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Me talking about my experience and journey on breastfeeding.. as real and raw as it gets !!
All I wanna say is that whether u breast feed or give top feed to your baby , you are a kick-ass mother and your child loves u so don't be harsh on yourself ❤️
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1st two days milk produce a little bit... Only mom knows that
Same was me.. I also delivered 28th...i also pumped and give milk to my baby...
Aap apne baby boy ko kbhi nhi dikhati ho , agr humm log femly Hai to
Faaltu ka experience dete rehte ho
😍😍😍❤
Totally correct, there are a lot of mothers who are forced to breastfeed which leads to post partum depression, anxiety and it’s not good for every mothers mental health. FED IS BEST and it’s high time people need to understand and allow mothers to make the choice for their babies. Babies need to be feed either through the breast or through bottle they really don’t care or won’t remember when they grow up
Kishwar I m also pregnant. It's my second month so pray for me, every thing would perfect 😍🥰🙏🙏
Waheguru ji bless you😊
Yes, I am also pregnant.wish me luck.
@@sonaliskitchen5526 tension mat lo sab acha hoga.pr mujhe baby hone ke baad sweet bhej dena😊
God bless you and ur baby 🤗
@@amanpreetkaur3909 thanks dear
Kishwer everything u said is exactly what I am going through….my baby turned 8 months today she refused to take breast milk after 2 months, my lil one used to cry and get cranky and finally decided to give formula milk as my supply was low …best decision I took my baby is hail and hearty now started solids as well …don’t listen to ppl too much there are thousands of mothers outhere who is going through the same situation ….formula milk is great not like before , now it has all the nutrients and vitamins which baby needs …jus chill and enjoy the motherhood ❤️
My daughter suddenly started refusing bottle. Every single time i try to give formula through bottle she is crying like anything. I am totally clueless about what to do?
Even though ur a new mother, the thing I love about you is that you don't forget to post videos. and as a follower, we love this
Awesome Kishwer. This video is really helpful for every new mom or to be mom out there. I am a mother of 10 months old and went through all these feeding problems. I feel you and baby should be happy and healthy even if it is breastfeed or formula feed. God bless you. Lots of love.
I almost didn't watch the video thinking it will trigger me to think of my guilt and inadequacy. I went through a similar initial journey of delay in milk coming in post my C-section. Following which I had one week of proper feeding experience. Then my baby started getting very restless and cranky during each feed plus was loosing lot of weight and not having enough wet diapers. He was also resisting formula given through the spoon or steel sipper (bondla), so we had to move to bottle feeding. Since then I have come to know that I have extremely low supply which is due to my PCOS. I struggled a lot with negative feelings about myself but today I'm happy with how things are. I am still pumping to give my baby whatever I can, and remaining through formula. But my baby is bonding well with me irrespective and is happy and thriving too and that's all that matters. FED IS BEST!
Breast milk supply depends on demand n supply rule. Mother's milk is the best. As you are able to feed the baby. Make him latch more with anyone's help. If he is fed with formula, he won't be hungry anymore n will not latch. Baby's sucking reflex will be developed even before he/she is born. We just need some assistance to feed them. I had a similar issue, the nurse used to assist by holding the baby close to me. After discharge, my mom n mom-in-law helped with the same. Only after 2-3 weeks I managed without help. So make him latch more. The bond n comfort they get with breastfeed, nothing else in the world can compensate that. Happy feeding Kishwer.
Felt soo gud hearing you that no mom should be judged based on feeding choice..thank you.
