THE TRUTH ABOUT LIVING WITH A YOUTUBER!

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  • The residents of the Chateau de Lalande reveal the truth of life with a UA-camr - including the things that annoy them the most!
    If you would like to see the Lalander's other channels, check out:
    @mariewiik (and her Instagram mariewiik1?igsh... )
    @selmarduinofficial
    @escapetoruralfrance
    Escape to the chateau with ’The Chateau Diaries’ 🏰
    In 'Sundays at the Chateau' Stephanie shares French chateau life and culture with you ❤️
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  • @4BWVan
    @4BWVan 3 роки тому +736

    I think the main takeaway of all this is that Stephanie needs at least a part-time editor to help her so that she has more time for herself and to be around everyone else.

    • @juliebarnsdall7996
      @juliebarnsdall7996 3 роки тому +27

      Agree. But wasn't philip helping with this?

    • @philipjanssen
      @philipjanssen 3 роки тому +69

      @@juliebarnsdall7996 I helped when Stephanie was in hospital, but she’s back behind the desk now!

    • @JulesTravels-On
      @JulesTravels-On 3 роки тому +55

      A full time editor would help in so many ways. If we can help increase UA-cam revenue be his could be achieved and not just allow Stephanie more time off but more creative and organised time which we would all see the benefit off. I watched some old vlogs over the weekend where many of the team were also filming, which was fun and might help the general day to day stuff at the moment without Stephanie always having to be present. Let's get sharing and hitting the button. 😎

    • @jaetrotman2120
      @jaetrotman2120 3 роки тому +4

      Absolutely!!!!

    • @debbierudolph9489
      @debbierudolph9489 3 роки тому +27

      Maybe she should hand over some of the editing to Phillip. Starting with Cadeau perhaps.

  • @agracefilledlife1397
    @agracefilledlife1397 3 роки тому +266

    Selmar, don’t think of yourself as ‘famous’ think of yourself as loved and appreciated by many 🙏🏻💞

    • @marykelly9698
      @marykelly9698 3 роки тому +9

      This is exactly true 💕

    • @mayfleur36
      @mayfleur36 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks so much Selmar, for remaining down to earth 😊

    • @tamiwallace7572
      @tamiwallace7572 2 роки тому

      Yes, Selmar is one in a million. We adore him!

    • @sadjaxx
      @sadjaxx 2 роки тому

      Such a nice voice.

    • @ccmarcum
      @ccmarcum 2 роки тому +1

      Who would have guessed how badly he would be treated in the future, after all his hard work? His kindness and generosity,,,,,he was used then dumped.

  • @riomcgonigle
    @riomcgonigle 3 роки тому +305

    How sweet Dan said getting Mummy back so cute!

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 3 роки тому +15

      Yes we certainly miss her a lot she is so important in the life of the chateau even when she was a bit annoyed she made my day because l understood her so well. She was a breath of fresh air so authentic and down to earth, cannot wait to have her back .

    • @JudyCraigDexterME
      @JudyCraigDexterME 3 роки тому +9

      that was one of my favorite quotes as well!!!

    • @elizabethnicholson6691
      @elizabethnicholson6691 3 роки тому +8

      Dan knows a good gardener when he sees one - no wonder he is looking forward to having Isabelle back at Lalande! Gardening buddies are great.

    • @christinevr7698
      @christinevr7698 3 роки тому +4

      Does he realize he may have to surrender the keys to the cool mower? 🤣 yeah it’s cute how he misses Isabelle.

    • @hrtymongrel
      @hrtymongrel 3 роки тому

      without utube DAN aint no man with out money ! wake up

  • @donnastevenson6700
    @donnastevenson6700 3 роки тому +262

    Ian the electrician, don’t think we don’t see all the work you have done. Especially the internet. We hated seeing Stephanie in the car freezing at 11:00 pm. The electricity in a place as big as that must be a nightmare. Your talents have not gone unnoticed.

    • @barbibutton9619
      @barbibutton9619 3 роки тому +9

      Yes, he's such a necessary man but not on camera as much as some

    • @bon037
      @bon037 3 роки тому +18

      Gold stars all around for Ian the electrician!!!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

    • @fmma286
      @fmma286 3 роки тому +11

      He’s a great engineer!

    • @carmenarroyo9235
      @carmenarroyo9235 3 роки тому +2

      So true!

    • @christinevr7698
      @christinevr7698 3 роки тому +5

      Ian is a GEM!!

  • @barbarawatson1667
    @barbarawatson1667 3 роки тому +110

    I love that Dan misses mommie in the garden with him!

    • @barbibutton9619
      @barbibutton9619 3 роки тому +4

      I know. She must feel so loved

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 3 роки тому +4

      She surely is we miss her so much , Lalande is not the same without her. She tell you as it is dear Isabella love you, come back soon

  • @elisabethe8055
    @elisabethe8055 3 роки тому +319

    Selmar is a wise guy. Dont ever never let You tube take over so you forget that you have a life to live, a life that is filled with everything, not only cameras and channels. I think you should think carefully about how many channels you put out there, what they all give to you, and what is necessary for you to live your life at the fullest potential. Scotman said the same thing, listen to your loved ones, they know you best and no one want you to burn out. I know La Land is your baby, and to be honest, there is no need to have all those channels to make you, and the chateau living your full potential. Take care of your self, and dont forget to live in the moment, and that you deserve to live at La Land without a camera glued to your hand.. You have been to hospital twice, it is something that should make your inner alarm bell to ring. You are doing great, dont overdo it, if you do, it wont be that great anymore. For your own sake.. This channel is superb, nothing you do can top it, i think many of us can sign on to that. You are precious, please take care of your self Stephanie! Thank you for yet a great episode that i hope you will dive in to and listen carefully to what people that matters to you and care about you are trying to tell you. ❤️

    • @valariebresee4450
      @valariebresee4450 3 роки тому +25

      Totally agree Selmar is so right

    • @jennymay4720
      @jennymay4720 3 роки тому +24

      I totally agree..and that Stephanie needs some personal life, as do the Lalanders. But I have so much gratitude for all they have shared during this morbid time of Covid.

