W00t new Pat Cc! 4th.That 3 day period where she was going REALLY hard with the posts was absolutely nuts. She's deleted a lot of her posts.... the one where she was simulating a sexual act and saying the name of that guy that showed up at her house was especially caustic. There's not a chance that she wasn't (possibly still) in a manic state.
The only person I can really feel bad for in this video is jessi, to go through something so traumatic and then have your best friend hang out with them and openly feel bad for your abuser is disgusting. And then play the victim? Horrible.
I keep cycling back to this situation because of how she plays the victim. It's a psychological case study on narcissism. I mean... she blamed her unmedicated ADHD on being an awful friend. You know what happens when normal people go off their meds? They feel tired. A little slow. Have less concentration. Having a lack of dopamine in the brain doesn't in any way explain her actions, let alone justify them 😭
Strangely, I have a cousin who acts exactly like this and keeps telling me that she has ADHD. She also shows signs of bipolar disorder. Has celiacs disease and has had severe insomnia since a tween. I keep telling her to try FMT, which might address every single problem she has, but she just balks at the idea. The 2 FMT-bipolar trials just completed, had an 80% success rate.
okay, that guy is wild. the fact that he just chilled in her house for a while is actually insane. it speaks volumes about her mental state, no sane woman would even look twice if a stranger asked to enter her home.
no sane person in general would allow that. no stranger is coming up in my house, ever. I wouldn't even allow ozzy to just walk into my house uninvited.
Her stressor is social media. She has to delete everything. As a medical student who had been to psychiatric wards, that manic episode wasn’t staged, it’s absolutely scarily realistic
She's a really good actor. As someone who STAYED in the psych ward. You just observed. I actually have bipolar and there's no points in my mania where I suddenly stop, become calm, and start bragging about my life. She wants attention and is stupid and makes bad choices like any other borderline. True mania doesn't disappear after 48 hours. The professionals even agreed she's fine lol.
there's more than one form of bipolar disorder. you probably have type 1, which is less intense. this is a very real depiction of type 2 manic episodes.@@machinegurlll
@@machinegurlllthe western world often does not take their psych cases seriously. she’s showing signs of schizophrenia. i’m schizophrenic, i know when i see another schizo. american “professionals” are lazy and don’t do their job
THIS. Im a pysch major and theres no pause to mania episodes youre so right. You dont go from manic to normal and back to manic. The only thing that interrupts mania is a depressive episode. This is why it feels so faked to me. She seems to have narcisstic personality disorder and if she does, putting on a show of mania for millions in order to garner sympathy or even a free pass for her actions is very in line with what someone experiencing not just narcissistic traits but a full blown disorder would do @@machinegurlll
I really love this Bojack Horseman line which totally applies in this situation I feel like: "You can't keep doing this! You can't keep doing sh*tty things and then feel bad about yourself like that makes it okay! You need to be better! BoJack, just stop. You are all the things that are wrong with you. It's not the alcohol, or the drugs, or any of the sh*tty things that happened to you in your career, or when you were a kid. It's you. Okay? It's you." I think since all of her career is based on drama, she keeps on using that in every way, because she might feel like if she doesn't do that, her life is not worth living or something
ALL of the drama and negativity in her life has all just "happened to her", a poor innocent victim (of circumstances *she* creates)- the literal definition of narcissistic personality disorder. How ironic that she's now going on so much about enlightenment, manifesting, and spirituality, yet she's 100% blind to how much her own mindset and obsessions are entirely self-perpetuating, and she just keeps catching herself up in her own web of lies and drama....
It breaks my heart to hear what she did to Jessi. Jessi handled this horrible, horrible situation with such grace and I really hope she’s thriving now after all the shit that was thrown at her
"Maybe if I got cancer and died you'd care" Literally the same shit my parents say. That's emotional abuse. She's literally so obvious in her manipulation.
Stop lying and accusing your parents of shit on the Internet , things like that you dont go around saying things like that , respect your parents and if they say things like that you should deal with it like a grown up
I whole heartedly agree with it. At the shop I work at technology is a godsend since technology in cars has skyrocketed so much in the past 20 years. the flipside is interns watching tiktok. Ive never had tiktok but I hate it simply because of the culture around tiktok. I have to admit if Tiktok didnt exist it would be replaced with something else.@@mikenormandy9250
her manipulation tactics are insane, like she genuinely scares me. i can’t believe people like this exist. hearing her word for word trying to manipulate jessi into believing that all of this is her fault is so strange.
She's a narcissist. I'm sure there are concurrent issues, but she's a narcissist. I'm married to one who very much pretended to be a kind, loving woman. Until we were married. Every single thing she said and did for the last 8 years was manipulation. Everything. Lies and truth were used interchangeably depending on what was useful in the moment. She would spin arguments for hours, eventually arguing against whatever she was originally arguing only to say she never was. It makes you feel like you're going crazy. It's very hard to truly comprehend a person who means NOTHING they say, respects no boundary, and will admit nothing they've done. We assume that people only lie sometimes.
@@Nosfermarki well yeah, Patrick literally used the Narcissist prayer in the video “That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it” very easy to spot one but it takes awhile, the easiest to spot are the compulsive liars (not necessarily exaggerations for a story type lies) they tell big obvious lies because they think everyone is dumb enough to believe it
Thank u for defending Jessi , I’ve been watching her on her podcast n I had no idea she went thru that with gabbi. God bless Jessi she’s a strong woman for getting thru all that
In 20 years, colleges are going to do studies on early influencers and are gonna find out it has similar brain effects to like, other traumatic events and can deteriorate your brain. She seems like a very clear cut example of that.
