👟💧 Grab your pair of Vessis at vessi.com/2h1s for 15% off your first order! Free shipping extended to CA, US, AU, JP, TW, KR, SGP! 0:00 Intro 1:12 Are we bored of living in Seoul? 4:26 Korea's 'alone culture' 5:41 Tech recommendations for starting UA-cam 7:49 'Wealth flaunting' and status in Seoul, and how it affects us 9:52 As a DINK couple, how do we keep our lives interesting? 11:46 Do we have pressure from our family to have kids? 14:16 Expectations that we had for our 30s 15:59 Are we touring apartments? 17:16 Differences between our 20s and 30s 18:15 How has Korea changed? 20:20 Sarah's experience studying abroad in Japan 21:10 How is Beemo's health? 22:57 Our thoughts on Korea having the world's lowest birthrate 24:32 Current favorite skincare products and clothing brands 25:19 What's one thing we've always wanted to try?
1)Bored of Seoul??? There are SO MANY fine eating places as well as street food areas, thankfully 'big money' hasn't sanitised the street food stalls. I do like meeting foreigners every day in my current job, think I'd need to have something like 'Seoul guided tours' or an 'European cafe experience' shop to keep me happy if I moved there... around Konkuk or similar is where I'd like to be based.2) 'A family?'...Filipi2os are the most annoying asking "WHY HAVE YOU NO CHILDREN??" I just tell them equally rudely it's none of their business!😡😡 😂😂 3) 'Cousin Kim' up North, does anyone worry about him, or is he just considered a bit mad..?
I love how you guys answering the questions in different places & vibes. Such an effort. Thank you guys for your extra effort. I really enjoy it😊 Hope the best for beemo❤
I admire the authenticity and simplicity. Glad I followed your channel. At first, it was just about being a cat parent too and looking after stray cats that got me here. But now I’m learning so much more. Great to know you wanted to visit the Philippines, Sarah. Hope you could visit soon and perhaps have a fan meet. 😀 I will definitely come. 😊
DINK = dual income, no kids. I was not familiar with that acronym. 😅 My thoughts on the low birth rate is that it’s just inevitable. There’s a limited amount of resources and space for people to live, not just in Korea, but worldwide. Technology will be a huge factor to being able to stabilize any severe collapse. But, for now the symptoms of high cost of living, high housing prices, etc are going to further deter the current young generation from wanting kids. It’s the sign of overpopulation pushing against the limits of land and resources.
I currently work in a kindergarten in a very remote area of Korea. We have just started our new school year, and surprisingly, we have a lot of kids. They opened two extra classes due to the demand, and there’s even a waiting list. I’m always surprised by the news, but when I see how many kids we have starting from age 4, I get kind of confused.
Same in my area! We have so many children here, had to build more public schools and classes due to complaints from parents. New big cities near Seoul(Hanam, Gimpo, Dongtan, Yeongjong etc.)are in the same situation).
This is so interesting! There have been so many schools closing down these days across the country. Maybe they ended up closing other schools in other areas, and the students from the closed schools ended up at the school you currently teach at? These days they’re having to combine schools like this.
I think being bored is relative. It's what you make of your time. So if you choose to be bored, ok then, that's on you. But you don't have to be bored. Kiddo keeps me busy, but I have hobbies outside of that that sometimes I get to do when I don't have parenting duties lol. When we went to Hawaii a few years ago, we wanted to swim with manta rays. That was a tour you could do. We totally wanted to do that, but because wifey was preggo, it probably wasn't a good idea. Just an excuse to go back and do it in the future when the kiddo gets older lol. But just reminded me that it's kinda similar to your whale shark experience you'd like to try.
i wonder if Beemo has a GIST in his stomach. It a type of tumor that is more benign and frequently bleeds. I'm a human doctor but the description reminded me of a GIST.
I ike your Q & A videos and I enjoyed you answering them in different places. I'm also very glad that Beemo doesn't have cancer...I know he has other health struggles but, with your love and care he is doing well and I hope will continue to get even better!❤
Great news about Beemo. My most recent cat was diagnosed with a tumour in her stomach which was supposedly incurable. It disappeared and she happily lasted several more years. Miracles can happen and hopefully he'll continue to enjoy life for some time yet. 🐈 Many thanks as always - looking forward to my return trip to SK in less than 2 weeks. 🇰🇷😊
oh dont you worry about not achieveing house in your 30', look at me, I thought in my 30' I would have boyfriend and thinking to marring him, however relationship ended before even reaching 30. And now single as pringle. So if it will make you feel better you doing way better than me 🤣🤣🤣
Highly agree on the tech part. We only use an action cam ( cause we would risk falling on our faces while cycling 😂) and our phones and that's completely fine for the stuff we wanna create
Kyuho felt respected by his mom for his decision not to have kids, was partly because his mom is well educated (she has a PHD). Most of our parents are NOT educated, they are Stubborn and controlling, always think their values are correct and enforcing onto the younger generation, therefore they dis-respected Us. As a result, many of my peers and myself left home, stayed single or childless and we loving our freedom of choice :)
Honestly I had no idea you filmed on your phone! That’s a great video idea for your viewers 😊 you could film yourself vlogging with a phone. Only if you wanted to that is.
Hi guys.. Just came home recently frm my first intl trip; Singaporeee 🥺 was late watching your Sunday vlogs then after about 4 yrs of watching u on time.. Haha.. Come to Philipppinessss! Summer time is felt now here, I think the snorkling thing is somewhere in Cebu?.. My bday is approaching & gonna celeb it hoping in Seoul very sooon by that time, summer here & late of spring there hopefully, have a nice week ahead for all of us❤
I really like the style of this video. The questions were interesting too. I like going out to eat and watch movies alone, I’ve done it since my early twenties and people would look at me strangely then, not so much now. If my boyfriend is not feeling something I want to do one day or I just want me time, I don’t have to wait for someone else.
I was literally crying (in happiness) about the news about Beemo might not have the cancer and that his tumor is shrinking! ❤ God knows how I am praying for a miracle for Beemo and I’d like to believe that my prayers were heard! ❤❤❤ I still am praying for a complete healing (I hope I got the right term) for Beemo and may he live more loving years with you Kyuho and Sarah! 😍 I love you guys and I can’t wait for you to come visit the Philippines! ❤😍
8:53 personally I was never into it at all. The most luxurious thing I wanted as a teen was a pair of Jordans as with all teenage boys. Parents said no. And I’m pretty much become indifferent to any luxury related items. Food is where I splurge or the occasional soccer/hockey jersey.