    • @ishara_priestess
      @ishara_priestess 3 роки тому +18

      ^THIS!^ Perhaps less editing, less brooding over edits. You’re all there living your lives, not producing a Netflix series. Perfection is subjective, and is not necessary or that much a part of actual reality. Jerry pegged it. Please listen. Your La Lande family would like you, Stephanie, to be more present in the moments that are not filmed. Love to you all from Florida, USA. Cynthia ☀️🐬

    • @pariisabella5521
      @pariisabella5521 3 роки тому +6

      Totally agree with Selma. Maybe the gifts received could be photographed and shown in one photo thanking everyone for them.

    • @lyettecool2223
      @lyettecool2223 3 роки тому +5

      Wow! I could not have said it better. Everyone, on the vlog, wants the same for Stephanie, they are in tune and connected and at the same time are their own person. It is quite amazing!!! They are a real team and this is why ¨The Château Diaries¨ is such a success.

  • @DonniTom
    @DonniTom 3 роки тому +206

    Selmar is soothing like Bob Ross. Stephanie is a ray of sunshine. I love her heart.

    • @TheKategolden
      @TheKategolden 3 роки тому +6

      As soon as you mentioned Bob's name . I said YESSS! and then I thought Selmar following and doing a Bob Ross painting

    • @NerdierthanU
      @NerdierthanU 3 роки тому +6

      He's the Bob Ross of carpentry and ballroom dancing.

    • @vintagemoss9578
      @vintagemoss9578 3 роки тому

      I know right!

    • @kaihandren9309
      @kaihandren9309 3 роки тому

      Yes , that's it .. perfectly said ...

    • @PNWShanaLee
      @PNWShanaLee 3 роки тому

      Haha, yes, except Bob Ross was def less animating! Love Selmar!

  • @joellenmeek658
    @joellenmeek658 3 роки тому +147

    I feel most viewers can tell how authentic everyone is and how a lot is not planned but just happens. I don’t think anyone “acts” and it is real - that’s why I love it.

  • @daniellewhiteside1199
    @daniellewhiteside1199 3 роки тому +219

    Soooooo looking forward to have Isabelle And Percy and Gerry back at the chateaux love love them so much

    • @barbibutton9619
      @barbibutton9619 3 роки тому +5

      Me too. Isabelle and Jerry is like watching I Love Lucy

    • @FolkFaninMA
      @FolkFaninMA 3 роки тому +2

      Same!

    • @danaholt1720
      @danaholt1720 3 роки тому +2

      It was wonderful to see Isabelle, and Gerri I didnt realize how much I missed them until I saw them 😒 .......ALL of you that live there are so real and wonderful 😎

    • @sandicarpenter2658
      @sandicarpenter2658 2 роки тому

      @@danaholt1720 Miss them so much.....I want to be like Isabelle

    • @sandicarpenter2658
      @sandicarpenter2658 2 роки тому

      @@itsmyparty4637 I just meant in her wonderful outlook in life!!!

  • @hatshepsut8329
    @hatshepsut8329 3 роки тому +218

    This was very interesting and I enjoyed hearing everyone’s comments. If Selmar is wondering why so many people are taken with him he needs to watch this video and listen to what he has said. He maybe a simple, quiet and peaceful man but he is also the voice of reason. He embodies what most people lack these days in many ways and people notice and appreciate it. It was nice to hear from Mummy and Scotsman too! 👏

    • @barbibutton9619
      @barbibutton9619 3 роки тому +6

      Wonderfully said!!!

    • @FolkFaninMA
      @FolkFaninMA 3 роки тому +7

      Yes I totally agree. His selfless concern for Stephanie really touched me.

    • @nikishazechiel6848
      @nikishazechiel6848 3 роки тому +1

      I agree with everything except Selmar being simple. Only because he has so many gifts!! Honestly, I do see what you ment, and this comment is only a teasing jest with truth. Selmar, it seems to me, chooses to live a simple beautiful life and I think that is the point you were trying to get across? I did not mean to offend, only playfully elbow nudge.

    • @hatshepsut8329
      @hatshepsut8329 3 роки тому +1

      @@nikishazechiel6848 🥰

    • @marie78091
      @marie78091 3 роки тому +1

      I can feel Selmar's simple sincerity towards Stephanie in his words, for Stephanie to enjoy some unrepeated moment that happens around Laland's nature amongst her busy schedules. Stephanie, we all love you bcos you are the sunshine that gives us love & joy through these years ❤ from the overseas

  • @katrinatoland7553
    @katrinatoland7553 3 роки тому +235

    @ Stephanie Jarvis and all the LaLande family, thankyou so much for getting us through the last year, appreciate you all XXX

    • @kelli3610
      @kelli3610 3 роки тому +1

      Yes Thank you so very much ❤

    • @kelli3610
      @kelli3610 3 роки тому +1

      @@kimmurphy531 fewer videos means fewer views and a drop in income

  • @findingequilibria8772
    @findingequilibria8772 3 роки тому +90

    Selmar and Ian and Dan and all the people of Lalande really care for Stephanie, it shows in every answer they gave, it shows in their eyes. Stephanie is so blessed to have these great people.

  • @kathleenhuguenin7791
    @kathleenhuguenin7791 3 роки тому +74

    Isabelle is looking happier and healthier these days, younger as well and less stress in her voice. Joie de Vivre!

    • @chrismaraccini8108
      @chrismaraccini8108 3 роки тому +3

      I agree about looking younger. Isabelle what is your secret?

  • @cwatson1975
    @cwatson1975 3 роки тому +66

    Love that Ian was included. He is so important to La Lande, great job with the WIFI. I’m so happy to think Stephanie isn’t out on the side of the road at midnight.

