A Nightmare Situation in Malaysia...

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  • @benfishermin
    @benfishermin  20 днів тому +7

    ⚠WATCH NEXT: Foreigners share BEST and WORST moments in Malaysia ua-cam.com/video/aoiWtz6AIGo/v-deo.html

  • @edgehogR
    @edgehogR 20 днів тому +70

    Dear Ben, i liked your previous videos. I am sorry to hear about your recent bad experience but please, do take a moment, have a cup of coffee, sit down and think about what you are doing. I dont want to add salt to your wound, but u made some really poor choices in my opinion. If you are tight, plan your trips and if its not financial feasible then stop moving around for abit. How can you decide to move around when your savings are so low to not even able to pay for deposit, it clearly shows you are not saving backup money. Secondly, why on earth u place high value stuff in the care of people u dont even know that well? They are not even 5 star hotel, even so i wont do that in a 5 star hotel too, let alone some budget one. Lastly, dont forget the roots to your fame, it was the wonderful sight seeing and talking videos that made many of us fall in love with your videos. Dont let that fire dissapear, dont treat this like a only need to do when im broke, reignite your passion. Live your life with some drive. Take full responsibility for your actions, learn n b a better man. Hope things get better for u and more awesome exciting videos to come. Take care.

    • @larrymic2526
      @larrymic2526 18 днів тому +3

      Spot on.

    • @MartinLim-q3z
      @MartinLim-q3z 17 днів тому +3

      He's living day to day without a cent of savings, yet jetting round the region .

    • @MartinLim-q3z
      @MartinLim-q3z 17 днів тому

      Seeing his videos , sorry to say his iq may b a bit low.

    • @DamienYuen7718
      @DamienYuen7718 16 днів тому +3

      @@MartinLim-q3z I predict homeless Farang in Pattaya in the future at this rate. 🤷🏻‍♂

  • @kleew5840
    @kleew5840 20 днів тому +85

    Police report, ask investigator to investigate, really make this a big deal in local media and publicize the apartment involved in social media to give them some pressure to solve it

    • @ibanbintangorjimmy
      @ibanbintangorjimmy 20 днів тому +9

      ☝️THIS IS YOUR BEST CHOICE! THEY WILL BE SCARED IF YOU MAKE A POLICE REPORT!!

    • @jay.rhoden
      @jay.rhoden 19 днів тому +7

      Yes I don't understand why he doesn't call the police if is things are stolen?

    • @EGO0808
      @EGO0808 11 днів тому +2

      Indeed that is the only way to get this solved. Agreed.

    • @suplolok8873
      @suplolok8873 7 днів тому +1

      Totally agreed. Public in social media and make a police report. No matter 1 star or 5 star apartment or hotel. If you store your belongings in the store room it shouldn’t be missing. The management have to tKe this responsibility. Do you still remember who was the person took in your luggage bags? Pls report that bloody rude staff also who lacking of empathy and kindness.

  • @InvestingWithAdamK
    @InvestingWithAdamK 20 днів тому +63

    Very sorry to hear about your stressful situation. However, good financial planning is important. Look within a little. You didn't have 200 MYR for a deposit but leave over 10,000 MYR in valuables unattended just seems like a disconnect somewhere. Why do you have expensive clothes but not $45? Your life, your decisions, but you'll run into problems all the time if always having no money, going on vacations and spending on material items.

  • @nncadi1
    @nncadi1 20 днів тому +148

    Bottom line, this all came down to your lack of finances. You need to have a cushion PRIOR to multiple vacations. Not having $44 dollars for a deposit, leaving your valuables in hostile territory as not to pay for storage, etc. You’ve put yourself in a tenuous situation due to your lack of money management. Sorry to come across harsh but if you continue with this pattern, you’re always gonna find yourself in these type of situations. Peace.

    • @IsArabSy
      @IsArabSy 20 днів тому +5

      Wth his stuff got stolen… are you good?

    • @nncadi1
      @nncadi1 20 днів тому +21

      @ yes, it’s bad that his stuff got stolen, but he has to look at BIG picture, if not these type of scenarios will repeat themselves. Peace.

    • @IsArabSy
      @IsArabSy 20 днів тому +2

      @ You make absolutely no sense at all. From what I’m getting from your response is that it’s okay to steal… good job. 👏

    • @Ab_A60
      @Ab_A60 20 днів тому +43

      @@IsArabSyyou’re clearly not understanding are you? Yeah, it’s terrible his stuff got stolen. However, he is a grown ass man who has been living in SE Asia for over a year, he should have the awareness to not leave his stuff there firstly.
      Secondly, poor money management… why is he taking 1-2 week long trips to Bali with low and unsteady income, and on top of that not having an emergency fund. So stupid to be brutally honest.

    • @gorillapancake
      @gorillapancake 20 днів тому +20

      @@Ab_A60 Exactly. And then, complaining about it and begging for more donations. Not a good look.

  • @Arnold_X3
    @Arnold_X3 20 днів тому +55

    Dude
    #1 - why would you leave your bags containing thousands of dollars of belongings at the staff room???
    Get a bank locker or something. Or pay the $100 baggage fees and carry it with you.
    #2 - you don't have $40 for a deposit, yet you're taking extended trips to Bali and Thailand?? Sounds sus brah

    • @harithriza
      @harithriza 17 днів тому +3

      Left his valuables (excess baggage) unattended and expect a favor for others to take care of it while he goes to party in Bali and Thailand. Sorry to say, nobody to blame here but himself.

