lol as an american i’m over here thinking shua looks very friendly and polite with his actions. so interesting how everything is different depending on perspective
Him doing that to same age people is fine but to older it's bit shocking bcs you aren't supposed to act friendly towards them atleast not at first meeting.
@@Vor567tez in America everyone treat everyone like equally like be it younger or older even the same age as their parents and call them by their name only people even are like that to their parents like scolding their parents to even while a child of 9 or 8 years old act like that but in asian countries it's not like that
@@Iiooo754I think it’s very dependent on how and what region of the U.S. you were raised. For example, I wouldn’t dare talk to someone older or higher ranked than me in casual way because of how I was raised and the region. My region is very respectful of elders and higher ranking people, you don’t call anyone by their first name it’s always last name with their title in front of their last name. You don’t talk casually toward them it’s always respectful language toward them since they are older or higher in ranking. We don’t take it to the extreme like in Asian culture where someone only year older than you automatically gets that level of respect, but we do take ranking and significant age difference seriously. My friends parents were always Mr and Mrs. when addressing them and it was always “yes ma’am” “no ma’am” or “no sir” “yes sir”. If someone talks to an elder or higher up by their first name then it’s seen as being very disrespectful and they will scold you for being using casual language toward them. Walking around in front of your boss with hands in your pockets could be taken as being disrespectful of the workplace and the boss because of how casual that action is perceived by the public. I’ve been to different regions in the U.S. where how I was raised is seen as rude or strange so it really varies from place to place on how the hierarchy system is established.
im also guessing it might be considered rude in korea to put your hand in your pocket when shaking someones hand, i think thats what they were talking at the end but also thats just my guess
But svt shared that in their trainee days there is no such age heirarchy. Even if you're older in age than the older trainees you have to respect them like a hobae to a sunbae.
I remember when predebut sebong tried to prank shua for not cleaning the dorm they even involved the manager but ended with dokyeom and vernon getting most scolded because shua always clean the dorm and this duo doesnt know the plans and got shocked when they knew it just a prank, especially dokyeom 😂
Honestly, I have new found respect for Joshua now. Imagine being a 16 year old kid and all you have known is suddenly being regarded as rude and if you have to adjust to living with 12 other teenage boys (oh Lord) he survived and thrived. ❤
Yeah. I am always thankful for seventeen including two english speakers and two chinese members. That way they are not alone. Imagine if vernon wasn't there. Joshua would have crumbled😢
@@annadang5811idk it's late but I think it's during i-land when arrived in 1st ep. they both bighit trainee and know each other but he still shocked when jay greeted him with a side hug😂
@@amethystsun3356 Jun mistaken Minghao as his old friend because he has similar name with him. To make it worse, he kinda forget how his looks, so when he met Minghao he forcefully remove his cap to see his face better ..and because of his braces, his spits fly on Minghao's face like a rain when he talk😭 He explained it on One Fine Day Akita (I think on the last episode)
one thing ive noticed with south korea is its literally unnecessarily different from the rest of us, they had different age systems which was completely unnecessary and having certain mbti can get you into certain jobs as koreans are crazy over mbti, they're way too strict imo
@@hatake.uchiha Omg really? It's crazy to me that they are so into mbti and take it so seriously xD Esp considering the fact that they mostly take those big5 type of tests and it is not about cognitive predisposition...
@@hatake.uchihaStop spreading false information 😭 Mbti is really trendy with koreans but the part about having certain mbti gets certain jobs is not true at all... mbti is just for fun
@@hatake.uchihaDid you not study cultural differences and globalization in school? Every country is different, why would you even say certain things are unnecessary as if you want them to change it just so it makes sense for Amerjcans
This is the proof that in Korean culture it's a big deal of how your greet them. For foreigns or korean who grown-up in other countries it is understandable why they greet like Joshua at first, but if you're born in Korea it's one of the basic lesson you must know😊😊😊
As a Malaysian, what Joshua did when he was first time came to Korea is not a big deal at all. In fact, it doesn't matter at all. Maybe because Malaysia has so many different cultures & beliefs and many tourists came to Malaysia too, so that's why we are more open-minded and mind our own business 😂 (but still, we will help if looks like someone needs our help or if they're asking for help) if Joshua do that in Malaysia, we're probably just thinking, "ah, maybe this is his culture back in his country" and let him do whatever he wants to do as long as he doesn't misbehave, being polite & respectful and follow the rules and laws in Malaysia. If he UNINTENTIONALLY cross the line (because of the culture differences), we will try to correct him politely and tell him that he shouldn't do this or that in Malaysia and what should he do instead. For someone like Joshua, he might even apologize for what he did and being understanding & respectful and try not to do the same things again in the future.