New mommy from Melbourne! Rightly said - newborn mothers mental health is equally important too. To each it’s own. Lets enjoy this new phase instead of stressing out! 🤗🤗🤗
You are fully capable of giving him what he needs , you are his mom, God chose you to be his mom not all of us. Happy for you and him. He is so lucky 💖💖
I just loved the part when you said don't judge any mother every mother is different and knows what's best for her child.. Thank you for being so candid about sharing ur experience it will not only new mommies but will also help other people around her to understand that she is going through a lot the least we can do is not judge her lots of love❤
I am a new mom... and i can't explain how painful my breast feeding was... the bruises and everything with c sections ....moreover the breastfeed digest very easily ... feeding baby every 2 hr and also in night... have to sit and feed every time.. hats of to all the mom... and i adore my mom more after being a mom myself... may Allah bless her with all the joy in this world and hereafter... may our kids grow up and become our heart's delights...
Thank God I have watched your video. I have a 3 months old baby and been going through similar situations. So relatable. This gives me courage
How is ur baby nw
U just said it right. Mother should be happy. But ppl around become sooo judgemental that they generally lead to even depression. I just haye these judgemental ppl who r always ready with opinions n judgement without even understanding the new moms mental health
Even I am facing this issue but it’s fine now that my girl is on top feed. She is two months old now but I have no stress and yes you rightly said don’t listen to others. It’s you and your baby.
You are really a good mother♥️😍. Your child is very lucky to have such wonderful parents. 🤗😘 You both are very good parents.😘🥰😍♥️
The issue with bottle feeding is not the nipple confusion but the pace with which you feed from the bottle. If you tilt the bottle too much and the baby gets too much milk too easily, they will not go back to breast as they have to make a lot of efforts to get the milk. Search for pace feeding videos on UA-cam and feed like that.
This is exactly what I went through! Moms shouldn't be judged for their choices.
I m also a new mommy with C Section Delivery n also faced same problem with my baby n was feeling very much guilty that I am not able to breast feed my baby bt after watching your video I felt little good. Thank you for making this video....
You shouldn't even feel guilty about it. It's absolutely fine. There is nothing to worry about it. Just be you and there is no need to listen what others think about you as a mother 🤗♥️
I liked your unfiltered , raw experience, hats off to you, you are the most wonderful mother. People who judge mother's love based on just breast feeding are so so foolish people.
My baby started latching on 18th day. Before that I was crying non stop. Cause everyone questions me like I was not trying and it was my fault. Only my husband knew how much I tried and how much I cried. Now my daughter is 5 months and I’m exclusively breastfeeding her.
Yayy😍😍
Amazing ❣️
Superb❤
Very well said Kishwar...I being a doctor could not breast feed...it was terrible time for me ...the mother n baby should be comfortable no matter what feed it is...yes breast milk.has immunoglobulins for immunity foe the baby which.formula.does nt have.....try more of breast feed n alternate with.spoon feed...bottle feed can cause nipple.confusion for.babies at early stage...I started bottle feed at 5 months....before that was alternating between breast n spoon feeds...but yes the decision is yours...as.a mother u should be happy.satisfied...
My mom tells that when i was born she had a lump in her breast which got removed nd then she had an open wound from which the breast milk came out, it was damn painful when she used to get her wound cleansed and dressing done,
So since day 1 i was a kept on top feed, which is actually alright.
And we should stop judging the mothers bcz they already carried the baby for 9months , they can have problems too
Aap bimar pdte ho kya???kehte h top feed laine sai baby aage jaa kr bahut bimar pdte h..or pdhne mai kamzor hote h??
Went through exactly the same Kishwer.But at the end you are his MOTHER.you are the best,people question,blabber.My child is 9 months now and he is much healthier and not obese like other kids may be
If you naturally wants to shred breast feed is very important for a mother also to give i did that mistake plz you don’t repeat also give bottle from day 1 if we introduce them with both they never kickback.