  • @larrymic2526
    @larrymic2526 17 днів тому +14

    Past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour. Start reflecting on your mistakes and learn and change. The first time you make a mistake its called "learning", the second time its a "choice" and not a mistake. Your past the second time now and thats insanity.

  • @Michael747And
    @Michael747And 17 днів тому +11

    1. You are a high maintainance guest. Your demands irritate people.
    2. Never leave valuable possessions . Take them with you. You made a bad decision
    3. Clean up after yourself.

    • @DamienYuen7718
      @DamienYuen7718 16 днів тому +8

      If you want to be a high maintenance guest you better be paying 5 star prices. You can't expect a high level of service at a serviced apartment unless it's a luxury place. People should always clean up after themselves even if cleaning service is offered. It's not an excuse to leave a mess. Show some respect to the workers by cleaning as much as possible. Also a place has the right to change their policies. Just because they didn't ask for a deposit before doesn't mean that they can't change and ask for it now. I have stayed in many places that changed from no deposit to asking for a deposit and places that raised the deposit amount. That is simply to ensure that people don't damage the unit and is justified.

  • @chez8219
    @chez8219 20 днів тому +51

    Seems like you never learned from your previous “bad situations”. Have an emergency fund, dude. You can’t live day to day anymore. At least have a few weeks worth of buffer money. It’s hard to sympathize when you just took a couple of trips.

  • @ivangim1
    @ivangim1 20 днів тому +21

    Your worldview revolves all around you. Don't do this. Don't do that. Change rooms several times. You cook in your room. Splatter cooking oil all over. Then expect the cleaner to do so!? The lady manager informed her male counterpart and got him to deal with you. He's well informed of the crap she and her staff had to put up with you. They're simply returning you the favor of the crap you gave them earlier on.
    Malaysia is a good country. You are the problem. Not the staff attending to you.

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138 20 днів тому +28

    Our generosity allowed you to purchase those equipments from the last "situation". We thought you will be careful and frugal. And start saving process which you did not. Scary indeed

  • @stevensmith8876
    @stevensmith8876 17 днів тому +9

    Stop being on the edge of being broke and all these stupid problems you have will go away.

  • @konakun7878
    @konakun7878 19 днів тому +14

    This guy cant manage his own money, one day you'll be living on the streets with this mindset.

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 19 днів тому +5

      His viewers saved him the last time. Then he spent all the money they gave him on unnecessary trips.

  • @cdb_music6949
    @cdb_music6949 20 днів тому +21

    From what you have described it doesn't seem to add up.
    A mistake was made by uploading this particular video.

  • @remhain
    @remhain 20 днів тому +49

    Request to speak with the manager, also demand to view the security footage together. File a police report. Seek help from the immigration person who you have contact with. Get help from the US Embassy if needed. Hope you get your stuff back.

    • @jay.rhoden
      @jay.rhoden 19 днів тому +2

      Yes, he needs a police report in order for the hotel or himself to make an insurance claim. The US Embassy won't care, especially if there is no police report.

    • @larrymic2526
      @larrymic2526 16 днів тому +1

      @@jay.rhoden What insurance? He cant afford insurance.

    • @jay.rhoden
      @jay.rhoden 16 днів тому +1

      @@larrymic2526 If the luggage was under care of the hotel, it would be the hotel that is legally liable.

  • @MaxMax-hn4ow
    @MaxMax-hn4ow 20 днів тому +32

    You didn't have an extra 45 bucks to pay for a deposit?
    Stop embarrassing yourself dude. smh.
    Thanks for wasting a couple of minutes of my life

  • @nickloong
    @nickloong 20 днів тому +41

    You've just put yourself in a bind with poor finance management, poor management of your valuables and poor decision making when dealing with a suspicious individual at the apartment management office. Take this as a valuable lesson so that you don't have to go through these kinds of situation again!

    • @ExoticLocale
      @ExoticLocale 20 днів тому

      @@lpfong2538 Think you might be right. Few months ago, he had a sob story about not having enough to eat, and people sent him hundreds of dollars. It is weird, but seen same stories from Indians, and Pakistanis, every country I have been to.

    • @sulongexcavator7245
      @sulongexcavator7245 20 днів тому

      ​@@lpfong2538Agree..he just want more followers and like

  • @ExoticLocale
    @ExoticLocale 20 днів тому +21

    Sorry, Ben. Feel for you, but you need to rethink this whole situation. It does not seem to be working out for you financially. You have been there long enough to know what to do. Not my place to tell you, but if it were me, I would be looking for a job.

    • @ExoticLocale
      @ExoticLocale 20 днів тому +7

      @ I think he has found a way to scam viewers. People sent him money last time, and he thinks he can do it again

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 19 днів тому

      @@ExoticLocale, I wouldn't call it scamming.
      He doesn't scam for a living, but he doesn't have discipline.
      He didn't know when to stop overspending and partying, so he took three trips to Bangkok, Bali, and Jakarta in three months.

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 19 днів тому +1

      @@ExoticLocale He's not a scammer, just a beggar who spends more than he makes.

    • @larrymic2526
      @larrymic2526 3 дні тому

      @@ExoticLocale I am not even sure anything got stolen. He probably is making it all up to get more money from viewers for his trps back to Thailand to smoke dope for weeks and then come back to Malaysia. The ONLY reason he is in Malaysia is that he gets higher views for his vlogs in Malaysia. If he had larger audience in Thailand he would be there smoking dope and enjoying it. Malaysia is not his favourite place at all. He is camming Malaysians.

