Trying to Get Out of the Friend Zone w/ Tara Yummy - Dropouts
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What's up everyone! Welcome back to another episode of Dropouts! This week we dive into the psyche of women and Tara specifically to understand what it takes to get out of the ever so feared FRIEND ZONE... Jared gives us a little second date update, and we introduce some new games like Cheating or Not Cheating and Red Flag / Green Flag which sparks some HEATED debates. Then to top it all off we answer some of the wildest submissions to Dropouts Advice. If you want your question answered send us an email to dropoutsadvice@gmail.com.
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You guys should make Tara cohost. Zach you gotta make move here
Jake he’s very better than you
all i want is a podcast with just zack and tara
@@day7353 hell no we don’t want Zach and Tara to be together on video none more and you wrong for that
@@chris-hf9ux nope it’s not gonna happened at all
Zach is the most sane one during the cheating or not cheating
facts. i agreed with him the most out of everyone tbh
When him and indy were a thing/broke up I remember he let his walls down a little and he’s actually super relatable when it comes to relationships. I feel like social media has tried to convince us that relationships should be way more flexible than they actually are for a lot of people. I’d never be okay with my partner being in the same room with someone of the opposite gender changing even if there was some magical way to assure neither one are attracted to each other. It’s like people bend their boundaries to cater to others or something
What how
Agreed
@@Spijen exactly. i think zach’s perspective is almost seen as “traditional” which people view as a bad thing which in reality it isn’t, it’s how it SHOULD be. idk why anyone would be okay with their partner being around someone changing or sharing a bed with the opposite sex (or same sex if they have that interest)
Jared, please don’t feel you’ve overshared!! I was giggling & kicking my feet the whole story time, tuned IN. 100% here for the girl talk 🎀
SAME🥲
i think he just means for privacy reasons
@@helengrugetthe didn’t feel like he completely overshared until the other girl made it seem like giving the details was the wrong thing to do so he probably felt embarrassed
10000% agree
@@faitheleanor9663I understand where she’s coming from but Jared is definitely not the same. It’s a nice exciting dating adventure, it’ll die down once he’s fully in the relationship
Wow Zach has never been more... Respectable? Wholesome? I honestly started to like the idea of Zach and Tara together and now I feel like Zach deserves someone with his same level of relationship morality.
Exactly. Tara IS an LA girl, but I feel like even tho she actually is an LA girl, she tries to fit in with that stereotype so bad because she likes the “aesthetic” about it. Kind of like when someone is wearing an outfit and they change their personality to fit their outfit aesthetic.
I agree. I love Tara but she doesn't sound respectful in a relationship. Too bad
Maybe Zach’s right and she will get so sick of toxic LA alt boys that Zach will start to shine in her eyes ✨
@69kat69 Absolutely. She is so scared of releasing this identity because of the new wave of feminism, which by the way is incredibly toxic and damaging to women. I know for sure she is scared of being vulnerable and is covering up the loneliness with the stereotype. Zach and Tara would absolutely be perfect for each other is she was willing to be authentic and real.
@@allamericanbtxI think we also don’t actually know these people and have been made aware it’s a persona so
i love how vulnerable jared is, so uncommon in men and it’s so sweet to see
its not a good thing
@@hankwoods2448actually it is
@@hankwoods2448it is though. men’s mental health matters. we don’t need more toxic men.
There is a reason it so uncommon
@@abobkrsaad8466 it’s uncommon because men aren’t supposed to be pussies
The “will they, won’t they” friends to lovers possibly has me hooked lmao 💀 y’all are my Roman Empire rn
Saaaame 😂😂
righttt im so hooked on them😭😭
Right? 😂
fr
I love them together ❤Leo and Virgo ❤❤❤❤
I hope Tara never stops coming onto this podcast 🤍🤍
I read this without the never and it felt so passive aggressive but I agree with what you said😭😂
no her opinions are too controversial
I hope you stop watching ❤❤
thats a good thing tho @@mambaforever9593
@@mambaforever9593how??
I was going to hate on Tara and her opinions on cheating, but then Zach said don't hate on Tara. So Love you Tara, I hope you have a great day!
time stamp?
