbers are always serious ooh its areal no and another thing those who you ask questions and don't give any response or ask any questions but only being romantic 😏😏

  • @victoriajiyana1214
    @victoriajiyana1214 Місяць тому

    Bella this is Perfect I love you dear Sister 👌

  • @miriamkabuo3658
    @miriamkabuo3658 2 роки тому +3

    You do all of these for us. Thank you sis🥰

  • @sharon_e_cephas1337
    @sharon_e_cephas1337 2 роки тому +1

    Bella uve said it all 👏👏
    thank you so much for sharing 👏👏

  • @esthermwila7830
    @esthermwila7830 Рік тому

    I have started chatting with an American white guy on OKCUPID. He's really interesting, respectful, ambitious and easy to talk to.
    God I pray he's my man cos I like him so much. 🙏🙏🙏
    ☺️☺️☺️

  • @mukisajoankabogza2586
    @mukisajoankabogza2586 2 роки тому +1

    Omg!i hv learnt something thnks so much dear

  • @conceptorotiato6110
    @conceptorotiato6110 10 місяців тому

    I have learnt a lot in this video. Thanks Bella

  • @marynakanyika689
    @marynakanyika689 Рік тому

    Thank you Bella, this is what l was looking for God bless you.

  • @Jessyqueen1962
    @Jessyqueen1962 2 роки тому +2

    African guys are more bold , they just meet u on the way and ask you for your phone number, you are right exchanging of phone number is not a must thst things will work , some of them needs your phone number to start asking for strange pictures
    There are so many players on , online dating sites for real , we should try to avoid those who ask for pictures and so many other things with out knowing each other well

  • @noziphodube7164
    @noziphodube7164 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for your tips ❤

  • @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165
    @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165 2 роки тому +1

    Information well received and thank you 💕

  • @glaqgloryaqram7511
    @glaqgloryaqram7511 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u,u get a new sub today!

  • @mariamswedy4291
    @mariamswedy4291 Рік тому

    Good information ccy we learn a lot from you

  • @maryquist1570
    @maryquist1570 2 роки тому +1

    I am interested in meeting a German, Italy, Canadian or an English man for a relationship? Which dating site should I go?

  • @tinaviolet5397
    @tinaviolet5397 Рік тому +1

    Thanks sis for these helpful ideas

  • @nawenjaresty7433
    @nawenjaresty7433 2 роки тому +1

    My sis you are so good🙏🙏

  • @celestinslihavi5526
    @celestinslihavi5526 2 роки тому +1

    Woo!you're talk Good think.

  • @Daisy-p7g
    @Daisy-p7g Рік тому

    Thanks Bella have learnt now.

  • @janeonsare6966
    @janeonsare6966 2 роки тому +1

    Have really stayed in this dating apps 3 yrs now I have not got anything fruitful 💔😓😓😓

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  2 роки тому +1

      Sorry i think you take a break and when you feel ready again come back coz its possible

  • @majidzaitun9311
    @majidzaitun9311 Рік тому +1

    Wawo thanks a lot dear I have learnt a lot from this video.

  • @kfnuae7539
    @kfnuae7539 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Bella for your information

  • @Bertila-pk1xw
    @Bertila-pk1xw Місяць тому

    My problem is many white guys are sending me long messages and most of them are lawyers and doctors 😊but am i don't know how to respond because i feel most of them are lying

  • @judithtestimony6369
    @judithtestimony6369 2 роки тому +1

    Waiting patiently

  • @opioivan6498
    @opioivan6498 Рік тому +1

    Thank u Bella coz i have been making a big mistake

  • @UmuhozaDivine-e5q
    @UmuhozaDivine-e5q 10 місяців тому

    How to join your channel membership Bella?

