I HAVE AN ADDICTION
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- Опубліковано 11 лис 2023
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Wait where’s this outfit from I needed a date night outfit and I always have red nails so this is perfect 😭
I love to shop at Shein ! And now that I’m pregnant , Shein comes in clutch ! U look beautiful Alo ❤ @$ugvar
I love to shop on fashion Nova n SHEIN .. and them little boutiques around the city .. aka the chinito stores … no offense, but they do have cute clothes sometimes
Ok but I really would love you to help out your subscribers too I mean even if it ain't giving it for free, maybe reselling, raffles or giveaway your stuff u don't/rarely use, I say because alot of the places like goodwill don't really care but about their 💵 and us on the other hand will be more appreciative. Idk I don't mind buying hand offs at all lol love yaaa
My favorite place to shop is definitely shopping online!!🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 $Dezahlee0Ahmarilis
This is actually a symptom of ADHD, impulsive buying and no self control oR memory of it, poor financial choices, LACK OF ORGANIZATION, and getting bored of things easily. No hate to her, I know she shared her adhd diagnosis not to long ago, and just wanted to share some AWARENESS❤
I believe she has adhd
I think she said she was diagnosed with ADD not ADHD but I honestly think they’re the same thing not sure lol
yes so true ❤
It’s also a symptom of bipolar disorder so you never know
She did say in one video that she was diagnosed with something else but didnt wanna say what because she was embarrassed or something
Whoever’s reading this, i pray that whatever you’re going’s through gets better and whatever you’re struggling with or worrying bout is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen ❤️
Needed this! I've been struggling 🥹
I have an on going case going on and last night I couldnt fall asleep, I'm starting to lose hope and seen this comment made me feel better ❤ thank you.
Same to you!! 🙏🏼❤️
Amen same to you 🙏
👋 thanks Same to you too🙏 🖖
We try to fill a hole in ourselves with material things, but no matter how much we own, it will never actually heal us until we do the emotional work needed.
Not Alondra saying she has an addiction then saying she’ll link her storefront for us to be addicted too 😂
LMAO
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Right.. 💀🙄
Right. We all already addicted.. might as well get more addicted! 😂 I think she just related to soooo many of us tho! Who else got closets full of clothes and shoes and purses with no place to wear them to.. 😂. I’m going to start wearing my 🔥outfits to check the mail. 🤷🏻♀️ #therapy for my #retailtherapy 🥰
Vibes on that!! Growing up poor, and then when you have the means just going balls to the wall. As crazy as it is, I felt like it would heal my inner child that wanted to not wear the same clothes every week.
Start asking yourself questions before buying: when will I wear this? Why would I need this? Does this even shout “me?” Things like that… it’s may help! Lol
This is exactly me! Trying to heal my inner child not having anything growing up & only getting hand me downs because I was the youngest of 4 kids. I now have over 10K in credit card debt & I cannot stop wanting to make purchases every single day. I have a 15 year old son that I want to also give the world to & it’s just, HARD. 😞
Don’t set yourself up for failure! You can get out of this. Make more conscious efforts, and remind yourself what you tried so hard to break away from. Trust me, I had the same problem. But I found making more conscious efforts really work for me.
Same
So basically that happened to me when I came to live in lisbon for the first time and I got a great job . I used to spend on everything I thought was cute because I have never had an opportunity to spoil me. Now I just buy what I think matches with me and it's really necessary . I love seeing my bank account with good numbers.
@@luaiaoliveira4257 that is what TRULY heals your inner child. Spending carelessly is temporary relief. When you see real progress, you spiritually and mentally progress from previous traumas!♥️
Girl! You worked hard for your money, it’s okay to splurge! Shopping can be therapeutic! I have the same addiction hahaha. We love these videosssss 😍
I started switching into a minimalistic mindset and that is what helped me.
I love living minimalistic a lot less to have to keep up with. Lol
How did u do it pls help
Mommas are here and yes we want to see a Baby Benny haul! Love you girl!