Yes Vessi is the best! I have a pair same as Kyuho's it is so much better than Nike. It protects from the rain we get alot of rain here in Malaysia and my feet is still dry. Excellent video quality. You can always rely on iPhones. They are good. I think Koreans dress very well and always look good. Regardless of brand. Good news for Beemo. He is so loved by you guys.
I think it would be an interesting topic. I saw a foreign documentary on Japan's low birth rate. It's sad, but it's interesting that we can learn from it.
Europe and the USA also have low birth rates. Has Corea considered doing what they have done to solve this problem by opening up their borders to millions of immigrants from different races and cultures? This would bring new blood into Corea and would create more diversity, equity and inclusion.
Korea has no choice so you're right, immigrants is the key to solve this problem but many Koreans are worried about it because we always see news about immigrant issues from European countries and the States.
It’s so reassuring to hear Korea is embracing “honja” culture, I’m visiting for the first time next month as a solo female traveler. I’m a big introvert and I love going out to eat by myself so I love to hear I’m not gonna be judged about it in Korea lol. I think only bbq and fried chicken are the problems in terms of eating solo 🤔 By the way, that chocolate cake looked absolutely DIVINE ❤ That café is definitely in my Naver maps list!
i never heard that people without children are supposed to have a less interesting or more boring life. i only hear from people with children who are bored because they have to give up everything they would do before having children.
I love this style of video! Watching you try new delicious food & answering a few questions in different locations. As for apartments, I love yours! It's so cozy. So glad to hear Beemo is doing better. 😊❤
Thanks for a very interesting Q&A. It was a fun idea to do it in all kinds of different locations. I'm glad to hear that Beemo is doing a little better...I hope it continues!
I'm half of a DINK couple and we were fairly firm with our families about it without being rude and no one really bugs us about it anymore. I kept waiting to want to have kids and it never happened. I love my nephew so much and I'm going home for the birth of my niece in a month and so excited! I am definitely meant to be a cool aunt, not a mom. I'm so happy to hear that Beemo's tumor is benign--fingers crossed that it continues to shrink! So much love to you three!
That’s great to hear no one bugs you about it anymore! Kyuho feels the exact same way about his niece and nephew-he’s ’uncle Kyu, the cool uncle’. He loves them to pieces, runs around and plays with them when he visits-then immediately passes out from exhaustion when he gets home 😂 It’s definitely not something either of us could handle 24/7, but being the cool aunt and uncle and going back to our quiet apartment ar the end of the day is perfect for us.
I think a Vessi store has opened somewhere in the GTA, although I live 4+ish hours away (Windsor) and only go to Toronto once a year or every few years for just the day, but if I were to invest in a pair of Vessis shoes, I don't know if their shoes are good for someone with wide, flat feet, and feet that go inwards when they walk (I'm one of those people). I hope Beemo gets better and gets to enjoy more time playing with you guys and with his kitty toys (I wish we had a vet like yours for when our dog Snickers (he had glaucoma, heart murmur, and kidney failure) was still with us this time last year in his final days before the Rainbow Bridge).
We’d love to see the stores in person! In our opinion, Vessi’s ‘Everyday shoes’ are great for wider feet-but since neither of us have flat feet that go inward, we can’t speak on that. Maybe next time you’re in the area to can try on a few style and see if any of them work out for you 👟 Our condolences about your sweet Snickers ❤️
I find Seoul very easy to navigate alone except eating out, especially at Hansik style places. I still find going into old local places alone difficult (& a lot of time they can only do 2 portions up) which is sad coz I have very ahjusshi taste buds 😂. I'm so so happy Beemo is doing alright ❤
So happy Beemo's doing better. Fingers crossed the growth continues to shrink. Thank you for this lovely cosy vlog, loads of interesting questions and I'd be interested in a docu-vlog about Korea's birth rate too!
The decision to have children is a big one. With the low birth rate for Koreans, it is a cause for concern. Here is the US, there is a growing voice of people who opted not to have children are now regretting it as they are older and aging. When they made that decision, it seemed like it was right at the time but they didn’t realize, until now, that it was dependent on their good health and abilities in their youth. Idk… it definitely needs more discernment and the long view of your lives together…
With regards to the possibility of regret, the same can also be said for people who choose to have children. Regret is always possible with either choice.
Amren is my bae, fight me! 😂🤣😂 I love how savage she is and how she just gives no fucks about it. I got married 10 years ago (11 years ago this year wtf, why am I old?!), and I agree that even 10 years ago things were different (here in the US) and it was expected that we would have kids too. But thankfully I told my mom we're not doing it and she was like "yeah, mood I don't blame you, I don't regret having you or your brother but it's a lot of work and things are so different now." It was my MIL that wouldn't stop nagging us. Thankfully my SIL had 2 kids that keep her satisfied and now she leaves us alone. 😂🤣 Also my hysterectomy kinda took that off the table. 😅 I'm with Sarah, I don't have enough fucks to give in my 30s for what people think about me. The only people that pertains to is my husband and my coworkers, lol. I work in a male dominated field, so I'm always aware of the fact that I'm the only woman on my team. Thankfully, no one on my team cares about that and I am valued and respected. But I still care what they think anyway cuz I don't want to let them down. Oh, I'm so happy to hear about Beemo! We had the same thing happen with our late dog, Pepper. Back in early 2019, she got really sick and the ER vet said she had a tumor in her stomach. In dogs, stomach tumors are cancer 99% of the time. So we made the appointment to put her to sleep and sobbed on the ride home, we were devastated. Then we got home and she did her patrols (she used to go from room to room checking our house for burglars or something lol) and ate a big meal and drank a bunch of water and nested in the covers and chased her tail... Acted totally normal. We were like WTF is going on? Long story short we chose not to put her down and just monitor the growth. They did a biopsy and it was also negative, but they weren't sure of the results either so we just kept an eye on it. Over time it shrunk and went away, and she was with us until this past November! (2023). She would have been 17 years old in December and I'm so grateful for the 4 extra years we got with her. The vet was straight up astonished! I hope Beemo graces you in the same way and gives a big fat middle toe bean to the Grim Reaper for years to come! ❤ Have a great week, guys!
