Why Gen Z CANT Socialize

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  • @Jensovhss
    @Jensovhss Рік тому +634

    A lot of people just don't seem to realise that if you want a gf/bf you need to go outside and meet people. Like, a girl who fits your type isn't going to come to your room, you need to visit public places like libraries, cafes etc

    • @DonquaviusDimglebottom
      @DonquaviusDimglebottom Рік тому +90

      Exactly bruh, these “socially awkward” people need to practice speaking with the mouth to REAL people

    • @jasonoyola590
      @jasonoyola590 Рік тому +50

      They're hoping for their step sis to get stuck somewhere irl.

    • @Jensovhss
      @Jensovhss Рік тому +28

      @@jasonoyola590 ik like life ain't like that

    • @curlyhairjess
      @curlyhairjess Рік тому +14

      I mean you forgot that dating apps exist too but even then you have to actually physically meet and interact with them in person so yeah people got to at least have some sort of semblance to what a conversation face to face looks like

    • @brrraiden3080
      @brrraiden3080 Рік тому +9

      Thats easy to say when you’re straight

  • @NotBlackAiden
    @NotBlackAiden Рік тому +180

    I like to socialize when around people, but then there are those times where I'm doing my own thing and I just don't want to be social. So I tend to just avoid people in those moments.

    • @meechylindsey9880
      @meechylindsey9880 Рік тому +8

      Fr if I don't feel like being in the spotlight I tend to just be quiet 💀

    • @NotBlackAiden
      @NotBlackAiden Рік тому +1

      Mhm and then they expect you to want to talk when you clearly don't want to.

    • @liljtheprofessional112
      @liljtheprofessional112 Рік тому +5

      Kind of depends on the situation-if you’re just tired and stressed out and just want to be left alone for a bit, that’s understandable, but if you’re actually addicted to your phone and don’t want to talk and interact with people, that’s a problem ngl

    • @meechylindsey9880
      @meechylindsey9880 Рік тому +3

      @@liljtheprofessional112 I be just tired

    • @smailchali5102
      @smailchali5102 Рік тому +3

      ​@@liljtheprofessional112cant have time to yourself no more

  • @krakenow
    @krakenow Рік тому +223

    In 2019, I went to meet the voice actor for Lucio from Overwatch and I was not good at communicating with him. He understood me but I felt like shit after done taking. I do feel my autism didn’t help with the interaction.

  • @cloakdYT
    @cloakdYT Рік тому +40

    Bruh I remember just tryna approach this one girl and I said “hey” and she said “mmm no.” Like what 💀

    • @DepartmentART
      @DepartmentART 11 місяців тому +8

      Damn bro 💀

    • @Deleted_user982
      @Deleted_user982 11 місяців тому +5

      Damn rip dude

    • @Reggae023
      @Reggae023 4 місяці тому +2

      I know I’m VERY late, but she ain’t the one, don’t even waste your time on her bro 💀

    • @mannymushies5241
      @mannymushies5241 4 місяці тому +2

      I’m sorry mate but that’s hilarious keep your head up brother

  • @ryanhinojosa1205
    @ryanhinojosa1205 Рік тому +73

    I’m a gen Z, with an old soul …I study the highest level maths, play instruments, draw and paint, play sports… but yet no one in this generation have the attention span or care to achieve much. So it has made me feel like an outcast and others find it to be a cry for attention. I guess I was too hopeful to change our generations mindset

    • @Nae_ex
      @Nae_ex Рік тому +16

      Honestly, stay that way. I was a chronic gamer, but I'm slowly trying to draw more and do more things in the creative space.

    • @Valentino016
      @Valentino016 Рік тому +4

      Yo I do kinda the same thing except im high level english and don't play instruments

    • @algirdasltu1389
      @algirdasltu1389 11 місяців тому +2

      Stay like that bro youre gonna do better in the long run

    • @dando541
      @dando541 10 місяців тому

      That’s on them keep doing what you’re doing

    • @manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811
      @manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811 9 місяців тому +2

      I'm gen z and I enjoy calligraphy, journaling, gardening, studying random topics, drawing, and learning Spanish. I feel like technology kinda makes it all obsolete (besides gardening) but I think it's cool to be able to do things that people don't do anymore.

