PROVIDER MEN: Should Women Contribute Financially?

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 22 січ 2025

КОМЕНТАРІ • 200

  • @Theuniverseguru
    @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +20

    This was so much fun!!!
    PROVIDER MEN: Should Women Contribute Financially? Today we are talking about provider men and in what situations should you contribute? #traditionalroles #providermen #howtomarryaprovider
    Hypnotic: bit.ly/2JORR03

    • @TheApollo2200
      @TheApollo2200 Рік тому

      Mina, please keep them coming. We appreciate you sharing your life. If people don’t want to hear this information, it is easy to move onto something else. Thank you again.

    • @nicollepasquel
      @nicollepasquel Рік тому

      Hi Mina, I am on my way to paying off my car within the next year before purchasing my first home. Thank you for your insight and personal experiences. Super fun chat!

  • @womenlivingwell444
    @womenlivingwell444 Рік тому +94

    I have a 20yo daughter and im giving her this solid advice. My hubby and i met at 23/25 yo. We built our wealth together. He didn't make 6 figures until 35yo. Marry based on values.

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +41

      Yes!! Values and love will lead to the wealth

    • @womenlivingwell444
      @womenlivingwell444 Рік тому +13

      Exactly 🩷 There's levels to it. My hubby secured our foundation and he invested in me & my business b/c he's seen my visions manifest in our lives.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Рік тому

      ​@@womenlivingwell444 ❤❤❤ that is nice ❤❤

  • @nolacanola
    @nolacanola Рік тому +44

    Mina: I’m not making any more relationship content
    Also Mina: throws down banger after banger on men and dating, everything you ever wanted to know 😂

  • @YellowStarrx3
    @YellowStarrx3 Рік тому +48

    Mina is dropping gems! I've been waiting for this, but the timing is Devine. I had not done the inner work to manifest a provider yet. Currently 3 weeks into dating a provider, we have spoken about lifestyle when married, and it's all his idea to provide fully all evolutionary basics for me. He would like to do girlfriend/boyfriend, but I am going to explain my desires tonight to not be a man's girlfriend. Mina has prepared me for this, I know it will go as it should! 🎉❤

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +19

      Yes! You got this! Definitely no gf/bf status and go and get that ring!

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Рік тому +1

      ​@@Theuniverseguru ❤❤❤

  • @Rose.Adorna.7
    @Rose.Adorna.7 Рік тому +40

    Yes Mina 😂 Talk about yourself. Your personal examples and ability to overcome is what I relate to. We don’t want “what if”? Let the other folks sit in their bitterness of not being you. 💗

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +18

      Thank you for saying that. I'm the kind of person that also needs real, concert examples that I can them customize to my needs.

  • @mystical.empress
    @mystical.empress Рік тому +10

    Mina, thank you soul very much for being realistic. I am 22 and he is soon to be 26. We have one child and another one on the way. It hasn't been easy depending on 1 income, but I love seeing him in his masculine provider energy and wouldn't want to have it any other way. Honestly, I don't think I could have made it this far without your UA-cam teaching!! I love you!!!

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +2

      Congrats on creating such a beautiful and loving family. The world needs more of this! I am honored to have been able to help in any way.

  • @peacejoylove8542
    @peacejoylove8542 11 місяців тому +2

    Mina, what you share helps put things into perspective for me, especially when it comes to "catepillaring" my way to my dream life because it's a healthy expansion of the container. Thanks so much for all you do. And its a helpful reminder to always be appreciative and in gratitude.

  • @Ms.Bree8403
    @Ms.Bree8403 Рік тому +34

    Mina! When you said you confronted your husband about making more, and he responded the way he did, it brought tears to my eyes. I felt the emotion, and I thank you for opening up and sharing this about you. You just keep bringing us heat with all these amazing videos. This one is by far my favorite. Thank you 3xs ❤

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +16

      Ahhh, I feel so bad thinking about the sometimes unrealistic expectations we can place on people we love. So glad you enjoyed!