Amren is the assertive bad ass bitch that I need as my friend! I both love her and am terrified of her 😂 My mom said pretty much the exact same thing to me about having kids. And Kyuho’s parents are kept busy by Kyuho’s niece and nephew, so we’re all grateful to Kyuho’s sister 😂 Omggg, I’m sorry for your loss, but so glad to hear you got to spend 4 extra years with Pepper 🖤🥹
I love the housing topic... ever consider moving (an hour's journey) outside of Seoul so it can be more affordable to buy an apartment/ or a house? Is that an option at all? (You gotten hijacked by ❤ whilst in SK 🤣)
Nope 😅 We love the accessibility, convenience, and endless options of Seoul. But even if we were just hour out, we likely couldn’t afford to buy a place. We’d have to move somewhere wayyyy out there.
those sandwiches looked so yummy that i had to order food 😅 btw i think that in most developed countries birth rates are going down- this is associated to higher cost of living and higher access to reproductive healthcare. in some developing countries, birth rates don't look the same across all socioeconomic brackets either... so a lot of factors compound. if developed countries want to increase their birth rates, they have to work on affordable housing, dignified wages, access to education, childcare and healthcare, gender equality, lgbtq rights, good adoption frameworks, parental and caretaker leaves... but those economies prioritize productivity and profits over quality living, then complain their markets are too aged... my dear capitalist, pick a struggle!
Those sandwiches are one of our greatest weaknesses, lol 😬 Excellent points about what developed countries should be doing to increase birth rates. There are always going to be people who do not want kids regardless, but it’s the people who want kids (yet choose not to have them due to the issues you mentioned) where these improvements could make a big difference.
@2hearts1seoul oh, i absolutely agree with you - nothing can take away freedom of choice! i wouldn't have kids either, regardless of accommodations and policies. since having children is (and should be) a choice, i wish governments made that choice more accessible for those who want to make it responsibly
Hello from CA! I love 💗 watching & enjoy all of your videos especially with Sharon ( I’m her fan since the 80’s, did I just said my age). A big thank you to both of you I can virtually see Seoul. Hope to visit S Korea again & again.
Everyone talks about the personal reasons behind now having children (which are valid) but no one seems to talk about the societal impact. Unfortunately our economic system is setup where declining populations will trigger a society to collapse. During certain times in history, families would be encouraged to have tons of kids with a sense of national pride and collectivism. I don't see any hope for Korea's birth rate at the moment. It seems like mass immigration might be the only way to save the economy in Korea but culturally, Korea seems very resistant to immigration.
I thought that by 30 I would have a driver license and a car, never really liked the home owning because I love moving and I get bored with things very fast. Also I thought I would have "life" figured out by now, but I'm currently changing my non existent career, I've had so many and such different jobs over the years
I really gel with a lot of your thoughts and opinions. Thanks for these glimpses and insights into your lives! My hubby and I have kiddos but my brother and SIL don't have kids. My Korean parents are really understanding and gives them no pressure. They are Americanised though because they've moved to the US in the 80s.
I am thinking of travelling to Seoul for my Birthday in Sept! Just wondering if you do any meet&greet or coffee sessions with your viewers? 😁 Your videos always end my Sundays with a relaxing mode (to fight away with Mon blues! ) Cheers, Jas.
You could also try Spain...Costa Brava in Catalonia or the Cantabric Sea in Basque Country, or a Traditional House in the countryside in Navarre....as good as Itlaly or France.
even though got married late 20's we don't want to have children , though my parents respectful for our discission make not wanted to have children and also his parents too same way their thoughts, in our mid 30's our fist purchased small home than sold it and got a large home reason for that is his father (not healthy) taking care of him while living with us, when his father was passed on- 10 years ago, since than we been living this house, though we are still paying the mortgage which is not much , lol, think god, lol, we think eventually would sale this home ( too big for just two) and to small house,,, one day who knows will visit Korea , lol,
I think south koreans (specially living in Seoul) are under the pressure of the public to wearing high cost clothing. It’s all about status.They prefer loud high fashion brands to show or pretend that they got quiet a lot of money (even if it doesn’t declares their credibility). Well, if you got a good eye in style (as both of you have) the way you dress up looks better and more sophisticated then any designer brand. The key is; quality.
When I lived in Korea (2015-2020), going and doing things alone beyond the gym or whatnot was unheard of, and honestly I missed out on doing a lot of things because I was too scared to do them alone because I never saw anyone except maybe older men doing things alone, and once I went to a small diner by myself for a quick dinner and the ajumma's that worked there were either weirded out or felt sorry for me. And that makes me sad. The few times I visited Japan it seemed like a more feasible thing, but not in Korea.
Thank you for the video. It’s great that Kyuho’s parents are understanding and supportive of your decision not to have kids. My hubs & I are also a DINK couple married for 9 years. His mom is super traditional and constantly pressuring us to have a child. Actually she doesn’t care if the child is not biologically mine, as long as it’s biologically his, I.e. she wants him to get an egg donor and surrogate to have his baby. I’m standing my ground and saying no but he might give in to the pressure. This is putting a strain on our relationship. Anyways, I love your videos and wishing you both the best! 🤗
I love the conversations your channel opens up. Single person families are growing in the western world. I remember reading something about how in Scandinavia residential buildings were being built with single family units because it was the fastest growing demographic. I know these have been in Korea and Japan for a while, but in the last year there was a ramen shop opened in downtown Toronto that had single person booths.
That cake looked delicious! I really like how you guys express your points of view. On the 20 to 30's question i think I'm beeing more self concious about my age but my guess is that it is cause i just turned 29 a few days ago. I was never a party/drink person so I wonder what other differences do you see. Also about studying abroad I really agree with Sarah, it has been one of the best experiences of my life (exchange student in Daegu on 2016) i still think about those memories as if it happened last year but almost 8 years have passed by. Anyway hope you guys have a great week!! 😊
Nice to hear better news for Bemo❤ Love the style of this video,out and about and back at home. Old(er) um,sorta mature single woman here.Glad it is getting abit better there,doing things alone.Sure,i have friends,but with my job i have weird days off,not everyone can go,when i want too. Still get silly comments about being child free. Never wanted them.Love kids,just not to raise into healthy functioning adults. Thanks so much for sharing!❤
I really like this type of vlog Q&A style. A month by the sea in Europe with no responsibilities does sound super nice 🏖 I ordered myself a Moft phone stand after seeing it in one of your videos and love it btw
Wow it must be really true what they say that because of the lowest natality rate in the world South Korea is going to be non-existant. Especially what you say in the video that 50% of couples there do not want to have kids is kind of sad for the country because what will happen to it when no one is having kids?