    • @jennymay4720
      @jennymay4720 3 роки тому +3

      Yes Ian's a lightbulb. As in builder Ian too.

    • @ladyjane8855
      @ladyjane8855 3 роки тому +4

      Is Ian a guest or an employee? I've never been able to figure him out 😂

    • @chrismaraccini8108
      @chrismaraccini8108 3 роки тому +3

      @@jennymay4720 I missed the builder Ian interview, he also is so a part of LaLande

    • @cagarden8808
      @cagarden8808 3 роки тому +3

      Yes, Ian is the Lalande WIFI lifesaver! Thank goodness! Wonder what kind of French red wine was in his glass.

    • @rayandmarythomas4719
      @rayandmarythomas4719 2 роки тому

      All the Ian’s!

  • @nancytysor7098
    @nancytysor7098 3 роки тому +184

    Phillip,. I know your Momma is so proud of the smart, talented, and caring man you have become. You are always funny and a delight.

    • @philipjanssen
      @philipjanssen 3 роки тому +17

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jodeerisney9300
      @jodeerisney9300 3 роки тому +7

      And I’m sure she misses you. This is a wonderful way to stay connected to her. You are a treasure.

    • @Mark723
      @Mark723 3 роки тому +7

      And such a hottie!

    • @kristineprice2722
      @kristineprice2722 3 роки тому +12

      I love listening to Phillip he’s so adorable,.... for me he radiates happiness and fun!!! Can’t get enough of his ‘ snorklie laugh/chuckle has me in bits laughing!!!
      AND ... he’s so talented... artistic... absolutely adorable 💕

    • @hrtymongrel
      @hrtymongrel 3 роки тому +1

      go home phillip . ur grandparents need u. oh thats rite ur being paid so put up of go home

  • @PolishedMissy
    @PolishedMissy 3 роки тому +86

    Dan and Mummy ... dream team 🥰

  • @donnastevenson6700
    @donnastevenson6700 3 роки тому +67

    Natie your dedication to Stephanie is amazing. You keep her grounded. You make LaLande seem like it just flows when we no it is hectic.

  • @Shelley_H
    @Shelley_H 3 роки тому +181

    Having a difficult time this Mothers Day as I just lost my dear Mom two weeks ago at the age of 97. I am grateful however to have had her in my life for so many years. It is a bittersweet day filled with wonderful memories. No matter what they say you are never ready to say goodbye. Watching the Chateau Diaries cheers me up.

    • @monikastuckey8737
      @monikastuckey8737 3 роки тому +14

      So sorry you lost your dear Mom. Sending you hugs.

    • @trickshotters1577
      @trickshotters1577 3 роки тому +12

      My sincere condolences on the loss of your Mother. It is my hope that your many memories wrap you in the comfort of an old soft cherished quilt.

    • @elisabethnymann6306
      @elisabethnymann6306 3 роки тому +14

      My condolences. The price we pay for love is heartbreak. Big comforting hugs to you.

    • @arsinlupin5628
      @arsinlupin5628 3 роки тому +8

      ❤ I am sorry to hear about your loss ❣

    • @sheraaa9169
      @sheraaa9169 3 роки тому +9

      I’m so sorry for your loss sending love ❤️

  • @taitweigel64
    @taitweigel64 3 роки тому +96

    I'm Mommy's age, a widow, living alone. The La Land vlogs have been especially welcome during a year of being in lock down. Their concern for you overdoing is my concern too, Stephanie. I enjoy and care about all of you. It is a one sided friendship, my knowing all of you and not being known other than through comments.

    • @patricianathan4676
      @patricianathan4676 3 роки тому +16

      Yes I totally agree, I also am same age and a widow, it’s been wonderful to watch the vlogs to take away our cares for a time, to see happy people having fun each day, it’s wonderful.

    • @juliacobb4355
      @juliacobb4355 3 роки тому +3

      I don’t know how old mummy is but I think I’m older. I love the interaction between her and her children and the other Lalanders. Great respect for her opinion.

  • @dalehegstrom7295
    @dalehegstrom7295 3 роки тому +67

    This is transformative. 30 million views from all over the world sitting down together, drawn together by the Lalande family. You are helping to create a new
    global community that might be the best hope for the future.

  • @caseyjosephine251
    @caseyjosephine251 3 роки тому +75

    As a 911 operator I deal with a lot of stress and sadness. This Vlog over the last year makes me laugh and smile for at least an hour plus a week. I cannot tell you how grateful I am for that. I savor the diaries and watch them when I most need that lift. Also get an editor so you don’t get burned out! I need you to stay healthy for my sanity!

  • @Harpmary
    @Harpmary 3 роки тому +60

    Ahh. My heart broke when Dan said he misses Isabelle! So sweet. What a wonderful team.

  • @kellycampbell-erwin6714
    @kellycampbell-erwin6714 3 роки тому +122

    Stephanie hire an editor please. Take some time for yourself. We love you and want you to be happy in the moment.

    • @susanbender2953
      @susanbender2953 3 роки тому +8

      That would not work. Editing is how she tells her story of Lalaned her way. She is the author. A different editor would be like hiring a ghost writer
      She should decrease the number of Vlogs.

    • @andrealongbottom3869
      @andrealongbottom3869 3 роки тому +4

      Yes! Maybe split it in the beginning between her and an editor. A good editor studies the style of the vlogger and sometimes it is trial and error but that’s also what we are here for, feedback of things that work and things that don’t. Sometimes editors can even make things better and add their own unique touches that really work. An editor would allow her time to relax , socialize, do her hobbies again, and just enjoy the day without that worry.

    • @christinevr7698
      @christinevr7698 3 роки тому +3

      @@susanbender2953 I think a good editor would in time, understands what Stephanie’s style, vision, and story for a vlog could be; Stephanie would still have final editorial review; to check on what’s there and tweak it, recut it. The right person could do this and make it seamless to the wider audience.