Lol she’s so cute!! We fully support you through your addiction girl 😉😂💕
It's going to be a good weekend when queen Alondra posts💓
Loved everything! I miss these kind of long hauls. Love your style Alondra 🫶🏼
Love you mama!!! Keep the content coming no matter what it is because I’ll always support!!! 🔥❤️🤌🏽🤌🏽
this was so entertaining to watch 😂 the boot stomps had me dead! lol
those deodorant wipes are SOOO good & smell amazing ! & you better wear all those glasses ! lol
i love shopping at ulta, target, amazon & tj maxx😭
The way I stopped everything to watch this😭😂
That wig looks hella cuteeeee on you ! Definitely do it with your hair up & post pics 😩😍 the bangs are cute too !
Me watching with a shopping addiction too😀. Love you❤️
Ok but the wig looks so good on you!!! Honestly, all the sunglasses are so cute!!
Omg girl ! I so love your addiction to shopping !! I think I have an addiction too but can’t afford all the things you buy !!
Felt but I try too
Omg I felt this deeply I go shopping every weekend it literally makes me happy
I manifest for a future where I’m able to do this for myself as well! Alo I’ll take the things you don’t use🤣🤣💕LMAO. Love you girl
Love you Alonda!! 😘😍
The addiction is not an addiction unless you feel like you cannot control the spending and it becomes a habit that ends up in debt, I don’t think that’s your issue at all. You have the money to shop in the manner that you do but that guilt type of feeling comes from past childhood experiences and emotions… if you can afford it, go for it. It’s like Gambling!! You gamble with money that your not going to miss if you lose it. Enjoy your things!! You have the luxury to afford it!! Don’t forget that!! We all would be shopping for everything too if we had hundreds and thousands rolling in as profit. Enjoy your life!! Don’t feel bad for splurging while you can, you have investments, your own business, and who knows how many other jobs going on plus being a mommy. ❤
Thank you for this video!
Girlllll those sunglasses are 🔥🔥🔥😍😍
girrrrrl i’m addicted to shopping too but growing up poor and always hearing about not having money or being told “you better not ask for anything” makes the little girl in me now double think everything and i end up putting it down and say eh maybe next time 🥺
PS are you gonna do a bbl update? would love to have an update and know if you like your new bbl? i think it looks perfect but would love to see how you’re doing with it
Omg I can totally relate to the shopping addiction 😂 I struggle with that too!! My favorite store to shop at are Marshall’s and tj maxx!!! 💕💕
Girl I can relate so much as to why we have a shopping addiction. Growing up in a low income family, we really didn’t have much. In high school I would pretty much wear hand-me-downs from my neighbors lol. I didn’t mind it much since I didn’t like to ask my parents because I knew they were struggling. But girl now that I can afford things I buy things just to buy and sometimes I reflect on it and be like “am I like this because I couldn’t afford things when I was younger?” Lol But I have stopped but watching your videos makes me want to add on to the addiction lmao 😂
Literally me with Hello Kitty stuff lol
Giiirl same asf I stayed getting hand me downs so now that I make my own money I always buy myself everything 😅
Girl you not alone !!! 😅😅😅😅
TjMaxx, Burlington and Target🥹🥹🥲 shopping really is a guilty pleasure. Things are just always so cute🤡🥲🤣
You are glowing Alo!💛💛💛
Your beautiful Alondra!!!! Been watching you since you started on UA-cam! ❤❤❤❤
Love your vibes! I would like to see mom and baby relate.so neat!❤
Speaking for the mommies, we are totally here for it mamma!! ❤
Alo, since Thanksgiving is coming, I want to wish you and your family a Happy Thanksgiving 🙋🏻♂️🦃🍽🍴🍖🍗🌽🥧🤎💛❤️🧡💚🙏🏻
I Loved this video!!!! I missed haul videos love you alo🩷🩷
I love your grwm!!