Love this question and answer vlog posting. And what wonderful news that Beemo has more time to share with you both! You both make the most of your time- low birth rate is fine if quality of life isn't also diminishing. My cousin is a world traveler and a genuine polyglot, and she doesn't have children. She is also making the most of her life.
Great video, I really enjoyed it! This is kinda random, but I'm going to Korea at the start of April, and I'm just wondering if you guys think I'll be able to catch the cherry blossoms? 😂 Looking at the weather forecast for Seoul next week, it looks like it's getting quite warm already? I feel like the season will come early this year again and I might miss it haha
I like how down to earth you guys are, a lot of youtubers as soon they get brand deals and start growing they start buying brand things, cars showing off the money they have. It's better to be smart about your money and of course you can splurge on more things but use your money wisely and continue living a normal life because as soon you start spending too much your cost of life goes up and if your channel not continuesly doing well you can't sustain the life sfyle.. you guys are smart and i like your way of simple living.❤Fan from Aruba
I had said a prayer for Beemo when you last told us about his medical condition. I am pleasantly surprised that the growth shrank! ❤ I’m so thrilled he doing well. We love Beemo so much.💕 He’s definitely a tough little guy. 😊
How about creating a travel video itinerary specifically for Seoul? Say like for 3, 5, 7, or 10 days? Perhaps break them into different series? And maybe include your favorite places to eat as well? I have friends that are interested in traveling to South Korea, including myself, but would like to hear it from people that currently live in or from South Korea, not from other travelers. Thank you.
I paused this video midway through as it was time for my magnesium pills and then when I played the video, you mention taking magnesium supplements before bed, LOL. So funny
Thank you for a wonderful video as always! This was a fun way to do a Q&A that I'm sure took a lot of work to produce. I miss Korea and love your vision of it that you share here; it's so beautiful even in winter. Also so happy to hear to Beemo is doing well! As a cat parent I cried so hard when you shared his recent health scare. Still sending positive thoughts for him. Have a great week!
Regarding "Alone" culture, though, I will say Korea more than any other country I've been to, has the most places where its very tough to eat alone, since they require you get at least 2 portions or so - mostly traditional korean places likes bbq places, chicken gizzard spots, etc.
@@2hearts1seoul I went in 2019 and will say the amount of places you can comfortably eat alone has dramatically increased even since then. But sometimes, I just wanna eat chicken gizzards alone 😭😂
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0:00 Intro
1:12 Are we bored of living in Seoul?
4:26 Korea's 'alone culture'
5:41 Tech recommendations for starting UA-cam
7:49 'Wealth flaunting' and status in Seoul, and how it affects us
9:52 As a DINK couple, how do we keep our lives interesting?
11:46 Do we have pressure from our family to have kids?
14:16 Expectations that we had for our 30s
15:59 Are we touring apartments?
17:16 Differences between our 20s and 30s
18:15 How has Korea changed?
20:20 Sarah's experience studying abroad in Japan
21:10 How is Beemo's health?
22:57 Our thoughts on Korea having the world's lowest birthrate
24:32 Current favorite skincare products and clothing brands
25:19 What's one thing we've always wanted to try?
I have my pair of vessi. I keep saying to my self I will post it on instagram and tag you but I forget.😬😆😆😆 I will try to remember this week.
Ohhh, you should definitely do it! Curious to see which style you went with! 👟
Great video! Thank you for being yourselves and comforting us
Not shipping to Germany 😭😭😭
1)Bored of Seoul??? There are SO MANY fine eating places as well as street food areas, thankfully 'big money' hasn't sanitised the street food stalls. I do like meeting foreigners every day in my current job, think I'd need to have something like 'Seoul guided tours' or an 'European cafe experience' shop to keep me happy if I moved there... around Konkuk or similar is where I'd like to be based.2) 'A family?'...Filipi2os are the most annoying asking "WHY HAVE YOU NO CHILDREN??" I just tell them equally rudely it's none of their business!😡😡 😂😂 3) 'Cousin Kim' up North, does anyone worry about him, or is he just considered a bit mad..?
I love how you guys answering the questions in different places & vibes. Such an effort. Thank you guys for your extra effort. I really enjoy it😊
Hope the best for beemo❤
We wanted to mix things up rather than just sitting in the same location at home-glad you liked it ☺️
You guys, I’m so glad, that Beemo keeps fighting, he’s a warrior 💪🏻 I wish it would only get better from now on…🍀
Best of luck 🤍
We really hope so too ❤️❤️
Most important question, was that chocolate cake as good as it looked?
YES, omg.
Another lovely video to begin my Sunday. I appreciate the calm, chill vibe of your channel. You both are so thoughtful and caring. Thanks for sharing.
Hi guys, so happy to hear about your little cutie Beemo, I hope he’s around for a long time xx
Thank you ❤
I admire the authenticity and simplicity. Glad I followed your channel. At first, it was just about being a cat parent too and looking after stray cats that got me here. But now I’m learning so much more. Great to know you wanted to visit the Philippines, Sarah. Hope you could visit soon and perhaps have a fan meet. 😀 I will definitely come. 😊
Im so happy for Beemo.
I cried so much when I heard the C news in December.
Please Beemo be happy and more healthy. ❤❤❤❤❤
Same! That little kitty has worked himself into hearts around the world!
DINK = dual income, no kids. I was not familiar with that acronym. 😅
My thoughts on the low birth rate is that it’s just inevitable. There’s a limited amount of resources and space for people to live, not just in Korea, but worldwide. Technology will be a huge factor to being able to stabilize any severe collapse. But, for now the symptoms of high cost of living, high housing prices, etc are going to further deter the current young generation from wanting kids. It’s the sign of overpopulation pushing against the limits of land and resources.
I currently work in a kindergarten in a very remote area of Korea. We have just started our new school year, and surprisingly, we have a lot of kids. They opened two extra classes due to the demand, and there’s even a waiting list. I’m always surprised by the news, but when I see how many kids we have starting from age 4, I get kind of confused.