No study is needed. Currently 6 years into PHD for clinical psychology. I could write you a 10 page paper on why this is already known, but I will simplify it for easier reading. Humans get a good feeling when they are wanted, looked up upon, liked,loved. You know this, we all know this. It’s why attention craving exists. Being an “influencer” is the same way, except amplified. For a person who already desperately craves attention this can be very mentally taxing, having millions of people hanging onto your every action and word, the weight of the world on your shoulders type of feel. It’s an intense high, so when these people begin to fall off, or suffer extreme backlash or cancellation…well… you see. This is even more extreme if the person has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Being in the field I always urge people to educate themselves on narcissists/narcissism/NPD. The term is used incorrectly well over 90% of the time that I hear or see it on the internet. It’s a complex disorder and it is sad to see. Also edit for the Cryptomnesia bit - obviously she is lying, we can deduce this if you look at past behaviors. However if it is something that interests you, pick up the book The Psychology of Writing by Ronald Kellog
i remember her as the girl who stalked bo burnham early in his career and made a rumor online that she was dating him (going as far as photoshopping herself into a pic with his real gf, and it spread all over the internet as a real photo… and i think she doxxed him iirc) until it went so far that he got the law involved - gabbie hanna, aka “the girl bo burnham filed a restraining order against”
@@tarvitsenapua omg its CRAZY - to clarify by “doxxing him” i mean he used to live in a famous house that was used for movies and literally nobody knew that unless they were the type of person bo was scared of lol. she figured it out by analyzing his old vines and talked about showing up at his house … i think his current fiancée was the gf he was with when he lived there so yeeeea he got a restraining order cuz it was going really far. he was used to kinda weird stalkery stans cuz he appealed to teenage girls at the time but shit got SCARY
@@KingOfGaymes it’s 100% real, it happened in the earlier years of his career and she’s been documented on video owning up to it 😭 i’m pretty certain there’s videos on it here on youtube if ur curious
She seems to believe that "haters" just dislike her because they're either misinterpreting her actions, jealous, or just straight up haters. When really, we dislike her because she is a lying, manipulative, deflective, attention-seeking drama queen, who has proven herself unlikeable time and time again.
@@oinkerdoinker Yes tf she does. Could probably benefit from some sort of mental rehabilitation. Not even saying that to be mean. She's clearly not ok.
That nick guy is ducking creepy. Chronically online people really don’t know boundaries and think they’re besties with people they follow who don’t know or care for them.
yeah I mean the whole video was a wild ride, but holly mother of fucks this dude is absolutely delusional way worst then Gabby. "Everybody is saying get help, so I'm going to go into their house and try and force some pills" What? which one of the two brain cells told you this was remotely a "normal" response or reaction
This kid waltzes into a stranger’s house as if he is a PharmD that could find/identify her antipsychotic medication & make her take it?! He picks up antibiotics for her acne & thinks anything in a pill bottle would “help her.” 😂 No one in the LA canyons would just open their door to a random stranger needing to use the bathroom 🤦🏼♂️
As someone with a personality disorder, when you are experiencing psychosis or a very strong manic episode you truly do believe that your decisions and actions are rational. Like no matter how irrational they are your brain truly seems to rationalize it in your head. Mental health is so multifaceted.
As someone who used to be raised by a parent with personality disorder, I wish I could've seen this all those years ago. Would've saved so many headaches and disagreements
That sounds scary.. How do you truly know when you're going into psychosis or having the said very strong manic episode? It must be hard since it seems like to you everything is fine or that everything is normal but others seeing you as not that.. I'm a bit scared for my own mental health as well.
@@namueishleep3026 yeah, personally i only realize what it was after it happens and it's always exhausting. getting better at not letting it affect the people around me though
I had a friend/neighbor who grabbed a piece of animal crap, put it in a jar and thought it was something super special and that he's never seen before. Im assuming maybe some sort of creature. During an episode.
@@pregnantleggies3696 its so hard to tell with a person like that, it could all be a lie or it could have been real. You cant trust a person who potentially has a schizophrenic episode, they can go in and out.
@@azkrouzreimertz9784 suppose that’s true but she’s pulled so many public stunts right before her songs drop, so if it was all for attention; it sadly would not shock me.
This came on my auto play a year later. Gabby has since left social media, moved back to her hometown, and is working as a personal trainer. I think she has finally learned social media is toxic for her mental health and has quietly left, at least for now. Honestly, I respect anyone who walks away from something like this for their mental health and to live a quiet life.
Same it's so crazy watching this all again a year later when we were all following the whole thing and how she just fell off the face of the earth after
Funny, I was intrigued by her storytime videos (the original lot, I didn't know she did more in this decade, last I remember was about the merchandise chaos.) but something just started twinging wrong near the end of the playlist.
This girl is a classic case of narcissism. One of the most telling traits is not being able to accept criticism and justify their actions taking a very defensive posture
Because they're trying to avoid shame. Narcissistic people are driven by their fear of shame. I can only imagine how dark it is for someone who experiences shame as such a debilitating, awful monster that you do anything to avoid it - even destroy your life and the loved ones around you. I really hope we find suitable and effective psychological therapies that help humans with NPD :'(( and better access to therapy and resources for those who've been in close proximity to them, especially children raised by them.
Also main character syndrome. It's bizarre how far in she's in her own lies. It's got to be so confusing and exhausting all the time living life like that, while you're actually all causing it to yourself. I feel sort of bad but she's so vicious to other people I also find it hard to feel empathy for her.
@@SerenEnfysthere is therapy and treatments for people with NPD. they just often, for some reason or another, (ex self-doubt or not recognizing the damage), don't take the treatment 😔 and even then it's becoming harder and harder to get good treatment for people.
So true everyone responding and even commenting on her is making her $$ and giving her attention when we should be ignoring someone like that especially with a platform that big…… she makes me cringe with the narcissistic personalities…. She is creepy
God, as someone who has ADHD, it DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL to see Gabbie Hanna HIDE behind her ADHD. I get it. ADHD is a shit storm. It SUCKS to live with. But it is *NOT* AN EXCUSE FOR SHITTY BEHAVIOR. It reflects *TERRIBLY* on neurodivergent people. I'm SO. SICK. OF PEOPLE DOING THIS. Edit: y'all quit bitching in the replies
Dude preach. I have ADHD myself and it's literally so hard to manage even on meds, it makes me feel like a social outcast. It's not oop silly haha quirky it's a lot more.. its a web of symptoms and issues
I've noticed a upcoming trend of more and more people saying they have ADHD in the last couple months, just to hide behind it like you said. It's the same as it was a decade ago with depression. All of a sudden everyone and their mom had it. I'm not saying everyone is faking it, but I'm sure most of these newly upcoming ADHD "patients" are self diagnosed and therefor most likely made up. Which is not only sad but damaging for everyone who actually has to live with this condition.
As someone whos brother is bipolar, it is really damaging when someone claims to have it while only telling the stereotype symptoms, witch doesn't really fit, how she acts, or how bipolar people, type A acts which I thinks is the one she claims to have.
facts, like its not a personality trait, you can not use it as an excuse to why your a jerk. and it does reflect bad on other nuradivergent normal and nice people
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This is not just mania, this is psychosis. And it's public. Most people who go through this don't have millions of people watching and entertained by their illness.
