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Loved this vlog ❤ note to pass along to Sarah but also ALL MOMS.....it's okay that you have a recurrence of not showering for a week. When you have a baby under 1 and a toddler to take care of the last person you want to take care of is yourself. I do the same thing.
My husband tells me to shower after I put the babies down but that's the last thing I want to do. Men take a 45 min bathroom break so many times throughout the day. Don't feel bad going and taking a shower in the middle of the day while he watches the babes. Guys don't understand that our showers are a job with having to shave, wash our massive long hair, and all. Xoxox
I realize that this doesn’t particularly pertain to the Beeston’s in any way (although, you certainly don’t see Lo or Sara just sitting around waiting for their husbands to return and FINALLY help out with the kiddos while they’re off taking one of their MANY extended bathroom breaks throughout the day. ACTUALLY, you will rarely see the couples apart from one another at all. I DO REALIZE THAT WE DON’T SEE EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IN THEIR HOMES, but I guarantee you that if something like what I’m talking about WAS going on, we would see something or notice something about it…
Having said ALL OF THAT, I have a very important word from the wise for you AND all of the other women out there in your very same situation. This is coming to you collectively from millions of women who have found themselves living just like you, wishing, hoping, praying for their husbands to just HURRY UP AND COME OUT OF THE BATHROOM AND HELP THEM OUT WITH “THEIR CHILDREN” waiting for their turn to take that little break that THEY NEED SO BADLY, or maybe you don’t even have kids at home, you’re just waiting for them to actually spend some time WITH YOU!!
Here’s the deal, If your husband is taking “MANY, MULTIPLE 45 MINUTE BATHROOM BREAKS DAILY”, he’s most definitely NOT IN THERE JUST 💩💩💩, I CAN ABSOLUTELY ASSURE YOU OF THAT!! IF HE IS ACTUALLY SPENDING THAT MUCH TIME JUST 💩💩💩, then he needs to see a Gastroenterologist ASAP AND get his Colonoscopy scheduled STAT!! Then you can go from there with the knowledge that your husband has a physical illness that needs to be treated. HOWEVER, I’m going to warn you that it’s not real likely that he’s suffering from any “actual/true/real life threatening disease or illness”. (although you may actually WISH that’s all that was wrong/going on when you DO FIGURE OUT HIS TRUTH…)
NOW, before getting irrational and going off on a WILD tangent, coming at your husband, accusing him of whatever you “think he might be doing in there”, you NEED to keep your cool, don’t make any rash moves or accusations, just RELAX!
INSTEAD, you need to VERY CALMLY, QUIETLY, WITHOUT RAISING ANY SUSPICION, WITHOUT ASKING HIM ANY QUESTIONS, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE, you need to sneak a peek (or a whole lot of PEEKS) at ALLLLL OF HIS PAST HISTORY on his phone/laptop/tablet/iPad, WHATEVER DEVICE(S) HE’S TAKING INTO THE RESTROOM WITH HIM on his VERY LONG, EXTENDED POTTY BREAKS.
UNFORTUNATELY, I’m going to warn you that there’s a great chance that you’re going to be very unhappy, upset, angry and possibly quite shocked, not to mention, heartbroken when you see what he’s been up to ALLLL OF THOSE COUNTLESS HOURS he’s been hiding away in the bathroom.
You’ll likely figure out that he actually has had PLENTY OF TIME TO SPEND WITH YOU AND THOSE BABES of yours, HE “COULD BE DOING A WHOLE LOT MORE TO HELP YOU OUT WITH HIS CHILDREN”! INSTEAD HE WOULD MUCH PREFER TO ENTERTAIN HIMSELF WITH SCANTILY CLAD/ NUDE “BABES” WHO ARE FAR MORE “DEVELOPED” than your little ones, and engaging in activities you never imagined your husband would ever choose over YOU & YOUR CHILDREN. You will likely find that he’s choosing to spend his life watching CONTENT THAT HE FINDS FAR MORE EXCITING THAN SPENDING HIS TIME WITH WHINY, hungry, crying babies he doesn’t care to take care of and a wife who isn’t taking care of herself, is NOT showering, won’t even take a shower when he asks her to (by her own admission), is NOT wearing makeup or dressing in anything other than ratty old sweats and grandma lookin’ pajamas, is honestly NOT looking all that attractive anymore, is constantly nagging him and isn’t giving him ALLLL OF the attention he fully believes he deserves.
I realize how easy it is to think, “NOOOO, NOT MYYY HUSBAND!!” He wouldn’t, RIGHT?? That’s exactly what a whole bajillion of us believed to be true, now we’re living the unimaginable nightmare of trying to understand what happened, what went wrong, what’s WRONG WITH ME?? I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART, I THOUGHT HE LOVED AND ADORED ME!! WHY, WHY, WHY, WHY MEEEE??? What did I do, how could he choose THAT GARBAGE OVER ME?? What did I do wrong?? YOU WILL SAY THIS IN YOUR HEAD OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN, POSSIBLY FOR AS LONG AS YOU LIVE, OR AS LONG AS YOU ARE WITH HIM…
I realize that this is A LOT, A WHOLE LOT, & IT IS PROBABLY SOOOOO OVERWHELMING, ESPECIALLY if you have and/or are finding yourself looking at the material that I’ve described.
I TRULY, HONESTLY, DESPERATELY HOPE & PRAY that what I’ve described to you is NOT TRUE in your case, that your husband is 1,000,000,000% totally trustworthy and isn’t doing ANY OF THE HORRIFIC, DISGUSTING GARBAGE THAT I’VE MENTIONED HERE. Unfortunately, the statistics just don’t show that to be true.
A few last thoughts, if you decide that “NO, THIS IS JUST NOT MY HUSBAND, he would NEVER, EVER do anything like this to me, I know he’ll be honest. I fully trust him, I’m just going to ask him straight up, I know he will absolutely tell me the full truth”. I understand why this might be your first thought, MANY OF US THOUGHT THAT, UNTIL WE FOUND OUT WE WERE WRONG! This is an epidemic of such massive proportions you can’t even begin to imagine where this never ending rabbit hole could take you and may have taken your loved ones and maybe even your husband.
SOOO, if you feel like there’s just no possible way that this could be the explanation, that he absolutely, without a doubt would NEVER BETRAY YOU, LIE TO YOU, NONE OF IT, just NEVER, and you choose to to approach him with questions, etc., I promise you, that if he’s involved in this type of activity at all, if he IS ACTIVELY INDULGING IN WATCHING P@RNOGRAPHY, PAYING Only Fans Cam Girls, talking s€x / meeting with paid s€x workers, etc., (AND YES, ANY AND ALL OF THIS “COULD BE TRUE”!) well guess WHAT? Now that he knows that you’re onto him, he’s going to try to cover up anything and everything as quickly, effectively and quietly as possible!! HE WILL ABSOLUTELY LIE AND HE WILL ATTEMPT TO HIDE HIS TRACKS SO FAST THAT YOU WONT EVER KNOW WHAT HAS GONE ON, YOU ARE SUNK IF HE THINKS YOU HAVE CAUGHT ON TO HIM.
You ABSOLUTELY HAVE to find out on your own before you say a word or drop a single hint, because once’s he knows, it will be a MILLION TIMES HARDER TO CATCH HIM in the future.
Finally, if you DO FIND YOURSELF IN THIS POSITION, I beg you to hop on Reddit and find the Sub “Loveafterporn”, that’s where you will find others in the same boat, just trying not to drown. It’s THE BEST POSSIBLE PLACE (that I know of) where you will find complete support and all the resources you will need if you find yourself in this awful situation.
I wish anyone and everyone who has actually read this and does find themselves in a horrible situation such as this, the VERY BEST IN YOUR JOURNEY OUT OF THIS HELL. If you need ANYTHING, just ask.
For those who find that everything is actually roses and bunnies, AWESOME FOR YOU! I hope it’s true and that it continues to ALWAYS BE THAT WAY for you!! Best of luck to everyone, regardless of where your relationship stands. 🩷🩷🩷🩷
Building core memories right there! Your circle of friends is awesome. So lucky and blessed to be surrounded by such wonderful people. Thanks for sharing some of the highlights with us 🤗💚
I sometimes feel so envious of you guys it’s not funny, the relationship between you all is so loving, filled with laughter and kindness between you all, I’ve missed that type of family connection being an only child and my husband lost his brother quite a few years ago, we would love getting out in our boat and doing all the things you guys were doing, Lo, you are Amazing on the water, you were born to be a water goddess, I’m so sorry for what happened to Sarah, I hope she’s okay, I’m guessing this is probably an old video but even so, your friendship with each other hasn’t changed, those boys were raised by great parents, I have two boys also and both are very close and into motorcycle racing (the fast kind, that terrifies their Mum), but what can I do but support the sport they both love and enjoy with Respect for the other riders on the track, But I really do Wish I had siblings like you guys even though I’m old, you all make me Smile and Laugh each time I watch one of your videos….Lo, what’s with the chewing gum Lol 😂, I just had to ask…Keep up the Great Content, you give this old girl something to Smile about here on UA-cam, you’re probably the most Real Family I watch and that’s a credit to you all. Cheers from Australia 🇦🇺🐨🦘🩷🩷💙💙🌞🌞
I don’t think it’s an old video
@@tiffcat1100 The only reason I say it could be an old video is by the way Derik is lifting his leg up for Tanner to remove the splinters from his foot, he wouldn’t be able to do that after the surgery he had done, plus there’s no scarring around his knees from the surgery, scarring doesn’t heal that fast….and Sarah just posted a #shorts video of Derik walking without his crutches…I don’t know 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️, I’m just a subscriber like everyone else here Lol 😂 and assuming this trip was before he had his surgery, I know a lot of influences pre record so much of their content from months ago and I don’t get to see it straight away when they upload because of the time difference between our countries. 😊🌞
@@-nellie-m3711 Maybe 🥰
@@-nellie-m3711, no worries, my friend. I think the average folk, gets it🤗
This is to all the Beestons Your content to me is so refreshing I’m not super religious and you don’t push religion on anyone and even though you’re religious you respect people no matter their beliefs y’all don’t curse your not out there with any drama you guys go out and have fun. I will never understand why people have to cause drama when they don’t like your content just don’t watch. Thank you again 😊
Amen 🙏 ❤
Ur last name is mulikin mines is Puliken
@@user-ns1st9rp4c lol mines mull two l’s
So happy you all had a fun trip together. The views, the rainbow so amazing, very beautiful. I'm convinced Derik needs to be protected with bubble wrap, sure hope he is ok and Sarah too. Ouch!
That was wonderful, a fun, exciting trip. You all have so much fun together. But those sweet babies sure did miss mama and daddy! So sweet. Glad everyone made it back safely. Thanks for taking us along . Love you guys💗💗💗💗👍😃
This was my absolute favorite video ever!!! Of course I love all the kids…
But living vicariously through you guys… Thanks🙏💜💕
It is very nice to see you all together in a free time from daily commitments And your return to the arms of the small but immense puppies that are the center of your intense heart beating together is unforgettable. ❤
Lauren those daily runs are kicking in girl 💪🏻 Your face features surely look slimmer than before. So proud of you! ❤
That was so fun! I love your friend group and how close you are, even the guys! Your boat vlogs have been great. Beautiful scenery! Makes me want to visit someday. ❤ Thank you for taking us along.
Beautiful family and great friends are what it is all, about. My family were not outdoor people, so watching you have such fun and love for one another is new to me. In my next life, I can attempt to be active, fit, and healthy.
The way this video was put together, the editing etc, was *amazing!*
These trips ALWAYS look AMAZING!!! All of You are So Very Blessed Having These Fabulous Opportunities And To Share It With Close Friends And Family Is Such A Huge Blessing 🙌. You're Both So Tan!!! You need shirts that say "FREAKIN"!!! Western Upstate NY Here
That looks like a fantastic trip. Thanks for sharing You guys are all a lot of fun. Happy birthday Derek 🖖 sending love from Alberta, Canada 🇨🇦
Wowww beautiful country Canada!! Good evening! From 🇯🇵
Of the group, Lo is probably the best wakeboarder.
I was thinking the same
Yeah she shreds 🤙
I've missed seeing you all together ❤️. What a wonderful trip!
I never see Sarah surf? Does she not?
Sarah loves surfing. One of Many reasons sad to leave Hawaii. Remember seeing het surf in Australia even with talk of shark sights. Impressed at how both Sarah and Lo are in to vigorous daily workouts to stay fit, not just to look good.
Such a great video - I love it when you and your friends all get together and have so much fun 😂😂😂 My favorite part was seeing the excitement when the girls greeted you at home 🏠 Such a beautiful reunion - the girls are so beautiful, adorable, happy, and excited ❤️😍❤️😍❤️😍❤️😍 Welcome home 🏠 🤩😀💗❤️💚🍀
I enjoy watching you guys have a good time. You have the life! Enjoy while you are young!
I love that y'all can have the best time without alcohol. Mt brother and his wife can't do anything, including boating without it. You are great role models 😊
I think they are Mormon that's why. They don't drink alcohol
@@yvonnekostermans6356 what's a mormon ?
@@yvonnekostermans6356I thought Mormons don’t drink caffeine either? They were drinking monsters
@@PuhLiz You're kidding right?
@@lucy2014 no , why would I be ? Can people not know about something ?😞
I worked on LP 7 years ago and it was my best summer yet. I fell in love with that place so deeply! Didn’t quite learn how to properly stand up on a wakeboard but had soooo much fun on those boat rides and cave hunting
Also, this kind of a houseboat you guys rented - man, I thought only millioners could really afford 😅
Love from Crimea 🫶🏼
Ya'll had lots of fun😅. Poor Derek always getting hurt😅. God bless each of you 🙏 ❤️
I adore your precious family so much! Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Sending lots of love, hugs, and prayers to all of you. 🩵
I think it is wonderful that you get to experience everything that you have and at such a young age. Well, you all are just a little older than my oldest grandson, so you are young in my eyes. Live life to the fullest and if you have the opportunities to do fun and exciting things I say go for it. I also love that you were happy that your girls were having great times too. I watched that horrible Podcaster that talked about you and the kids. Just to let you know I gave him a piece of my mind and told him instead of taking the word of others he should only be talking about stuff he himself has seen or done. That crap he spewed was ridiculous. He didn't even have the names or ages correct. The two of you and Derek and Sarah are fantastic parents. I'm 67 years old and have seen a lot. Keep up the great parenting and keep having fun as a couple. Wishing the entire Beeston family and all their friend the best this world has to offer. God Bless you all.
I love it when Lauren tells her recap stories! ☺️
Same ❤
Digging holes? 😂
Love your Lake Powell trips with your friends. Looks like you had a lot of fun! The girls are as beautiful and happy as ever! 💖💖💖💖
Hello from Ukraine, I have been following you for a long time. You have a great family. Cool friends, and your two daughters are angels💛💙
Awesome video, loved watching you all. Happy Birthday Derek❤️🥳🎉🎈🎁
Can't wait you guys always look so happy I don't know what you do when you have a bad day hopefully you don't have them keep up the good work with the kids and life❤❤❤
What a Beautiful Place!! Thanks for sharing it with us!!! The Rainbow 🌈 was absolutely stunning!
Hate to laugh but man was that story of Derik falling off the buggy hilarious! I swear that kid has so much bad luck...either that or he's just low-key a cat with 9 lives! 😂😂
I always love seeing the reunion you guys have with the girls, special! ❤❤
Best vid yet. Really frickin missed y'all. Life feels right again 🥹
Wow, these guys really live inside a beautiful dream.
It’s so fun to watch your videos. Thank you for sharing this.
IF I had friends and a social life- this is what I want! 💕
I feel like Sarah always gets played dirty with questions about being with other people or things like that 😂
Great times with good friends and family. Love your guys channel. 😊
What an amazing vacay for you all. Absolutely beautiful! I have never seen anything like that before. Just stunning, including all of you beautiful people ❤
I love your friendships. They are the best thing in life after family and way more meaningful than career. Honestly. Im older with life experience. This is really true. We need career but are more fulfilled by friendship connection.
Awesome vlog!! Hope your family is doing well!! Happy Birthday Derik!! Have a nice day!!❤❤
Look like you had a blast and I believe you all will stay friends, you all have the best friend's. You are all so close. It's great to have friends like you all do. It was so beautiful out and a perfect day to go out. I Love All your videos. Love you all ❤❤❤❤
Again another awesome video. I enjoy your videos so much. They all ways make me smile and laugh Lo and Sara are so beautiful. Plus they married brothers that are hunks. I all ways love watching you four together. You guys have so much fun and it so good to see family that really enjoy their selfs. The girl are just precious and growing up so fast. Can’t wait until your next video. Love you all. ❤❤❤❤
In the wrap up drive home, Lo's eyes are simply magnificent. So beautifully BLUE!!! Epic!
Wow! You guys certainly know how to have fun. What a beautiful place. What a gorgeous boat. Gorgeous people. Enjoy every moment you're only young ones 🥰
You all always have so much fun! Poor Derick needs bubble wrap at all times.🤣
Lo, love how you can hang with the rest of them on the water.
What Lake Powell do you go to? Is it the one in Northern California? I know there is like 4 Lake Powell’s.
There's one in Utah too. I believe that's where they're at.
@@LaylaOlsen I know they said it was like a 5 hour drive from their home. That’s a beautiful lake!!
@@Angeleyez37tx well, from what I found on line, this particular Lake Powell only touches Southern Utah and Arizona. I think what I found about California was something called, Powell Lake. Completely different apparently. 🤷🏼♀️
Your children are blessed with so much ❤
This was one of the best videos posted in quite a while!!
i loved this vlog, your guys friend group is so fun
You guys are an awesome couple with awesome friends. What memories you will have for years🎉
Oooooooo girl. You are looking strong and fit!!!! You must feel so good!!!! You guys are awesome!!
Love the family I love your group. You guys are awesome.
