i stopped feeling bad at him after a certain point because he was just being a pushover fr and everyone was telling him😭 i know it's not entirely his fault and im still rooting for him but damn...
At the tenth update I almost lost all compassion I had in my body and accepted that I was applying my world view to OP story but he was kinda ok with almost everything. He is a victim, but it's like the person that went to some very dangerous street despite everyone saying to not go and then got robbed, it's a victim but dude, why?
@@rauljosechaves3291my mums going through a similar divorce and people like that are horrible to deal with. They refuse to leave, they have a way of getting under your skin, and they make threats without making threats. I imagine that the wife has been subtly implying (but not out rightly threatening) that the baby would be in danger if he doesn’t do what she says, and like these kinds of people, they leave no trail of any evidence of if so he’d never be able to get full custody (even if adultery and her not having a proper lease agreement would be enough.) This is something I’ve observed - men will control you with money or violence, women will control you by making a human and using it as a hostage.
Great, a pushover. I don’t know if he was unlucky to have ended up with this person as his wife. But he should have filed for divorce and custody and submitted all evidence of her infidelity and behavior to the court immediately after she moved into her affair partner’s home. The moment she cheated, OP should have known that there’s probably more to her than what he’s known. That her character was probably not good already. It’s not entirely his fault, he is the victim of his cheating wife and the home wrecker who now thinks he’s in the right for breaking up a marriage and being some king of “hero” for his “damsel”. Gross. 🤮 But I still stand that he should have been more decisive and shouldn’t have let this drag on for so long.
Its kinda curious how different I feel I am compared to OP. I had a mother similar to his ex and I was like: of course the ex will spread rumors soon if she didnt get what she wants, its obvious that she is not "emotional", but extremly calculating and adapts to public opinion. OP must have had a good childhood... unfortunately it didnt prepare him for people like that.
@@nxatie so it would somehow have been better if he had struggled making that decision? And from what wr know, he might have. And from what he knew back then, it could have been his. Weird hill to die on, idk.
So he was still married through that WHOLE BS??? dude wtf i woulda been served her. And you mean to tell me ppl believe he was abusive after all the times he came to help her?
I honestly can't bring myself to call OP a doormat, sure he is letting the wife do whatever she wants but honestly the way he describes things I can see he is doing it cause he wants the best for her daughter. Maybe a tiny bit cause he wants his wife back, but 90% of his words and actions tell her they're done.. Aaaaaaaand she's crazy
Lo que acabas de describir es desgarrador. Nadie debería pasar por una situación tan dolorosa y complicada. Espero que encuentres fuerza y apoyo para superar este difícil capítulo de tu vida.
"With everything and all we have in our history, you wouldn't even consider it?" "You didn't consider NOT cheating on me, accepting d-k pics & flirtations from this guy. You didn't even consider telling me right after you slept with him that he could be the father. You didn't consider how I would feel when I found out. And you certainly did NOT consider talking about all of this with me *when* it began, when it *wasn't yet cheating."*
oof I'm sorry but I felt bad for this guy until he said he let her back into the house that was just the dumbest thing that led to his downfall like part of me feels so bad but not that bad anymore
I love how in other posts, people will defend a pregnant/new mother because 'HORMONES, POST PARTUM DEPRESSION' and this woman is being called crazy instead. I'm not talking about the affair, just all the happenings during and after the pregnancy.
A suggestion if you don't mind! When these stories have new updates, would you be able to include in the description or chapters where the new updates start? so those of us who remember the original video don't have to jump chapters to try and find where the new update is. Would be a great quality of life adjustment! Thank you again for all you do!
If he had fought from the beginning when she was playing nice he wouldn't be in nearly as bad a spot. My guy wasn't just a doormat, he was also pretty dumb.