  • @Desizgirl3
    @Desizgirl3 20 днів тому +23

    Dude, you need some margins. Don't have ANY cheese in your account? THAT is what you need to be working on, not complaining about the request for payment. If you don't have the funds, don't cut stuff so close.

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138 20 днів тому +12

    With your financial management skill, all countries will pose a problem to you.

  • @ChocoMint_
    @ChocoMint_ 19 днів тому +7

    Hello anyone who reads this, it's very important not to take things for granted here in Malaysia, recently I know someone close who was robbed of their bag with their wallet and phone, just for leaving the car unattended for a few seconds. There's also endless amounts of online scams, and then there's this video. Please please please take extra care of your valuables, this isn't Singapore or other advanced country.

    • @ishakisa-t7i
      @ishakisa-t7i 18 днів тому +6

      advance country no thief? you must be joking

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 18 днів тому

      America and the UK are advanced countries, but their crime rate is higher than Malaysia's. So, wtf are you talking about?
      In a country that has millions of migrants, regardless of whether it's an advanced country or not, there will be theft.

    • @flux82able
      @flux82able 16 днів тому

      What this got to do with anything? Lol. 😅

  • @unp707user5
    @unp707user5 20 днів тому +25

    No deposit money but then you go and buy new AirPods and microphone.
    Sounds like poor financial decisions. Grow up.

    • @keangwooichoo6138
      @keangwooichoo6138 20 днів тому +8

      It is to do street interviews so he can invest in yt channel going forward. What blew my mind was he can go to Bali which is expensive to me( I HV never been there myself)

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 18 днів тому

      @@keangwooichoo6138 Stayed in Bali for 17 days, in a villa with a pool, no less.

    • @arena6087
      @arena6087 18 днів тому

      😂💯

    • @DamienYuen7718
      @DamienYuen7718 16 днів тому

      @@keangwooichoo6138 He needs to get a real career and do YT as a side hustle. Most people on YT can't make enough money to live. If the channel becomes highly successful and makes great money then he can start doing it full time and learn how to invest instead of spend. Most YT's have full time jobs outside of YT. Only a small fraction of people make enough money to do it full time.
      Stats show that there are an estimated 64 million content creators in the world on YT. Maybe a tiny fraction of 1% are successful enough to do it full time. The odds are horrible. Better off doing something else that can bring in consistent income which is a problem for content creators. Their income highly fluctuates which leads them to having financial problems and if you are reckless with money it spells disaster.

  • @piersey
    @piersey 20 днів тому +27

    I don't have an answer but cannot believe you left thousands of dollars worth of possessions behind on a promise it would be OK, absolute madness. Just watched the end of the video and your asking for money. Now I see whats going on.

  • @RobertoKama-x8k
    @RobertoKama-x8k 20 днів тому +11

    If you don't want to pay the deposit , go to hotel or condos that doesn't require deposit, , you don't have 40 $ in a foreign country?

  • @williamhartz8707
    @williamhartz8707 20 днів тому +27

    If I had an unsteady flow of income, you wouldn’t see me flying to Bali for a holiday or taking off to Thailand. You need to think 3-4 weeks ahead.
    Good luck to you.

  • @oliverodell3105
    @oliverodell3105 20 днів тому +22

    Hard to sympathise.

  • @notsniw135
    @notsniw135 20 днів тому +23

    I think it’s better for you to go back to Philadelphia and move back in with your parents. Get a stable 9-5 job and slowly accumulate your wealth. At the same time, vlog your life in Philadelphia for additional income.

    • @Christian-Niyazov
      @Christian-Niyazov 18 днів тому +1

      You Ben look like a White man. You are a White Fisherman. You fish for gullible people to make them watch ads, so you earn from UA-cam.

  • @JOHNPoST-y4u
    @JOHNPoST-y4u 20 днів тому +38

    Why did you trust them with your valuable stuff.😅😅

  • @hosweefatt8839
    @hosweefatt8839 20 днів тому +29

    If you are not rich enough to travel....it's hard for yourself....malaysians are too generous and kind😂😂

  • @AG-so4gl
    @AG-so4gl 20 днів тому +13

    Cant be in holiday mode and jetsetting if limited funds, ends in tears

  • @AliasIbrahim-j1l
    @AliasIbrahim-j1l 20 днів тому +8

    It is a NORMAL THING TO PLACE A DEPOSIT. IT IS YOUR FAULT.

  • @discofun
    @discofun 20 днів тому +32

    I suggest you find a new career

    • @timeaftertime-om7os
      @timeaftertime-om7os 20 днів тому

      😂

    • @larrymic2526
      @larrymic2526 17 днів тому +1

      Agree...this is not sustainable till he retires. How is he going to build a nest egg for retirement? This carreer is OK for thos that have had their kids, made their money and now time to chill out and make a few bucks on UA-cam. Its not a living at his age.

    • @DamienYuen7718
      @DamienYuen7718 16 днів тому

      @@larrymic2526 The foreigners who usually make it here in SEA are the ones who came here after becoming financially secure as in they are retired after working for many decades or they came here to work and got a good paying job. Coming here broke to do YT is a disaster in the making. The guy travels around and spends more then many people that I know who have a lot of money.

  • @massanulaga2952
    @massanulaga2952 20 днів тому +14

    How can you call a 200 ringgit deposit a Nightmare ? What a click bait, that's insane. Was considering subscribing to your channel, but nope. This guys he live the fast life in asia as a westerner and cannot afford 50$ LMAO

  • @aziris7257
    @aziris7257 17 днів тому +5

    I think you should not be travelling around when you don't have money. I mean, I don't have money and I don't travel around. I always keep at least RM2000 in my main bank account just in case something bad happen. I think you should do the same too. It's always a good idea to save some money. If you can't afford to spend, don't spend.

