That mother is going to have her reality crash and burn when neither the sister or brother can care for her and OP goes scorched earth and tells his mum to bog off
the mom and brother both saying "i'd hate to die knowing that you tore apart the family" feels like they were being fed lines. OP deserves a better family than this
This is one of the most disappointing and infuriating stories I think I've ever heard. OP and his husband deserved a peaceful honeymoon but his fanily made it an absolute mess and then refused to take any responsibility. They're all awful people and he should never reconnect, there's no coming back from this.
OP: 37M Husband: 36M Amber (sister): 45F Tim (Amber's partner): 47M Brother: 42M Mother: 66F Cassie: 67F Needed to type out this visual aid to help keep the story straight for myself, so I thought I'd post this comment for others like me who get easily confused by too many people lol
That was beyond unsatisfying 😭 Theres nothing that can be done about ops god-awful family, but can nothing be done about their taxes? Yeah, they'll have to pay it all back, but can the person who did it not get in trouble? Like at all? It almost feels like it was done on purpose based on how his family was acting. I hope op never reconnects with them, cause if he does, you can't convince me it won't be bc they need something from him.
@ Actually there would likely be communications between the mother and this person about this topic, perhaps a fraud investigation could retrieve those records from the phone company given another piece of evidence, so they really just need some form of recorded admission right to have enough evidence to retrieve those records right? Given the amount of parties involved, all having friends, the talks between them, it might still be possible.
I legit thought this was one of those rage bait AI stories but then remembered this is scaling stories and got more pissed. The fact the mom would pull that kinda of crap had me pissed off lol
I wonder if the mom convinced the friend to fuck up their taxes on purpose, cause why else would she recommend her friend when she apparently hated OPs husband?
there is no way the mother didnt purposefully have her friend fuck up their taxes on purpose. op might be giving her the benefit of the doubt but i am absolutely not.
I feel like op should see if he and his husband can get them on charges for harassment and defamation. And get that freaking lady that messed up their taxes. Get her some fraud crap or something. Thats so annoying I wrote this literally this right before the comment mentioning the police. I hope they can get them or something because this is just absolutely abhorrent
Shout out to Scaling Stories for including the names and ages in the beginning. This same story appeared on another reddit drama UA-cam channel yesterday, without the names and ages, and it made the video unwatchable. Scaling Stories is the best one of these channels because the person behind it seems to care that actual people are watching these videos
I'm sorry but I'm at the "copy paste" portion of Amber's apology and that was NOT AN APOLOGY. What the fuck? That whole excerpt came off as "Sorry I was frustrated with your incompetence, but we're poor so be grateful"
They offered ops and his husband a honeymoon only for it to actually turn out to be free baby sitting nightmare. They definitely deserve better than this crappy family.
For some darn reason I don't rock the boat. Nah, I go full on tsunami on it. My family is trying to hold me back since I am the "ah" who adresses all elephants in the room, calls out everyone and just doesn't care and listen.
Sounds to me like the family planned to dump Cassie on Op and spouse. They were set up. Op needs to go completely NC with the family for a very long while, if not indefinitely. The sister owes Op a BIG apology. She was awful.
OP was dumb for going on the honeymoon with his family, I hope this is his wake up call to stop being a doormat to his family. The sister and mom are gonna have a rude awakening when they lose the ability to depend on OP as a free babysitter
You should just write Mom a check for your part of the "family" cruise, since it was obviously NOT meant to be your honeymoon, tell everybody to have a nice life, and take a giant step BACK, mother may I. Just leave them alone and let them figure out their crap while you and your husband enjoy married life. You and your sister are clearly having two DIFFERENT conversations and thinking you are talking about the same thing. There is sticking up for yourself and then there is showing a sign to an illiterate person and saying, "What's that sign say?" The frustration runs deep, but what can you do? THEY CAN'T READ.
