"Single Moms Keep Coming After Me"
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''Single moms aren't looking for love. They are looking for HELP.'' - Charles Darwin
Facts
🤣😂
🤣🤣Wouldn't it be funny if we find out he actually said that?
I got 3 single mums chasing me
@@SkidCudi ''Embrace her in her prime. Ghost her in her decline.'' - Sun Tzu, Art of War
Single moms comes after him because he can be her meal ticket. He got a settled career, a side hustle and overall a nice guy. A rich guy always have target on their back.
she got the alpha seed, now she wants the beta need $
The key is to use them for what they're good for.... Humping.
Give no money unless just hanging out on occasions. No investment. Just pay as you go.
Yep, the dude needs to stay strong.
or single moms know what a nice guy is then they leave them for after parties/snacks for post hoe phase settlements!
(retirement tickets).
@@satoshinakamoto7253 Exactly.
He's a nice guy, if he let's her in, she will lock him down hard. He has to keep it to women who are not mothers. I don't wanna see him lose. He is a perfect target, paying child support for other mans kids
Wow, scary proposition. Does that happen often?
she got the alpha seed, now she wants the beta need $
Very true 👍 modern women are always looking for suckers
@@annalisajohn - Yes, of course it does happen.
Raising another man's child? Any lad with self respect, avoid doing so. Fk that!
This guy has got it going on and he needs to keep these single mothers out of his life 100% not even as a friends with benefits.
Yeah it's fun juggling chainsaws until you lose a hand.....that's like dancing in a mine field......you KNOW they don't use protection and unless you get snipped, you could be the next sucker.....
Agreed. One of my non-negotiables at his age, and most every age really, was no single moms.
You’d be about fourth place behind the dog.
@@habbadabbado5765 fourth? you'll be lucky if you're in the top 10.
@@habbadabbado5765Also the 80% chance of first divorce within the decade.
i applaud the guy for making the effort to contact rich and be on camera, not an easy thing to do to admit that one needs to address concerns. wishing stephan all the best.
Thanks 😊👍 💯
Thanks 😊👍 💯
@Jack Sprat Do you consider Rich Cooper a grifter?
@Jack Sprat I like that you state it as fact rather than an opinion.
@Jack Sprat You may be misunderstanding me...
When Rich said "Dude you can become whatever the fuck you want", oh boy... This is it guys.... Simple and plain as that. Rich, you are number one!
no you can't, that is the same shit feminist say to girl. You can't become everything you want, talent, skill, attitude and will power is everything. Stop being a girl and go do the work for what you are good at and realistically could achieve.
@@rakashaagain he meant he could be an alpha
@@AC-mp7cx possibly but I don't think it'S possible, I am not an 'alpha' on the rollo definition. And he said he isn't, is it worth (if even possible) to become one? debatable I guess but I don't think altering your personality for getting woman is worth it.
Yea but girls dont want you to be anything except their baby daddy and roof while they go get ridden like the neighborhood bicycle 😄
@@rakashaagain Yes, everyone has physical limitations. But self esteem is something that exists within one’s inner world. How you DECIDE to carry yourself impacts your self-esteem AND how others perceive you. Rich is an amazing coach for always insisting that men can cultivate positive self-esteem and masculinity by doing the work.
“Alpha” is a mindset. “Alpha” is a series of habits. “Alpha” is discipline. This man calling in and any man calling in can be “Alpha” by ordering their life correctly, having positive goals, and developing mental point of origin.
A "FWB" situlation can easily turn into a "I'm pregnant and you're a dad" situation.
Not with a vasectomy & receipts/documentation of your impotence. Foolproof safeguard.
@@asparrow9876 I do this. Had 3 vvomen try that crap. Each time I take out the laminated medical documents and just hand it to them. Each one lost their sh!t.
@@smithsmith1956why are you engaging with these women specially practicing unprotected sex? Aren’t you afraid of catching STDs? If they tell you they are pregnant and turns out to be true and you are clearly not the father that tells you they have been fucking other guys raw and that is scary to say the least. Best of luck to you in keeping yourself STD free every time you gamble with that shit.
