If there's one thing I learned is that bad boys can only fall in love with confident women. confident women will simply leave them if they are acting up. the bad guys know they will be fine without them,the usual manipulation tactics,emotional breakdown schemes won't work because the confident women will laugh in their face. they understand the guy ,might even love them a lil but will gladly leave. a strong woman knows that loving herself is all she needs. if the guy wants to be in her world for the ride,great, but if it doesn't work out- he's not her whole world .she is,inside herself.
Meditation, yoga, and self awareness really does help you unlock amazing aspects of yourself. You realize that you don’t need anyone. Whoever comes into your life is just extra
I have been binge-watching your videos and I am convinced you are a freaking genius. Everything you're teaching is 100% accurate. I USED to be a sad and pathetic needy little baby and I would cry all the time over why why why guys would use me and abuse me. Enter self esteem... Now I do what I want, I have a full and joyful life of my own where it doesn't MATTER if some guy doesn't like me or not. Now I am the one choosing which guys are worthy of my attention. If they aren't - there's the door... don't let it hit your ass on the way out.
Thank you for sharing , just ended a 14 year relationship , & everything u r saying is sooooo true, currently taking my control back , the struggle is real, emotions get the best of me sometimes but one day at a time I will be my complete self again 😊
Admire his mind and stand up for your own principals and values. Encourage each other to become the best versions of yourselves. Comunicate the difference between right and wrong as you see it to be. Speak of what you love and what defines you. Be the light in your own life and every so often remind him of the light he owns within. Speak of solutions and the value that comes as the solution is applied. Be positive about his intentions and always see his goodness at heart. Be the fairy in his life, putting sparkles on his path. Crush his wings and be the storm by withdrawing presence whenever he intentionally crosses the line. What a man wants from a woman is the beauty of the feelings he can derive from being next to you. How you make him feel about himself when he is with you, will decide with what measure he will return to you.
I completely agree with what you're saying about mindfulness and meditation. I've been grounding myself spiritually lately through yoga, meditation and positive thought and I've noticed I get more attention from guys than ever before. I carry myself in a way that's very assured and I care more now about participating in things that feel good (hanging with friends, meditating, working, etc) and I put that above any guy I'm talking to/texting or whatever. And i've found that I enjoy my life much more not because of the attention but because I'm doing things that I love to do. Very fulfilling! Love your videos btw
Every woman should aim for respect from a man before anything else because it's the foundation of a strong relationship but make him respect you by showing that you deserve to be respected. Treat him all the kindness and generosity so that he'll treat you back the way you wanted to be treated.
My God...I've always been a smart woman and adept with reading people/men....but THIS is high-value, seriously golden insight. We women don't think like manipulators, so we don't know any better until we get burned. I thought giving men chances showed I believed in them, I thought that was enough....nah. The world isn't so considerate. We need to stop seeing through the lens of emotions, we need to respond firmly and tolerate nothing. I just cut off a casual relationship with a mini celebrity/hot/multimillionaire after I finally had enough of the breadcrumbing/laziness of communication. I didn't realize he was getting away with stuff until it was too late. I knew to be direct and call him out, but I settled for words before actions. My only mistake was letting him continue his misbehavior and (unknowingly) rewarding it when I gave him my attention/affection without getting MY standards met first. What a valuable lesson though! Love your channel 💕
Thank you! You just explained where I've been messing up. I started with good self-esteem and confidence with this dude, and I messed up with giving too many chances and being overly forgiving, thinking that this dude needed time and grace. Pretty dumb of me; looking back. I needed to be more assertive and aware of the present. These videos of yours are gold. Thanks!
That's classic abuser behavior, he played on that girls emotions and gave her a gift and she's just happy again. You got to be self-assured which will make you less inclined to get played.
I know this video is old but this golden! Now I'm realizing the way to get any man's respect and love is by acting like his source of manhood and confidence through your own confidence. This is genius and can be super evil in the wrong hands, love it!
What you said about self-esteem and planning....omg you are SO ON POINT. I am truly impressed by your content haha! You know things other people don't know how to explain
be strong in the midst of chaos yeah I get it but if you never make yourself vulnerable you'll never have a breakthrough sometimes it takes the strongest pain to get to a higher place
I agree words dont mean shit.I been there too many times.steady accepting a apology but they will keep treating u like shit because they know that u will take you back.And ppl will guilt trip u
Thank you Alex! This was liberating. One of my favorite videos of yours to date. I like how you correlated the video from GOT to what you were speaking to in your video. I made so much sense.
