Yeah Shan, you are doing great job. I watched the early classes, definitely you are like different person. As a fellow blast last, I hope I can have a confidence like you now 💪🏻.
Don’t you see that he is abusive and that’s the reason she is behaving as she does? As someone who went through it and now helps others, it is apparent.
Hey Dave, would you consider doing a video covering some ISFJ’s actually worth looking up to? Growing up as an ISFJ (dude) I found it so difficult to find some good role models to help me grow personally. I went through life trying to emulate others based on bits of their personality that appealed to me. But that only left me feeling more confused and later with an identity crisis around college age. I’d gravitate a bit towards the ISTJ’s and ESTJ’s because of their Si demeanor but then found them too freaking anal and felt too constricted by them which turned me off. The feeler side of me would try and emulate musicians or actors that I felt a bit of a connection to, but most of what our culture promotes for feelers is all freaking xSFP’s. So I’d feel insufficient that I was much more reserved and that I didn’t have a personality compared to them. It wasn’t till as an adult I learned about personality types and it made sense why trying to emulate others always left me feeling confused and upset.
How do people want to control you? It looks to me like perceivers want full freedom in one aspect of human relations and full control in another. And all of them refuse to understand each other. EJ only demand to be always connected with others and work as one team, but otherwise are chill. And IJs are most chill, mostly just want to be left alone to do what they like.
@@jankom.7783 Directy the video they mention that blast last people tend not to take control and sometimes experience others as bossing them around all the time. In your example I relate to the IxxJ, but I was typed as an ExxP by Shan and Dave.
@@Lordofthefliess But how do people control you? For example, EJs are very tribe oriented. Telling them that they do not do enough to get along with people or are not a good team player or friend will make them wanting to prove that they are by doing what people want from them. This is how you control EJ. How do people control you?
@@jankom.7783 I don’t believe I understand your question. They tell me what they think I should be doing and I ignore them. I don’t mean manipulate, I mean in the video you see how the dude like “Here take the phone.” “Talk to the people about Jesus” or whatever. It’s giving me direction with weird conviction and getting mad when I wanna make my own decisions. 😆 My point is, I hate being told what to do and people see it as their job cause they see me as directionless.
Yep, I relate to this as an INFP, I also found realization in the clip of the point that by leaving a void, people then end up filling in that void. I often am what one would call a wallflower in social interactions/large groups of people, and it's always the ExxJ types that find me and want to direct me, kind of like Janko said: Exxjs want to be a team player. I can see how they may be observing me and thinking they want to make me feel included and feel as if I belong. The irony is that I feel less like I belong when I'm being driven into a center with a lot of stimulus and attention, my mind goes blank and I'm worse version of myself. I work best when I can be where there's a bit less stimulus and I can observe the most things - I am a great observer and like to contribute meaningfully to the team by saying the things no one notices or no one catches! It's hard to communicate that, hence the Blast-first, blast-last dynamics mentioned in the video.
I know this is all about type profiles but I draw the line for Benny Hinn et al as closely approximating to what one may call a 'morally sound' definition of, let's just say, a 'spiritually enlightened' human being. Everything the guy does and says is an abomination, an utter sacrilege!
B.Hinn may be a sham. I am sorry that this may be true. I never attended his meetings. But I know by experience that the Holy Spirit does gently wave his sweetness over one, so one slides down in joy to the floor. So many times, over many years. Just a touch on the head from my pastor was enough during his Christian house meetings. I refused to believe such a thing could be, until it happened to me. Supra-natural. Sometimes nothing occurred; that was fine with me. Health and Prosperity gospel preachers see the Bible through $$$ signs.Holy Trinity, Have mercy on their souls.
OSP might be right about his type, but I'm skeptical about his sub-type being Ni-Fi. I would probably argue Fi-Se sub-type. I know Ni-Fi and they don't behave like Benny does.
7:32 Shan doesn't give herself enough credit. I was impressed with her ability to communicate, starting with the earliest class videos.
She didn't slap him
She wanted to hold him closer to kiss him
And he changed his mind
He looks JUST. LIKE. DAVE. Wtf🤣🤣
Yeah Shan, you are doing great job. I watched the early classes, definitely you are like different person. As a fellow blast last, I hope I can have a confidence like you now 💪🏻.
🤣 oh my gosh! Thanks for the early morning laugh, you two!
The best thing about these videos is Dave and Shan comments and reactions
that’s literally the point of the video
I missed your outro videos
Don’t you see that he is abusive and that’s the reason she is behaving as she does? As someone who went through it and now helps others, it is apparent.
I see it and it made me feel very uncomfortable. Get her out of this relationship and his scams. She escaped once, but he brought her back. Darn.
Ikr, I was just thinking that she probably talks quietly/quickly because he's controlling the conversation and doesn't give her a chance to speak.
Have you guys ever been a Blast last De or known one?? 😂 that’s how we are, just…. let her be.