@@smithsmith1956 LMAO! Serves them right..
@@asparrow9876 My urologist told me not even a vasectomy is 100% and to double secure every time if you want 0 risk. Recanalization is a thing, with open ended vasectomies the chance is higher that this happens.
Any man considering taking on a single mother should first watch the 2015 movie,
“Daddys Home”
Classic Alpha F***ks, Beta bucks scenario.
She couldn’t lock down the bad boy so she settles for the stable 9-5 guy, who gets nothing but contempt and disrespect from everybody, especially her kids.
Don’t be that guy, brothers.
Amen
Every stupid Hollyweird "Romantic Comedy" movie creates Betas bucks fools and of course wo-men love the movie, but hate the Betas IRL! So many lies 😆💯
I was after a single mother aged 27, but she ended up ignoring me and later when I bulldozed her with messeges she told me 'I have loads of options and you do not match up to standards'. I forgot. But years later when she was aged 32 she messeges me out of blue with 'hey, how are you'. Lol.
Why you are still in contact with her?
When things go in reverse for her she crawling home.
@@honor9lite1337 I wasn't. I found a Facebook request from her and she then sent me a messege once I accepted. But no, I don't want her now, I wanted her aged 27 when I was blue pilled. I don't want her aged 32 living in supportive accomodation with two kids to two different fathers.
@@The01t You accepted the request. You're giving positive reinforcement for the negative behavior. No cap.
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A single mom is like someone drowning. They will do anything to latch on to someone. Then once they got you they lose interest and start to monkey branch.
Thats great example
Well, locally, their options are so limited that not a lot of monkey branching going on. Yes, they will place that seed of doubt, to try & make you bond, so that they have power, but as soon as you stare that narrative down it collapses. Collapse it as soon as possible, in order to see what her next tactic is.. and make sure you keep track of her fukery because the more fukery you bypass the better you understand her personality & morality.
@@captnhuffy Disagree entirely. It's social dating app era. You'd better believe even broke single mums have TONNES of options. And still demand only the very best.
@@dons1932 I see your point, but: They only have the options you give them. Again: There are millions of single women, and as long as you don't make any commitment YOU will have the options. While their only options are to say yes, or no to whatever you chose to proposition. Stay out of their clutches. Stay out of their Traps. Always guard your seed!!! Pay for nothing. NOTHING. Please notice that you'll only see the worse of the worse on dating apps. Get out in the real world, but keep your options open by keeping boundaries very high!! Sluts are fun... but make sure you don't fall to deep... make sure you don't commit. It's far better to just stay away from them if you can't control yourself on all fronts, and in every way. good luck.
@@captnhuffy What I'm saying is, it's the single mums saying "where are the decent men?" As in, where are the 6"5 rich Chads. You'd better believe average guys are willing to settle down with them but they ain't interested. They have more options than the average guy, still.
I was just FRIENDS with a single mom and she was treatin me like we were together. I couldnt have been any more clear with her that i dont want anything like that with her. Well she eventually got all pissed off and stopped talking to me because i told her i dont want her like that and i wont be supporting her kids 😄
Theyre all the same gentlemen. Hit and quit. Dont spend a dime on them 👌🏻
Well, if you were JUST FRIENDS with the single mom why did you "hit it and quit it"? Maybe that is why she received mixed signals.
More info… when they make it out like they’re there for you and have your back… are the actions lining up with their words.
Bruh stay the fuck away from them
You cheated her out of a meal ticket for her bastards lol. Who hurt you mister?
@@Profitglutton90 "who hurt you" 😄
This guy seems like a chill dude. Possibly even too soft, based on his responses. Get out of that mentality. Own it. Get that high self image back.
It’s almost as if he called in to get that positive affirmation from Rich.
Well he got it.
“You can be whatever the fuck you want” - Rich Cooper
He's me. I felt that.
