The truth about everything… I’m sorry.

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  • Опубліковано 23 сер 2023
  • I just wanted to share the truth about some things in my life. There are definitely some misconceptions about me and some things I struggle with every day. I hope this wasn't too boring and you got to know the real me a little better!! I am SO GRATEFUL that there are people who choose to watch my videos...it really means the world to me.
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  • @getkarla
    @getkarla 9 місяців тому +801

    Shea…you are growing up and realizing there are more important things in life. Our priorities change as we get older. Way to go, Shea!

    • @tiarrab.8267
      @tiarrab.8267 9 місяців тому +15

      Well said!

    • @joanm.9172
      @joanm.9172 9 місяців тому +7

      This!

    • @kathleenjohnson2885
      @kathleenjohnson2885 9 місяців тому +10

      I couldn’t of said it better!

    • @debbydunc
      @debbydunc 9 місяців тому +16

      Agreed! We all change as we get not younger! 💕

    • @getkarla
      @getkarla 9 місяців тому +5

      i'm so going to borrow this. I'm not getting older I'm getting not younger! Love it!@@debbydunc

  • @jennaayy3849
    @jennaayy3849 9 місяців тому +198

    The fact that you made this video when you didn’t have to shows how much you truly care. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing about you! 🥰

  • @MsVictorable
    @MsVictorable 8 місяців тому +87

    The fact that you have doubts about being a good mom, means you ARE a good mom!! Most moms have insecurities. It’s the ones who don’t have any insecurities that need to be worried!! Love you Shea!

    • @pattyverde47
      @pattyverde47 6 місяців тому +1

      Agree :)

    • @user-dy2zy8rd2t
      @user-dy2zy8rd2t 5 місяців тому +1

      The very fact that Shea expresses them,means she IS concerned about it-if she didn't care,she wouldn't take the time to do it.

  • @monifabrathwaite4093
    @monifabrathwaite4093 8 місяців тому +48

    This is probably my favorite video you have ever done. I love the openness and honesty. Wishing you continued success and happiness from one mom to another.

  • @wilddaisies1067
    @wilddaisies1067 9 місяців тому +103

    Girl don’t stress. This is just real life. We love you ❤

  • @user-eu2qp4kh8b
    @user-eu2qp4kh8b 9 місяців тому +661

    Girl! We ALL feel this way!!! You are totally normal! I’m a 50 year old mom of 2 boys (grown men now) and I completely identify with everything you said! Hang in sister!!!

    • @c4caffeen134
      @c4caffeen134 9 місяців тому +13

      Me too but I have no kids . . and at least she's been able to afford having her teeth worked on , I'm in just as much trouble & don't have the money!. It's just as embarassing as it is scary ! I feel for her there, it causes so much anxiety & dread

    • @DivineMissV
      @DivineMissV 9 місяців тому +12

      Oh, we’re so alike and on the same page. Now I know why I subscribed!

    • @erynkathrynorr9334
      @erynkathrynorr9334 9 місяців тому +13

      Same !!! I have 2 boys n my oldest currently is acting like I’m the most annoying thing in the world 😭. It’s really hard but I know that HE KNOWS, he’s loved ❤

    • @cindynorris5983
      @cindynorris5983 9 місяців тому +24

      Girl, I am 53 with 3 grown kids and this is all normal. It is all normal! Love you Shea!

    • @andreahanson3366
      @andreahanson3366 9 місяців тому +10

      I have two teenage sons and one daughter. And like you around that age especially I felt a disconnect with my older son. Looking back I think it was testosterone that was part of everyone's moodiness. My suggestion, is to have the whole family do a love language quiz! They are so quick and easy and fun if you keep it light. I found that my oldest son has a different love language than me and my second son, it's really been helpful!❤️

  • @positivelyhappymom3238
    @positivelyhappymom3238 9 місяців тому +62

    It’s okay not to be perfect … being real and honest is so much more appreciated and also satisfying for yourself..

  • @alfafelix4821
    @alfafelix4821 8 місяців тому +34

    Shea this is just real life, in a real home. I have a closet full of FABULOUS clothes & shoes but honestly 90% of the time I am in leggings and a t-shirt with hair in a bun no makeup. You're doing great!

  • @amybolt9074
    @amybolt9074 9 місяців тому +190

    Shea, you’re NORMAL ❤ Thank you for helping us feel like we are too 🫶🏼

  • @melissataylor1831
    @melissataylor1831 9 місяців тому +204

    I feel like you fearing you're "not a good enough mom", proves what a great mom you actually are ❤

    • @kelleywyskiel3478
      @kelleywyskiel3478 9 місяців тому +2

      Exactly!

    • @sharonbenton3370
      @sharonbenton3370 9 місяців тому +4

      This! People who don’t question whether or not they’re a good parent are the ones who aren’t. They don’t care enough to even explore the idea.