    • @ricaonfireRicaDivaRosales
      @ricaonfireRicaDivaRosales 3 роки тому

      @@susanbender2953 I agree As a LEO our star sign we dont need that hahahahaha all she needs is an assistant for video shooting.... She is the author, editor the director herself.....

  • @trixiegirlism
    @trixiegirlism 3 роки тому +19

    The fact that they don't see a difference of the life you portray on the vlogs and the reality of real life at the Chateau is a huge complement to you Stephanie and probably why you're channel is so hugely popular..

  • @wendymorrison5803
    @wendymorrison5803 3 роки тому +73

    I agree with the wish that you, Stephanie, have more free time to yourself. As much as I enjoy the vlogs, I see how much work you do. Some time to just sit in the sun appreciating your friends is always needed.

  • @lisakilmer2667
    @lisakilmer2667 3 роки тому +32

    A couple of things are very clear: 1) the vlogs capture real life (which is why there are so many fans; 2) Stephanie's loved ones want her to pace herself; and 3) the residents are a marvelous "match made in heaven." In my opinion, since you have risen to the "purpose" of making happy videos to help people during this pandemic, the focus on real life (as opposed to so many of the early vlogs focusing on parties) is the root of your success. The excellence of your product is like the tree trunk, and the laughter and joy you show are like the apples/fruit of the whole effort.

  • @nuttienattie1
    @nuttienattie1 3 роки тому +35

    Thank goodness Selmar hadn't seen the vlogs before he arrived because Lalande would have been so worse off without him x

  • @terricheney1724
    @terricheney1724 3 роки тому +37

    I absolutely love watching Chateau Diaries but I do worry about Stephanie...Seriously Stephanie you must take care of yourself. The Chateau needs you and lots of people watching sort of need you, too, in a good way. So Stephanie taking care of Stephanie would be a good thing!

  • @barbarastevens3053
    @barbarastevens3053 3 роки тому +24

    Stephanie is the essence of Chateau diaries and the Chateau, without her personality I doubt they would be so popular. She makes everything interesting.

  • @loredana6727
    @loredana6727 3 роки тому +47

    oh my goodness, this video just made me so emotional, and now i find myself writing this comment with tears of joy streaming down my laptop keyboard. I am so grateful for the youtube algorithm, that recommended one of your videos to me almost a year ago, whilst living alone in lockdown. Since then I watched all of Chateau Diaries videos and there is not one video that did not make me smile or filled my heart with warmth and love.
    I can not contain myself and not say that all of the Lalanders are such lovely and admirable people. You all give me so much joy, hope and just pure happiness. And Stephanie, i am convinced...you are an angel. Your videos and ideas taught and inspired me so much and i appreciate it enormously. Thank You:)

    • @elizabethmilner2045
      @elizabethmilner2045 3 роки тому +6

      This is so sweet and reflects the feelings of so many of us!!!❤️

  • @butoolkhan2715
    @butoolkhan2715 3 роки тому +76

    Tsk! Fifteen people gave a thumbs down? Crazy!
    The general take away from this episode is that everyone wants Stephanie to slow down, have time for herself, for her family and friends. I would add: Stephanie, this has been your dream, things are happening all around you, your Chateau is bursting into bloom and every wish you had for it is happening, so stop, take a breath and enjoy and savour the renaissance of your Chateau.
    We will survive with fewer vlogs, but we won’t survive none because you’ve burnt yourself out. At seventy five I know the very worst feeling in the world is regret. Regret for all that you missed, regret for time lost with family and friends.
    Too gloomy! I laugh at your vlogs and would hate to miss them!

  • @Eric-kf6dy
    @Eric-kf6dy 3 роки тому +31

    When you own a chateau with a moat there are bound to be trolls. It's in all the fairytales and the trolls never win. XOX

  • @jaetrotman2120
    @jaetrotman2120 3 роки тому +76

    I appreciate Stephanie’s vlogs. She opened up Chateau living to the world and we love it. Everyone at Chateau de Lalande should appreciate her, because of her the world knows you and supports you💯💕

  • @nancytysor7098
    @nancytysor7098 3 роки тому +28

    Dan, the master of the garden and the great outdoors. You have worked wonders in the past year....Amazing!!! And your talented wife has kept everyone's hair looking marvelous...."have scissors and hair color will travel".

  • @leslikuyweski4576
    @leslikuyweski4576 3 роки тому +33

    It's heartwarming to hear how much you all genuinely care for each other.

  • @janetg1691
    @janetg1691 3 роки тому +60

    To improve long term: take two weeks off with NO cameras or vlogs of any kind each January and July, each year. Your followers will complain bitterly at first, but you need to recharge your energy and have private moments, since likely will be doing this for years to come. Avoiding burnout and diseases from burnout are to be taken into consideration. Your followers are loyal and will watch when you come back on. We love you, the La Landers and your vlogs, and want you in great health for many years. Love from another Canadian (west coast), Janet

    • @barbibutton9619
      @barbibutton9619 3 роки тому +1

      One week each? Lol. No, whatever she needs would be accepted by MOST

    • @Mark723
      @Mark723 3 роки тому +12

      We have a local restaurant that has been in business for over fifty years, where the owners take off the month of August every year and return home to visit family and friends - all their clients know about this, deal with it, and return with gusto to dine at the restaurant upon their return in September. Your adoring public will accept such an extravagance as it benefits everyone, most especially those who work so hard who need time to recharge.

    • @kpChristinChristmas
      @kpChristinChristmas 3 роки тому +5

      Or the week before Christmas until Jan. 30th. Then After the 4th of July to the end of Juky. Take A VACATION!

