Masculine Men Hate 50 50 Relationships (age gap relationships)

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  • @Theuniverseguru
    @Theuniverseguru  3 роки тому +24

    Thank you everyone for joining us on this fun livestream!!
    Here is Irfan's course: bit.ly/2zPc8Nj

    • @JulietaGeba
      @JulietaGeba 3 роки тому +2

      I would love for you to put subtitles in Spanish, so that you could reach out to other women with this SO valuable information. 💚💚💚🌼

    • @saludyvidaintegrales7982
      @saludyvidaintegrales7982 3 роки тому +3

      You look so inloved of your husband and that you admire him. Thanks for letting us seeing that interaction between you

    • @saludyvidaintegrales7982
      @saludyvidaintegrales7982 3 роки тому +1

      Wonderful knowledge. Thanks a lot

  • @shaunaf2811
    @shaunaf2811 3 роки тому +382

    Mina is so feminine already but I love observing her with her husband... the way she looks at him, the smiles, the softer voice, no interrupting him as he speaks. I love to see it 😍

    • @ariesmoonshyne
      @ariesmoonshyne 3 роки тому +18

      Yes! It is beautiful ❤️ Such a great experience to see Mina’s teachings in action! Full embodiment goals!!

    • @abianapatton-toure8545
      @abianapatton-toure8545 2 роки тому +6

      It’s so refreshing to see a woman not talking over her man!!! Omg. The respect!

    • @パネラエリー
      @パネラエリー Рік тому

    • @evaiskra11
      @evaiskra11 Рік тому +3

      Exactly! I just fell in live in her looking at him 😅 no wonder that they love each other so much.❤ Blessings for You all ❤

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +30

    I love how Irfan said “women complaining and defining themselves by cooking and cleaning - that is undermining the feminine. You bring much more than that “ ✨

  • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
    @AmaLoveGoddessTV 3 роки тому +234

    I'm 34 and the 47 year old guy I just met says that the man should take care of it all even if you have your own bag🥰

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +21

    “A guy’s providing has to be tangible, whereas a woman’s providing is intangible . It’s ingrained in their DNA“. Love that Irfan. Clear and to the point. 🎉

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +9

    “The guy is wired to provide, he’s got it, you are the enabler by appreciating him.” 👌🏾

  • @KristLove
    @KristLove 3 роки тому +143

    Irfan is back by popular demand!!! Thank you for joining us and giving Mina the environment to flourish. I love the masculine and feminine dynamic between you both as a couple 🥰

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +6

    Winning arguments is not the point, solving problems is the point. 👌🏾

  • @prigug1111
    @prigug1111 3 роки тому +92

    I’m so impressed with Irfan. His insight about tangible and intangible value is so true! Literally opened up a new dimension for me. Thank you Mina for bringing him!

  • @MissJ1101
    @MissJ1101 3 роки тому +43

    My friend told me about your channel. Here and there I get to see some videos. The information has been Golden for me. Unfortunately, I am very masculine and my husband is feminine. However, financially we used to do 50/50 and since I watched your videos it’s more 90/10. He also takes care if the house and landscaping and I no longer help. I’ve been taking care of myself a lot more and spending on me. Where as before it was for us and the kids. Love to self care, look great and feel great.
    Still working on toning down my attitude and working on my tone of voice. Thank you!

  • @komalkoul6486
    @komalkoul6486 3 роки тому +21

    I am fathomed and In an awe of how lucky Mina has been on scoring this man. He literally believes in everything he utters. Having that healthy dialogue. Can totally see Mina respect for her husband in her eyes. It’s difficult to find such men and who want to do their part while heartedly 💕. More power to U both

  • @nonjabulokhowa1582
    @nonjabulokhowa1582 Рік тому +4

    I’m watching this in 2023,and I am blown away by the gems and wisdom shared here!Thank you so much❤️🙌🏾

  • @rsamuels6969
    @rsamuels6969 3 роки тому +27

    I’m 12 minutes in and my mouth is hanging open. Such gold from your husband- it’s making me see this whole thing of dating differently! I will watch your rotational dating video next and I actually will try online dating again (after swearing it off) but with older age range

  • @ashleymuse4405
    @ashleymuse4405 3 роки тому +18

    Correlation is not causation. What a great reminder to question those belief systems and assumptions!