I'm Malaysian too and I agree with your statement. From my experience, Malaysians share common traits that we tend to be more respectful to our family elders like parents, uncles, aunties, grandparents, and maybe teachers. But if it's from the same generation, not so much. Nobody will throw a fit if you don't address them as "kak" or "abang". I have cousins who are 10+ years older but we have a very casual relationship. As a working adult now, we are more reserved than Westerners but I have never seen a foreigner being scolded for their way of interacting.
I'm sure it's related to Confucianism which had quite a big role in East asian countries like China, Japan. Also given that honorifics in Japanese, Korean language are very hard to grasp especially for foreigners, It's quite understandable the way people react on comments lol. It's mostly East asian countries where being respectful to older people is cultural norm.
As a singaporean, shua’s actions are VERY normal. I’m a teenager and normally if a guy greets us like this, we feel like oh he’s kind and outgoing. So I can really imagine why he didn’t know HAHHAHHA I guess I wouldn’t survive there either. But I get why the others were shocked by it. We all have a culture and norm so it’s only normal to not know certain things
culture shock is so interesting. as a canadian i can see why it might be seen as a little disrespectful, hand in the pockets and such, and i asked my american friend and they said it seems super polite. funny!
Some of the comments are coming off a bit rude. Just because western countries aren’t so strict with manners that doesn’t mean you get to criticise how other cultures & places do things. As someone born and raised in a western country, but being from an Asian country, these things aren’t “excessive” for us like how you guys view it. In fact, I much prefer the way we treat others (especially elders) with respect. It helps us maintain a good and humble personality, that I unfortunately see is lacking these days. Of course, it can go too far with certain things - like when status determines your place in society. I don’t think that’s right obviously. But the general way we greet and respect others is something I prefer & like about the way I was raised. That’s just my opinion.
I really like the culture of respect in Korea, they are really polite.Things like using both hands when you give something to someone, or respecting elders, honor guests, seem elegant and nice.This feels akin to Korea, and I think most Asian cultures are a little similar in this respect. Unlike the West.
But I don't think being scolded for that is the right thing. He from outside Korea. So Korean should consider his culture. Korean should teach him first for him to know about Korean's culture. It will be the other story if he still do that after being teach.
Trainees are usually handled ruthlessly to survive as an idol after debut :,) sadly they just need to endure and cant have much of their own space or comfort
I think if he wasn’t Korean American but of another nationality, they would have been a bit more understanding. I’m not saying I don’t believe Joshua since I have similar experiences when I go to India to visit family too, but since he has Korean parents and went to a Korean church, they would have some expectations that he would know. Seeing how some other Indians my age act, I wouldn’t be surprised either since they know nothing about their culture and etiquette either. My parents taught me so I was different.
I think its more down to his ethnicity. He is korean descendants right? So, the assumption is even if he is born outside Korea, he should know the basic korean culture especially the bows and giving respect
I think it also comes down to who the other person is.. coz I know Henry also did the same (he's actually waaay more casual) to LSM when he first came to SM, but LSM is just cool with it, instead LSM told the managers to let him learn the proper etiquette and manners (w/c is the first things SM trainees learn)... but that is also because LSM used to live in the U.S in college, and maybe the VP that Shua is talking didn't have that experience...
I don't agree. If you move to another country you should learn and adapt to their ways. Getting scolded is maybe a bit too far because I think you should have understanding and patience for others who are still learning the correct manners.
Watching this after I became a fan of svt & here I am falling in love all over again with Jaejoong😆 used to like him when he was hero of tvxq then fell in love with actor jaejoong.. his visuals are still out of this world.. he is aging like fine wine
technically in a professional setting having your hand in your pocket would be a bit disrespectful in America too, meeting new people like friends no but meeting your new boss its unprofessional to have your hand in your pocket
im also from an asian country and i can relate to this especially at school and workplace seniority and age patriarchy is a big thing in asian countries i must say but korean took it to the next level like everything involves age patriarchy or status culture
It also disrespectful to greet elderly people like that in my country and you have to remove whatever you’re wearing on your head before you greet them. 🇬🇭❤️
I wonder what the rules for people in a wheelchair are, like do we have to bow, many can't even lean forward due to lack of trunk control, although I least you'll never have to deal our hand in our pocket. But personally I almost constantly have a hand on or near my hip, which I know can be between sassy and disrespectful to them. Does anyone know in general?