    • @shepomz
      @shepomz 9 місяців тому

      When my daughter was growing up I used to say it would be easier to say the things I didn't feel guilty about. Being a mom is hard and we worry about everything. You are normal.

    • @elizabethpayne53
      @elizabethpayne53 9 місяців тому

      Bingo! The ones that don’t worry - s/b the ones that do. Must be nice! Except the kids suffer.😢

    • @heatherinat9953
      @heatherinat9953 9 місяців тому

      This is so true!

  • @celinevillanueva
    @celinevillanueva 8 місяців тому +51

    This was so refreshing to watch. I wish UA-camrs would talk more about the reality of their lives because it’s soo relatable. I appreciate you and this video! 🫶

    • @monicathomaseveritt6054
      @monicathomaseveritt6054 4 місяці тому +1

      Your beautiful, I'm a mom of two boys too. I always did the best for my boys. My youngest son always felt I loved my oldest more, I never loved one more than the other. I was really confused. This still continues , my youngest doesn't like me, it hurts. As far as the fashion things go, I have tried to be fashionable but I noticed when I tried to wear the things others wear, they don't look good. They just aren't me. I do my own style and it works. I hope your teeth continue to get better!.

  • @childofchrist7625
    @childofchrist7625 9 місяців тому +32

    ❤This is so refreshing & relatable. Thank you for the realness that is so needed, desired & RARE today❤

  • @822CharEm
    @822CharEm 9 місяців тому +295

    Paxton is 11, pre-teen, close to puberty, this slight disconnect with him is perfectly normal. Yes, confusing days are ahead, but ask any mom who has been thru this, this is the way it is, you’re not the only one.

    • @Designsyn7
      @Designsyn7 9 місяців тому +20

      My mom used to say that the way you know you have been a good parent is that your kids are happy and independent!
      also, each child is wired differently, and some kids are more like the mother and some kids are more like the father.....The love is the same!!!

    • @brendastarcher6294
      @brendastarcher6294 9 місяців тому +5

      Yes, I'm a Mom of two. I've definitely been through this with my kids.

    • @erynkathrynorr9334
      @erynkathrynorr9334 9 місяців тому +14

      So true !! Once my oldest hit 16 I became the most annoying thing to him despite us being super close his whole life before that 😂

    • @brendastarcher6294
      @brendastarcher6294 9 місяців тому

      @@erynkathrynorr9334 Yes, Sam's thing with my boy. Now he's 40 and I have to text him weekly or biweekly just to keep in touch. He doesn't call.

    • @merseltzer
      @merseltzer 9 місяців тому +4

      Birth order is important. Oldest kids are responsible & independent.

  • @nay3liduhhh
    @nay3liduhhh 9 місяців тому +28

    Questions:
    1. What is a typical day for Shea? From morning to night.
    2. How do you pump out so much content, how do you go about planning and producing your content? How long does it take to film for one video? Kudos to you, you put out so much in a short amount of time!
    3. How do you balance your life with your marriage, kids, and work?
    4. Any date ideas that you can share that you have with your husband?
    I’ve been a subscriber of yours for years and years!! Your life seems so organized and well planned, I’m fascinated!
    By the way, thank you for being vulnerable and talking about your teeth. I have one similar problem that makes me very vulnerable as well and don’t like to share with anyone. I can’t imagine opening up about it with millions of people! 😭
    Take care Shea & keep doing what you do, you’re amazing!! 🤗❤️

  • @joychappell3817
    @joychappell3817 8 місяців тому +11

    You are amazing!! We all struggle as moms and I SO appreciate your honesty in this video. We love you!! ❤❤

  • @user-kt6wb8hl1b
    @user-kt6wb8hl1b 8 місяців тому +11

    I love this more than the other videos. In the world of comparison watching people live these “perfect” lives online, it’s nice to see it’s not like that, this is so much more relatable, thanks for sharing 💕

  • @hannasain709
    @hannasain709 9 місяців тому +140

    Shea, honestly knowing you have clutter makes you even more approachable than before. Plus no mom shame here. Boys go through these phases, and honestly aren’t always very cuddly. I have 2 teenage sons. From birth, my oldest who is 16 has always been a thinker and talker, but not a hugger. My youngest who is 14 still won’t go to bed without a hug. You have done a courageous thing, opening your life on UA-cam. We have no room to do anything but applaud you. You have a great channel with great content. You are always enjoyable to watch. Rest easier. You are doing great!!