@cototototorra7106 yeah the way he handled it doomed him probably. At least she has no prove to any so in court the alcohol stuff and abuse won't stand. And she also didn't work in her favor when she left the state without being allowed to
Yeahhh, she hates OP. And OP doesn't have solid judgment He's not handling things right. If they're being messy and he's giving her all that power and access, then he needs a mediator or a third party present so he doesn't have to directly interact with her or the AP Coparenting with a toxic person means you need to keep and maintain distance, document your interactions, give zero leeway on their custody stuff, and put them all on an information diet. His ex wants to mess up. That's why she can confidently lie on him like that My aunt pulled this with my cousin's dad and things got so bad that he went on to see about giving up parental rights when she was 7 bc my aunt said that he was abusing me and my cousin (he didn't). they ultimately went with her getting full custody with him visiting until more mess on her end had him completely giving up his rights. Now my cousin gets blamed for him leaving to this day 😒
Tell your cousin to fight back amd stand with the cousin. Turn it on the aunt. Tell her to get over herself and she ain't the victum in anything. She'll die a bitter woman alone in the worse possible nursing home or on the streets.
It is bad that he's stuck with her bc of the child. I hate to say it, but you're better off giving up your rights and move on. She wants to be amicable now but just wait. At this point, you also need to grow some respect for yourself. You're being kinda of a Simp. Getting closer to the end I'm realizing how much of a simp and loser this guy is.
See i wouldnt have wanted to be in that childs life ever. Id say "Hey you want to spread lies about me then ill sue you for defamation and NOT pay you child support UNLESS you stop spreading lies and finally admit you are lying" Like i dont think i could ever forgive anyone for cheating even if i 100% knew the child was mine. But thats just me i guess.
He said she wasn’t crazy but she will make up stories about him being a drunk and assaulting her? The way he kept calling her his wife while she was laid up with gym Bro was so weird. Also how he wouldn’t sleep with anyone and move on but told her about the one time he did is telling. He was a clinger. Probably filed for divorce after the drunk night. She is trash but I bet her side will explain a lot.
I understand what he is trying to say Yes the things that he was doing sounds that do make him as a pushover. But for men we kind of have to go through all this trial and tribulations with the wife / girlfriend because the state does not acknowledge fathers to be in the right even if they see the woman / mom is violent and manipulative they will still give benefit of the doubt to her. He should have just ended when he had the first chance he was still be in the same position but he would have been wipe his hands from the my family has a bunch of women just like that manipulative unhappy infective and is never their fault always the men / boyfriend day or with at the time
This OP is one of the most exhausting ppl of the world. I hove this another AI rage-bait stories 'cuz people like that doormat doesn't deserve any sympathy.
“My wife is not crazy”
“She threw water over me”
Things like this happens EVERY TIME! Like the reason folks are calling her crazy is because we're reading about her being crazy
@ ?? Throwing water over your partner should not happen every time
i stopped feeling bad at him after a certain point because he was just being a pushover fr and everyone was telling him😭 i know it's not entirely his fault and im still rooting for him but damn...
At the tenth update I almost lost all compassion I had in my body and accepted that I was applying my world view to OP story but he was kinda ok with almost everything.
He is a victim, but it's like the person that went to some very dangerous street despite everyone saying to not go and then got robbed, it's a victim but dude, why?
@@rauljosechaves3291my mums going through a similar divorce and people like that are horrible to deal with. They refuse to leave, they have a way of getting under your skin, and they make threats without making threats.
I imagine that the wife has been subtly implying (but not out rightly threatening) that the baby would be in danger if he doesn’t do what she says, and like these kinds of people, they leave no trail of any evidence of if so he’d never be able to get full custody (even if adultery and her not having a proper lease agreement would be enough.)
This is something I’ve observed - men will control you with money or violence, women will control you by making a human and using it as a hostage.
I'm halfway through the story and reading the comments, seeing everyone calling him a doormat 😭 damn, what'd he do now, I'm scared
Nvm I agree that's one of the four horsemats of doorpocalypse 💀
Four horsemats of doorpocalypse 😭😭 I'll use this one day
Hopefully op can get primary custody of his daughter.
I feel very sorry for this child bc the things she’ll have to deal and hear from both parents while growing up…
GAHDAMN, 15 UPDATES?!?! Now that’s a new record
Damn doormat be doormat wondering why it's happening.