I'm so uncomfortable watching this just cause I know I'm guilty of being passive about some stuff that I shouldn't have been passive about, BUT it's honestly about time I realize this! Aha I've been trying to reflect on myself and couldn't pin point what's what.Thus, i'm glad I came across it.
Thanks to you. This video was very helpful. And that fantasy thing is so true. Cheaters will let you dream the fantasy while covering up their mistakes and continue playing games
I love your videos Alex! Can you do a video specifically with more examples of validated a man's ego? Ego stroking 101, beside complimenting his weakness and encouraging him to face his fears.
Hey Alex, is there a way to redeem yourself and catch his eye again after you've came across needy, desperate, and too available? I want my ex back but I feel he's staying away because of these reasons. I believe I lost value and I want hia respect back. Thanks!
Your on point with your information!! I’ve dating a lot of alpha guys who you definitely have to approach on emotional levels and the key to getting them hooked is finding their weakness and strengthen their egos in that area. They get sooo hooked do whatever I want and try to please me in any way but at the same time they wouldn’t be able to think without me and that sort of began to turn me off. I’d think their no longer my type and move on unintentionally knowing what I done to them. Damn I sort feel bad but oh well some of them were always douche bags and needed their hearts ripped out for mistreating women prior to me. 😕😔🤣🤣 With this video I see whyyyyy they fall so hard and you have changed my thinking and mindset!
Joanna Mario Alpha men can sometimes be cocky confident and full of themselves...let them talk and you need to listen to find what is his fears insecurities or issues that stand in his way and you just keep him encouraged in that area!
Leecegyrl Thank you so very much, I really appreciate your kind and prompt response😍 I feel I need to listen alot more than I always have, and meditate on past conversations I've had, so I can decipher these weaknesses then... You're so brilliant! 😇👍
Easy. Whoever gives the most attention, whoever cares the most, the one who has the most to loose. Basically, perception is EVERYTHING. EVEN IF he's the love of your life in your eyes, you can't be passive about ANY of his disrespectful comments or actions. If you really want him NEVER put more energy (emotionally) into him that yourself. And if it doesn't work than he really wasn't the one to love you after all. Don't ever show all of your cards until he deserves it. A real man who loves you will respect your choices and will do everything it takes to make you feel comfort and build trust with you
i really liked this video! it's very clear, I always have been the nice girl that sees the man as a saver like in disney fairy tail prince (BS). Well I ended up heartbroken. I m 31 and thanks to you and other love coaches I understand what to do now. 🙏
Dalexis, thank you, I love this videos where you show examples, but it is really hard to see and particularly hear the movie video, most of the time I have no idea what theyre saying :/ Is it just me ? Is it possible to show the movies big sreen and increase the volume on it ? If so, thank you so much :) Its awesome !
Also Margery was saved at the last minute by her Grandma's poison pie. She would have ended up abused but not where anyone could see, so that the family alliances could hold...Sansa escaped, went North and is now in charge of Winterfell, with help, kept her faith in the good men around her and treated them well so they helped her out, ( we are talking about an era in this world where women needed men in socioeconomic ways, except for 'a girl' whom forged her own path.
Haha good advice Dalexis. But at the end of the day Margorie is dead and Sansa is now a force to reckoned with lol- but I still hear what you're saying. Love me some GOT!
Yes, but Sansa is alive mostly out of luck because Petyr was in love with her mother at one point and then transferred those feelings to her, so he helped her. Margaery did everything right in terms of getting Joffrey interested, even though he was total psychopath so that was actually really impressive of her. Tommen later on was easier. But the only problem was that she didn't count of his mother going berserk... Also note that in the books Sansa was far more beautiful than Margaery, so once again it is impressive that Margaery can win him over but not Sansa.
you are so right ..I have just stumbled apon you..I have high self esteem..but I have not ..always called guys ..out in the best way .just learning this now.. daughter of prime creator
I have always had the presence and the meditation..just took me a long time that..I have to manage the little things in a different way..so guys do not feel that can take at vantage of my empathic self.. daughter of prime creator
If there's one thing I learned is that bad boys can only fall in love with confident women. confident women will simply leave them if they are acting up. the bad guys know they will be fine without them,the usual manipulation tactics,emotional breakdown schemes won't work because the confident women will laugh in their face. they understand the guy ,might even love them a lil but will gladly leave. a strong woman knows that loving herself is all she needs. if the guy wants to be in her world for the ride,great, but if it doesn't work out- he's not her whole world .she is,inside herself.
skorpia g glad to red it thank you. Im allergic to bad boys noisy
Absolutly!