Thank You Kish❤️ For talking about this 👍🏻 I am not a mother and married but yes I see women in my house going through this as a mental stress. thank you so much for talking about this and spreading this across on this platform👍🏻 Hattsss off to you ❤️ you are a great mother
I can feel you. I faced the same issue and my baby is 5+ months old and is on formula milk only bcoz I got covid and my body did not produce milk. I tried tired and tried and then after 2 months just gave up and now atleast i am happy spending time with baby rather than just worrying about feed. I felt same i was being judged by everyone 😀. But now I just don't care
Very useful video to new mom.thank u mam for sharing ur experience. I also go from this stage.i feel postpartum depression due to low milk supply . But now feel better to watch ur video. Everybody Judge me like u experience
Yes Mam i m also experienced these situation. these all happens to me also. people are simply judge us. so dont worry.
Hi Kishwer, I delivered a baby boy on 15th Aug and had a c sec too. Every word in this video is so true. I had a similar experience. But like you said a happy baby makes a happy mommy, breast feed or formula milk doesn't matter😄
Can you please share how much time your baby sleeps and his night routine!
Same happened with me
Doctor advised me to take suppliments alos to boost my breast milk
And the formula milk also
I also happily feed her the formula milk with my breast milk
Thanks for this video...i went through the same stress and eventually gave her formula....but at that time no one was there to tell me that it's ok.... everyone juged me...
Even I was told that my baby is not latching properly because I had an elective c section.
But know it fells good to know that there are mothers who face these things and it's normal.
I get positive vibes from u ....u trusted God n God gave u such a gift in form of a cute angel.. ..
Totally agree wid u .. nobody knows a child better than his/her mother
My experience was almost same...my son is 4 months old and nw he enjoys breastfeeding... everything takes time....☺️...so please don't judge any new mom on breastfeeding..
Kishwar u r absolutely right...even my neople was very much flat...and my baby does not able to suck ..and started crying..so just for my and my baby satisfaction i started giving her formula milk .
Well for this problem you can use silicone nipples. I do have flat or inverted nipples and couldn't able to feed my baby girl. I brest pump 1st, and then feed her in bottle. it was so much time consuming .But these nipples changed my life. My daughter's now 20 months old and still feeding her with suavinex silicon nipples. You can try this, will help you alot.
Totally agree with u girl ..even if u breastfeed ur Baby 100% . Even then there is problem bcz u go out u can’t have baby rooms in all the places so u need to have bottle with u .. balanced feed is ideal I think 👍
Whether formula fed or breastfed, a year later they will all pick up food from the floor and eat 😂. My daughter was also mixed fed. I felt super guilty in the beginning as I was not producing enough for my baby. However as time passed, I found strength in the phrase- Fed is best. Breastfeeding is extremely good for a baby, however, overtly romanticizing the process and making mother's who cannot do it (either by choice or physiological reasons) feel guilty about is absolutely abyssmal. And it happens in the most subtle of ways. I remember one incident when I told this other mother that my daughter is mixed fed, she had a shocked expression on her face. And right in front of me she made a gesture - thanking God that she was abundantly blessed with bm. 🤦
Woah…what an apt apt video. Been there, felt judged, almost judged myself to being ‘not a good mom’…and it stressed the hell out of me and resulted in my behaviour with my new born..but slowly realised that every mom is different and every baby is different. It’s most important for the baby to be healthy and happy. So after some months (yeah it took me almost 3-4 months) I cared a damn about what ppl say and did what was best for my baby. Kept her tummy full with MILK and her face with happy smiles…lots of love to u guys as a family and blessings to Nirvair😘
A mother knows what is best for her baby...everybody else can just advise but mother always listens her innerself...
Happened with me too I was unable to feed my baby he was too on top feed cs on somebody's advice I introduced him bottle bcs of which he denied the natural nipple ...there was a time when I felt the same that I am not a good mother cs I cant feed my baby naturally and so my baby will not get attached to me...I think its normal to think like that with time everything comes on track ...and see now my baby keeps on running behind me saying mumma mumma... Its a beautiful journey where both babies and their parents get to learn new lessons everyday ...
Same happened with me but then strictly my Doctor said that you have to feed him by your own milk only.. but now the problem is, my son is 10 months old and he is not eating anything other than milk 🙄
100% agree, even i hv gone through exact condition that u r facing, its very tough time, specially when u ll stay in a joint family situation is much tougher... No body ll understand what is postpartum depression..