But that is not totally rude... Although it would be if he even comes to my country 😬 I didn't even use honorifics with elders up until teen. And I didn't get the importance of it if I was showing respect through actions. But that changed soon lol. I still prefer not using honorifics with my family and relatives even if they're older cuz that just feels... Distant?
The birth of the culture shock. 😭💀
Your pfp I-
@@debadritachakraborty8226- and what is your problem with that? 💀
@@JLDCThah that's a cute pfp
You did not just morphed yourself into Mother’s SNTV album art 😭💜😭💜😭
@@armannmohd- my mutuals did the same, so I joined in. 😭
not to mention he had to witness all that chaos including seungkwan high kicking dk on his first day in the green room 😂
Where can I watch that?
@@vatsalajayaraman6788on seventeens channel.. U can watch them in 10yrs ago videos
Try searching Joshua first day as a trainee. There are clips
And then he didn’t know what to do so he just clapped😂😂
@@Who1206😂😂😂😂
lol as an american i’m over here thinking shua looks very friendly and polite with his actions. so interesting how everything is different depending on perspective
i also think he's really polite and try to be friendly
Him doing that to same age people is fine but to older it's bit shocking bcs you aren't supposed to act friendly towards them atleast not at first meeting.
@@Vor567tez in America everyone treat everyone like equally like be it younger or older even the same age as their parents and call them by their name only people even are like that to their parents like scolding their parents to even while a child of 9 or 8 years old act like that but in asian countries it's not like that
@@Iiooo754I think it’s very dependent on how and what region of the U.S. you were raised. For example, I wouldn’t dare talk to someone older or higher ranked than me in casual way because of how I was raised and the region. My region is very respectful of elders and higher ranking people, you don’t call anyone by their first name it’s always last name with their title in front of their last name. You don’t talk casually toward them it’s always respectful language toward them since they are older or higher in ranking. We don’t take it to the extreme like in Asian culture where someone only year older than you automatically gets that level of respect, but we do take ranking and significant age difference seriously. My friends parents were always Mr and Mrs. when addressing them and it was always “yes ma’am” “no ma’am” or “no sir” “yes sir”. If someone talks to an elder or higher up by their first name then it’s seen as being very disrespectful and they will scold you for being using casual language toward them. Walking around in front of your boss with hands in your pockets could be taken as being disrespectful of the workplace and the boss because of how casual that action is perceived by the public. I’ve been to different regions in the U.S. where how I was raised is seen as rude or strange so it really varies from place to place on how the hierarchy system is established.
im also guessing it might be considered rude in korea to put your hand in your pocket when shaking someones hand, i think thats what they were talking at the end but also thats just my guess
I can imagine Joshua being like this though. And I felt the secondhand embarrassment from the screen 😭😭😭
At least he's one of the older members if it was Dino from states he wouldn't survive
Dino from USA stop i choked 😭😭🤣
bruh imagine it HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, I'm dying
"LoOk aT mY fEeT."
Hahahhahahahahaha lol....
But svt shared that in their trainee days there is no such age heirarchy. Even if you're older in age than the older trainees you have to respect them like a hobae to a sunbae.
Shua be like: bro, the embarrassment 😆🤦♂️
He was an american boy after all
The cultural difference is so funny yet so embarrassing🤣❤️
I remember when predebut sebong tried to prank shua for not cleaning the dorm they even involved the manager but ended with dokyeom and vernon getting most scolded because shua always clean the dorm and this duo doesnt know the plans and got shocked when they knew it just a prank, especially dokyeom 😂
where can i watch this hahahahahahahahahahaha
omg where can i see this clip
Who’s sebong
@@ariannasmith6491seventeen nickname in sk cmiiw
@@ariannasmith6491'sebong' is from Seventeen's korean pronunciation 'sebuntin', sebun turned to sebong like a nickname
No wonder he became the gentleman
😂😂😂
He always was gentleman that why he is my bias❤❤
The way Hoshi puts on an accent to say hi 😂
Never thought I would fall for Hoshi saying "Hi"
i fall for everything he does
Honestly, I have new found respect for Joshua now. Imagine being a 16 year old kid and all you have known is suddenly being regarded as rude and if you have to adjust to living with 12 other teenage boys (oh Lord) he survived and thrived. ❤
Yeah. I am always thankful for seventeen including two english speakers and two chinese members. That way they are not alone. Imagine if vernon wasn't there. Joshua would have crumbled😢
@@shrutighosh8282 HONESTLY
Creo que hubiera sido más abierto, cuando está con él lo veo muy tímido
Good thing he is in the one of yhe oldest otherwise he would have been doomed
Jay🤝Shua; Heesung🤝Hoshi
HELP
Omg, is there a similar Enha clip? If so, I need to see it!