  • @lindatait4019
    @lindatait4019 3 роки тому +9

    Watching this I realize that I never had access to a healthy man mindset. Thanks for sharing🙏

  • @AizaV333
    @AizaV333 3 роки тому +34

    Your husband is so appreciated. Thank you for bringing him on

  • @annstewart4542
    @annstewart4542 3 роки тому +41

    OMG! What an intelligent and interesting male perspective. The energy in a relationship between a man and woman is what sustains it. Ty.

  • @sonaturallygwen
    @sonaturallygwen 3 роки тому +79

    I’m so happy to have caught this live! I was happy to hear perspectives from a healthy masculine man! Thank you for this talk 😊

    • @bjoshawty
      @bjoshawty 3 роки тому +6

      Key word: Healthy masculine. Wonderful example 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @dreamofjayda5268
    @dreamofjayda5268 Рік тому +1

    The Feminine energy has SKY ROCKETED & AMPLIFIED with him being there....lOOK AT YOUUUU YAAASSSSSS Mina girl

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +5

    “Provide a container of appreciation for the container (masculine) “

  • @EvelynDHaene
    @EvelynDHaene 3 роки тому +21

    I literally was drawn to you Mina 10yrs ago? Because of how you interacted with your husband when he came live with you and that changed my life and the way I spoke with my husband from there. Love you babe and I’m your biggest supporter

  • @morganalexis6147
    @morganalexis6147 3 роки тому +18

    It's so attractive to hear him speak 😊 He's so intelligent 💗

  • @shireensaroea946
    @shireensaroea946 3 роки тому +9

    His maturity is outstanding.

  • @jaimarie3481
    @jaimarie3481 3 роки тому +33

    Your husband is absolutely wonderful ❤ You two make a great team! I love how you look at him.. nothing but love in your eyes.

  • @aminaonozasimomoh8332
    @aminaonozasimomoh8332 2 роки тому +8

    Your husband is so wise. Thank you both so much. That fact of what the woman brings is not tangible is gold!

  • @ariesmoonshyne
    @ariesmoonshyne 3 роки тому +46

    Love this ❤️ I am beginning to understand (by observing your dynamic) how much a masculine man enjoys being heard, and appreciated for his wisdom, and seeing how Irfan was proud to hear the feedback after speaking - was so sweet!
    You two are the model I’ve needed ❤️ Thank you!

  • @tahneemickelson4222
    @tahneemickelson4222 3 роки тому +28

    Your husband helps me relate to the masculine man in my life and understand him better. I like the energy you both bring to these talks. Thank you both! ❤

  • @pla4825
    @pla4825 2 місяці тому +2

    I really enjoy y’all advice 😊

  • @goldenagestreams
    @goldenagestreams 3 роки тому +44

    Ahhh hi Mina! I found your channel through one of my clients a few weeks ago and I am in love!!! It is sooooo lovely to see another brown woman teaching energetics! Thank you for showing up. ❤
    Also, I just wanted to say... I am finding it soooo healing to witness Irfan so deeply embodied in the Sacred Masculine.
    I'm of Pakistani descent but grew up in Canada. Pretty much every single brown man in my close family has been embodying the Wounded Masculine and as a result, causing trauma upon me and others. Watching this video is opening up my heart is so many ways. Thank you to you both! 😍🌟

  • @self-love6065
    @self-love6065 3 роки тому +12

    This is gold. Masculine guy will see the feminine value! Bingo!!!