  • @veronicacervantez9511
    @veronicacervantez9511 Рік тому +7

    IT doesn't matter how much money you make, it matters how much you keep. I love Efan's thinking.

  • @upcycledhomestudio
    @upcycledhomestudio Рік тому +33

    great information as always! Giving examples of family values over more income is something people need to hear. There is nothing wrong with starting "modest" and building wealth together. Thank you for sharing your current expenses and how you manage the finances for your elevated wealth. I find this inspiring. Anyone who is triggered needs to buy this women's courses, and work on your money beliefs and blocks.

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +3

      Thank you gorgeous! It was a little crazy to say the actual numbers but since it helps people, IO am happy to share!

  • @theclassicbeauty8244
    @theclassicbeauty8244 Рік тому +5

    I’m very grateful I’m single during this evolution for myself. My options are endless and I am able to choose more wisely. I couldn’t imagine being a single mother or in a marriage at 34 and learning all of this!! It would be so much weight to carry having to accept or make the change of reality.

  • @Amethyst454
    @Amethyst454 Рік тому +20

    ❤Great video❤ as always! I love this! Just want to add to the discussion: I see childcare, cleaning, sewing, laundry, cooking, eldercare, being a nurse to the family, administrative tasks as contributing. I personally don't consider "contributing" only being money. It did seem that way to me that that is how the word was being used. We both contribute in different ways.

  • @soniamarinette
    @soniamarinette Рік тому +24

    I love the way you balance being realistic AND manifesting ❤

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower Рік тому +22

    Love these videos on the nuances of what it actually could look like financially
    I find myself getting into comparison of other couples and having unrealistic financial expectations of my man. These chats bring me back into gratitude and into reality. A man could be a provider in so many ways 💸

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +5

      Yes! We won't all be rich financially at the same time, but we may be rich in others ways. For example, the women I was comparing myself to financially back in the days and "falling short" always complimented me on the kind of marriage I had. I was rich in other ways.

  • @taki1255
    @taki1255 Рік тому +5

    It really warmed my heart when you talked about him coming home around 4pm allowed him to spend time with you and your children 🥹❤ A lot of people like to prioritize riches while ignoring those little family moments that you can never get back when it's gone.
    You had *love, stability* and more than what you needed. No need to sacrifice family bonding for more material things! ❤

  • @aglayabineva5158
    @aglayabineva5158 Рік тому +25

    This was very helpful and entertaining 🤣.
    I love how Mina got so carried away with talking about money that she didn't notice that someone said they had a boyfriend and not a husband🤣. She was too busy being impressed with his salary. That’s how much Mina loves money🥰.

  • @petramckean5041
    @petramckean5041 Рік тому +11

    The cost of an AVERAGE house in Vancouver is $1,300,000. My kids have prepared themselves that they may be waiting a long time to be home owners. A Condo is about $800,000. Prices are nuts here.

  • @amberjheard
    @amberjheard Рік тому +10

    Mina!!! This is going down as one of my favorite videos from you. Can I ask one thing? Stop saying you're sorry! You can emphasize with the people this doesn't resonate with, but you are NOT SORRY! You are fabulous and you keep it real and what you're doing for us is nothing to apologize for.
    I thank you so much for one, reaffirming the feminine nature I've always had. I come from a household where my father was and is a provider and I had a strong masculine container and I had felt that in this modern day culture I felt I didn't fit and I lowered my standards in my first marriage and accepted a 50/50 relationship that left me not getting my needs met and resentful. Your teaching has made me see there is a place and you've helped dispel my limited beliefs and that has helped me change my center of attraction. I'm dating again now and I feel the men entering in my orbit value a woman such as myself.
    I also appreciate your transparency and journey to where you are now. I really can't understand why anyone would be triggered. Keep doing what you're doing and don't let drop off viewers and negative comments deter you. God will replace them tenfold. Can't wait for your book!