@@annadang5811idk it's late but I think it's during i-land when arrived in 1st ep. they both bighit trainee and know each other but he still shocked when jay greeted him with a side hug😂
Do you guys remeber when he was asked what was the first korean word he learned he said 'Amen' this guy is so hilarious
Okayyy but joshua’s hair tho…. wtf he looks so good 😩💓
he just wanna be friendly😂 at least his experience wasn't as bad as Jun's first meeting with Minghao🤣🤣
Why, what happened?
@@amethystsun3356 Jun mistaken Minghao as his old friend because he has similar name with him. To make it worse, he kinda forget how his looks, so when he met Minghao he forcefully remove his cap to see his face better ..and because of his braces, his spits fly on Minghao's face like a rain when he talk😭
He explained it on One Fine Day Akita (I think on the last episode)
@@etherLune Lol! That's embarrassing, The8 must be shocked 🤣. Thank you so much for explaining. 🥰
Or how soonyoung mistaken jihoon as a girl 😀
@@Hellokitty_391 wait what I didn tknow this one
He remind me Felix.. SKZ's members also said that Felix was like this on his first day as a trainee😂😂😂
Hoshi's 'HI' was so cute!
In korea it is considered ill-mannered to have hands in the pocket but not bumping into people and not saying sorry 😮
The huge cultural shocks and the intense training,It must have been really hard for him tho!! ☹️
When Shua needs to tell a story, he always act it out. 😂
Korea is so different in manners and etiquettes... don't know how to describe their mindset !
one thing ive noticed with south korea is its literally unnecessarily different from the rest of us, they had different age systems which was completely unnecessary and having certain mbti can get you into certain jobs as koreans are crazy over mbti, they're way too strict imo
@@hatake.uchiha Omg really? It's crazy to me that they are so into mbti and take it so seriously xD
Esp considering the fact that they mostly take those big5 type of tests and it is not about cognitive predisposition...
@@hatake.uchihaStop spreading false information 😭 Mbti is really trendy with koreans but the part about having certain mbti gets certain jobs is not true at all... mbti is just for fun
@@hatake.uchihaDid you not study cultural differences and globalization in school? Every country is different, why would you even say certain things are unnecessary as if you want them to change it just so it makes sense for Amerjcans
I’m a new carat..but I never knew Joshua is older than hoshi 😭
Joshua’s face is too cute I thought he was in the maknae line, same with jun 😵💫
Joshua’s shorts are so cute omg
I am so thankful that all of them in svt especially Shua. I can't imagine SVT without him 😢
That 'Hi' sounds like JOSHUA himself tho
His eyes about to jump out when he said, "I was scolded to put the hands in my pocket"😂
But shua's shorts is damn cute on him 🤧
Im distracted by Joshua's shorts.. they look cute and comfy.. like a beach wear
This is the proof that in Korean culture it's a big deal of how your greet them.
For foreigns or korean who grown-up in other countries it is understandable why they greet like Joshua at first, but if you're born in Korea it's one of the basic lesson you must know😊😊😊
yeah bcz of that even bangchan who isnt a korean but live in korean for such a long time quite suprise when some rookie didnt do this custom again
Actually this type ot greeting is normal on most Asian countries, we used to learn how to bow 90 degrees in school's assembly.
Omg i still remember that day Shua was introduced to the green practice room 😅😅
Ahhh Shua.... I can understand shua being that way.....
