As a woman, I find it unbelievable that women behave like this 😢 I’m so sad that some women are so depraved. It is so hideous and long jail sentences should be mandatory for anyone who dares to abuse a child.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Me too by my father. My mother was also complicit in this. She knew and did nothing. It was myself my 3 sisters and 2 of my nieces. It happened over a 30 year period. You are brave. We were too, but he committed suicide before court. No one knows the impact except those who have experienced it. The detective on our case said it was one of the worst cases he had ever seen. He was brought to tears at times. Keep being brave but also be kind to yourself ❤️
I hope you got the therapy you needed, to know that none of it was your fault and that you are not damaged. These people are sick predators who destroy lives. Don't let him do that to you. He may have been your dad, but he was never your father. You have the good parts of your dad, not his bad parts.
@@chellerowe9390 Very sad Chelle your father was a sick disturbed individual and I’ve always been of the belief that a mother knows if her children are being interfered with, it almost makes her worse. I hope you’ve found peace 🫶🏻❤️
There are so many crimes against children. These rock spiders need to be stopped. It's changes who you were meant to be. Super proud Harrison you're a super star ✨👏👏👏✨
Harrison, you are so intelligent, so articulate, so brave. Thank you for sharing your story with us and I hope talking about it helps with your healing journey. Warm hugs to you xo
It's so good to hear a story like this because it doesn't get near enough publicity of how women abuse young kids just like the amazing amount domestic violence where the woman abuses the man,i have personally been abused by a half sized wife, worst thing friends family nobody ever believed
Never less of a man Harry… never! You are creating pathways for other men as other men have done too… you are so strong for speaking up! All SA survivors deserve peace, love and healing ❤
Thank you so much for just considering my pain,I could have tried to stop this physically but I was brought up to never touch a female, again your thoughts mean alot
Your so right Harrison It is about a trophy You were her trophy She was your trophy And Garys friend was his teachers trophy Two contrasting stories One of psychological manipulation where it was pleasing The other where there was physical pain that most people think is pleasure X thank you for sharing these stories 💗🤗
Wow.its unnusual to hear of this a stepmother SA abuser. She was Filipino. What age was she when he was 13? im so sorry he went through that she betrayed her trust. To get pregnant to a child is shocking too. Its no less repugnant because its a male child
Gary's constant laughing is so inappropriate. 'We are not laughing " No Gary was. The man's anguish is palpable and your response was wholly inadequate.
This is true crime just as much as any other story … just a far cry from the usual lost bikie, loser locked up, bank robber turned counsellor stuff were used too. This should be interesting as for once it’s an innocent victim were taking too and not some crook who got caught
This does happen to boys like it happens to girls which doesn’t get recognised the same. I’ve heard of his story before and too many unexplained choices. I believe it happened but the way it happened or was responsible etc is a mystery. There’s always 2 sides to a story
So he was in love with his abuser and he was going to run away with her when he turned 18. He only felt guilty when he thought he was having an affair with his dads wife. These are very different than what a sexually abused girl feels when its her father.
He was a child. You're completely wrong in what you are saying. What you are implying are the exact stereotypes and myths that we as a society need to dismantle and debunk.
He was groomed & psychologically manipulated. A giant amount of fear & coercion was placed on him. He was NOT fully physically developed & neither was his brain! Never blame a CHILD victim! Even adults in domestic violence relationships or even cults never speak up because they fear so much & are brainwashed. As a child, he had no one he felt he could trust enough to share what a nightmare of a life he was going through at the hands of an adult!
Did you even watch the video? She convinced him it was an affair, he didn't know he was being molested, he thought it was a consensual love affair. She preyed on a child who didn't know the complexities of the real world
Two week old channel, this is clearly a troll. Revolting comment mate but just want to ask you something. Why choose such a pathetic job? You sitting in your parents basement living on takeaway, no friends and contemplating your life choices?? Hmm Get a real job mate.
Australian women have a lot to answer for . 61 fathers suicide a week going through family law court each week and over 3100 a year . These suicides are directly related , linked and correlated to women / mothers alienating the children . 3 choices , wait until you see your children - the back logs 3-4 years , retaliate and snap back DV or suicide . Get serious - don’t BS around . The flip side is the toll on society with DV . When will there be a real discussion on the treatment of fathers , the consequences & where does it end ?