Hello Maam
My baby was 2 months 15 days old.. I also faced same issue for breastfeeding .1st i used baby sheet.. iam using Avent Philips pumping..
For me also after baby born 3 to 5 days we also giving formula milk only.. Same medicen my baby dr have giving.. Ultra D3 Vitamin Daily 1 Ml for 1 year & Colic .. iam also too confused for breastfeeding.. iam working women pumping is such a helpful.. after listening to u iam relaxed now... Thank u.. my normal delivery with baby boy 1st baby Thanks once again for sharing ur experience
I also face the same issue because my baby is premature and he can't feed at his own so doctor's started to give breast milk through the pipe but after the 1month my supplies went down and they started formula and after the discharge from the hospital after the 3months when I try to feed my baby he can't even touch because he use to feed from the bottel
OMG OMG, This is fully my story eyes welled up 😭😭my bub is 6 months old now Thanks a ton for motivations ❤️❤️
You both are Best parents you guys inspire us alot love u mam
You are right mam
I think all moms should enjoy golden time with their babies rather than listening some other people who judging you
Hey..I know it's convenient..but..don't use bottle ..vil b very difficult to latch him off...spoon is gd
So amazing to hear such a raw and real experience on breastfeeding..Much needed support for new mommies in today's world.. Loved your pregnancy journey and love your postpartum vibes too.. God bless your beautiful family..
I am also a new mommy and I also went through all this problems....on breast feeding and people telling me do this and do that don't give your baby formula milk and all that...but as you said its not important what others say....
Thnks for the amazing video and boosting our confidence
Lots of love and blessings to you and your baby ❤️🥰
Kishwar aap ka diet kya hai in dino pls bataye
Very helpful video….I am also facing the same problems..people around me are not understanding the condition of mother and pressurising her for breastfeed..there comments makes mom depressed…people should have to understand it.
It's totally true... Same conditions of mine first 2 3 days i can't feed my child & iam totally helpless everytime iam crying & thought it ... Main q nhi kar pa rahi hu.. But same with me When i came to my house things become change... My child do start breastfeeding.... So relatable story of every new mother... Congratulations once again & God bless nirvair.... Nice name😍❤
Awesome thank you ☺️ soooo much ,I have been loving u since ur HipHip Hurray days n to see u being amazingly true n same personality it feels great !I have been following u recently n ur story is just same like mine almost all the time , so whenever I feel low or confused ur videos boosts my morale up !So glad to have u as a part n do keep sharing ur honest videos, it’s just fab …God bless you dearie😘😘
So true... Kushwer, same here...My nipples are flat, i just express milk exclusively and feed him through bottle... My baby is 2 months old now, still pumping.. Going strong...
All i need is to feed him fully so that his health is not sacrificed.
Just a Suggestion, Babies dont take breast feed when you start giving them Bottle because bottle is very easy to latch. I have twins and giving them breast feed after they got used to bottle was very difficult and at last they stopped breastfeed. Don't take me wrong , I am not judging you but just sharing my experience. its totally a mothers choice at the end because she is the first and last person to take care of the baby. my twins are 2 years old now and were totally on top feed since they were 3 months old. They are all fine and as active as a breastfead baby.
Thank you so much , it was feeling like yah my story. Even i was in nursing home , a nurse came and said why can't you make bond , he was so cranky that he was forced to latching . The hospital days was like a nightmare. I tried to make him breastfeed but it just didn't work . Thankyou so much for making this video.
@kishwer merchant ap konsi bottle use krte hai apne baby k liye mera 1.5 month ka baby hai??
Beautifully explained kishwer.. I'm a new mom.. Gave birth last week.. Going through the same.. Your video helped alot.. Thank you ❤
Hey keshwari one very good suggestion for COLIC problem.