He is an American boy ❤❤❤❤
As a Malaysian, what Joshua did when he was first time came to Korea is not a big deal at all. In fact, it doesn't matter at all. Maybe because Malaysia has so many different cultures & beliefs and many tourists came to Malaysia too, so that's why we are more open-minded and mind our own business 😂 (but still, we will help if looks like someone needs our help or if they're asking for help) if Joshua do that in Malaysia, we're probably just thinking, "ah, maybe this is his culture back in his country" and let him do whatever he wants to do as long as he doesn't misbehave, being polite & respectful and follow the rules and laws in Malaysia. If he UNINTENTIONALLY cross the line (because of the culture differences), we will try to correct him politely and tell him that he shouldn't do this or that in Malaysia and what should he do instead. For someone like Joshua, he might even apologize for what he did and being understanding & respectful and try not to do the same things again in the future.
I'm Malaysian too and I agree with your statement. From my experience, Malaysians share common traits that we tend to be more respectful to our family elders like parents, uncles, aunties, grandparents, and maybe teachers. But if it's from the same generation, not so much. Nobody will throw a fit if you don't address them as "kak" or "abang". I have cousins who are 10+ years older but we have a very casual relationship.
As a working adult now, we are more reserved than Westerners but I have never seen a foreigner being scolded for their way of interacting.
I'm sure it's related to Confucianism which had quite a big role in East asian countries like China, Japan. Also given that honorifics in Japanese, Korean language are very hard to grasp especially for foreigners, It's quite understandable the way people react on comments lol. It's mostly East asian countries where being respectful to older people is cultural norm.
Shua on his first day:Did i really chose this profession to see all these chaos everyday?😭😆(Now he's the craziest)😭😆❤
but the thing is he had to endured all of that hoshi aegyo when he just became new trainee 😭
Hoshi's hi.. ❤❤❤
He brought the american style in korea not knowing its difference poor kid
But as time goes by hes learned his lesson
Haha
Hoshi is so funny😭😭😭
As a singaporean, shua’s actions are VERY normal. I’m a teenager and normally if a guy greets us like this, we feel like oh he’s kind and outgoing. So I can really imagine why he didn’t know HAHHAHHA I guess I wouldn’t survive there either. But I get why the others were shocked by it. We all have a culture and norm so it’s only normal to not know certain things
Poor shua, how would he know that was disrespectful back then
culture shock is so interesting. as a canadian i can see why it might be seen as a little disrespectful, hand in the pockets and such, and i asked my american friend and they said it seems super polite. funny!
Why does this remind me of hyunjin talking about Felix's first impression 😂😂
Shua, our American IT Boy 😍
if he said hi like that to me I would've fainted..lolzz
The first impression was hilarious😂❤
Some of the comments are coming off a bit rude. Just because western countries aren’t so strict with manners that doesn’t mean you get to criticise how other cultures & places do things.
As someone born and raised in a western country, but being from an Asian country, these things aren’t “excessive” for us like how you guys view it. In fact, I much prefer the way we treat others (especially elders) with respect. It helps us maintain a good and humble personality, that I unfortunately see is lacking these days.
Of course, it can go too far with certain things - like when status determines your place in society. I don’t think that’s right obviously. But the general way we greet and respect others is something I prefer & like about the way I was raised. That’s just my opinion.
This reminds me of american Jay from Heesungs Iland era.😂
as an elfcarat, i can't stop compare between the 2 groups and how similar they are 😂
I really like the culture of respect in Korea, they are really polite.Things like using both hands when you give something to someone, or respecting elders, honor guests, seem elegant and nice.This feels akin to Korea, and I think most Asian cultures are a little similar in this respect. Unlike the West.
His shorts 😂😂😂
Какой стилист напялил ему эти шортики😂 Хотя его красоту ничем не испортить😂
He's never been to Korea until he accepted as trainee.. 😅 i can imagine the culture shock..
Jay🤝Joshua
Me gustó el video los quiero chicos se ven guapísimos cuídense mucho bebés ❤️❤️👍😘🙆♀️
But I don't think being scolded for that is the right thing. He from outside Korea. So Korean should consider his culture. Korean should teach him first for him to know about Korean's culture. It will be the other story if he still do that after being teach.
Trainees are usually handled ruthlessly to survive as an idol after debut :,) sadly they just need to endure and cant have much of their own space or comfort
I think if he wasn’t Korean American but of another nationality, they would have been a bit more understanding. I’m not saying I don’t believe Joshua since I have similar experiences when I go to India to visit family too, but since he has Korean parents and went to a Korean church, they would have some expectations that he would know. Seeing how some other Indians my age act, I wouldn’t be surprised either since they know nothing about their culture and etiquette either. My parents taught me so I was different.