I had women tell me in my late teens that I was too nice. In college I gained swag and became pretty popular, women became easier as I became more hard core. He at 34 should really already be there.
@@chillycharles910 people tend to grow at their own rate.
It's a function of experience, and age, learning and experimenting(first hand experience) and finally combining learning with experience to form the wiser choices of the future.
@@chillycharles910I see Mr. Cooper as an attitude-adjuster or facilitator bc he's able to bring his guests the man-with-experience perspective that you either hear the ring of truth in or don't.
For a lot of men this is what's often missing bc of a domineering Mother or the Single Mom with no male role model like a present and experienced Father.
One of the biggest detriments with dating single moms beyond monetarily is they will always put their kids first no matter how bad they are and how good you are
well its their child, every good parent would put their kids first.
Correct, often the family dog will have higher status than the guy.
@@stevec3526 well 😂😂 … hopefully not. Kids first, life partner second but you shouldn’t make them feel like a second option
@@jasminkettana2169 That's why I tell single guys to NEVER date single mothers. I know this from personal experience.
@@jasminkettana2169 not if they have no respect , kids often push limits , and I’m talking adult kids
As a younger (early 20s) dude I was taking girls to race on gokarts. It was always a hit. I sold it to my close friend cause he was clueless... he thought it was a terrible idea, but went through with it because he lacked his own creativity. Story short, they are engaged and a long lasting relationship and she recalled their first date as "finally, someone who brought some fun & adrenaline" instead of run of the mill coffee and sad, hopeful eyes
That's what I do myself. On dates I take them out to do things. Imo a coffee or dinner or movie is boring. I do gun range, laser tag, hiking, abandon house tours for example... they love it
@@badboy-gn8fu yes, this is such a simple task to plan, yet so many guys are clueless, if she is a "wine&dine me" only then you know what to do ..
@@badboy-gn8fu
Women love when you pay for those activities so she can get social media pictures that help her monkey branch.
When I was 18 I took a date to a school parking lot after a snow and did donuts. She loved it.
Absolute gold right here ^^
Whatever she feels during the date is what she'll associate with you - adrenaline is a sure win
I avoid single moms now. In my younger years, I dated a couple of them casually. Even getting a casual date lined up was like pulling teeth. I get that kids get sick, sitters fall through, etc. But I got tired of always being left hanging for hours or canceled on at the last minute. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
@Ryan Bales. Those were just excuses. If she wants you, sitters don’t fall through and the kids weren’t sick.
She got a better (her perception at least) a better offer. Don’t believe their words, believe their actions.
@@dogtag869 oh yeah that's a fact. My life is much more peaceful with them going their separate way from me.
Most single moms are amazing in bed. Not sure why
@@senorc4416 they have to be to get their hooks in unsuspecting men.
WTF ARE YOU CRYING CAUSE GOD SAVED YOU FROM LEFTOVERS, SLOPPY SECONDS ? THAT WAS A BLESSING. YOU WANNA BE A SIMP AND PLAY ANOTHER MAN'S SAVED GAME ??? YOU A KING NO SINGLE MOTHERS 👑
Seems like a good man, and deserves a good woman. Glad he’s clued up to predatory single mothers.
Behind every criminal and stripper, you will find a single mother.
Best comment on here🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!
Yup but single mothers will never admit it tho
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This is beyond accurate
I think the friends with benefits thing is a bad idea. If you accidentally get them pregnant then you're on the hook financially. And if she's crazy she may accuse you if rape or won't tell you that she has a disease. Men should be careful with who they choose to sleep with. I don't agree with this whole hit it and quit it thing like why invest the time, energy and money into a woman you aren't serious about? It's better to put that time, money and energy into your business and or investments. If you really need to get some then go to Vegas get an escort don't make these other females crazier than they already are.
The five words that you don't want to hear but you know deep down she was planning and going to say regardless: "I want to keep it"
Then watch your life spiral downwards.
i agree.....she cant get her way she files a false claim and your screwed...