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 19 днів тому +4

    People who want to minimize this are wrong. This needs to be dealt with. I had a similar thing happen at my hotel in KL. The staff blew me off until I called the police. Then they brought my bag out. People who are dismissive of what you went through have never been there. It’s a different culture. Call the police and delete everyone who minimizes you

    • @izounokuda5461
      @izounokuda5461 19 днів тому

      +1

    • @MrLtoos
      @MrLtoos 15 днів тому

      As usually if u share negative experiences here the Malaysians become very defensive and aggressive 😅

  • @napsiahsalleh4266
    @napsiahsalleh4266 20 днів тому +51

    Your story is actually you vs that night shift guy. He isnt even a Malaysian. What has that got to do with bad situation in Malaysia? And I think, you put the 2 bags in the staff room at your own risks. Why leave items worth thousands of ringgit in the staff room. I dont get it.

    • @donboscopereira5080
      @donboscopereira5080 20 днів тому +4

      i am a traveler i have travel board and length its a common practice to leave bags at a destined area at hotel the situation is bad because it happen in our country third world management mind set he has to approach the management of the condo cant resolved than no choice make a polis report i want the the condo name just to stay away

    • @justbdsd4569
      @justbdsd4569 20 днів тому +2

      If the night shift guy was Malaysian how was he speaking the language and with the accent, stop trying to pretend people with bad attitude don't exist everywhere

    • @timeaftertime-om7os
      @timeaftertime-om7os 20 днів тому +1

      😂

    • @Ilikeifollow
      @Ilikeifollow 19 днів тому +3

      HOW DO YOU KNOW that night shift staff is not Malaysian? Are you one of the staff working there? Nevertheless POLICE REPORT is relevant!

    • @haizanjohari3326
      @haizanjohari3326 14 днів тому

      You need to make a police report ASAP. Although you placed the bags at your own risk, theft is theft, and should be reported.

  • @RexPrimusor
    @RexPrimusor 20 днів тому +19

    Sorry for the edit but i find this all weird now that i rewatched it. Why are you not going to cops in the first place? Also RM10k is alot for us Malaysians. But you did not have 45usd on you? Having understand this better the video is coming off quite bad now. Any sane person would have lost their minds if a bag of that value goes missing and would never stay in that condo ever again.
    Putting up a front just to keep a cool head is something i don't buy at all now.
    The real steps here is to get the cops alerted and have them investigated then make a video about it.
    By majority of the rational comments here, they all say you are at the wrong and well I agree with them. If the bag was super secure like locks and zips and hard to get in. But then you mentioned it had an open top you can see what is in it.
    What really happened here Ben ?
    You left 2 bags, 1 of which was easy to identify what was in it. WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MINDS leaves that laying around?!

    • @Ab_A60
      @Ab_A60 20 днів тому +8

      He’s making the story up, no one can be that irresponsible

    • @RexPrimusor
      @RexPrimusor 20 днів тому +5

      @Ab_A60 I want to believe it was horrifying luck but the situation seemed avoidable. It's getting harder and harder to know if this was fake or really happened.

    • @valereehansen4378
      @valereehansen4378 19 днів тому +2

      Yeah,
      1. Why Ben didn't immediately go to the police is beyond my comprehension.
      2. Ben is behaving too cool about all of this.
      3. Ben's level of irresponsibility is incredible, he needs serious guidance. How can he have made it this far in life being this unaware?
      I am totally puzzled.
      4. Are there no rental storage units in the Capital City of Malaysia?

    • @valereehansen4378
      @valereehansen4378 19 днів тому +1

      ​@@Ab_A60 yeah, it's so unreal, so weird, that it's difficult to believe.

    • @amosstephenmasir1669
      @amosstephenmasir1669 19 днів тому +1

      Lodge a police report, on lost belongings at the hotel as seems to ignore any responsibility. See talk to the Mgr, and the person who allow you to keep your valuable belongings is safe as said.

  • @azadk22
    @azadk22 20 днів тому +30

    Wow Ben, i think you made numerous mistakes, include posting this video... 😂

    • @DondreDion-tf2ru
      @DondreDion-tf2ru 19 днів тому +3

      Was thinking the same thing.

    • @justmepachenko
      @justmepachenko 18 днів тому

      Why?

    • @MrLtoos
      @MrLtoos 15 днів тому

      @@justmepachenkoBecos Malaysians only like to hear nice things about their country..3rd world mentality still living on trees😂

  • @Wendy-dm5ox
    @Wendy-dm5ox 20 днів тому +16

    Did the guy give you any receipt for the deposit paid? Any CCTV in that staff room? Just talk to the management of this hotel or file a police report. So ashamed that there are bunch of the irresponsible people out there.

  • @denisfahey5086
    @denisfahey5086 20 днів тому +12

    Dude, you can't really be in a foreign country, especially in SE Asia, and live week by week depending on your pay......get used to these issues.....and get a higher paying job.

  • @firdausidris6367
    @firdausidris6367 20 днів тому +9

    Report this to police, Indonesian worker in Malaysia usually not honest, they will steal your items every chance they get. Never let this slide, report to police.

    • @timeaftertime-om7os
      @timeaftertime-om7os 20 днів тому +4

      😂 give him more donation
      Flying to bali and thailand
      Back to malaysian in same story.

  • @abdulrahmanlum
    @abdulrahmanlum 10 днів тому +1

    Report police is the best option if they can't return or make compensation for your lost items.