Op should really go the defamation lawsuit.
"my dog is 100x more loyal than my wife. And some might even say, better looking too." 🤣😂
I’ve been following this story for as long as it’s been out and I feel so bad for this guy
Great, a pushover. I don’t know if he was unlucky to have ended up with this person as his wife. But he should have filed for divorce and custody and submitted all evidence of her infidelity and behavior to the court immediately after she moved into her affair partner’s home.
The moment she cheated, OP should have known that there’s probably more to her than what he’s known. That her character was probably not good already.
It’s not entirely his fault, he is the victim of his cheating wife and the home wrecker who now thinks he’s in the right for breaking up a marriage and being some king of “hero” for his “damsel”. Gross. 🤮 But I still stand that he should have been more decisive and shouldn’t have let this drag on for so long.
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Its kinda curious how different I feel I am compared to OP. I had a mother similar to his ex and I was like: of course the ex will spread rumors soon if she didnt get what she wants, its obvious that she is not "emotional", but extremly calculating and adapts to public opinion. OP must have had a good childhood... unfortunately it didnt prepare him for people like that.
didn't he say he got sexually abused as a child?
@@Mika_Serv Right, tho it fortunately (or nor) didn't make him see primarly bad in people.
The gym dude was probably infertile and saw an opportunity
deffo no man is actually like that unless there is an underlying issue
@@nxatie Actually like what..? In love?
@@marvingonzalez926 there's a difference with being okay to raise someone else chilled than to jump at the opportunity
@@nxatie so it would somehow have been better if he had struggled making that decision? And from what wr know, he might have. And from what he knew back then, it could have been his. Weird hill to die on, idk.
So he was still married through that WHOLE BS??? dude wtf i woulda been served her. And you mean to tell me ppl believe he was abusive after all the times he came to help her?
I honestly can't bring myself to call OP a doormat, sure he is letting the wife do whatever she wants but honestly the way he describes things I can see he is doing it cause he wants the best for her daughter. Maybe a tiny bit cause he wants his wife back, but 90% of his words and actions tell her they're done..
Aaaaaaaand she's crazy
Holy shit I never thought I'd see an update to this.
15 updates?!?!?!?!?!? everybody say thank you scaling
Lo que acabas de describir es desgarrador. Nadie debería pasar por una situación tan dolorosa y complicada. Espero que encuentres fuerza y apoyo para superar este difícil capítulo de tu vida.
"With everything and all we have in our history, you wouldn't even consider it?" "You didn't consider NOT cheating on me, accepting d-k pics & flirtations from this guy. You didn't even consider telling me right after you slept with him that he could be the father. You didn't consider how I would feel when I found out. And you certainly did NOT consider talking about all of this with me *when* it began, when it *wasn't yet cheating."*
What a wild situation! Hope you find peace and clarity 🙏
i feel bad for him but you cant be all 'i still love her' to going after how she looks? i feel like going after the way someone looks is kinda..
oof I'm sorry but I felt bad for this guy until he said he let her back into the house that was just the dumbest thing that led to his downfall like part of me feels so bad but not that bad anymore
Honestly I just hope he’s able to get full custody at some point. She and the affair partner will definitely poison the kids mind against you.
I hope he gets full custody-- the ex wife is DEFINITELY gonna attempt parental alienation once the kid's old enough to be manipulated
This poor man🙁
I love how in other posts, people will defend a pregnant/new mother because 'HORMONES, POST PARTUM DEPRESSION' and this woman is being called crazy instead.
I'm not talking about the affair, just all the happenings during and after the pregnancy.
Doormat OP
i originally wasnt going to watch this, but FIFTEEN UPDATES??? thats absolutely bonkers
A suggestion if you don't mind! When these stories have new updates, would you be able to include in the description or chapters where the new updates start? so those of us who remember the original video don't have to jump chapters to try and find where the new update is. Would be a great quality of life adjustment!
Thank you again for all you do!