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 3 роки тому +3

      Delegate , never turn off, people are very quicly going off you if you turn off , it take a long time to get them back. Just find somebody to replace you off and on but never turn off bad idea because this is what make the the chateaux life and renovation. We will not died to have sweet Philip for a week or somebody else that you can teach. There is a lot of talented people in the world, jut so you have a break but what ever you do dont turn off

    • @cagarden8808
      @cagarden8808 3 роки тому +1

      Great idea! We can rewatch all of the amazing, joyful CD vlogs during the hiatus.

  • @ellenlovre
    @ellenlovre 3 роки тому +80

    Just want to say Nati is so beautiful in this video! (and every video)

    • @nataliaoliveto7077
      @nataliaoliveto7077 3 роки тому +16

      Ohhh Ellen! Thanks so much!!! You are lovely ❤️❤️

    • @chattylamb7351
      @chattylamb7351 3 роки тому +3

      She simply glows!!! She has come into her true self and grown so much!! Her love of flowers and beauty shines in her eyes. She has blossomed forth. So wonderful to to watch. Love her blouse, her hair scarf, her necklace all of it so chic and natural!!!

    • @nellewoodruff2912
      @nellewoodruff2912 3 роки тому +2

      @@chattylamb7351, I believe you are thinking of Marie

  • @justnaomi9548
    @justnaomi9548 3 роки тому +17

    Oh my gosh mummy looks like she is growing younger! As much as I miss her I have to say that south Africa has been so good for her.

  • @aynvaughan
    @aynvaughan 3 роки тому +21

    Google calendar for the schedule and you can allow access to everyone at the chateau. You can plug in different colors for different filming and you can schedule office hours and check on Stephanie during editing reminders.

  • @sandymoore1285
    @sandymoore1285 3 роки тому +25

    This was so good everyone! Thank you! Have fun and but be sure to take some time for yourselves. 💗

  • @dbj91791
    @dbj91791 3 роки тому +18

    Love “Scotsman” he is hilarious!😂 Also, Selma is kind, gentle & genuine. I enjoy EVERYONE! Thank you for sharing.🥰

  • @nancytysor7098
    @nancytysor7098 3 роки тому +46

    Selmar, you are a deep pool of serenity that helps to keep things from being so hectic. Your creativity, especially with wood and building is amazing.

  • @FolkFaninMA
    @FolkFaninMA 3 роки тому +27

    Love all you guys, but I was really touched by Selmar’s concern for Stephanie. Such a sweet human being. Congratulations on this new milestone Stephanie, but please do take some time for yourself and just breathe.

  • @gunillaevanth1370
    @gunillaevanth1370 3 роки тому +28

    As an ”old” project manager, I totally understand Ians need for planning... I ’m sure you have an overall plan for the chateau, it would be interesting to take part of your ideas and plans. Maybe that even would engage even more patrons to your channel! I’d love that!

  • @afolsom685
    @afolsom685 3 роки тому +115

    As much as I love watching all the vlogs, I would prefer one Chateau Diaries a week and having them last for a long time - rather than you exhausting yourself and having them end. Also it’s just not right you are too busy to live. I understand it is a new venture and exciting and fabulous, but don’t burn out yourself.

    • @louisedemarillac777
      @louisedemarillac777 3 роки тому +6

      Well said. We worry about these beautiful people.

    • @asddsa28
      @asddsa28 3 роки тому +4

      exactly!

    • @jacquelinereynolds2934
      @jacquelinereynolds2934 3 роки тому +8

      You do realise that the UA-cam vlogs are Stephanies main personal income now. Out of that she is paying 3 salaries Nati, Philip and Mary Poppins. Plus any house expenses that are not covered by the B&B. And anything that cant be paid for with Patreon monies. So she probably can't cut down to 1 a week as she has too many financial commitments

    • @jourdainjardin846
      @jourdainjardin846 3 роки тому +1

      She would make way less money having only one video a week. I think two a week is very balanced. There are some UA-cam’s that used to do 5 per week!

    • @teresacarle294
      @teresacarle294 3 роки тому +3

      @@jacquelinereynolds2934 The 🏰Chateau pays wages to Dan, Nati, Philip, Selmar, & Mary Paupins. Plus, there are the Ian's & other special contractors. They've had a 🌲tree specialist, the 🧱masons (who recently repaired & secured the terrace area), and all the artisans for the Chapel 💒.

  • @nancytysor7098
    @nancytysor7098 3 роки тому +37

    Natie, thanks for being the chief of organization and calm sanity in the midst of all the whirlwind of construction, mountains of packages delivered, and volunteers to schedule, etc. What an ability!!!!!

  • @wandaarganbright4056
    @wandaarganbright4056 3 роки тому +21

    I don't understand how this channel is SO well known and doesn't have more subscribers!? The very first one I watched, I subscribed and it was before the whole pandemic blow up. I got in on almost the beginning and have not missed an episode. I have watched all the episodes three times.

  • @swashbuckle5065
    @swashbuckle5065 3 роки тому +26

    Were would we be without Chateau Diaries, Cadeaux at the Chateau? what a dull way to have spent covid isolation without them. The best thing about the vlogs? The immense generosity displayed by the viewers. Thank you Stephanie and La Lander's :):):)

    • @juliacobb4355
      @juliacobb4355 3 роки тому +3

      I have to agree. I LOVE Cadeaux at the Chateau!