A lot of women confuse confidence with ego and then become narcissistic which is huge turn off.
Yes, I mean, why wouldn't you come first with yourself?
Meditation, yoga, and self awareness really does help you unlock amazing aspects of yourself. You realize that you don’t need anyone. Whoever comes into your life is just extra
Really????
@@civilographybsbd1817 Try it
facts
How hard is it to meditate? I dont think I understand it
I have been binge-watching your videos and I am convinced you are a freaking genius. Everything you're teaching is 100% accurate. I USED to be a sad and pathetic needy little baby and I would cry all the time over why why why guys would use me and abuse me.
Enter self esteem... Now I do what I want, I have a full and joyful life of my own where it doesn't MATTER if some guy doesn't like me or not. Now I
am the one choosing which guys are worthy of my attention. If they aren't - there's the door... don't let it hit your ass on the way out.
Yes! 👏👏👏
Erin Moriarity AMEN
Me too! Amen!
REAL HOT GIRL SHIT👑💅🏽💕
Thank you for sharing , just ended a 14 year relationship , & everything u r saying is sooooo true, currently taking my control back , the struggle is real, emotions get the best of me sometimes but one day at a time I will be my complete self again 😊
Crystal Lombard
wow a 14 year one, so long you out of it, you don't need any negativity👑👸🏾❤
Admire his mind and stand up for your own principals and values. Encourage each other to become the best versions of yourselves. Comunicate the difference between right and wrong as you see it to be. Speak of what you love and what defines you. Be the light in your own life and every so often remind him of the light he owns within. Speak of solutions and the value that comes as the solution is applied. Be positive about his intentions and always see his goodness at heart. Be the fairy in his life, putting sparkles on his path. Crush his wings and be the storm by withdrawing presence whenever he intentionally crosses the line. What a man wants from a woman is the beauty of the feelings he can derive from being next to you. How you make him feel about himself when he is with you, will decide with what measure he will return to you.
Geanina Maria wow girl! You should do your own channel 👏👏👏
Yesss
Geanina Maria 💯💯💯
Men with low self esteem will always choose women who chase them. I am happy that I have arrived at a place where I don't need a men🙏
I completely agree with what you're saying about mindfulness and meditation. I've been grounding myself spiritually lately through yoga, meditation and positive thought and I've noticed I get more attention from guys than ever before. I carry myself in a way that's very assured and I care more now about participating in things that feel good (hanging with friends, meditating, working, etc) and I put that above any guy I'm talking to/texting or whatever. And i've found that I enjoy my life much more not because of the attention but because I'm doing things that I love to do. Very fulfilling! Love your videos btw
Every woman should aim for respect from a man before anything else because it's the foundation of a strong relationship but make him respect you by showing that you deserve to be respected. Treat him all the kindness and generosity so that he'll treat you back the way you wanted to be treated.
My God...I've always been a smart woman and adept with reading people/men....but THIS is high-value, seriously golden insight. We women don't think like manipulators, so we don't know any better until we get burned. I thought giving men chances showed I believed in them, I thought that was enough....nah. The world isn't so considerate. We need to stop seeing through the lens of emotions, we need to respond firmly and tolerate nothing. I just cut off a casual relationship with a mini celebrity/hot/multimillionaire after I finally had enough of the breadcrumbing/laziness of communication. I didn't realize he was getting away with stuff until it was too late. I knew to be direct and call him out, but I settled for words before actions. My only mistake was letting him continue his misbehavior and (unknowingly) rewarding it when I gave him my attention/affection without getting MY standards met first. What a valuable lesson though!
Love your channel 💕
Thank you! You just explained where I've been messing up. I started with good self-esteem and confidence with this dude, and I messed up with giving too many chances and being overly forgiving, thinking that this dude needed time and grace. Pretty dumb of me; looking back. I needed to be more assertive and aware of the present. These videos of yours are gold. Thanks!
That's classic abuser behavior, he played on that girls emotions and gave her a gift and she's just happy again. You got to be self-assured which will make you less inclined to get played.
I know this video is old but this golden! Now I'm realizing the way to get any man's respect and love is by acting like his source of manhood and confidence through your own confidence. This is genius and can be super evil in the wrong hands, love it!
What you said about self-esteem and planning....omg you are SO ON POINT. I am truly impressed by your content haha! You know things other people don't know how to explain
Agree.