Agreed
Agree. Rich was giving bad advice. Just don't touch any woman whom you wouldn't willingly marry. FWB with unqualified candidates waste time, money, and increase cost.
@@hanooi7450 Look at what just happened between Lauren Smith Fields and Matthew Lafountain. Matthew found a hook up on bumble was invited over her apartment. They had sex then she overdosed on drugs and now people think Matthew murdered her. Any man who's sleeping around with random women could be in Matthew's shoes right now. This 37 year old well to do engineer's life is ruined over a random booty call.
Dude has all the ingredients for total success. Just dont get anyone pregnant accidently.
He also has all the ingredients to be taken advantage of. I hope he doesn't.
"Instagram is bait." -Rich Copper This is the most perfect explanation of the modern dating world!
Love the “Captain Save a Hoe”. Remembering back in my play days… I had a save a hoe fund jar on my counter… a lot of women are really bashing this mentality. This is all good stuff. It’s nice to laugh and joke about all this, but I can relate. There’s truth in the mentality of knowing your worth and aiming for the stars. It’s never too late to get yourself right!
_"Is that all I can get?"_ - It seems that's all that there is. I met a girl at the club the other night, hot as fuck, 25. She had a fucking 9 year old!!!
I feel you. There are so many single mothers that are extremely gorgeous. Don’t do it. If anything, best you can do is friends with benefits
Loool damn
wtf she had her kid at 16yo ?
Truth!
My ex-wife couldn't lock down Chad so she settled for me. After we divorced I was a single-mom magnet.
Get off the dating apps..then you wont deal with single mom syndrome...
If you do use dating apps, you must be unequivocally clear: "NO SINGLE MOMS".
😂 facts, dating apps = 0 game. Talking to women has to come naturally out in the real world, not through the DMs, etc.
They will suck the life out him. He will return with his glow. COMPLETELY GONE!!!!
You can tell he is a good guy. A solid dude. But it's obvious there isn't much confidence in him.
Women want a challenge. He is too easy.
just be confident bro
He strikes me as a nice stable guy with no game
exactly. He's too unsure about everything. Dude, you need to be a little cocky and 110% confident. Take the bloody lead. Don't ask, tell. This guy probably asks his gf or date way too many questions. Dude stop asking questions and do shit. Stop asking peoples permission or is something is ok.
I don't get these single Moms. Why would a successful man want to deal with that crap.
The problem is men is still dating down
Women will not date down,they is hypergamy asf men need to be hypergamy as well!
I would agree but that would further limit our range, since society is molding trash into profiles and not molding females into ladies
men have no self respect in the west, none
they don't even date their own league. I dated a girl I think I looked better than her, I def have more money and she still shit on me and dumped me. if they think they can do any better, just slitghly better - they will. "this other guy is a little bit taller, or have a little more money, or has i little better hair line" etc etc
Never date a broke woman, they wouldn't date you if you were broke
34, good looking, engineer.............DUDE, you're in such a sweet spot in Western society. Enjoy success.
Your wrong !!!! He’s only 5’8 and not attractive in the face. You need looks in today’s dating market
Shout out to Stephan, you're on the right path by discovering the Red Pill and making better informed life choices.
This guy is doing great....one of my favorite calls. Down to earth legit dude.
I love this channel! It enforces the choices I made as a single mother. I understood that I was not going to let my wants and needs for a relationship take precedent over the needs of my sons. I did not date while my kids were growing up. I focused on myself, built a business and put my son through college. It was worth it all to have 2 strong independent sons / men in this world. Thank you for creating such an important space for men.
@@happydogg312 I agree!
I swear when they see that you have a house, a car, dress ok and fit, it’s like they suddenly are ready to get married and be wonderful wives 🤣
It’s all a front and the façade usually drops soon after.
She FAKING. She wants a safe net she can come home to WHILE STILL IN THE STREETS
@@J_Chips Definitely
Don't even play around with single mothers!
