@hillsssy That's the point, that's what the song is about... about knowing better than even trying to associate with a guy with a girlfriend, because if anything happens... he'll tell his gf that she came onto him etc etc ("the bad guy") and he couldn't do anything about it ("the victim"). You can't help how you feel about someone, the song is just saying that she's smarter than trying to do anything about it.
@hillsssy its not about trying to take your guyfriend away from his girlfriend its about having a guy friend who u r close too and even though nothing happens becuz of how close u r to the person the girlfriend may get the wrong impression and it could also be interpreted as what kristenmsz said
the bear...lmao. i would've expected this to be really serious, i like how that makes it a lot more lighthearted. i listen to 95% hardcore shit but this is awesome :)
If I was in the position of the girlfriend, I'd be really pissed by this song. But I'm not, so I like it. And I know I shouldn't be jealous of my friend's girlfriend, because it's immature and I've never felt that way about him...it's so weird but now I think I love him. We've been best friends since second grade.
i shit you not i had a dream of that bear. cause i watched this music video a long time ago and now i just had to watch it again but couldnt remember who sang it for a few days
Totally goin thru this right now haha... really into this one girl & she's into me too but she has a gf & I'm pretty sure her gf is suspicious of me...sigh it sucks
@jumboband It's a bit folkier than other artists, my opinion. I also think her voice is quite unique, but nowadays the soft love song genre is quite flooded.
@phopho4 lmao...your comment is hilarious. as for me...i KNEW the bear was the girlfriend and the guy was running around with the "friend" from the start.
@YellowFantanaFan Essentially when she moved to LA, she met a guy and whenever she tried to go hang out with him, she'd get all up in her ass about shit. Eventually he stopped returning her phone calls, turns out it was because of her friend's girlfriend. She got all upset and wrote the song. ?v=B2TAgnAxeIo No idea why it doesn't work for you, does for me.
@rruutthhable I don'tget people that have boy/girlfriends and they also like somebody else. If he was into you, why didn't he broke up with his girlfriend? I can't trust people like that.
Ok so basicly it is a gril who likes her best friend and he has a girlfriend. and she doesn't know she has one at first and then she meets her. and his girl friend is jelious of the bond the two of them have or had.. and slowly the girl friend was breaking them apart. and everytime they blame her because the girlfriend lies and makes it seem like she is a bad person. that's why it says you'll p[lay the victem and i'll be the bad guy.
Well I met this guy and hes perfect. Like completely perfect. Besides the fact I found out he has a girlfriend... But apparently he doesnt care because he still talks to me. She knows we talk to but she makes me seem to be the bad guy. But you know what? Im sorry your boyfriend doesnt like you enough to not cheat on you.
@hillsssy That's the point, that's what the song is about... about knowing better than even trying to associate with a guy with a girlfriend, because if anything happens... he'll tell his gf that she came onto him etc etc ("the bad guy") and he couldn't do anything about it ("the victim"). You can't help how you feel about someone, the song is just saying that she's smarter than trying to do anything about it.
gah, that voice!! love her hair. and her dress. and her boots. saw her live once, she's really funny and cute :)
my days didn't know there was a video :)
That bear scared the living shit out of me in the refection on the subway.... :O OMFG!
Saw her live 2 days ago....love this song. Amazing!!
I love your story behind this song, Meiko!
I hope the girl doesn't beat you up after this.. when she hears it. X)
You are amazing.
awesome videoooo!
awesome song!
Amazing vid. Just loving the bear. lol.
one of the best songs i have ever heard!
@hillsssy its not about trying to take your guyfriend away from his girlfriend its about having a guy friend who u r close too and even though nothing happens becuz of how close u r to the person the girlfriend may get the wrong impression and it could also be interpreted as what kristenmsz said
It's nice knowing i'm not the only one with these problems!
Hahaa sing it sistah!
the bear...lmao. i would've expected this to be really serious, i like how that makes it a lot more lighthearted. i listen to 95% hardcore shit but this is awesome :)
meiko is the sweetest girl ever!
Hahaha this song and music video is so awesome XD haha!!
i love this song!!!
lmao! the bear -what a great bear :D
2021!💕
lovely
I love this song. I can relate..lol
good, love
Relevant.
love his bear girlfreind its awsome
FRIENDZONE !
me gusta la musica
the song was good ^.*
If I was in the position of the girlfriend, I'd be really pissed by this song. But I'm not, so I like it. And I know I shouldn't be jealous of my friend's girlfriend, because it's immature and I've never felt that way about him...it's so weird but now I think I love him. We've been best friends since second grade.
Oh geesh I remember I went through the same thing as this once. She pretty much ruined our friendship. :/
Still a great song though! :D
Myspace - 10 years ago.
This is just like my situation right now!!!
what kind of music video was that? who is the bear/monkey, the girlfriend? LOL. anyway i love this song so much.
reminds me of my myspace days.
