Sam, you're such a pro, the work that's gone into this interview must be large. Debs..... thank you for having the courage to tell you're story, and putting your trust in this incredible person to help you tell it.. You've painted a clear picture of how perpetrators work and the effects on victims and children that can last a lifetime. Thank you for you're courage in speaking so well and emotionally. All round First Class
Bless you heart Debs. You are an amazing woman, so sad to hear what and your children have gone through. Enjoy your brew, I hope Sam paid. Stay strong xx
The Narcissist, Covert Narcissist, Sociopath and then the daddy of them all ... the Psychopath! I have been down the research rabbit hole, with all 4 of these types! The Covert narcissist is the hardest to spot, but overall, I try to keep my 'radar' on, all the time! What a world .. ❤
Well I had up and downs with my fella back in the day .We hated one another when we drank to begin with .Then he was never sober was with him nearly 20 years we drank together for 13 years.After that I gave birth to two children and he had to go because he was badly deteriorated. This lady made me wonder because my dad disappeared when I was 4years of age .Caught back up with him when I was 30year of age .He was on his third wife by then and had lived all over .He spoke of having other children but shortly after getting in touch he lost touch no reason just broke off .I never got introduced to my half brothers in the South or my sisters in Scotland. Glad we met but too little too late. All years ago now but now because he had a reputation of a Ladies man .Tales are still told I believe from Blackpool to Oldham if you understand where I mean .Thankyou very good talk sort of inspired me to share this because I've got the gift of the gabb if you get this far pardon me .Best wishes to all 🌹 🙏 ✨
What a great interview with Debs what a lovely lady that has been through so much in life. Sam you are a great listener and interviewer to get people's stories out there. 😊❤
the councillor at the start should have said i may need to report it if you tell me x y z esp if they think you are in imminent danger to yourself or anyone else or someone else is to you. well done dobs sending prayers to you and you family 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow, I have been watching your interviews, and I now realise how much of a narcissist my dad was, and then my partner of 30years, no wonder I ended up in prison,😒😒😒😒
Sam how do! that interview you did with Deb's incredible it really was heart felt, what she went threw at the hands of two men who she'd loved and trusted was appalling behaviour on their part, wether they mental health issues which obviously they had was no excuse for the behaviour to Deb's and her kids, what a fantastic mum she is and so brave though I don't think she saw herself that way, you have to have lived it to totally understand what she went threw,I myself suffered mental cruelty off my ex wife, not easy to admit to being a man who drove trucks and thought I was a fairly strong guy mentally but it creeps up on ya and keeps eating away at ya mind until you can't function properly but that seems to satisfy the abuser even more that in their eyes your becoming weak and finding it hard to cope,why did I stay in the relationship as long as I did, twelve years,I often wonder what those lost years could have given me,all this happened almost ten years ago and I've moved on and have a better life but it never ever leaves you,but for my medication I really don't think I would still be around now,well done Sam and 'I'll see the, 👍
You do a brilliant job Sam well done to Debbie brilliant interview and stories well done Debbie wishing you and yours all the best from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪 and the same to you Sam mate wishing you and yours all the best from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪 mate
Thanks for sharing Deb I relate I am in my 60s now and things that monster did still haunt me. The court drama was a nightmare to go through. I really hope that it's easier these days but even so the trauma would still be the same regardless for the victims,it's the life long damage it does to your head
Brave lady Deb, thank you for sharing the painful parts of your life. Sam - amazing and addictive content as normal! You are the best thing I have found on You Tube whilst researching the Bleep Test! Got your book last week ready to read in Madeira at the end of the month! Thank you for being you - honest (and making me laugh at times) 🐾
This lady and her story.....😢 wow - so many parts of it resonates in me, but me being the child in it, and not the wife...Wow, She is such a strong person, and the fibromyalgia has probably come about from PTSD. My Mum suffers bad from it now. ❤
hi Sam I found debs story to be incredibly moving and difficult to watch cannot imagine going such an ordeal its truly heart-breaking respect debs courage and amazing inner strength she's a inspiring lady would like to thank debs for sharing her story with us thank you for providing debs ad people like her a supportive platform in order to tell there stories I wish debs all success and happiness in the world as I've said many times your helping so many people sam your truly one of life's angels have peaceful pleasant evening
Thank you for your kind words. I don't feel brave . But am so appreciative of Sam giving me and many others a platform. Other guests inspired me to do this . Hope when I've done part 2 it helps even more . Bless you. And thanks again xx
I hope you see the funny side of this joke Sam.., an ex girlfriend years ago was always complaining about medical issues.., just think it was to get attention?.., any way this day while she was complaining about something else I looked her right in the face with a serious look and said.., I think you've got ME!.., she looked at me all concerned and asked me what that was.., I said ME.., ME.., ME.., ME!! 😂
hi sam i was in catterick horrible shit hole after Berlin ,Hated the place beer and slappers thats it .just dumped on the A1 ,We use to put skirts on and wiggs to get to the womens block ,
Its such a shame that she has encountered some of the worst types of men. It gives the rest of us a bad name undeservingly. I do hope she's able to trust again and wish her all the best in the future.