  • @memesthursdayfriday9222
    @memesthursdayfriday9222 Рік тому +53

    Damn bro I'm straight outta school and Tommy drops a banger💯. As a member of gen z and an autistic i can indeed confirm I'm very socailly awkward.

    • @jan5734
      @jan5734 Рік тому +2

      wem acskshually it's "socially" not "socailly"

    • @thebaconguy1661
      @thebaconguy1661 10 місяців тому

      @@jan5734errm akhsiuali it is soliclacly

  • @subhuman6903
    @subhuman6903 Рік тому +179

    Me:”I want a girlfriend with short hair and I want her now”.
    A girl with short hair:”Hi”
    Me:”Gets scared”

    • @robez.
      @robez. Рік тому +6

      It’s the other way around for me lol they get shy 🤣

    • @Evilraptorus
      @Evilraptorus Рік тому +23

      ⁠@@suborgayme personally I wouldn’t take that

    • @DrippinNyimi
      @DrippinNyimi Рік тому +11

      @@suborgayLMAO

    • @robez.
      @robez. Рік тому

      Ah the typical overweight 6th grader we meet on this fine day. It's crazy when you assumptions and you have no proof of anything. also, that was back in 7th and that was just one. aint no one else did that Just trying to loose it up a bit aint nothin else lol💀i aint the keyboard warrior here@@suborgay

    • @clashingflames
      @clashingflames Рік тому +10

      @@suborgay damn it's always the unwarranted roast

  • @blinkkzyyy
    @blinkkzyyy Рік тому +114

    As someone born in genZ IM AWKWARD ASF

  • @XenithMainChannel
    @XenithMainChannel Рік тому +37

    Tommy Afro Rating:
    Edges: 8
    circumference: 8.3
    Smoothness: 8.7
    Puffiness: 9.6
    Front: 9
    Back: 8.6
    Mushroom cap: 7
    Evenness: 7
    Average
    8.275
    Damn tommy, A little slacking on the evenness and back of the Afro. You have some craters on the sides and top. Pick it out more evenly and most diffidently will be a 9!

    • @flamingpaxtsc
      @flamingpaxtsc Рік тому +4

      This is the best comment series of all time

    • @Sunevey
      @Sunevey Рік тому

      lmao

    • @Valentino016
      @Valentino016 Рік тому

      True

    • @Nae_ex
      @Nae_ex Рік тому +2

      Am I the only one that can't take the word circumference seriously 😅?

  • @Jackson-cd3mv
    @Jackson-cd3mv Рік тому +22

    This is basically what I done, i became a lot more sociable when my school made it so we cant use our phones. Im able to talk a ton more laught and joke more. I kinda agree with this.

  • @BertDaMonkey
    @BertDaMonkey Рік тому +37

    I’m not that socially awkward but i have my moments

  • @odothedoll2738
    @odothedoll2738 Рік тому +29

    I’m autistic and I was put in social skills classes from a young age, I’m starting to think the neurotypicals should have these to. I have high anxiety but it’s like singing on stage for me, it’s hard to start but once your a few seconds in it’s totally fine.

    • @ThrillsofColdplay
      @ThrillsofColdplay 11 місяців тому +1

      I am as well but I don’t mind talking to people it depends though

    • @algirdasltu1389
      @algirdasltu1389 11 місяців тому +3

      Ngl this guy with aspergers that i know has better social skills than alot of normal ppl

    • @awesomezebroz_2949
      @awesomezebroz_2949 11 місяців тому +2

      You don’t have to be autistic to relate. It just seems like normal social anxiety