  • @Fancythebarber
    @Fancythebarber Рік тому +9

    This by far is my favorite Live on this channel. The breakdown of your real life personal experiences really helps to put things in perspective! It’s really a learning tool! Thank you sooo much Mina❤

  • @pishenshita
    @pishenshita Рік тому +15

    I really appreciate that you share your experience because that gives hints to the rest of us about how to adapt it to our own experience and the lifestyle we aspire to.

  • @smekerka22
    @smekerka22 Рік тому +1

    This is my favorite video of yours. Thank you for being so transparent and showing us that money does not fall from the sky.

  • @Lisa-mp7ig
    @Lisa-mp7ig Рік тому +19

    The main message: Stay away from DEBT!

  • @alejandra6418
    @alejandra6418 Рік тому +3

    Oh Mina, I'm so happy seeing you being happy while telling us your story😭😭😭 like, I'm truly, sincerely happy that you get what you wanted and that you feel that way, it warms my heart. Thank you for sharing it💗

  • @latinovichka472
    @latinovichka472 Рік тому +4

    Mina 🥺 I'm crying from gratefulness that you made this video, this is exactly what I needed to hear. This perspective is priceless. You are changing lives. THANK YOU 🙏💖

  • @bellag777
    @bellag777 Рік тому +3

    Mina you don’t sound ungrateful, all your earnings are from hard work and patience. I am blessed to listen and see you each time you post! Your my fairy godmother and I admire your authenticity.🌻🧚🏽‍♀️😘

  • @moltveg
    @moltveg Рік тому +6

    Daily gems we are so lucky to have you Mina! All you give us back to you elevenfold. 💖

  • @jloni
    @jloni Рік тому +10

    Thank you Mina! I really appreciate it when you share your experience and embodiment. Your last video did worry/ trigger me (but I’m a ride or die for you so I don’t stop watching 😂) but hearing your story always gives me peace in knowing my path is also being laid out in my favor❤

  • @TheAbundanceFactor
    @TheAbundanceFactor Рік тому +2

    It takes a lot for Mina to share all this here, thank you Mina, honestly opened my eyes so much ❤🎉

  • @BelAge
    @BelAge Рік тому +3

    Wise words, Mina, wise words! It's one thing to leave a man for a better provider when you are childless and single, but once you have children with that man, AND he is really a good man, breaking up the family is not something people should consider lightly.

  • @kirsyxi
    @kirsyxi Рік тому +3

    I love the long lives. Thank you for your sacred work ✨

  • @arianamaric5317
    @arianamaric5317 Рік тому +6

    Real concrete examples from your life are the best. And it would be great to hear how you and Irfan did it and how it has changed over the years.

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +4

      I'm so glad it was worth sharing the personal information if it helps you out in any way.

  • @leticialinosvilleda
    @leticialinosvilleda Рік тому +1

    Thank you for keeping it real! Core values are what keeps a family together

  • @Jianglong37
    @Jianglong37 Рік тому +2

    Loving these recent videos Mina, please keep them coming.

  • @Toryb168
    @Toryb168 Рік тому

    13:50 this is an amazing video!
    Thank you Mina ❤

  • @Keirabug
    @Keirabug Рік тому +3

    I love it when you give your own real world real life examples from your own experience

  • @natalienow41
    @natalienow41 Рік тому +2

    Hi Mina! I actually first saw you & your husband in UA-cam when I was following Dave Ramsey and I saw how you guys were very frugal back then & was inspired on your debt free journey & I was thankful for Dave Ramsey debt free teachings as well which really made us ride out the pandemic with less fear & stress. And when I shifted my journey or mindset from scarcity to abundance I was lead led to your channel again. I saw your transformation so thank you for keeping things real & sharing your journey with us. 😊💕

  • @solimarmirandav
    @solimarmirandav Рік тому

    I love it how sincere and purely honest you are in this video ❤ it truly makes me realistically consider how I want to drive my own life and I love it

  • @georginacantu6499
    @georginacantu6499 Рік тому +1

    I LOVE that you’re sharing your life and real life examples ❤thank you so much

  • @Summers_2054
    @Summers_2054 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Mina for your wisdom and advice! Watching in the replay ❤

  • @90Kasiek
    @90Kasiek Рік тому +2

    Fantastic video! Examples are awesome! Also, bravo for Irfan for the gardener.