I think its more down to his ethnicity. He is korean descendants right? So, the assumption is even if he is born outside Korea, he should know the basic korean culture especially the bows and giving respect
I think it also comes down to who the other person is.. coz I know Henry also did the same (he's actually waaay more casual) to LSM when he first came to SM, but LSM is just cool with it, instead LSM told the managers to let him learn the proper etiquette and manners (w/c is the first things SM trainees learn)... but that is also because LSM used to live in the U.S in college, and maybe the VP that Shua is talking didn't have that experience...
I don't agree. If you move to another country you should learn and adapt to their ways. Getting scolded is maybe a bit too far because I think you should have understanding and patience for others who are still learning the correct manners.
This video is really funny, but I can't imagine how much pressure he must have been under.😢
I love him so much 😂😭
I can't even imagine if it was dino who was from US😅
Ok but his shorts looks so funny 😂😂
I can see the similarity with exaggefated hi from our precious JAY from ENhyphen😝
okay but the mcs laugh 💀💀
Shua so cuuutte in those shorties
Alert to Carats!! If you see any hateful comments to Shua or Miyoung because of the dating rumors, remember to report them!
Watching this after I became a fan of svt & here I am falling in love all over again with Jaejoong😆 used to like him when he was hero of tvxq then fell in love with actor jaejoong.. his visuals are still out of this world.. he is aging like fine wine
that was really ill-manered 😂😂😂
The prank they did on him (on 17TV) still haunts me til this day 😭😭😭
But Shuaz shorts 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It must've been so hard for Joshua
Should talk about the seagull meat that jeonghan said to him 😭
Same goes with Jay (ENHYPEN) 😂
technically in a professional setting having your hand in your pocket would be a bit disrespectful in America too, meeting new people like friends no but meeting your new boss its unprofessional to have your hand in your pocket
Poor Joshi 😂😂
Lmao 🤣
I mean who can blame shua when there's cultural difference between the US and sk
im also from an asian country and i can relate to this especially at school and workplace seniority and age patriarchy is a big thing in asian countries i must say but korean took it to the next level like everything involves age patriarchy or status culture
Bro if i was like that in the first meeting i would be beaten up by my mom
that jae suk laugh😂
Scolding someone for violating a rule they didn’t know about is so weird tho😭😭 like I get why but still odd
Witnessing them all... And wonwoo biting Vernon... Dang the culture shock
Where as in the states if you have your hands in your pockets you’re considered a pervert
Ohh my poor Shua
Despite the cultural differences Shua still made it and is a gentleman of the group..but it would have been tough
Pls somebody tell me where can ı fınd full video?
😂😂😂
شوا من زمان صايره وياه طلع ايدك من جيبك😂😂😂
Where can I watch the full video?
What is the name of this show??
It also disrespectful to greet elderly people like that in my country and you have to remove whatever you’re wearing on your head before you greet them. 🇬🇭❤️
😆
Where can i watch this can anyone sent me the link please...
Thank u❤
Kindly search pinggyego yoo jaesuk.. There are 2 episodes
😂in india also keeping hands in pocket is considered disrespectful
Some of the asian things i guess😂😂😂😂😂
What's the show name?? Where can I watch this????
search pinggyego yoo jaesuk, there are 2eps
hii uhm where can i watch this?😅
where can i watch? plz send me link :))
I wonder what the rules for people in a wheelchair are, like do we have to bow, many can't even lean forward due to lack of trunk control, although I least you'll never have to deal our hand in our pocket. But personally I almost constantly have a hand on or near my hip, which I know can be between sassy and disrespectful to them. Does anyone know in general?
they kinda had to bow, u know u r bowing but u cna just sit in ur wheelchair, just half of ur body do the bow
i wanna watch the full ep, source please??? Thanks in advance.
What show is this pls
Tem que ser mas prático nas palavras, no🇧🇷 é olá! 😂
But that is not totally rude... Although it would be if he even comes to my country 😬 I didn't even use honorifics with elders up until teen. And I didn't get the importance of it if I was showing respect through actions. But that changed soon lol. I still prefer not using honorifics with my family and relatives even if they're older cuz that just feels... Distant?