  • @lobkelaar8788
    @lobkelaar8788 2 роки тому +4

    Your man is amazing! Handsome too but indeed so masculine and you both are so humble beautiful people. We need more men like yours hihi Thank you

  • @ashtag89
    @ashtag89 3 роки тому +21

    Irfan reminds me of my dad and I feel so much father energy and it s healing. With his intelligence and your energy mina... I see a "Mina Irfan foundation " with you both travelling around the world healing people and their world. I bet this will happen. I'm going to be seeing it!!! Yayyy

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +3

    “A lot of women interfere with the polarity by picking up the masculine tasks instead of simply appreciating what he is already doing so that he wants to do more “

  • @walkingwithbenedict
    @walkingwithbenedict 3 роки тому +17

    my husband is the financial free spirit and i am the saver - we been together 30 years but lots of challenges

    • @janefromthecountry1820
      @janefromthecountry1820 2 роки тому +1

      My spouse is not a free spirit and neither am I. We are debt free except home- down to $49,000 mortgage. I enjoy safety with money. My brother in law was free spirit. Marriage ended after ten years. It was a struggle. I could see it from the beginning of the marriage.Erfin is a wonderful Captain. Where is Irfin’s course?

  • @anusha7536
    @anusha7536 3 роки тому +10

    What a beautiful couple! I love the chemistry between the both of you.

  • @annejustice6725
    @annejustice6725 3 роки тому +45

    I would love, love a video from Irfan about raising boys as a single mom. I stay in my feminine energy with him and don't emasculate him ever and talk to him about family values and what is expected from a husband and father. He is 14.

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +1

    “Often basic requirements are not there so we try to mask with delighters”
    This mirrors Mina’s recent teaching.
    We are overlooking certain men when we are dating because we have become fixated on delighters rather than basic requirements. 👌🏾☝🏾

  • @TheMercilina
    @TheMercilina 3 роки тому +12

    Irfan is so intelligent and brilliant. Every word that came out of his mouth in this video is pure gold and should be revisited over and over again. Thank you so much ✨✨✨

  • @IntentionalCreativityCoach
    @IntentionalCreativityCoach 2 роки тому +7

    Love your husbands views esp about the value women bring. Love the concept of playing in same team and you can maintain the polarity while negotiating gender roles from love and conscious choice

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +1

    “The journey is all we have”
    I would love to hear Irfan compose a whole speech - Ted talk 🙌🏾

  • @indigoGoddess7
    @indigoGoddess7 3 роки тому +15

    Thank you so much for this video. Thank you Irfan for attending, I appreciate your time!
    Between you and three other women on UA-cam have seriously helped me with meeting masculine men! 💋🥳

    • @ladyesha
      @ladyesha 3 роки тому +1

      How and where are you meeting them currently? ❤️

  • @jaquelinealvarez173
    @jaquelinealvarez173 3 роки тому +24

    You’re such a beautiful empowering and inspiring couple! Thank you so much for all you do! So much to learn 😉😃

  • @GlowGlam-g5t
    @GlowGlam-g5t Рік тому +1

    You guys are so inspiring, I am so lucky to learn from you, thank you so much mina for getting ur man to do this. He is so conscious so perfect ly masculine. God bless your family. Lot's of love . I really enjoy seeing you especially together online. We need man like irfan more huge respect for him and lot's of love for you mina.

  • @crystalb2222
    @crystalb2222 3 роки тому +10

    I feel like you described my relationship as not working...
    My husband is the free spirit but I do find my free spirited husband is exactly what I need because I am so much of a saver I would not spend on things that make our home more of a home without that spirit. :)
    It is always like he says "it's ok we can afford it...do the thing..."

  • @asha4189
    @asha4189 2 роки тому +2

    I love what he said about arguments! You can be right, but lose someone you love. It’s not him vs. me... it’s us vs. the problem

  • @Wi.Ni.
    @Wi.Ni. 3 роки тому +4

    Wow, clear communication is so soothing 💖

  • @redroselace9545
    @redroselace9545 3 роки тому +4

    THIS IS BEST MORE OF IRFAN PLS SO HELPFUL . Love from a man's side it really does sit in brain better thank u Mina

  • @ichefz
    @ichefz 3 роки тому +15

    Mature, wise, cute couple.