I'm in the similar boat.
I'm 45 and 6'1" in a similar field down here in northern Florida.
I've had a policy since I was young to not date women with kids. But single moms used to be all over me. Frustrating.
I'd made an exception for widows so I almost got with a widow with 2 kids a few years back. Fortunately she didn't want to get married or I would be in that now... or divorced with kids not my own.
Working on diet and fitness to get body in better shape.
Moved down to FL just before the pandemic so I'm finally getting out again like I'd planned for when I first moved.
Found a great friend who is brilliant and semi-retired at 40 and we're planning on building a business in the IT field that has the potential for changing the entire industry and world.
Still need to make my life more exciting and interesting but getting jacked is the biggest priority right now.
He's in a good position in life. At thirty four years old, he can still go after early twenties women and older women that know he'll never settle down with them because they're older unable to give him a family.
Single mothers are destined to be alone forever,or start their love lives at 50 when their child leaves the house.
Real Alpha's are him, high earning community builders. Not sociopathic muscle heads.
And we treat others the way we want to be treated.
Yeah damn right those are the real alphas not fake alphas that women are blinded by.
This is so cope. Just say you don’t
have any muscles because you are lazy. I’m a multi-deca millionaire yet I still make it to the gym every single day.
Yeah, I have the same issue as 41 years old almost always the women with kids or women 30 - 40 years old will come to me a try to hit on me.
your volume was on point bro...
Let them come, just be sure to not let them in without proper vetting.
You don't pick who you attract; you pick who stays around. I like the comparison to inbound marketing. And definitely stay in shape!
The Brady Bunch scenario is really the only case where i could see it making sense to date a single mom. If you're a single dad with sole custody of your own kids then you both bring the baggage of kids so it kind of cancels out. Extra hassle from hers, extra help with yours, and vice versa for her.
I'm a single dad and I approve this message.
What funny about this is most single mothers don't want a men with kids 🤡
Solid advices to a solid guy going places!
Godspeed Stephan!
I see myself in this guy. Good advice
Dude same. Also an engineer, 6 figs, got a house, and doing bjj. 😂😂 I'm just like 10 years younger.
Good interview. Finally asking what these guys like to do for fun. So many of these guys are sooo boring I actually start to feel sad for these women. I have been riding motorcycles since I was 10 and helicopter pilot when I was twenty five but I have found one of the best hobbies to take up to meet women is scuba diving. I have lived in Cozumel so I can speak from experience. The women are usually a little brighter and there are all types of group dives and social events and even hotels that specialize in divers. Not to mention that for some reason women get a little more approachable when you have a warm Caribbean night and something all ready in common.
When I move to FL I will absolutely do this, I wanted to dive for sharks teeth near Naples and I didn’t even think of the dating scene around diving.
Mate - scuba diving, fucking epic
Hey Anthony,
Fellow scuba diver here. Any recommended dive spots? Not necessarily for women but just great dive spots lol.
I've been to Cozumel and Hawaii so far.
@@jhayce031 I have been to Key Largo a few times but I lived in Cozumel for over a year. That is where I learned to Dive. I return at least once a year to dive and see old friends. And if you just end up there on a bad week and there are no women you just head down to the Caribbean Queen and watch them dance then pick the one you like. lol All in good fun.
Well done Stephan for coming out to tell your story. You got it made man. Reward your hard work with women who have got it together AND are younger! Most of all, have fun! Don’t overthink. Enjoy your progress and your fun on the side. 👍
Solid. Always adding value. Btw, archery is amazing. I run a league and it’s definitely an alpha league
The best time for women and men to get together is college. After college its downhill.
I agree
I tell them to go find their baby daddies😁😁👊
They smell the money brother. They got a used, depreciating 🐱 and want you as their plan b. STAY SINGLE BROTHER until you find someone truly worthy. Even then, never move in or marry.
“Women like guys with skills”
-napleon dynamite
Absolutely brilliant interview....Rich Cooper.....you da man ❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Great clip, Rich. Thanks for content!