Lmao, okay Dr. Lemon. Real psychosis is far too mentally draining and irritating to be dancing like an idiot while recording yourself and editing the videos/adding captions to hundreds of videos in 2 days. Her ego is driving her to grasp for straws to gain back relevancy and attention. She just needs to put the phone down, eat healthy food and literally hydrate like Patrick always says. She’s literally just acting like an adult 14yo kid, saying the most generic “crazy” shit for sympathy.
As much as i never was rlly interested in Gabbies content. This current stuff is reminding me of Etika, so i hope she actually has people around her who can help her.
Your videos are great. I love learning more about companies, businesses, celebrities, and events. I would never pay attention to these people in real life, but your videos are so well made and interesting that I’ve just been binging all of them. Well done, sir!
I used to be in a relationship with a girl who idolized Gabbie Hanna. Looking back on how the relationship fell apart, I realize that her idolization and emulation of Gabbie should have been a massive red flag.
True, esp if they’re idolizing some essentially no-name like Gabbie then it’s def bc they can relate / identify w her. It’s like how I idolize Joe Goldberg from You.. it’s bc I have pretty bad stalker tendencies and can relate so much to that character and show. But the main difference being this character/actor is actually very cute and talented and the show is very entertaining which means I could love the show just bc I find it entertaining and the actor very attractive. But in your case, there’s really nothing Gabbie has that would cause a (I’m assuming) teen/young adult to idolize her besides relating a lot to her so it’s much more worrisome.
@@machinegurlll i was like "wait what?" a pretty bad stalker tendencies? aint no wayyyyy they just said it like its the most normal and common thing that people can develop, like its a part of growing up 😂😂
I had a friend just like this, good god she manipulated me so many times and would constantly lie like Gabbie does in order to spin what happened into what she wanted to be the truth. A truly exhausting friendship with someone who can never see themselves in a bad light, never see that they're wrong, and always play the victim. Get out if any of ya'll are in a situation like this.
Very true. I've cut out and avoided people like that multiple times. They drain your happiness to the extreme. People like her unfortunately end up alone.
I deal with this exact thing currently with my family. How can people be so far from reality. I suppose they’re just fried. They’re major alcoholics and drug addicts so that must explain it. Wet brain is terrible
This is the first Gabbie Hanna 'overview' video that seems to be done properly - a lot of them are hours because they end up getting into every single detail, which is exactly what Gabbie wants because it feeds the bickering not the actual conversation - but lack a bigger picture. Skipping the details on stuff like the brushes and Trisha helps make the picture very clear, which is Gabbie feels victimized no matter what people do.
This is exactly it. She showed us from square one who she was as a person and so many people enabled it by saying "oh its just a joke or a character". But from square one she showed us exactly what a trash human she is.
I feel like crying. The way she deflects, gaslights, and manipulates her friend and everyone else remind me so much of my boyfriend. It's extremely exhausting and draining to have a close relationship with someone like her. They blame everyone but themselves. They use their mental health issue as an excuse. I wish there was a way out. Edit: I didn't expect this to blow up, thank you everyone for being so nice and supportive!
ya leaving. i left a bf like that.. then he stalked me.. i had to get a restraining order.. he nvr let up.. even yrs later. but then he died.. it was a pretty wild ride.. but i stood my ground... just ignore them n move on eventually theyll find someone else to torment n fixate on them. in the mean time get the police involved
If your boyfriend is taxing your mental health this much, you really need to find a way out. People like that can do a lot of damage to a person. Please, for the sake of your mental health, start finding an exit as soon as possible
@@coutureflamingo1924 I'm trying but I can't help but feel guilty because I know he doesn't have anyone else. We've been dating for two years. I met him when I was 15 and he's 9 years older than me. I know he's sick and he always makes me feel responsible for everything and he makes me decide for both of us.
@@nooneimportant460 I know I have to leave him soon now that he wants me to leave everything behind and move somewhere with him. He wants me to stop going to school and just live with him. I'm scared but at the same time I can see how much he needs someone.
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I dont even know about most of these people, but the drama and the way you tell the complete story just gets me hooked everytime.
As a fellow bipolar person, I 100% believe she was experiencing psychosis. I’ve experienced it before and it’s such a bizarre state to be in. You experience things like feeling you can do anything and you are the best to ever do it. It all compounds on itself and leaves you looking extremely delusional and psychotic just like what the Tik Tok’s showed. I genuinely feel bad for her because those were the lowest points for me and it wasn’t blasted all over the internet. I really hope a redemption arc has yet to come but I’m not betting on it.
Yup don't care if she is a shitty person 39:00 she is definitely having a manic episodes and the fact she uploaded all they tictoks says it all..mines can last 1 day to 3 weeks and I'm soooo high off of nothing I shop for shit I don't Need, don't sleep, obsessed over anything and think I'm psychic and ur right I' think I'm the best at EVERYTHING I DO. man I feel for her it sure hope she can get it together
When she comes back after her “stoner arc”. I 100% believe the girl was doing harder drugs and was disassociating even more, her whole mental personality took a huge slope down… it wasn’t just strange, it was like watching the attention seeker on crack. Also she is so far down the rabbit hole by the end of this video that I am also sure she can manipulate and lie her way out of wellness checks because she knows they are not the ones watching her on the media. Idk where her next chapter is but I hope we get her off the platform somehow so she can just be away from all the viewers… I think we would see so much improvement.
True I know if I experienced that type of fame I would have a hard time keeping my ego in check, so someone like her is basically a lost cause at this point lol
Yeah I think the fact that she took so much offense to everything and literally played the victim. You could tell that her insecurities were eating her alive and she was making it even worse by wanting to display everything in front of a camera causing her to spiral into a never ending down fall. She needs help.
I genuinely feel so bad for Jessi I have always felt she was genuine. Jessi has a normal life now she doesn’t obsess over social media. Jessi is just trying to live her life and live with her real trauma
I know quite a few people that have bipolar disorder and Gabbie reminds me of the ones with the most extreme cases. It is very hard to have a functional conversation and this type of platform will most likely end up taking her life at some point. Someone needs to help her.
I never paid attention to youtubers or internet celebrities so I am entirely reliant upon videos like this to fill me on on the madness of these people. You're doing good work.
yep me too. they're like "20 millions subscribers, 1 billion hashtag views" and I'm like "uhh.. who is this?" I'll stick to listening to music. music hardly lets me down
I’m the same way. There are so many famous UA-camrs I’ve never heard of and videos like this make me very thankful that I was never into this awful part of the internet
@@mclovinlife4018 Right? not to be smug about it at all I swear but I feel like I wasted fewer hours of my life staring at these people than others did. Then again, I did spend a lot of time watching Nostalgia Critic...ah well none of us is perfect.