  • @maureenormanfrewer4793
    @maureenormanfrewer4793 9 місяців тому +27

    I’ve followed you for years Shea, and this video spoke to me more than the other hundreds I’ve watched. Your admission of your experience with your kids is EXACTLY what I’ve experienced with my own, and mine are adults now. It NEVER goes away! Thank you and lots of love to you ! In solidarity with you ❤

  • @bexibex75
    @bexibex75 9 місяців тому +43

    We are so much more alike than I ever realized! 😆 No wonder I love your channel. Keep being you, that’s what we’re here for! ❤

  • @ShaktiFlowww
    @ShaktiFlowww 9 місяців тому +7

    Sharing the realness of motherhood is so appreciated! I feel like it’s one of the most taboo topics to talk about our insecurities as mothers and where we think we could improve that women get so much criticism from. Being a parent is hard and trying to do better at it when you’re not sure about anything at times is stressful. I wish more mothers would be open to the discussion. Thank you so much for being you. ❤

  • @lisahurst1940
    @lisahurst1940 9 місяців тому +53

    Shea as a 62 year old lady I can say I really appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. You are evolving and changing as you get older. It is ALL part of the process of life. We all have these “what the hell?!” Moments where we wake up and look at ourselves and go what happened, where am I, how did I get here? (Now I have the Talking Heads song going thru my head.) That is normal! As for kids, each age has it’s own hurdles, perspectives, needs and challenges. You are just going thru one of those shifts now.
    As for designer purses. Yeah they are nice and beautiful and all. But honestly, most of us are busy moms and grandmas and Amazon buys and tips and tricks are really MORE in touch with most all of our day to day lives. Besides, right now if we had an extra 3,000.00 we would probably have to put it on bills and groceries right now. So the purse thing is nice. But not practical or where your viewers are most likely at. As you said: It’s the little things and the people around you that matter most!
    I remember when you were sweating it out and apprehensive about quitting your job and going to UA-cam full time. Look how far you have come! Keep up the good work, keeping it real and being your authentic you! Wishing you much love, happiness and peace! Be kind to yourself!❤🙏☮️

  • @jennifervineyard9209
    @jennifervineyard9209 9 місяців тому +47

    Don’t apologize for being who you are! That is why we subscribe - you are a real person! We all have clutter and we all have chaos. We love you because you are relatable and real. Hang in there!

  • @ElizabethQuinn888
    @ElizabethQuinn888 8 місяців тому +64

    You are an intelligent, thoughtful woman who is just finding out she is much more than she ever thought she was. This is the beginning of the really good stuff in life, Shea. You are fine. Your kids are fine. Your viewers are fine. Shock! You just admitted you are a real person. I am sure they love you more for it. Take it from an old lady. Everything is fine.

  • @Realtor365
    @Realtor365 9 місяців тому +7

    Thanks for this Shea!!
    The dental video was THE most relatable sentiment I’ve get heard from an influencer. Especially since it’s invisible from all other appearances.. People just don’t know the ongoing hell!!
    This was all a breath of fresh air! 🤗💕

  • @avocado__13
    @avocado__13 9 місяців тому +37

    This video honestly made me feel a lot better about myself. I’m a brand new mom and I feel like my house can never/will be perfect, but I keep feeling pressure to have it be. And I also go out in just sweats! Thank you so much for creating this. It breaks down that perfection wall and let’s us see the real you. ❤
    It also breaks my heart that anyone would say you love one son more than the other.

  • @mialyons8698
    @mialyons8698 9 місяців тому +106

    You're a great mom. How do I know? You respected your son's wishes to not post any of them with him in them that he felt was embarrassing. You listen and engage with your family, and your audience. From one mom to another, YOU GOT THIS(even if you sometimes think/feel that you don't).

  • @sonicfeet7095
    @sonicfeet7095 9 місяців тому +3

    Thanks being so honest! It’s not easy putting our real selves out there for people to see. I think most of us can relate! It’s a juggling act trying to keep our lives all together sometimes.❤️

  • @joannemcclelland5271
    @joannemcclelland5271 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow. That was very touching and quite authentic. I am about 13 years ahead of you and I was remembering all of the same parenting feelings. Thank you for sharing … it made me feel so so so much more connected to you. And I love the cool things on Amazon videos!!!! You’re going great, Shea!

  • @Ltmotley
    @Ltmotley 9 місяців тому +60

    Shea, you were the first influencer I subscribed to on YT several years ago. I only subscribe to kind-hearted people. Your honesty, thoughtfulness, intellect and beauty (inside and out) are appreciated. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It makes those of us that have struggles feel less alone. Love your videos because I learn so much from you.

  • @sunshinexDDD
    @sunshinexDDD 9 місяців тому +61

    Thank you for bringing us all back down to Earth! I wish more influencers would talk about real life.. real issues we have as parents trying to navigate through life while simultaneously taking care of our children and their needs. Ugh. I love it! Keep being your organic self!