Same in my area! We have so many children here, had to build more public schools and classes due to complaints from parents. New big cities near Seoul(Hanam, Gimpo, Dongtan, Yeongjong etc.)are in the same situation).
Is it possible for a non-native English speaker to find a school job there?
@@luminouslink777Maybe in private foreign language schools yes, but not in public schools in general.
This is so interesting! There have been so many schools closing down these days across the country. Maybe they ended up closing other schools in other areas, and the students from the closed schools ended up at the school you currently teach at? These days they’re having to combine schools like this.
I think being bored is relative. It's what you make of your time. So if you choose to be bored, ok then, that's on you. But you don't have to be bored. Kiddo keeps me busy, but I have hobbies outside of that that sometimes I get to do when I don't have parenting duties lol.
When we went to Hawaii a few years ago, we wanted to swim with manta rays. That was a tour you could do. We totally wanted to do that, but because wifey was preggo, it probably wasn't a good idea. Just an excuse to go back and do it in the future when the kiddo gets older lol. But just reminded me that it's kinda similar to your whale shark experience you'd like to try.
Totally agree! Everyone is so different :)
And ohhh my gosh, swimming with manta rays has just been added to my list after whale sharks 😳
Love this style of q&a vid!! 😃
Glad you like it! 😊
Me too! 👍☺️
i wonder if Beemo has a GIST in his stomach. It a type of tumor that is more benign and frequently bleeds. I'm a human doctor but the description reminded me of a GIST.
Woahh, we’ve never heard of this, but that growth did bleed in December when we had to take him to the vet to stay over night.
I ike your Q & A videos and I enjoyed you answering them in different places. I'm also very glad that Beemo doesn't have cancer...I know he has other health struggles but, with your love and care he is doing well and I hope will continue to get even better!❤
Great news about Beemo. My most recent cat was diagnosed with a tumour in her stomach which was supposedly incurable. It disappeared and she happily lasted several more years. Miracles can happen and hopefully he'll continue to enjoy life for some time yet. 🐈 Many thanks as always - looking forward to my return trip to SK in less than 2 weeks. 🇰🇷😊
I almost started to cry when you told us about Beemo. I'm so glad to hear that he keeps fighting 🥺❤
oh dont you worry about not achieveing house in your 30', look at me, I thought in my 30' I would have boyfriend and thinking to marring him, however relationship ended before even reaching 30. And now single as pringle. So if it will make you feel better you doing way better than me 🤣🤣🤣
Highly agree on the tech part. We only use an action cam ( cause we would risk falling on our faces while cycling 😂) and our phones and that's completely fine for the stuff we wanna create
Omg I love your username 😅
I really love how film and edit this video! 🤍 Hope Beemo only gets better and better, he always makes me smile 😊🐈⬛
Thank you! 🥹❤️
Kyuho felt respected by his mom for his decision not to have kids, was partly because his mom is well educated (she has a PHD). Most of our parents are NOT educated, they are Stubborn and controlling, always think their values are correct and enforcing onto the younger generation, therefore they dis-respected Us.
As a result, many of my peers and myself left home, stayed single or childless and we loving our freedom of choice :)
Honestly I had no idea you filmed on your phone! That’s a great video idea for your viewers 😊 you could film yourself vlogging with a phone. Only if you wanted to that is.
Wow, that's such remarkable news about Beemo. May the force be with him for a long time!!!
Ah the shot where you all were across the river was really nice! 😊
Kyuho’s hard work 😂
@@2hearts1seoul The dedication ❤ we love it 🤣🤣🤣
휴대폰으로 촬영헤도 초점이 되게 잘 잡히네요. 잘 보고 있습니다.
Hi guys.. Just came home recently frm my first intl trip; Singaporeee 🥺 was late watching your Sunday vlogs then after about 4 yrs of watching u on time.. Haha.. Come to Philipppinessss! Summer time is felt now here, I think the snorkling thing is somewhere in Cebu?.. My bday is approaching & gonna celeb it hoping in Seoul very sooon by that time, summer here & late of spring there hopefully, have a nice week ahead for all of us❤
Really happy and amazed at Beemos condition! I’m very glad for you all!
Your videos always give me a sense of peace and calm.
I don't always comment, but always leave a like. 😊
30대로서 너무너무 공감되고 힐링되네요! 늘 잘 시청하고 있습니다 ㅎㅎ
Oh, I'm so glad to hear Beemo is doing better. Praying that growth will continue to shrink.💜
I really like the style of this video. The questions were interesting too. I like going out to eat and watch movies alone, I’ve done it since my early twenties and people would look at me strangely then, not so much now. If my boyfriend is not feeling something I want to do one day or I just want me time, I don’t have to wait for someone else.
I was literally crying (in happiness) about the news about Beemo might not have the cancer and that his tumor is shrinking! ❤ God knows how I am praying for a miracle for Beemo and I’d like to believe that my prayers were heard! ❤❤❤ I still am praying for a complete healing (I hope I got the right term) for Beemo and may he live more loving years with you Kyuho and Sarah! 😍
I love you guys and I can’t wait for you to come visit the Philippines! ❤😍
8:53 personally I was never into it at all. The most luxurious thing I wanted as a teen was a pair of Jordans as with all teenage boys. Parents said no. And I’m pretty much become indifferent to any luxury related items. Food is where I splurge or the occasional soccer/hockey jersey.
Yes Vessi is the best! I have a pair same as Kyuho's it is so much better than Nike. It protects from the rain we get alot of rain here in Malaysia and my feet is still dry. Excellent video quality. You can always rely on iPhones. They are good. I think Koreans dress very well and always look good. Regardless of brand. Good news for Beemo. He is so loved by you guys.
Loved today’s video. Thank you guy’s. Sending my love you and beemo from Mexico. Hopefully one day I can go to Korea and meet with you.
Always looking forward to watching your videos, they are so enjoyable and feel homey. Thank you for sharing ☺
Love your earrings collaboration with Ana Luisa! Simple elegant and classic. I wear them most days to work.
I live in Australia and I eat alone in restaurants all the time.
I think it would be an interesting topic. I saw a foreign documentary on Japan's low birth rate. It's sad, but it's interesting that we can learn from it.