  • @onrc2008
    @onrc2008 20 днів тому +14

    You should file police report. feel sorry you lost your valuable item... shouldn't trust your item with some random people even the employee of the place you check in.

  • @mae42061
    @mae42061 20 днів тому +24

    Why you go to bali and thailand when you dont have money lol

    • @aaronadam4747
      @aaronadam4747 20 днів тому +5

      He spent it all in Bangkok and Bali

    • @Malak2Abady
      @Malak2Abady 20 днів тому

      He makes money in bangkok and bali!!! You know its easy for a white dude to make money with some old midage south east asian lonely rich women!!! Just white dudes need to improve their HORSE POWER, to make it going 200 pressure a minute🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @timeaftertime-om7os
      @timeaftertime-om7os 20 днів тому +11

      He come back in malaysia to get more donation then flying to bali and thailand.

    • @sonamphel1124
      @sonamphel1124 20 днів тому +5

      This dude went to Bali with Thai lady and send the Thai lady to bkk..

    • @WGE-f8z
      @WGE-f8z 18 днів тому +1

      Cukup cukup lah..nampak nak duit derma lagi. Masih ramai UA-camrs nak buat content tentang Malaysia.

  • @Malak2Abady
    @Malak2Abady 20 днів тому +26

    When Ben posted "some no good situation in MALAYSIA" its mean that the time to open another season of Donations has begun!!!
    So all malaysians subscribers donate now and don't forget to donate to me too 15% as the promoter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 or ben's manager 🤭🤭🤭

  • @Mansiang978
    @Mansiang978 20 днів тому +5

    Ben, so sorry to hear that. So unfortunate. Doesn't matter where you are, shit happens. Firstly, contact the hotel / airbnb management, give them a time frame, by then if no valid action taken, positive result, inform them officially in black & white (text message or email) about the consequences you are going to take. Secondly, report police report no matter what because insurance company does need it for any claim application. Itemise them out one by one with how much in value. If the police can't locate it (even with CCTV footage), your last chance is to claim from the insurance company and i hope you did buy one.
    Yes. you probably right. Don't put so much hope on it. They are likely gone.
    I hope you can get over this bad situation soon. Take care bro. Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

  • @carolinepillay3355
    @carolinepillay3355 20 днів тому +4

    I used to work in a budget hotel. Guests used to leave their luggages, all chained up to secure. One guest claimed his laptop wes missing. He was not compensated cos it couldnt
    be proven. We suspected our colleague, the reception cos he never came back to work after that.

  • @littletravelmonkey6727
    @littletravelmonkey6727 20 днів тому +19

    I would not have gone to bali and thailand if I know I couldn't come up with 45 usd .

    • @keangwooichoo6138
      @keangwooichoo6138 20 днів тому +1

      True. But perhaps due to visa situation he has to leave. But I won't go to Bali or Bangkok/Phuket these places suck money from our wallets like vacuum cleaner.

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 19 днів тому +2

      @@keangwooichoo6138 Not really. Americans get 90 visa-free days in Malaysia.
      He was in KL for 2-3 weeks and decided to fly off to Jakarta,
      then to Bangkok, then back to KL, where he stayed for 2 weeks,
      off to Bali--stayed for 17 days,
      then back to KL, stayed for 10 days,
      then off to Bangkok again to celebrate his birthday.
      If I were him, I'd stay in Malaysia for 80-90 days before leaving. He gets bored quickly and can't seem to stay put in one place for too long.

    • @keangwooichoo6138
      @keangwooichoo6138 19 днів тому +1

      @ROYAL_REBEL ahh true. If a person does not have 50 usd, how to travel so many places. Also he can rent a bit further to avoid high rentals to save money.

  • @MrAsian30
    @MrAsian30 20 днів тому +8

    Which Airbnb let us know to avoid it.

    • @IBLIZA23
      @IBLIZA23 20 днів тому

      I suspect it's M-city on ampang.

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138 19 днів тому +3

    I do not want to rub salt into wounds but even my 82-year-old mother has more savings than you. And she has enough to go overseas for vacations with friends. She has been to more countries than me. Sometimes i felt a bit jealous.

  • @mirayi215
    @mirayi215 20 днів тому +23

    Best thing to do is to exposed the name of the hotel n the staff in UA-cam n other social media, it may get viral , nowadays these kinds of thing works better than the police report, online media goes faster.

    • @backyardtv6898
      @backyardtv6898 20 днів тому

      Not a good idea & risky move. worst case scenario, he'll get sued.. just make a police report.

  • @patricksullivan4396
    @patricksullivan4396 20 днів тому +11

    Bro, this is part and parcel of traveling and living in other countries. I've noticed you coming to youtube to have others complain and basically look for folks to fel sorry for you. I've traveled for many years and this stuff is part and parcel. Get on with things nad stop complaining.

  • @jamieparker6402
    @jamieparker6402 20 днів тому +22

    What a terrible situation. One lesson is have an emergency fund! You are going to have to threaten to go to the cops, talk to manager and ask for security video from the manager. He stole it for sure.

    • @jumshaidzafar
      @jumshaidzafar 20 днів тому +4

      Emergency fund is so important in these types of situations

    • @valereehansen4378
      @valereehansen4378 19 днів тому +1

      ​@@jumshaidzafar
      Emergency funds are always necessary, no matter what.

  • @jeanne7102
    @jeanne7102 20 днів тому +4

    Hi Ben, can you let us know the name of this apartment and place ? I am sorry to hear about your bad experience.