Same
Why was she getting so defensive over the location too omg, her age showed
form your own opinions damn brother 😭😭
@@greciat7664for real. I don’t mind opinions but hating on other peoples opinions while being scared of what people will say about your own one’s is just lame 😒
The beginning of Jared’s story broke my heart I’m so glad it worked out!
i love that they dont have to get guests anymore
they just drag tara onto the podcast every week
The simps flood in
Tara is the only guest needed!!!!💕
@@KillerKistalshe’s a part of the team now tho
Just here to say: emotional intelligence on 💯 from Zach on this one. Love the immediate apology after Jared called him out and the attentiveness to their opinions even when joking. And the insight on how to handle those situations. I know we’re here for a laugh, but I’m over here psychoanalyzing 😂
No but I agree with you. It’s very impressive and cool to see.
time stamp?
@@danielcalvillo8946watch the video…
time stamp: 37:46 when zach cut off jared
Ur lookin way into it
Damn, Zach's perspective on the games is perfection! Everything he said was what I think too. Didn't know there were still people around like that anymore, let alone a man. 😅
I always thought Zach is husband material. Love his perspective
Tara girl lol. Boundaries in relationships are key, dont belong to the streets
it’s cool that they are keep bringing Tara back I think they have good chemistry together, also with her the views are way up
yeah I noticed that earlier
I've been watching every episode with her in it. It's way better with her imo
i hope she becomes the new indiana
yess the views are way higher when tara is there and she (personally) makes the episodes sm better
@@gabbyreads2421i agree
I wonder if after the cheating or not cheating segment, Zack rethought that whole friendzone question
she literally said at the beginning that cheating to her is crossing the boundaries you've set with your partner instead of an individual judgement that you impose on your partner. that's literally the only healthy definition.
@@NacrunoCreations Boundaries don't need to be set if both people have strong morals. It's not imposing judgement to expect your partner to be respectful in certain ways to you without clearly outlining it.
I feel like taras getting more comfortable and sharing her opinions more without thinking about it too much at first, but thinks we’ll hate her for it. I really enjoy her straightforward energy. Shes a very honest girl and she’ll admit it when shes wrong but let you know when she think shes right. I understand her feeling vulnerable at times bc she’s putting herself out there in a more personal way. I hope she knows we love her bc Ik I do. I dont expect her to be perfect or to share the same opinions as me but its nice to hear them in earnest. Im super happy she’s a part of this podcast ❤
This is legit some of my favorite content online right now. I’ve watched since the very first episode. And Tara makes the podcast feel so alive, she’s a great addition.
I think Tara needs more reassurance that the audience loves her. ❤I feel like this is all too new to her and probably getting overwhelming.
Agree 100% new territories can be overwhelming and scary. She’ll get the hang of it, im sure of it. She’s a natural!
Yes I agree I mean her answers were definitely interesting n I agreed with none of what she said but I still like her the same bcz it’s not that serious 😭
@@4sh.10kyeah I agree with this, I was more with zach on the cheating game and the red/green flag game and didn’t agree with Tara but I love her all the same. She’s really funny and shes such a beautiful character. I like how she’s able to stand for herself and that she’s not a pushover too. Shes a sweetheart!
I mean literally every comment mentions her positively asking to see more of her I’m sure she’s fine
I only started watching after I kept seeing clips of Tara on this podcast.
Please Tara, stay permanently in the podcast. I love how sweet and charming you are, and your rapport with both Zack and Jared is absolutely fantastic. I love my boys, but your presence elevates the podcast to something better, even fantastic.
Zach was spot on with the cheating or nots. Tara seems like a 304 with her responses ngl.
tara is def a walking red flag lmao. the not wanting to share locations mixed with the cheating on her parter with the celebrity crush. clearly means if she found someone hot enough she would def cheat and that’s why she is so opposed to sharing locations
Finally someone said it, I was expecting zach to be the red flag but it’s completely the opposite. Her answers were…..
And she is in LA too. She will swoon over a celeb right in front of you
just depends on what your expectations/desires are ig. If you're looking for a conventional monogamous relationship with a super loyal partner, yeah maybe she's not the right choice. You looking for something more open on the ENM side of the the spectrum - then she seems great. she has a different set of values and way of looking at things. :)
Alyssa is so pretty dude her makeup and hair looked more beautiful than ever in this video
Alyssa seems so sweet, wish she was in the videos more.