  • @BonitaLiving
    @BonitaLiving 3 роки тому +11

    Dangit, I missed the live!
    We appreciate your husband's time ✒️

  • @maestralive3493
    @maestralive3493 3 місяці тому

    [My trauma] was prepared not to like him but I LOVE him and see why you both fell in love. Beautiful to see you both

  • @pja9142
    @pja9142 3 роки тому +8

    What a good man. Thank you for the example ✨🙏🌺

  • @davinasway
    @davinasway 3 роки тому +17

    Thank you for this video, we appreciate your husband perspective 🙏🏾

  • @brianaprice2416
    @brianaprice2416 3 роки тому +5

    His insight is amazing! He really broke this down in a way I’ve never heard before. I appreciate this so much

  • @Bellafiredance
    @Bellafiredance 3 роки тому +4

    Wow. Your husband has given us deeep insights. Thnk uuu

  • @lenahuerta100
    @lenahuerta100 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you for sharing all with us, we all need more masculine figures in our life

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +2

    Basic requirement
    Satisfier
    Delighter
    When you want something, consider this process .
    Irfan’s analogies in this video are hilarious 😂

  • @AlexisSiriani
    @AlexisSiriani 10 місяців тому

    Love this 50/50 description and the explanation of tangible and intangible assets that both bring to the table. Thank you.

  • @jenheartbeawesome
    @jenheartbeawesome 3 роки тому +7

    Loved basic requirements, satisfier and delighter very insightful

  • @deep3587
    @deep3587 3 роки тому +7

    I missed the live but i am watching replay and loving it😍😍😍😍😍
    U guys are gems

  • @anamacklis2355
    @anamacklis2355 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful couple, I can feel the awesome vibes

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому

    He appreciates energy of appreciation, if anything is missing , you will start arguing about something else that is unrelated.

  • @zodienani9147
    @zodienani9147 3 роки тому +2

    I just had to subscribe.
    I'm learning so much and my energy is already changing.

  • @jaquelinealvarez173
    @jaquelinealvarez173 3 роки тому +5

    You are both a delight to watch! Thanks for being 🙏😉

  • @Princessm2025
    @Princessm2025 3 роки тому +7

    Love seeing examples of conscience healthy masculine men ☺️ love the way that Mina looks so happy and feminine with him! Thanks for sharing you guys ❤️

  • @sum9246
    @sum9246 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you very much dear Mina🌹🤗! ... It’s so great that your husband share this knowledge too

  • @Alike.NoOther
    @Alike.NoOther 2 роки тому

    👏🏽👏🏽 KANO - satisfier, need, delighter. Got it. Makes soooooo much sense.

  • @diplomat2623
    @diplomat2623 3 роки тому +4

    Omg her voice is so girlie around him!!!

  • @excellexcell6827
    @excellexcell6827 3 роки тому +3

    This man is a genius

  • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
    @gabrielamartiniuc6322 3 місяці тому

    I’m such an enabler of a provider ❤

  • @druth8803
    @druth8803 3 роки тому +3

    He's very mature and wise

  • @Alike.NoOther
    @Alike.NoOther 2 роки тому

    Thanks!

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому

    He needs an enabler to continue to do what is already ingrained, he doesn’t need your help 👊🏾👌🏾

  • @Hpe4ch
    @Hpe4ch 3 роки тому +10

    I'm curious about what you think about marrying someone with the energy of someone who is older and much more mature. As sometimes even though someone is older, they can still be immature.

  • @projectsoar1
    @projectsoar1 3 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed this discussion. Beautiful couple & love your perspective.

  • @Bellafiredance
    @Bellafiredance 3 роки тому +8

    I want to find my masculine provider I want him to find me actually even though I provide for myself and I have lived alone for so long raised my child on my own I still crave what I deserve and that is a man to provide and care for me and exchange for my feminine energy

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому

    “That was them and this is me “ repeat

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому

    He has to feel the appreciation of the container to be able to bring in the provision - important 👍🏾

  • @sarahs5575
    @sarahs5575 3 роки тому +2

    Your husband is so wise!

