DAINA DOESNT LIE... I'M OVER THIS NOW

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  • @yazminmeraz1997
    @yazminmeraz1997 Рік тому +2194

    She is teaching me how important it is to keep the receipts!!!

    • @Candygurl_1
      @Candygurl_1 Рік тому +40

      Yess always keep them

    • @samsungbackup3619
      @samsungbackup3619 Рік тому +38

      Nah... just move on and keep your peace

    • @org.briiii5201
      @org.briiii5201 Рік тому +140

      @@samsungbackup3619 for ppl like you we NEED them

    • @wildcard286
      @wildcard286 Рік тому +98

      ​@org.briiii Right! WE gonna keep our Peace & the receipts! 😂

    • @bathroomdiaries5393
      @bathroomdiaries5393 Рік тому +16

      or to leave as soon as you see red flags

  • @QueenOfCallingSpades
    @QueenOfCallingSpades Рік тому +2013

    Daina’s memory is *LONG* , *STRONG* and never *WRONG*

  • @Camibow30
    @Camibow30 Рік тому +498

    Ladies and gentlemen, this is why you don’t pressure or ask couples about starting a family or any societal expectations because you don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors.

    • @nadzalln
      @nadzalln Рік тому +13

      Listen!!! 👏👏👏

  • @Poupey224
    @Poupey224 Рік тому +1086

    If some people are wondering why she recorded conversations. It’s because those people will deny ever saying what they said, ever doing what they did, call you crazy and basically gaslight you. And you will actually believe them and doubt yourself, because that’s how good they are at manipulating. I’ve done it before. And when I listened back to the recording, it was even worse than what I thought it was. I could hear the manipulation in every single word. I was chocked I wasn’t crazy.

    • @ms_undastood3023
      @ms_undastood3023 Рік тому +29

      Imagine him putting all that energy into something productive ....but no all that afford to do what? He really needs help. At this point I'd even consider getting officials involved ...what's gonna come next?

    • @AliyaGurl
      @AliyaGurl Рік тому +13

      This has happened to most of us unfortunately there needs to be a swift change in these personalities they're causing others depression 😢

    • @femdivinemind7777
      @femdivinemind7777 Рік тому

      It actually causes physical damage to your brain and cptsd too

    • @LS-gy9bq
      @LS-gy9bq Рік тому +7

      Nobody SHOULD be wondering when they can SEE IT AS WE SPEAK ‼️ When you communicate with a LIAR or a DECEPTIVE person WITH A BIG EGO..... OF COURSE UR GONNA RECORD THEM ‼️BE CRAZY NOT TO

    • @LS-gy9bq
      @LS-gy9bq Рік тому +3

      @@AliyaGurl No, THIS Has not happened to must of us! It was a ten yr relationship with MUCH more drama than most but I know it is a matter of perspective)

  • @rubyreduxx
    @rubyreduxx Рік тому +629

    "So what i cheated!!!! She stayed... is that my fault?!"
    The way I PHYSICALLY cringed from this. Loyalty is DEAD

    • @queenieb7378
      @queenieb7378 Рік тому +50

      of course it’s his fault! he manipulated her to get her to stay every time she left him. he’s so narcissistic and dumb!

    • @M-elle
      @M-elle Рік тому +51

      They never say the part where they cry, beg, guilt trip and gaslight women into staying. They would always find a way to blame her. It’s sick really!!! He looks sick already. She’s gonna flourish way better then he would. God don’t like garbage. U can hear the guilt in his voice just been coward.

    • @CharisMaggieTV
      @CharisMaggieTV Рік тому +40

      Beware of ppl who use God and religion to get sympathy to try and gaslight a situation

    • @Fau465
      @Fau465 Рік тому +26

      Basically said its daina's fault she stayed 😮😂. Narcissist are really warped.

    • @sarahm8464
      @sarahm8464 Рік тому +10

      6 minutes in and i started seeing the devil.
      Nothing but embarrassing, could've gone down the civil route and acted like a real man but instead he wants to sit on youtube and whinge about how "sad" his affairs have been these past few years. We all going through something, get over yourself.
      Sad, lowly and pathetic and it's funny to me because he's plastered his face on the socials for a few pennies but what he's really done is destroy any shot he's had at his boxing career or a career as an influencer in general.
      🚮

  • @gracecj
    @gracecj Рік тому +846

    I believe every word coming out of this woman’s mouth. A true queen

    • @xr2kid
      @xr2kid Рік тому +69

      I don't even need to believe the facts are so clear

    • @gracecj
      @gracecj Рік тому +64

      @@xr2kidhonestly. anyone who believes that man needs their whole brain checked

    • @nikkie_a
      @nikkie_a Рік тому +18

      EVERY WORD!!!!!

    • @sarahm8464
      @sarahm8464 Рік тому +7

      She really has no reason to lie.
      Yes he may feel strongly about some of his views but it doesn't negate the fact that he's still the one in the wrong here, this woman has done nothing but be hospitable when she deserved to flip

    • @luyandamthembu5678
      @luyandamthembu5678 Рік тому

      Same here

  • @sg7598
    @sg7598 Рік тому +407

    PLEASE retain an attorney, so that you can protect yourself in this divorce. PLEASE

    • @justme-qp8nz
      @justme-qp8nz Рік тому +21

      Yeah that's a good idea. Because he could become violent. God forbid he does but just to be on the safe side ❤❤

  • @ten5ive229
    @ten5ive229 Рік тому +851

    He’s the type of person you just have to ignore and they’ll go away, unfortunately he will just find his next victim and continue the same cycle.