Id sue for slander Yes, you can sue for slander in Canada if your province has defamation legislation. Defamation is a civil wrong that occurs when someone makes a false statement that harms another person's reputation. What you need to prove The statement was false, The statement was published (shared with others), The statement caused harm to your reputation, and You suffered damages. What you might need to submit Damage reports, such as medical or financial reports What you might need to do File documents in court and Serve the other party with the documents. What you might be entitled to Civil liabilities, such as damages What might be a defense The statement was true. What provinces have defamation legislation? Ontario: Libel and Slander Act British Columbia: Libel and Slander Act Alberta: Defamation Act Manitoba: The Defamation Act You can consult a lawyer for more specific advice.
Sorry OP but you brought this on yourself. Why do you not have any boundaries, keep it up and you will find yourself single. Your husband doesn't need to put up with your stupidity.
Did we not watch the same video? Op literally said he only just now realized that his family hates him. Given how shocked he was at Amber's attitude on the cruise, they were probably playing nice to him. And, He literally confronted them -not just Amber right after they got off the cruise. Not all abusive family are overt with their dislike and scapegoating. Be serious😅
That mother is going to have her reality crash and burn when neither the sister or brother can care for her and OP goes scorched earth and tells his mum to bog off
How disgusting. It's crazy how it takes major life changing events for a family member's true colors to come out.
this is sad. like, really sad. it’s just a bunch of closeted homophobia coming out.
the mom and brother both saying "i'd hate to die knowing that you tore apart the family" feels like they were being fed lines. OP deserves a better family than this
This is one of the most disappointing and infuriating stories I think I've ever heard. OP and his husband deserved a peaceful honeymoon but his fanily made it an absolute mess and then refused to take any responsibility. They're all awful people and he should never reconnect, there's no coming back from this.
literally p'ed me off SO BADDDD
People who tell you not to rock the boat are either the ones rocking it or protecting the one who is. F that.
couldn't have said it better myself
OP: 37M
Husband: 36M
Amber (sister): 45F
Tim (Amber's partner): 47M
Brother: 42M
Mother: 66F
Cassie: 67F
Needed to type out this visual aid to help keep the story straight for myself, so I thought I'd post this comment for others like me who get easily confused by too many people lol
Thank you! I always have trouble with this
@ragged2233 I gotchu lol
Who Cassie in family I think she six or 7 not 67
@rebewtinydino2572 She's not actually related to the family, she's just been in their care for about a decade
@@rebewtinydino2572 She is 67. She's not an actual child, she's an adult with some kind of mental disability.
That was beyond unsatisfying 😭 Theres nothing that can be done about ops god-awful family, but can nothing be done about their taxes? Yeah, they'll have to pay it all back, but can the person who did it not get in trouble? Like at all?
It almost feels like it was done on purpose based on how his family was acting.
I hope op never reconnects with them, cause if he does, you can't convince me it won't be bc they need something from him.
That’s what I’m wondering. Like can they sue mom’s friend for the amount they owe???
What if it was intentional? The friend did this on purpose?
@MCNarret That's what I'm thinking. But even if they did and something could be done legally, I fear op won't be able to prove it
@ Actually there would likely be communications between the mother and this person about this topic, perhaps a fraud investigation could retrieve those records from the phone company given another piece of evidence, so they really just need some form of recorded admission right to have enough evidence to retrieve those records right? Given the amount of parties involved, all having friends, the talks between them, it might still be possible.
What an infuriating story. I need some revenge justice lol.
like YESTERDAY
I legit thought this was one of those rage bait AI stories but then remembered this is scaling stories and got more pissed. The fact the mom would pull that kinda of crap had me pissed off lol
So sis was acting like it was a PUNISHMENT to remove herself from op's life? How delulu
the epitome of don't threaten me with a good time
the way i'd have to be bailed out of jail because there ain't NOOOO WAYYYYY i'd be as calm and them and not lay hands on someone for all that bs
I wonder if the mom convinced the friend to fuck up their taxes on purpose, cause why else would she recommend her friend when she apparently hated OPs husband?
there is no way the mother didnt purposefully have her friend fuck up their taxes on purpose. op might be giving her the benefit of the doubt but i am absolutely not.
Op and his partner are so strong and mature. This is just so horrific.