  • @lachocovasty6925
    @lachocovasty6925 3 роки тому +1

    I love the fact that, her husband speaks the same way she does 🥰🥰🥰.

  • @Mistysfedora
    @Mistysfedora 3 роки тому +3

    @39:00 yes love is a decision and is an action

  • @zakiaikram4379
    @zakiaikram4379 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks Mina.

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому

    “The roof was this colour and look
    What happened to my leg” 😂🤣

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому

    “Guys love to come from a position of strength not weakness, so emphasise his strength in what he’s already providing and then desire more from there”

  • @lisawilliamsusa
    @lisawilliamsusa 3 роки тому

    Yay Mina and Irfan! Sorry I missed you live, but the replay was great as well❣️❣️

  • @09mjeternity
    @09mjeternity 3 роки тому

    That was gold! A word, wow.

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv 11 місяців тому

    Mina has mastered the adoring look (toward her husband), lol.

  • @sudan723
    @sudan723 3 роки тому +13

    Omg, that was perfect! What the female brings to the table isn’t tangible, so of course, she may not see her self worth! Got it! That totally changed my perspective! Love it! ❤️
    Now, I’m more likely NOT to bring anything tangible to the table 😂

  • @3M3657
    @3M3657 3 роки тому +1

    Great interview 💗

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv 11 місяців тому

    I never had heard anyone talking about the importance of the female-male age gap. However, I have felt it myself. In every stage in life, I always have experienced younger men as immature. I like them for their looks, but I don’t like the relationship dynamics with them. Older men relate to me differently. 1) They don’t perceive me as competition, like younger men do. 2) I see a desire in older men to take care of me, protect me, and be a provider. The age gap triggers something in men that isn’t rational but it’s very real.

  • @High_Priestess1111
    @High_Priestess1111 2 роки тому

    Spot on hubbie!!! 👌👌👌♥️👊👊👊

  • @tammydriver8820
    @tammydriver8820 3 роки тому +7

    Dirty John was a love bomber in the show when he gave her lots of compliments and made her the smoothies every day.

  • @ezdeharjaber8722
    @ezdeharjaber8722 3 роки тому +15

    Beautiful couple Mashallah 🙏

  • @sabazafar4102
    @sabazafar4102 3 роки тому

    Nice to see you guys

  • @shireensaroea946
    @shireensaroea946 3 роки тому +1

    Power couple. Power family!

  • @nubianqueen938
    @nubianqueen938 3 роки тому

    Wisdom & is Gems
    Thank you
    Namaste 🙏

  • @roses4me451
    @roses4me451 3 роки тому +1

    Hello Mina & Irfan! I sing Punjabi songs (Jazzy B) and LOVE Rahat Fateh Ali Khan's songs too. I want to learn Punjabi someday. Irfan, thank you for giving us the male perspective. (Mina, I saw Dirty John 1 & 2 on Netflix: WOW!! Every woman MUST see these movies!)

  • @h_mrc
    @h_mrc Рік тому +1

    Your husband should write a book for teenage boys. Before boys learnt all this from their father or grandfather, uncles, older brothers, cousins, teachers, pastors if the father was absent. Nowadays they don’t have role models.

  • @annicks7385
    @annicks7385 3 роки тому +9

    Hey 👋🏽 Mina and husband ❤️

  • @SG-xb7de
    @SG-xb7de 3 роки тому +5

    I'm so happy for you Mina that, you are blessed with a husband who's thoughts are so good.

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you! 🥰

    • @Chelsso0
      @Chelsso0 3 роки тому +3

      Don't go in with a man you don't see would secure you, like put assets in your name, etc.

    • @SG-xb7de
      @SG-xb7de 3 роки тому +1

      @@Chelsso0 Then you remain single for life, like I am rn! haha

    • @Chelsso0
      @Chelsso0 3 роки тому +2

      @@SG-xb7de There are women getting all of that, you can check SheraSeven channel

  • @carlopalmonesoropelcaloy6349
    @carlopalmonesoropelcaloy6349 3 роки тому

    Good morning ma'am and sir