    • @HEXO_HANK69
      @HEXO_HANK69 10 місяців тому

      No need to tell us when your pfp explains it all

    • @odothedoll2738
      @odothedoll2738 10 місяців тому +1

      @@HEXO_HANK69 think of a new joke

  • @mvpmvp3861
    @mvpmvp3861 9 місяців тому +9

    I think the problem with the current generation is that they’re unwilling to learn outside of their interest. There’s some people that I’ve had strong and fun conversations with, but once that passes and they have no other topics, then they start to reach for anything relevant to that topic to open up a conversation. Learn to diversify your interest and knowledge so you can always be in a position to have fun conversations, learn and teach. Chaining things is always the best route

    • @Oxide53115
      @Oxide53115 3 місяці тому

      ai great advice thx

  • @kyleman0122
    @kyleman0122 Рік тому +12

    I can socialize normally when I need to but sometimes its still hard for me to look at my new friends in the eye while we're talking, but ive been actively trying to fix that tho

  • @CrisisMoon7
    @CrisisMoon7 Рік тому +13

    schools back and I just cover my face with my hoodie like a turtle does with their shell. Most my classes have people I can’t relate to. I can talk I can have conversations, just sometimes I don’t feel like talking.

    • @DrippinNyimi
      @DrippinNyimi Рік тому +5

      It may be time to lose the hoodie gangy

    • @CrisisMoon7
      @CrisisMoon7 Рік тому +5

      @@DrippinNyimi I have a shit haircut, I plan to grow it out so hopefully I’ll have more self confidence in myself by then

    • @TempyTheCat
      @TempyTheCat Рік тому

      Damn you got to wear a hoodie at your school. Never got that.

    • @CrisisMoon7
      @CrisisMoon7 Рік тому +1

      @@TempyTheCat especially rn, teachers and hall monitors don’t bat an eye to it anymore

  • @_Ch1llz
    @_Ch1llz Рік тому +27

    bro getting a job where i have to interact with people has helped insanely with my anxiety. My place of work has a policy to start conversations and to be super friendly so being forced to has rlly helped.

    • @matthewelvis5221
      @matthewelvis5221 Рік тому +3

      I might become a cashier at Chick-fil-A after my interview next week, so hopefully that helps😭

    • @_Ch1llz
      @_Ch1llz Рік тому

      @@matthewelvis5221 good luck man

    • @greeneyelightskin746
      @greeneyelightskin746 Рік тому +2

      @@matthewelvis5221good luck but I’m scared kinda like I’m 13 almost 14 and I’m scared if my social anxiety and awkwardness won’t go away, and it will affect me later in life. I think it started in 2019-2020 i moved to a different school during online school so idk maybe it was a contribution to my social awkwardness

    • @peytonsmitty
      @peytonsmitty Рік тому

      Same bro

    • @Astridify
      @Astridify 11 місяців тому

      @@greeneyelightskin746we’re you like the popular kid in your old school or something

  • @maninanikittycat4238
    @maninanikittycat4238 Рік тому +23

    during high school I rather not talk to the other kids because some were very in your face to the point where I felt discomfort, some were too too loud, and the freshmen during my senior year were simply the worse! we're talking band kid/mfs who have a USSR phase levels of annoying!
    and the fact I'm autistic probably didn't help. but weirdly enough I felt more comfortable talking to the teachers

  • @Hy_Tech
    @Hy_Tech Рік тому +8

    The girl complementing you thing is so true cause ot of anything this girl could have said she complemented my eyelashes .

  • @Hi.imdory
    @Hi.imdory Рік тому +30

    I’m socially awkward but I just mask it with a more bubbly personality and being nervous makes it worst

  • @cinder_craft
    @cinder_craft Рік тому +43

    I feel like I’m the opposite from most of my generation, like I’m perfectly good with socializing in person but I absolutely suck at communicating via text/social media haha
    Although this year I’ve been stepping out of my comfort zone and texting some more, so I can master socializing both in person and online B)

  • @belindawamushiyi4576
    @belindawamushiyi4576 11 місяців тому +7

    bro like I understand the intention behind this but goddamn my social anxiety/awkwardness is not a switch I like turn on when I'm around ppl...I could go out in my most confident and that shit just activates like autopilot. now I ain't got the tism or nun, just grew up moving around a lot so shit makes it harder to get cool w ppl like dat easily (and my voice hella quiet by the curse of my genetics) but damn some of us just be shy or introverted n shit, this world been built for extroverts so for a lot of folk who struggle it aint just a skill/age issue or nun