AP partner took the “single women it’s you vs the world, but married ones makes the fight 1v1” too seriously
If he had fought from the beginning when she was playing nice he wouldn't be in nearly as bad a spot. My guy wasn't just a doormat, he was also pretty dumb.
just doormat
With every update i hope its "they broke up"
Little update to my comment im kinda happy that she moved back to him. They shouldn't be together but im happy she left him
Update to my update (lol): happy he served the divorce papers. And i hope his plan is going right with being good friends with her
Yeah fuck all of this i wrote. This shit is fucking messed up
@@Einfach_Lucas man the divorce isnt going his way at all, who could have seen it coming
@cototototorra7106 yeah the way he handled it doomed him probably. At least she has no prove to any so in court the alcohol stuff and abuse won't stand. And she also didn't work in her favor when she left the state without being allowed to
This is ironic for me since I just re-watched the previous version of this story that SS uploaded in the past.
Yeahhh, she hates OP. And OP doesn't have solid judgment
He's not handling things right. If they're being messy and he's giving her all that power and access, then he needs a mediator or a third party present so he doesn't have to directly interact with her or the AP
Coparenting with a toxic person means you need to keep and maintain distance, document your interactions, give zero leeway on their custody stuff, and put them all on an information diet. His ex wants to mess up. That's why she can confidently lie on him like that
My aunt pulled this with my cousin's dad and things got so bad that he went on to see about giving up parental rights when she was 7 bc my aunt said that he was abusing me and my cousin (he didn't). they ultimately went with her getting full custody with him visiting until more mess on her end had him completely giving up his rights. Now my cousin gets blamed for him leaving to this day 😒
Tell your cousin to fight back amd stand with the cousin. Turn it on the aunt. Tell her to get over herself and she ain't the victum in anything. She'll die a bitter woman alone in the worse possible nursing home or on the streets.
I'm so glad I'm gay
It is bad that he's stuck with her bc of the child. I hate to say it, but you're better off giving up your rights and move on. She wants to be amicable now but just wait. At this point, you also need to grow some respect for yourself. You're being kinda of a Simp. Getting closer to the end I'm realizing how much of a simp and loser this guy is.
I was thinking the same thing. Give up full rights or fight for full custody.
I was feeling sorry for him but after the third update, I can see why he got cheated on. Dude’s a doormat.
See i wouldnt have wanted to be in that childs life ever. Id say "Hey you want to spread lies about me then ill sue you for defamation and NOT pay you child support UNLESS you stop spreading lies and finally admit you are lying"
Like i dont think i could ever forgive anyone for cheating even if i 100% knew the child was mine. But thats just me i guess.
He said she wasn’t crazy but she will make up stories about him being a drunk and assaulting her? The way he kept calling her his wife while she was laid up with gym Bro was so weird. Also how he wouldn’t sleep with anyone and move on but told her about the one time he did is telling. He was a clinger. Probably filed for divorce after the drunk night. She is trash but I bet her side will explain a lot.
YESSS PRAISE THE DOGGYYYYY
I understand what he is trying to say Yes the things that he was doing sounds that do make him as a pushover. But for men we kind of have to go through all this trial and tribulations with the wife / girlfriend because the state does not acknowledge fathers to be in the right even if they see the woman / mom is violent and manipulative they will still give benefit of the doubt to her. He should have just ended when he had the first chance he was still be in the same position but he would have been wipe his hands from the my family has a bunch of women just like that manipulative unhappy infective and is never their fault always the men / boyfriend day or with at the time
Wow this story has gotten up to 15 inserts? lmao
This was so painfully to listen to like dude…
When you meet such beach you are in trouble
This story pissed me off you bad, wth is wrong with her
I can't believe I listened to this mess.
What are you waiting to divorce
i need a happier ending cuz ik ex wife aint getting custody
A long video today 🥳😻😻
Guilt eating her ah up
This OP is one of the most exhausting ppl of the world. I hove this another AI rage-bait stories 'cuz people like that doormat doesn't deserve any sympathy.
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Background music is incredibly annoying.
scalingstories my goat