    • @lakegirl451
      @lakegirl451 9 місяців тому +1

      News flash….you are human! You are normal! Just enjoy your life and don’t focus on the small stuff

  • @nicolebram1296
    @nicolebram1296 9 місяців тому +1

    Omg!! I loved, loved, loved this video. I love the honesty and realness! Thanks for reminding people that we all struggle, houses get messy, we question our parenting. ❤

  • @jaci7974
    @jaci7974 8 місяців тому +4

    I’m not a subscriber but I’ve come across your videos a handful of times and this was recommended to me. I can’t tell you how comforting this video was for me. Sometimes a reminder that other people are struggling just like I am, can make all the difference for someone like myself who suffers from anxiety and depression and thinks my life should look one way or another. I guess in other words, we all can relate that life is hard and I think that can be quite comforting ❤

  • @NicoletteM.682
    @NicoletteM.682 9 місяців тому +24

    This video is so relatable. Thanks Shea, for keeping it real! 🤗 There is strength and courage in vulnerability. We all evolve and grow. 💖

  • @Kocurnut
    @Kocurnut 9 місяців тому +32

    The mom portion of this instantly made me cry because I’m a mom to two boys and I fear that everyday. Thank you for sharing the truth of what it’s like and feeling like you’re not doing a good job because moms need to hear and share how hard this is. I needed to hear someone else say it to not feel so alone. Thank you. ❤

    • @SJL07
      @SJL07 9 місяців тому +2

      You’re doing the best you can! Letting go as they grow up is SO hard ❤️❤️❤️

    • @arareanddifferenttune3130
      @arareanddifferenttune3130 9 місяців тому +1

      Nothing like that mom guilt 😢 I feel like it’s a near universal experience with mothers that very rarely gets talked about. We need to lift each other up ❤❤

  • @denisehergott3544
    @denisehergott3544 9 місяців тому +5

    Thank you, Shea. Thank you for being you and for being human. What a relief it is to know that you are not as put together as you appear--fashion-wise, home management-wise, parent-wise, etc. Neither am I! LOL. We are all imperfect beings living in an imperfect world. I'm 58 and have been watching your channel for the past four or five years. And even though I'm much older than you, I'm drawn to your spirit and fun and your genuine caring for people by sharing helpful and healthful information. I see so much of me in you! Your questioning, your being overwhelmed, your living a different life than what your UA-cam persona may suggest, your being hard on yourself. You question if you're a good Mom, especially to Paxton (sorry if I misspelled his name). I've done that many times too! My son is turning 40 this year, and we've had our ups and downs. He can get on my nerves like no one else, but he also can make me laugh like no one else. I know deep down I'm a good Mom, just like you know deep down you're a good Mom. Just keep in mind that this is how things are with P right now. Doesn't mean it's always going to be this way. If you haven't done so already, maybe read up on different personality types and that will help you. You'll learn to recognize yourself and recognize the people in your life and how best to interact with them. I also recommend prayer. As for the person who commented that you favor Hayes (again, sorry if I misspelled) over P, that person was extremely insensitive and rude. Their words are a great lesson for all of us to be kinder to each other, because we won't always know the story behind why people do what they do, nor do we need to. The fact that you are asking yourself some hard questions and voicing and facing your doubts and tough times shows that you're on the path to being a better you--for yourself and for your loved ones and for anyone who has the pleasure to interact with you. I think that is the ongoing journey of self-awareness that makes us all better people. That journey also changes our priorities. You're doing great! Try not to be so hard on yourself. You don't have to explain or justify anything to anybody. You just keep on being your great self! Take care. ❤

  • @AbbeyStorm
    @AbbeyStorm 9 місяців тому +3

    I've been watching this channel from the beginning. You're an inspiration, a great mom, and it's been fun to watch you evolve on here

  • @nancyrea185
    @nancyrea185 9 місяців тому +14

    Thank you so much for this video! This vulnerability and honesty is what makes us know we can trust you as an influencer. You genuinely love what you do and the products you promote. I love all of your product videos, and they're so much fun to watch. You keep doing you!

  • @lexvirgilio
    @lexvirgilio 9 місяців тому +36

    Shea, the world is very lucky to have you in it❤ your vulnerability is so appreciated

  • @krissy012p
    @krissy012p 9 місяців тому +6

    I love how your channel has shifted!! I actually unsubscribed a few years back because I didn't like the high-end stuff videos and didn't want to follow a channel so focused on what is unachievable by most people. But I came back because I love the other content. Love this video, Shea!

  • @user-pt8ze9cf8n
    @user-pt8ze9cf8n 8 місяців тому +2

    Loved to hear that you love, love, love the work that you do. It is truly a gift that too few people have. So keep enjoying it and don't let anyone in any way big or small, detract you from it.

  • @racheldammel2782
    @racheldammel2782 9 місяців тому +5

    It’s refreshing to see vulnerability on social platforms and I think it makes us all feel more connected on this crazy planet. Thank you for the inadvertent confidence booster. 😄 I’ve been watching your videos since 2019. Love them. You’re wonderful. Stay great!