    • @_Gwuapo
      @_Gwuapo 11 місяців тому +4

      Anxiety can be a genetic thing, maybe your folks had it. Doesn’t mean you’re stuck with it for life. There’s ways to cope with it, it may sound dumb at first but meditating can help alot. It helps you learn to be comfortable within your own body n shit, anxiety is all in your head. Nothing but racing negative thoughts about things you can’t control so why bother. Once you can understand that, it becomes a thing of the past

  • @firefox9595
    @firefox9595 10 місяців тому +5

    Tommy: "Treat everyone like their NPCs"
    Me looking at the thousands and hundreds of GTA NPCs I ran over and shot: If you say so

  • @j4kltheoneandonly03
    @j4kltheoneandonly03 9 місяців тому +2

    I wasn’t conscious of my own social awareness until I was at middle school to the point where I started stressing about people’s opinions about me. Sometimes when I talk to people, especially those who that I can’t relate to, it’s hard to be the one who establishes the friendship. Hopefully over time, I can be more aware of my social settings and figure out how to be less socially awkward.

  • @shadowfox8084
    @shadowfox8084 Рік тому +6

    I am both anti social and socially awkward
    And also Extremely paranoid and anxious so I just keep to myself

  • @ClyusOfficial
    @ClyusOfficial Рік тому +4

    BRO SO TRUE I ALWAYS THINK OF THE BEST ROASTS SHOWERING LIKE WHY ALWAYS WHEN I SHOWER?!

  • @vekazu_is_great_guy
    @vekazu_is_great_guy Рік тому +11

    Well i live in finland And every gen here only talks when they have to (sauna not included)

  • @Kylemusic1
    @Kylemusic1 Рік тому +5

    I also think if you try to build your confidence and you have to get more stylish and whatnot, try to wear something unique like a ring with a cool design on it or a watch/wristband that looks nice or a shirt,hat,glasses etc. because it will make you stand out and it can be a good conversation starter.

  • @tysonbranch-rodgers8141
    @tysonbranch-rodgers8141 Рік тому +11

    For me,I like to socialize with my friends

  • @algirdasltu1389
    @algirdasltu1389 11 місяців тому +2

    I have had anxiety for as long as i can remember, but its getting better slowly.

  • @zoyfhast
    @zoyfhast Рік тому +5

    I don't think people are exclusively very social or not at all, it all goes in grades, sometimes you just feel like talking, others you don't, some times you start out good, but run out of things to talk about.

  • @manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811
    @manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811 9 місяців тому +3

    As Jreg says ; "You're not an introvert, you just suck at being an extrovert."

  • @PixP6
    @PixP6 Рік тому +6

    Heres how to make friends
    Act normal

  • @ThelordHayden34
    @ThelordHayden34 10 місяців тому +2

    I can socialise. Just Because I choose not to doesn’t mean I can’t.

  • @pamcaik
    @pamcaik Рік тому +7

    I give more compliments then I get🥲

    • @DrippinNyimi
      @DrippinNyimi Рік тому +1

      It should make you feel better overall gangy

  • @Valentino016
    @Valentino016 Рік тому +4

    It's so hard to socialize when your age group doesnt want to and doesnt know how. I try to speak with people but they all make me feel awkward when im trying to make them laugh and have a conversation. They give of a bad personality. They are not authentic. Their humour is so cringe to. This is why I have older friends. If you wanna be more social just practice get off the internet and just go outside.

    • @electricay
      @electricay Рік тому

      Autism be damned I just have to not talk to my friends

  • @manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811
    @manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811 9 місяців тому +1

    I was homeschooled and I'm on the spectrum and lost all social interaction with non family members in 2020-2021. I was super worried about socializing when I went to school for the first time (at 16). But tbh I have average social skills compared to a lot of other people. Which would be worrying but it's good news for me ig.

