Never aim to be a good man to a woman until she proves herself. Instead aim to be a good man for The Most High first and foremost. As long as he’s pleased with your efforts you can’t go wrong!
Men, don’t tolerate no disrespect, value your serenity and peace. If you don’t shut a toxic women down early she will walk over you when given the opportunity.
Learned that the hard way when I was in my teenage years but when I started to put my foot down , that’s when I gained more peace and my happiness back plus I’m in the best shape of my life
I had a girlfriend for 3 years suddenly she wanted to break up for a bad boy . After about a week I was so happy realizing I had so much time for myself and a could pursue my own interests. Well about a month later she wants to come back to me. I said “ no thanks”. I’m much happier being single. I don’t have pour myself into a relationship emotionally and financially anymore, I’m Free 😊!!
#2 if a woman knows you are too good and sees you trying to progress in life. It creates fear, that you will improve yourself, and then leave her for the next woman. She will try to break you down, keeping you from achieving your goals. All these women know other women like a successful man, you see the car, the clothes, looks like he got money, these women know women will try to still their man. They will have kids with you on purpose to lock you in. If you do have kids, she will keep them away after the relationship is over. Sees you with the another woman or progressing it will piss her off. Then you find yourself in family court.
That is true especially if she’s not going to be apart of your success that’s when she feels some type of way and that fear comes in when you about to leave them for someone better
Any reason to leave a good man results in the woman having real REGRETS! A good man doesn’t have the time to babysit an GMO TYPE FEMALE and will never lower his standards and values so when she leaves it’s a WIN for him and no STRESS and CHAOS, Let her miss out ! All good men ( including myself) let’s keep moving forward!!
All facts not too long ago I dodged a bullet cause this one female I was talking to just had too many red flags and I had to put an end to that asap. Also in past relationships I had to put my foot down cause I was being treated like crap by my exes and they treated me differently and moved themselves away. Years later one has a kid now and the other one is crazy and not too long ago got a restraining order made against her for stalking another female I guess she was “friends “ with
This video really hit home. The last woman I was in a relationship with left for all three reasons but wanted to remain friends after everything was over (her way of saying she wanted access to my MEEAT Money Energy Effort Attention and Time when it is beneficial to her). No thank you!
@@jonthomson9262 I didn’t. She didn’t get any of the interest she thought she would get from other men once she left. The 4th reason she gave for leaving was because she wasn’t happy. She complained about what she wasn’t getting and after she had been gone a while she realized she left way more than she wasn’t getting. She left 80% for the 20% she wasn’t getting. She tried to double back for the 80 but wanted to dictate and I wasn’t having it!
When a woman’s first few sexual soul ties are with guys who are selfish, charismatic, manipulative and emotionally unavailable there will always be a draw deep in her base nature towards men who possess these similar traits. The soul tie can be so strong that a woman will know in her spirit that a genuinely good man (not a nice guy) is right in front of her. However, that draw in her base nature will always win out over the higher level of her spiritual nature that the good man is connecting with. No matter how great or bad that good man’s sexual prowess is he will not be able to satisfy her for long before she begins to feel that tugging at her base nature for a man with similar traits of those first few men she opened herself up to sexually. Only some type of purging of her soul can remedy those base natured soul ties and part of this is done by the woman choosing to “go through” the pain of being still for a while before considering another relationship. Most seek to mask the pain of getting hurt in one relationship by jumping into another relationship or sexual relationships of some kind ie sneaky links, quickies, friends with benefits, etc. A lot of times this particular woman will intentionally or unintentionally treat the good man precisely the same way that the bad guys treated her.
I’m living the SHII and man she won’t leave me alone even states away worst thing ever was having a kid with one of these creatures. I broke up with her won my son in court she left the state 1.5 years later here she comes begging me to be a friend to her No ma’am I want u to leave me alone. Sheesh oh she has a man btw this comment bro should be top comment by u. 🫡
Bruh the last one legit described my b.m but I blame myself for letting it last so long because for the longest she wanted her freedom especially after we had a kid and I was just chasing the same high I felt when we just met. I definitely loved that girl and she used my love for her and our son to her advantage. Fellas if a woman shows you signs she not interested anymore or that she wants to be free just let her go and save yourself the depression , Good video dneika 👏
i agree bro my ex was the same way n the 3rd reason hit my nerve also cuz i wanted to build but she just wanted access when it was convenient for her, I wasted 5 years with her....
@@JustinTv88601 I feel yo pain bro I wasted 13 yrs trying to fix a broken relationship because I wanted my son to have a life I didn't have. The only good thing to come out of this is me not being on child support , because she atleast respects enough for now to not have me on it.
@@RogueHero - Even though you already did, it's best to NEVER have kids with a woman because that automatically places her in a power position above you, and puts you at her mercy. - At 62 don't regret never having kids.
@@RogueHero bro ill bet all the money i have that she was the one who kept the relationship broken, its hard out here mane n it will make you bitter towards all women, I know the pain too fam
Can definitely relate. It took me 25 years to realize this. She wanted to separate but have access to me as she did her own thing. 3 months after she left I filed for divorce. She was shocked & still trying to win me back. Since she's been gone I started LLC, wrote a book, really focused on self care. My energy & purpose has become crystal clear. No more looking in rear view mirror. The future looks even brighter than my past.
If you look at it another way these women don't qualify for us good men. You men are high quality so you guys deserve good women so get yours, brothers🙌🏾
Hating on them doesn't move or sway a woman's opinion. A woman wants what she wants and NOTHING you say or do can stop her. I have NEVER walked up to a woman and asked her why she was dealing with him. First of all she might curse you out for not minding your business, I have seen women curse dudes out for that. If she's not feeling you shes not feeling you.