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Sam, you're such a pro, the work that's gone into this interview must be large. Debs..... thank you for having the courage to tell you're story, and putting your trust in this incredible person to help you tell it.. You've painted a clear picture of how perpetrators work and the effects on victims and children that can last a lifetime. Thank you for you're courage in speaking so well and emotionally. All round First Class
🙏❤️much appreciated and very kind x
That’s so kind, thank you ❤️
Bless you heart Debs. You are an amazing woman, so sad to hear what and your children have gone through. Enjoy your brew, I hope Sam paid. Stay strong xx
❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏 x
What a brave lady, to be able to survive what her life has given her. Then to now talk about it. Well done.
Nice one dude, take care🙏
Thank you. I'm not brave though. It was just time and it has helped me more than any counselling has.
you are brave and things were very different then. My kids are about the same age. So glad you have found happiness xx
The Narcissist, Covert Narcissist, Sociopath and then the daddy of them all ... the Psychopath!
I have been down the research rabbit hole, with all 4 of these types! The Covert narcissist is the hardest to spot, but overall, I try to keep my 'radar' on, all the time! What a world .. ❤
Cheers dude take care🙏
BPD is also very close to the core.
Well I had up and downs with my fella back in the day .We hated one another when we drank to begin with .Then he was never sober was with him nearly 20 years we drank together for 13 years.After that I gave birth to two children and he had to go because he was badly deteriorated. This lady made me wonder because my dad disappeared when I was 4years of age .Caught back up with him when I was 30year of age .He was on his third wife by then and had lived all over .He spoke of having other children but shortly after getting in touch he lost touch no reason just broke off .I never got introduced to my half brothers in the South or my sisters in Scotland. Glad we met but too little too late. All years ago now but now because he had a reputation of a Ladies man .Tales are still told I believe from Blackpool to Oldham if you understand where I mean .Thankyou very good talk sort of inspired me to share this because I've got the gift of the gabb if you get this far pardon me .Best wishes to all 🌹 🙏 ✨
Sorry miss printed should read 2years of age x
Bless love and thanks for that❤️🙏 x
What a great interview with Debs what a lovely lady that has been through so much in life. Sam you are a great listener and interviewer to get people's stories out there. 😊❤
Very kind take love x
the councillor at the start should have said i may need to report it if you tell me x y z esp if they think you are in imminent danger to yourself or anyone else or someone else is to you. well done dobs sending prayers to you and you family 🙏🙏🙏🙏
What a brave lady debs is, such an emotional story. im glad she has found peace & happiness in her life at last- she so deserves it 🥰
🥰❤️🙏🤟😎😘
Thank you for such kind words x
Wow, I have been watching your interviews, and I now realise how much of a narcissist my dad was, and then my partner of 30years, no wonder I ended up in prison,😒😒😒😒
❤️🙏bless dude wishing you all the very best x
❤️🙏bless you love xxx
Totally feel for you. ♥️
Sam how do! that interview you did with Deb's incredible it really was heart felt, what she went threw at the hands of two men who she'd loved and trusted was appalling behaviour on their part, wether they mental health issues which obviously they had was no excuse for the behaviour to Deb's and her kids, what a fantastic mum she is and so brave though I don't think she saw herself that way, you have to have lived it to totally understand what she went threw,I myself suffered mental cruelty off my ex wife, not easy to admit to being a man who drove trucks and thought I was a fairly strong guy mentally but it creeps up on ya and keeps eating away at ya mind until you can't function properly but that seems to satisfy the abuser even more that in their eyes your becoming weak and finding it hard to cope,why did I stay in the relationship as long as I did, twelve years,I often wonder what those lost years could have given me,all this happened almost ten years ago and I've moved on and have a better life but it never ever leaves you,but for my medication I really don't think I would still be around now,well done Sam and 'I'll see the, 👍
❤️🙏bless dude thanks for sharing that, take care x
Bless you. Thank you for sharing this. Men are abused too and thank you for raising this. All blessings for your future 💕
NAFFI - Not Affirmative For Full Interrigation (cos we busy drinking!!!) - just came to mind mate - big ups sam 😃
😎🤟👊💯‼️cheers dude
'BOF' I havnt heard that one for a while .. .. ..Thanks for sharing your journey Debs .. .. ..