    • @auset7385
      @auset7385 Рік тому +65

      Yes as all narcissists do, he’ll find another co dependant to feed off of

    • @goldn_k
      @goldn_k Рік тому +4

      🎯

    • @Mabunt3
      @Mabunt3 Рік тому +58

      He's probably only "defending" himself because he's afraid the truth will hurt his chances of keeping his current supply and hurt his chances of gaining new supply. Narcissists love to keep a supply because they wouldn't know what to do with themselves otherwise

    • @Jasmine-ot8br
      @Jasmine-ot8br Рік тому +34

      Nah she did ignore now he’s messing with her money now it’s personal

    • @Niikkx
      @Niikkx Рік тому +17

      This is my ex. The back and forth seem to fuel their narcissistic ways.

  • @Leahmeme
    @Leahmeme Рік тому +376

    I work as an IDVA (independent domestic violence advocate), and this is proper textbook perpetrator behaviour. Perpetrators of abuse trying to present themselves as the victim is extremely common. Its is very important to be mindful of it escalating though, especially now that he has been exposed again publicly. The more out of control he feels, the more likely he is to cause harm, whether it be emotional, physical, or psychological, so just bare that in mind and be ready. He's an ABUSER by nature so just be careful, coz post separation domestic abuse is a real thing and it's when the victim leaves and tries to get on with their life is when the real shit starts going down, as perpetrators are not able to cope with the feeling of not being in control of their victims.
    Your a good woman and you are gonna go far in life.🙌🏽

    • @miagudda
      @miagudda Рік тому +35

      This!!!!! Hopefully she reads your comment. I’m not a professional but that was my assumption, he’s losing even more control which is going to make him unpredictable. That scares me because it seems like he’s getting more and more mad.

    • @Laura-sg6ss
      @Laura-sg6ss Рік тому +3

      Yepp

    • @luyandamthembu5678
      @luyandamthembu5678 Рік тому +5

      Yes, It makes me scared for her safety

    • @therealsirenayasmin
      @therealsirenayasmin Рік тому +10

      I couldn’t agree with this more. He is definitely an abuser. Emotionally, physically and FINANCIALLY as he is trying to stop her from making her own money now that she’s leaving. There’s a statistic that says men who choke or strangle women (in DV relationships) are like 5x more likely to murder their partner. The fact that he grabbed her by the throat at some point in their relationship is so scary and the fact that he keeps trying to escalate everything after seeing she’s doing well.

    • @Im.A.Potatoe
      @Im.A.Potatoe Рік тому +4

      It's called narcissist yes they love having control and micromanaging your lif

  • @1978spears
    @1978spears Рік тому +991

    IMO, a person who blames the other person for loving them when they cause pain is one of the most disgusting types of betrayal a person can experience.

  • @nubianqueen2474
    @nubianqueen2474 Рік тому +752

    Honestly people wouldve respected him more if he took accountability, praised you for trying everything you could to save the marriage out of your love for HIM. But instead he decided to bash you and minimize the abuse he put you through. A very wicked man

    • @hannahhun6013
      @hannahhun6013 Рік тому +29

      💯 spot on! this comment should be pinned

    • @BritneyMelody
      @BritneyMelody Рік тому +12

      This! I thought exactly the same just admit and move on, if not with love at the very least respect.

    • @Nicole_Zyon
      @Nicole_Zyon Рік тому +3

      💯

    • @deej5608
      @deej5608 Рік тому +21

      Narcissist can't take being seen as the guilty party even when you have proof that they are

    • @fashionablylate888
      @fashionablylate888 Рік тому +3

      Ahmet was always jealous of her - I saw it years ago and thought, “she’s gon hit 30 and get sick of him.” 💅🏽

  • @IceHarvest929
    @IceHarvest929 Рік тому +459

    Dainá, you were abused. Ahmed is/was an abuser. Just because it didn't happen everyday or every week doesn't change that fact. Just because he may not have hit you with an opened hand doesn't mean that you weren't abused.

    • @toddleonard369
      @toddleonard369 Рік тому +13

      I think she understands that. I believe she wants to be seen as being strong as supposed to being seen a victim. I'm really surprised by all of this; I truly believe Ahmet had his ish together.

    • @IceHarvest929
      @IceHarvest929 Рік тому +46

      @@toddleonard369 She doesn't understand that. She basically said well he didn't abuse me because he did this and this but he didn't really like hit me hit me. Yea he choked me up against the wall but he didn't hit me.That's not the language of someone who understands

    • @waterfall5530
      @waterfall5530 Рік тому +9

      @@IceHarvest929 but I get her though. I too am a strong person, I’m the “strong friend” the tough big sister, all my siblings/cousins look up to me, been taking care of my mother my whole life. So when it happened to me, even though I knew deep down I was being abused I still couldn’t physically say the words. It’s a wall put up to protect us. I still find it hard to say because I can’t believe I let that happen to me. But learning relearning to trust my intuition and myself again has been a journey.

    • @sarahm8464
      @sarahm8464 Рік тому +13

      Bruh this guy has the audacity to claim "i know real women who have gone through real abuse". *side eye*
      Trying to downplay her abuse as if it's not valid.
      Well girl, i can confirm that your feelings are completely and totally valid. This is Stockholm syndrome at it's finest so his effort to once again throw her under the bus has failed.

  • @Subllama
    @Subllama Рік тому +732

    Daina really bought out the receipts. She went in. Ahmet is miserable. We’re here for you queen.

    • @alkahinat4558
      @alkahinat4558 Рік тому +20

      🧾 and I’m glad she did tbh
      Lying on her was the real slander, that was like a court session. Sweep up his dust yes! 💨🧹

    • @Subllama
      @Subllama Рік тому +9

      @@alkahinat4558this!! He’s the one lying and slandering her.