  • @dragonxblkangelx216
    @dragonxblkangelx216 Рік тому +6

    I mean it mostly effects people born 1999 - Now so basically the only people not affected by this would be 1996 - 1998 borns

  • @vdel9279
    @vdel9279 Рік тому +4

    I’m a kid born in genz but I never had this problem

    • @rgonzalo511
      @rgonzalo511 Рік тому +1

      Nah u probably do. Talk to people from older generations. They will notice how awkward you are real fast. Because unlike gen z they actually were forced to get good at socializing. So they notice bad social skills real quick

    • @vdel9279
      @vdel9279 Рік тому +1

      @@rgonzalo511 ok if you say so

    • @rgonzalo511
      @rgonzalo511 Рік тому +2

      @@vdel9279 nah bro on some serious shit. U can learn a lot from older people when it comes to socializing. Because they didn't grew up with the internet. So there social are more refined

    • @vdel9279
      @vdel9279 Рік тому +2

      @@rgonzalo511 my parents are good people when I was young I had to socialize because my mom did not let me use the internet

  • @KenzTheLesserLad
    @KenzTheLesserLad Рік тому +3

    this got restricted in 12 hours dawg
    UA-cam loves to see us fail

  • @Astro_DBL
    @Astro_DBL 11 місяців тому +2

    The thing is not having out phones out with other ppl when it comes to my friends I will keep my phone in my pocket but if I am with family or my gf I will put it somewhere else so I can actually be there in the moment

  • @Bandoozled
    @Bandoozled 11 місяців тому +1

    deadass i remember first few days i was chillin in my class talkin to a new kid, and outta nowhere these mfs start bringing up anime debates. the new kid liked anime but he wasn’t a full on dweeb, but my other friend started arguing about which anime character can beat who with the others and the whole time i was just sitting there so fucking confused. Those mfs where deadass mad at each other over some anime characters powers n shit

  • @spingleboygle
    @spingleboygle 6 місяців тому +1

    ever since covid our social skills went down 100 levels

  • @Touchthesky76
    @Touchthesky76 Рік тому +2

    THE KING OF LIVE STREAMS

  • @Idkwhatthisis551
    @Idkwhatthisis551 10 місяців тому +2

    It's a combination of genetics and upbringing. I would know I'm also extremely awkward myself

  • @Honestboxer680
    @Honestboxer680 Рік тому +8

    I dont say anything not because im socially awkward its because if i use the humor i use in the boys gc i would be locked up for life

    • @_Gwuapo
      @_Gwuapo 11 місяців тому +5

      This is why you need to get off social media and live in the real world

  • @ernie9538
    @ernie9538 Рік тому +3

    Is over for me💀🙏🏼

  • @tksofleezyy
    @tksofleezyy 11 місяців тому

    Treating everyone like they nps is the move fr 😂😂💯

  • @tricklebug
    @tricklebug 9 місяців тому

    as a zoomer who doesn't use social media other than youtube, i appreciate tommy out here keeping me updated on my people 😭🤞

  • @Greenyguy
    @Greenyguy Рік тому +3

    The only parties that these people will ever attend is weddings and funerals - (not as a parties but as invitation, sorry for bad wording)

    • @KenzTheLesserLad
      @KenzTheLesserLad Рік тому

      funerals are parties?

    • @Greenyguy
      @Greenyguy Рік тому +1

      @@KenzTheLesserLad not parties but more gatherings, sorry for bad wording

    • @ernie9538
      @ernie9538 Рік тому

      ​@@KenzTheLesserLadFun in funeral

  • @Smd88
    @Smd88 8 місяців тому

    It’s probaly because we were locked in a house for a year. Especially for me I didn’t have a phone so I couldn’t call or text any of my friends. The only interaction I had with people was my family

  • @robez.
    @robez. Рік тому +5

    Lol if you had friends from elementary and they stay with you, you good from now on until they leave :| but that’s why you makes friends with there theirs friends
    Big brain time