My God.. all that work for a woman? It’s exhausting! Just be handsome and successful. They will come running.
No they won’t.
@Alex right. The rhetoric is good from these red pill guys, but most can’t provide any tangible or actionable advice and often are not actually living the way they preach. Hell most of them you’d have to dig to find a pic of them with an attractive women. Even if a man doesn’t advertise it, you can find a handful of pics of him with pretty girls he’s dating over time
Damn this happens to me as well. I vowed to stay away from single mothers now. Had to wake up!
just give them a fake name so they cant sue you for child support haha
@@mikelisteral7863 real talk
@@gregeisley88 watch your wallet because she will check your ID for your real name and age
Stephan seems like such a good dude. Game takes time. It’s a lot of practice. And you’ll do best doing it your way, which you gotta figure out. Can you become alpha? Lol, get hurt enough, you definitely can. If you have nothing to loose, you definitely can. It’s really a state. Keep that guard up.
My friends and I are in the same boat as Stephen. Exact same nice guy, life together vibe that single mothers keep throwing themselves at for.
I am in the same boat at this guy as are a lot of men. There are A LOT of single moms. Younger women are not as accessible as folks on UA-cam think they are. They’re our there but there’s a still social pressure and stigma for age gap dating, and it’s becoming increasingly worse situation of young women being more flakey and thrill seeking.
I’m in great shape and tall so I can catch their eye but if you try to talk to them they’re so fucking clueless and the witty banter that works great on women over 30 goes right over the head of a 21-25 year old.
I feel for this guy. We need more tangible scalable advice/guidance for men like him
I TOTALLY agree!! I’m tall and in good shape, but, I’m also 40. The look I get from a lot of younger women is that they would totally date me if I was younger. Unless you’re rich and throwing your money around, younger women are tough to get these days.
@@ALTheFreeMan exactly. I think the social stigma is a big factor. 24/25 year old woman is gonna get shit from her friends/family/etc for dating a guy 10+ years older. Even if the guy is financially secure, fit, and a leader, the girls social circle will shame her with stuff like “why’s he dating women so young, what’s wrong with him. That’s creepy”
@@darbyohara Bingo. Peer pressure is HUGE!! Women are gonna want the people in their social circle to approve of their choice, and a big age gap is not going to be popular. I’m not sure what the solution is, but, I’m not about to start dating overweight baby mamas just because we’re in the same age bracket, lol.
@@ALTheFreeMan I wish I had a good answer but I struggle with the same thing. It’s really hard to break the social conditioning, even with facts, logic, and tangibly better comparable vs younger men 🤷🏽♂️
@@happydogg312 depends how long you’re dating and what that woman wants outta life. If her friends are talking shit (they will cuz they’re jealous) just tell her “listen this isn’t acceptable if you wanna date me. You’re free to keep associating with them but it’s not a behavior my girl would do” and leave it there
That was a beautiful conversation. Thank you for helping all men including people of color.
No one is thinking of race until you mention it. You keeping racism alive.
@@itsdasoundofthepolice6307 as a black man in America, we always think about race. When I meet any woman who is not black, I ask myself does she like black men and then does she have kids?
It's called building a brand. Build your brand. What do you want to be? Alpha? What do Alphas do? Capture that and post... What would an interesting guy do? Capture that and post... List goes on
Shout-out to this guy for keeping it real and authentic not too many like him out there anymore. He says he's not alpha but I'm books dude is alpha as fuck
This man is good-looking, an engineer, friendly and chill, not tiny.
Rich is totally right. He has to avoid the bad women that want to trap him and realize his worth. He's a good man and will be fine if he dates the great girls out there.
Yes, he comes over as a genuine good guy. Just needs a to realise he is the prize.
He’s only 5’8 thou
Single mothers are destined to be alone forever, or start their love lives at 50 when their child leaves the house. No guy with an above average IQ, will strive to start a serious relationship with a single mother.