She's very committed to her ADHD, talking about it as if she was disabled. I've got ADHD too. I know people with this issue and everyone admits their ducks up and moves on, even if certain things happened because of the disorder. Once my grandma drove me to the train station one day before scheduled travel because I mixed up the date. I had the clearest picture in my mind of the ticket with the wrong date on it. However, I just apologized and vowed to put notifications on my phone, put important events on my calendar and double check because I can't trust my memories XD you can't be angry at people because their reaction to your mishaps even if you didn't mean to irritate them. She mentioned that if she had a cancer maybe people would be nicer to her. Well, diseases aren't force fields against anger, resentment or aversion. If you're being constantly overbearing and difficult, people won't do nothing above bare minimum. They gonna be cordial, they gonna help you whenever you ask but they won't think of you as your favourite person and that's in private settings. I'm sure people online get too involved in influencers' lifes and call themselves "fans" or random people who are as valuable as any other person. Gabbie however didn't care for followers or enthusiasts of her work but fans of herself.
@@Merjacevi ADHD as the name says is a disorder. I have ADHD, I've been in treatment for some time now. My doctor is very compassionate. He talks freely about suffering connected with the disorder but he underlines that it's not a disability. You can treat it. Legally, ADHD is considered a disability so working people could access help and rehabilitation. The disorder interferes with person's capacity to work and it's acknowledged as a reason for Social Security. Disability is defined in two categories: legal and scientific. People who are capable of living on their own without assistance who's disorder is managed by meds aren't considered medically disabled. ACCORDING TO MY DOCTOR.
@@Merjacevi I'd stick by it. Though my life has been destroyed due to bad diagnosis and lack of treatment, I wouldn't compare myself to people who are unable to survive without assistance or equipment. ADHD comes in many shapes and forms. People often deal with other mental or physical problems alongside ADHD. I'm invalidating their suffering, telling them to use a calendar. However, ADHD doesn't take from person's objective perception of reality/facts or their abilities to move though it's hard. It's not a competition but Gabbie uses ADHD as a force field against anything and everything. She's "the sick one", she requires preferential treatment but not much can be done by society to make her life easier. Some disabled people need elevators, some need parking spaces, other need quiet rooms in public spaces and assistance in public spaces, some rely on social awareness and compassion. Gabbie, however, wants to be treated by everyone as if she was their sick loved-one. When people resist, she says she's being bullied. Bit like Michael Scott after his morning battle with grill. Legally, she might be disabled and be eligible for benefits but in broader social context she doesn't require special treatment to survive and could do a lot to help others without sacrifice of her own safety, comfort or standard of living. At work or at school ADHD people need certain tools or approach but they're capable of surviving and living on their own without assistance. That's what I meant when implying she's been overestimating her condition. She's really privileged with money and options to get medication and best therapy and treatment possible. In a social context and through of my doctor, ADHD is not a disability. It's a disadvantage, disorder that might be horrific and lead to other problems if not treated, but it it doesn't take away from a person. I remember clearly when he told me this that. It makes life more difficult but it doesn't take away from a person and when properly treated/managed is a trait of many brilliant people.
It's a disorder not a disability & over here they are removing adults treatment that had been helping. Adults who weren't treated as children but need it now. Replacing it with nothing, sorry officially labled 3rd line of treatment (AKA LAST RESORT) seizure causing anti-depressants or meds require HEART monitoring while on it...basically anything you're GP can prescribe w/psyc special cert number, cuz no psychiatrist will see you anymore...long established medical history be dammed.....& ironically "no healthcare systems" USA let's GPs had out meds like candy w/o qualifications.....see it all sucks, everywhere, one way or another.
ADHD is a spectrum in terms of functionality. Some people struggle more than others with ADHD and with different aspects of it. Some people might struggle more with memory or attention.
new sub here! apart from context, your way of dissecting things and the whole video was top notch man! I watched without blinking my eye . very well done!
you taking the time to flesh out gabbie's entire history, including the good, the bad, the hard to find screenshots and deleted content, putting it together in a coherent and intelligent way, and uploading it like this was so well done. I've never heard of you before but this video was recommended to me. I'm going to subscribe because I'm so impressed. thanks for your hard work
Another important thing to note about her series: remember the video made about her joke stealing? In the series, she admits to tracking down the person who made it, who was a minor at the time, and finding his address and the school he went to. No, I’m not kidding. It’s in one of the first episodes, you can find reuploads here on UA-cam.
The switch from hip hop to these type of vids on this channel was the best thing you could've done. And the hip hop fans can always follow your 2nd channel as well🔥
As someone with Bipolar, if that was an "act" she deserves an Oscar. That was full-blown. I feel terrible for her, basically livestreaming her mania to the world. That's going to be in the public domain forever. I'm glad I didn't have a massive online audience following my episodes, it's embarrassing enough when it's only a few people who witness it.
I know a bipolar (type 1 with psychosis) person in real life and she's exactly like Gabbie. So I agree. Strangely enough, she has the same sense of humor too.
I was diagnosed with Bipolar syndrome as a kid and people have been throwing my diagnosis in my face even my own family ever since then, saying shit like “you are going to end up being a serial child molesting murderer” simply because those types of trash are diagnosed as Bipolar. They say this all because I would tell them to F$&@ off and to leave me alone then proceeded to progressively get angrier and angrier (never physical) as they pushed me. I literally grew up thinking I was a monster because of what my “friends” and family said to me about being Bipolar and about my diagnoses being linked to such terrible terrible walking breathing human trash. It took me years to manufacture a persona that is basically stoic and slightly sarcastic to appease those around me, to keep people from judging me as such a horrible person just because my emotions are all over the place. Now they just think I am a sarcastic asshole, who is seriously indifferent. Even tho In my head I am screaming and crying wishing I could have a personality or emote without everyone judging and tearing me down.