  • @shanedix2680
    @shanedix2680 19 днів тому +4

    Storage is cheap in Thailand or Malaysia as you explore other parts of SE Asia. Absolute madness to leave bags in a hotel as you move through other countries. I never lose sight of my backpack as a digital nomad.

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 19 днів тому +1

      He said he bought a new pair of Airpods, but those too were in the stolen bag? Why would anyone leave their Airpods behind?

    • @shanedix2680
      @shanedix2680 19 днів тому +1

      @@ROYAL_REBEL doesn't make any sense as you use earbuds etc most days

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 18 днів тому +2

      @@shanedix2680 Exactly. He's not a scammer, but he's not disciplined and lives beyond his means.
      He received donations from Malaysians after he uploaded a Sob Story video,
      and used the money to go to JAKARTA and BANGKOK TWICE, & rented a villa with a pool in BALI for 17 days.
      & now he's broke again.

  • @100toeface
    @100toeface 19 днів тому +3

    Hey Ben, for content for your next video, I have a question that I have not seen answered in any of your videos yet, maybe you could explore this topic. DATING. I know you have said that the nightlife in Malaysia isn't very active and that the nightlife in Bangkok is better 'to party'. But, is dating even possible in KL? Not playing the field, not partying, but finding a single girl to date without some promise of marriage? You know, like having an actual girlfriend you see once a week? I haven't seen a single video that provides any useful information about this anywhere on you tube yet. It seems like it would be a concern for any person, male or female, whether or not they will ever have a date again (with a local or non-local, either one) while they are living there or not. I have only heard vague references such as 'its hard' or 'dating sucks'. (For non-locals that is). If its too hard, that would be a huge reason to not move to Malaysia.

  • @zaki-pq1ps
    @zaki-pq1ps 20 днів тому +17

    Sorry ben. I think its your fault. You shouldnt left valuable items like that. I dont think police will step in too much on petty crimes like this. You gonna have to settle this yourself with them.

  • @AG-so4gl
    @AG-so4gl 20 днів тому +6

    Leaving valuables while your away was not smart. Theres poverty in Malaysia too, you know....

    • @IBLIZA23
      @IBLIZA23 20 днів тому +3

      I wouldn't do it in almost any country. Also definitely not with an Airbnb / service apartment type of set up.

  • @klos5612
    @klos5612 20 днів тому +17

    Sounds like a bunch of bollocks.

    • @Malak2Abady
      @Malak2Abady 20 днів тому

      Like Sandra Bullock you mean???

  • @AG-so4gl
    @AG-so4gl 20 днів тому +11

    Overseas and not 40 USD to your name. Man thats edgy😅

  • @dziczyznaAyoub3848
    @dziczyznaAyoub3848 18 днів тому +1

    Money is also power in Malaysia, everything you do you need money. But if you lost something and the place didn't give coorporation , which is rare, you report it to police station.if there is camera they can look at it, maybe they can do something

  • @muhsyakir
    @muhsyakir 20 днів тому +2

    1st : Approach the Manager
    2nd : Try email the property management
    3rd : Police report (make sure it is made within 48hours from the time you noticed it had gone missing)

  • @smartmoney4750
    @smartmoney4750 20 днів тому +5

    Never leave your bag with high valuables with the -thieves- *staffs* That's how it works in Malaysia or anywhere else in the world. You are tempting the staffs to be potential thieves. Too trusting or content for ? Sad. Don't bother with making a police report. It's a waste of time. Just consider it an expensive experience and a learning curve.

  • @RexPrimusor
    @RexPrimusor 19 днів тому +3

    "UPDATE: I got my bag back! I was told it was mistakenly taken by one another guest. Lesson learned never to leave valuable items in a situation like this."
    Ben we are glad if this is the case but you can see what kind of comments came when you uploaded this video right? Please be a little more aware...
    Now to anyone else you does see the update rewatch and build your own opinion about it.
    I am still very confused about it but if you say the bag is back then all is good. I hope...

  • @NooonzTunes
    @NooonzTunes 19 днів тому +7

    Common Sense is priceless .

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138 20 днів тому +2

    Dear Ben, first of all I sympathise with your predicament.
    I work in a 4 to 5 star hotel. We Must keep deposits. Renting in Malaysia is the same in case of damages please understand this. All your issues can be avoided if you have savings. You reminded me of British army retiree "olderbackpacker" who just left Malaysia for Thailand. He has a monthly pension of 800 pound sterling. When he left his wallet in a bus from JB to Kota tinggi, he was in panic mode. We Malaysians are helpful and generous but we should not be blamed for any inconvenience in your life when financial intelligence is not practiced. There must be savings.
    Going to Bali is not a good idea too as it is expensive there being a tourist island.
    From your past experience, I thought you already learned some lessons.

  • @mohdzaki1089
    @mohdzaki1089 20 днів тому +10

    Sorry to hear what has happened to you...