Could be the case, but don't be such a extraplating, conclusive ass, no one will believe you
New thumbnails look great
Hey Dave, would you consider doing a video covering some ISFJ’s actually worth looking up to? Growing up as an ISFJ (dude) I found it so difficult to find some good role models to help me grow personally. I went through life trying to emulate others based on bits of their personality that appealed to me. But that only left me feeling more confused and later with an identity crisis around college age. I’d gravitate a bit towards the ISTJ’s and ESTJ’s because of their Si demeanor but then found them too freaking anal and felt too constricted by them which turned me off. The feeler side of me would try and emulate musicians or actors that I felt a bit of a connection to, but most of what our culture promotes for feelers is all freaking xSFP’s. So I’d feel insufficient that I was much more reserved and that I didn’t have a personality compared to them. It wasn’t till as an adult I learned about personality types and it made sense why trying to emulate others always left me feeling confused and upset.
haha i thought i was the only one
YOU'RE HEALED!
Its so easy to think that Benny is ESTJ, but that makes sense, that's Ni control, and not Si control.
What are difference between Si control and Ni control
Also, it's Matt from IKEA 😂
It made my day meeting you!
#IKEAgang
You guys should do a review on UFC fighters Nick and Nate Diaz (the Diaz brothers)
😂😂😂
thank you for the new rabbit hole.
Gives a new definition to the word propheteer.
hilarious, all this witty banter of yours spiced up with dum**ss music clips. luvit!!!!!!!!
ExxP with blast last. It’s just hitting me that this is why people have the urge to control me all the time 😆😆😆
How do people want to control you?
It looks to me like perceivers want full freedom in one aspect of human relations and full control in another. And all of them refuse to understand each other.
EJ only demand to be always connected with others and work as one team, but otherwise are chill. And IJs are most chill, mostly just want to be left alone to do what they like.
@@jankom.7783 Directy the video they mention that blast last people tend not to take control and sometimes experience others as bossing them around all the time.
In your example I relate to the IxxJ, but I was typed as an ExxP by Shan and Dave.
@@Lordofthefliess But how do people control you? For example, EJs are very tribe oriented. Telling them that they do not do enough to get along with people or are not a good team player or friend will make them wanting to prove that they are by doing what people want from them. This is how you control EJ. How do people control you?
@@jankom.7783 I don’t believe I understand your question. They tell me what they think I should be doing and I ignore them. I don’t mean manipulate, I mean in the video you see how the dude like “Here take the phone.” “Talk to the people about Jesus” or whatever. It’s giving me direction with weird conviction and getting mad when I wanna make my own decisions. 😆
My point is, I hate being told what to do and people see it as their job cause they see me as directionless.
Yep, I relate to this as an INFP, I also found realization in the clip of the point that by leaving a void, people then end up filling in that void. I often am what one would call a wallflower in social interactions/large groups of people, and it's always the ExxJ types that find me and want to direct me, kind of like Janko said: Exxjs want to be a team player. I can see how they may be observing me and thinking they want to make me feel included and feel as if I belong. The irony is that I feel less like I belong when I'm being driven into a center with a lot of stimulus and attention, my mind goes blank and I'm worse version of myself. I work best when I can be where there's a bit less stimulus and I can observe the most things - I am a great observer and like to contribute meaningfully to the team by saying the things no one notices or no one catches! It's hard to communicate that, hence the Blast-first, blast-last dynamics mentioned in the video.
I know this is all about type profiles but I draw the line for Benny Hinn et al as closely approximating to what one may call a 'morally sound' definition of, let's just say, a 'spiritually enlightened' human being. Everything the guy does and says is an abomination, an utter sacrilege!
They remind me of Kim K AND Kanye. He was always making fun of her in some interviews.
Also for social types us #3s are underrepresented and everyone and their mom is all of a sudden a #2 please correct thnx
Yes, you are underrepresented, cry about it
I hate being an INTJ & seeing INTJ’s on video…
B.Hinn may be a sham. I am sorry that this may be true. I never attended his meetings. But I know by experience that the Holy Spirit does gently wave his sweetness over one, so one slides down in joy to the floor. So many times, over many years. Just a touch on the head from my pastor was enough during his Christian house meetings. I refused to believe such a thing could be, until it happened to me. Supra-natural. Sometimes nothing occurred; that was fine with me. Health and Prosperity gospel preachers see the Bible through $$$ signs.Holy Trinity, Have mercy on their souls.
The only thing I got from this video is that he looks like Dave, they both find him funny and he has INFJ tendencies. Right?
basically lmao
Benny is chiming in, not correcting.
Stop correcting me mom!
these two have clearly never experienced the Holy Spirit 😂 oh well, understandable. good insights to type anyways!
What's your enneagram? Both of you
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is a total ENTJ, but he is enforcing scripture for his own benefit rather than standing in personal moral commitment. Not a flipper.
First🔥
OSP might be right about his type, but I'm skeptical about his sub-type being Ni-Fi. I would probably argue Fi-Se sub-type. I know Ni-Fi and they don't behave like Benny does.