@@MikeRaist What you experienced is psychological and emotional abuse. There is NO connection or correlation between bipolar disorder and serial killers or child molesters (or any other types of evil people). None. Zero. The people in your life saying these things to you are either profoundly ignorant or they are vicious liars. Either way, they were abusive to you, and if your parents were involved then they are hypocrites, because treating your child like that is a form of child abuse. You have no obligation to keep people like that in your life, even if they are family. It's not worth having toxic, abusive people around you, who will always try to knock you down. You don't have to put up with it. You can leave and have no or very limited contact with the ones that abused you, while keeping contact with the good people you know in your life. I strongly recommend you consider seeing a therapist or counsellor who can help you deconstruct the lies you were told. A good therapist can teach you how to identify exactly when and how people are being abusive or manipulative, how to understand their tactics and thinking, and can support you in setting firm boundaries with the toxic people around you so they can't attack you anymore. They can also help you learn how to live without needing to constantly keep your mental guard up (it's exhausting), so you can re-connect with and grow the part of you that wants to have normal positive emotions. You might meet the right therapist straight away, or you might need to try more than one before you find the right one for you. That's normal. If you can't afford, or don't want to see a therapist, then consider joining a support group, either online or in person, for people who have grown up living with toxic families. There are organisations out there who can help, but it can even be something as simple as a Reddit group. You are not the only person who has had to grow up surrounded by abusive people, and talking with other people who have also gone through that can be very helpful. Getting the toxic people out of your life opens the door to finding good people, who you can have normal, safe relationships with. It's all a process that takes time and some effort, but you can do it.
Man I’m just gonna say as someone with ptsd from sexual assault if my best friend LISTENED to the person that hurt me and it triggered a flashback (like how she did for Jessie), would probably make me have such a horrible spiral. I know she’s done other bad things but that struck such a chord, like you actually have to be so full of yourself to believe you’re entitled to “sides” in a sexual assault. Especially one of your friends, like Gabbie is truly such a shitty person for that. I hope none of her friends ever confide in her with something like that because clearly she doesn’t actually care or respect the people in her life, she just sees it as potential content
Scary to see this happen online so publicly as someone who was friends with a guy who went through manic episodes and psychosis. Felt like having his old text messages read back to me-if anyone tells you they’re speaking with god or something “higher”, they need to get checked out immediately.
Fame went over her head. She is a narcissistic human being. This individual will never own up to her mistakes. It is always someone else's fault. A difficult person to live with.
I don’t know who many of the people are that you make videos about, I’m not that deep into social media content and trends, but I love how your videos expose that world in well researched and produced mini documentaries!
Everything after minute 40 is definitely a manic episode. I had a roommate who struggled with that type of headspace, got diagnoses for schizophreniform disorders and then has moved to narcissism disorders in search for answers.
This is the problem with crying wolf. When it’s the real thing, people don’t believe it. I can’t blame anyone who thinks she’s faking a breakdown. I don’t want to say I don’t believe she’s genuine… But part of me doesn’t. And that makes me feel shitty as someone who considers herself an empathetic, understanding, intelligent person who takes mental health seriously. But… I can’t forget the things I’ve seen
Understandable AF Imo But {& keep in mind Im commenting this before getting past Patrick's manscaping ad- in the video, so I'm very ignorant at this point!} I believe her more than Trisha Paytas' {while I'm also ignorant on this topic} use of {possibly faked} mental illness to distract & boost her image/visibility.... but regardless, there is no doubt in my head that they both suffer from some forms of mental illness {as most people do to some extent} that are more intense than the common person... even though they have been misdiagnosed {whether by a doctor or by themselves} &or made elements/diagnoses up
This whole video proved she lies allot. Even now, people were mad at her for the contest thing, and instead of having them mad she wants everyone to be worried about her instead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Honestly this girl just reminds me of every girl my from high school/college years who were rich as hell as kids/growing up, then suddenly got hit by the world and reality and shit, and instantly became these completely different people who would act one way, but were so transparently hating every second of no longer having everything handed to them in their lives, but acted like everything was just overly perfect all the time. Yeah… she fits the bill hard.
Honestly it’s kinda wild to me how people think she’s faking her bipolar episodes. Like….she must be an incredible actor because damn she portrayed mania and psychosis so much better than so many Hollywood actors could.
@@Roadent1241 Usually you don’t remember how you act in psychosis or manic episodes. That’s why when ppl say fucked up things, it isn’t just their true thoughts coming out, their agency is completely gone. When you come out of it, you find out you did a bunch of shit you remember nothing about.
I think that people's trust has worn out. Because she's lied before, it makes sense why some might question if this is real. If she never lied about her mental illness, I bet there would be fewer people who would claim that this fake. I agree that this time it seems real, but I completely understand why some may have their doubts.
Wow, I actually met her a few years ago. She was super nice to me and seemed level-headed. DEFINITELY shows that you never know what someone is going through behind closed doors.
Her screen name for Twitter in one of the screenshots is “Trauma Queen” … while 100% of her “traumatic experiences” is herself being “bullied”(but not actually bullied just reasonably criticized) for her narcissistic, dishonest, & manipulative behavior. Self awareness level 0
Everyone says Gabbie Hannah is narcissistic and only cares about herself but that was never more clear to me than when I heard the phone call. If you are a survivor of a seriously life-altering traumatic event, or close to someone who is, you know that the #1 thing a survivor wants is to MOVE ON. GH basically made it all about her and how SHE wanted to catch him she SHE wanted to talk to him, and she was literally ignoring every single thing that her distraught friend was saying. She was so disgustingly self absorbed about it and tbh anyone who still watches her or defends her in this situation is absolute scum.
I just remember glaring at the screen when she was just carrying on and on and Jessie was there obviously crying in her voice (nevermind the cam) and going "Can I call you later?" and Gabby just ignored her?? Obviously intentionally but still, to claim that's your best friend and disbelieve her??? When I've upset my friends I've immediately withdrawn and apologised and tried to change the subject or cheer them up but been extremely hesitant, surrounded by eggshells for months if not years afterwards. I've had this as recently as 2 years ago when I lost the group of friends I had. I assume it all culminated and I don't know what the breaking point was. What I did. What I need to fix. I still don't know how to react as an adult in my third decade, there's no script to follow because everybody's different. I don't even have a draft to work with. Sorry, point is, I do not carry on with the painful subject. Hurting them hurts me. WHY WAS SHE ENOUGH OF A HORRIBLE PERSON TO??? I wish I had maybe a percentage of her confidence and ability to human...