한국 1인가구가 35프로로 가장 많은 세대임 한국 명품 소비량은 세계 1위임
Glad to hear Beemo is feeling better. I wondered how he was doing since it looked so bad for him in December and we were still seeing him in videos.
Europe and the USA also have low birth rates. Has Corea considered doing what they have done to solve this problem by opening up their borders to millions of immigrants from different races and cultures? This would bring new blood into Corea and would create more diversity, equity and inclusion.
Korea has no choice so you're right, immigrants is the key to solve this problem but many Koreans are worried about it because we always see news about immigrant issues from European countries and the States.
It’s so reassuring to hear Korea is embracing “honja” culture, I’m visiting for the first time next month as a solo female traveler. I’m a big introvert and I love going out to eat by myself so I love to hear I’m not gonna be judged about it in Korea lol. I think only bbq and fried chicken are the problems in terms of eating solo 🤔 By the way, that chocolate cake looked absolutely DIVINE ❤ That café is definitely in my Naver maps list!
Yes! So many things you can enjoy alone here, and no one will even bat an eye 😊
some restaurants may not allow solo diners so don't be surprised!
i never heard that people without children are supposed to have a less interesting or more boring life. i only hear from people with children who are bored because they have to give up everything they would do before having children.
Oh my! You guys made me laugh with "magnesium before bed", I'm 35, I totally relate.
Hahah, we actually bought magnesium spray, so we’re going to experiment with that-so exciting 🌝
I love this style of video! Watching you try new delicious food & answering a few questions in different locations. As for apartments, I love yours! It's so cozy.
So glad to hear Beemo is doing better. 😊❤
Two tall model like young couple looks good with any clothes. Lucky you, no need spend fortune to be stylish
Woah, thank you 😳
Thanks for a very interesting Q&A. It was a fun idea to do it in all kinds of different locations. I'm glad to hear that Beemo is doing a little better...I hope it continues!
I'm half of a DINK couple and we were fairly firm with our families about it without being rude and no one really bugs us about it anymore. I kept waiting to want to have kids and it never happened. I love my nephew so much and I'm going home for the birth of my niece in a month and so excited! I am definitely meant to be a cool aunt, not a mom. I'm so happy to hear that Beemo's tumor is benign--fingers crossed that it continues to shrink! So much love to you three!
That’s great to hear no one bugs you about it anymore! Kyuho feels the exact same way about his niece and nephew-he’s ’uncle Kyu, the cool uncle’. He loves them to pieces, runs around and plays with them when he visits-then immediately passes out from exhaustion when he gets home 😂 It’s definitely not something either of us could handle 24/7, but being the cool aunt and uncle and going back to our quiet apartment ar the end of the day is perfect for us.
I think a Vessi store has opened somewhere in the GTA, although I live 4+ish hours away (Windsor) and only go to Toronto once a year or every few years for just the day, but if I were to invest in a pair of Vessis shoes, I don't know if their shoes are good for someone with wide, flat feet, and feet that go inwards when they walk (I'm one of those people). I hope Beemo gets better and gets to enjoy more time playing with you guys and with his kitty toys (I wish we had a vet like yours for when our dog Snickers (he had glaucoma, heart murmur, and kidney failure) was still with us this time last year in his final days before the Rainbow Bridge).
We’d love to see the stores in person! In our opinion, Vessi’s ‘Everyday shoes’ are great for wider feet-but since neither of us have flat feet that go inward, we can’t speak on that. Maybe next time you’re in the area to can try on a few style and see if any of them work out for you 👟
Our condolences about your sweet Snickers ❤️
영상을 결혼하실 때 부터 봤는데 저도 그땐 왜 딩크이실까?라는 의문이었는데 지금은 딩크일 수도 있지가 되었네요 ㅋㅋ저를 봐도 지난 10년동안 정말 한국사회가 빠르게 바뀌었고 그리고 바뀌는 중이라는 걸 저를 보면서 느낍니다!ㅎㅎ 항상 영상 잘 보고 있어요!
I find Seoul very easy to navigate alone except eating out, especially at Hansik style places. I still find going into old local places alone difficult (& a lot of time they can only do 2 portions up) which is sad coz I have very ahjusshi taste buds 😂. I'm so so happy Beemo is doing alright ❤
So happy Beemo's doing better. Fingers crossed the growth continues to shrink. Thank you for this lovely cosy vlog, loads of interesting questions and I'd be interested in a docu-vlog about Korea's birth rate too!
The decision to have children is a big one. With the low birth rate for Koreans, it is a cause for concern. Here is the US, there is a growing voice of people who opted not to have children are now regretting it as they are older and aging. When they made that decision, it seemed like it was right at the time but they didn’t realize, until now, that it was dependent on their good health and abilities in their youth. Idk… it definitely needs more discernment and the long view of your lives together…
With regards to the possibility of regret, the same can also be said for people who choose to have children. Regret is always possible with either choice.
Amren is my bae, fight me! 😂🤣😂 I love how savage she is and how she just gives no fucks about it.
I got married 10 years ago (11 years ago this year wtf, why am I old?!), and I agree that even 10 years ago things were different (here in the US) and it was expected that we would have kids too. But thankfully I told my mom we're not doing it and she was like "yeah, mood I don't blame you, I don't regret having you or your brother but it's a lot of work and things are so different now." It was my MIL that wouldn't stop nagging us. Thankfully my SIL had 2 kids that keep her satisfied and now she leaves us alone. 😂🤣 Also my hysterectomy kinda took that off the table. 😅
I'm with Sarah, I don't have enough fucks to give in my 30s for what people think about me. The only people that pertains to is my husband and my coworkers, lol. I work in a male dominated field, so I'm always aware of the fact that I'm the only woman on my team. Thankfully, no one on my team cares about that and I am valued and respected. But I still care what they think anyway cuz I don't want to let them down.
Oh, I'm so happy to hear about Beemo! We had the same thing happen with our late dog, Pepper. Back in early 2019, she got really sick and the ER vet said she had a tumor in her stomach. In dogs, stomach tumors are cancer 99% of the time. So we made the appointment to put her to sleep and sobbed on the ride home, we were devastated. Then we got home and she did her patrols (she used to go from room to room checking our house for burglars or something lol) and ate a big meal and drank a bunch of water and nested in the covers and chased her tail... Acted totally normal. We were like WTF is going on? Long story short we chose not to put her down and just monitor the growth. They did a biopsy and it was also negative, but they weren't sure of the results either so we just kept an eye on it. Over time it shrunk and went away, and she was with us until this past November! (2023). She would have been 17 years old in December and I'm so grateful for the 4 extra years we got with her. The vet was straight up astonished!
