This is such a huge conversation. What I have learned: 1. Long-term relationships without the commitment of marriage (if this is what you believe in) need to end. 2. Creating a life together without the commitment of marriage creates a pressure of having to stay together because of what you have built together and the time invested; and that's what ends up keeping the relationship going rather than your actual connection with the person. 3. A person being strung along, whilst they may have a smile on their face, they are absolutely hurting and questioning their current position and next move - staying or "starting again" . This alone is problematic if you are supposed to be in a partnership. My last relationship spanned 9 years, ended without marriage. My next relationship began with intentional courting and within a year we married. The striking difference I perceive in those experiences is decisiveness and assertion. My husband knew what he wanted, found it and secured it.
Idk buddy 7 years is too long to be shacking up with no ring. Y’all already tied souls. I think Kevin is scared, and if you need time to grow. Separate and grow alone. Because dragging her along on the journey knowing she is ready, can be a lot for a woman, which will become a lot for you. Because by the Lords standard, y’all doing it backwards. Living together, and all without no ring. It honestly doesn’t take long, if toxicity is keeping you from proposing after 7 years, could be unequally yoked. S*x confusing things, and will keep you tied to someone that you was suppose to been walk away from, not saying that’s Kevin situation
Singleness is designed to rid yourself of our templates (things we were taught or caught in childhood, our patterns, and mindsets) This way, when you enter a relationship, the couple won't be bringing all the baggage into it. God's agenda is for marriage to be a stage to show His love through the marriage. We get stuck in cycles of long-term dating due to history, sex (the enemy will make sure sex is good even when the person isn't good for us, so we'll be in the trap of bad picks) , trauma bonding, and other things. When we take the time to seek our purpose and walk in it, we won't make relationships/people our purpose causing us to enter things God never intended.
May you guys stay blessed and continue to grow as individuals. Been here since day one, real talk.
This is such a huge conversation.
What I have learned:
1. Long-term relationships without the commitment of marriage (if this is what you believe in) need to end.
2. Creating a life together without the commitment of marriage creates a pressure of having to stay together because of what you have built together and the time invested; and that's what ends up keeping the relationship going rather than your actual connection with the person.
3. A person being strung along, whilst they may have a smile on their face, they are absolutely hurting and questioning their current position and next move - staying or "starting again" . This alone is problematic if you are supposed to be in a partnership.
My last relationship spanned 9 years, ended without marriage.
My next relationship began with intentional courting and within a year we married.
The striking difference I perceive in those experiences is decisiveness and assertion. My husband knew what he wanted, found it and secured it.
Iv been watching you guys since 2018! Glad to be back on UA-cam. Missed yall videos! 🙌🏽❤️
Idk buddy 7 years is too long to be shacking up with no ring. Y’all already tied souls. I think Kevin is scared, and if you need time to grow. Separate and grow alone. Because dragging her along on the journey knowing she is ready, can be a lot for a woman, which will become a lot for you. Because by the Lords standard, y’all doing it backwards. Living together, and all without no ring. It honestly doesn’t take long, if toxicity is keeping you from proposing after 7 years, could be unequally yoked. S*x confusing things, and will keep you tied to someone that you was suppose to been walk away from, not saying that’s Kevin situation
Missed y’all, the title alone!!🙌🏽
Singleness is designed to rid yourself of our templates (things we were taught or caught in childhood, our patterns, and mindsets) This way, when you enter a relationship, the couple won't be bringing all the baggage into it. God's agenda is for marriage to be a stage to show His love through the marriage. We get stuck in cycles of long-term dating due to history, sex (the enemy will make sure sex is good even when the person isn't good for us, so we'll be in the trap of bad picks) , trauma bonding, and other things. When we take the time to seek our purpose and walk in it, we won't make relationships/people our purpose causing us to enter things God never intended.
“A Christmas Tree! “😂😂 …. “We kept that B**** in the Barn” y’all are so funny 😂😭😭😂
💯 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