  • @KiaSynthesis
    @KiaSynthesis Рік тому +237

    The thing about it is, without the proof, you can clearly see he’s lying.

  • @ga_elle
    @ga_elle Рік тому +209

    The real truth is that she doesn't need to give him no more attention. The video he posted was giving: Sorrows, sorrows, prayers

    • @nikkie_a
      @nikkie_a Рік тому +24

      C'mon Charlotte!!!!

    • @CharisMaggieTV
      @CharisMaggieTV Рік тому +12

      Lmfao sorrows, sorrows, prayers will forever be funny 🤣

  • @aliamichelle_
    @aliamichelle_ Рік тому +213

    That restraining order is a must at this point. Clearly he is a ticking time bomb since he refuses to look within and resolve his own issues.

  • @nianeter3249
    @nianeter3249 Рік тому +111

    Side note: I hope Daina makes BANK off of this video

  • @ClassyNicky
    @ClassyNicky Рік тому +85

    I went and checked out his video while watching this, but after 5 mins in, I couldn’t watch anymore of it. His words: “I CHEATED……She knew I CHEATED, she stayed. I CHEATED AGAIN, she stayed…………Is that my fault? If you cheat on someone then that means you don’t want to be with that person.” Those words from him are so strong, aggressive, and so sad. I’m so sorry Daina😢, but I’m happy that you got away from that whole situation.

  • @leilamohammed1759
    @leilamohammed1759 Рік тому +162

    The fact Daina had to go back to check if she said anything in her storytime just shows how manipulative THIS MAN is. 😡😡😡😡

  • @Official.tadiwa
    @Official.tadiwa Рік тому +206

    You can sue him for damages to your psychology and financials. Mariah Carey did to her ex this applies here

    • @folakebianca
      @folakebianca Рік тому +3

      I hope she sees this!

    • @Official.tadiwa
      @Official.tadiwa Рік тому +39

      She can also get child services involved for ahemt attempting to jeopardise her nieces well-being financially. She can sue for a lot of things

    • @Poeticfloetic
      @Poeticfloetic Рік тому +16

      ​@@Official.tadiwaThis is not America.

    • @Official.tadiwa
      @Official.tadiwa Рік тому +11

      @@Poeticfloetic law applies everywhere. The same law I’m speaking about applies everywhere

    • @mimosa.pw2ij
      @mimosa.pw2ij Рік тому +19

      Sue for what lol? It would cost her more (financially and emotionally) than he could ever pay.

  • @pocketz2202
    @pocketz2202 Рік тому +102

    I know I'm new to this channel, but honestly your experience and you sharing it has taught me soooo much. Listening to these soundcloud files and hearing how he pleades yet puts it on you. It's giving me PTSD and making me realizing how horrible my ex was yet TO THIS DAY I feel that I...maybe... just...maybe, could go back. maybe he can change and listening to this reaffirms the fact that I should NEVER go back. Thank you, for protecting yourself and your peace and subsequently, protecting mine.

    • @ninamugabe
      @ninamugabe Рік тому +1

      I highkey go PTSD listening to the soundcloud files 😭 he cheated on me around the same time I lost my grandmother from my mum’s side in August 2020 and I went into a deep depression 😢

    • @horseheadkid
      @horseheadkid Рік тому +2

      its extremely unlikely that your ex will change. please move on with your life

    • @ninamugabe
      @ninamugabe Рік тому +1

      @@horseheadkid already done ✅

  • @heartandsoul143
    @heartandsoul143 Рік тому +268

    His friend did an awful lot for a married man. What was Ahmet doing for him? Ahmet, reveal yourself man.

    • @rubyreduxx
      @rubyreduxx Рік тому +73

      Come out the closet frfr!!!

    • @lauradelta8060
      @lauradelta8060 Рік тому +25

      Honestly!!!!!!!!

    • @nayatarot777
      @nayatarot777 Рік тому +38

      RIGHT. relationship treatment in a friendship???

    • @CP-gq7en
      @CP-gq7en Рік тому +8

      They’re in a sexual relationship

    • @octaviaarmstrong7551
      @octaviaarmstrong7551 Рік тому +8

      He still wasn’t a good friend to dude thou , he probably still owe that man money 😂

  • @JussErin
    @JussErin Рік тому +110

    Do these people have a script that they follow? It’s unreal how verbatim my ex sounded compared to him.. especially listening to the voice recordings on the SoundCloud. So thankful to be free of that mess. Proud of you Daina!

    • @nadzalln
      @nadzalln Рік тому +17

      Ikr... I started getting secondary trauma listening. They really mess with yr head and heart 😩

  • @lc4903
    @lc4903 Рік тому +112

    I think Lee is his sugar daddy something ain’t right with that arrangement 🧐

    • @kiana62510
      @kiana62510 Рік тому +21

      FACTS!!!! My thoughts exactly, it’s giving side chick

    • @moniquep2010
      @moniquep2010 Рік тому +2

      Do you remember when daina went out her way to decorate Lee's house for him

  • @CHOSENMAJESTYXO
    @CHOSENMAJESTYXO Рік тому +438

    omelette really thought he ate
    lmao guys, but yeah he should have never tried daina becos she is always with the receipts. God will bring you out stronger, you and aaliyah! 🫶🏾

  • @cindykamara108
    @cindykamara108 Рік тому +335

    Scary that the person I watched for so many years all the way when I was in secondary school was a monster! The fact that I actually liked him as a person and thought highly of him is so sad! Sending you love Daina!❤️

    • @SiahSiah
      @SiahSiah Рік тому +32

      I feel the exact same way like I remember posting their videos on my ig page back when I was a senior in high school, to see how far he has gone is really disheartening and I hope one day she really can be free from his toxicity.