I think the most telling point of the phone call, is that it APPEARS that Gabbie was actually the one to record part of it - her voice is crystal clear and the other is echoey. Gabbie also appears calm and composed; both of these seem to point to Gabbie actually being the person to record the conversation and maybe she thought it had made her look LESS like a POS? It would make sense, considering her track record of gaslighting
One time, about a year ago, I interrupted my friend to tell him "I'm sorry, I really don't care or want to hear about Gorillaz lore." And I still feel bad for that. I don't understand how someone could show as much callous disregard for a friend, let alone a best friend, as Gaby does in that phone call
Anyone who claims people are "absosulte scum" for defending GH in that situation is not just an idiot but is engaging gross and almost comically unsubtle manipulation. I think Jessi herself, and by extension you, are being manipulative but it's possible (and in fact likely) you don't realize that's what you're doing. It's very clear from the conversation that GH _had_ moved on but did so in a way that Jessi didn't like. I certainly understand why she was upset with GH and ending their friendship was absolutely the right thing to do, but even in 2020 it's clear she still has no desire to just MOVE ON. I have no idea how you square that with "recording a 3 hour phone call, editing the footage to show people the parts I want them to see and then releasing it on the internet". The idea that if someone has been victimized in the past that means they themselves are and were incapable of victimzing others is dangerous and harmful. Anytime you proceed with absolute certainty that your actions are obviously and inherently morally pure you're being (in the vernacular of the day) toxic.
I wanted to add that ADHD -- real ADHD, not tik-tok "I do these quirky things because I'm so forgetful" ADHD -- can be seriously debilitating. ADHD is often misunderstood as something that only happens in children and/or only affects a person's ability to sit still and pay attention. As someone who didn't get diagnosed until I was 32, ADHD has negatively affected my emotional regulation, my time management, my ability to plan for the future, my relationships, relationship with food and drugs, and drive to get important things done (along with many other things I'm failing to remember right now). ADHD sucks. It has affected my ability to see the potential consequences of my actions and led to me making very stupid choices. Even worse, it has affected my ability to see how certain negative outcomes were almost entirely my fault. For example, I nearly failed out of college in my senior year, despite having good grades the previous years and getting through the toughest classes. I literally failed a 1-credit class called "Beginning Guitar" that I could've easily passed simply because I didn't go to class. I also could've requested to withdraw from the class at nearly the end of the semester without hurting my GPA, but I simply forgot to do this. This is just one example, but the whole year was a clusterf**k despite my credit load being lighter than previous years and not having any exceptionally challenging classes. I blamed all of my problems on my ex-girlfriend (the timing sucked, and she sort of cheated on me... but that's another story) and my instructors as I figured they all were out to get me. It wasn't until years later that I realized how lazy I was and how lenient my instructors had been. All of that said, ADHD is no excuse for bad behavior, especially manipulating and lying to others. ADHD might make me more sensitive to criticism, and I may react disproportionately when my wife does something I find upsetting. However, I don't use it as an excuse. I apologize and try to be better. Thank God my wife is patient and understanding, but if she decided that my behavior isn't tolerable, she has no obligation to stay with me and just deal with it. I'm chronically late to things, and even though it's common with people who have ADHD and I don't mean to disrespect other people's time, ultimately it is disrespectful, and no one should feel obligated to wait for me or accommodate me just because I struggle with something. It's easy to blame your problems on others, and lying and manipulating can give you short-term success. However, this behavior will likely ruin you in the long-term. You may be successful on the outside, but you'll know that you're a POS and that your success is undeserved. Hard to be happy when you know you're a fraud. The sooner you take ownership for your mistakes and responsibility for your life, the sooner you can begin working on yourself and improving your situation. You can't improve if all of your problems are someone else's fault... Sorry for the rant. Hopefully this helps someone!
I don't have too much to add because my energy is low right now, but I just want to say, I can at least partially understand. I just recently got diagnosed with ADHD at 18. It explains so much of my life and has made me realize I'm not actually a lazy fuck up, I just don't function the same way everyone has expected me to. School was hell growing up because of it and not knowing what to do to cope or be more productive. I do my best and am actively working on getting better, but the way I have felt about myself all my life has been almost completely explained by this diagnosis. Its a horrible thing to deal with and even worse to go through so much of your life without knowing what's "wrong with you". I completely agree that it isn't an excuse for treating people like shit, and a lot of people with ADHD don't do that. I just try not to be too harsh on people with ADHD about productivity or personal struggles because I know how hard it is to find resources.
@motherearth7303 you basically explained my life story i got diagnosed at 18 too 5 years ago i’m fustraited at my mom for not getting me diagnosed earlier because my life wouldve been much easier because i always just thought i was just stupid because i did so bad in school my teachers wanted to move me to a smaller class for kids with learning disabilities so like there were signs that there was something that should be checked out and ive had tics caused by adhd my entire life when i was a like a 2 old my mom took me to a doctor while i was having tics and the doctor thought i was having a seizure but it was just me having tics cuz i was exited, my adhd doctor later told me only 20% of people w adhd have tics but they are fustraiting at times too when i’m stressed or overwhelmed i start to tic like i start moving my fingers above my eyes and flexing my upper body and shoulders and adhd meds make them worse and its tiring for the body sorry for the ramble lol
@oonah5853 oh my God no way. I stg if that's what I've been dealing with. I also have been diagnosed with adhd. And the amount of people who don't understand that adhd can lead to depression anxiety paranoia and a multitude of different things it gets frustrating. Like I've had one person try to call me out for reaching out when I was depressed to the ones I thought were my friends saying it was an attention grab. If you know me you know I'm not social. But for the first time I tried to speak up about how I have been feeling and then I just got attacked by this person I thought was my friend. I'm antisocial, and and introvert but weirdly enough, if I'm separated from people and licked away in my room [because im antisocial] for a lil bit like I was at the time I get extremely depressed. So I tried to reach out and got backlash from it which in the end teaches us to keep things locked away. Now I'm diagnosed with not only adhd but major depressive disorder which I'm just starting to get under control. And you can see I have adhd because this topic went elsewhere. I'm sure these dots won't connect for you like they did with my brain lmao. But she never understood me or anything about me. It was always if she can get through it then so can I and I'm just making a big deal and I feel that that mindset toward people with adhd can be so damaging because they feel they aren't enough. They're not doing enough. And now being 23 I'm still struggling so much with adhd and the depression and everything else but I'm just now learning to manage 🙃 it's not just a hyper disorder and I really wish people could understand what all it is and what it can cause. I'm sorry I'm rambling now. I can't see what I wrote prior but I know I go on long tangents about things that seemingly don't connect 😂😂 I've struggled with thinking I'm crazy and that there's something wrong with me, it's just really refreshing to be able to relate with so many people like me!