    • @DrippinNyimi
      @DrippinNyimi Рік тому

      Until their friends also leave you, 🤯

    • @robez.
      @robez. Рік тому

      @@DrippinNyimi Just follow the train -__-

    • @DrippinNyimi
      @DrippinNyimi Рік тому

      @@robez. Sure sure 🤓

    • @robez.
      @robez. Рік тому

      @@DrippinNyimi damn the no friends reply be like:

    • @DrippinNyimi
      @DrippinNyimi Рік тому

      @@robez.Sure sure 😱

  • @unknownuser993
    @unknownuser993 10 місяців тому +2

    Just get a job, You'll HAVE to talk to people then.
    I used to be awkward before, now I still am, but now I just don't give a fuck anymore.
    Throughout your life you'll have a lot of awkward interractions and might even yourself come off as awkward, but it's not the end of the world. Nobody will care about you being awkward, except you yourself.

  • @mrphrog445
    @mrphrog445 Рік тому +3

    W Tommy video
    W NFG (Nigga fart gang)

  • @YourNormalProgram
    @YourNormalProgram Рік тому +1

    7:32 This matches me way too well

  • @oghuz_kaghan
    @oghuz_kaghan 7 місяців тому

    also him:Why cats are overpowered😂😂

  • @gamrboi99
    @gamrboi99 Рік тому +1

    The first time a girl complimented me I was like thanks then in my head I was like going ape shit because that was a first for me

  • @youtonene6466
    @youtonene6466 Рік тому +5

    Tommy never fails to produce great content

  • @mr2dspelow
    @mr2dspelow Рік тому +3

    I find it easy to socialize in band

  • @thomaz24
    @thomaz24 11 місяців тому +1

    I tried to be socialaze one time in school and now everyone hates me and wants to kill me and that's why I'm antisocial now

  • @Bagelgeuse
    @Bagelgeuse Рік тому

    I usually meet ppl at parties. Most of them are friends of my friends so that probably helps. We usually end up playing beer pong before we even know eachother's names.

  • @Raymond-Z32
    @Raymond-Z32 Рік тому

    I suck at socializing cause I’m very nervous in public and I poop my pants when I have to talk to someone or someone asks me something

  • @Teto80655
    @Teto80655 Рік тому +1

    3:23 this shit happened to me once there was a girl that approached me to ask for some directions and my mind went like huh

    • @Teto80655
      @Teto80655 Рік тому

      It was the first day of middle school

  • @landon6156
    @landon6156 Рік тому

    I talked to people and I have no friends, and no one at my school likes me.

  • @jakestan1185
    @jakestan1185 Рік тому

    Why couldn’t have I listened to this 4 months ago

  • @AJxUnruly
    @AJxUnruly Рік тому +1

    Tommy has to be the most relatable person alive

  • @ThrillsofColdplay
    @ThrillsofColdplay 10 місяців тому +1

    I only watched like two anime shows as a very little kid that didn't last though

  • @guerostaybanned
    @guerostaybanned 3 місяці тому

    I’m def not anti social , my baby momma will tell you that plus I’ve worked in restaurants and warehouses since I was 15 and 18 so that’s helped my social skills to but my problem is I just don’t feel like talking to anyone , yea If someone’s talks to me I’ll give them a convo but I’m never looking to start a conversation fr

  • @isak737
    @isak737 Рік тому +3

    bruh i used to be able to but ever since quarantine i couldn't .💀im much better now but if i talk with ppl my age its still kinda hard. ALSO IAHVE SOCIAL ANXIETY UNBFOTRUNATELY

    • @dando541
      @dando541 10 місяців тому

      It’s because most people didn’t socialize during quarantine and lost their social skills from lack of use

    • @isak737
      @isak737 10 місяців тому

      @@dando541 yeah i know. Also i changed schools and went to high school for the first time so it was really new

    • @dando541
      @dando541 10 місяців тому

      @@isak737 yea it can be pretty scary at first but you’ll be there for 4 years so you should get used to it eventually