  • @msolokaulumbi3226
    @msolokaulumbi3226 2 роки тому +1

    God Bless you sis 🙏🥰

  • @glowteebeauty2
    @glowteebeauty2 2 роки тому +1

    4:34 very true that linety sounds desperate already spilling all the info after being greater with a Simple Hi haha 🤣🤣 yes tht very first message is important and some guy don’t like desperation

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  2 роки тому

      So true some guys when you show you are desparate they go silent on you🤣.Thank you hun❤

  • @FiskaniChirambo
    @FiskaniChirambo 8 місяців тому

    Thanks Bella I've learned alot

  • @RebeccaNyakwawa-qp8xl
    @RebeccaNyakwawa-qp8xl 9 місяців тому

    Good talking bella thank you

  • @chennelone6269
    @chennelone6269 2 роки тому

    Bella you right thanx for ur tips always

  • @kaishalugonvu3495
    @kaishalugonvu3495 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Bella ❤❤❤

  • @mbatuddegloriadenise9392
    @mbatuddegloriadenise9392 2 роки тому

    For real thanks am here from Africa Uganda

  • @nafungoirene4336
    @nafungoirene4336 2 роки тому +2

    Always your on point

  • @sallyevakganelomatlala-nok5757
    @sallyevakganelomatlala-nok5757 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks a lot this really helped me

  • @changes1131
    @changes1131 2 роки тому +2

    This video is so helpful thank you Bella ❤️❤️❤️

  • @buluma.lukiya283
    @buluma.lukiya283 2 роки тому +1

    Hello, sis looking good

  • @theresahowu583
    @theresahowu583 8 місяців тому

    But Bella some guys dnt like wen u send hi and how are you doing to them den they block you or ignore you,some will write on their profile saying dnt send me hi or blah 😅

  • @wilykisternasimiyu7643
    @wilykisternasimiyu7643 2 роки тому

    Can't wait 🙂🙂🤩🤩 l love my sister

  • @mirahjjuko
    @mirahjjuko 8 місяців тому

    I'm chatting with guy but he tells me asking whatever you want to know and he answers well so I'm confused it's me who asks questions and his like what of u? 😅

  • @tunumpoli8775
    @tunumpoli8775 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for your tips darling 😘 😘 😘

  • @phionaaboth9593
    @phionaaboth9593 Рік тому

    God bless you tirelessly dear❤

  • @POSH2024
    @POSH2024 Рік тому +1

    Bella,l have been watching you for tow years now but l need your help.l have a man but we chat but he doesn't want me to call but he call when he want instead.

  • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
    @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 7 місяців тому

    They are just greatings oh my gosh how can you tell all u life

  • @UmuhozaDivine-e5q
    @UmuhozaDivine-e5q 10 місяців тому

    Thank you very much Bella

  • @Rachelsstyle
    @Rachelsstyle 2 роки тому

    Exchanging phone numbers immediately without even knowing the person is not a good one ooooh

  • @FyonahKReacts
    @FyonahKReacts 2 роки тому

    Sweet heart is ok for a lady to approach a man first on online dating. Or I should always wait for a man to make the first move and he sends the first Sms

  • @nakanwagiprossy4196
    @nakanwagiprossy4196 2 роки тому +1

    Really thank you so so much madam

  • @YOUROLDFRIEND666
    @YOUROLDFRIEND666 10 місяців тому

    I observe that many of them just want someone to talk to.

  • @MilicentINGOS
    @MilicentINGOS 4 місяці тому

    I will never do that mistake again walaa

  • @topistaimali6119
    @topistaimali6119 2 роки тому +1

    Truely said

  • @OfordumLilian-mw5yd
    @OfordumLilian-mw5yd 8 місяців тому +1

    Can i use compliment a man like this i meet on line

  • @hannahkamau85
    @hannahkamau85 Рік тому +1

    Educative 😍😍😘

  • @theresahowu583
    @theresahowu583 8 місяців тому

    😂😂😂i did this evening on the online dating app I joined 😢😢😢

  • @nabayungaveronica9680
    @nabayungaveronica9680 Рік тому +1

    Hi Bella am a Ugandan I Wana join as a member, how do u pay

  • @susanmbugua4045
    @susanmbugua4045 Рік тому

    Thanks Bella I learned alot.....seems you love Kenya lol

  • @nassakajoan3999
    @nassakajoan3999 2 роки тому

    Hello Bella.thanks for your advice. I honestly want your advice about something very important. I don't know how I can get you

  • @Mumbi-k3k
    @Mumbi-k3k 5 місяців тому

    Thanks bella ❤

  • @namubirusharot7984
    @namubirusharot7984 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi