He ate from the boringboring fruit and has now the powers to lull someone to sleep with his power point presentations. Unfortunately no pool parties for CatHat.
@@fightclub3805 Lol. Nah. Says you Ms. "fight club". Many men weren't raised learning these things. You wouldn't know since I'm assuming you're a woman. Women just expect men to be born knowing things like this.🤣 Not how it works.
I noticed that, when my sister is talking about her boyfriend, she talks about how many girlfriends he's had. And how Lucky she is to have won his Heart... She wants him, because all the other girls want him.
i'm usually turned off by men who seem promiscuous or who are taken. maybe i'm weird or something but it just kind of automatically makes them less interesting...?
i have found that if you approach a semi attractive girl, and she is other girls notice that she is intersested, those other prettier girls would come along, not because im good looking, but to see if they could pull me away from her, to boost their egos . its sad realy.
Mystery Method is one of the best strategies in the PUA world! I see comments dissing his attire. He dresses like that for the purpose of attention; usually attracts party girls easily and is a funny conversation starter for more secure women.
I was also shocked that people r criticising him, but they don't know that this guy has inspired so many pickup artists. I didn't knew who he was until I read game
party girls aren't hard to attract - they're looking for a good time and to get laid just like anyone else. i feel sad that some people put so much thought and time into this stuff...it would make me feel slightly worried for a guy. it's like they turn a natural, fun part of life into some kind of addiction? if they are happy it's all good but sometimes they seem a bit unfulfilled or something
Connor StandingReady, Have you married your ten yet or they are not the type of chicks you would marry. What is "works well"? Sleeping with dumb drunk chick isn't the goal to some dudes. How about an emotional 10, intellectual 10, Spiritual 10, financial 10, an educational 10 Get it?
Tall men get more women. Good looking men get more women. Men with money get more women. Sense of humor? Like Jim Carey? Just get the joke and be lighthearted. Sexy men get more women. Men that have sex skills will get repeat customers just for sex. Gimmicks work on dumb drunk chicks. They wake up the next morning and say "Wait a minute! Where is that fuzzy hat?" and realize how drunk and horny they were last night. If you don't fall into any of these categories you should be looking for something a little deeper and more stable in the woman category. Your aren't going to get much play so use your energy wisely. If you aren't a 9-10 yourself don't expect a 9 or 10. Garbage in garbage out. If she looks like a ten and she is talking to you sje is probably a 1 in personality. Besides if your youtube shit worked on her why wouldn't some other dudes youtube diy pick up shit work on her next time? While your fucking her? You have to pay to have sex with 10s one way or another. Can you afford? If not you get the mentally damaged hoe that eats up any and all bullshit thrown at her. If you find out she is using you for money don't be suprised. If she is using you for sex be flattered.
Define "works". Do you mean you can walk into a bar, begin the game with a lie for no other purpose than to get her into bed, and potentially walk out with a phone number and perhaps even get laid. That's some accomplishment. For what it's worth you really lowered the bar on the definition of "legend".
5 attractions circuits; -Preselected by women -Leader of men -Willing to emote -Protector of love ones I don't know the 5th. It went from 4 in the early stuff ,to 5 In later years and I didn't fully memorize the 5th
You know what’s crazy. A few years back when I was 24 I would bleach my hair blonde, platinum, and one time even pink with a buzz cut. I dressed in different colors and I definitely had style to my look. A lot of guys would always ask me why I would bleach my hair all blonde and different colors and they’d hate on it……but what’s crazy is that all the women I had would always tell me they loved it. I shit you not everyone would always look at me and wherever I went I would straight up attract all the attention. I thought it was always in a bad way but learning about this man and seeing how he dresses to get women has opened my eyes to something lately. It’s crazy. But I think I was doing exactly what this guy does. Peacocking. I definitely stood out and women would flock to me with no problem. That’s actually crazy because now seeing this man and learning about game I can see why women would love it. They love that idgaf style to be bold as hell and not care what people think. I always thought I got looked at for looking weird but looking back at it I had a great attitude and women would flock to me so much I would be getting laid all the time. It’s crazy. I didn’t realize it at all until I learned about game.
As a woman, peacocking makes guys look interesting and confident. Like, if a guy has on something I find interesting or that stimulates my curiosity, it's going to make me want to compliment, or ask him about it. And THAT opens up an opportunity to have conversation in an organic, comfortable way. And generally, women LOVE to feel comfortable around a man. I think people in general want to feel comfortable around anyone they interact with, but it's especially important for women because I believe we have an innate subconscious fear of men, and we want to know that you are safe to be around.
Mystery emulated a lot of his theories around what alpha males do. So yeah you behaved like an alpha who dgaf and sure enough it worked. When I started reading his stuff I suddenly realised why I had been somewhat succesful with women previously. Most succesful men (wrt women) don't need lecturing. They already found their modus instinctively. Just like you did. I was succesful because I could always get women and groups to laugh and then switch to more personal stuff (plus being tall and not retarded). Never realised exactly what I was doing, but it worked a treat none the less.
I lost my first gf at 42 because i told her i never had a girlfriend before, i was nervous because im uncomfortable with touch as im autistic, so i told her id never had a gf before and she dumped me like a hot brick after that. I learnt this lesson the hardest way possible, i really liked that woman a lot.
She just wasn't the right 1 for u. Endings happen for new/ better things to come in. When things don't work out they're meant to learn from. I like a guy that's been w/ the least possible or no1 even better. Stay positive minded & sweet you'll find the right woman when u least expect it :)
@@chryzbre4336 im 45 and it never happened are you sure staying sweat is the right recepie when all the other guys whoa rent like that are getting lots of dates ? i think she was the right one but i wasnt good enough at pick up to get her, now i know your not supposed to say youve never had a gf but the problem is im learning pick up lessons oce every 42 years i cant afford to make any mistakes and i will definatly so now im worried ill never get a gf
I know a guy that is 44 and on the spectrum and he’s only been on 1 date that went nowhere. He is above average looking too and I think this combo will really scare away or repel women.. I think it’s a huge red flag if a guy is good looking yet has no real dating or relationship experience at the age of 44. He’s is in a very tough spot
You know, none of this PUA stuff worked for me except for the 3 second rule. It changed my life. It's a perfect way of meeting people - not just hot girls, but everyone. It made me a better human and I can meet people whereever I go. I tend to place it as a part of our tribal history - if you greet a person straight away when you see them you will both presume you belong to the same tribe. You break the ice before it even grew between you. And once you give a person 'the nod' or the spontaneous 'hi' you can even choose to be silent afterwards, but strike up a conversation at any time because you both acknowledged each other so you know you're good.
"You know, none of this PUA stuff worked for me except for the 3 second rule. I" Depends on the region. His stuff works in South Africa but in Europe you have to adjust a bit. It also depends how effective you apply it to women and also be able to read the girl to apply the correct PUA strategy. If you cannot read the woman then it is basically just throwing material out there and see what sticks...
Hey, i'm getting on the game myself, been making progress but i feel like i'm running out of information, is there any site I can visit or book I can buy to keep studying and going deeper?
@@mateomunozduarte2278 buy "The Game" from Neil Strauss. He was Mystery's best apprentice and has also become his best friend. That book is mandatory reading, almost "the Game bible". You will not regret reading it.
@@mateomunozduarte2278dude this shit does not work. The concepts are sometimes there but you cannot fake confidence. Girls can smell that shit on you. If u want girls, go to the gym, make good money, and have hobbies. Take care of your body. Be yourself! Don’t do any weird conversational tricks or you’ll come off like a weirdo. Just be normal and talk to them like a human and if you click you click. U can’t really make a girl like you
I wish I lived during Mystery's time, or decided to game earlier on. Now to demonstrate preselection I have to do so via social media too. And that doesn't work if you have no friends.
This guy is right so far, especially with the "I don't care what I look like" clothes, near perfect I must say. And it's 4 scientifically proven things; 1. Pre-Selection 2. Confidence 3. Alpha Male 4. Copious use of money, do that you get any girl you want.
the copious use of money in itself will only work with escorts. HOWEVER the copious use of money can definitely get other women to hang out with you in a public or social setting. Other women will see that and preselect you as desirable
lol scientifically proven things like alpha male, a concept based on a study whose author has explained was wrong. As for copious use of money, some will be impressed by that but some will find it offputting. At least confidence is something that actually makes you more attractive to everybody.
9:32 An important thing to mention here. You got to have a least 5 openers memorized. So in these situations you would act instead of thinking about what to say. Because as effective as three seconds rule can be (it really works) you can't just walk to a girl and say nothing because you didn't have anything to say. You gonna freeze and she will notice you're nervous. BE PREPARED!
In 10 years have you been able to sleep with every Supermodel and Hollywood star? Or at least go to bed with 100s of women? I can’t imagine listening to the same line of thought 10 years straight. I hope you were successful with your dating life
great you learn stuff and are happy about it, but isn't 10 freaking years more than enough to learn everything he has to offer? Move on with life man:)
Let's all remember this one thing: Back in the day, a session like this used to cost $300-1000 to sit in and listen to Mystery's TED talk and learn and understand how you did what a player did, successfully as a pickup artist. Because of the Pickup Artist TV show he did, it opened every Western woman's eyes that they were being manipulated into sleeping with low quality men. They did not like that, and thus, this is where we are at now today. You not only have to have the rizz, you must have the looks, the money, and the reputation now in order to be recognized. This video is still a good informative session on what you need to understand and how pickup game(Rizz) is and what it can do for you!
If only people knew what guys like mystery, styles,grimler and so many other in the community of PUA's did for men, which most of todays dating "coaches" need to be thankful for the feel work this guys did. Since 1989 PAU's were doing the work...but of course game outlast pick-up. Most of the so called repill content creators of today where watching jimmy nutron or ben ten when this guys were doing in feel work in the early 2,000's. It takes hard work and a whole lot of trining to reach that level. But like Rollo say you can have all the PUA'S skills but if you dont kill the beta the beta will kill you.
i agree with you, what breaks my heart is that many of them didn't end up well. As far as I know Mystery has a daughter in the UK and the mother doesnt let him see her. Or a couple of years ago Tom Torero commit suicide.
@@aleterrayeah no shit. They are just regular men. Yes, they have skill and expertise in certain field. But at the end of the day they are no better than a guy who is a specialist in his career field
I am very aware how old is this knowgeldge but it is only the few who can do the work. Their is nothing new under the sun but back in my era 80's 90's early 2000's seen pick artist doing it was incredible to see, also Giacomo Casanova back in the 1700's how many of us would like to go back in time and watch the way he developed his game...yes nothing is new but when you are born in a specific era and time you learn something very old everyday because is only new to you! again king Solomon said best: there is nothing new under the sun.@@TheBlackClockOfTime
I´ve had success with preselection. Just talking casually about other girls that wanted you, or was with you and had a good time is surely a shortcut. Still have to pull the trigger though! Good luck!
I realized like all of this myself 8 years before I ever heard of Mystery. I made a whole coaching call thing out of the fear theme alone. This guy casually explains the core of it in like 4 minutes. Legend!
@@Neil-pf3pk I also thought pickup was loser game for almost a decade. But the thing is, guys like Mystery don't need these techs, although they work. He just gives them to guys to experiment with and hopefully one day they get it.
this guy really helped me, i never really went 100% in on this stuff, but the concepts and what NOT to do really stuck and helped, my best pal was a DJ at londons biggest house clubs in the mid 2000s (the cross and egg club) and i used to get laid about 3times as much as him, despite his social status and being better looking than me, i would never mess up interacting with girls and would end up with better looking girls and closing the deal more than my pal who was the good looking and successful dj. groups of girls would always come up to him to talk so never really had to learn to cold open but i would always end up with the hottest girl from the group. one thing that really sticks out though is that his interactions with girls at clubs many times ended up with relationships if he wanted it where as my experiences never ended up with relationships in those settings.
If we as a whole can stop letting our brain think like it used to 40,000 years ago we could smash approach anxiety even better with the help of the three second rule
Isn't it possible though that in some cases, that the girl isn't interested for some random reason not related to pickup, just like you were a completely different physicality e.g. she strictly liked really short blonde guys with deep voices (not Mystery) or she was in a bad mood etc, and no amount of preselection or correct 'game' could change anything
I'm not debating or arguing with this guys points, don't know him, only heard this first part, and in his situation he's nervous, but I'll just tell you how it is with me, and I'm a master approacher. If I'm "nervous", it means I'm off, and I don't even try. As I say I tell myself constantly I'm a Stud, tell myself I have tons of girls, I'm TELLING YOU if you keep doing that fear will go away, women CAN SMELL FEAR, 90% of communication is NON VERBAL, IF YOU REALLY DON'T CARE, IF IN YOUR MIND YOU ALREADY HAVE ALL THE HOTTIES YOU CAN HANDLE HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY BE AFRAID, NERVOUS TO MAKE A MOVE? I'm training a friend, think I said that, getting his hair cut at a men's place, super hot greeter, at the end I walk up almost nose to nose, Red Hot Chili Pepper song was on I said "Did you know I'm the lead singer for the Red Hot chili Peppers and every girl loves me", she got the joke and said "Oh wow can I have your autograph", "Are you one of my groupies have I done you before", "I don't think so I think I'd remember", "OK I'll let you give me your number", BOTH OF US JOKING TO MAKE IT WORK, please, lie until you buy that fact that you're the alpha male, that you have chicks, that you spend money, and that you don't care or worry about anything, do that and they'll come, she was looking at me the entire time, purposely cleaning right next to me though it was clean. Again not disagreeing with this guy, I'm sure he has great advice, I'm just brushing up to help my friend.
Lucky you, cuz you are what they called a 'Natural'. Mystery is the GodFather of pickup and he invented the terms and guidelines that is now used. He trained "nerd" students to great playboys.
You don’t need to pay some guy thousands of dollars to know women’s five attraction switches. First off, they don’t have five, they have three. It’s the 666 rule: - 6 feet tall - 6 pack abs - 6 figure job
he's right the approach is the hardest part , but once you get over that fear ,oh my god you will live the life wallflowers only dream of just saying .
I learned this stuff later in life, and man, it changed my life. Goddamn how I wish I'd learned this stuff when I was 15-18. I'd have had 1000 girls by now. But....even learning it later, it made a huge difference. This guy is a damned legend. He should win a Pulitzer.
it is interesting that women hate PUA and tactics, because women hate it, when men just understand what to do. They shame men like him but in their mind, they desired him for what he does.
@@bikeshop2002 It's not really tricking people, PUAs are just taking advantage of social dynamics, how attention and attraction usually take place. It's an art, not manipulation.
Mysteri, Or ERIK MARKOVIĆ was the person who gave meaning to many young boy's lives back in the day. I actually became a self made coach at one point, teaching a lot of different approaches in that time. Good times. Technology destroyed everything to a certain degree. Yes it was useful at a certain point but it changed society to the point where it became a benefit to become a leech on society... I feel sad for the kids today. I'm a gym owner and coach from pro athletes to average people, and kids today are fcked up beyond speech. Its sad.
this guys teaching is real trust me i myself got bullied in school and bt watching this for the course of 1 year i learned to be more confident abd took the girls from the guys who bullied me . his shit works period trust me
The world is full of ridiculously attractive men who mistakenly think their behavior is getting them attention. Like Skinner's pigeons they spend years trying to analyze what they are doing right, when all they need to do is wait and they'll get what they want every once in a while.
I used to think Mystery and Matador were just stupid, heck I even thought these guys may be gay by the way the dress but then I watched an hour long video by Matador and these guys are just masters- they put hundreds of hours into everything they talk about, I have a lot of respect for both!
Mystery is the Michael Jordan of social dynamics. Some guys just have it naturally and don't think one second about what they do. Mystery didn't have that luxury, but dissected how it ACTUALLY works and learned how to become attractive like the naturals.
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I just came across your video for the first time ever, and I was completely shocked and baffled to witness that you provided the most astounding explanation I have EVER experienced in all my life. May I please ask if you have a comprehensive course that I can purchase ASAP?
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DavePazz Thank you 'very' much for your response!!
The game is not an instructionnal Manual its a biography. Buy the mystery method, then purchase revelations by lovedrop. But i think the best nowadays is a guy called justin wayne. Look him up.
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@@williamizm3745 Thank you very much for all your recommendations!
The mystery video was him explaining abt attraction switches while simultaneously gaming a girl sitting next to him, she's like just sitting there stroking her hair🤣🤣🤣
Open a conversation with another woman in the social setting or have a woman with you while going out to approach women is preselection theory. If not skip this part and go directly to disqualification theory. Cat string type. Pull and pull. Give and take.
That's quite true. Interesting when I think about it. Wonder if "new age" that brought attention to eastern philosophies that happened around 2012 and overall attention to psychology had something to do with it
Mystery was super tall, pale, and good looking with blue eyes. No woman in the universe would turn him down even if he was terrible at "game". I wanna see all this stuff work for a dark skinned short guy. That is what I consider evidence.
You're right to some extent. But remember that be brave and approach women. It's better than sitting there and being resentful about the realities. If he approach 100 women gets 10, you'll get at least 2. Why not try, 2 obviously is better than zero. (By the way I'm an average man too)
WRONG, you dont get it. he is trying to show and demonstrate that her beauty doesnt effect him and her beauty doesnt put her out of his league. also there is something really wrong with you if you dont want beauty, dont silly you would like a beautiful woman, a beautiful house, a beautiful car, beautiful clothes...........if you dont even want to better yourself in any way what is even the point of living????
@@robinhooduk8255 Maybe you misinterpreted what I said. Look, if you ever had beautiful girls in your life and formed relationships with them, then you already know that it's not enough. You need a lot more in the other person to have a meaningful and lasting relationship. But what I said is that I don't like he is pretending to not care about the beauty when that's obviously all he cares about. It's possible to be straight about it, without playing these silly games and try to manipulate others into liking you.
I remember when he had a reality show for a while and he would teach nerds and stuff how to pick up on women and it looked pretty interesting actually and there are a lot of things he talks about their totally true
@@TheGrandmaster1 Hello friend, i'm on this road since this day when the life gave me the gift of meeting Erik and his perspectives of the social interations. Yes, this is big. This change who we are, change everything. As he always say: "this is not about get girls, it's about building a life." I feel so happy that could meet this. I still learning as much i can and more i know more i see more we have to learn. Much light in your way. Cheers from Brazil. ♥ Diego.
@mrjedidja There is no such thing as "proper dating". You either like/love a person are you don't. That person will either like/love you are they don't. Love compatibility? This is a women's idea based on romance novels.
I do not agree, we men don't NEED women, we desire them sure but we don't Need them and from an evolutionary perspective we men can take care of ourselves, the women NEED us . We are the hunters and the warriors . Your disqualification or the Neg shows her that you don't need her and if you so desired a mate you have plenty of choices and always have options. And you are correct, beautiful women are common but what you fail to mention is that truly high value men are rare . They spend two hours minimum on their hair and makeup, ok three hours, they have far more invested in us because they NEED or their genetically hardwired to believe they need a high value man or men around them and hopefully carry forth his high value genes to her children as this will help ensure the success of her offspring. But no we don't need them and we should make that point to them and keep making that point if you want to keep her loyal.
This is the most insightful comment I have ever read in any PUA comment section! The above observation MUST BE true, otherwise negging women would NOT work! So there is a logical fallacy Mystery did not observe!
There are curious parallels between pick up coaches like Mystery and the first England manager Walter Winterbottom and his FA coaching courses. There was a lot of initial hostility and incredulity at something that was felt to come naturally to some people and couldn't be taught.
I watched his show on VH-1, and as a woman, I was floored at what he was saying. Now that I'm older, I'd love to see him take a bunch of women who may not be a 10, and teach them how to become these high value women that he teaches men to go after. They say confidence can make a person sexy, but a lot of us who are not 10's, we have to fake it until we make it
sorry to break it to you but it doesnt work the other way round. men are after beauty (improving their genepool) women are after survival protection traits(leaders of men, being successful either socially, financially or physically) men can improve can generally improve atleast one of those things to get better with women(most of the guys he is teaching their bar is already at zero so anything is an improvement) but women generally already do their best improvements with makeup and clothing and looks, their is nothing that man be taught to snag a better class of men, you should watch Kevin Samuels, he gives women women a reality check on thinking they can improve themselves like men do, its harsh but eye opening reality of how it really is.
This dude looks like a One Piece character.
A what....?
Trafalgar Law.
He ate from the boringboring fruit and has now the powers to lull someone to sleep with his power point presentations. Unfortunately no pool parties for CatHat.
Hell yeah he ate the pickup pickup fruit
Kid is the one heheeh
Mystery was so ahead of his time. many gold nuggets of wisdom in this 9 mins alone.
Are you for real, Mystery is full of s.hit, in fact all of p u a is full of s.hit.
@@fightclub3805 Lol. Nah. Says you Ms. "fight club". Many men weren't raised learning these things. You wouldn't know since I'm assuming you're a woman. Women just expect men to be born knowing things like this.🤣 Not how it works.
Agreed brother. I clicked off after 2 minutes listening to this fool
@@fightclub3805 who hurt u
@@fightclub3805 can I get a translation?
I noticed that, when my sister is talking about her boyfriend, she talks about how many girlfriends he's had. And how Lucky she is to have won his Heart...
She wants him, because all the other girls want him.
Your sister is just a plate probably
@@betagimp127 ooooooo
i'm usually turned off by men who seem promiscuous or who are taken. maybe i'm weird or something but it just kind of automatically makes them less interesting...?
@@betagimp127 I wanna sit on that plate
@@bikeshop2002 Women who want men because other girls want him tend to be drama prone and may even have self worth issues. You're fine.
Really, it's just like looking for a job: everyone knows it's easier to get a job when you already have a job. Ditto, girls.
i have found that if you approach a semi attractive girl, and she is other girls notice that she is intersested, those other prettier girls would come along, not because im good looking, but to see if they could pull me away from her, to boost their egos . its sad realy.
+youreallbrainwashed sounds like sheep
@@SWIFTzTrigger humans behave like that. Herd mentality. Or in this case, flock.
U damn people overestimate
The importance of “ego” 🙄
to a woman. They *aren’t men*
When a toddler picks up a toy no one is interested in suddenly everyone else wants it, same with adults
nice made up story
the more you overthink the approach the more heavy and awkward the girl will perceive it
that's why the 3 second rule
typically, but if u are known for thinking of some GOLD so good that ur confidence in the line will mask it in a short amount of time - by all means
Mystery Method is one of the best strategies in the PUA world! I see comments dissing his attire. He dresses like that for the purpose of attention; usually attracts party girls easily and is a funny conversation starter for more secure women.
yes quite true... for an example ...Repels the lame ass uptight chick n draws in the free spirited crazy type
I was also shocked that people r criticising him, but they don't know that this guy has inspired so many pickup artists. I didn't knew who he was until I read game
OMG 🤣
party girls aren't hard to attract - they're looking for a good time and to get laid just like anyone else. i feel sad that some people put so much thought and time into this stuff...it would make me feel slightly worried for a guy. it's like they turn a natural, fun part of life into some kind of addiction? if they are happy it's all good but sometimes they seem a bit unfulfilled or something
degens meeting degens@@bikeshop2002
Mystery was a real pioneer. I know he was standing on the shoulders of giants, but mystery pioneered scaling better than anyone before him
Not really. There were no giants before him. There were a few people trying, but he was the first to truly make it work.
This guy is a legend. I've used some stuff from his book and it actually works.
Connor StandingReady, Have you married your ten yet or they are not the type of chicks you would marry. What is "works well"? Sleeping with dumb drunk chick isn't the goal to some dudes. How about an emotional 10, intellectual 10, Spiritual 10, financial 10, an educational 10 Get it?
Kyle Robinson No such woman exists.
Tall men get more women. Good looking men get more women. Men with money get more women.
Sense of humor? Like Jim Carey?
Just get the joke and be lighthearted. Sexy men get more
women. Men that have sex skills will get repeat customers just for sex. Gimmicks work on dumb drunk chicks. They wake up the next morning and say "Wait a minute! Where is that fuzzy hat?"
and realize how drunk and horny they were last night.
If you don't fall into any of these categories you should be looking for something a little deeper and more stable in the woman category. Your aren't going to get much play so use your energy wisely. If you aren't a 9-10 yourself don't expect a 9 or 10. Garbage in garbage out. If she looks like a ten and she is talking to you sje is probably a 1 in personality. Besides if your youtube shit worked on her why wouldn't some other dudes youtube diy pick up shit work on her next time? While your fucking her? You have to pay to have sex with 10s one way or another. Can you afford? If not you get the mentally damaged hoe that eats up any and all bullshit thrown at her. If you find out she is using you for money don't be suprised. If she is using you for sex be flattered.
I bet you bought that hat...
Define "works". Do you mean you can walk into a bar, begin the game with a lie for no other purpose than to get her into bed, and potentially walk out with a phone number and perhaps even get laid. That's some accomplishment.
For what it's worth you really lowered the bar on the definition of "legend".
Preselection is like the number thing for attraction
5 attractions circuits;
-Preselected by women
-Leader of men
-Willing to emote
-Protector of love ones
I don't know the 5th. It went from 4 in the early stuff ,to 5 In later years and I didn't fully memorize the 5th
Emote ?
@@extrosongscoverph8322 show emotion, not In a pathetic help me kind of way, but in a, I'm comfortable sharing how I feel way
@@zaccrisp9988 well said!
succesful risk taker
@@extrosongscoverph8322 your emotions are calibrated and you're not a sperg
You know what’s crazy. A few years back when I was 24 I would bleach my hair blonde, platinum, and one time even pink with a buzz cut. I dressed in different colors and I definitely had style to my look. A lot of guys would always ask me why I would bleach my hair all blonde and different colors and they’d hate on it……but what’s crazy is that all the women I had would always tell me they loved it. I shit you not everyone would always look at me and wherever I went I would straight up attract all the attention. I thought it was always in a bad way but learning about this man and seeing how he dresses to get women has opened my eyes to something lately. It’s crazy. But I think I was doing exactly what this guy does. Peacocking. I definitely stood out and women would flock to me with no problem.
That’s actually crazy because now seeing this man and learning about game I can see why women would love it. They love that idgaf style to be bold as hell and not care what people think. I always thought I got looked at for looking weird but looking back at it I had a great attitude and women would flock to me so much I would be getting laid all the time. It’s crazy. I didn’t realize it at all until I learned about game.
As a woman, peacocking makes guys look interesting and confident. Like, if a guy has on something I find interesting or that stimulates my curiosity, it's going to make me want to compliment, or ask him about it. And THAT opens up an opportunity to have conversation in an organic, comfortable way. And generally, women LOVE to feel comfortable around a man.
I think people in general want to feel comfortable around anyone they interact with, but it's especially important for women because I believe we have an innate subconscious fear of men, and we want to know that you are safe to be around.
If you were good u wouldn't be here ass hole
Mystery is essentially teaching about looking, dressing, and acting like a rockstar. Rockstars have lots of women because of their idgaf attitude.
Mystery emulated a lot of his theories around what alpha males do. So yeah you behaved like an alpha who dgaf and sure enough it worked. When I started reading his stuff I suddenly realised why I had been somewhat succesful with women previously. Most succesful men (wrt women) don't need lecturing. They already found their modus instinctively. Just like you did. I was succesful because I could always get women and groups to laugh and then switch to more personal stuff (plus being tall and not retarded). Never realised exactly what I was doing, but it worked a treat none the less.
@@regularSenseAppeal can you tell me how do you make them laugh? İ need to learn something about making laugh
Maybe this isn't the most respectful thing I've ever said but how sad would it be if the camera pulled back and he was talking to an empty room? 😬
Or an old folks home.
🤣🤣🤣
sooo disrespectful
😂😂😂
Lol 😂😂😂
I'll follow the D.E.N.N.I.S system, thank you very much.
Is this a character Glenn Howerton was doing when he was younger?
I was thinking the same thing 😂
W you 😂😂😂
I lost my first gf at 42 because i told her i never had a girlfriend before, i was nervous because im uncomfortable with touch as im autistic, so i told her id never had a gf before and she dumped me like a hot brick after that. I learnt this lesson the hardest way possible, i really liked that woman a lot.
She just wasn't the right 1 for u. Endings happen for new/ better things to come in. When things don't work out they're meant to learn from. I like a guy that's been w/ the least possible or no1 even better. Stay positive minded & sweet you'll find the right woman when u least expect it :)
@@chryzbre4336 im 45 and it never happened are you sure staying sweat is the right recepie when all the other guys whoa rent like that are getting lots of dates ? i think she was the right one but i wasnt good enough at pick up to get her, now i know your not supposed to say youve never had a gf but the problem is im learning pick up lessons oce every 42 years i cant afford to make any mistakes and i will definatly so now im worried ill never get a gf
Lesson learned. If you can get one, then you can get another. Theres a couple billion more out there
@@chryzbre4336thats cope. Biology doesn't work like that
I know a guy that is 44 and on the spectrum and he’s only been on 1 date that went nowhere. He is above average looking too and I think this combo will really scare away or repel women.. I think it’s a huge red flag if a guy is good looking yet has no real dating or relationship experience at the age of 44. He’s is in a very tough spot
You know, none of this PUA stuff worked for me except for the 3 second rule. It changed my life. It's a perfect way of meeting people - not just hot girls, but everyone. It made me a better human and I can meet people whereever I go.
I tend to place it as a part of our tribal history - if you greet a person straight away when you see them you will both presume you belong to the same tribe. You break the ice before it even grew between you. And once you give a person 'the nod' or the spontaneous 'hi' you can even choose to be silent afterwards, but strike up a conversation at any time because you both acknowledged each other so you know you're good.
"You know, none of this PUA stuff worked for me except for the 3 second rule. I"
Depends on the region. His stuff works in South Africa but in Europe you have to adjust a bit. It also depends how effective you apply it to women and also be able to read the girl to apply the correct PUA strategy.
If you cannot read the woman then it is basically just throwing material out there and see what sticks...
@@SsoulBlade Depends on the person too :) I block when I try fancy stuff but when I'm more myself I can become a bit magnetic
This guy put me on game in mid 2000s. I moved on to other gurus after that, but his principles are still 💯.
Hey, i'm getting on the game myself, been making progress but i feel like i'm running out of information, is there any site I can visit or book I can buy to keep studying and going deeper?
@@mateomunozduarte2278 buy "The Game" from Neil Strauss. He was Mystery's best apprentice and has also become his best friend. That book is mandatory reading, almost "the Game bible". You will not regret reading it.
Yeah, back then it was the good old times as old folks would say XD
@@mateomunozduarte2278dude this shit does not work. The concepts are sometimes there but you cannot fake confidence. Girls can smell that shit on you. If u want girls, go to the gym, make good money, and have hobbies. Take care of your body. Be yourself! Don’t do any weird conversational tricks or you’ll come off like a weirdo. Just be normal and talk to them like a human and if you click you click. U can’t really make a girl like you
@@mateomunozduarte2278Read Mistery books and early RSD videos.
I wish I lived during Mystery's time, or decided to game earlier on. Now to demonstrate preselection I have to do so via social media too. And that doesn't work if you have no friends.
+David R There are other ways, man. This is one teacher in a minefield of gurus. Try Tyler Durden's stuff.
+JoeTheToucan Tyler was once Mystery student and learned from the master Mystery
I use arash dibazar stuff lectures from 2014 too he was top mystery student
Oliver Ai
Actually, he took as much information from as many teachers as he could. A lot like Niel Strauss.
just get 3-4 pictures with friends on your profil, thats all it takes
This guy is right so far, especially with the "I don't care what I look like" clothes, near perfect I must say. And it's 4 scientifically proven things; 1. Pre-Selection 2. Confidence 3. Alpha Male 4. Copious use of money, do that you get any girl you want.
the copious use of money in itself will only work with escorts. HOWEVER the copious use of money can definitely get other women to hang out with you in a public or social setting. Other women will see that and preselect you as desirable
@@JesusChrist5000 great point.
lol scientifically proven things like alpha male, a concept based on a study whose author has explained was wrong. As for copious use of money, some will be impressed by that but some will find it offputting. At least confidence is something that actually makes you more attractive to everybody.
I underestimated this man, but after watching this video and seeing his passion and knowledge for the subject, He has my respect.
9:32 An important thing to mention here. You got to have a least 5 openers memorized. So in these situations you would act instead of thinking about what to say. Because as effective as three seconds rule can be (it really works) you can't just walk to a girl and say nothing because you didn't have anything to say. You gonna freeze and she will notice you're nervous. BE PREPARED!
Good idea, I have that problem
i am following this man for 10 years, he is truly a genius of his time, he deserves a nobel prize
In 10 years have you been able to sleep with every Supermodel and Hollywood star? Or at least go to bed with 100s of women? I can’t imagine listening to the same line of thought 10 years straight. I hope you were successful with your dating life
@@DimitriTheBarbarianyou are spiteful & weird, seek help
great you learn stuff and are happy about it, but isn't 10 freaking years more than enough to learn everything he has to offer? Move on with life man:)
Let's all remember this one thing: Back in the day, a session like this used to cost $300-1000 to sit in and listen to Mystery's TED talk and learn and understand how you did what a player did, successfully as a pickup artist.
Because of the Pickup Artist TV show he did, it opened every Western woman's eyes that they were being manipulated into sleeping with low quality men. They did not like that, and thus, this is where we are at now today.
You not only have to have the rizz, you must have the looks, the money, and the reputation now in order to be recognized.
This video is still a good informative session on what you need to understand and how pickup game(Rizz) is and what it can do for you!
If only people knew what guys like mystery, styles,grimler and so many other in the community of PUA's did for men, which most of todays dating "coaches" need to be thankful for the feel work this guys did. Since 1989 PAU's were doing the work...but of course game outlast pick-up. Most of the so called repill content creators of today where watching jimmy nutron or ben ten when this guys were doing in feel work in the early 2,000's. It takes hard work and a whole lot of trining to reach that level. But like Rollo say you can have all the PUA'S skills but if you dont kill the beta the beta will kill you.
Hey, MASF represent. Probably _the_ most influential site too. All the best!
i agree with you, what breaks my heart is that many of them didn't end up well. As far as I know Mystery has a daughter in the UK and the mother doesnt let him see her. Or a couple of years ago Tom Torero commit suicide.
@@aleterrayeah no shit. They are just regular men. Yes, they have skill and expertise in certain field. But at the end of the day they are no better than a guy who is a specialist in his career field
You do understand that all of this knowledge is thousands of years old though right?
I am very aware how old is this knowgeldge but it is only the few who can do the work. Their is nothing new under the sun but back in my era 80's 90's early 2000's seen pick artist doing it was incredible to see, also Giacomo Casanova back in the 1700's how many of us would like to go back in time and watch the way he developed his game...yes nothing is new but when you are born in a specific era and time you learn something very old everyday because is only new to you! again king Solomon said best: there is nothing new under the sun.@@TheBlackClockOfTime
I´ve had success with preselection. Just talking casually about other girls that wanted you, or was with you and had a good time is surely a shortcut. Still have to pull the trigger though! Good luck!
I realized like all of this myself 8 years before I ever heard of Mystery. I made a whole coaching call thing out of the fear theme alone. This guy casually explains the core of it in like 4 minutes. Legend!
legend of loser game
@@Neil-pf3pk I also thought pickup was loser game for almost a decade. But the thing is, guys like Mystery don't need these techs, although they work. He just gives them to guys to experiment with and hopefully one day they get it.
you are right MYSTERY some men will kill you over a lady, love sex tends to bringout some of the DARKEST ;emotions in some OF US!!!
this guy really helped me, i never really went 100% in on this stuff, but the concepts and what NOT to do really stuck and helped, my best pal was a DJ at londons biggest house clubs in the mid 2000s (the cross and egg club) and i used to get laid about 3times as much as him, despite his social status and being better looking than me, i would never mess up interacting with girls and would end up with better looking girls and closing the deal more than my pal who was the good looking and successful dj. groups of girls would always come up to him to talk so never really had to learn to cold open but i would always end up with the hottest girl from the group. one thing that really sticks out though is that his interactions with girls at clubs many times ended up with relationships if he wanted it where as my experiences never ended up with relationships in those settings.
cap
So what did you do to pick up the girls exactly ?
@@lilith2754 Use brain
Girls wanted to stay with him because of his status. And then you were a convenient side Ho
I remember Learning about Neil Strauss and man they where pioneers with psychology and “Game Theory” respect to these guys ☝🏿
mystery taught neil strauss everything neil knows ... but not everything mystery knew.
If we as a whole can stop letting our brain think like it used to 40,000 years ago we could smash approach anxiety even better with the help of the three second rule
Isn't it possible though that in some cases, that the girl isn't interested for some random reason not related to pickup, just like you were a completely different physicality e.g. she strictly liked really short blonde guys with deep voices (not Mystery) or she was in a bad mood etc, and no amount of preselection or correct 'game' could change anything
Yea on her period and needs to take a shit
This is a genius level explanation. Why you should not simp.
If you look at the lower left part of the frame from 1:37-on, there's the live version of his hat moving around down there.
I'm not debating or arguing with this guys points, don't know him, only heard this first part, and in his situation he's nervous, but I'll just tell you how it is with me, and I'm a master approacher. If I'm "nervous", it means I'm off, and I don't even try. As I say I tell myself constantly I'm a Stud, tell myself I have tons of girls, I'm TELLING YOU if you keep doing that fear will go away, women CAN SMELL FEAR, 90% of communication is NON VERBAL, IF YOU REALLY DON'T CARE, IF IN YOUR MIND YOU ALREADY HAVE ALL THE HOTTIES YOU CAN HANDLE HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY BE AFRAID, NERVOUS TO MAKE A MOVE? I'm training a friend, think I said that, getting his hair cut at a men's place, super hot greeter, at the end I walk up almost nose to nose, Red Hot Chili Pepper song was on I said "Did you know I'm the lead singer for the Red Hot chili Peppers and every girl loves me", she got the joke and said "Oh wow can I have your autograph", "Are you one of my groupies have I done you before", "I don't think so I think I'd remember", "OK I'll let you give me your number", BOTH OF US JOKING TO MAKE IT WORK, please, lie until you buy that fact that you're the alpha male, that you have chicks, that you spend money, and that you don't care or worry about anything, do that and they'll come, she was looking at me the entire time, purposely cleaning right next to me though it was clean. Again not disagreeing with this guy, I'm sure he has great advice, I'm just brushing up to help my friend.
Lucky you, cuz you are what they called a 'Natural'. Mystery is the GodFather of pickup and he invented the terms and guidelines that is now used. He trained "nerd" students to great playboys.
You don’t need to pay some guy thousands of dollars to know women’s five attraction switches. First off, they don’t have five, they have three. It’s the 666 rule:
- 6 feet tall
- 6 pack abs
- 6 figure job
That's a different and more expensive game
he's right the approach is the hardest part , but once you get over that fear ,oh my god you will live the life wallflowers only dream of just saying .
So what’s the equivalent for how women attract men? Does anyone know
For preselection, is it OK to post a photo of you with a Hawt girl on social media?
I always wrote this guy off because of his appearance, but I have to say this is fascinating.
Bro i been saying we psychologically act and feel certain ways through evolution. This shit is interesting af
@@epicenterbasshd9636 The science of evolutionary biology/
step 1) be white
step 2) be tall
step 3) have decent face, personality
black pill game
it takes longer to learn this than to actually just go out in the world - these ARE very GREAT training wheels and will never discredit that, though
I learned this stuff later in life, and man, it changed my life. Goddamn how I wish I'd learned this stuff when I was 15-18. I'd have had 1000 girls by now. But....even learning it later, it made a huge difference. This guy is a damned legend. He should win a Pulitzer.
A NOBEL !
I wouldn't touch a guy with a ten foot pole who had been with that many women. Ick
How old are you?
this guy is such a genius at these
it is interesting that women hate PUA and tactics, because women hate it, when men just understand what to do. They shame men like him but in their mind, they desired him for what he does.
@@bikeshop2002 tell that to a male virgin with no social skills
@@bikeshop2002 It's not really tricking people, PUAs are just taking advantage of social dynamics, how attention and attraction usually take place. It's an art, not manipulation.
Mysteri, Or ERIK MARKOVIĆ was the person who gave meaning to many young boy's lives back in the day. I actually became a self made coach at one point, teaching a lot of different approaches in that time. Good times. Technology destroyed everything to a certain degree. Yes it was useful at a certain point but it changed society to the point where it became a benefit to become a leech on society... I feel sad for the kids today. I'm a gym owner and coach from pro athletes to average people, and kids today are fcked up beyond speech.
Its sad.
this guys teaching is real trust me i myself got bullied in school
and bt watching this for the course of 1 year i learned to be more confident abd took the girls from the guys who bullied me . his shit works period trust me
I respect his logic and style of thinking.
He lives in the sewers of new York City now.
Get falsely accused and simp. No thanks.
Indeed.
if you are really weird then what you expect
He looks like a Walmart version of Johnny Depp 😂
Johnny Depp looks like a Walmart Mystery 🤣
He looks like a young Al Jourgensen
You get pre selected if you’re chad.
The world is full of ridiculously attractive men who mistakenly think their behavior is getting them attention. Like Skinner's pigeons they spend years trying to analyze what they are doing right, when all they need to do is wait and they'll get what they want every once in a while.
NOTE; mystery said "high value male" first
his teeth stare into my soul
under appreciated comment
Was he into Jamiroquai back then?
I used to think Mystery and Matador were just stupid, heck I even thought these guys may be gay by the way the dress but then I watched an hour long video by Matador and these guys are just masters- they put hundreds of hours into everything they talk about, I have a lot of respect for both!
It was their time for that kinda stuff,peacocking bit different way now.
Mystery is the Michael Jordan of social dynamics. Some guys just have it naturally and don't think one second about what they do. Mystery didn't have that luxury, but dissected how it ACTUALLY works and learned how to become attractive like the naturals.
I just came across your video for the first time ever, and I was completely shocked and baffled to witness that you provided the most astounding explanation I have EVER experienced in all my life. May I please ask if you have a comprehensive course that I can purchase ASAP?
DavePazz Thank you 'very' much for your response!!
Buy The Game by Neil Strauss
@@corma5783 Thank you!!
The game is not an instructionnal
Manual its a biography. Buy the mystery method, then purchase revelations by lovedrop. But i think the best nowadays is a guy called justin wayne. Look him up.
@@williamizm3745 Thank you very much for all your recommendations!
The mystery video was him explaining abt attraction switches while simultaneously gaming a girl sitting next to him, she's like just sitting there stroking her hair🤣🤣🤣
because of the implication.
vanishing rounder hahahaha
Mystery is good and all but I prefer the D.E.N.N.I.S system
Open a conversation with another woman in the social setting or have a woman with you while going out to approach women is preselection theory. If not skip this part and go directly to disqualification theory. Cat string type. Pull and pull. Give and take.
Newton, Darwin, Mystery. He is one of the greatest thinkers of all time and he has a funny hat. :D
Haha
It’s amazing how transferable the pua skills can be.
Can't believe I actually saw this legend a few months back.
Many PUAs from this era evolved from replicating the behaviors of high value men, into exploring authenticity.
That's quite true. Interesting when I think about it. Wonder if "new age" that brought attention to eastern philosophies that happened around 2012 and overall attention to psychology had something to do with it
These videos helped me get married.
.....
My wife was happy I wasn't them.
Never Ever get Married
@@neinneinnein379
I mean I would indeed recommend the viewership take that advice
She must be obese
Mystery was super tall, pale, and good looking with blue eyes. No woman in the universe would turn him down even if he was terrible at "game". I wanna see all this stuff work for a dark skinned short guy. That is what I consider evidence.
I don't think any of these tactics are necessary. I feel like I am watching a fucking nerd conference with a bunch of men weirdos.
You're right to some extent.
But remember that be brave and approach women. It's better than sitting there and being resentful about the realities.
If he approach 100 women gets 10, you'll get at least 2. Why not try, 2 obviously is better than zero. (By the way I'm an average man too)
The infamous Mystery from Neil Strauss's book "The Game."
Ive noticed that none of it is being a decent person
I wonder whats Mystery thoughts on the concept of backbone/boundaries and Mode 1.5 / Mode One Hardcore.
Say or think whatever you want about Pick Up but Mystery is the best of the best - guy knows the game better than anyone else
i love you . thank you mystery . you write book help my life
Preselection actually works sooo well if you do it well
Mystery is the Legend! Love from China
What I don't like here is that he is pretending he is not after beauty but that's the only thing he was after:(
WRONG, you dont get it. he is trying to show and demonstrate that her beauty doesnt effect him and her beauty doesnt put her out of his league. also there is something really wrong with you if you dont want beauty, dont silly you would like a beautiful woman, a beautiful house, a beautiful car, beautiful clothes...........if you dont even want to better yourself in any way what is even the point of living????
@@robinhooduk8255 Maybe you misinterpreted what I said.
Look, if you ever had beautiful girls in your life and formed relationships with them, then you already know that it's not enough. You need a lot more in the other person to have a meaningful and lasting relationship.
But what I said is that I don't like he is pretending to not care about the beauty when that's obviously all he cares about. It's possible to be straight about it, without playing these silly games and try to manipulate others into liking you.
When women say 'want you to like me for me and not my looks' i guess this is how
It's called being brave and dressing how the fuck you want
When was this recorded?
I remember when he had a reality show for a while and he would teach nerds and stuff how to pick up on women and it looked pretty interesting actually and there are a lot of things he talks about their totally true
These preselection surprisingly works LOL .
How we get girl now please yes?
Do you have the wingman act as bodyguard to fend off to increase desire?
That's why he's the ... THE GOOOOAAAAATTTTT !!!! 👑
To be real, if you are tall (dudes almost 2m) and as good looking as him then you only need confidence, nothing more
How to pick up girls:
Step 1: Dress like a rejected Devil May Cry character
Step 2: ???
Step 3: Demons ☕️
LOL
Where can I find full video?
All over the internet.
I feel like I bumped into something big
You did.
Go through as much of this as you can. It will LITERALLY chance your life and I"m not shitting you. It did mine.
@@TheGrandmaster1 Hello friend, i'm on this road since this day when the life gave me the gift of meeting Erik and his perspectives of the social interations. Yes, this is big. This change who we are, change everything. As he always say: "this is not about get girls, it's about building a life." I feel so happy that could meet this. I still learning as much i can and more i know more i see more we have to learn. Much light in your way. Cheers from Brazil. ♥
Diego.
Ok, it took me 8 months to find the ugly stupid fake fur hat... So what do I do next to pick up lots of girls???
Wait what is this serious or a bit, it’s like if Jamiroquai became a travelling salesman
jamiroquai xd
mystery we miss you
Dudes a genius
Can someone tell me the name of that hat?
The king of rock and roll
@mrjedidja
There is no such thing as "proper dating". You either like/love a person are you don't. That person will either like/love you are they don't. Love compatibility? This is a women's idea based on romance novels.
That's the sixth attraction switch right there
I’m surprised this doesn’t have 100 million views
I do not agree, we men don't NEED women, we desire them sure but we don't Need them and from an evolutionary perspective we men can take care of ourselves, the women NEED us . We are the hunters and the warriors . Your disqualification or the Neg shows her that you don't need her and if you so desired a mate you have plenty of choices and always have options. And you are correct, beautiful women are common but what you fail to mention is that truly high value men are rare . They spend two hours minimum on their hair and makeup, ok three hours, they have far more invested in us because they NEED or their genetically hardwired to believe they need a high value man or men around them and hopefully carry forth his high value genes to her children as this will help ensure the success of her offspring. But no we don't need them and we should make that point to them and keep making that point if you want to keep her loyal.
Women like an attractive man sure traits like symmetry but where women are truly different is that it's behavior that really attracts them.
We need each other to survive and reproduce. Or else humankind would die out.
This is the most insightful comment I have ever read in any PUA comment section! The above observation MUST BE true, otherwise negging women would NOT work! So there is a logical fallacy Mystery did not observe!
There are curious parallels between pick up coaches like Mystery and the first England manager Walter Winterbottom and his FA coaching courses. There was a lot of initial hostility and incredulity at something that was felt to come naturally to some people and couldn't be taught.
I watched his show on VH-1, and as a woman, I was floored at what he was saying. Now that I'm older, I'd love to see him take a bunch of women who may not be a 10, and teach them how to become these high value women that he teaches men to go after. They say confidence can make a person sexy, but a lot of us who are not 10's, we have to fake it until we make it
Rewatch the second marked section of this video again. The confidence thing doesn't apply as much the other way around.
sorry to break it to you but it doesnt work the other way round. men are after beauty (improving their genepool) women are after survival protection traits(leaders of men, being successful either socially, financially or physically) men can improve can generally improve atleast one of those things to get better with women(most of the guys he is teaching their bar is already at zero so anything is an improvement) but women generally already do their best improvements with makeup and clothing and looks, their is nothing that man be taught to snag a better class of men, you should watch Kevin Samuels, he gives women women a reality check on thinking they can improve themselves like men do, its harsh but eye opening reality of how it really is.
where is this guy now ?
This dude is a Master damn were can I get that hat
I see where the green line theory is coming from
I don't fear the approach ...