7 Reasons Why We Don't Fight | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo as they talk about 7 Reasons Why We Don't Fight.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 125

  • @johnsonlizzy9695
    @johnsonlizzy9695 10 місяців тому +24

    K and M the letter between them is L it's stand for love 💕💕

  • @preciouswilson5534
    @preciouswilson5534 10 місяців тому +128

    Thank God I got to know and follow You both before I got married, all your nuggets made my home heaven on earth for me. From choosing my spouse and living my everyday life with my husband. It indeed works.

  • @katsana8460
    @katsana8460 10 місяців тому +33

    My husband and I have never fought. I find it difficult to insult people outside how much more my husband, my KING. So I believe you 100%.

  • @mirriamnkhatagenti287
    @mirriamnkhatagenti287 10 місяців тому +48

    Your teachings have helped me to become a better wife and has helped my Marriage a lot.

  • @ritaeni9018
    @ritaeni9018 10 місяців тому +11

    I can testify to this, before I left home in my late 20s,i have never seen my parents quarrel, insult each other, no, never,

  • @kadurujuliet1631
    @kadurujuliet1631 10 місяців тому +40

    I thank God I came across this channel... The future of so many marriages are bright.

    • @biancaneumbo
      @biancaneumbo 10 місяців тому +2

      Such a blessing to many homes 😍

  • @graceokafor9954
    @graceokafor9954 10 місяців тому +14

    Thank you so much Pst K and Pst M. My Husband and I believe so much that we can actually be together and not fight.. it's been 12yrs and the Holy Spirit has helped us.
    I love you and your teachings. God bless you.

  • @godsdelight5830
    @godsdelight5830 10 місяців тому +13

    The joy in your home will be on the increase and we your followers will experience same dimensions in Jesus name.
    Honestly, I admire PK and PM a bunch.

  • @naijarealestatesales
    @naijarealestatesales 10 місяців тому +3

    It's the blushing for me, after PK said "I LIKE YOU"❤

  • @missmiranda3579
    @missmiranda3579 4 місяці тому +2

    My future husband and I will never fight in Jesus Name 🙏🙏🙏

  • @biancaneumbo
    @biancaneumbo 10 місяців тому +10

    I literally kept smiling all throughout 😊
    Love that acknowledges GOD is beautiful ❤

  • @onoshiovibes3802
    @onoshiovibes3802 10 місяців тому +3

    How did I just watch a 46mins video and didn't know it? You guys are amazing ooo.. Chineke Nna!!

  • @tee4ChristJ
    @tee4ChristJ 10 місяців тому +14

    Am i the only one who likes their videos even before watching 😊🎉

  • @moureenmachanwe8986
    @moureenmachanwe8986 2 місяці тому

    I was raised in conflicted family where my parents kept on disagreeing and it somehow damaged me.. but I love Jesus I received salvation and i started with apostle Joshua Selman then he taught me to follow them that by grace have had better experience... am not yet married but by following this couple I met the right guy who knows jesus too❤.. and i look forward for an awesome marriage because of this teachings

  • @ezinneesthermadukairo4007
    @ezinneesthermadukairo4007 10 місяців тому +6

    I love peace. So this is how I have always conditioned my mind to live. And the place of the Holy Ghost advantage!! 😍😍😍😍🎉

  • @iamsosasmama
    @iamsosasmama 10 місяців тому +3

    Conflict resolution is an act that should be cultivated in marriage. So yes I understand the point and it is possible.

  • @charitychiomalawrence3086
    @charitychiomalawrence3086 10 місяців тому +2

    Lol, the Bishop oyedepo story cracked me up.
    Thank you pastor K and pastor M

  • @PROSPER_UNIVERSITY
    @PROSPER_UNIVERSITY 2 місяці тому

    I like the way your wife looks at you while talking every moment ❤

  • @adelakinjoan2831
    @adelakinjoan2831 10 місяців тому

    This is indeed a blessing!