Let the baby feed at only one breast each time, do not change the side .
One side one time.......
I am 8months pregnant , i feel so motivated & happy as if my pregnancy phobia just flew away after watching all your pregnancy videos !!! Kuddos kishwer
I just delivered and c section. I totally relate to you. It's real painful sometime to adjust the whole process is damn frustrating. Good you shared these feelings upfront.
Whatever u said is so very practical dear...exactly d same happened to me...
Thank you so much for making dis video..I completely relate with each and every word what u said
Stay blessed .....love
Which company's baby powder do you give to your baby
Thanku for addressing this.. thank you for letting ppl know that this is completely normal ❤️
Pumping breast milk is the best thing. I survived feeding my daughters for 11 and 9 months of breast milk through pumping. Having a good breast pump is a blessing.
Hi which breast pump did you used I am in same situation please help
Yes which product you've used sister
I wish someone made this video 1 yar back when I was going through low milk supply and people judged me as a bad mother but after one month of anxiety and stress I started giving formula to my daughter and hamdullilah we were both happy and satisfied....thanks alot for giving hope to New moms...Fed is best...love from Pakistan 💘
Which formula milk you used?
Hey mei bhi same situation se guzar rahi hu mei brstfed b karrhi hu or top feed bhi lkn mujhe ye janna hai ke agar mei aise hi karti rahi to mera milk supply to chalu rahega na ya wo ekdum se band hojayega,? Aftr 1-2 mnt ?
I am new mom ...came across video..facing breast feeding. struggle...feeling guilty about it...thank you for guiding on the issue
I am a first time mother and i faced the exact same problem that you have mentioned…was judged…i was in major guilt…i try to give him my milk as much as possible and he is also on mixed feed…watching your video makes me feel good😊 thank you😊
I understand that you are giving formula but please don’t compare with breast milk and say it’s close to breast milk. Nothing can replace breast milk.
Am an anesthetist n absolutely agree with you that no stress absltly is warranted over anything..kudos kishwar.god bless you
Same here ,now my baby is going to be 3 soon ......and now it's like 20% breastfeeding 80% formula milk....breastfeeding is getting low day by day
Dear to feed ur child is not sumthing to take stress... N der is not substitute to breast milk definitely.. N its not dat big job as some people think...
Good to know your views and it is absolutely mother's choice which milk to give and all the blessings to you snd your precious!...BUT....all new moms try to be calm, happy, eat well and bond with baby mentally too....and you will able to breastfeed your baby ...which is the BEST..and what Docs are saying is just right! I am mother of Twins ..so my humble suggestion ..
Hi kishwar yesterday i delivered baby boy through c section and exactly what happens with me is ..i am not able to feed one drop of breastmilk to my baby ..i am feeling guilty so much 😖😖😖😣what should i do
Thanku girl...I really need this..i took the decision to formula feed my daughter and fealt very guilty about it but now feel better to see your video.
Completely agree with you😍... Felt so good ,had same experience 🥰🥰take care nd lots of love for lil one.. By gods grace my baby is 1 yr old now nd donig good🤞🤞
U r a very positive person....this video has encouraged me a lot....nd it has also reduced my stress
Amazing cushion covers..From where did you buy??
They are available on Amazon if m not wrong
A mother should not be blamed if she is not able to breastfeed but if she can she should do as breast milk is not only good for baby due to more nutritional value and immunity but for mother as well coz in long term it can lead to breast cancer if the milk remains in your body
I don't know much true it is but my Dr had asked not to mix breast milk and formula as it causes baby to become colic
Which nipple shield u r using?? Plz do reply...
Hii...I delivered a baby girl 2 days before you....and this video popping out and I saw it...and believe me after watching this video I feel such relief...as I also can't breast feed my baby exclusively...and after watching others video that baby needs to breast feed exclusively I somehow feel guilty...but thank you to be so brave...god bless you and the little one
how much quantity formula milk do u give ur child at a time?