  • @scpmdt
    @scpmdt 3 роки тому +24

    Stephanie is loved by all those aound her because they appreciate her hard work but it was heartwarming to hear how they all wish she could spend more time with them off camera. She though realises that hard work is what is required to realise one’s dream & being a UA-camr is hard work but with the rewards she is able to achieve & do so much at Lalande & at Lalande.
    Selmar he still doesn’t realise how lovely he is. He has such a calm voice & personality & he is humble as well. Phillip having my own grandsons & the joy they give me when they visit, it touched my heart that you miss your grandparents & the weekly visits. Hope once the world comes back to normal that you can get back to see your grandparents.
    Dan misses maman Isabel, I thought that was so so sweet. I am sure all at the chateau miss her as do the viewers.
    Wise words from Steven. Gone are the old ways of thinking that one has to stick to one job for 40 years (nothing wrong with that I hope I have not offended anyone as I was also part of that generation), but the world has so much to offer & it’s great to see the younger generation explore more ways of being productive & earn a living.
    Long live Stephanie & Lalande. ❤️

  • @blondebrit4821
    @blondebrit4821 3 роки тому +14

    I dont know what I would have done this past year without Stephanie and her lalonde family :) it has been a year filled with grief and loss for a lot of us. But to have Lalonde to escape to , with Stephanies infectious laugh and joyful energy, Natalias sense of style and elegance, Phillips fun and cheeky quips ,Marie’s quiet charm , Isabelle keeping everyone on their toes :) and selmars quiet gentle energy and all the other wonderful personalities as well as the lovely parties to look forward to it has been WONDERFUL thank you to you all 😘💗🇨🇦

  • @helenahandebasquet
    @helenahandebasquet 3 роки тому +15

    Dan "I want Mummy back". 😄♥️

  • @escapetoruralfrance
    @escapetoruralfrance 3 роки тому +14

    Yes, all good and well, but when can I let hanni out of the gardeners shed?

  • @sullivantan6838
    @sullivantan6838 3 роки тому +18

    Dear Stephanie, thanks for yet another informative episode. If anybody has to be your assistant editor, it has to be Steve. He did an astounding job volunteering for Chateau Unwrapped. He is so articulate and such a gentleman.

  • @nancytysor7098
    @nancytysor7098 3 роки тому +18

    Steve, you are a techie genius. Thanks for all your behind the scenes help you give Stephanie ...tell your sweet, kind wife....I'd be lurking in the corners with her if I was there. No lime light for me either.

    • @elizabethmilner2045
      @elizabethmilner2045 3 роки тому +3

      I loved your regency dress!!! It is so beautiful!!!!🌟💫🌸💗

  • @teedee3834
    @teedee3834 3 роки тому +21

    It is so sweet and understandable that Stephanie's friends would like to be able to spend more time with her. This tells me that she is very good company and is much loved,this is what we feel as well. Love To All!!!

  • @lisakilmer2667
    @lisakilmer2667 3 роки тому +11

    Someone else mentioned Chateau de Rosieres ... I highly recommend that La Lande fans check out their Chronicles of Rosieres ... they are charming!

  • @christinevr7698
    @christinevr7698 3 роки тому +10

    Philip - it broke my heart to hear that you have been bullied in the past. Isn’t it great how things have turned out now though? You sir are absolutely wonderful - Renaissance Man - smart, talented, artistic, funny, fun, kind... People around the world love and admire you. ❤️ Living well is the best revenge!

    • @elainecondrin1927
      @elainecondrin1927 2 роки тому

      That saddened me also. Being unique and talented can be hard for others to accept. Meanness is easier….

  • @milmom4281
    @milmom4281 3 роки тому +11

    We miss mummy and Percy and Scotman SO much! I can’t wait for them to be able to come back!

  • @janetthomas8244
    @janetthomas8244 3 роки тому +14

    It was so sweet and interesting to hear how everyone feels. Selmar being surprised by the interest in him was kind of a surprise.

  • @caropapa
    @caropapa 3 роки тому +12

    Loved and laughed when Steve said the shower cams were a bit much.

  • @bh7578
    @bh7578 3 роки тому +13

    The Chateau diaries is special because of all of the wonderful people in it. ❤️🌸

  • @nancytysor7098
    @nancytysor7098 3 роки тому +20

    Ahhh heres to ALL the IANS....Men and Peacocks....who add a bit of spice , hard work, and beauty to the Chateau...They could not do without you.

  • @donnastevenson6700
    @donnastevenson6700 3 роки тому +8

    Stephanie please listen to your friends and family who love you so much. You are still young and need to simply take time for them and you. Don’t get lost from yourself. Rest sometimes, we will still be here. Your vlog has been a blessing to me and a lot others, but we too are concerned for your peace too.

  • @riomcgonigle
    @riomcgonigle 3 роки тому +10

    How lovely to see Jerry and Mummy! Selmar as genuine as ever! Thanks for the vlog Stephanie

  • @denisebugler5761
    @denisebugler5761 3 роки тому +13

    Me and the hubby have been watching since you started and can honestly say that don’t know how we would have got through the pandemic without you and the Pethericks. I have had a lot of ‘Stephanie made me do it’ moments. I feel like I know you all and would love to come one day. I love Philip he is very articulate and also makes me laugh. If you have a party there I feel like I have been to a party afterwards. It’s been a lifesaver and you are all great. Xx

  • @lindathompson6698
    @lindathompson6698 3 роки тому +17

    I love all of you as you are! I do not like reality programs that just want to create controversy. I never thought I would like a reality program. BRAVO!! I can not wait to see the progress!!

  • @donnastevenson6700
    @donnastevenson6700 3 роки тому +11

    Selmar your personality and your soul and kind heart makes us all simply love you. Your work speaks for itself, wonderful. Your kind heart and concern for Stephanie makes you our knight in shining amor

  • @yummboy2
    @yummboy2 3 роки тому +14

    The points are all very well taken. I get it, LaLanders are people too and they each have their own life as well their UA-cam life. And then there is Stephanie, a one-in-a-million sort of super human being who's boundless energy defies logic. If it is any consolation to any of you magical people, I am eternally grateful that you each are who you are and that you each have chosen to share a part of your lives with me.

  • @zenettehunter7598
    @zenettehunter7598 3 роки тому +6

    Love Thor shimmying his tail, as if to say " Don't forget me, I also am a part of La Land."