@@deewavy7182 This is also what leads a lot of men to treat women as objects. When logic fails, treat them the way they present themselves to be. A mentally healthy woman is not looking for problematic men. A mentally unhealthy woman is. Those are also the ones who get used and then cry all men are trash when those are specifically the men they go looking for and are attracted to. It's no problem if that's what they like. But then it doesn't make sense for them to cry about it later🤷♂ It's like eating only unhealthy food because it tastes good and saying all food sucks because it gave you diabetes and made you fat when it's a choice you made to eat only unhealthy food because healthy food was bland and boring.
Sad thing about it is when they try to spin the block after the CC riding, and find out im in another country getting married to a beautiful sister in africa.
The sistas in Africa are on a whole nother level. Especially Nigeria. Paternity fraud rates are like 40%, and I’m pretty sure every other female under 30 has participated in commercial sex work at least a few times.
My kids mom of 15yrs decided it was time for her to dip out. I personally think she knew she wasn't gonna make any changes and she got tired of hearing my mouth. I'm like why u just can't do what I asked u?! She did me a favor tho, because I was never gonna dip on my girls.
I was a good and faithful man for 30. Yrs to my wife we had 6 children together she never had to work a physical job I was the soul provider we both was approaching age of 50 she devorced no reason she said wanted to start her life over I was devastated 😢 I said to her you were my first and you want be my last and thank you for the early retirement now here it is 7 yrs later I am retiring next month and all of kids grown and out of the house and she is now having to have to do physical labor at here age of 58 ☹️😊
Facts the majority of them will give it to someone else even after you fucked her into a coma an had to put a wet suit on be you got her squirting so much. Nothing is good enough for these women
You hit number two very well, great clarification. I remember a girl I was dating 10 years ago, she said I deserve better than her when I dropped her off her house after the movies. I was confused why she broke up with me at that moment, but talking to certain females about it they felt she was insecure of my success with school, fitness, and modeling. She wanted to keep in contact with me as friends, but refused to be friends with her. Move on, and progress your life for the better so the certain people with great energy could appreciate you and your time.
My ex told me that too that I deserved better and I never knew what she meant by that back then. Now it’s all making sense and I gained my peace and happiness back. Meanwhile she use had a restraining order made against her by her friend for stalking her. So I basically dodged a bullet with that one
Great video sis! It's hard for them too deal with a bright man because his light shines on all her dark spots, while exposing past trauma lingering in the heart. The purification is painful but once she goes through that process, the natural bright woman returns to her origins and reaps the benefits of being in alignment with her authentic self.
Men: So your working hard every day, your setting goals for the family and out of the blue she says... "we have not been working together " You need to continue on your path, let her go and dont look back". Only good women can see your true value. Make sure she has a good mother 1st!
@@bapbap22 yep......women are easily bored.....because they themselves are pretty boring and lead boring lives. Thats why most women love to waste money on excessive traveling,to escape their boring everyday lives. They use men for an escape the same exact way.
Real Talk. Right on point It's about a women who respects your value. A Good man's value is to work, be a leader, be a provider for his family and being a protector. Not going out gang banging, going in and out of jail, not putting his hands on you, not cheating on you behind your back .That's called Drama. If She want perks, that means that she want To have her cake and eat it too. They want a good man but they can't handle or reap the benefits of having a good man. How is that boring? I was raised from the Old School to treat my woman like a queen, love her like I love myself, never to put my hands on her, never to disrespect her. Treat them like I would treat myself. Back in the Day, this is how we treated our women, but This New Generation is Lost.
13:34 this right here is why my first marriage crumbled (among other things). To add to that, one of the most dangerous things women do is associate themselves to miserable women (especially their family). When my ex wife reached out to me, she admitted that i was a great leader and provider, but she wouldn't listen. For years i was traumatized and bitter, wishing the worse to her. When i realized that not only did many of those things did happen to her (her having another failed marriage), i actually (and still do) feel bad because the level of self destruction is tragic.
Be happy if any woman leaves you if your a good Man, she saved you years of heartache, drama and stress God didn't see her fit for you and a way much better Woman is on her way to you and watch how she will be the one angry seeing another Woman winning in the spot that was once her, while you and you new relationship will continue to bloom while she is continuily be passed around from guy to guy who will only use and abuse her and she will be begging you to come back but don't make the mistake of entertaining her and hurt the blessing that God sent to you in your time of need... Everything happens for a reason stand strong and face the storm respect to the women who appreciate good men
women who find excitement in drama are low quality & low value. unfortunately, those women make up the vast majority of american/western women & are the most common. good wife qualities are women who value the structure & stability in a family that a man can provide. that is rare.
Truth be told… I believe it’s more of a “me” issue with women that I meet or met. I have traveled overseas with the army and personal reasons. I have traveled across America with me being a truck driver. Most women are very honest with me and upfront. Of course the reasons tell me they can’t be with me is bad or sounds like an excuse. But I just let them go and don’t put up a chase. It doesn’t matter what type of career/ job I have or had. It’s always something petty and negative about my job or just me. I been told I work to much, I’m not attractive enough, I’m boring, “we should just be friends”, I’m moving to fast, the time isn’t right, I’m on the road for too long, or the army takes up too much of my time and more. With every reason or excuse I’m given… I look at the outcome of these women. Most of the time they end up with a guy that doesn’t even compare to me (as far as stability and/or security) or these men are players. But they seem happy with dealing with a guy like that. And it’s always a man that other women goes crazy over. It have gotten to the point to where when I hear a woman telling me how good of a man I am, how good of a father I am, how im very stable, that I handle my finances very good, that im respectful and reasonable… I know she about to turn me down. So now I don’t even try. I just continue working and remaining stable. Seeking a wife is depressing. So I would rather just be alone. 🤷🏿♂️
Brother, get a Passport and go to Panama, Brazil, Costa Rica, Columbia, Dominican Republic, Philippines, Japan, South Korea. Places where women appreciate good brothers!