@blueberry pancakes with butter and syrup true too many dudes be simping it honestly sad
"The truth about women is you can anything to them except bore them" - The Counselor... Makes perfect sense if you think about it. I once said that in the socials and was attacked by women who did not want to extra thought about it.
Brother, just wrap it up and have a little fun but don't get serious with them.
Rich… you’re the man. Nice of you to help all these guys out.
Keep the hot sauce ready bro!!!
Rich's no nonsense explanation is 💯
This guy definitely has high value potential
You can’t be high value without the looks and height. Believe me
Man I love seeing this shit. Makes me so fuckin happy to see dudes want to improve themselves.
Great video thanks 🙏🏾
I keep gatting single moms coming at me all the time. I am not dating or looking for anyone - I have things to do to better my life - but that's the observation. Women with kids. I do not follow up with them, and stay away as far as I can. And yeah, it may seem that this is all you get from this world. The equation is - guy going after a woman he wants. Single moms who no one wants, well, they haven't got any choice but to go after guys. Don't fall into their equation.
Ever since I've been in my early twenties all I get chased by is Single Mothers. They are not worth it guys not even a FWB situation.
The reality is these chicks simply have too many options and time is better spent going your own ways. Keep it moving forward fellas 💊
If this guys is looking to start a family, totally disagree that you want to meet someone on instagram. Don’t think that is a good place to find a future wife.
Facts. I'd rather meet someone in person.
Excellent observation
Agreed and that woman will still be advertising herself on instagram when they're together. Fuk that
Surprised Rich didn’t tell him to shave his head. One of his biggest problems is he doesn’t look clean cut/presentable. He’s holding onto scraps on top of his head, and doesn’t have a clean/lined up beard. That alone makes him appear to be inherently lower value. Time for a visit to the barber.
he is 5'8... it'S over unless you make 500k.
@@rakashaagain get outta here with that BS. I’ve seen men more unattractive than him get women at his height. He just needs a little bit of fine tuning. Dude makes fine money, has his own home, owns rental property and has a side business. He will do fine
@@jameslane9267 can he learn game... yea, can he get in shape... yea. Is it worth it, debatable. at 5'8'', it'S going to be really hard plus the divorce machine in the background, not worth it imo. But go ahead, let'S see him back in 10 years.
@@rakashaagain dude stop being so negative. Getting in shape, learning game, making money that's all for your development as a man.
@@ethannaka1822 i'm realistic and normally rich his too. Not saying he can'T get a girl, but at 5'8, not too good looking, ok money and 'nice guy'. His prospect are low and who care about woman man. Man need to stop having woman as a objective, rich normally say that, not sure why he is being all sensitive on this one.
Definitely stay away from ladies with 3 kids from 4 fathers...
3 kids from 4 fathers...Lol
10 times out of 9
I say that all the time! Worse when it's 4 kids from 6 different fathers!
Some just dk who the father is
their reality is their current emotional state
Dude making alpha salary, not an alpha? you are too nice bro. You got to put the hammer down on them females bro
Sad,but true
Best of luck brother..dont settle...you will find someone whos quality.
I live in Atlanta…McDough, Ga is half of this guys problem.
I literally had a nightmare last night that felt so real, it was about me being a single mother trying to date
I woke up in a panic
It's a warning, don't get pregnant out of wedlock and don't divorce your husband in the future.
Stephan is a very high value guy. He doesn't need to be an alpha. I wish him much happiness and success. And I hope he finds his unicorn.
Does anyone in their mid 30's think that they are going to meet a woman (especially an attractive woman) who doesn't have a kid? I personally think that until marriage laws change, it will always go against men.
True most attractive woman are taken...
Well you aint gonna get a good single women in her 30's, they're all used up by then. The idea is to take care of yourself so you can get girls in their 20's while your in your early 30's.