Narcissist and predatory persons have a lot to answer for. This step thing is from the Philippines. Mothers also have their children withheld from them by partners . It is maybe helpful to take gender out and see it as a personality type who does this rather than male or female ?
Congrats to both men for talking about this so well….no victim blaming etc
As a woman, I find it unbelievable that women behave like this 😢
I’m so sad that some women are so depraved.
It is so hideous and long jail sentences should be mandatory for anyone who dares to abuse a child.
Sadly these kind of sickos are in both sexes
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Me too by my father. My mother was also complicit in this. She knew and did nothing. It was myself my 3 sisters and 2 of my nieces. It happened over a 30 year period. You are brave. We were too, but he committed suicide before court. No one knows the impact except those who have experienced it. The detective on our case said it was one of the worst cases he had ever seen. He was brought to tears at times. Keep being brave but also be kind to yourself ❤️
I hope you got the therapy you needed, to know that none of it was your fault and that you are not damaged. These people are sick predators who destroy lives. Don't let him do that to you. He may have been your dad, but he was never your father. You have the good parts of your dad, not his bad parts.
:( x
@@chellerowe9390
Very sad Chelle your father was a sick disturbed individual and I’ve always been of the belief that a mother knows if her children are being interfered with, it almost makes her worse. I hope you’ve found peace 🫶🏻❤️
You are brave. I am sorry
My heart goes out to you😢yr a very strong young man for Talking about your abuse
Shocking beyond words. Very brave of you to go public. Hope life treats you well.
There are so many crimes against children. These rock spiders need to be stopped. It's changes who you were meant to be. Super proud Harrison you're a super star ✨👏👏👏✨
Harrison, you are so intelligent, so articulate, so brave. Thank you for sharing your story with us and I hope talking about it helps with your healing journey. Warm hugs to you xo
What a twisted woman.
Oh Harrison 😢 you are unbelievably wise and mature for your age. Sending you love, Peace & healing ❤️
This crime undermines the most precious capability we have as human beings, the ability to trust others and life itself.
Thank you for everything you do
It's so good to hear a story like this because it doesn't get near enough publicity of how women abuse young kids just like the amazing amount domestic violence where the woman abuses the man,i have personally been abused by a half sized wife, worst thing friends family nobody ever believed
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I am soooooooo sorry you went through that, and that you weren't believed. Horrific.
I was sexually assaulted by my mother, before my teens.
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Worse betrayal no one should experience. You deserve deserved so much better! Virtual hug ❤
Never less of a man Harry… never! You are creating pathways for other men as other men have done too… you are so strong for speaking up! All SA survivors deserve peace, love and healing ❤
What a sick mental case that woman is.
Thank you Harrison for speaking out to help young children to understand sexually abused is not acceptable
Heart breaking for him 😢
Oh my gosh, this poor guy
Thank you so much for just considering my pain,I could have tried to stop this physically but I was brought up to never touch a female, again your thoughts mean alot
He wasn't laughing. He doesn't condone this behaviour at all.
Your so right Harrison
It is about a trophy
You were her trophy
She was your trophy
And Garys friend was his teachers trophy
Two contrasting stories
One of psychological manipulation where it was pleasing
The other where there was physical pain that most people think is pleasure
X thank you for sharing these stories 💗🤗
We have all been groomed on a whole... we speak out now in the name of jesus 🙏❤
Wow.its unnusual to hear of this a stepmother SA abuser. She was Filipino. What age was she when he was 13?
im so sorry he went through that she betrayed her trust. To get pregnant to a child is shocking too. Its no less repugnant because its a male child
What a sad story that you have been through
it is exactly that we victims have moments of joy 😓
This is gross.
O my gosh I am so sorry for you
Fully understand the meaning of the weight of the past and all the betrayals of the little me flashbacks never go!
That's sad
So sad.
Is there a part two to this?? Did the step mum go to jail. And does his daughter now know that he is actually her father?
His dad never thought this could be his sons daughter? He caught them so right there is enough to plant a seed.
Did they lock her up? The stepmother?
How could a woman do this we are as a species suppose to protect babies and all children I cease to understand this😢😢
Gary's constant laughing is so inappropriate. 'We are not laughing " No Gary was. The man's anguish is palpable and your response was wholly inadequate.