@@brianbyers5400 lol man you got it backwards. Chase the money and build wealth, work on you. Really do it for you, not to get them but believe me they will come 😆. Then you vett them. Chase money, not women, change your whole mindset around. Honestly tho, it's not much wife material out there these days so have a little protected fun and stay focused.
I'm not a on the passport bro bandwagon. But in your case, it seems you need a traditional type of woman which is becoming harder than ever to find. You are going after the women that aren't for you. And based on the fact they've been quite direct with you. Seek your tribe brotha.
These modern day women are under SATIN's influence. Modern day EVE swallowing the Apple of Death Which is 2days value system pertaining to culture , music, & family relationships
I had a woman, I'm still dating today, actually say, to me, she was worried, I would leave her for a lady who may have more to offer me. She's young and doesn't have anything yet, other than her beauty.
Ooooooooo you hit number two on the spot..... I mean it feels like they in competition with us it makes no sense..... I'm tryna bring you to this level and further with me..... Smh.
When I was 21 years old over a decade ago I had a female tell me that I wasn’t controlling enough because she was use to dudes roughing her up I use to ignore red flags back then but at the age of 35 I’ve learn a lot
You gat 'em all D'Nieka. And for my last relationship, I think she classified me as falling into all three. Am a man of vision and ambition, always trying to have an organized life so it could be easier to focus and face the challenges of my dreams, aspirations and purpose. I work hard and also make out time for fun, surprise treats, weekend getaways, holidays. I don't have any spare time for drama nor manipulation so generally, I keep it 100% in life. But that doesn't make me to trust easily; I scrutinize and keep watch until I can trust. So she studied me from a distance and came for me, in a very subtle way and very unsuspectingly, I feel for it. Shortly after winning my trust, this woman manipulated me with lies and deceptions as I was working and focus on the bigger picture, a future that would even be more beneficial to her. She set me back many years. I'll never trust any woman ever again nor build with any of them, it's been destructive to me. When I am ready, I'll make a decision as to what type of relationship I want with a woman. It will be couched strictly like a business relationship. Love is becoming more fatal to men than healthy. So I don't want any of it.
Some women wouldn't know a good man if they tripped over one. Then when you get with her, she disrespects you, doesn't appreciate you and treats everyone with priority over you. The more positive things you do for her. The worse she becomes towards you. Some people you want you just have to let go. Once they're gone, tell her don't ever look back for me. Ever!
My BM craved male attention and toxicity and I wasted 8 yrs trying to be there for her and help fix the situation going to counseling doing all the mess she wanted me to do all the while losing myself in the relationship and the sad part is she doesn’t think her life is in shambles. She’s happy being a jump-off and I had to come to grips with that it took a whilebut besides the cheating and not wanting to come clean about it so she can keep whatever dignity she has she has no intentions on growing and is happy being vibrating on a low level frequency
That’s been my situation my whole life. “I don’t like you like that but I love our friendship.” Meanwhile I’ve been letting my intentions be known the whole time. I’m can’t do it anymore. All of them consciously do it and it’s disgusting.
Damn!!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯 My ex still can't find a husband or successful relationship after 15 years of our break-up. Her life is in shambles. I was considered boring even though we were in a 9yr relationship. Her only identity now is being a mother to our 14 yr old daughter. Even though I've currently been married for 11 yrs, my wife and I have done a sh#t ton of things together.
My ex wife of 20 yrs did this to me… left me and used the excuse “midlife crisis” so she dabbled with her ex then left me and took my kids…. I discovered everything on Valentine’s Day… on all days. Then after 3 yrs she wants back in….. nah…. I’m a working stuntman with a rebuilt business. I just started communicating back with her after 2 1/2 years.. I hated her and everything in her…. But I’m still getting through the pain.. but I’m outta there..sheesh… I’m gettin a dog.
This brings back my hurt feeling 😔 i was hurt used & mistreated, i gave her everything & now she's gone, but it's cool cause i learned a lot, & yeah we still married we've been married for 15yrs now & I am seeking a divorce now but I'd rather be single & i know God will being me the right lady when its time but I'm enjoying my single life for now enjoying my time with our kids is all that matters
I'm going through this now! I'm the safe guy and my wife gone back with the guy who she said treated her so bad and never wanted nothing serious with her. But, she went back to that
@Sheldon Young Sr.., get a good therapist & begin the healing process. It's no shame in how you're feeling. When you're healed, the next relationship, if she doesn't respect you, leave. Better yet, get a Passport and go overseas.
@@brianbyers5400 Thanks for your support and advice. I have a great therapist and she is definitely helping me with this. I have tried to remain friends with her but I now think that is not a good idea at this point of time.
Freedom with maintain perks. Omg spot on. She was so deceiving......I was dancing with an angel with the devils smile. When I said I was leaving she said to me " don't think you can control me when you leave" I'm like what the fuck? What is that supposed to mean. She wasn't thinking about the kids at all. She took my kindness for weekends. WOW
3, straight up. I'm not even wanting a woman who is submissive, just someone who is communicative. Someone who can cooperate with me as I with them. But it seems that they want us to submit instead. It's sad honestly.