True, 30-something single women without kids are nearly nonexistent. The few that don't have kids are either very unattractive or too attractive (100,000 men following them on Instagram and pro athletes in their DMs), or they have a dog or multiple cats. You have to look for a woman in her 20s without kids, or a woman in her 40s whose kids are already over 18.
i would take the younger women root . NOT FOR EGO but for a family and a woman with better fertility
I have experienced and seen this more times than can count. Rick's 'Captain Save a Ho' comment is so apropos.🤣
Rich I think you know your stuff and you remind me that my decision to not have a wife or kids is great. I already have one full-time job and don't want another.
What if the person absolutely hates social media, like myself? Is that really a thing we should have in order to "advertise" our "cool life" and "fish" women? Because as a introvert I find that to be unbearable.
I approach women or use online dating sometimes you catch 3 good ones but you’ll be dealing with a lot of flakes . I only have Snapchat no other media outlet
Same here, wait until pandemic is over and then go out and meet people, there are also girls that don't evaluate a guy based on his IG
Ditto! I’m an introvert also and I have social media but rarely post and dont use it to get girls. It can be effective but the issue is that it’s not real. It’s what people want you to see. The guy rich put up has a great profile and could catch some women’s eye but it’s also so staged that a lot of quality women will find the guy to be full of himself or wonder why he has so many professional style photos or he’s a model. Some of the better quality women I’ve dated literally said they like that I didn’t post a lot online or have selfies and shit all over my profile. It’s a tough situation we’re in.
@@darbyohara 100% 👍🏼
@@darbyohara I agree with you. This damn thing became an addiction and a major social experiment and contrivance. Unfortunately I live in Brazil and here it's even worse. Every women I know are completely hooked into instagram. I never liked it, and maybe I have half dozen pictures to post, but I find it ridiculous to do that kind of thing. I really value privacy and I'm pretty much certain that I'll never have social media. Men only consider appearing on social media due to the gynocentrism that rules our lives in western societies. It's almost becoming a "must" if you want to have a female partner. Even the engine and the dynamics of these platforms were designed to target the feminine public, if I'm not mistaken. The problem with dating apps - even Bumble, where women have the initiative to start the conversation - is that these girls are simply unable to maintain even a minimally pleasant conversation, which is a big turn off, because since the "times have changed" and we now have more "gender equality", they still behave in the most absolute passiveness and lazyness, expecting the guy to do all the work while they just "sit there". What a time.
once single mum here.had couple bad relationships and became a single mum,met a lovely man that loved my kids too... its part help because a home needs mum and dad to run stable,but for me it was having a good man with good ethics and a good heart,he is my protector here on earth,my better half,my soul mate that makes us 1.
Today Arrived your book. Lets start to read, right after my Holiday 🇺🇦👍👍
If you wanna be an alpha bro you gotta be an alpha … money and all that family shit isnt real to us
ohhh yes…. I’m 44 now, and starting at about 35 for me this happens all the time…
Out here you cant get close to someone without losing a piece of you with them
Bruh women wait at the finish line. Move accordingly and don't deal with deadbeat women
You guys do know majority of women in the West have at least one child! Especially if they over 30 years old!
You're doing BJJ. The girls dig it. Keep pushing forward with a positive mindset. brother!!
Just use really cool background music in your life like Hollywood does, that way even if you are taking out the trash or taking a dump on the commode it seems more intense and less boring to the ladies lol
🙌 awesome advice
😂😅 this got me laughing cos I remember couple of years back, I was every bit like Stephan( Software engineer, nice, got his shit together, don’t socialize much..) though much older than him.
I remembered while on IG and Badoo that it’s always the single moms and post-wall women sliding into my DMs and had to ask myself, “Is this the best I can get?” 🤣🤣🤣😂 Some of them do make great side-chicks/FWB though but wife material? Hell No!!
Stay strong young brother. These females got their hooks out for YOUR RESOURCES. You keep on "doing what you do"...you can DO BETTER!
Be yourself!!!!!!! Capture your own cool guy moments. Understand woman at a biological level. Maintain your masculinity. And lastly fuck shit up.