I hope Beemo graces you in the same way and gives a big fat middle toe bean to the Grim Reaper for years to come! ❤
Have a great week, guys!
Amren is the assertive bad ass bitch that I need as my friend! I both love her and am terrified of her 😂
My mom said pretty much the exact same thing to me about having kids. And Kyuho’s parents are kept busy by Kyuho’s niece and nephew, so we’re all grateful to Kyuho’s sister 😂
Omggg, I’m sorry for your loss, but so glad to hear you got to spend 4 extra years with Pepper 🖤🥹
@@2hearts1seoul Thank you. I miss her every day, but she lived those final 4 years very well. :)
I’m so happy it’s not cancer!, and that it’s shrinking! We love Beemo
Thank you 🥹
When I’m craving sweets during my period, I call that “period food!” I’ll crave sweets, salty! Kyuho has sympathy cravings lol
I couldn't get the 15% off on the shoes, albeit using your link... I think the website doesn't function very well but I bought a pair anyway
That’s strange 😳 Was it your first time purchasing shoes from Vessi??
I am so happy that Beemo is getting better, have a great week
I love the housing topic... ever consider moving (an hour's journey) outside of Seoul so it can be more affordable to buy an apartment/ or a house? Is that an option at all? (You gotten hijacked by ❤ whilst in SK 🤣)
Nope 😅 We love the accessibility, convenience, and endless options of Seoul. But even if we were just hour out, we likely couldn’t afford to buy a place. We’d have to move somewhere wayyyy out there.
@@2hearts1seoul Life will just work out on its own somehow eventually effectively to y'all wishes :)
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those sandwiches looked so yummy that i had to order food 😅
btw i think that in most developed countries birth rates are going down- this is associated to higher cost of living and higher access to reproductive healthcare. in some developing countries, birth rates don't look the same across all socioeconomic brackets either... so a lot of factors compound.
if developed countries want to increase their birth rates, they have to work on affordable housing, dignified wages, access to education, childcare and healthcare, gender equality, lgbtq rights, good adoption frameworks, parental and caretaker leaves... but those economies prioritize productivity and profits over quality living, then complain their markets are too aged... my dear capitalist, pick a struggle!
Those sandwiches are one of our greatest weaknesses, lol 😬
Excellent points about what developed countries should be doing to increase birth rates. There are always going to be people who do not want kids regardless, but it’s the people who want kids (yet choose not to have them due to the issues you mentioned) where these improvements could make a big difference.
@2hearts1seoul oh, i absolutely agree with you - nothing can take away freedom of choice! i wouldn't have kids either, regardless of accommodations and policies.
since having children is (and should be) a choice, i wish governments made that choice more accessible for those who want to make it responsibly
What a beautiful city.
Great news about Bemo!! And thanks for sharing the Q and A. I like these video formats.
Korea has the highest credit card debt per capita than any other nation. Wrong priorities!
Yes~ just read this recently.
Hello from CA! I love 💗 watching & enjoy all of your videos especially with Sharon ( I’m her fan since the 80’s, did I just said my age). A big thank you to both of you I can virtually see Seoul. Hope to visit S Korea again & again.
Everyone talks about the personal reasons behind now having children (which are valid) but no one seems to talk about the societal impact. Unfortunately our economic system is setup where declining populations will trigger a society to collapse. During certain times in history, families would be encouraged to have tons of kids with a sense of national pride and collectivism. I don't see any hope for Korea's birth rate at the moment. It seems like mass immigration might be the only way to save the economy in Korea but culturally, Korea seems very resistant to immigration.
I thought that by 30 I would have a driver license and a car, never really liked the home owning because I love moving and I get bored with things very fast.
Also I thought I would have "life" figured out by now, but I'm currently changing my non existent career, I've had so many and such different jobs over the years
I really gel with a lot of your thoughts and opinions. Thanks for these glimpses and insights into your lives! My hubby and I have kiddos but my brother and SIL don't have kids. My Korean parents are really understanding and gives them no pressure. They are Americanised though because they've moved to the US in the 80s.
Love the Q&A throughout the video. It makes it fun to watch. Thank you. Love to see more.
I am thinking of travelling to Seoul for my Birthday in Sept! Just wondering if you do any meet&greet or coffee sessions with your viewers? 😁 Your videos always end my Sundays with a relaxing mode (to fight away with Mon blues! ) Cheers, Jas.
You could also try Spain...Costa Brava in Catalonia or the Cantabric Sea in Basque Country, or a Traditional House in the countryside in Navarre....as good as Itlaly or France.
even though got married late 20's we don't want to have children , though my parents respectful for our discission make not wanted to have children and also his parents too same way their thoughts, in our mid 30's our fist purchased small home than sold it and got a large home reason for that is his father (not healthy) taking care of him while living with us, when his father was passed on- 10 years ago, since than we been living this house, though we are still paying the mortgage which is not much , lol, think god, lol, we think eventually would sale this home ( too big for just two) and to small house,,, one day who knows will visit Korea , lol,
If you’re filming by yourself though, how do you know if you’re in frame/focus? That’s my biggest gripe with using your phone! 😭
외국인 구독자가 범람하는 댓글창에 8년전부터 응원하던 구독자가 댓글 남기고 갑니다ㅎㅎ 앞으로도 한국의 다양한 모습을 외국인의 시선으로 많이 담아주세요.
와 정말 오랫동안 시청해주시고 응원해주셔서 너무 너무 감사해요 🥰 앞으로도 다양한 컨텐츠를 제작해보며 아름다운 모습과 풍경들을 많이 담아볼게요 😄
I really want to hear Sarah speak Korean during a video. She mentioned she can she just doesn't feel comfortable. You go Beemo.
I think south koreans (specially living in Seoul) are under the pressure of the public to wearing high cost clothing. It’s all about status.They prefer loud high fashion brands to show or pretend that they got quiet a lot of money (even if it doesn’t declares their credibility). Well, if you got a good eye in style (as both of you have) the way you dress up looks better and more sophisticated then any designer brand. The key is; quality.