GIRL! The shopping when I’m sad or happy is SO me…. And then I feel guilty after! Ay yi yi 🤦🏽♀️
You look amazing!! 🥰
OMG I love all your hauls 😫 I love shopping at ulta, Sephora, and ross!! Lmaooo
Your so pretty 🩷 Alondra Dessy‼️‼️ love your content girl keep doing you gorgeous 💅🏻💕💕
You should do a part two! Missed your videos!
I totally understand! I’m the same way. I buy too much! I also think it’s because I didn’t grow up having much and I always feel like I missed out when I was growing up and over buy. Please share how to stop!
Omg 😱 same !!! I even got the same wig … looks good girl…. Idea you should make a blog on how to put on a wig or a variety of wigs on you. That would be fun.
Showing love from the 209❤.. we need another eyeshadow pallet girl😂
Girl same I love pink n neutrals 😍💕🤎 I need help too 😭
Haha me too!!💖 I’m always online shopping 🛍️😩
Okayyyy she is me!!!! Not having the money but now that I do, all I do is shop!!! And yesss we wanna see baby Benny haul! I have a one year old baby boy and love to see the fits !!!❤
Same girl! I’m addicted to shopping!
I love shopping at tj Maxx. Love the clothes and love that they have gold jewelry. Love all ur content girly!
I agree with you also with getting a shoe in different color cuz it is hard to find a comfortable shoes when u have wide feet. So easy u get a pair of shoes in 2 colors so when one pair wears out u have another.
I no the way you felt as a young girl. Now u can buy whatever an when ever u want your blessed an work hard for those things your truly blessed if I had the opportunity you have I probably do the the same. God bless you.
I'm deep cleaning my beauty room and closet and I realize I Have so much stuff with tags and duplicates. For me shopping is a way to de stress and do something alone 😅.I swear shopping helps my depression but I learned since I got a mortgage to shop all the time but only buy things that are on sale or deals. I love vintage and thrifting it helps with my shopping addiction and not spend a lot but find fire finds lol . I shop for seasons like currently I'm buying Christmas decor lol instead or aimlessly buying I have a purpose now lollll❤
Same ! Everyday I have to wear perfume , scented mist No matter what , I Soooooo Feel you on “Add to Cart, Buy Now, Buy Now , Buy Now” It’s bad .
Yeah that wig color looks amazing with your skin color
Def need to see you do looks with all these the Nike new balances are fire all the colors lol
That wig looks good! You should prank Benny with that wig and make a video! 🤩
My dad is the same way !! he grew up poor in Mexico there was days they couldn’t even eat (he has 4 sisters 1 brother) and he even tries to hoard stuff and doesn’t like wasting food at ALL! But I also understand why he’s the way he is.
Xmas came early for you Alo! 🤭😜
I do the same 😭 have a collection of hats and glasses ,love you gorgeous hope your doing great 🫶🏼
i loveeeed This Video I love seeing you buying things and showing us , please do another HAUL I love it sooo much ❤
I love your energy here, I can feel it through the screen, lol
Loving the red nails 💅 ❤
My day got so much better !!! I love watching your videos alo 💕
Target! Also old navy! One thing though I always go straight into clearance 😂 that’s how I always find the good deals
Im here for any shopping hauls lol love you alondra try some stuff from the cider store I’m a mommy to a baby girl so you can imagine how much I love to shop for her now and not my self
Those boots tho👀🙌🏻
Everything so cute ❤️
That wig looks so cute on you, damn 🙋🏻♂️😍🤩🖤🤍
Here I am living in a garage with my 3kids, berly surviving making ends meat because my kids father failed us and don't help me financially. And here you are with a shopping addiction 😪💔
Right I dislike how she’s calling it “addiction”
@@andrianicole7766it is tho
Omg same I def have a shopping problem 😩 I’ve come to be okay with it 😂😂
Same gurl. You are not alone. lol...
I LOVE those UGGS !!!