  • @vald655
    @vald655 10 місяців тому

    Love you'll ❤❤. Praise God for you'll 🙏🙏🙏

  • @maggiagbor9503
    @maggiagbor9503 10 місяців тому +12

    Love you people so much🎉 ❤❤❤from Cameroon. I just so heart broken now. Lost my mum ten years ago now my dad is gone. My husband in terrible debts this has made me to just h@te him cus he never listens to my suggestions...... Infact just pray for my family

    • @innocentokoh3297
      @innocentokoh3297 10 місяців тому +1

      May the Lord see you through and grant your heart's desires in Jesus name

    • @gracendichafah4246
      @gracendichafah4246 10 місяців тому +3

      Father visit this home with your Peace,Understanding,wisdom & Resources ,Strengthen your daughter. SHALOM in Jesus Name

    • @princessuchegbulam6344
      @princessuchegbulam6344 10 місяців тому +1

      May the Almighty God intervene for his name sake 🙏🏼

  • @nyediongthomas5677
    @nyediongthomas5677 10 місяців тому +1

    Very insightful

  • @adielechristy8946
    @adielechristy8946 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this

  • @thankgodsunday8461
    @thankgodsunday8461 10 місяців тому +1

    Yessss this blessed me 🥹

  • @chiomanweke5849
    @chiomanweke5849 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you PK and PM

  • @PrettySarah31
    @PrettySarah31 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing❤. God bless you 🙏🏽

  • @oluwatosinadeyemi9298
    @oluwatosinadeyemi9298 10 місяців тому +1

    I am blessed. thank you coach

  • @nyaraischwadron-cm6fy
    @nyaraischwadron-cm6fy 6 місяців тому

    Thanks For sharing

  • @lolaadelakun9619
    @lolaadelakun9619 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you PK & PM ❤

  • @wamaatoshi1976
    @wamaatoshi1976 10 місяців тому

    So much wisdom!!! Thank you ma, thank you sir!!

  • @chizobaazubogu1844
    @chizobaazubogu1844 10 місяців тому

    This blessed me. Thank you both pastors ❤

  • @harrietowusudebrah7741
    @harrietowusudebrah7741 10 місяців тому

    I love you Pastor M. God bless you both ❤❤❤

  • @blessingwaziri1335
    @blessingwaziri1335 10 місяців тому +1

    God bless you both

  • @graceboadi9992
    @graceboadi9992 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks am blessed from Italy ❤❤🙏🙏

  • @user-rm6ox5pk7n
    @user-rm6ox5pk7n 3 місяці тому

    This IS really marvelous. Learnt a lot❤

  • @nnekaolivia571
    @nnekaolivia571 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much sir for always teaching us

  • @ogbonnaamarachi3679
    @ogbonnaamarachi3679 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this light🥰🥰🥰 our generation needs this

  • @joyclaremande9627
    @joyclaremande9627 10 місяців тому +2

    This is beautiful and so true ❤️🔥thank you so much for sharing

  • @tolaikolo136
    @tolaikolo136 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you this really blessed me

  • @ogbonnayaolla5484
    @ogbonnayaolla5484 10 місяців тому +1

    I am blessed. Thank you sir amd Ma

  • @constancensiah862
    @constancensiah862 10 місяців тому +6

    Thank you so much PK and PM. God richly bless you both for your advice concerning marriage and relationship. PM you are really my mentor, I look forward to see you one day in Nigeria. Am a Ghanaian leaving in USA Boston Massachusetts. ❤

  • @sedinamafewu6504
    @sedinamafewu6504 10 місяців тому +1

    It is possible and it shall be possible for me IJN❤️
    Thank you for sharing!

  • @joanaagamah6877
    @joanaagamah6877 10 місяців тому

    Thank you daddy and mummy, very powerful conversation. ❤❤

  • @alicengwira1429
    @alicengwira1429 10 місяців тому

    Thank you pastor K and pastor M❤ sending love from Malawi🎉

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 10 місяців тому +4

    Thank you PK and PM for this wonderful session. More of God's presence and love in your marriage.
    Thank you for making me believe that Godly marriages exist and that I will have one by God's grace.
    I love you both😍

  • @Plovekitchen17
    @Plovekitchen17 8 місяців тому

    Powerful. Thanks for sharing your experience and tips too.