This place is so gorgeous, and you never see anyone else- another world ❤️
Derik reminds me of my husband, he is soooo sooo touchy when it comes to "his woman " he doesn't share at all! Lol not even a glance mine is like that, he is like a raging bull!
😂❤
Love you guys soooooo much!
You guys honestly have the best fun and the best part is I see no one with alcohol!
That's so admirable 💯🩷
Love y'all
All the way over in Australia 🇦🇺 🇦🇺 🇦🇺 BTW I can never tell when tanner is joking
Let me just say Loran’s freckles are so pretty❤
I’ve never really noticed them
I love your longer videos you should do that more often
I enjoyed this video. Sara is so shy🤗
You guys are such a fun family!! Thanks for sharing your life experiences with us ❤️❤️
Love the video, I haven't laughed so much in a while watching UA-cam 😂
Omg hands down... best vlog ever! 💖
So awesome 👌 watching ❤️ 👀 loved the rainbow 🌈. The hole trip looked great 👍
Hey guys loved the video!!!!! Lake Powell is gorgeous and the rainbow 🌈 was beautiful ❤ y’all are such great surfers I wish I could have learned how to do it lol glad y’all had a good time sorry about Derik and Sarah dang they can’t win for losing lol lol love seeing y’all when you get home to your babies it’s like a family reunion every time they are just to precious keep the videos a coming love you guys❤❤❤❤
I wondered the same thing about why so long until they will go again
Lo you honestly look fabulous, it looks like you have lost weight as well. I mean you have 2 little ones and you look great, very inspirational. Anyway, enjoy your friends, family and ur trip !!!
This video was so good!! I laughed and cried especially you two going home to your babies ❤
You cried? serious? Lame
@@idontknowmuch3441I know. Wth us wrong with people? I guess they have no lives and think these people really care about them😅
Such a fun friend group!! You guys are so funny hahah
Y’all go hard on everything!
Hello, so very great to see you again and it looked like a lot of fun .thank you for sharing. Ps take care of them boboo you both got Sarah and Derek.
One of the funniest videos. I love it
Pointing out the husbands weaknesses to their face…. Love it! 😁 Girls will totally win that fight💪🏼🫶🏼
I love you are Sarah's friendship 💛
Not jack and sunny and ozzy and Stella hanging out and look at this video😂
I’m glad they at least have each other. They have that stability.
"i too think Brian is hot" ahahahhaahahahh
Come here sexy “little girl”?😂😂 Better watch it Tan😆 - when the prompt said ‘talk dirty’, I thought for sure Tanner would say “Mud….grease…..sludge…..
grime”🤣🤣🤣
You girls are so funny...TAKE EM DOWN 😂
So beautiful. Looks like a great vacation.
12:47 Is this how Jack got his name ?!??😮❤😂
you have no idea how badly i needed this video😁
Serah saying she changes her mind and kills jack coz of the dance was so hilarious 😂😂
Omg 😂😂😂 Lauren and Sarah you girls have me over her dying ❤❤❤😂😂😂
I am CRYING while LAUGHING with you all at the FMK scene 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This video has made me laugh soooooo hard!!!! It may be my favorite vlog ever! I love that you all go here each year ❤❤❤ I neeeeeeed to go to this place!!! Ugh amazing!!!
Edit: wait... why will it be your last trip here for a while??? 😢 I hope that can change ❤
I always enjoy your posts and especially when you're at the lake. So much fun!
Wow that houseboat!!!! Wish I had good friends and money to do stuff like this…maybe next life…😊
I'm beginning to think Derrick is the most accident-prone of the group
You guys are having way too much fun 😅❤
Last trip there for a couple of years? Is there something we should know?
Great video, great friends and fun!❤
Happy Birthday, Derek!
Fantastic video. Did I miss an announcement? Why will they not be going for a few years?
Poor Derick and Sarah get hurt more than any other people I’ve seen!! 😅😂😂😂
Most of it is Derick lol😂
My grandsons are wakeboarders. My 13 yr old grandson is a two year National champion Amateur division. 🤘
That was a lot of fun to watch, thanks
ABSOULUTLY LOVE THEASE VIDS!!!!
This was Awesome!!🧡🧡🧡
Also really rad you guys never drink but have so much fun together!!
Lauren you look amazing keep up the working out. Amazing results❤
Wow that blue sky and clouds at the beginning!!
I JUST DIED LAUGHING AT THE KISS MARRY KILL PART 😂😂😂 HOT BRYANT took me outtttt
So lovely thanks for the ride😊
That rainbow was amazing ❤
What a good time ! It was great watching it.
And LOTS of fun was had by all! 🎉
You guys are hilarious!! So much fun to watch!
Sarah having the best time lol 🤣🤣🤣