***Me watching with $3.08 in my account**** Manifesting watching this Alo ! Ive been watching you and Elsy fo rso long and y'all keep me above waters. Lots of love!
Same 😂❤❤❤
Honestly, I love Amazon❤ love your videos, always😊
Yessss please do a baby Benny haul! Boy mama here and I have a hard time finding cute outfits for my boys 😭
I loved everything you got so girly and cute 💕
We love shopping too !!🛍 ❤
I love shoes, but also I've been on such a sunglass kick recently!!!
babeeee why does it matter that the video is too long i would stay till the end even if you showing the same item in different colors , love you and your videos make my day 🤍
Yes I want to see a video of you unboxing your son’s shopping haul 😊.
Love you Alo❤ from South Africa 🇿🇦❤️
Sending love from South Africa ❤🇿🇦
It’s okay girly, im the same way 😩
everything is CUTEEEE, but my question is where is her shirt from?? I just love it!! :)
I love all your videos and I would love to see baby Benny’s haul too 💕💕
Love your fit 💕💕💕
I have the same problem. I’m not rich but I’m always buying clothes. Growing up I got Walmart clothes and one new pair of shoes for school. I’m also constantly buying my kids clothes and shoes 😊
I suffer from that addiction too! I love shopping!
I can definitely relate to this, I grew up poor as well and never had shoes. I would only get 1 pair for an entire school year and NOW that I make enough money I have so many pairs of shoes that I forget I have a certain pair until I see them😅 although I did stop because I ran out of space in my rack and I have a whole tower of shoe boxes on the side. Same thing with clothes, I order so much and don’t even wear it. I always end up donating brand new clothes
I LOVE YOU ALOOOO ❤❤
I own Burberry blush one, it is one of my favorite perfumes. Burberry also has Burberry Her and I always get lots of compliments on it
I have the same addiction🙋🏻♀️😐😂 it’s okay girl
I have a shopping addiction aswell to the point that your video made me feel so happy almost like window shopping 🥲 also the thrift store is my weeeeeakness 🫢
I'm not sure on the psychology part of things but maybe it's like what you said it probably stems from not having much growing up despite really wanting some things. I know for me I grew up poor so when it came to food as an adult I'm finally able to enjoy it but I have to be careful sometimes because I'll eat more than I need to just because it tastes really good. I have times when I'm full but for some reason still want to eat. Thankfully I am now able to tell myself when food is needed and when it's not so I've learned what works for me trick wise to keep myself healthy. Try asking yourself if you need an item before u buy it. If u don't then you can agree with yourself that its okay to not buy it. If you really just want it ask yourself if you have that item already and if u don't already have it maybe trick yourself by only allowing yourself to have 5 items a month. Start like that and then u can lower it if needed. Maybe u can also tell yourself if u buy a few items then a few items you already have need to go to replace their spot. That way you're not building up too many things in the house and it doesn't end up being a financial problem later in the future. There's nothing wrong with liking nice things, just gaining healthy habits to help u get what u want but not overdo it is important. I am proud of you for acknowledging the problem and asking for help that is always the first step to succeeding. Psychologically speaking, if u reward yourself after giving things up it helps build good habits, it's called social exchange theory: cost vs reward. I believe you got this you're already a step forward just keep consistency and you'll be good. I hope this helps!
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please do a video with that wig! it looks so good!
nothing wrong with spoiling yourself don't feel bad for it babe 💕
Feel free to shop a whole new wardrobe for someone 💀😂😂
I’m living my shopping fantasy thru Alo 💖🥹
Yes please do the video showing baby bennys haul! Would love to see it and get ideas for my nephew, I’ve only had nieces and my daughter. First boy in the fam and it’s hard to shop for him 😅. Loved you haul by the way❤
Not me screaming when you named my same favorite candles! I’m obsessed! lmao but It’s pronounced “Mer-Low” 😂
I love to shop at big lots and Walmart lmfao 🤣 girl your video looks like a episode of blues clues lol