  • @TaleAlimi
    @TaleAlimi Рік тому +8

    Really practical and realistic. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @tesst7649
    @tesst7649 Рік тому +1

    Just came across this video Thank you for this,has really opened my eyes and prevented me from making bad decision,my husband is 30 and was starting to feel his mot doing enough and sadly currently dont have a job..Thank you for the insight

  • @yourcoilyness
    @yourcoilyness Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much for this video! So real! The perfect reality check we all need.

  • @lilly_ann
    @lilly_ann Рік тому +15

    I'm loving these videos lately woah 😍😍 thanks for the examples from when y'all were earning less. Helps show that you can also gradually get where you want, except just wanting it from the get go. Btw, is the book for pre-order? You can't imagine how excited I am for the book!!

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it! The book is currently in the editing phase, unfortunately not ready for pre-order yet.

  • @Heather-AnnePaul
    @Heather-AnnePaul Рік тому +3

    I love the gardener story. Wow.

  • @curlyisconfident
    @curlyisconfident Рік тому +6

    Thank you for being so transparent with us 😊❤ this was a great one 🎉🎉

  • @AlexisSiriani
    @AlexisSiriani 10 місяців тому

    Hi Mina! I’m new to your channel and I love your videos! They expand me and confirm many of my own intuitive knowings. Keep up the great work! I look forward to diving into your courses, reading Lady Balls, and attending your live events! Sending love, from Philadelphia 💓

  • @mayelasanchez5258
    @mayelasanchez5258 Рік тому +3

    Hello Mina. I was surprised when you mentioned that you received a call to stop doing 1:1 work. I felt this too and also around 5-6 more people I know whose work revolves around consciousness (in various forms).
    We're all shifting to sharing in different, more group/mass things.
    Wow. Whatever is happening comes from divinity, no doubt

  • @MrsAnaelimont
    @MrsAnaelimont Рік тому +4

    Mina this has to be one of the realistic and grounded videos ever. Thank you. Can you make a video for woman who do have assests or a lot of savings when they meet their provider? I may not have a lot but was very blessed to buy my starter home. I would like to keep this in my name and as a rental income when i meet a provider but wouldnt know how to bring it up

  • @cristinaarfir3206
    @cristinaarfir3206 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Mina! My husband is a lot like Irfan and because of him, we now have a paid off house we live in. We started off with 80.000 euros in debt… love your videos and content!

  • @Lippipipi
    @Lippipipi Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love this content. I love when you speak your truth. World needs it the most. We don't need more fake millioners and more channels bags. Please keep it up.

  • @1muffinaonly
    @1muffinaonly Рік тому +4

    This was such an amazing live and right on time! Thanks, always! 🥰

  • @JLSwins
    @JLSwins Рік тому +2

    Mina thank you for this live. I discovered you right before you gained 100k subs this year and you are truly a breath of fresh air in the woman self improvement niche on social media. I love how you keep it real bc I need to hear that! Keep being you and being real! ❤️

  • @IntuitiveWanderess
    @IntuitiveWanderess Рік тому +1

    I’m so grateful for your wisdom and insight. It’s truly helped me come out of a previous relationship to moving into a more aligned healthier relationship.

  • @shainessdaoud3276
    @shainessdaoud3276 10 місяців тому

    this video is all I needed ! love you. Can't wait to hear you share more about your personnal advice !

  • @LuisaAmandaGarza
    @LuisaAmandaGarza Рік тому +1

    Thank you mina for being so honest! You have no idea the way you touch peoples lives! I am from el salvador! In my country everything is upside down! I found you and i know it was divine!