  • @margaretdillinger5090
    @margaretdillinger5090 9 місяців тому +91

    Shea, that means you are maturing. I am a poor 73 yr old grandmother but I enjoy watching your Amazon videos. I get tickled when you do the out of style videos. You are a mom of boys ( my youngest daughter has 2boys) that are busy. You are busy , your husband is busy, life happens no matter who are. We go through cycles of life, we change and grow but sometimes we get in a rut and get comfortable. You hit on the truth though, your health, your family and loved ones is what really matters. We can wear the best of clothing, have the most beautiful appearance, but no love, it’s for nothing. I’ll can take it one step further, in my live, without God in my life, none of that means anything. If your life only evolves around beauty, expensive stuff etc, that’s sad. I see that you have grown and understand things differently now. I really admired that you stood against that designer that went crazy with the kids. You have a platform, you have followers and you can be a voice against selling children and child abuse. Hugs

    • @elenaAGN
      @elenaAGN 9 місяців тому +4

      Amen to that 🙌🏼

  • @JF-8701
    @JF-8701 9 місяців тому +101

    This video is probably the one video most of the world can relate too….I feel you momma 🙌🏽❤️

    • @SlasherChick
      @SlasherChick 9 місяців тому +9

      Literally most relatable video ever uploaded

  • @brandyharper7614
    @brandyharper7614 6 місяців тому +2

    Oh my goodness! I just found your channel and I have to tell you, you’re an amazing human! As we get older (I’m a great grandma) I’m learning, changing things up and girl that’s okay! Please, keep being you and never say you’re sorry for that! I think this is by far the favorite one I’ve watched so far! I love, love your true self, which screams kindness, love and the best mom! Trust me we ALL go through this! Keep being you and please don’t let the haters bring you down. There are more of us that admire your kindness, true courage to put this out there, and your awesome videos keep them coming!

  • @lareelongtin5129
    @lareelongtin5129 9 місяців тому +19

    Thank you for being so vulnerable, Shea!😊💞
    I've always thought you were cool, sweet, intelligent, strong, kind hearted, beautiful, and a great wife and mom!
    You are an amazing person!✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍

  • @Tina-mi9kv
    @Tina-mi9kv 9 місяців тому +25

    I feel like you’re so unique compared to so many others and you’re so humble ...I bought so many products recommended by you that were so helpful. Plz don’t change we ❤️ you! 😁😁

  • @auroramartinez3144
    @auroramartinez3144 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your honesty. It is appreciated that you share that you are not perfect, most posts and UA-cam channels only post the pretty side of life and leaves many of us feeling like we don’t measure up. Thank you for showing your more than human side.

  • @JoVo1111
    @JoVo1111 9 місяців тому +6

    This is my favorite video you’ve ever done.
    I couldn’t relate to you more.
    Thanks Shea.

  • @therealnonajones
    @therealnonajones 9 місяців тому +58

    Really grateful for this video and for your transparency! I often think about how fashion influencers and people who build their brand off of having a perfect marriage/family must be silently suffering. Perfection isn’t real. And having to curate a perfect image for your livelihood HAS to be exhausting and frustrating. Only showing people the small fraction of your life that’s together when everything else is falling apart has to be demoralizing. And that’s why I’m so proud of you. We’re all normal. And if someone is upset because your life is more like theirs than not… oh well. You’re doing great!

  • @rosalbagonzalez5846
    @rosalbagonzalez5846 9 місяців тому +12

    You are one of the UA-camr I still love to watch. Even after becoming “famous” and like you said have more money. You are still relatable. And that says a lot! That means you have a kind and beautiful soul and don’t let fame or money change you.

  • @SherryFaith
    @SherryFaith 9 місяців тому +14

    Why did I let out the biggest sigh of relief?? I think we all think that the people we admire have these perfect lives and we try to live up to it but at the end of the day we're all human and we all have the same issues and tendencies and I think that's amazing to finally come to terms with and accept. Thank you Shea for being real and honest. We love you ❤️

    • @soniareedy7750
      @soniareedy7750 3 місяці тому

      Thanks for being so relatable Shea....not pretending to be perfect in every way....the mere fact that you shared your vulnerabilities makes you more real as a person and appreciated....you're a great Mom and you're going to be just fine!

  • @brookemurdoch1199
    @brookemurdoch1199 9 місяців тому +5

    I’ve followed your channel for yearrrrrs and you always seem like such a genuine, kind, loving mom, wife, everything!!
    You should give yourself grace. It’s completely okay to grow and change and to feel how you’re feeling. Just keep focusing on what you’re passionate about for video content. Look at the number of subscribers you have! Numbers don’t lie. You’re doing great and keep your head up!!