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ohhhh shittt ur a genius
lol this has been my theme song since middle school.... smfh
damn i like diz song but da video kind of creeps me out!! :O!
haha just imagine this bear with like a chainsaw or a big bloody axe. perfect horror movie... :)
this video is actually funny
i shit you not i had a dream of that bear. cause i watched this music video a long time ago and now i just had to watch it again but couldnt remember who sang it for a few days
Don't you hate when you find the perfect song for the situation after the fact?
:) Good thing I luckily didn't need the guidance.
Vote for it on VH1!
the bear kinda...creeps me out a lil bit...or a lotta bit...love the song tho!
YOLO get with the program
@ChangeOurSociety Your link doesn't work... just explain it... :)
@insertyourquarters
My days? lol hell yes
hahahha! love the girlfriend!
I lurv this song...but creepy music video
@TheHolyphantom "A regular jealous bear." Ever heard that expression? :P
Totally goin thru this right now haha... really into this one girl & she's into me too but she has a gf & I'm pretty sure her gf is suspicious of me...sigh it sucks
@jumboband It's a bit folkier than other artists, my opinion. I also think her voice is quite unique, but nowadays the soft love song genre is quite flooded.
The line "you play the victim and I'll be the bad guy" reminds me of all of Taylor Swift's boyfriends.
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LOL at bear, gets around quick don't she?!
@Nellatrescocos I totally agree with you! He is the one who has to break up with her :( (sorry for my English)
....it's a bear....XD but i adore this song!!!
@phopho4 lmao...your comment is hilarious. as for me...i KNEW the bear was the girlfriend and the guy was running around with the "friend" from the start.
@YellowFantanaFan Essentially when she moved to LA, she met a guy and whenever she tried to go hang out with him, she'd get all up in her ass about shit. Eventually he stopped returning her phone calls, turns out it was because of her friend's girlfriend. She got all upset and wrote the song. ?v=B2TAgnAxeIo No idea why it doesn't work for you, does for me.
Meiko you so fine...
@lordxrevan u totally arent! im creeped out by it too! I mean wat up with that bear!
"I know better not to be friends with boys who have girlfriends..I know better than that" ((:
@rruutthhable I don'tget people that have boy/girlfriends and they also like somebody else. If he was into you, why didn't he broke up with his girlfriend? I can't trust people like that.
wish I'd seen this before I got caught up with that type of guy....once and never again.
@raraavises I LOVE HER
That bear is scary D:
@singing0hanna Pft go to America. or download it off teh intarwebz.
omg the bed is so scary!
Ok so basicly it is a gril who likes her best friend and he has a girlfriend. and she doesn't know she has one at first and then she meets her. and his girl friend is jelious of the bond the two of them have or had.. and slowly the girl friend was breaking them apart. and everytime they blame her because the girlfriend lies and makes it seem like she is a bad person. that's why it says you'll p[lay the victem and i'll be the bad guy.
ya i was wondering why there was a creepy bear following them, but then i saw the end hahaaa good luck wt that harry stalker gf mhmm :)
That bear reminds me of the one from the Shining...
2021?
Ugh... I know watcha mean, *stares longingly at bestfriend beside me*
if this is written about real people I feel really bad for the girlfriend. She's portrayed by a bear
Still love this song though!
2:51 hand holding fail
@rzg912 Actually hellationships is inaccurate, she talks about why she wrote the song a bit into ua-cam.com/video/B2TAgnAxeIo/v-deo.html
You know, the ending were the bear thing creeped on the subway and came towards tge girl and guy, made me think...
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT? 0.0
its the overBEARing girlfriend ;)
@YellowFantanaFan She as in the guy's girlfriend.
The ending was SOOOO FREAKIN CREEPY!!
nice song, but it was the bear that made it stand out
@Lina0David Your comment is underrated.
12 people are afraid of bears D:
its all fun and games until someone gets eaten[=
Don't mind me liking comments from 9-7 years ago
i heard this song on grey's anatomy :))
PEDOBEAR!....
anyways what kind of bear is that...a mixed breed o__o
anyways, this song is soooo catchy :DDD
my world makes complete since when boys start dating bears....with very 'pretty' faces....
@QueeenQuin Haha Hehe... i guess...
am i the only one creeped out by the damn bear
Tom.
@Sophersnfriends his girlfriend is overBEARING
the girlfriend must be overBEARing..(:
i mean i really loved this song up until i saw the video
im sorry i think the bear is awesome!
Love this song, hate that bear…who would want to be with such a stalker... That guy is way stupid.
i wonder if he knows Meiko is of legal age, cause thats gonna be a real buzz kill for poor pedobear
that is so scaryyy!!!!!! stalker!!!!!!!!!! why would he date something like tht??????
pretty much what everyone else said. Its the story of my life :/
Well I met this guy and hes perfect. Like completely perfect. Besides the fact I found out he has a girlfriend... But apparently he doesnt care because he still talks to me. She knows we talk to but she makes me seem to be the bad guy. But you know what? Im sorry your boyfriend doesnt like you enough to not cheat on you.
Stalker bear
@PeaceNdLovee His girlfriend is overbearing...get it? ^_^
lol, they couldn't find a suitable girl, so they used a bear for the girlfriend?