  • @tatianasuarez2668
    @tatianasuarez2668 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for sharing such vulnerable and personal information. it gives us a great idea of how to handle our containers in real and modern life. you are the real example between the vessel that contains and the water that flows! GRACIAS ❤

  • @DestinyData
    @DestinyData Рік тому +1

    This video was so raw and real. We absolutely needed this. Thanks so much!💖

  • @rubydaniela
    @rubydaniela Рік тому

    I love how Irfan expresses his Virgo Sun! Beautiful! Loved this video, Mina!

  • @user-sm9tg4rc1n
    @user-sm9tg4rc1n Рік тому +1

    This is one of my favourite videos, such a balanced harmonious perspective ❤️

  • @wonderwoman7969
    @wonderwoman7969 Рік тому +2

    I love that you share real examples of your life and you are so transparent and honest thank God ❤ May God bless you with more abundance Ameen

  • @elisamachi1453
    @elisamachi1453 Рік тому +1

    You opened my mind and my heart Mina. Thank you so much!! ❤

  • @Teez395
    @Teez395 Рік тому +1

    I am living for these lives! ❤ Thank you for being so generous with your time Mina

  • @dishas
    @dishas Рік тому

    34:35 vow so proud of you 👏 you are such a good daughter ❤️ thanks for sharing more about you

  • @tinabe717
    @tinabe717 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Mina for this! I needed this perspective ❤

  • @annicks7385
    @annicks7385 Рік тому +1

    One of your best videos. Ive been watching you for many many years . This video sets you apart from the rest by far 💖 bravo 👏🏽

  • @sophiabreidfischer6242
    @sophiabreidfischer6242 Рік тому +7

    The more you share of your personal life, Im so touched by your relationship with your husband.

  • @kibibishaw1194
    @kibibishaw1194 Рік тому +8

    SISTER, you did it again! 🔥 Mind blown by your Gifts and Testimony! Oprah and the world deserve to know you! THANK YOU, MINA! 🥹 I can’t wait to get married and have all these Devine tools for my blissful Union ❣️🙌🏽🙏🏽😭💖💕

  • @annita_dance
    @annita_dance Рік тому +3

    I love your teaching Mina, please share your personal examples also, they are very useful ❤ love love love all the infos about you your history ❤

  • @Houndlover10
    @Houndlover10 Рік тому

    So glad you are having this conversation 😊

  • @summersky3827
    @summersky3827 Рік тому +2

    Mina sharing your financial success story is beyond inspirational...And can I just say how your and Irfan bhai's love and bonding shines through your narration ❤ May you are always blessed my dear...thank you for this video and I think we want more n more of your business advices and finance content as well! Love you ❤

  • @prernachhetri7649
    @prernachhetri7649 Рік тому +1

    We are so grateful for your honesty ❤

  • @EvelynArnold
    @EvelynArnold Рік тому

    This was so amazing and so helpful! I can’t thank you enough!

  • @polexia3434
    @polexia3434 Рік тому +1

    hahaa pure gold love this video😍🤩
    dear Mina you are doing the world a huge SERVICE by talking and saying whatever you feel like saying😍

  • @sandram6068
    @sandram6068 Рік тому

    Thank you Mina for all this vulnerable honest and personal stories. I learned a lot. Thank you for not allowing us to watch it .
    Your husband is so amazing. What a blessing your marriage and legacy to the world. I am so happy I found you and know English to learn from you. Blessings 🙏🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @karithedoc4764
    @karithedoc4764 Рік тому

    Mina thank you so much for being so transparent. I really enjoyed the video. I am manifesting this lifestyle ❤

  • @TheLegalCode
    @TheLegalCode Рік тому +5

    Wow Mina! This is truly God’s work!

  • @Jeffrey-u3g
    @Jeffrey-u3g 6 днів тому

    Answer: YES

  • @FernandaChavez-v9p
    @FernandaChavez-v9p Рік тому

    Love this videos MINA please keep sharing your experience and this topics

  • @gigimohammed7457
    @gigimohammed7457 Рік тому +3

    I love this Chanel so much ❤

  • @nieladrew
    @nieladrew Рік тому

    This was excellent Mina, thank you for all the examples.