  • @ellamay921
    @ellamay921 9 місяців тому +35

    I’m 61 and all mams feel like you, I have 5 adult children and I always felt like that, but now I just know I did my very best. Delighted you shared that your home is not always perfect makes people feel that well that their normal. You go girl being honest is what makes you feel good

  • @JMinn-tn6il
    @JMinn-tn6il 9 місяців тому +11

    Please don't stop showing us your favorite Amazon products! You are so good at sifting through a jam-packed and overwhelming place and picking out the best items. I have found many great things that I love, thanks to you. Keep up the good work!

  • @TheMDuo
    @TheMDuo 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much, Shea!!! I stumbled on your video regarding castor oil & went to check out your other videos. THANK YOU for your authenicity & growth!! I was able to resonate. Wait till you get to be in your forties. Even more growth! May you & your family continue to be blessed! ❤

  • @jamieolivarez9083
    @jamieolivarez9083 6 місяців тому +5

    Congratulations Shea! Just do you! I have started watching you for a couple of years. I love them and your personality. I like your content and you shouldn’t let others tell you any different.
    Yes, this is your brand and how you make your money.
    I appreciate your feedback on things that you believe in. This is you being genuine. Congratulations and continue to be you! ❤❤❤

  • @ruthb5365
    @ruthb5365 9 місяців тому +65

    Shea you’re such a lovely person and obviously an incredible mum. You have been through so much with your teeth and lots of other struggles and to have shared those experiences with us has shown that you are a normal, vulnerable person. The internet can be such a toxic place and UA-cam comments can seriously get in your head. please don’t let this world make you feel terrible when you are just doing your job and sharing your opinions with us. If people don’t like your channel they shouldn’t watch. Take care of yourself. Looking forward to your next video. ❤

  • @StaceyLovesDogs
    @StaceyLovesDogs 9 місяців тому +11

    Shea....you have NO IDEA how much time you save me with your videos. You find the "stuff" I want or need and save me the time searching for it. So.....thank YOU! ❤

  • @kimyoung2463
    @kimyoung2463 4 місяці тому

    Thank you my love for being so transparent. I love you for all your honesty. You are my favorite!!!

  • @chelseyreilly11
    @chelseyreilly11 9 місяців тому

    Boy did this resonate. So many solid reminders. Thank you for your honesty. It’s quite refreshing.

  • @MariTWC
    @MariTWC 9 місяців тому +20

    I'm from Brazil and this means that I have no access to the things you show in your channel, but I still love to see your videos because you're happy and funny and show interest things that I'm not even aware that exists....
    So you make a difference, and a positive one..... So I'm grateful for your dedication to your channel and hope that everything gets better for you and your family ❤❤❤❤

  • @jenniferfrisina8574
    @jenniferfrisina8574 9 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for being vulnerable. As a 36 year old mom of two, I see you. So many things I can relate to in this video. Messy home, connection with kids, and what really matters: Family, health, and faith are the only thing that matters in life.

  • @Starsirensees
    @Starsirensees 2 місяці тому

    You are one of my favorite people to watch for so many reasons. Thank you so much for your honesty and humility and above all your way of simply trying to be better in life. It shows in all you do. Keep it up!

  • @1TimothyFourTen
    @1TimothyFourTen 5 місяців тому +2

    Wanting is better than having. I love your honesty. I hope you're feeling better soon with your teeth. I showed a young lady and it helped her to know someone else knows EXACTLY what she's going thru.

  • @bekki3112
    @bekki3112 9 місяців тому +41

    Mom of 3 and mental health therapist here! Thanks for being so vulnerable! As far as your children go, I think that’s a very real struggle for lots of moms. It’s easy to relate more to one than the other(s). Your oldest is definitely at the age where he needs that independence, but, trust me, he will always need his mom! And it’s very normal for boys to bond more with their dads at that age. Just keep being the great mom that you are to both of your boys! I’m interested to know (maybe in your Q & A) what your birth order is? Oldest, middle, youngest, only child? If you’ve mentioned it before in other videos, it must have slipped by me. Believe it or not, your birth order can also greatly play a role in how you relate to your kids! Also, in your Q & A, can you share more about your family of origin? Your parents? Siblings? Growing up? Spill it, girl! Lol. I also highly recommend finding a great mental health therapist if you don’t have one that you can talk to on a regular basis about the stressful things in your life. A great therapist can help you immensely and make all the difference in the world!

    • @jeanneconder3438
      @jeanneconder3438 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes…some depression going on!

    • @gabriellavideos2118
      @gabriellavideos2118 9 місяців тому

      I’m the second born of four kids my brother is a year older, than me and two younger sisters. Now I have three children 2 boys and a girl.. what does this mean?