    • @cindykamara108
      @cindykamara108 Рік тому +6

      @@SiahSiah Honestly!!

    • @NooralainMirza
      @NooralainMirza Рік тому +4

      Honestly I feel the same 🥲

    • @nysejace868
      @nysejace868 Рік тому +7

      Collectively thats how most of us feel... which is really messed up . We were all rooting for him . For them ..... And to know this truth is sickening ... 🇹🇹

    • @KayD88
      @KayD88 Рік тому +4

      Omg same here! To think I loved them as a couple and thought he was so good to her, then he shows who he really is, those first 5 minutes on his video were horrendous to hear!

  • @phoeenixmilan1008
    @phoeenixmilan1008 Рік тому +85

    If anyone knows a Down Low/ Bi man when they see one will know exactly what's going on here. Peep his mannerisms, demeanor and etiquette or lack off. There's is no-one angrier than someone who can't live their truth and boosie pop in peace, he lost his beard, his sugar mummy and his financial wallet and the bruised ego, misogyny and hatred he's always had for you is oozing out. Babe you can't downgrade after this, thank God for tearing this leech off you because he is NOT it.

    • @m77-y6n
      @m77-y6n Рік тому +23

      Omg I was gonna comment he’s giving sassy scorned lover vibes emphasis on the sassy but I thought I was bugging!

    • @phoeenixmilan1008
      @phoeenixmilan1008 Рік тому +1

      @@m77-y6n babe your not bugging at all! as a society we forget that bisexuality/ pansexuality is a lot more accepted for women than itis for men and there equally if NOT MORE men who are bisexual/hetroflexible than women however there scared to disclose this for various reasons as a result they secretly hate and resent the women they’re with and externalise their inner turmoil on their female partners. But yes he’s very much one of the GWORLS throwing a sissy fit because his sugar baby lifestyle has ended and he can’t save face. He’s serving fish and not the cute kind either lol

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Рік тому +16

      Im glad I’m not the only one getting those vibes. It’s giving very much fruiTea…Ahmet #HowYouDoing ? 👀😂😴☕️

  • @rg6578
    @rg6578 Рік тому +49

    He thought he ate, but left more crumbs than Hansel and Gretel.

    • @H5678-c1m
      @H5678-c1m Рік тому

      Howlingggggggggggggg😂

  • @heartlacies
    @heartlacies Рік тому +75

    I’ve said this before; Ahmet never truly liked you, there was absolutely no way he could do something like that and turn around, paint you as a villain and then say he had no love for you. You were a convenience for him and I’m sorry he had a hold on you for so many years. It’s disgusting and twisted. He couldn’t even be bothered to wear or even keep his wedding ring, he wasn’t committed to you at all.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Рік тому +9

      I agree. I was shocked when he said he was not in love with her. Thats truly unfortunate. This proves that guys will definitely do whatever it takes to keep consistent 👉 🐱 around. He had a woman that will pay for things and give him the benefits of a relationship. Of course he wasn’t going to leave and was going to drag it on for as long as he could. Smh. 😴

  • @keluvnme
    @keluvnme Рік тому +169

    Slander is saying something that is FALSE. If it happened, it isn’t slander

    • @sarahm8464
      @sarahm8464 Рік тому +17

      Tryna be slick, obviously someone is putting these words in his mouth because if he really knew what these terms meant, he wouldn't be using them

  • @bx5659
    @bx5659 Рік тому +45

    The fact she did this in a livestream proves she isn’t lying

  • @alishaj1472
    @alishaj1472 Рік тому +221

    Don't give this anymore light, it will only drain you emotionally. Let the courts handle this matter, he played with your money, this doesn't help your case with social services. Hire a good lawyer let the facts be made and documented he has lost his integrity and he clearly has no respect for himself or for you. Keep it moving. Further more i would put out a restraining order on him. He un hinged.

    • @janetjohnson9690
      @janetjohnson9690 Рік тому +14

      God has her back.

    • @nayatarot777
      @nayatarot777 Рік тому +17

      @@janetjohnson9690 definitely. because although she fell for his manipulation tactics, you can tell she constantly listens to her intuition (the voice of God). she’ll heal and move on from this 🙏🏾

  • @yo-cn4gk
    @yo-cn4gk Рік тому +127

    I am so proud of you sis!! Im gonna enjoy watching your rise! From your music and story helping others all over the world and more! If Omellete didn't know God he def met God now. Karma does not play. No evil eye nor hand can take away your gift or favor, STAY strong and around people who love and wish you well.

  • @NG-kv5sf
    @NG-kv5sf Рік тому +84

    Ohhhh my I just finished listening to the recordings 😱 the levels of emotional/spiritual abuse, manipulation and mental put down. Girl I’m so sorry for what you went through 😢 genuinely hope you heal. Therapy is an amazing tool and helped me navigate through a lot of emotion and feeling I had after lots of stuff. I’m an advocate for everybody having therapy and believe it’s so needed for all of us who go through such abuse, betrayal and just hard things in life. Please don’t do yourself a disservice and allow his abuse and the impact of it remain. Be the happiest version of you that you can be, be trusting without being foolish(without allowing the fear of failure/embarrassment/shame to keep you trapped in another similar situation) love deeply and continue to see the good in people.

    • @Im.A.Potatoe
      @Im.A.Potatoe Рік тому

      Therapy is crap. Find Jesus or people you trust.