Yet of course Margaery gets blown up in the end by super schemer Cersei while Sansa goes on to become a powerhouse.
be strong in the midst of chaos yeah I get it but if you never make yourself vulnerable you'll never have a breakthrough sometimes it takes the strongest pain to get to a higher place
Awesome that you did this. Charisma on Command has done these for body language, and projecting strength. Great when you guys do this!
I agree words dont mean shit.I been there too many times.steady accepting a apology but they will keep treating u like shit because they know that u will take you back.And ppl will guilt trip u
How can you find out his insecurities and fears? Some guys hide that.
Thank you Alex! This was liberating. One of my favorite videos of yours to date. I like how you correlated the video from GOT to what you were speaking to in your video. I made so much sense.
I'm so uncomfortable watching this just cause I know I'm guilty of being passive about some stuff that I shouldn't have been passive about, BUT it's honestly about time I realize this! Aha I've been trying to reflect on myself and couldn't pin point what's what.Thus, i'm glad I came across it.
Thanks to you. This video was very helpful. And that fantasy thing is so true. Cheaters will let you dream the fantasy while covering up their mistakes and continue playing games
AMAZING VIDEO. YOU'RE BEST ONE EVER. The other GOT breakdown video with Margaery wasn't nearly as clear or captivating.
The cat in the background at 1:05 😂😂😂
that cat 😂
I love your videos Alex! Can you do a video specifically with more examples of validated a man's ego? Ego stroking 101, beside complimenting his weakness and encouraging him to face his fears.
💖❤️💙⭐️🍀 Alex, you’re great! Thank you!
The kitty behind you is amazing! 😍
Hey Alex, is there a way to redeem yourself and catch his eye again after you've came across needy, desperate, and too available? I want my ex back but I feel he's staying away because of these reasons. I believe I lost value and I want hia respect back. Thanks!
Your on point with your information!! I’ve dating a lot of alpha guys who you definitely have to approach on emotional levels and the key to getting them hooked is finding their weakness and strengthen their egos in that area. They get sooo hooked do whatever I want and try to please me in any way but at the same time they wouldn’t be able to think without me and that sort of began to turn me off. I’d think their no longer my type and move on unintentionally knowing what I done to them. Damn I sort feel bad but oh well some of them were always douche bags and needed their hearts ripped out for mistreating women prior to me. 😕😔🤣🤣 With this video I see whyyyyy they fall so hard and you have changed my thinking and mindset!
Leecegyrl Awesome! 😍 how do you find out the weaknesses of Alpha males?
Joanna Mario Alpha men can sometimes be cocky confident and full of themselves...let them talk and you need to listen to find what is his fears insecurities or issues that stand in his way and you just keep him encouraged in that area!
Leecegyrl Thank you so very much, I really appreciate your kind and prompt response😍 I feel I need to listen alot more than I always have, and meditate on past conversations I've had, so I can decipher these weaknesses then... You're so brilliant! 😇👍
Please laduy explain more
Lol I had to look behind u like wth was that..Lol -"there's a cat behind like wtf"
This is very effective demo! Thanks
Hi Alex, YOU`RE DAMN GOOD!!!!!!!
Man, I have to watch this every day! Thanks!
how do you find out his weaknesses?
Easy. Whoever gives the most attention, whoever cares the most, the one who has the most to loose. Basically, perception is EVERYTHING. EVEN IF he's the love of your life in your eyes, you can't be passive about ANY of his disrespectful comments or actions. If you really want him NEVER put more energy (emotionally) into him that yourself. And if it doesn't work than he really wasn't the one to love you after all. Don't ever show all of your cards until he deserves it. A real man who loves you will respect your choices and will do everything it takes to make you feel comfort and build trust with you
i really liked this video! it's very clear, I always have been the nice girl that sees the man as a saver like in disney fairy tail prince (BS). Well I ended up heartbroken. I m 31 and thanks to you and other love coaches I understand what to do now. 🙏
IF all men behave like Gentlemen and women’s as ladies The world will change and relationships will be so elegant and class and fulfilling 💓💓
Really easy . Have self respect first .
The cat behind. 😂♥️ Oh I love it
Dalexis, thank you, I love this videos where you show examples, but it is really hard to see and particularly hear the movie video, most of the time I have no idea what theyre saying :/ Is it just me ? Is it possible to show the movies big sreen and increase the volume on it ? If so, thank you so much :) Its awesome !
Conclusion:
meditation will increase the amount of respect that men have for you
No, meditation will increase the amount of respect YOU have for YOU. From there, others will notice and respect you more.