🙏❤️cheers take care
You do a brilliant job Sam well done to Debbie brilliant interview and stories well done Debbie wishing you and yours all the best from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪 and the same to you Sam mate wishing you and yours all the best from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪 mate
Much appreciated dude, take care🍀🍀
Thanks Sam mate 👍
Thanks for sharing Deb I relate I am in my 60s now and things that monster did still haunt me. The court drama was a nightmare to go through. I really hope that it's easier these days but even so the trauma would still be the same regardless for the victims,it's the life long damage it does to your head
Really does mess with your head. Bless you and your family , thank you xx
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Bless ya love xxx
Brave lady Deb, thank you for sharing the painful parts of your life. Sam - amazing and addictive content as normal! You are the best thing I have found on You Tube whilst researching the Bleep Test! Got your book last week ready to read in Madeira at the end of the month! Thank you for being you - honest (and making me laugh at times) 🐾
How very kind, enjoy your hols x
6:18.., NAAFI (Navy, Army And Airforce Institutes).
Cheers dude
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Glad that debs and her kids are in a better place now ❤
Thank you x
Take care lovely x
This lady and her story.....😢 wow - so many parts of it resonates in me, but me being the child in it, and not the wife...Wow, She is such a strong person, and the fibromyalgia has probably come about from PTSD. My Mum suffers bad from it now. ❤
Bless love take care❤️🙏 x
One strong and brave lady incredibly moving, so glad she has a happy marriage now and the support she needs.
🙏❤️take care love
Thank you x
hi Sam I found debs story to be incredibly moving and difficult to watch cannot imagine going such an ordeal its truly heart-breaking respect debs courage and amazing inner strength she's a inspiring lady would like to thank debs for sharing her story with us thank you for providing debs ad people like her a supportive platform in order to tell there stories I wish debs all success and happiness in the world as I've said many times your helping so many people sam your truly one of life's angels have peaceful pleasant evening
Thank you for your kind words. I don't feel brave . But am so appreciative of Sam giving me and many others a platform. Other guests inspired me to do this . Hope when I've done part 2 it helps even more . Bless you. And thanks again xx
@@deborahblockley4301 your very welcome
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Nice one dude take care x
@@RealPorridgePodcast same to you my friend best wishes to you and your family
be brave debs
Nice one dude👊💯😡
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I hope you see the funny side of this joke Sam.., an ex girlfriend years ago was always complaining about medical issues.., just think it was to get attention?.., any way this day while she was complaining about something else I looked her right in the face with a serious look and said.., I think you've got ME!.., she looked at me all concerned and asked me what that was.., I said ME.., ME.., ME.., ME!! 😂
👊😎🙏❤️indeed😁
mental abuse is worse brave woman sam
🙏❤️cheers dude
Thank you ❤
your welcome debs@@deborahblockley4301
good work sam
good interview , but i dont know who she is ? , or whos she is talking about , title or description dose'nt mention it ?
She a subscriber who reached out dude. Her ex serious criminal, take care dude!
hi sam i was in catterick horrible shit hole after Berlin ,Hated the place beer and slappers thats it .just dumped on the A1 ,We use to put skirts on and wiggs to get to the womens block ,
🤟😎👊cheers dude
I believe this. N's are the worst!
Indeed they are!
Take care dude
Its such a shame that she has encountered some of the worst types of men. It gives the rest of us a bad name undeservingly. I do hope she's able to trust again and wish her all the best in the future.
❤️🙏cheers dude take care
wtf
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sorry about the short hand but you know