  • @ednaidatipote5602
    @ednaidatipote5602 Рік тому +38

    This video made me sad. Please put that smile back on your face..don't even give him the satisfaction of seeing you stressed babe..we have your back. Go back to living your best life. He dies inside seeing you happy. Show him more happy you. He is A WICKED WICKED MAN! We are all so proud of you. And we will NEVER believe his lies. Don't even question that

  • @bouncyshak
    @bouncyshak Рік тому +109

    Armpit is a joke.

  • @RL_7
    @RL_7 Рік тому +74

    Starting to think ahmets friend was his sugar daddy cause…he funds a lot more than a friend would for ahmet..and the fact he said “you dont know what arrangement I have with him” odd🤔

  • @RoseGolden0
    @RoseGolden0 Рік тому +160

    Something is seriously wrong with him and his and Lee’s relationship is very weird. Something definitely going on in that.. deeper than “just a Buddy helping a friend out”

    • @Subllama
      @Subllama Рік тому +23

      This 🫣

    • @babytt8487
      @babytt8487 Рік тому +62

      Batty and bench 😂😂😂

    • @karmellla
      @karmellla Рік тому +70

      Lee must’ve picked him up in the air and nyammed it. You don’t just buy someone a MacBook like that sorry

    • @Candygurl_1
      @Candygurl_1 Рік тому +6

      @@karmellla 😂😂😂

    • @rosieshiro2922
      @rosieshiro2922 Рік тому +2

      @@babytt8487 😂😂

  • @RoLee705
    @RoLee705 Рік тому +134

    In his video, he references a clip of yours where you basically say “that’s how you know I’ve done nothing wrong, when he wants to be friends.” And he used that, among other things, as a way to say, “see? How can I be her abuser if we’re still this close?”
    For anyone reading, just because a person wants to befriend you, it doesn’t mean neither you nor them have been abusive. Just because a person wants to be your friend even after you’ve been abusive, it doesn’t mean nothing happened. It doesn’t mean they’ve got the right idea. It could mean that they just want things to be on better terms (whether it’s the healthy decision or not).
    It could mean the person wants to regain some sort of control. Who knows? But don’t allow “friendship” or “wanting friendship” as leverage to say there’s been no abuse nor will there be in future.
    I really wanted to befriend my abusive ex. I learned the hard way that it just can’t be.

    • @platinumluvxoxo
      @platinumluvxoxo Рік тому +8

      EXACTLY!!! Thank you for commenting this! Cause it’s the same thing with my abusive narcissistic ex.

    • @newid10
      @newid10 Рік тому +4

      I’m very outwardly cordial with my emotionally abusive ex. To those none the wiser it would seem like, wow he can’t have been that bad then. In reality I’ve learned the way to avoid ongoing abuse (we have kids so I can’t cut him off) is to be cordial.

    • @RoLee705
      @RoLee705 Рік тому

      @@newid10 yeah for sure! I completely understand. All the best to you!

  • @pheebee6646
    @pheebee6646 Рік тому +33

    I’ve just finished listening to recording 199 from the link you’ve attached. The pain in your voice is really heartbreaking. It was such a struggle for Ahmet to think of occasions where he’s treated you to something and honestly, i’m so sorry you had to go through that for all these years.
    If there’s one thing that i’ve taken from all this, it’s to continue to love myself wholeheartedly so that if I ever come across a man that doesn’t recognise my worth I won’t even think twice before leaving him.
    Thank you for sharing Daina, I hope you find your happily ever after, you deserve it. x

  • @kiana62510
    @kiana62510 Рік тому +95

    Those recordings…… so heartbreaking. The manipulation you have had to endure… CRAZY…. he did and said everything he could even USED God to try to manipulate you…. how evil, using the bible to control you but not himself….women should study this to hear how it sounds from someone else’s mouth so they can see it when they hear it. I feel so up on game listening to this. Sorry to you

  • @tee2838
    @tee2838 Рік тому +16

    He’s so sassy🤣🤣🤣the neck movements, side of the mouth everything. 🤣

  • @TarenesTalentTime
    @TarenesTalentTime Рік тому +56

    IM WAITING FOR LEE’S VIDEO TOO 😂 because that relationship between him and Ahmet is giving 🌈

    • @mylene_b
      @mylene_b Рік тому +3

      My thoughts exactly

    • @zoraxye4325
      @zoraxye4325 Рік тому +1

      A rainbow coalition. UK branch...

  • @rhens8088
    @rhens8088 Рік тому +8

    45:55 "And you aint the one hunny, you aint the one."
    I'm legit cryinggggg. I need that as meme or gif.

  • @janiceclarke1223
    @janiceclarke1223 Рік тому +17

    Daina you didn’t have to even prove anything, I believed you from the start. All lies and manipulation. I just want you to move on and be your awesome self. You were the prize alll along with your talents. Get your peace now and preserve it because misery always wants a playmate. You are too good of a person to go through this. Be above it all and let your life continue to cause headaches. That’s why this is happening, because you dare to move on and succeed!!! Continue to be about it Daina you are THAT GIRL! Yuh a mad dem girl wid receipts but breathe now and show dem seh yuh move on an nah look!!!! You will always have my support ❤

  • @mammarua
    @mammarua Рік тому +30

    Listening to the clips on Soundcloud drained tf out of me. Dainà you had the patience of a saint for 12 years and i cant even imagine how you managed that because the guy is actually clinically insane.

  • @denise64
    @denise64 Рік тому +149

    This LlVE was hilarious. ARMPIT has been using Daina to cover up he is gay and now he is using GOD😂

    • @zoraxye4325
      @zoraxye4325 Рік тому +45

      Girl, I said the same thing. He gives off "gay essence" (whatever that is)...