    • @discofun
      @discofun 20 днів тому

      The guy is suck a loser he can not lose $20

  • @david_Godlovesyou
    @david_Godlovesyou 14 днів тому

    For such expensive things is either you carry them with you or rent a locker with you holding the keys. Don’t ever leave the bag anywhere in a cheap condo or hotel office. If it’s high end 4-5 star hotel that records your bags formally and gives you a number then yes you can trust those. From what you said it’s a cheap place and for sure there is risk of them stealing your items. This would apply anywhere in the world.
    Hope you learn from this. And yes make a police report if you fail to get back the bag within 24 hours. (It is likely you won’t see them anymore as the thief could have sold them away)

  • @edowahy4956
    @edowahy4956 20 днів тому +5

    I guess a better question would be "What should I do to avoid being in the same situation in the future?" Life will be more stress free then,

  • @MikeSmith-frog
    @MikeSmith-frog 19 днів тому +1

    Ben, The first thing I would say is to get yourself an American Express card or a Discovery card. The idea is to not run the balance up to a high amount but to give you a buffer zone when finances are tight. The cards bill you once per month so this gives you a 30-day buffer. You pay them off as soon as possible and just do not run up the balance. In other words, pay them off ASAP to keep yourself out of debt. Regarding the bag issue get with the person that allowed you to put the bag in the storage area for he/she is your witness and have a word with that person to see what they recommend. If there is no positive response go to the police.

    • @DamienYuen7718
      @DamienYuen7718 16 днів тому

      Depending on his credit score he might get denied. Based on his current and prior debts owed he might be ineligible for AMEX or Most Discovery cards that require at least a 700+ score.

    • @MikeSmith-frog
      @MikeSmith-frog 16 днів тому

      @@DamienYuen7718 My answer to that is simply "YOU DON'T ASK YOU DON'T GET!" The worst the credit card companies can say is "NO". 👍

    • @DamienYuen7718
      @DamienYuen7718 16 днів тому +1

      @@MikeSmith-frog He would know himself by simply looking at his FICO.

  • @Dynamics_Watch_Reviews
    @Dynamics_Watch_Reviews 20 днів тому +5

    Very sorry this happened to you, can you tell us the place or the buisiness so that we can avoid it?

  • @skywalkkerk8520
    @skywalkkerk8520 20 днів тому +4

    Sorry to hear what happened to you. Filing a police report is the only way I am afraid.

  • @cutakecare2020
    @cutakecare2020 20 днів тому +20

    Hahaha … sembang kari … sembang simpati … sembang kosong.
    Repot Polis ❌
    Repot Pengurusan AirBnB ❌
    Repot subscribers viewers ✅
    Jalan2 makan angin ✅
    Lu pikir lah sendiri … 🤔

    • @harlequinharlikwin
      @harlequinharlikwin 20 днів тому +4

      Rakyattt malaysiaa pemorahhh kikiki

    • @hanbas1
      @hanbas1 20 днів тому +4

      Hahaha ... Aku rasa kau betul.

    • @raihanamohtar6547
      @raihanamohtar6547 20 днів тому +5

      Sis pun rasa ni nak raih simpati... Bluerghh... Expat = immigrants.

    • @iamtg1
      @iamtg1 20 днів тому +8

      Jgn layan mat saleh yg talam banyak muka ni. Dengar/tengok boleh , percaya jangan. Baik tolong/sedekah ke rakyat Malaysia. 😎

  • @nicolasSimon-vu2ns
    @nicolasSimon-vu2ns 20 днів тому +5

    Make a police report but don't make a report you want to make claim damages then it becomes a civil case
    Say cheating intend with criminality involved then the police will take up the case themselves
    If you say u want to claim then it becomes a civil case need to employ a lawyer not worthwhile

  • @GemologistGeologist
    @GemologistGeologist 19 днів тому +3

    Ben, if your bag was taken, it was probably returned because you were starting to create a ruckus and possibly "that guy" got scared. I just can't believe that you didn't have $49.00 for the deposit and then took a long trip to a different county. I believe that you didn't want to give the guy the deposit because you thought you were going to be ripped off. We wish you the best, but don't lie to us. We're not dummies and this shows total disrespect.

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 18 днів тому +3

      I believe that didn't happen at all. With Airbnb, cleaning fees are already added to the total rent, whether you like it or not. So, the story about the deposit is iffy. It doesn't make sense that someone would leave a pair of newly bought AirPods behind to go on a holiday.
      He spent all this money in Bali (17 days) and Bangkok (10 days for his birthday). Although he's allowed to stay in Malaysia for 90 days, he flies to an exotic destination every two weeks.
      He's impulsive, reckless & stupid.

  • @RoryEwanTan-gv3jx
    @RoryEwanTan-gv3jx 18 днів тому

    Hi. Ben .
    MALAYSIA is one of the kindest people who are very bighearted you can encounter in the whole of South East Asia.
    I hope you get your valuables back.
    Malaysia is a wonderful country with very kind and helpful Malay, Indian and Chinese people .

  • @jahcSoft
    @jahcSoft 19 днів тому +2

    What's the name of this serviced apartment so i can avoid it please. I think i recognize the area.

  • @Yasin_Affandi
    @Yasin_Affandi 14 днів тому +1

    Hope that everything will work out to your advantage no matter what.

  • @muhammadabdullah5341
    @muhammadabdullah5341 20 днів тому +4

    This is not right. Deposit Supposedly just for the damages stuff. Not for oil. u have a right to fight back to get your money.

    • @aziris7257
      @aziris7257 17 днів тому

      If the oil damages the walls, or the furniture, then yes, that deposit is gone. Walls don't clean itself and oil on painted walls can't be cleaned. It will always have that yellow tint unless it's painted over. And when you paint over a wall, you have to paint the whole wall, because painting that one spot will show obvious difference in colour. That could easily run over RM200.

  • @cyybyydyy3445
    @cyybyydyy3445 20 днів тому +2

    Get the proof that there is no term about deposit during the booking. Get the name of the person who allowed storage at the office. Go and make police report.

  • @stevep4259
    @stevep4259 19 днів тому +7

    I like your videos, but why are you abroad broke? Brought that on yourself really!