Some people’s reactions to uncomfortable situations is to laugh . It’s not because they think it’s funny
@@Meena-io2us
He probably finds this confronting even embarrassed because generally men aren’t so open to talk about this abuse.
@@lisakemp7352it’s inappropriate and it’s why we don’t speak up
Reminds me of the south Park episode when the cops say the only crime here is she isn't doing it to me
How demented, glad we never watched the program and exposed our child to such a sick take on that subject.
This is true crime just as much as any other story … just a far cry from the usual lost bikie, loser locked up, bank robber turned counsellor stuff were used too. This should be interesting as for once it’s an innocent victim were taking too and not some crook who got caught
😂😂😂
Great awareness Harrison. Bring the light.
I catch killers?
How about another name for your podcast.
This poor guy!
she killed his childhood
Great.
Australia was built on SA/SRA..
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I’m not of Australian Indigenous heritage.
@@UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8mdand?? Sorry, what has that got to do with my comment? Serious question
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Explain what sa/sra is.
@@UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8mdthats what Google is for! We dont spell it out on social media 😉
(Maybe ditch the headphones?)
How old was the stepmother?
She was an adult he was a child
Early 20’s
It just gets better 15 years old
What was the stepmothers age ?
She was an adult. Why would you ask this ??????
@@missruth26wierdo to comment that hey
Early twenties
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Why go on the internet, though?
To let other victims know they are not alone
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Yikes you’re not too sharp.
It needs to be talked about.
Young victims with no one to turn to, so this helps young ones get their heads around it. Maybe get help as they've been groomed...
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This does happen to boys like it happens to girls which doesn’t get recognised the same. I’ve heard of his story before and too many unexplained choices. I believe it happened but the way it happened or was responsible etc is a mystery. There’s always 2 sides to a story
What are you insinuating?
He was a child stop.victim blaming fgs
So he was in love with his abuser and he was going to run away with her when he turned 18. He only felt guilty when he thought he was having an affair with his dads wife. These are very different than what a sexually abused girl feels when its her father.
He was a child. You're completely wrong in what you are saying. What you are implying are the exact stereotypes and myths that we as a society need to dismantle and debunk.
Victim blaming, how demented seek help.
He was a kid! If a stranger treated him this way or his father for Gods sake they’d be toast. For the love of God when does the perversity ever end?
It’s called a trauma bond ! Not uncommon it situations like this
I don’t see him comparing the two
What you were 13 before the penny started dropping and you guys make it seem was happening everyday and night cmon champ
Have a sip of that water brother 😂
I’m sorry this happened to you but at 13 years your not an idiot you know how to speak up
He was groomed & psychologically manipulated. A giant amount of fear & coercion was placed on him. He was NOT fully physically developed & neither was his brain! Never blame a CHILD victim!
Even adults in domestic violence relationships or even cults never speak up because they fear so much & are brainwashed. As a child, he had no one he felt he could trust enough to share what a nightmare of a life he was going through at the hands of an adult!
Wow! I never would have thought a female would victim blame on what was going on here. I hope tf you aren’t a parent.
How dare you!
Did you even watch the video? She convinced him it was an affair, he didn't know he was being molested, he thought it was a consensual love affair. She preyed on a child who didn't know the complexities of the real world
Can we swap mom's?
Yuck
Two week old channel, this is clearly a troll. Revolting comment mate but just want to ask you something. Why choose such a pathetic job? You sitting in your parents basement living on takeaway, no friends and contemplating your life choices?? Hmm
Get a real job mate.
That's what I was thinking mad hey on tap 24/7
You’re just as sick as what she is
What a sick woman. She should be locked up.
Australian women have a lot to answer for . 61 fathers suicide a week going through family law court each week and over 3100 a year . These suicides are directly related , linked and correlated to women / mothers alienating the children . 3 choices , wait until you see your children - the back logs 3-4 years , retaliate and snap back DV or suicide . Get serious - don’t BS around . The flip side is the toll on society with DV . When will there be a real discussion on the treatment of fathers , the consequences & where does it end ?
Also, your statistics are false.
Do some basic research.
Narcissist and predatory persons have a lot to answer for. This step thing is from the Philippines.
Mothers also have their children withheld from them by partners . It is maybe helpful to take gender out and see it as a personality type who does this rather than male or female ?