  • @deborahheritage5581
    @deborahheritage5581 3 роки тому +8

    I absolutely loved this video. We can feel how real and genuine everything is but it’s nice to have it confirmed. Philips close bond with his family is so beautiful. Every single person at the chateau is so special, such beautiful people. If one thing came out of this it’s that Stephanie needs an editor so she can have a better balance in her life. Thank you to all of you for everything you do. I love you all.

  • @Marykguise
    @Marykguise 3 роки тому +9

    That was so lovely to hear everyone’s thoughts on being part of LaLande and the vlogs. I for one am extremely grateful for the vlogs. I feel like I have an extended family in you all. Blessings to you all. 💗💝

  • @jackiebagnall
    @jackiebagnall 3 роки тому +28

    I watch before sleeping too Philip, its my nightcap!

  • @raf499
    @raf499 3 роки тому +11

    So lovely to see Isabelle and Gerry particularly looking so well.

  • @niamhbradyhalmschlag5168
    @niamhbradyhalmschlag5168 3 роки тому +18

    Congrats on the 30million everyone! 🥳 Loved seeing everyone's opinions on living in the vlog. Heres to 100mil!

  • @annbottelli5682
    @annbottelli5682 3 роки тому +31

    Selmar cracks me up talking about Flogging!

    • @dotell8925
      @dotell8925 3 роки тому +3

      He's the Sweetest man!!!

    • @juliahiggi5206
      @juliahiggi5206 3 роки тому +1

      I noticed that straight away and it made me smile so much!

  • @sigma5054
    @sigma5054 3 роки тому +15

    the last 2 months when we discovered this channel think we have watched every episode a few times over..addicted...thank you for making these wonderful vlogs..much love

  • @donnastevenson6700
    @donnastevenson6700 3 роки тому +17

    Marie when we first met you, you were a wallflower. Oh my you are now a blossoming rose. Your whole self esteem has shone and your beauty has easily appeared. You have grown and become a part of our hearts. I think you needed this vlog to bring out the true you

  • @robynw77ify
    @robynw77ify 3 роки тому +16

    Stephanie,
    We all care about all of you so much. Please take care of yourself and listen to Selmar!

    • @jourdainjardin846
      @jourdainjardin846 3 роки тому

      But she’s doing what she enjoys. An artist will for work hours painting and forget to eat. No difference to any other passionate profession.

  • @raymulhern1677
    @raymulhern1677 3 роки тому +8

    Filming and Editing are forms of artistic expression for Stephanie. Sharing that with someone else would not be easy.

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 3 роки тому +2

      No but if it will keep her alive and well it would be better than crashing all together

  • @sarahburton3110
    @sarahburton3110 3 роки тому +22

    First to comment 😊🙏🏻😊🙏🏻. Can’t wait to see this video. I love Sunday’s at the Chateau and The Chateau Diaries is my favourite channel on UA-cam by far ☮️💜🇬🇧👍🏻❤️😊💖

  • @costrow3100
    @costrow3100 3 роки тому +5

    Selmar - love that he calls it flogging. Puts a smile on my face.

  • @AnnM223
    @AnnM223 3 роки тому +11

    I like how Dan and Selmar are grateful for the help they got for successfully establishing their YTube channels. And I was expecting some other people to do the same. Because it’s all because of Stephanie’s amazing and kind personality. Her acceptance of everyone and tolerance make everyone feel at home. She has lots of encouragement for all those wonderful and talented people that help her make life at the chateau interesting.

  • @janetroberts2262
    @janetroberts2262 3 роки тому +15

    Mummy looked absolutely beautiful and amazing in this video (that’s not to say she wasn’t before but she was looking tired by the time she got to join Percy again, stress of lockdown and not being able to get to Percy) 🤩❤️
    Stephanie, make time to speak to your mother, daily!
    Hit the nail on the head Scotman (& others), cut back the work load or get help to edit at least. You’ve already been ill and in hospital because of over exertion this year. Patreons, get Stephanie to slow down please🙏🏻 so she can sew and do the other things that we don’t see her doing now.
    Ahhh, Dan’s missing you Mummy 🤗
    Ignore the trolls, they are just jealous that they aren’t living your life or that they can’t make a regency dress from a half arsed pattern etc, they aren’t worth a second thought.
    Love to all (especially mummy & scotman) XXXX

  • @tinamac6960
    @tinamac6960 3 роки тому +10

    What a lovely end to the weekend.philip,I have to admit,I too have fallen asleep half way through a chateau vlog,unintended of course! Having to catch up whilst getting ready for work the next morning. You guys rock,here's to another 30mil views! Thankyou for bringing such joy to all our lives! X

    • @FolkFaninMA
      @FolkFaninMA 3 роки тому

      That’s interesting. I have been known to drift off while watching a UA-cam video, but I’ve never done so during a Chateau Diaries. I’m usually laughing too much. 😀

  • @casperbenj
    @casperbenj 3 роки тому +21

    Editing Stephanie the gig is up

  • @josephforsuh6929
    @josephforsuh6929 3 роки тому +8

    I also understand that you Stephanie have to make hay while the sun shines. Renovation and restoration work on the LaLande has accelerated and if you look at the timeline for the Lake to be put back (3 or more years). Well, we have a ways to go..... Wishing you Health and Strength dear Stephanie. Oh and Isabelle looks absolutely great and years YEARS younger.

  • @salt8661
    @salt8661 3 роки тому +7

    Amazing! Thank you all for being so honest and open about your experiences and challenges. You make so many people happy (myself included) by sharing your lives with others!💖💖💖💫🌱🦋🪴🦋💫💫💖💫

  • @nancytysor7098
    @nancytysor7098 3 роки тому +9

    Stephanie, the Lord has richly blessed you with a multitude of creative talents...all of which you use regularly. You are a big splash of color, energy, and joy. You are the center of all the kaliedascope of things that go on at La Lande. Thanks for making this year of isolation one of warmth, caring fun, laughter and comraderie. It has been such a pleasure to share in all you do at La Lande....I have warm regards for you and all the LaLanders....