@@julioaugusto1529 I get pissed off thinking about the ppl who have followed her for a long time/care about her going through emotional Rollercoasters just bc Gabbie wants attention. It's sick
I knew someone like this. I’m so glad that I’m no longer involved in their life but the whole experience legitimately left me with crippling PTSD. People who are this manipulative are dangerous and can ruin your lives in an instant. Great video Patrick, keep it up
The video of Jessi sobbing while on the phone is heartbreaking. Even if, EVEN IF, which I know this is such bullshit, she thought she couls be a vigilante and get Curtis to confess or something. Just fucking apologise. Stop trying to justify, admit that you fucked up, that your hurt Jessi, and you're sorry and you never would've wanted Jessi to feel betryed or hurt in this way. Gabby is manipulative and has such an ego that she can't even admit she messed up and that she felt she could be the hero that gets Curtis' confession. Jessi handled all of this with grace and compassion, when she had every right to be vengeful, angry, and destructive.
You may be an exception, however, it actually is common for people with ADHD to have anger issues/short temper and get irritable much quicker than the average neurotypical person.
@@MrFloat777 Let’s clarify that. They may get impatient and frustrated at themselves more easily, yes. But “anger issues” - taking it out on others, having a temper, flying into a rage, qualities we link with a person who has anger management problems - is not common. Those are qualities you’d more closely associate with a mood disorder - bipolar, borderline personality disorder, etc.
@@strnglhld just gonna pop here really quick to say that ADHD does make it really hard to regulate emotional responses for some people. That's just my personal experience :/ (as someone who has ADHD)
She's a good example of the reason people with mental health issues are looked down on and downplayed. I'm sure her mental health problems are valid, but there's a way to handle it. This is just hard to watch.
I actually am bipolar and I didn't have my first manic episode until I was 30, it was really scary. Just ignore her she'll calm down give it a few months. Thanks Patrick.
she isn't faking her insanity, she's intentionally exacerbating the symptoms for attention, ultimately sending her mind down a spiral she can't escape or even reduce anymore. no matter what she does, she can't go back to how she used to be or even similar. she's simply done too much damage to her psyche by letting her condition escalate. I have family with bipolar, and they've never been as bad as her, their highs aren't nearly as high and they maintain functional lives responsibly because they tackled the issue immediately. I have different issues, and while I haven't been to a doctor still, I've at least done everything I can to help reduce stress to live a better life for myself and so I can be better for others. she seems to have zero interest in this, as she believes she's already her best self. she's delusional and I don't know who her doctors are, but they must not give a single shit if she's actually even seeing one at all.
She was definitely manic. I had a roommate who went manic and this brought back memories. Its sad and scary but I def believe she was in an episode 100%
Reminder: If you are mentally unwell, that does not excuse horrible behaviour. It explains the reasoning behind said actions, possibly leading to external help of psychologist and therapy, but not mean you are the victim of your actions.
I fell asleep and woke up to this video playing in the background and as a 40yo male, this is an entire life's worth of drama packed into a 40 minute video that I'm happy to close and walk away from.
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4th.That 3 day period where she was going REALLY hard with the posts was absolutely nuts. She's deleted a lot of her posts.... the one where she was simulating a sexual act and saying the name of that guy that showed up at her house was especially caustic. There's not a chance that she wasn't (possibly still) in a manic state.
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She is unrecognizable today. It's frightening to watch someone completely go insane in real time on your phone.
like a Tila Tequila 2.0
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Like fouseytube too
It's just an attention stunt, as usual
can't go insane if you already were
I am so appalled at how jessi was treated by Gabbie. Gabbie says “you realize this is all your fault, everything that happened”. Jesus. How cruel.
The only person I can really feel bad for in this video is jessi, to go through something so traumatic and then have your best friend hang out with them and openly feel bad for your abuser is disgusting. And then play the victim? Horrible.
when I heard her say that I just got flashbacks 😂
I keep cycling back to this situation because of how she plays the victim. It's a psychological case study on narcissism. I mean... she blamed her unmedicated ADHD on being an awful friend. You know what happens when normal people go off their meds? They feel tired. A little slow. Have less concentration. Having a lack of dopamine in the brain doesn't in any way explain her actions, let alone justify them 😭
So coldly, interrupting her as well. It was very clear indication that she knew beforehand what she needed to do to deflect the accusations.
Strangely, I have a cousin who acts exactly like this and keeps telling me that she has ADHD. She also shows signs of bipolar disorder. Has celiacs disease and has had severe insomnia since a tween. I keep telling her to try FMT, which might address every single problem she has, but she just balks at the idea. The 2 FMT-bipolar trials just completed, had an 80% success rate.
okay, that guy is wild. the fact that he just chilled in her house for a while is actually insane. it speaks volumes about her mental state, no sane woman would even look twice if a stranger asked to enter her home.
Unless she could use it for content. It’s clear he wasn’t a threat LOL
@@beanybabyrabie why wouldn't she just hire him then? he clearly wasn't affiliated with her
besides the nerdiest goofiest looking guys could still be a threat. why would u want anyone you dont know in ur house anyway?
@@catsinwonderland7473 he kinda looks like if Michael Cera and Walter White had a son with brown hair
no sane person in general would allow that. no stranger is coming up in my house, ever. I wouldn't even allow ozzy to just walk into my house uninvited.
Her stressor is social media. She has to delete everything. As a medical student who had been to psychiatric wards, that manic episode wasn’t staged, it’s absolutely scarily realistic
She's a really good actor. As someone who STAYED in the psych ward. You just observed. I actually have bipolar and there's no points in my mania where I suddenly stop, become calm, and start bragging about my life. She wants attention and is stupid and makes bad choices like any other borderline. True mania doesn't disappear after 48 hours.
The professionals even agreed she's fine lol.
there's more than one form of bipolar disorder. you probably have type 1, which is less intense. this is a very real depiction of type 2 manic episodes.@@machinegurlll
@@machinegurlllthe western world often does not take their psych cases seriously. she’s showing signs of schizophrenia. i’m schizophrenic, i know when i see another schizo. american “professionals” are lazy and don’t do their job
@@machinegurlll imma assume that all disorders are not created equally and some can experience such rapid changes between psychosis and "normal" state
THIS. Im a pysch major and theres no pause to mania episodes youre so right. You dont go from manic to normal and back to manic. The only thing that interrupts mania is a depressive episode. This is why it feels so faked to me. She seems to have narcisstic personality disorder and if she does, putting on a show of mania for millions in order to garner sympathy or even a free pass for her actions is very in line with what someone experiencing not just narcissistic traits but a full blown disorder would do @@machinegurlll
I really love this Bojack Horseman line which totally applies in this situation I feel like: "You can't keep doing this! You can't keep doing sh*tty things and then feel bad about yourself like that makes it okay! You need to be better! BoJack, just stop. You are all the things that are wrong with you. It's not the alcohol, or the drugs, or any of the sh*tty things that happened to you in your career, or when you were a kid. It's you. Okay? It's you."