  • @Thegoddessofnyc
    @Thegoddessofnyc Рік тому

    Mina! This video is amazing and thank you for sharing your truth. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you for always sharing your experience and being you!! ❤

  • @kirsyxi
    @kirsyxi Рік тому +2

    I just bought the hypnotic course ✨

  • @delightserene
    @delightserene Рік тому +2

    Great live thank you so much🤍

  • @sonaturallygwen
    @sonaturallygwen Рік тому +3

    This was a great video Mina thank you ❤

  • @Greicy30
    @Greicy30 Рік тому

    Thanks a lot for share your life, experience and knowledge, yu are so authentic and real woman. Lot of love!

  • @Lil-Be
    @Lil-Be Рік тому +1

    I am an immigrant from Poland living in California. I also have an immigrant mentality and I am really glad I do, as well as my experience growing up in Poland during communism. It thought me not to waste anything and no overpay when it is not necessary. I appreciate literally everything.

  • @cassandra900
    @cassandra900 Рік тому +1

    As usual love your advice!!! ❤️

  • @uuuuuuist
    @uuuuuuist Рік тому

    Mina! The Queen, the Myth, the Legend ! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hasiriacosta230
    @hasiriacosta230 Рік тому

    Mina could you please talk more about finances! You’re so savvy, and it would help a lot as there is so much misinformation ❤️❤️

  • @MarikaTheEmpress
    @MarikaTheEmpress Рік тому +4

    Love you so much Mina. Thank you so much for this beautiful livestream ❤

  • @bbydoll1222
    @bbydoll1222 Рік тому

    I love how you elevated Jose ❤

  • @aijahelaine
    @aijahelaine Рік тому +1

    Hearing how God created this home for you was so precious

  • @mariaalejandragarciaecheve5794

    I love sooooo much your videos, they light me so much. Because of similar comparison from family I became ungratfull but he´s more than willing to provide for me so I´m learning from you like you don´t have an idea. Thank you Mina. Oceans of love to you and your wisdom

  • @ASlovealways
    @ASlovealways 2 місяці тому

    This was such a good video.

  • @The_Billion_Heiress
    @The_Billion_Heiress Рік тому

    Great video ❤ thank you Mina!

  • @priyac1944
    @priyac1944 Рік тому

    This is such amazing information!! I really appreciate Meenas transparency around the financials.... I actually have wondered about what Meenas financial situation was when she married Irfan! Really love it!!

  • @coachzaynab355
    @coachzaynab355 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this ❤ as I get engaged this is very valuable information.

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru  Рік тому

      Congratulations!

    • @coachzaynab355
      @coachzaynab355 Рік тому

      @@Theuniverseguru thank you! It's honestly thanks to God. And thanks to you
      And my Faith, the Baha'i Faith and my Mom.
      I could not have done without your wisdom. My mom and I learn from you every day.
      My future husband is not a rich man but he is an honest, loving Baha'i man. He has a beautiful historic religious lineage within our Faith, the Baha'i Faith, it's important for him. He's 4 years older, just turning 33 years old this year, owns his own home, has a stable job. It's a positive person. We get along well.
      Yesterday, he got me my first diamond bracelet, its a modest one. But I will have it and treasure it for life. This man treats me like gold. I am so grateful for him.
      His culture is middle eastern, I am latina, from the Dominican Republic. I feel he fits better within my values than most men in my country.
      We are both blessed to have found each other.
      Thank you Mina, you are changing lives. And the lives of our future children.

  • @Soheila90
    @Soheila90 Рік тому

    This is going to be good 😌

  • @nolacanola
    @nolacanola Рік тому +1

    Oh my god when you said your mortgage was $800 my jaw dropped. I’m in NJ and I think you could only rent a room in someone’s house for that much, and that would be considered a DEAL.
    The $1.400 for a 3 bedroom house 💔💔💔
    People are not making much more than they were 10 years ago!
    This is really sad the way things are now.