  • @barbaraz8264
    @barbaraz8264 9 місяців тому +10

    I love your honesty and vulnerability. Can totally relate to your insecurities. Surprise! We all have them. But your humor and your loving spirit shine through in every video. You’re like the best friend that everyone wishes she had! 😊

  • @janinenakazawa6990
    @janinenakazawa6990 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for opening up about you and your life. I feel connected more to you and appreciate your honesty . Your videos are all so enjoyable to watch and I love them. Please take care and make more great videos!❤

  • @marjoriebennett4894
    @marjoriebennett4894 4 місяці тому +1

    OMG YOU ARE SO AWESOME!!!!
    YOU ARE REAL!!!!
    YOURE AN INSPIRATION TO BEING TRUTHFUL AND VULNERABLE. GOD BLESS YOU!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @polinabondarchuk6714
    @polinabondarchuk6714 9 місяців тому +10

    I have been following you for years and my favorite videos are the ones you talk about healthy solutions. I am trying to be more better at eating healthy and taking care of my family so please share more of your "weird" with us! I am so inspired by those videos to make changes in my life. ❤

  • @pudgylemon4640
    @pudgylemon4640 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you for being so authentic. ❤ it can’t be easy sharing all of this with us, just know that it isn’t unnoticed and that it’s ALWAYS appreciated

  • @candykeongotiuiu
    @candykeongotiuiu 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for being so real with us Shea, love you!!

  • @ladypsrn5218
    @ladypsrn5218 9 місяців тому +23

    It's okay Shea,I feel like most of us feel the same way as you.
    I am also moving on from luxury designer items and I don't use deodorants with aluminium in them either😊 I love your content,keep doing what your doing girl.

  • @jennifermoritz4247
    @jennifermoritz4247 9 місяців тому +16

    So basically you’re a real person!!! I love your honesty. It helps us all to identify with you. Your videos are so much fun to watch. I love your tips.

  • @PAWSFORHIM
    @PAWSFORHIM 9 місяців тому +7

    Shea - You are awesome! I’m pretty sure this video is helping viewers to feel so much more connected to you in a good way. Your sense of humor rocks too. Just keep doing what you’re doing.

  • @bonnyhicks6036
    @bonnyhicks6036 6 місяців тому +1

    Love that you shared this! So many times we all think that all UA-camrs live perfect lives even though we know that’s not reality. Thanks for being real!❤

  • @lilyt9142
    @lilyt9142 9 місяців тому +3

    Shea, be true to yourself! And continue being true to yourself! And never apologize for it. Some thing that I’m learning in my own life. You’re growing and learning and changing. That’s life! Embrace you, in every stage ❤

  • @lisajohnston-cosner7527
    @lisajohnston-cosner7527 9 місяців тому +23

    Shea, I just want to give you a hug! It's all okay. We're here because we like your videos, natural deodorant and all! I've taken so many of your recommendations, and I'm glad that I did. I'm calmer (Equilibria), my hair is growing back (Vegamour), I love my Greenpans, and that's just a few things off the top of my head. I probably won't ever own a luxury bag, but that's okay, too. You're evolving, and you're not perfect. Thank goodness, because neither are the rest of us! ❤

  • @aprylburtchin5178
    @aprylburtchin5178 9 місяців тому +34

    No apologies necessary, Shae. You keep being you! Your sincerity shines!
    PS: No doubt you’re a good mom.

  • @Amy-on9gd
    @Amy-on9gd 7 місяців тому +1

    I love this! This is REAL daily life! THIS is more of what we need...so refreshing ❤

  • @debbiemiller4491
    @debbiemiller4491 9 місяців тому

    I love how real you are. So brave to share your life challenges. I love watching and supporting you and your channel!❤❤

  • @makeuphairjunkieover4082
    @makeuphairjunkieover4082 9 місяців тому +75

    I’ve been watching you for several years and it makes total sense that the content may change on your channel because obviously our lives change. As we get older things are less important, and other things are more important. I totally get it! You go, girl!!

  • @lisz265
    @lisz265 9 місяців тому +12

    Omg you are the best!!! You are so genuine!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I truly appreciate this video!!!! Thank you for being so REAL!!! I can totally relate to everything you are saying… just because you are in the media business doesn’t mean your life has to be PERFECT like some people like to portray!! 😭 thank you for being YOU!!!!

  • @lindawillis9460
    @lindawillis9460 9 місяців тому

    So sweet of you to share because we are all human and glad to know you join us in daily life! Thank you and we love you even more. Enjoy your videos so much and love to watch!

  • @theresacalderaz8160
    @theresacalderaz8160 9 місяців тому +8

    Girl, I already liked your videos and fashion tips, but now I feel like I know you a little more. You’re a real woman living in this real chaotic world and just trying to make it work like the rest of us. Guess what, nothing is ever perfect including us, but that’s what makes us awesome. 😉 you sound amazing and normal and I love it!!!

  • @ravinnichole2823
    @ravinnichole2823 9 місяців тому +17

    Girl🌻 !!! I watch you all the time and not single one of those negative comments have ever crossed my mind. You are kind and I totally support your journey and what you choose to share ❤️👯‍♀️✨

  • @vickiporter6251
    @vickiporter6251 9 місяців тому +8

    Girl you are so real! So refreshing that you don’t put on an act just to attract new viewers. Love to watch your videos, keep on and don’t worry about negative comments or people!