Why can’t people learn how to say “ go to hell” anymore?
I feel like op should see if he and his husband can get them on charges for harassment and defamation. And get that freaking lady that messed up their taxes. Get her some fraud crap or something. Thats so annoying
I wrote this literally this right before the comment mentioning the police. I hope they can get them or something because this is just absolutely abhorrent
If the sister is this jealous, I can't help but imagine that not only did he have the better cruise suite, but also the better looking husband.
That's why you never should involve anyone else in the honeymoon except the 2 people that have married 💀...
That’s so sad his family hate him this much. It’s sadder that his mother broke his trust that way
Shout out to Scaling Stories for including the names and ages in the beginning. This same story appeared on another reddit drama UA-cam channel yesterday, without the names and ages, and it made the video unwatchable. Scaling Stories is the best one of these channels because the person behind it seems to care that actual people are watching these videos
YUPPP they also give the reddit account so you can go find the story yourself, if you suspect any AI you can always just go check the account
Spreading personal info, especially medical one sounds illegal
There has to be some accounting board that you can report the accountant to.
Bro should get a lawyer
I'm sorry but I'm at the "copy paste" portion of Amber's apology and that was NOT AN APOLOGY. What the fuck? That whole excerpt came off as "Sorry I was frustrated with your incompetence, but we're poor so be grateful"
They offered ops and his husband a honeymoon only for it to actually turn out to be free baby sitting nightmare. They definitely deserve better than this crappy family.
For some darn reason I don't rock the boat. Nah, I go full on tsunami on it. My family is trying to hold me back since I am the "ah" who adresses all elephants in the room, calls out everyone and just doesn't care and listen.
these 20+ minutes stories 😩🫶
Sounds to me like the family planned to dump Cassie on Op and spouse. They were set up. Op needs to go completely NC with the family for a very long while, if not indefinitely. The sister owes Op a BIG apology. She was awful.
They should sue the freind's
OP was dumb for going on the honeymoon with his family, I hope this is his wake up call to stop being a doormat to his family. The sister and mom are gonna have a rude awakening when they lose the ability to depend on OP as a free babysitter
You should just write Mom a check for your part of the "family" cruise, since it was obviously NOT meant to be your honeymoon, tell everybody to have a nice life, and take a giant step BACK, mother may I. Just leave them alone and let them figure out their crap while you and your husband enjoy married life. You and your sister are clearly having two DIFFERENT conversations and thinking you are talking about the same thing. There is sticking up for yourself and then there is showing a sign to an illiterate person and saying, "What's that sign say?" The frustration runs deep, but what can you do? THEY CAN'T READ.
SCALING
Less than 5 minutes in and i am absolutely disgusted by the sister....
No the mum and sister are the abusers and manipulators passing information thats nothing to do with them
Id sue for slander
Yes, you can sue for slander in Canada if your province has defamation legislation. Defamation is a civil wrong that occurs when someone makes a false statement that harms another person's reputation.
What you need to prove The statement was false, The statement was published (shared with others), The statement caused harm to your reputation, and You suffered damages.
What you might need to submit
Damage reports, such as medical or financial reports
What you might need to do File documents in court and Serve the other party with the documents.
What you might be entitled to
Civil liabilities, such as damages
What might be a defense The statement was true.
What provinces have defamation legislation?
Ontario: Libel and Slander Act
British Columbia: Libel and Slander Act
Alberta: Defamation Act
Manitoba: The Defamation Act
You can consult a lawyer for more specific advice.
L family
Dand. Poor OP.
I dislike Rage Bait stories
its not rage bait, its real life lmaoo, real life don't have no happy endings
Sorry OP but you brought this on yourself. Why do you not have any boundaries, keep it up and you will find yourself single. Your husband doesn't need to put up with your stupidity.
Did we not watch the same video? Op literally said he only just now realized that his family hates him. Given how shocked he was at Amber's attitude on the cruise, they were probably playing nice to him. And, He literally confronted them -not just Amber right after they got off the cruise. Not all abusive family are overt with their dislike and scapegoating. Be serious😅
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