  • @jami7772
    @jami7772 20 днів тому +4

    Contact the immigration dept and tell them what happened. Next time put an air tag in your bag. Contact police ASAP and check CCTV (unless it's been wiped ).

  • @md.shahbudinmd.yusoff4703
    @md.shahbudinmd.yusoff4703 20 днів тому +8

    Just Think about it .. if 100 customer do like your case to them what will happen .. not their fault ... This situation goes to all hotel in Malaysia .. they have a right to ask for the deposit .. don't be selfish..

  • @kian_zac
    @kian_zac 20 днів тому +3

    First of all no companies wld take responsibility for any lost/stolen items .. why would you in the first place leave any valuable items in storage to begin with.
    Get a police report.

  • @jackoneil3933
    @jackoneil3933 20 днів тому +4

    Well Ben, From the story I suspect the guy who does not like you. People who have resentment often feel entitled to take advantage. Penalties for theft in Malaysia are pretty severe, not something a reasonable person would risk, and I would be inclined to contact the owner and say you want the security footage. I'd have a friendly chat with any prime suspect, and let them know you would appreciate having it back and no questions would be asked, but once you go to the police it's out of your hands. I'd go to the police ASAP and have a chat with them and ask what they suggest. Perhaps an officer could meet you there and you could give them a chance "TO FIND THE STUFF" before a formal investigation.
    If they are not friendly or receptive, I'd mention to staff and the owner that you would be very happy to resolve the issue rather than cause escalate matters.

  • @JC50-joy
    @JC50-joy 20 днів тому

    Happy Belated Birthday Ben. It's my birthday today though, what a coincidence that you talked about yours!

  • @suenidasa6497
    @suenidasa6497 13 днів тому

    I'm sorry to hear of your predicament . Hope things will be resolved soon.

  • @DocuFlow
    @DocuFlow 11 днів тому

    Sorry to hear about your bad experience. Don’t listen to the victim shamers. Def file a police report, be very polite to the cops and they’ll be helpful. If you’re nice enough they might visit the thief and convince him to return the stolen goods. I’m guessing that because you’re a regular, you were marked. So it’s likely others have filed reports against this thief of a concierge. No matter what anyone says, he had a duty of care to look after your belongings. Also report him to his manager, if you can get his details. Lastly, you should name and shame the place, so at least others can benefit from this horrible experience.

  • @stewartdlchong
    @stewartdlchong 18 днів тому

    File a Police Report, ask the Condo Management its Insurance policy and also your own insurance policy if any. Pdrm will probably seek Condo's cctv. This is a crime and PDRM is obliged to investigate.

  • @jameelhamidou2199
    @jameelhamidou2199 18 днів тому

    Hi Ben, I heard about your situation. While it’s true that many people can be kind and helpful, it’s essential to keep your valuables close at all times. Every unfortunate event becomes a lesson learned. I hope you can resolve the mystery of your missing bag soon. Please urge the authorities to investigate, as this incident reflects poorly on the condo and could deter future tourists visiting Kuala Lumpur on a budget like you have.

  • @TimeToTravel-u2x
    @TimeToTravel-u2x 20 днів тому +2

    You aren't getting anything for the missing bag...guaranteed somewhere says "not responsible for stored articles"

  • @pimpboystackgetterakapimpm3016
    @pimpboystackgetterakapimpm3016 20 днів тому +4

    it sucks that your bag was stolen, definitely take a police report. But with that said you made a habit out of paying late. Why would it be your expectation for them to continue bending the rules for you. To do it once or twice is a different story but for you to just expect that they will keep accepting late payments is silly. You're from NYC and you know hardly anybody would be willing to do that in NYC so don't take advantage here.

  • @JOHNPoST-y4u
    @JOHNPoST-y4u 20 днів тому +20

    Of course you file a police report. That guy took your bag.😅😅

  • @kayellai5278
    @kayellai5278 20 днів тому +5

    This is called living on the edge. Interesting story.

  • @valereehansen4378
    @valereehansen4378 19 днів тому

    I would have contacted the police immediately, listing my items and pointing out that the location has security cameras.
    A rental storage space for your possessions is necessary when you do the checking out and checking in routine.

  • @JG-ex9kx
    @JG-ex9kx 14 днів тому

    Make a Police Report and Make Official Complain to the Board of Tourism.

  • @af6597-1
    @af6597-1 20 днів тому +2

    Which hotel did you stay in? Usually, you'll be given a stub for the bags that you leave with the hotel as storage. Make a police report

    • @rainerweishaupl1103
      @rainerweishaupl1103 20 днів тому

      well he had none better than stubs. He had PICTURES!

    • @Malak2Abady
      @Malak2Abady 20 днів тому

      ​@@rainerweishaupl1103unless the pictures contains that female worker half nak... 🤭🤭🤭

  • @hero4963
    @hero4963 20 днів тому +4

    Unfortunately you got scammed by the accommodation staff they clearly hid and took your bag and wanted to know what are the items inside I suggest file a police report

    • @hero4963
      @hero4963 20 днів тому

      @@BlueKinkajou-z3v what really? Sorry i didn’t know that but still not having his bag is literally theft he should definitely file a police report

  • @JasonFoster-v3l
    @JasonFoster-v3l 19 днів тому

    Ask for a staff meeting with him and the owner. Tell them you're going to file a police report if the issue isn't solved. Maybe look for new accommodation. Unfortunately, you have to double question everyone which is sad.

  • @ahmadaziz5361
    @ahmadaziz5361 6 днів тому

    Please file a Police report.