  • @jamesmary9994
    @jamesmary9994 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Pst K and Pst M.... Am very blessed by this massage

  • @chisommefor5035
    @chisommefor5035 9 місяців тому

    Love the way Pastor M is looking at Pst K 😍😍😍🥰

  • @akhomayatula3250
    @akhomayatula3250 5 місяців тому

    You are so cute🥰🥹😍 Your love between each other is so beautiful to watch

  • @chisommefor5035
    @chisommefor5035 9 місяців тому

    So sweet

  • @asiimweelizabeth6289
    @asiimweelizabeth6289 8 місяців тому

    PK &PM I have learnt to love your openness and objectivity. I wish I could chat with you mama directly

  • @aropmaureen7898
    @aropmaureen7898 8 місяців тому

    Always a blessing listening to you my mentors...❤ Thank you so much for this timely message 👏👏👏

  • @efezinoomorobe9732
    @efezinoomorobe9732 10 місяців тому

    I am all smiles knowing Pastor Mildred and I share same temperament

  • @ayomideadeduro
    @ayomideadeduro 10 місяців тому +3

    I just love your chemistry 🩷

  • @godsbannermoyinoluwa9159
    @godsbannermoyinoluwa9159 10 місяців тому +2

    Very blessed 😚 Amen 🙏🙏 Thank you Jesus for PK and Pastor M

  • @noxolomatshaka2257
    @noxolomatshaka2257 10 місяців тому +4

    God Almighty Thank You for this message... I really wanted to hear these reasons...

  • @oluwatosinakinyemi8348
    @oluwatosinakinyemi8348 10 місяців тому +1

    So blessed. Thank you PK and PM
    The maturity part is a treasury

  • @micht5358
    @micht5358 10 місяців тому

    I love how the you's love each other❤God bless you

  • @maamelordina5310
    @maamelordina5310 10 місяців тому

    God bless you❤

  • @neppaul2749
    @neppaul2749 10 місяців тому +2

    Through wisdom a house is built, And by understanding it is established; By knowledge the rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant riches.prov24:3-4
    May God continues to bless n increase u both.

  • @trishmakondo2816
    @trishmakondo2816 10 місяців тому

    I loved the point about Holy Spirit... "Aww sorry babe" hmm. Stay blessed, thank you for sharing

  • @victorbernard6118
    @victorbernard6118 10 місяців тому +3

    Amazing teaching
    Thank you PK and PM
    I've been looking out for new videos from you both

  • @candybeautytv2313
    @candybeautytv2313 10 місяців тому +1

    I believe this is for me I really needed this because most times I don't understand why things happen the way they do 😔😔😔

  • @TheAjayis
    @TheAjayis 9 місяців тому

    See me blushing at point 2...the Holy Spirit ❤️

  • @godsdelight5830
    @godsdelight5830 10 місяців тому +1

    So, it's not good to play tantrum with words, even as playful as "your father"
    Great lesson.

  • @odunayooluwatobi8405
    @odunayooluwatobi8405 10 місяців тому +1

    Great message thanks sir\ma more grace and anointing in Jesus name

  • @ChideSam
    @ChideSam 10 місяців тому +3

    I love you both and I am blessed to follow you.
    I hope I get to meet you both some day.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @betayskitchen
    @betayskitchen 7 місяців тому

    It's the way you look at each other with so much Joy and love in your eyes for me 🥰. God bless and keep you both till the end 🙏❤

  • @hsom_global
    @hsom_global 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow!!!! So so blessed PK & PM. God bless and keep you for us in Jesus' Name Amen ❤❤❤

  • @abaapple8602
    @abaapple8602 10 місяців тому +2

    It is possible I have been married almost 40 yrs but we disagree, but real fight and insult noooooo!!!!! It’s doable by Grace

  • @Baekay_
    @Baekay_ 9 місяців тому +1

    💯 👏🏻👏🏻thanks for your teachings..the marriage I was going to enter it was full of hurtful words and I had to end everything because truly words stick.

  • @HannahSimire
    @HannahSimire 9 місяців тому +1

    Listening to this I believe it can be applied across all relationships, siblings, family, friendships... and the point about voices in ur life is l something the holyspirit has been teaching me recently! really beautiful teaching, thank you Pastors K and M

  • @FunmilayoOdekunle-gf3qo
    @FunmilayoOdekunle-gf3qo 9 місяців тому

    Thank God i know u while waiting and now in a relationship and I believe God it will make my marriage heaven on earth with the help of the Holy Spirit.

  • @bukiehuldah
    @bukiehuldah 8 місяців тому

    May God help us all. It is well!