What are the handheld microphones you use, I couldn’t find them on your Amazon page?
When I lived in Korea (2015-2020), going and doing things alone beyond the gym or whatnot was unheard of, and honestly I missed out on doing a lot of things because I was too scared to do them alone because I never saw anyone except maybe older men doing things alone, and once I went to a small diner by myself for a quick dinner and the ajumma's that worked there were either weirded out or felt sorry for me. And that makes me sad. The few times I visited Japan it seemed like a more feasible thing, but not in Korea.
Thank you for the video. It’s great that Kyuho’s parents are understanding and supportive of your decision not to have kids. My hubs & I are also a DINK couple married for 9 years. His mom is super traditional and constantly pressuring us to have a child. Actually she doesn’t care if the child is not biologically mine, as long as it’s biologically his, I.e. she wants him to get an egg donor and surrogate to have his baby. I’m standing my ground and saying no but he might give in to the pressure. This is putting a strain on our relationship. Anyways, I love your videos and wishing you both the best! 🤗
I love the conversations your channel opens up. Single person families are growing in the western world. I remember reading something about how in Scandinavia residential buildings were being built with single family units because it was the fastest growing demographic. I know these have been in Korea and Japan for a while, but in the last year there was a ramen shop opened in downtown Toronto that had single person booths.
Thank you Beemo for fighting 🏆
That cake looked delicious! I really like how you guys express your points of view.
On the 20 to 30's question i think I'm beeing more self concious about my age but my guess is that it is cause i just turned 29 a few days ago. I was never a party/drink person so I wonder what other differences do you see.
Also about studying abroad I really agree with Sarah, it has been one of the best experiences of my life (exchange student in Daegu on 2016) i still think about those memories as if it happened last year but almost 8 years have passed by.
Anyway hope you guys have a great week!! 😊
Nice to hear better news for Bemo❤
Love the style of this video,out and about and back at home.
Old(er) um,sorta mature single woman here.Glad it is getting abit better there,doing things alone.Sure,i have friends,but with my job i have weird days off,not everyone can go,when i want too.
Still get silly comments about being child free.
Never wanted them.Love kids,just not to raise into healthy functioning adults.
Thanks so much for sharing!❤
This is a really nice and dynamic way to do a QA !
I’m really glad the Beemo’s growth is not cancer 🙌🏽
I really like this type of vlog Q&A style. A month by the sea in Europe with no responsibilities does sound super nice 🏖 I ordered myself a Moft phone stand after seeing it in one of your videos and love it btw
Wow it must be really true what they say that because of the lowest natality rate in the world South Korea is going to be non-existant.
Especially what you say in the video that 50% of couples there do not want to have kids is kind of sad for the country because what will happen to it when no one is having kids?
SO HAPPY for Beemo
Thank you for the tips I started with my own UA-cam channel last end of December and just also using my iPhone ❤ your channel 😊
Love this question and answer vlog posting. And what wonderful news that Beemo has more time to share with you both! You both make the most of your time- low birth rate is fine if quality of life isn't also diminishing. My cousin is a world traveler and a genuine polyglot, and she doesn't have children. She is also making the most of her life.
These shoes look and sound amazing. It's a shame they don't ship to Germany :(
We really hope they’ll be able to open up shipping to Europe soon 😭
Great video, I really enjoyed it! This is kinda random, but I'm going to Korea at the start of April, and I'm just wondering if you guys think I'll be able to catch the cherry blossoms? 😂 Looking at the weather forecast for Seoul next week, it looks like it's getting quite warm already? I feel like the season will come early this year again and I might miss it haha
Honestly, it’s SO hard to tell these days 😳 Last year they bloomed at the end of March (1-2 weeks early), but usually it’s early April 🤞
Ohh I am very happy and felt relieved about Beemo🙏🙏 , sorry I kept commenting on the process coz I am just excited.
I like how down to earth you guys are, a lot of youtubers as soon they get brand deals and start growing they start buying brand things, cars showing off the money they have. It's better to be smart about your money and of course you can splurge on more things but use your money wisely and continue living a normal life because as soon you start spending too much your cost of life goes up and if your channel not continuesly doing well you can't sustain the life sfyle.. you guys are smart and i like your way of simple living.❤Fan from Aruba
I had said a prayer for Beemo when you last told us about his medical condition. I am pleasantly surprised that the growth shrank! ❤ I’m so thrilled he doing well. We love Beemo so much.💕 He’s definitely a tough little guy. 😊
How about creating a travel video itinerary specifically for Seoul? Say like for 3, 5, 7, or 10 days? Perhaps break them into different series? And maybe include your favorite places to eat as well? I have friends that are interested in traveling to South Korea, including myself, but would like to hear it from people that currently live in or from South Korea, not from other travelers. Thank you.
I paused this video midway through as it was time for my magnesium pills and then when I played the video, you mention taking magnesium supplements before bed, LOL. So funny
Omg 😂 The timing!
My comfort vloggers ❤ sending love from the Philippines
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Why do you still wear masks.
Because we prefer to wear them in crowded indoor spaces during flu season, particularly on the subway.
Thank you for a wonderful video as always! This was a fun way to do a Q&A that I'm sure took a lot of work to produce. I miss Korea and love your vision of it that you share here; it's so beautiful even in winter.
Also so happy to hear to Beemo is doing well! As a cat parent I cried so hard when you shared his recent health scare. Still sending positive thoughts for him.
Have a great week!
뭔가 영상의 색감이나 느낌이 달라진 느낌.. 한편의 다큐 같네요ㄷㄷ
Regarding "Alone" culture, though, I will say Korea more than any other country I've been to, has the most places where its very tough to eat alone, since they require you get at least 2 portions or so - mostly traditional korean places likes bbq places, chicken gizzard spots, etc.
Any kind of bbq places usually! But pretty much everything else is fair game.
This is a win for me, because I eat 2-3 portions for myself haha.
@@2hearts1seoul I went in 2019 and will say the amount of places you can comfortably eat alone has dramatically increased even since then. But sometimes, I just wanna eat chicken gizzards alone 😭😂
Do come to the Philippines!!! 🇵🇭
@@bloomz8375 The irony there is that Filipinos are so warm and friendly, I have a feeling I won't want to eat alone very often haha