    • @nayatarot777
      @nayatarot777 Рік тому +31

      @@zoraxye4325 GIRL - as a gay woman myself - i see it. i see it fi true 😂😭

    • @zoraxye4325
      @zoraxye4325 Рік тому

      @@nayatarot777 The man is exposing himself. He should expect some DMs from male admirers in 5 4 3 2 ...

    • @iAquarius202
      @iAquarius202 Рік тому +21

      Could also explain his sudden promiscuity after the head injury and depression, it’s sounds to be around the same time he was getting a lot of monetary favors from Lee. All I’m saying is I wouldn’t be surprised about what the “arrangement” plan he had with Lee truly entailed (Lee was doing three much for Ahmet, way more than I’ve ever witnessed male friends do for each other, kinda sus). Not stating this as a fact regarding Ahmet but imo it’s worth noting that DL men tend to be abusive to women, use promiscuity and being reckless with procreation as a cover to convince others they’re straight.

    • @shanteg7939
      @shanteg7939 Рік тому +10

      The way I'm dead 😂😂😂 omelette nuh like pum pum nuh more 😂😂

  • @CCCMom_
    @CCCMom_ Рік тому +53

    The SoundCloud is crazy because him instigating the arguing to turn around and lower his voice and play victim
    Is maniac!!

    • @Goldhearted_
      @Goldhearted_ Рік тому +7

      classic narcissm, once they get the emotions out of you they go back to they shell of nothingness, they thrive off emotions the less emotions you show the more upset they are

  • @nabiasali5574
    @nabiasali5574 Рік тому +73

    Haven’t event watched it yet but I’m here supporting you regardless. Do not let this narcissism get to you. We love you ❤

  • @itsmerandome
    @itsmerandome Рік тому +55

    That hair style with those antennas makes him look just like the Annoying Ant 🐜 he is ! 😂😂 Girl continue to share YOUR story ! Too many individuals like him are protected & too many victims stay silent

    • @alkahinat4558
      @alkahinat4558 Рік тому +12

      The hair is definitely giving ‘the ants go marching’ 🐜😭

    • @itsmerandome
      @itsmerandome Рік тому +9

      @@alkahinat4558 😂😂😂 Giving A bug’s life realness!

    • @fawn2911
      @fawn2911 Рік тому +4

      ​@@itsmerandome pls not a bug's life 💀

    • @teeswan9354
      @teeswan9354 Рік тому

      😂😂

    • @realwordz7258
      @realwordz7258 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂😂 annoying ant! That killed me off

  • @Jai-Barnes
    @Jai-Barnes Рік тому +16

    Thank you for this, Daina you did this for every woman going through & escaping this. You are raising awareness. You are a Queen. Thanks for the education on UA-cam.

  • @baru0chan
    @baru0chan Рік тому +79

    19 and 33 is just insane. for men like that, being able to manipulate women is the most important thing, and that's easier to do with a less experienced, less mature teen.

    • @elizabethrostro5831
      @elizabethrostro5831 Рік тому

      Daina is 33 & Ahmet is 35

    • @uhm4018
      @uhm4018 Рік тому +25

      @@elizabethrostro5831 he cheated with a 19 year old when he was 33, that’s what op is referring too

    • @lamma746
      @lamma746 Рік тому +18

      So common with men who are feel useless and their wife is doing MORE than then. He's pathetic and felt insecure, so he needed at 19 years old (smh) to make him feel superior.

  • @GinaRoze
    @GinaRoze Рік тому +19

    Diana you definitely survived him. Girl I’m praying for you. We have your back! God is protecting you! 🙏🏽

  • @ashleynagawa5807
    @ashleynagawa5807 Рік тому +21

    Thank you for being so strong Diana and inspiring so many of us to have the courage to stand up against these mad narcissistic men.

  • @balanceis_key
    @balanceis_key Рік тому +40

    You need to get an attorney on how to proceed with this legally.

  • @Lvlylady03
    @Lvlylady03 Рік тому +24

    I just wanna say I love looking in your eyes and seeing your discernment. God answers our inner prayers, you silently asked for the will and well in a way God answered you with Aaliyah Daina!!!! Keep pushing forward

    • @waterfall5530
      @waterfall5530 Рік тому +4

      Fr aaliyah was sent to her by god because although it’s hard raising a child by herself that child is her fighting light.

    • @xxdopeladyxx
      @xxdopeladyxx Рік тому +4

      This! He gave her a reason to leave because she wouldn’t allow Aaliyah to see that toxicity.

  • @plutonorthside6776
    @plutonorthside6776 Рік тому +68

    Hold up, let me order my food and watch this right here.

  • @alkahinat4558
    @alkahinat4558 Рік тому +18

    1:22:33 so wait hold on...the couples channel never made as much as Daina’s solo channel and yet Armpit used to say that the videos got most views when he was in them? Wow the delusion is real!

    • @iambeezee
      @iambeezee Рік тому +9

      Let's face it we were all here for Daina. He was trying to convince himself otherwise! He weren't the prize

    • @miss0tc
      @miss0tc Рік тому +4

      Armpit 😂

  • @Yasbaby1
    @Yasbaby1 Рік тому +14

    “Yammin front” still has me howling 😂😂. Ahmet is just unbelievable! The deflections, love bombing gaslighting, delusions…just typical traits of a person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It’s very similar to abusive situations I’ve experienced in the past. I’m so glad that you have the receipts to shut this pathetic man-child up! Keep doing you Daina, and I wish you all the best with your healing journey coming out of such a toxic and abusive marriage. It’s not easy moving on from situations like that but, you’re resilient and I’m so proud of you for speaking your TRUTH!!