@@lucibloom5966 "Believe that you are a king and people will treat you like one" - Robert greene, 48 laws of power
This has to be one of my fave videos, this is so on point. You are speaking nothing but the truth. Great wisdom!
And btw that cat was hilarious 😂 lol
Excellent, excellent, EXCELLENT!
Lmfaooooo!!!!! it was at this moment 1:14 cat knew she fucked up
I'm so glad I found ur channel...
This has been one of your best videos, I loved this one
That sure is a sexy bag of soil....
Deeeeeeeeep!!! Very true!
How do u figure out his weaknesses if he doesnt show them
That was an amazing video. Thanks!
Thank you so much. This is gold and very helpful.
Thank you, Alex.
Good job. :))
I love your role in this world!!! You’re what I needed thank you!!!
These are helping me out so much! Thankyou!
such good advice Alex
I lové this Way of explaining more ... I understood more like that :) thx
Wow great video 💓 amazing breakdown
This video is soo good.. N u expained very well. Thank you.👏👏👏
You're Video is so genius. Thank you.
That cat in background 1:06😂😂😂
you have changed my life
Thank you, where was I a week ago, questioning what to do. Now I know, this is so helpful, if only I can follow directions. Thank you!
Good job on this video!
U hv interesting ways of bringing your messages across..very nice👍
Wow this is such good advice!
How do guys handle "the one who got away"?
They always come back and then when they do u saw him outside ur emotions and most times dont even want the ex nomore
These type of videos are wonderful. Overall you are increasing your value in this game.
Oh wow it was amazing! Thanks
Love this guy.... the cat in the window 😂😂😂😂🧡
great video idea
Wow... I never watch this show, but I agree w many of your thoughts. Cheers!
So helpful, thank you so much
Love this examples with the videos Thank you
Also Margery was saved at the last minute by her Grandma's poison pie. She would have ended up abused but not where anyone could see, so that the family alliances could hold...Sansa escaped, went North and is now in charge of Winterfell, with help, kept her faith in the good men around her and treated them well so they helped her out, ( we are talking about an era in this world where women needed men in socioeconomic ways, except for 'a girl' whom forged her own path.
This is the best video so far..
This has to be my favorite video of yours so far
Love your videos
she is just a unexperienced child
You’re gooood
Haha good advice Dalexis. But at the end of the day Margorie is dead and Sansa is now a force to reckoned with lol- but I still hear what you're saying. Love me some GOT!
and yet Margery's dead and Sansa is still alive 🤔
+Libra8410 shhhh
Libra8410 lol. I said the EXACT SAME THING in my head. I'm secretly hoping she'll pop out and magically is still alive. I enjoyed her character.
Yes, but Sansa is alive mostly out of luck because Petyr was in love with her mother at one point and then transferred those feelings to her, so he helped her. Margaery did everything right in terms of getting Joffrey interested, even though he was total psychopath so that was actually really impressive of her. Tommen later on was easier. But the only problem was that she didn't count of his mother going berserk... Also note that in the books Sansa was far more beautiful than Margaery, so once again it is impressive that Margaery can win him over but not Sansa.
Thanks 4 ruining it for me. Fuck u.
Not because of men but another woman, her mother-in-law. Margery was notoriously dangerous for queen's purposes.
thanks for this video thank you thank you thank you
Sweet cat i love
You're so right!
That's it.. I need a session with you ..
One of your best videos. 👍🏾
YOU ARE THE BEST!
Awesome video 👌😌 hey quick tip , try to be careful with the mic , it sounds super loud at times 😰
hey Alex! could u do a video about alpha females? what do men feel about them. signs of an alpha female etc?
Brilliant, love from Denmark :-)
you are so right ..I have just stumbled apon you..I have high self esteem..but I have not ..always called guys ..out in the best way .just learning this now..
daughter of prime creator
I have always had the presence and the meditation..just took me a long time that..I have to manage the little things in a different way..so guys do not feel that can take at vantage of my empathic self..
daughter of prime creator
Thankss lot's Alex
I think it’s very interesting to go into a different lineage,theater with ghetto new age language. Well done!
Can you make a video on how you do your meditating please?
The cat ahaha 😂😂😂
Luv it..
So true .
that cat is my spirit animal lol
You are super awesome
omg u r so on point
THE CATTTTTTT!!!!! 😹😹😹😹😹
this is your best video, because this hit close to home..never again will I be manipulated...thanks your videos are awesome😀
One of your better vids. 👍