  • @kathryncoury7547
    @kathryncoury7547 6 місяців тому +1

    Also, I have enjoyed your channel for years! I love the ci tent that you introduce and your integrity as well as consistency. Thank you.
    It is okay to change; your audience is changing with time as well. 💖

  • @cathykersey2754
    @cathykersey2754 5 місяців тому +1

    I totally needed this today especially. Thank you so much for sharing this. You are a beautiful woman and this video lets us see that you’re beautiful all the way through. I was feeling really bad about myself today and not happy with myself. You are uplifting and I truly love watching your videos and they make me feel like I’m okay too and that I’m not as broken and as big of a mess as I feel that I am sometimes. You are inspiring and uplifting and you are truly helping me not to just want to be a better, stronger woman and person in general but also to know that I can be who I am meant to be. I adore you and appreciate you sharing yourself with us. Please keep sharing and know you are making the world a better place for every woman whose soul you touch and inspire to follow you in making the world a better place by helping, supporting and encouraging and other women. Never doubt that you are a great role model and never doubt or forget your worth. You are helping so many women and making lives better. Keep up your awesome work.

  • @mickylene909
    @mickylene909 9 місяців тому +71

    Mama you are human and you don't need to apologize for anything. Some people tell us way too much and it takes the fun out of viewing their content. You are growing and your taste changes. You don't owe anyone anything. Remember we all are here to learn. We are human ❤

  • @ColleenJoudrey
    @ColleenJoudrey 9 місяців тому +5

    Your genuineness is beautiful! I also understand having bouts of mom-guilt, my oldest is 17 and has always been more independent than his younger sister ever was, It doesn't mean we love them any less, We love them so much and also respect the boundaries in which they totally deserve to have.

  • @deborahcaesar5061
    @deborahcaesar5061 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for your honesty, vulnerability and transparency. I know that all that you shared has helped so many people. Continue to share with those that support you. You should feel that support back!

  • @michellefullerton6794
    @michellefullerton6794 9 місяців тому +1

    This video makes me love you even more! I’ve been watching your videos for about six years now, your honesty is refreshing and I appreciate you sharing this part of you. I do believe you are genuine and honest in all your videos, but this was brave to share this kind of deep personal honesty. Also, seeing how you have changed and evolved over the years with your content is a good thing❤

  • @bethp1509
    @bethp1509 9 місяців тому +4

    Just want you to know-I LOVE your Amazon hauls videos!!! You save me time searching for things and I learn about items I would never think about that come in handy. Every time you post one, I send it to my daughter in-law to watch. Keep them coming. ❤

  • @katzzz3355
    @katzzz3355 9 місяців тому +6

    I love your channel, Shea!! I have purchased a few of the items you have shown and have been so happy with them and got compliments on them! I love your energy and you help to keep me current. Thanks so Much! Your boys are individuals; you have different relationships with each of them because that’s what they need from you. Thanks for your channel. Keep being you!! We don’t need you to be perfect; we just want you to be you. I’m sure that’s how your family feels too. ❤️

  • @antonellasanzeri7665
    @antonellasanzeri7665 5 місяців тому +3

    Glad I saw this video! I started watching you in the beginning because of designer reviews & was so into all of that too but those things have also lost their luster for me. My odd health choices are similar to yours as I’ve also learned health is priceless… so once again I feel like we are on similar paths! Thanks for being so relatable!

    • @AmarisNWonderland
      @AmarisNWonderland 4 місяці тому

      I second that sentiment!
      (couldn't have said it better) 💯

  • @nataliepineiro8912
    @nataliepineiro8912 9 місяців тому

    Change is good! Thank you for sharing this side of you with us! It's really helpful and grounding. We all have troubles and imperfections.

  • @kcs4181
    @kcs4181 9 місяців тому +6

    Us MOMS all feel this way! Thank you for the honesty. WE are all doing the best we can and trying to improve every day! We all have self doubt and think we should be more than we are. Give yourself some GRACE! We can't live in the guilt or shame of not being perfect. We all are just doing the best we can!

  • @kellyburnett1833
    @kellyburnett1833 9 місяців тому +14

    You seem genuine to me. It is nice to learn more about some people on UA-cam. We are all just flawed humans doing the best we can without ever harming others. Personally I can't afford luxury, I do like to see and hear about cool and unique products. You are doing a great job.Thank you.😊

  • @aileenoneill5619
    @aileenoneill5619 9 місяців тому +5

    Yes Shea, our health is our wealth. Relationships are so much better than consumerism. Thank you

  • @beckybridges3673
    @beckybridges3673 9 місяців тому

    I 💗your Amazon videos!!! I have so many new favorites thanks to your recommendations. Keep on being YOU, I love you and your channel.