I've been through #2 I talk about 'big goals" and some do feel they are holding me back. When really all I wanted was to start something worth building
Amen; you are spot on with all points. Sadly the man would be accused of making her feel Insecure and painted as a bad guy, instead of the woman admitting to herself the feelings of insecurity came from within.
This is SUCH an awesome video--ESPECIALLY the discussion about women leaving a "boring" man and craving drama! How many women who crave the excitement a "bad boy" or a "player" gives them ultimately wind up damaged irreparably?? It goes back to that timeless saying: "Be careful what you wish for, because you might get it."
Amazing - best video on this subject. #3 hit home. Haha I always warned her I was boring. #2 is probably the hardest to understand. One some level all 3 reasons are about a lack of respect.
Just came across this vid in my recommendations. Excellent content, just look in the camera when you talk so that you better connect with your audience.
Being good and being nice is not the same and keep in mind women today are very transactional . Buy the cat or not and move on. Being accountable means being consistently responsible and that is something they refuse to subject their character to. Get the passport and life goes on
BONUS: She thinks she can do better than him/find a better option or deal. "Hmmmmm...... this guy is cool/aight/okay, but I think I can do better than him, but just in case I can't I can fall back on him. and that is when you SLAM the door in her face
My bm/Ex fiancé who professed to be this upstanding church girl got prego by another dude. I believe she played the field and kept me in the tuck as a safety net, but I'm glad God exposed the truth before i got further entangled by being in a messy marriage. Hopefully the co-parenting will go better than the relationship
My ex kept telling me she could do better and all her friends kept telling her same even though I gave her everything took her kids on, she ended up with a jobless bad boy and her life went down hill so seems her friends where right
I needed to see this video. I am currently facing number 2 and 3. For most men, we spend time reflecting what went wrong and you basically said the same thing a few of my family members said. I know she will try to return but I can't let her back in life. I don't deal with drama either.
Never aim to be a good man to a woman until she proves herself. Instead aim to be a good man for The Most High first and foremost. As long as he’s pleased with your efforts you can’t go wrong!
Every woman don’t deserve a good man
Excellent answer jimmy, as long as God is pleased with us, he will hook us up with a good woman that ain’t about drama💯
@@alejandropadilla144 indeed
Amen
@@alejandropadilla144 , that drama smh.
Women who crave toxicity are fools. Good men are in a path of productivity and don’t have time for drama. Good bye to the GMO’s. Sex ain’t enough.
Agreed
Facts 💯
Perfectly said
U know, pu-nanny isn't goin2b all that she's going2want; peek game!
Good talk brother. I didn't get far in life to be with a drama queen.
Men, don’t tolerate no disrespect, value your serenity and peace. If you don’t shut a toxic women down early she will walk over you when given the opportunity.
Learned that the hard way when I was in my teenage years but when I started to put my foot down , that’s when I gained more peace and my happiness back plus I’m in the best shape of my life
I had a girlfriend for 3 years suddenly she wanted to break up for a bad boy . After about a week I was so happy realizing I had so much time for myself and a could pursue my own interests. Well about a month later she wants to come back to me. I said “ no thanks”. I’m much happier being single. I don’t have pour myself into a relationship emotionally and financially anymore, I’m Free 😊!!
3 REASONS WHY WOMEN LEAVE GOOD MEN
1. He's boring
2. She feelings inadequate
3. She wants freedom with maintained perks
Thank you
#2 if a woman knows you are too good and sees you trying to progress in life. It creates fear, that you will improve yourself, and then leave her for the next woman. She will try to break you down, keeping you from achieving your goals. All these women know other women like a successful man, you see the car, the clothes, looks like he got money, these women know women will try to still their man. They will have kids with you on purpose to lock you in. If you do have kids, she will keep them away after the relationship is over. Sees you with the another woman or progressing it will piss her off. Then you find yourself in family court.
Facts 💯.. no doubt
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That is true especially if she’s not going to be apart of your success that’s when she feels some type of way and that fear comes in when you about to leave them for someone better
Facts
Any reason to leave a good man results in the woman having real REGRETS! A good man doesn’t have the time to babysit an GMO TYPE FEMALE and will never lower his standards and values so when she leaves it’s a WIN for him and no STRESS and CHAOS, Let her miss out ! All good men ( including myself) let’s keep moving forward!!
All facts not too long ago I dodged a bullet cause this one female I was talking to just had too many red flags and I had to put an end to that asap. Also in past relationships I had to put my foot down cause I was being treated like crap by my exes and they treated me differently and moved themselves away. Years later one has a kid now and the other one is crazy and not too long ago got a restraining order made against her for stalking another female I guess she was “friends “ with
These women are not good women and that’s why they leave good men.
These kind of women a trash. Better yet they ain't even women.
This video really hit home. The last woman I was in a relationship with left for all three reasons but wanted to remain friends after everything was over (her way of saying she wanted access to my MEEAT Money Energy Effort Attention and Time when it is beneficial to her). No thank you!
She wanted to keep you around as a plan b incase the new dude didn't work out.
@@jonthomson9262 Actually she thought the grass was greener on the side, she tried to come back after she realized it wasn’t.
@@coach67sportstv I knew it. Lol 😂......I hope you didn't give the time of day.
@@jonthomson9262 I didn’t. She didn’t get any of the interest she thought she would get from other men once she left. The 4th reason she gave for leaving was because she wasn’t happy. She complained about what she wasn’t getting and after she had been gone a while she realized she left way more than she wasn’t getting. She left 80% for the 20% she wasn’t getting. She tried to double back for the 80 but wanted to dictate and I wasn’t having it!
Dysfunctional, Delusional, Unrealistic, Liars, etc. Don't need them! Immature they are! If and when they leave! Thank God ....!