    • @isak737
      @isak737 10 місяців тому

      @@dando541 ive been here for 4 years 💀 it’s gotten a lot better tho

    • @dando541
      @dando541 10 місяців тому

      @@isak737 oh ok I thought by switching schools you meant from middle to high school

  • @ZeChef9000
    @ZeChef9000 Рік тому

    I'm gen z but I grew up being a very social person and I'm glad I didn't really grow up on the internet

  • @ASouthParkFan2010
    @ASouthParkFan2010 7 місяців тому +1

    I tried man

  • @zenithlmao
    @zenithlmao Рік тому +4

    i think quarantine made us have social anxiety

    • @YourNormalProgram
      @YourNormalProgram Рік тому +1

      Yeah, Quarantine ruined the most of us, especially kids.

    • @Nonxistent_J
      @Nonxistent_J Рік тому +1

      100% true. I was always a shy person but I knew how to socialize and had friends but after Quarantine, I turned to a completely different person

  • @PikaBro007
    @PikaBro007 10 місяців тому

    bruh the way he said cupertino though 😭I live there

  • @ChisanaSenshi
    @ChisanaSenshi Рік тому +1

    7:45 he legit got me exactly those were all me ;-;

  • @PoketronPokey404
    @PoketronPokey404 11 місяців тому +1

    Question for anyone to answer: is there such a thing as public parties. Like anyone can show up?

    • @Nae_ex
      @Nae_ex 10 місяців тому

      Night clubs, but they aren't recommended for making new friends

  • @mobiletaskforce_1d129
    @mobiletaskforce_1d129 10 місяців тому

    All i would need my phone for is calling people. Cuz i wouldn't want to miss a call from my parents or something. And i don't anyone else who would call me regularly.

  • @Randomlyours
    @Randomlyours Рік тому +2

    I blame covid because i use to socialize so much i still do but not as much

  • @arayangodfrey1971
    @arayangodfrey1971 Рік тому +3

    I’m kinda socially awkward low key 😅

  • @ThrillsofColdplay
    @ThrillsofColdplay 10 місяців тому

    I’m a little awkward but I don’t mind talking to people sometimes

  • @adb_500
    @adb_500 Рік тому

    4:16 if i just say i like yb you would call me a dr

  • @ivandencev3333
    @ivandencev3333 Рік тому

    Keep up with the good content brotha !! btw Where do you stream

  • @lincolnblair96
    @lincolnblair96 Рік тому +1

    Tell me why this is the most relatable shit for me

  • @mrtrollnator123
    @mrtrollnator123 Рік тому +1

    Im probably the most awkward person in the world 💀

  • @trinkmeinblut
    @trinkmeinblut Рік тому

    Tnfg post letssss goooooooooooooo

  • @oscartapia1409
    @oscartapia1409 Рік тому +3

    covid 19 ruined my social skills

    • @O.H306
      @O.H306 11 місяців тому

      I think that was the catalyst.

  • @Rus351
    @Rus351 Рік тому

    its not like I am into into my phone is just that thought I lost it or someone took it. So I always have it on my pocket or on a table

  • @pipe.bomb.
    @pipe.bomb. Рік тому +3

    Do some of degenerocitys new videos

  • @A_Literal_Egg
    @A_Literal_Egg 11 місяців тому

    2:45 so true i was working at a summer camp with this girl 2 years ago and she made me a bracelet out of fucking pipe cleaners I still have it theres no reason i should still have that shit but its just not something that has ever and probably will never happen again

  • @zakthebigmac1431
    @zakthebigmac1431 Рік тому +5

    I regret making my twitch name bighairybulgarians (im nоt even bulgarian)