Hii kishwer ...apka baby boy (nirvair) 27 august ko hua and meri baby girl (varenya) 30 august ko hui so i m also new mom and i can relate you so much coz same problem mere sath bhi hoti thi and still hoti breastfeed me or mujhe bhi bhut se logo ne judge kiya h including my own family members but i thank god that my husband is so supportive he always encourage me and now mein bhi usko formula milk hi deti and atleast 1 or 2 time i breastfeed her in a day. I have watched your all vidoes throughout my whole pregnancy and want to thankyou for making this video it made me so comfortable and stressfree and offcourse a proud mom ...love you kishwer and nirvair😘
Thank you for being real kishwer !
Loving all your vlogs ❤️
Why doesn’t UA-cam have a heart Icon instead of 👍 ❤️ I love your honesty baby nirvair lots of love princeee🌼❤️
Suyyash bhaiya 😂😂 kitni tension ho rahi hai ... never saw him calculating so much
Agreed breastfeeding is very painful n takes a lot of patience
Hi Kishwar, not every celebrity share this experience thanx for sharing your experience. I am also new mom. my baby was in NICU for 2 days cause of low weight . I am feeling relax that I am not only one who is face this problem. Same things happy with me in hospital and at home also that I could not feed bm to my baby cause of flat nipple. I use that nipple puller , oh my god that was very hurtful. Even my nipples got red and bleeding after trying with puller. And after this I didn't even touch that puller. I am also using bottle for feeding. One UA-cam video I watched recently in that the dr. Said if you are giving formula milk to your baby you are giving him/her curse.i totally feeling bad for my baby then I thought that dr. Who is also one women can't understand the situation of other women? So then I ignore that all, my baby is good going with formula milk and I am happy with that. So don't worry we are with you. other people let think whatever he think about us. Just ignore. Lots of Love for your baby ❤️
Hey I hd the same prblm... Aap na jo bottle ka nipple hota h wahi use karo as nipple shield fr few days.. nd try nd din me ek baar use without nipple shield directly try kijiye.. mere baby ne ek din out of nowhere start kar diya tha pina without shield.. I hope it will help u
Now a days there are really a lot of problems. But the fact can not be Denied that breast feeding is best. But it's ok if it is not possible. Formula feed is also good. Babies become healthy 💪fast with it. If you can't breastfeed don't feel guilty and others should not let you feel. That.
Awesome video ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰every word she told is true!!
Mera baby es tym 1 month 10 days ka hai... Mai toh us tym depression mein chale gyi thi jab mera baby direct feed nhi le rha tha...
Maine her cheej use ki bt ab mujhe majburi mein avent Phillips ki bottle lgani pdi...
Mai apne bete ko formula milk bhi de ri hu or apna milk bhi de ri hu hath se nikal kr...
Mai bohot jno se bohat kuch sunti hu.. ki bby ko direct feed nhi deti...
Rightly said ..all new mommies face this ..my baby just turned 3 months .via c sec ..initially was unable to BM..I started with FM with bottle with nipple 1 which is exactly like mother nipple...so by 2nd month he was able to latch beautifully....till now he is on combination of BM n FM n EBF
Thanks much :) this is really really amazing, so positive, so encouraging :)
Yeah I also delivered
a princess on 25th august… my situation is exactly same as urs feeln so relaxed now that I m not alone…so true whatevr u said 🥰
Same story.. U are not alone.. Absolutely
It's of course choice of mother whtr to breastfeed or formula feed her baby and she shouldn't be judged for that. BUT you can't say that formula milk is approx same as the breast milk bcz it's not. Mothers should be encouraged to give breast feed to their babies and ALL the doctors suggest the same. You being an influencer shouldn't say they are same as many would be mothers must be watching your videos and they will think the same. The breast milk of mother forms the lining of the baby's stomach and it is for child's lifetime . It only decides what kind of bacteria will be there in child's gut.
Lots of love ❤️