  • @chikaubajaka-ikpekedi_blaz6252
    @chikaubajaka-ikpekedi_blaz6252 10 місяців тому +3

    Ooooh... No2 literally made me cry... Oh PK and PM 💕💕💕.. I see u two in my dreams.. I'm sure I'd meet you two someday... I think I need to apologize to my husband even though I feel I've been right all along.. 😭😭😭😭
    The Holy Spirit really speaks to me... All the time.. 🙏🙏🙏especially during a disagreement 🥺🥺🥺

  • @smilergal89
    @smilergal89 10 місяців тому +1

    Love this - God help us. Friendship and addiction to peace. Permit me to make one clarification - Dr Gottman 5:1 ratio proposes that 'for every negative interaction during conflict, a stable and happy marriage has five (or more) positive interactions'. The Holy Spirit is the best

  • @anngithere7951
    @anngithere7951 9 місяців тому

    I am from Kenya I learn alot from you my God lead me to the right husband

  • @ckks0nyoutube
    @ckks0nyoutube 10 місяців тому +2

    Love love love your content
    The intro though, I am not familiar with filming on UA-cam but is it necessary?

  • @chisengachansa8499
    @chisengachansa8499 10 місяців тому +1

    So powerful

  • @faithamdasun2559
    @faithamdasun2559 10 місяців тому

    Amen Amen Amen 🙏

  • @olwethu_mxhalisa
    @olwethu_mxhalisa 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for your likeness😂😂😂

  • @loisjames01
    @loisjames01 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow!
    "I wasn't learning character because I see a wife"
    That hit differently. Thank you, sir and ma

  • @ifeanyinonyelu904
    @ifeanyinonyelu904 8 місяців тому

    God is the first person in marriage, holding to his ways aligns your differences in both spouses.

  • @ennydahunsi
    @ennydahunsi 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you PM and PK, I have always said that there would be no fight or quarrel in my marriage.
    I have seen discouragement from older married couples with this decision I made have decided it is a personal decision and not everyone’s decision. I will make sure to talk about it before getting married.
    I can’t marry a man I don’t respect
    Thank you for encouraging me and being a good example ❤

  • @lefantsomotho7477
    @lefantsomotho7477 9 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @TatendaMachipisa-wp6zx
    @TatendaMachipisa-wp6zx 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your teachings,l pray l marry right. I'm grateful that l got to know you before marriage.

  • @vivianogbonna1532
    @vivianogbonna1532 10 місяців тому

    Thank you my pastor. Pls ma'am and sir can you help me with some points on how to hold and maintain a man for years. Or Holding and maintaining a man for years.

  • @zephaniarutlokwana2891
    @zephaniarutlokwana2891 10 місяців тому +1

    Because you know the consequences of fighting & moreover you arr reasonable sentient civilized loving humans.

  • @Amarachi333
    @Amarachi333 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @BrunchWithTheKing
    @BrunchWithTheKing 10 місяців тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheAjayis
    @TheAjayis 9 місяців тому

    You build/tear down your spouse with words

  • @princessazuka5603
    @princessazuka5603 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @DeborahBriggsDB
    @DeborahBriggsDB 10 місяців тому +2

    So good 🔥🔥🔥
    Disagreements? Yesss.
    But fighting is a no no for me and mine too. I can't relate honestly 💛
    Thank you for sharing sir and ma 😊

  • @eholoritohan2315
    @eholoritohan2315 10 місяців тому

    So blessed with this message. Pls how can I get to you ma. I have been seeing you in my dreams

  • @goodnessiwuoha1786
    @goodnessiwuoha1786 9 місяців тому

    Awwwn

  • @bayodisu6193
    @bayodisu6193 10 місяців тому

    Good day Sir. I just stumbled on ur UA-cam space & I really enjoy d content. Pls I have personal issues I want to share with u & need your advice Abt my marriage. Thank you sir

  • @abigailagyapomaa6381
    @abigailagyapomaa6381 7 місяців тому

    Please how did pastor K deal the scripture in 1 Timothy 2: 12 that says women should not teach in the church or speak at all.
    Pastor M what is your take on it as well.
    I really need an answer to that. Hearing from you on this is very much need . I'm at across road. Help!

  • @thulanimlauzi
    @thulanimlauzi 10 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤love from Malawi

  • @jummyalfred2909
    @jummyalfred2909 10 місяців тому

    I use to know a couple that calls themselves animals when they argue or fight.

  • @graces_corner1
    @graces_corner1 Місяць тому

    My Settlement Seed!😭