  • @Cryptic-knight
    @Cryptic-knight Рік тому +1

    BRUH I CAN TALK LIKE FUCKIN EMINEM HDJDJFJFHDHSODJGJJF

  • @leeallanthorne
    @leeallanthorne Рік тому

    Yo tommy posted

  • @user-bs6fr7by6m
    @user-bs6fr7by6m 9 місяців тому +2

    Well I'm autistic so imma just give up

    • @Oxide53115
      @Oxide53115 3 місяці тому

      nah man dont just give up

  • @bi0_n1c
    @bi0_n1c Рік тому +7

    Pffft, men don’t socialize 🗿

  • @abandonedacc
    @abandonedacc Рік тому

    i was just watching this today 💀

  • @louds48
    @louds48 Рік тому

    how do i talk to someone other than my family

  • @Gh0ul.mp3
    @Gh0ul.mp3 Рік тому

    my schools mates suck schools indivituals sucks idk what to do

  • @_Ainz
    @_Ainz Рік тому +10

    Tommy neber fails to spread our cheeks and fill us with his joy😊

    • @SixShotsRn
      @SixShotsRn Рік тому +2

      🗿

    • @unike_yt7057
      @unike_yt7057 Рік тому +7

      💀📸

    • @hollowsid9623
      @hollowsid9623 Рік тому +12

      These goofy ass youtube comments 💀

    • @CyanPlushCaptain
      @CyanPlushCaptain Рік тому +3

      all these comments are the fuckin same 💀💀💀

    • @dando541
      @dando541 10 місяців тому +3

      I swear the sus comments give off more bot energy than the original ones written by actual bots

  • @bamza-z9p
    @bamza-z9p Рік тому

    what do mean by treating them like npcs 🤨

  • @MoguMogu818
    @MoguMogu818 Рік тому +2

    I got tons of hobbies and friend. Moment I end up hanging with my friends and have girls to talk to, I suddenly forget all the hobbies and things I do in my life and end up making a fool of myself. Sometimes my rizz is so bad, I end up helping my friends hook up that night.

  • @hellofellowgamers4214
    @hellofellowgamers4214 Рік тому

    7:40
    indeed (but not anime for me)

  • @messiah1915
    @messiah1915 Рік тому +2

    I can hardly enjoy watching this one video cause the dude Tommy is watching is just needlessly aggresive with what he's saying.
    Like there is no reason why you had to decide on the "Autistic People" route of referring to socially awkward people. You're talking about a condition I cant really control at all to describe me?
    My real problem with talking to people is the fact that everyones adjusted to being utter assholes or aggresive in some way. Like in school, how're you gonna try to talk to any kinda person who makes themselves out like a class clown? I shouldnt really have to accept laughing at 3+ different "jokes" about me in order to talk to someone. And girls often have some sort've barrier of just looking like you *cannot* talk to them as a dude that doesnt look like a chad or something. Like you have to immediately fit standards just to get listened to.
    Online conversations make a giant point of this too since 3/4th of yall have a 300% chance of attacking other people based on opinions or whatever like powerscaling. Why would I ever wanna go up to people who may be the type to aggresively talk that kinda shit? I just dont wanna deal with no aggresive bullshit + I have interests that cant really be plain communicated to anyone. So what opportunity is there to even find the right person? Pretty much none.

    • @_Gwuapo
      @_Gwuapo 11 місяців тому +1

      This tommy dude is only aggressive because he’s triggered on how accurate the video he’s reacting to is. He hates the fact he can’t socialize. He’s just projecting, you can tell he’s actually hurt almost like the video was deliberately made about him. Notice how he tries to clown his own viewers by calling them wierd and saying they have no friends. He’s literally projecting his own insecurities, it’s sad actually. Don’t feel bad just because your slightly autistic, just makes you more unique wich is rare nowadays.

    • @messiah1915
      @messiah1915 11 місяців тому

      @@_Gwuapo I, wasn't talking about Tommy himself, I mean the person he's reacting to.
      Tommy is *not* aggresive at all, it's hella clear that he jokes alot. He's blunt and sometimes mean but he ain't a bad dude. However the guy he's reacting to just sounds like a total dick, like he has no proper vocabulary to actually get a point across without trying to insult you.

    • @dando541
      @dando541 10 місяців тому +1

      I think that video’s trying to be really blunt and kind of serve as a wake up call, the main message is just to get out there and try socializing and it will get better as you practice it just like any other skill
      Oh yeah it also assumes that most people are actually sane but you can’t apply that if everyone around you sucks