When a woman’s first few sexual soul ties are with guys who are selfish, charismatic, manipulative and emotionally unavailable there will always be a draw deep in her base nature towards men who possess these similar traits. The soul tie can be so strong that a woman will know in her spirit that a genuinely good man (not a nice guy) is right in front of her. However, that draw in her base nature will always win out over the higher level of her spiritual nature that the good man is connecting with.
No matter how great or bad that good man’s sexual prowess is he will not be able to satisfy her for long before she begins to feel that tugging at her base nature for a man with similar traits of those first few men she opened herself up to sexually.
Only some type of purging of her soul can remedy those base natured soul ties and part of this is done by the woman choosing to “go through” the pain of being still for a while before considering another relationship. Most seek to mask the pain of getting hurt in one relationship by jumping into another relationship or sexual relationships of some kind ie sneaky links, quickies, friends with benefits, etc. A lot of times this particular woman will intentionally or unintentionally treat the good man precisely the same way that the bad guys treated her.
Your analysis is of ultra level quality.
Great Break down...
I don’t know if you know this but I have a friend who is a ❤❤❤
I’m living the SHII and man she won’t leave me alone even states away worst thing ever was having a kid with one of these creatures. I broke up with her won my son in court she left the state 1.5 years later here she comes begging me to be a friend to her
No ma’am I want u to leave me alone. Sheesh oh she has a man btw this comment bro should be top comment by u. 🫡
Yes. I agree. Thanks for the breakdown. I was thinking the same thing.
Bruh the last one legit described my b.m but I blame myself for letting it last so long because for the longest she wanted her freedom especially after we had a kid and I was just chasing the same high I felt when we just met. I definitely loved that girl and she used my love for her and our son to her advantage. Fellas if a woman shows you signs she not interested anymore or that she wants to be free just let her go and save yourself the depression , Good video dneika 👏
i agree bro my ex was the same way n the 3rd reason hit my nerve also cuz i wanted to build but she just wanted access when it was convenient for her, I wasted 5 years with her....
@@JustinTv88601 I feel yo pain bro I wasted 13 yrs trying to fix a broken relationship because I wanted my son to have a life I didn't have. The only good thing to come out of this is me not being on child support , because she atleast respects enough for now to not have me on it.
@@RogueHero - Even though you already did, it's best to NEVER have kids with a woman because that automatically places her in a power position above you, and puts you at her mercy. - At 62 don't regret never having kids.
@@RogueHero bro ill bet all the money i have that she was the one who kept the relationship broken, its hard out here mane n it will make you bitter towards all women, I know the pain too fam
Can definitely relate. It took me 25 years to realize this. She wanted to separate but have access to me as she did her own thing. 3 months after she left I filed for divorce. She was shocked & still trying to win me back. Since she's been gone I started LLC, wrote a book, really focused on self care. My energy & purpose has become crystal clear. No more looking in rear view mirror. The future looks even brighter than my past.
If you look at it another way these women don't qualify for us good men. You men are high quality so you guys deserve good women so get yours, brothers🙌🏾
Factual
the thing is too many of us give these women who don't qualify the time of day hoping to see improvement
Yup is good brothers deserve better
Women aren't even attracted to good men you can't leave something you never had.
Most of the good guys are not fun. The battle between the fun guy and the good guy/serious guy. something to think about.
Hating on them doesn't move or sway a woman's opinion. A woman wants what she wants and NOTHING you say or do can stop her. I have NEVER walked up to a woman and asked her why she was dealing with him. First of all she might curse you out for not minding your business, I have seen women curse dudes out for that. If she's not feeling you shes not feeling you.
@@keylolo8633 what type of fun they looking for
@@deewavy7182 This is also what leads a lot of men to treat women as objects. When logic fails, treat them the way they present themselves to be.
A mentally healthy woman is not looking for problematic men. A mentally unhealthy woman is. Those are also the ones who get used and then cry all men are trash when those are specifically the men they go looking for and are attracted to.
It's no problem if that's what they like. But then it doesn't make sense for them to cry about it later🤷♂
It's like eating only unhealthy food because it tastes good and saying all food sucks because it gave you diabetes and made you fat when it's a choice you made to eat only unhealthy food because healthy food was bland and boring.
@@keylolo8633 It's called working 60+ hours a week. Then coming home to sleep, work out, then doing chores, and repeating.
Sad thing about it is when they try to spin the block after the CC riding, and find out im in another country getting married to a beautiful sister in africa.
The sistas in Africa are on a whole nother level. Especially Nigeria. Paternity fraud rates are like 40%, and I’m pretty sure every other female under 30 has participated in commercial sex work at least a few times.
Facts. My female always talking bout she wanna feel safe but then she go and create drama. Just exhausting.
Smh🤦🙏💯
My kids mom of 15yrs decided it was time for her to dip out. I personally think she knew she wasn't gonna make any changes and she got tired of hearing my mouth. I'm like why u just can't do what I asked u?! She did me a favor tho, because I was never gonna dip on my girls.
I was a good and faithful man for 30. Yrs to my wife we had 6 children together she never had to work a physical job I was the soul provider we both was approaching age of 50 she devorced no reason she said wanted to start her life over I was devastated 😢 I said to her you were my first and you want be my last and thank you for the early retirement now here it is 7 yrs later I am retiring next month and all of kids grown and out of the house and she is now having to have to do physical labor at here age of 58 ☹️😊
@@johnnelson6431 the foolishness of women. She thought she had found a better man,or thought she could find better.
I would have left you to
Crybaby
@@Shefothestreetsbut I bet u r not in a position to leave ANYONE troll
Women will step out no matter what. One D only isn’t enough
Then apparently one brain ain't good enough either...