@@melodytruesdell8337 me too ! She has such a nice and chill vibe to her. I really like her!
ikr i love alyssa sm😭
@@melodytruesdell8337same
@@herkai06 yes 😭 me too
i was shipping zach and tara bc “opposites attract” type of thing buttttt after the red flag and cheating or not cheating game, idk how a relationship would work 💀
I think if they were to date, it would only work because of the "agreeing beforehand" thing. Like, yes, they are opposites but that's what's fun about those kinds of relationships you can find a common ground for both parties while respecting each others points of view❤ that's only my opinion, okay
they r old enough to work it out if it ever happens
fr zach seems more serious
I feel like the age gap has a lot to do as well. She’s 23 and not to generalize but relationships are a little more lenient at that age, plus you have a lot of time ahead of you to date different people and make things work. Zach is 28 and is more emotionally mature and ready for a serious relationship.
@@lluviatimestwoyeah exactly! The age gap is why so their opinions were so different imo . Who knows atp if it work
No i fully agree with all of Tara’s opinions. She really popped off with the ask my parents where i am bc if you were that worried about my safety and not just my whereabouts then my parents should be worried too!!
this is literally my fav ep in the podcast, the vibes had sarcasm but also genuine i loved it so much, it felt like late night talks between group of friends
"Makes me miss zach even more" oh damn 💀
That felt bad for jared
@@untilcommm
That was harsh
No, that wasn't supposed to come out like that. It's because usually those 3 are together that she misses his presence when he is not there that one time.@@jn1217
Tara is a perfect addition to the podcast, I genuinely enjoy hearing her opinions & her personality is everything I love
Tara is so unique 😂😂 no way she didn’t think anything was cheating
I loved the energy and chemistry in this one! the takes were hilarious. I hope tara keeps coming back!
Voting Tara for official member of podcast! ❤
I love that Tara is now part of the pod, shes amazing.
1:02:51
I love when they have words of wisdom after joking especially Zach and Tara they’re awesome .
i loveeee the interactions between tara and zach - they make me giggle! this podcast is one of my favs, for sure. ☺️
i love love love the dynamic of zach tara and jared i think the chemistry and banter is amazing, absolute favourite podcast ❤️
i love the way zach is so nice and respectful to alyssa and includes her considering she works for him and he’s her boss
literally i agreed with sm of tara’s opinions. everyone’s perspective just widens everyone else’s horizons
Tara is why I’m here I love her 😂❤️
Love the chemistry between Zach and Tara and Jared is just awesome filing the best part
And Tara did get her footstool this week
Now she got stoolfeet 🤮
*Squattie Potty
i love tara’s ideologies, she’s NOT an insecure individual at all in her relationships
frr
"ideologies"?
ehh
Having standards and boundaries doesn’t make you insecure. Any smart man isn’t letting their girl have celebrity crushes especially if she’s already famous. If you let a girl like Tara who has the ability to meet a lot of celebrities have celeb crushes and flirt with other people ur bound to break up
loll it will work for her, she's an LA influencer it's her lifestyle. keep yourself safe. if u think that wanting to actually leave ur partner for ur 'celebrity crush' is sane..damn.
Tara needs to be a staple on the pod!!! I need her every week!!! Love you girl!!!
I like that Zach brings up us blue collar boys 😂
y’all need to keep my girl tara, the chemistry between all of yall is unmatched
Tara is the only reason I keep watching this podcast, we love you girk
In my opinon all four of you guys have great chemistry. Love what u do, this podcast brightens my day when i watch it.
This episode is very unique and very enjoyable, the conversations were good and the jokes are funny and not over the top ! It felt like everyone was just having a good time and hanging out , even zack here was more of himself than the other podcasts , keep up the good work
that sounds like an ai generated that for you
@@cayleightherat english is not my first language maybe thats why , i’m sorry
@@silverbullet7414 no it’s okay lol! i was just joking
LOVE THAT TARA RANDOMLY CAME ON AND HAS BEEN BACK EVER SINCE I LOOK FORWARD TO THIS PODCAST MORE WITH HER 😍❤️🔥
this is def my fav episode w tara so far this one was so funny and wholesome lol
Tara’s too much in the games. She has zero boundaries.
I feel like i’m in mourning because this video proves that they wouldn’t work well together
no i know right😭
These questions definitely put a huge divide between them 🥲 was rooting for them to get together but idk anymore
51:24 “with a fucking pigeon?” had me ROLLINGGG 😭😭😭 tara had me laughing my ass off in this episode istg
Tara is, without a doubt the best part of this show
Zach for sure
Tara for the streets, typical LA girl, imagine having no problem giving ur friends, ur parents, everyone except ur man ur location 😂
Last relationship ended because of a lack of empathy on my part. Communication really is the most important part of any successful relationship
Empathy and communication are two different things
@@davidhaynes9338 the implication wasn’t that they were the same. It was that perhaps with better communication, what had grow to become such an insurmountable obstacle may’ve just been a mere stumble if not something avoided entirely.