  • @jerryberry8967
    @jerryberry8967 Рік тому +26

    This was like watching a true crime doc where a killer will deny everything to police come find out they already got footage of him carrying the body with shovel in hand lmao

  • @br33et
    @br33et Рік тому +85

    He shot himself in the foot uploading that video

  • @mscollateraldmge
    @mscollateraldmge Рік тому +15

    i knew he was gay when he said “yeah there are people going through it but you ain’t the one HONEY/HUN” like😭😭😭😭

  • @sanemtambo
    @sanemtambo Рік тому +26

    Lol "she does yt for money"
    A few moments later "you think i was on yt for fun? I was working" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @cecesimone5654
    @cecesimone5654 Рік тому +62

    I been watching you since I was 15 I’m now 22 you are big role model of mine from singing to UA-cam. You are talented and he was wrong but you are going to succeed regardless cause you are that girl 🙏🏽💙

  • @ukhti321
    @ukhti321 Рік тому +40

    He doesn't care about facts, he doesn't even live in reality. He believes his own lies. You're feeding into his b.s. It will only leave you feeling drained.The best thing to do is not react. That's what hurts a narcissist.

  • @doshiamarie
    @doshiamarie Рік тому +52

    I am so so glad you sre standing up for yourself and showing his true colors! The way he's treated you for years is absolutely wrong. Sorry that's not a man. That's an insecure little boy who is a liar and not a good person imo. Sending you lots prayers and love.

  • @TrinaHDuchess
    @TrinaHDuchess Рік тому +29

    He keeps repeating the word's ' That's a lie.' His facile expressions speaks volume.😂😂😂😂. It's good that you have all the evidence. Excellent work Daina. I remembered when i first starting watching your videos in 2012. My daughter showed me one of your videos. She is now 26 years old. I'm 53 years of age. I started watching UA-cam in 2011. That's when i first signed up to my account. You created alot of content throughout the years. All of them were informative and entertaining. Have a great weekend Daina.

    • @CharisMaggieTV
      @CharisMaggieTV Рік тому +1

      While not debunking what he claims she’s lying bout. He delusional😂

  • @teebynature
    @teebynature Рік тому +100

    Far as im concerned ive been watching Daina for the longest time and she always does everything. She works hard on youtube, put multiple content on different channels. Doing up DIY Daina now caring for her niece . Putting out music. Doing podcasts and doing radio. Daina comes across as a solid girl, always someone trying to bring you down smh.

  • @princillathornton3846
    @princillathornton3846 Рік тому +13

    Aaliyah was definitely divine intervention for you Daina to get rid of that man

  • @kiana62510
    @kiana62510 Рік тому +65

    Daina….. FUCKING MIC DROP!!!!! Fin, so proud of you.

  • @danniellenesbitt6053
    @danniellenesbitt6053 Рік тому +26

    I just listened to the receipts and my ears 😮‍💨 I cannot believe the amount of justifications, gaslighting, and playing victim this man did especially on the last one…like c’mon no person should get flamed for dancing when the person “hurt” actually disrespected their marriage 🤦🏾‍♀️
    I truly respect your strength, your realness, and your determination Daina….much love 💕

  • @user-ec9rz7xh7e
    @user-ec9rz7xh7e Рік тому +15

    Praying for your healing Daina I can’t imagine how emotionally and spiritually draining that marriage must have been for you❤️

  • @iamamberjae
    @iamamberjae Рік тому +36

    Girl at this point, you just need to heal and not address this anymore. We ALL know you're speaking the truth. We enjoy seeing you happy and continuing to THRIVE. You are a Queen and above all of this bullshit. You deserve the world and we love you ❤❤

  • @TiaTalksTV
    @TiaTalksTV Рік тому +9

    I admire your honesty, courage and self assurance so much. After everything this man put you through its very admirable. Thank you for the transparency and looking forward for the new content- glad the old vids r back too🎉❤

  • @TheAfricanQueen01
    @TheAfricanQueen01 Рік тому +9

    I’ve been here since ‘Don’t tell the Bride’ and it has always been because of u. How authentic u have always been.
    I’m definitely learning a lot from u. We never know what’s really going on when the cameras are off.
    I’m proud of u. We believe u and support u always
    Now I know how important it is to not delete my messages

  • @tamidivine9590
    @tamidivine9590 Рік тому +35

    Ahmet is not Ok because for someone to be this evil and manipulative…Daina I’m so happy you left that bastard.

  • @TeeSantanax
    @TeeSantanax Рік тому +53

    Nah he must be down low no way a man can be this sassy

    • @Winceyy
      @Winceyy Рік тому +15

      SASSY! 😂😂😂😂 I thought the exact same!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @missmohamed6944
    @missmohamed6944 Рік тому +14

    Dianá you have gone through so much. I’m wishing you well & a good recovery from all the emotional stress & abuse you went through ❤ I support you love.

  • @FrenchLady
    @FrenchLady Рік тому +40

    Keep thriving keep pushing through don’t you ever stop, even when you feel like you losing, discouraged get up and fight harder

  • @Fau465
    @Fau465 Рік тому +17

    There is no point reasoning with a narcissist, they forever want to be the victim and will blame you for their wrong doings.
    Daina, thank you for sharing you're experiences and opening a platform for women and men to come forward. I know this from experience a narcissist loves a reaction not arsed if its good and bad, do not feed them starve them and watch them shrivel away.