Facts the majority of them will give it to someone else even after you fucked her into a coma an had to put a wet suit on be you got her squirting so much. Nothing is good enough for these women
This used to be a masculinity trait
Now days it’s call friends with benefits you wash my back and I wash your back that how things are now these days
Some will but many don't.
You hit number two very well, great clarification. I remember a girl I was dating 10 years ago, she said I deserve better than her when I dropped her off her house after the movies. I was confused why she broke up with me at that moment, but talking to certain females about it they felt she was insecure of my success with school, fitness, and modeling. She wanted to keep in contact with me as friends, but refused to be friends with her. Move on, and progress your life for the better so the certain people with great energy could appreciate you and your time.
Simple
My ex told me that too that I deserved better and I never knew what she meant by that back then. Now it’s all making sense and I gained my peace and happiness back. Meanwhile she use had a restraining order made against her by her friend for stalking her. So I basically dodged a bullet with that one
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Great video sis! It's hard for them too deal with a bright man because his light shines on all her dark spots, while exposing past trauma lingering in the heart. The purification is painful but once she goes through that process, the natural bright woman returns to her origins and reaps the benefits of being in alignment with her authentic self.
Men: So your working hard every day, your setting goals for the family and out of the blue she says... "we have not been working together " You need to continue on your path, let her go and dont look back". Only good women can see your true value. Make sure she has a good mother 1st!
That’s is all facts man
Women look at relationships and even marriages as a form of entertainment. It's in a woman's nature to be easily bored.
Unfortunately this is true and that’s why they cheat most times
@@jaysouthmusic8230 women cheat primarily for 3 reasons....Boredom(the craving for newness and excitement),Hypergamy,and Attention Seeking Behavior.
It’s cuz they don’t have shit else going for themselves.
@@bapbap22 yep......women are easily bored.....because they themselves are pretty boring and lead boring lives. Thats why most women love to waste money on excessive traveling,to escape their boring everyday lives. They use men for an escape the same exact way.
Shit sad but it’s the truth. I can keep a woman longer when I’m mean and toxic but she’ll skate sooner than later if I’m nice and boring.
Real Talk. Right on point It's about a women who respects your value. A Good man's value is to work, be a leader, be a provider for his family and being a protector. Not going out gang banging, going in and out of jail, not putting his hands on you, not cheating on you behind your back .That's called Drama. If She want perks, that means that she want
To have her cake and eat it too. They want a good man but they can't handle or reap the benefits of having a good man. How is that boring? I was raised from the Old School to treat my woman like a queen, love her like I love myself, never to put my hands on her, never to disrespect her. Treat them like I would treat myself. Back in the Day, this is how we treated our women, but This New Generation is Lost.
So true
Definitely different Era. We're living in hookup culture. Modern day Sodom and Gomorrah
The majority of this new generation is lost and turned out....
@@alimmuhammad6306 sure has
Honestly lost.. so sad
13:34 this right here is why my first marriage crumbled (among other things). To add to that, one of the most dangerous things women do is associate themselves to miserable women (especially their family). When my ex wife reached out to me, she admitted that i was a great leader and provider, but she wouldn't listen. For years i was traumatized and bitter, wishing the worse to her. When i realized that not only did many of those things did happen to her (her having another failed marriage), i actually (and still do) feel bad because the level of self destruction is tragic.
You spillin’ it all today! #3 gon hurt some toes!
Point number 3, really, really brought it home for me...
Be happy if any woman leaves you if your a good Man, she saved you years of heartache, drama and stress God didn't see her fit for you and a way much better Woman is on her way to you and watch how she will be the one angry seeing another Woman winning in the spot that was once her, while you and you new relationship will continue to bloom while she is continuily be passed around from guy to guy who will only use and abuse her and she will be begging you to come back but don't make the mistake of entertaining her and hurt the blessing that God sent to you in your time of need... Everything happens for a reason stand strong and face the storm respect to the women who appreciate good men
As always as we all know big sis D'Nieka is so blessed with amazing Beauty, common sense, love, intelligence, and with 100% of keeping it real!
women who find excitement in drama are low quality & low value. unfortunately, those women make up the vast majority of american/western women & are the most common. good wife qualities are women who value the structure & stability in a family that a man can provide. that is rare.
#2 is the woman who will sabotage the relationship.
Yeah, I noticed she conveniently left that out.
REASON #3 is THE NAILS in THE COFFIN for AMERICAN WOMEN on why GOOD MEN or FRIEND-ZONED MEN are becoming PASSPORT BROs!
Truth be told… I believe it’s more of a “me” issue with women that I meet or met. I have traveled overseas with the army and personal reasons. I have traveled across America with me being a truck driver. Most women are very honest with me and upfront. Of course the reasons tell me they can’t be with me is bad or sounds like an excuse. But I just let them go and don’t put up a chase. It doesn’t matter what type of career/ job I have or had. It’s always something petty and negative about my job or just me. I been told I work to much, I’m not attractive enough, I’m boring, “we should just be friends”, I’m moving to fast, the time isn’t right, I’m on the road for too long, or the army takes up too much of my time and more. With every reason or excuse I’m given… I look at the outcome of these women. Most of the time they end up with a guy that doesn’t even compare to me (as far as stability and/or security) or these men are players. But they seem happy with dealing with a guy like that. And it’s always a man that other women goes crazy over. It have gotten to the point to where when I hear a woman telling me how good of a man I am, how good of a father I am, how im very stable, that I handle my finances very good, that im respectful and reasonable… I know she about to turn me down. So now I don’t even try. I just continue working and remaining stable. Seeking a wife is depressing. So I would rather just be alone. 🤷🏿♂️
Brother, get a Passport and go to Panama, Brazil, Costa Rica, Columbia, Dominican Republic, Philippines, Japan, South Korea. Places where women appreciate good brothers!