Tara’s so nervous about sharing her opinions but I actually agree with so many of them and love how real she is!!!!! Go off queen!!!
Literally like I agree with her as well like it all just depends on the person and their s/o on what they agree
i love tara too! but what sucks for me is i’ve been cheated on unfortunately so it has changed some of my opinions on these questions but i still do think it depends. like the person i’m with now, i had to set strict boundaries because there has been infidelity in the past but then again that’s on me for still being with them and i should allow my next partner to have that freedom to do anything and not pin my trauma and jealousy onto them because of what someone else did to me in the past but i will be cautious still lol. i want to be in a relationship where i can let loose and not worry like tara though, where there is trust.
I really hope people in the comments stop with the sexualization and demeaning comments.
Yall are so fuckin lost agreeing with a majority of her opinions. I feel so much pitty for you.
Yeah I don’t agree with any of her opinions on cheating or flags but I think she is a nice girl, great laugh and good sense of humor. Wish her the best
Tara we love you please never stop coming on the podcast ❤ the podcast needed you I love all your comments and everything
I wholeheartedly agree with Tara. And I hope you see this babe🫶🏽
I wish social media were a better space where Tara wouldn’t have to apologize for all her perfectly normal opinions. Love her for being so open!
I mean, they may be "normal" by today's standards. But they should never have been normalized.
I bet Zach feels conflicted. Views are way up with the podcast and more entertaining but i can tell Zach is crushing hard and doesnt want a repeat of Indiana lmao
Zach isnt crushing hard, literally just get a grip.
Yall we know she gonna peep the comments so why say something likes this
@@jce-eu9dzyes the hell is..
It’s the other way around lol
@@damsdams586 but you dont actually know and thats the thing you're stupid enough to be so assure of your assertion. In reality they are just friends who are doing a podcast n thats it.
Tara we love you on the podcast 🙏 please keep coming back!💖🫶
Please keep bringing Tara back! The energy has been amazing recently!
KEEP TARA PERMANENTLY ON THE POD!!!!
Based
during the whole segment towards the end tara is speaking FACTS
Zach clearly hasn’t broken out of his Grinch character yet 😂
This is honestly one of my favorite episodes of the podcast. Been watching for a couple years and I love the energy and conversation today. Keep it up guys!
The chemistry as a group is so good i can watch these Tara podcasts episodes and be entertained every single second they need to keep her on
Love Tara, i've been seeing the pod 100% more since she's been on.
And yes, that just means i've been seeing the pod now😋
I am here to say Tara needs to be officially a host on this and that is because only found out about this pod bc I’m obsessed with her. Give Tara thanks ok??? Good! ❤
Tara being SOOO passionate about the not sharing locations thing, to the point where she’s looking upset over it, and then saying it’s the guys projecting on her is so funny lmfao
Like girl… that says more about you then it does about them
literally love her tho
@@TheSwagGals I like her but I stand by what I said
@@Sagacypher you asked and answered the question in the same comment.
if this is what you think a mean comment is, I wouldn’t be surprised if this was your first day on the internet. I even said I liked her. I just don’t like this side of her, which isn’t a problem because I’ll never have to personally deal with it. It’s a comment section and I posted my opinion. Womp womp
@@69kat69the fact you just ended your sentence with womp womp explains everything lol
@@gloria3963 the fact that you ignored everything else I said and focused on the last two words says everything as well 😂😂😂😂 that’s embarrassing af for you
I’m 27 & haven’t used social media in almost 6 years like Zach hinted at I truly don’t think it’s good for my mental health. The only time I’m actively on my phone is when I’m on UA-cam at night or if I’m just searching Amazon for shit to buy. People who aren’t making money off social media but still spend most of the lives on it are truly lost souls just trying to vicariously live thru other people 🤷♂️
@@untilcoBut social media isn't the neutral institution you're making it out to be. Their whole business model is to keep the users' attention as long as possible so that they make the most money through advertising. And they're real good at it, so that's obviously going to be a detriment to most people who use social media.
If you benefitted from it, good for you, that's the definition serendipity.
Podcast has become so much better, since Tara joined. Really great chemistry!