  • @tyisha2105
    @tyisha2105 Рік тому +39

    Whenever you feel the need to record conversations you are dealing with a narcissist. Chile the fact that he’s crying over your gay best friend when he has been running the streets 🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • @denises9680
    @denises9680 Рік тому +37

    I'm always going to have your back Dainá. I was a victim of Domestic Violence and everything you said you went through I too went through excluding social media things of course. I've watched his video on him putting his side of the story but didn't buy it at all. And I let him know it. An abuser will always deny what they did and that's exactly what he's doing. Going to watch this later on today was just checking what's new 😊 so take care and you don't need to worry about anything we've all got your back and will support you through this. ❤❤

  • @Ecookie2023
    @Ecookie2023 Рік тому +22

    Those voice notes are the biggest flex ever!

  • @lita_james114
    @lita_james114 Рік тому +27

    He tried to say he was not in love yet in the recordings, he was trying his best to persuade her to not divorce him. Whoo chile...he is going to continue to go through it until he stops with the lies.

  • @ronkeanimashaun156
    @ronkeanimashaun156 Рік тому +7

    Daina I truely wish you peace and like you said you’re going to leave it alone now. He’s already tried to mess with your money don’t let him mess with your peace of mind ❤️❤️❤️

  • @X.Sheislia
    @X.Sheislia Рік тому +23

    Girl your nails are nailing 😍

  • @ayamempress1579
    @ayamempress1579 Рік тому +5

    Yooooo I just heard the vn receipts and babbbbbbyyyyyyy your patience was astounding okayyyy. It was, I'm sure, the worst to be a part of that experience. Thank goodness you're FREEEEEEEEEE

  • @keluvnme
    @keluvnme Рік тому +50

    Change this title to “Ah-Met and Married a NARCISSIST. Currently seeking Divorce”

  • @baru0chan
    @baru0chan Рік тому +23

    i do not think he felt bad about the sponsorship one at all - he left it up this time because he is scared of being somehow liable

  • @21tashywashy
    @21tashywashy Рік тому +22

    we believe you, and it’s important that you do this and teach him a lesson. Enough is enough.

  • @EmmaLouiseHamilton
    @EmmaLouiseHamilton Рік тому +24

    Voicenote 5 in Souncloud ....he says he gets mad when other men message you.....how does he feel you felt when he not only messaged women, met up with them, yam front, do the doo....You're good to stay calm. I would have flipped out. The hypocrisy.

    • @EmmaLouiseHamilton
      @EmmaLouiseHamilton Рік тому +7

      Voice note 8, 19:00 Ahmet: 'I'm a married man, I'm not going to put my crotch on another female because guess what, it's called respect, complete respect'
      No Ahmet, you just put your crotch inside another female.
      The whining dance argument was just deflection on Ahmet's part
      Good on you for leaving as it was a toxic situation and thank you for sharing your story as at lot of lessons us women can take from it, it's also a little bit triggering as have been through similar, so won't be watching further videos on the subject but look forward to your vlogs and subscribers story times.
      ETA: I don't think Ahmets an all round bad guy, we all go through stuff in life....he probably needs some CBT/Therapy, work on himself and then start a scratch. Hopefully he can take the learnings from this relationship to do better in the future.

  • @Yasbeyouu
    @Yasbeyouu Рік тому +8

    You have helped me in so many ways..thank you for speaking your truth! Listening to your audio made me realise the type of relationship I was also in. It was enlightening listening from an outside perspective. Narcissistic behaviour can be powerful. However, us coming out of it makes us the powerful and rise to bigger and better things. Keep shining queen ✨️ and thank you again for allowing me to walk in my strength too ❤

  • @tril0gy17
    @tril0gy17 Рік тому +30

    we were on your side from the start daina!!

  • @aanshi247
    @aanshi247 Рік тому +9

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Daina, I applaud you for keeping receipts of everything!!!! I don't know how you manage to deal with these behaviors, actions, attitudes and overall manner for all these years but I am glad and proud that you have finally walked away. I hope that you are both able to divorce amicably and move on with your lives. Thanks for showing we always need receipts, for our sanity, peace and to show character always!!!

  • @mina01202
    @mina01202 Рік тому +17

    Listening to the recordings is so heartbreaking, the fact that you went through all of that. What an evil sick person, honestly ew. Manifesting nothing but the absolute best for you and aaliyah for the present and future 💗

  • @gailainsley6939
    @gailainsley6939 Рік тому +10

    I’m soo glad that you and the baby are safe. 🙏🏽

  • @m.samuel6350
    @m.samuel6350 Рік тому +20

    “You will see a person’s true colors when you are no longer beneficial to their life”.
    Please keep all receipts and let them speak for themselves in divorce court.
    Please be careful and stay positive.🙏🏽✌🏽

  • @Glo_up576
    @Glo_up576 Рік тому +14

    Narcissists despise you for leaving them . They end up despising you when you’re with them too you can’t win really

    • @alkahinat4558
      @alkahinat4558 Рік тому +1

      Yes, when people have narcissistic tendencies, nothing is ever right or good enough, dealing with them is just a losing game

  • @rachelkash6648
    @rachelkash6648 Рік тому +21

    I’m sorry but that Lee is Ahmet’s secret boyfriend. There’s no way he ain’t and I feel like they might have lied together so that they can ruin the process about Aaliyah, simply because Ahmet had probably realised you care about someone else other than him. I’m so glad you took that baby away from him cause men like this are scary fam, he would have done something to that baby out of jealousy and mental illness.

  • @natalielawyerchick
    @natalielawyerchick Рік тому +20

    That’s why UA-cam black didn’t want him. The channel wasn’t profitable enough. The draw is you, not him