Thank you so much!
@@brianbyers5400 lol man you got it backwards. Chase the money and build wealth, work on you. Really do it for you, not to get them but believe me they will come 😆. Then you vett them. Chase money, not women, change your whole mindset around. Honestly tho, it's not much wife material out there these days so have a little protected fun and stay focused.
@Johnathan Wallace, my bad! I wasn't trying to have the brother hustling backwards! Passports was the first thing that came to mind!
I'm not a on the passport bro bandwagon. But in your case, it seems you need a traditional type of woman which is becoming harder than ever to find. You are going after the women that aren't for you. And based on the fact they've been quite direct with you. Seek your tribe brotha.
So true,,,,I’m a good man and never will downgrade from that even if a lot of woman don’t want me,,
Word to the wise never ever play with a grown man
Thanks, girl you're one in a million. Seeing a woman like you, we know black people have not lost all hope in their women.
Amen, agreed
Amen to that I still have hope alive
These modern day women are under SATIN's influence. Modern day EVE swallowing the Apple of Death Which is 2days value system pertaining to culture , music, & family relationships
love these break downs
The second reason was straight up STRAIGHT UP the summary of my last break up. I know it ain't me or my fault.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They are so used to living in SURVIVAL MODE 😢
I had a woman, I'm still dating today, actually say, to me, she was worried, I would leave her for a lady who may have more to offer me. She's young and doesn't have anything yet, other than her beauty.
I am a man and I do not like drama. It sounds like these women are immature!
Most of them are yet they say they mature faster than men like yeah right😂
Facts
I feel you
Well described a lot of black women. Look who’s narrating! Great content. She defined good Christian Men.
Ooooooooo you hit number two on the spot..... I mean it feels like they in competition with us it makes no sense..... I'm tryna bring you to this level and further with me..... Smh.
When I was 21 years old over a decade ago I had a female tell me that I wasn’t controlling enough because she was use to dudes roughing her up I use to ignore red flags back then but at the age of 35 I’ve learn a lot
You gat 'em all D'Nieka. And for my last relationship, I think she classified me as falling into all three.
Am a man of vision and ambition, always trying to have an organized life so it could be easier to focus and face the challenges of my dreams, aspirations and purpose.
I work hard and also make out time for fun, surprise treats, weekend getaways, holidays. I don't have any spare time for drama nor manipulation so generally, I keep it 100% in life. But that doesn't make me to trust easily; I scrutinize and keep watch until I can trust.
So she studied me from a distance and came for me, in a very subtle way and very unsuspectingly, I feel for it.
Shortly after winning my trust, this woman manipulated me with lies and deceptions as I was working and focus on the bigger picture, a future that would even be more beneficial to her. She set me back many years.
I'll never trust any woman ever again nor build with any of them, it's been destructive to me. When I am ready, I'll make a decision as to what type of relationship I want with a woman. It will be couched strictly like a business relationship. Love is becoming more fatal to men than healthy. So I don't want any of it.
She is so beautiful and a lot of wisdom
Foxy had a song called ",Get Off" patt in the lyrics say : Danger and Excitement has to make the ladies find out what she wants in a man."
Some women wouldn't know a good man if they tripped over one. Then when you get with her, she disrespects you, doesn't appreciate you and treats everyone with priority over you. The more positive things you do for her. The worse she becomes towards you. Some people you want you just have to let go. Once they're gone, tell her don't ever look back for me. Ever!
My BM craved male attention and toxicity and I wasted 8 yrs trying to be there for her and help fix the situation going to counseling doing all the mess she wanted me to do all the while losing myself in the relationship and the sad part is she doesn’t think her life is in shambles. She’s happy being a jump-off and I had to come to grips with that it took a whilebut besides the cheating and not wanting to come clean about it so she can keep whatever dignity she has she has no intentions on growing and is happy being vibrating on a low level frequency
That’s been my situation my whole life. “I don’t like you like that but I love our friendship.” Meanwhile I’ve been letting my intentions be known the whole time. I’m can’t do it anymore. All of them consciously do it and it’s disgusting.
Damn!!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯
My ex still can't find a husband or successful relationship after 15 years of our break-up. Her life is in shambles. I was considered boring even though we were in a 9yr relationship. Her only identity now is being a mother to our 14 yr old daughter.
Even though I've currently been married for 11 yrs, my wife and I have done a sh#t ton of things together.
Joke is on her...
Good for you man I’m happy for you
We as good men are not boring we not about drama we about what is real like love
Women rarely comment on you channel cos they know you are saying stuffs they know already but are ashamed to admit are happening.
Nothing but the truth 👑
I appreciate the clarity from a woman's perspective!!
Me too it’s refreshing to hear the woman’s side of this type of topic
#3 , I have seen family and friends experience this one!!!
You literally just described my exact life scenarios. This blew my mind.
My ex wife of 20 yrs did this to me… left me and used the excuse “midlife crisis” so she dabbled with her ex then left me and took my kids…. I discovered everything on Valentine’s Day… on all days.
Then after 3 yrs she wants back in….. nah…. I’m a working stuntman with a rebuilt business.
I just started communicating back with her after 2 1/2 years.. I hated her and everything in her…. But I’m still getting through the pain.. but I’m outta there..sheesh… I’m gettin a dog.