Genuinely the ONLY bad thing about this podcast was the two ads, other than that I absolutely loved it💯💯💯
tara should always come like if u agree
The mental gymnastics they do to say something isn't cheating is insane.
It is refreshing to hear Tara’s views on relationships when they were doing red flag green flag. I usually see things much different than others and I agree with Tara on a lot of her views with that and it’s refreshing to hear those shared perspectives
Yeah, you're a walking red flag to likely 95% of people
Damn Tara took the games personally 😂
tara feels like part of the show officially! she's amazing even if i disagree with some of her opinions still a queen
Yea i disagree with must of what she says but i just learned she's only 23 so her opinions make sense now and i like to hear the different opinions!
I loved this podcast before but this with Tara is amazing they all have great fun together and Zack seems happy in himself I as a man who was on the brink of suicide look up to him and this podcast has saved me from the brink thank you guys
it’s so nice to know me and tara think alike like it’s so refreshing cus i am the same way where ppl probably think i’m an awful person 😭
My last relationship ended because she was way too clingy and was not at all understanding of me needing time with my friends, family, or just by myself. I’m talking at least 10 texts on every social media per every half hour I was not answering, and then calling me and literally crying because “she just misses me”. I can remember a time a fell asleep, only to wake up to hundreds of texts asking where I went, even though I told her I was going to take a nap. Before I ended things, I tried to talk to her and set some boundaries, however she just started bawling because she thought I just wanted to see her less. She was a very sweet and smart girl but extremely sensitive, eventually I realized there was no way she would understand and give me the space I desperately needed. It was really hard to end, definitely the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my life. The weirdest part of navigating this was that we did not have this problem at all through the first 6 months of our relationship, I still wonder what changed.
This is a good day it’s Tara day😁 I just watched her on Jake’s channel,Tara’s channel and now I’m here 👏
FR
I agree with Tara in the sense that i can understand her POV, but i also agree with Zack that there's two sides of each coin.
I wouldn’t agree with most of Tara’s relationship opinions but that would never make me hate her! It’s interesting to hear how other people think and approach things. Nobody is meant to be the same! We love you Tara
I just want to say thank you on behalf of all of us listeners for bringing us another episode with Tara.
I agree with a lot of Tara’s hot takes, no worries girl! But even if there’s some I have a different opinion on I still actually really appreciate her honesty, and she’s also really fucking funny!
The girl that “friendzoned” me, bases all of her partners on how similar they are to me.. 😅 because “you’re the perfect guy, we’re just too close to do anything, it would feel weird”
She needs therapy but hey props to you for being the standard
Zack always bringing them back to reality love it
I feel like this is the most normal podcast with all four of them yet. This most def my favorite episode by far ❤
Zach was most sane on the two games. Taras mentality is of a typical “influencer” who thinks she can do whatever she wants and that the world revolves around her. Come on down to earth and live in reality
lol Tara was so worried abt how much hate she would get for her opinions, even though I agreed w all of them 😂
Great episode of the podcast! Loved the conversation! Laughed out loud in the library multiple times!
I agree with alot of what Tara said in the cheating/ not cheating game. If you're secure in your relationship, and you have friends that respect you and your relationship, you can be in those scenarios and it's not cheating.
Exactly, so much of those scenarios imply that you have underlying trust issues with your partner. And it's ok for people to be insecure even though that's used pretty synonymously as an insult, but it's not my vibe at all
It’s just about respect and having boundaries
she literally said she would cheat on her long term partner for a celeb crush…
Alyssa!!! YOURE GREAT can’t wait till she’s less shy 🥹
Tara on this podcast is so top tier I never want her to leave
This is a really well put together podcast, it’s also so funny and chill. I love it Zach and Jared!
The way Tara and Zach say the same thing at the same time and then look over at each other is so funny. 22:42 for example. That happens so much since she came started coming on here.
Yes, that happens a lot with them
and at 26:55
I’m a very humble person and I do not use any social media except UA-cam I just didn’t care to see everyone complain
Taras opinions i agree with and for the poeple that dont thats okay im honestly proud of tara for not shying away and lying about it. Taras amazing on the podcasttt
At 22:44 i love the way Tara and Zach look at each other after saying “the sopranos” at the same time lol 🤣🩵
Tara, we love how YOU you are. Also idk about the other girls of course but I felt like her takes on cheating were pretty valid
Wild you think that
Delete 💀💀
love her but her takes were awful