  • @kayturrell
    @kayturrell 3 роки тому +15

    So very sorry Shelley to hear of your loss.

  • @brentfisher6484
    @brentfisher6484 3 роки тому +4

    Wow! This vlog episode is rich with emotion, humor and wisdom. Thank you Stephanie for producing it, and thanks to everyone who had participated. Thanks so much for baring a little of your souls and personal stories for all of we devotees to view. I feel like the family at LaLande is like an extension of our own families and now we know you all a bit more and better.
    With 134 subscribers and 30M views your channel rivals the most popular television programs in America, Britain and France. What an achievement. Kudos!!
    Thank you so much!

  • @Rainmomma67
    @Rainmomma67 3 роки тому +2

    Totally agree with Selmar. I hope Stephanie, you can find a balance that works for you to have a full life.

  • @carolinehorne6505
    @carolinehorne6505 3 роки тому +13

    Stephanie you are truly loved and you work so hard, I hope maybe you could employ someone to do some of the vlogging for you, to give you some you time. I personally could watch Chateau Diaries everyday, I so look forward to the vlogs, better than watching tv. Xx

  • @heathercave
    @heathercave 3 роки тому +39

    My goodness I love Stephanie and the entire team. A lovely bunch of people… now if a volunteer editor would just step forward and take some of the weight off of your shoulders so you could enjoy more time with your friends

    • @jennibunny5719
      @jennibunny5719 3 роки тому +1

      My thought exactly!!

    • @nataliaoliveto7077
      @nataliaoliveto7077 3 роки тому +24

      It's coming soon ;)

    • @heathercave
      @heathercave 3 роки тому

      @@seethevolcane yes, my husband at 72 is a retired director of photography and cameraman… someone like him but without the bum hip would have the free time and skill.

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 3 роки тому +2

      @@nataliaoliveto7077 Good to hear , by the way , l subscribe dear Natalia , l appreciate your work so much, you are the best addition to the chateaux we love you so much . I am so glad you are staying and hope Stephanie learn to delegate more we worry about her and we dont want to loose her all together, and thankyou for all you do Philip and you make such a great contribution to the place . Send love and a hug

  • @auntytutu
    @auntytutu 3 роки тому +16

    My favorite part is Gerald talking about Stephanie as a little girl, so loving and sweet. Saddest part is Mummy not wanting to be at the chateau - I miss her so much!!! As an OG subscriber, I've deeply loved this channel from the beginning. Being a part of the growth & success are a pure joy. Meeting the family, friends & volunteers over the years is so inclusive. I believe this is a big part of the success. I'll never forget the day Selmar drove up and I wasn't even there. It's worrying some of these comments may change the channel, but clearly life is an ever evolving experience and I'm excited for the adventures still to come. It's so true of Stephanie's character to ask these questions and take the answers on board and if this is a help to her I'm all for it.

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 3 роки тому +3

      Thoses days in the lock down when there was just Mummy , Stephanie and Selmar arrived , l will never forget ,l become an addict of the showwhen Stephanie reada book to us from her bed , locked in her room , Mummy putting the food behind the door and Stephanie welcoming Selmar from the window . All this is so far aways , and it was rhe start of a wonderful story Selmar arrival , and Mummy battling in the garden alone, and still l could not stop watching !

  • @TallieBear
    @TallieBear 3 роки тому +5

    Lalande is a beautiful magical home filled with wonderful people with big hearts and lots of love to share. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. You are a blessing. ❤️

  • @terriepowell2935
    @terriepowell2935 3 роки тому +20

    Hello lovely LaLaners!! Happy Mother’s Day to the amazing mothers in our group!! Enjoy your Sunday!💐❤️💐

  • @Blueeyedconcubine
    @Blueeyedconcubine 3 роки тому +39

    Really can't wait till Gerry, mommy and Percy are back.

  • @Zippsters
    @Zippsters 6 місяців тому +1

    Philip really touched my heart with his desire to continue to visit his grandparents regularly - I hope he finds a way to do that. What a precious grandson they have.
    Very interesting post! And it’s not surprising at all about how spontaneous this vlog is. Stephanie is a delightful personality making for a very entertaining viewing but most of all her love of people, her genuine fascination with other people, passion for the arts and history, and amazing energy all bring together this great vlog.
    Your willingness to be this vulnerable by genuinely asking these questions says a lot about why you’ve succeeded. Thank you!

  • @aliceallan4753
    @aliceallan4753 3 роки тому +36

    Steven and his wife are wonderful, love the reponance.

    • @Louisefenner
      @Louisefenner 3 роки тому +16

      I read the comments she was referring to that trolls made about her Regency dress. Just despicable. She must have been terribly upset. What is wrong with these cruel people?

    • @barbibutton9619
      @barbibutton9619 3 роки тому +3

      He's actually really funny.

    • @chrismaraccini8108
      @chrismaraccini8108 3 роки тому +5

      @@barbibutton9619 Yes Steven is funny. I like his personality and he also is very talented, but again is there any one that comes to the chateau that doesn't have a great personality & talent?

    • @ManorandMaker
      @ManorandMaker 3 роки тому +5

      @@Louisefenner Hi Louise - I really wasn't as upset as I expected to be for my first trolling. The trolls don't have the context. I really hope that the real person behind that anonymous account can find other ways to have joy in their life.

    • @barbibutton9619
      @barbibutton9619 3 роки тому

      @@chrismaraccini8108 ha - true that. It's like Stephanie's dad is up above directing all the right people to Lalande

  • @maylisandepoulin3235
    @maylisandepoulin3235 3 роки тому +9

    I absolutely LOVED this behind the scenes video! So many funny, sweet and inspiring moments. What an amazing group of people you all are! 💛🥰