This brings back my hurt feeling 😔 i was hurt used & mistreated, i gave her everything & now she's gone, but it's cool cause i learned a lot, & yeah we still married we've been married for 15yrs now & I am seeking a divorce now but I'd rather be single & i know God will being me the right lady when its time but I'm enjoying my single life for now enjoying my time with our kids is all that matters
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sorry about that man!
Did you divorce her man? If not I would do so now
Story of my life. I changed, but not to get back at women, but putting myself first.
I can definitely relate to that, especially the first one. I didnt cause drama and was stable.
Man, just RUN! Leave them .
Great video! Also, they have another guy already lined up & listening to their miserable single girl friends & female family members.
The inadequate piece was on point.
I'm going through this now! I'm the safe guy and my wife gone back with the guy who she said treated her so bad and never wanted nothing serious with her. But, she went back to that
She’ll be back but don’t give her any attention.
She will definitely be back when that guy uses her up and throws her back to the streets. Close that door and never ever take her back
Thank y'all so much. But, I'm not going to lie. It do hurt though. But, I never made her respect me though!
@Sheldon Young Sr.., get a good therapist & begin the healing process. It's no shame in how you're feeling. When you're healed, the next relationship, if she doesn't respect you, leave. Better yet, get a Passport and go overseas.
@@brianbyers5400 Thanks for your support and advice. I have a great therapist and she is definitely helping me with this. I have tried to remain friends with her but I now think that is not a good idea at this point of time.
Freedom with maintain perks. Omg spot on. She was so deceiving......I was dancing with an angel with the devils smile.
When I said I was leaving she said to me " don't think you can control me when you leave" I'm like what the fuck? What is that supposed to mean. She wasn't thinking about the kids at all. She took my kindness for weekends. WOW
3..... Salute Queen
3, straight up. I'm not even wanting a woman who is submissive, just someone who is communicative. Someone who can cooperate with me as I with them. But it seems that they want us to submit instead. It's sad honestly.
Shour our from James666! Thanks for your highly informative episode! I agree with all 3 points! I'm the perfect GOOD-GUY!
I've been through #2 I talk about 'big goals" and some do feel they are holding me back. When really all I wanted was to start something worth building
Happy 😮mothers day baby girl you nailed it like fine wine thank you and keep up the good job.
Amen; you are spot on with all points. Sadly the man would be accused of making her feel Insecure and painted as a bad guy, instead of the woman admitting to herself the feelings of insecurity came from within.
This is SUCH an awesome video--ESPECIALLY the discussion about women leaving a "boring" man and craving drama! How many women who crave the excitement a "bad boy" or a "player" gives them ultimately wind up damaged irreparably??
It goes back to that timeless saying: "Be careful what you wish for, because you might get it."
Amazing - best video on this subject. #3 hit home. Haha I always warned her I was boring. #2 is probably the hardest to understand. One some level all 3 reasons are about a lack of respect.
My friend was a six figure earner, nuclear family raised, God fearing man. His wife left him for a street ninja, and is now a 3 times baby momma.
💀smh
To make matters even worse, she took him to court to try to get money from him to pay for her bastard baby. Can't make this ish up.
That’s so jacked up man. I don’t wish that on no man
Just came across this vid in my recommendations. Excellent content, just look in the camera when you talk so that you better connect with your audience.
I can relate to all to this...thanks for posting!!
3 reasons why women don’t give most men a fair chance would be a good topic too love your content
I understand and have gone through all three reasons. Especially number 3 now that I'm in the process of going through a divorce.
Me too big dog I’ve experienced all three from the same woman
You have GREAT insight, definitely got game Lil sis much appreciated.
you really hit the nail on the head with this one. nothing but facts
U know!
Being good and being nice is not the same and keep in mind women today are very transactional . Buy the cat or not and move on. Being accountable means being consistently responsible and that is something they refuse to subject their character to. Get the passport and life goes on
GREAT COUNTDOWN! SO LEGIT!
BONUS: She thinks she can do better than him/find a better option or deal. "Hmmmmm...... this guy is cool/aight/okay, but I think I can do better than him, but just in case I can't I can fall back on him. and that is when you SLAM the door in her face
That “She feels inadequate” is more common than y’all think.
#3 , This is all facts
My bm/Ex fiancé who professed to be this upstanding church girl got prego by another dude. I believe she played the field and kept me in the tuck as a safety net, but I'm glad God exposed the truth before i got further entangled by being in a messy marriage. Hopefully the co-parenting will go better than the relationship
My ex kept telling me she could do better and all her friends kept telling her same even though I gave her everything took her kids on, she ended up with a jobless bad boy and her life went down hill so seems her friends where right
3. She misses the streets(serving the world)and wants to go back but still wanna keep you on her backburner
Serving the world killed me lmfao😂
Queen You nailed it 🖤🎉🥳 You the G.O.A.T.💯😍
You’re spot ON!!!
A toxic person's nightmare is someone with an emotionally strong bulletproof mindset.
READ THAT ISHHH AGAIN.
So true. Thanks for yet another very informative episode.
This video answers past questions Ive asked myself about women. God is good. ❤
SALUTE .. 👍🏾💯
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL THE GOOD WOMEN…
I needed to see this video. I am currently facing number 2 and 3. For most men, we spend time reflecting what went wrong and you basically said the same thing a few of my family members said. I know she will try to return but I can't let her back in life. I don't deal with drama either.
Are you with CSX?
@@DaAriesKing I'm not with the railroad. I do work for a railcar company.
I submit that the third reason she gave is the reason in my opinion happens most often especially in regards to marriages .
Yes the teacher had every right, since the student initiate the indecent…😎
Thank you sister you are wise beyond measure I'm 57 years old and have experienced this you are absolutely correct. Thanks sister