I think since all of her career is based on drama, she keeps on using that in every way, because she might feel like if she doesn't do that, her life is not worth living or something
the drama is literally all she has left to cling to
ALL of the drama and negativity in her life has all just "happened to her", a poor innocent victim (of circumstances *she* creates)- the literal definition of narcissistic personality disorder.
How ironic that she's now going on so much about enlightenment, manifesting, and spirituality, yet she's 100% blind to how much her own mindset and obsessions are entirely self-perpetuating, and she just keeps catching herself up in her own web of lies and drama....
The best line in the world I can relate too.
Ok but why do I feel personally attacked by that line......
This made me want to rewatch the show again so thanks 👍🏼
It breaks my heart to hear what she did to Jessi. Jessi handled this horrible, horrible situation with such grace and I really hope she’s thriving now after all the shit that was thrown at her
And to have people defend him when he’s found guilty for everything he’s done. I really feel so bad for her
Not surprised unfortunately. Anytime someone is r*ped, people will always find things to make them look like the bad guy. So sad.
She's doing great btw. She cohosts an up and coming podcast/UA-cam channel called "Do We Know Them" and seems to be flourishing and happy.
@@Shmaples So good to hear!! ik Gabby is seething bc she wasn't able to tear her town
@@viemarirunoajessi smiles is still very much alive no one died stop with the false shit
"Maybe if I got cancer and died you'd care"
Literally the same shit my parents say. That's emotional abuse. She's literally so obvious in her manipulation.
Stop lying and accusing your parents of shit on the Internet , things like that you dont go around saying things like that , respect your parents and if they say things like that you should deal with it like a grown up
@SrMontes Lmao are you okay?
@@srmontes989 I guess my parents' criminal records for child abuse don't mean anything now??
@@srmontes989 stfu you don't know her/him you incel
@@srmontes989me when im a weirdo freak dismissing others' experiences
I remember this drama like it was yesterday.
this video puts everything together so well.
Social media was probably the worst thing tht could’ve happened to her
Social media is the worst thing to happen to humanity.
Technology is the one thing that improves our lives and destroys it.
90% of humans
@@mikenormandy9250 yeah man true true as the same time i hate technology i love it becuse today you cant live without it. i miss my childhood
I whole heartedly agree with it. At the shop I work at technology is a godsend since technology in cars has skyrocketed so much in the past 20 years. the flipside is interns watching tiktok. Ive never had tiktok but I hate it simply because of the culture around tiktok. I have to admit if Tiktok didnt exist it would be replaced with something else.@@mikenormandy9250
her manipulation tactics are insane, like she genuinely scares me. i can’t believe people like this exist. hearing her word for word trying to manipulate jessi into believing that all of this is her fault is so strange.
She's a narcissist. I'm sure there are concurrent issues, but she's a narcissist. I'm married to one who very much pretended to be a kind, loving woman. Until we were married. Every single thing she said and did for the last 8 years was manipulation. Everything. Lies and truth were used interchangeably depending on what was useful in the moment. She would spin arguments for hours, eventually arguing against whatever she was originally arguing only to say she never was. It makes you feel like you're going crazy. It's very hard to truly comprehend a person who means NOTHING they say, respects no boundary, and will admit nothing they've done. We assume that people only lie sometimes.
@@Nosfermarki well yeah, Patrick literally used the Narcissist prayer in the video
“That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it”
very easy to spot one but it takes awhile, the easiest to spot are the compulsive liars (not necessarily exaggerations for a story type lies) they tell big obvious lies because they think everyone is dumb enough to believe it
I can´t help but to think Gabbi had the hots for the r****** dude, that´s why she sided with him.
She provokes ppl and when she gets the exact attention or reaction she wanted, she will act as the victim and goes on never ending justification.
@@Nosfermarki i hope you're doing okay, dude
The irony of gabby calling anyone narcissistic is insane
That’s usually what a narcissist does.
Really not that crazy since it’s textbook narcissism.
Not ironic, hypocritical
Thank u for defending Jessi , I’ve been watching her on her podcast n I had no idea she went thru that with gabbi. God bless Jessi she’s a strong woman for getting thru all that
In 20 years, colleges are going to do studies on early influencers and are gonna find out it has similar brain effects to like, other traumatic events and can deteriorate your brain. She seems like a very clear cut example of that.
A worthy observation.
I agree
This.
Omg. This is actually true. Someone should do a documentary on the dark side of being famous on social media or sumn like dat
No study is needed. Currently 6 years into PHD for clinical psychology. I could write you a 10 page paper on why this is already known, but I will simplify it for easier reading.
Humans get a good feeling when they are wanted, looked up upon, liked,loved. You know this, we all know this. It’s why attention craving exists. Being an “influencer” is the same way, except amplified. For a person who already desperately craves attention this can be very mentally taxing, having millions of people hanging onto your every action and word, the weight of the world on your shoulders type of feel. It’s an intense high, so when these people begin to fall off, or suffer extreme backlash or cancellation…well… you see. This is even more extreme if the person has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Being in the field I always urge people to educate themselves on narcissists/narcissism/NPD. The term is used incorrectly well over 90% of the time that I hear or see it on the internet. It’s a complex disorder and it is sad to see.
Also edit for the Cryptomnesia bit - obviously she is lying, we can deduce this if you look at past behaviors. However if it is something that interests you, pick up the book The Psychology of Writing by Ronald Kellog
Woah. That “smash or pass” was WILD. She straight up lied.
I would smash 💥 lmao 😜
She is the perfect example of a professional victim. Also, her poetry is made for people with the mental capacity of a toddler.
she is a professional victim.
agreed. there's actual good poetry,then there's hers.
People with mental illness sometimes tend to do that because they don't want people to hate them..
@Kenosha “3pt shoota” more likely that she played always the crazy and quirky one and get some damage from it. But clearly she's a professional victim
I teach preschool and poetry written for toddlers is better written than her stuff 😂
This was great. Thankt you for taking the time. I especially loved the ending. You have a kind and understanding soul.
that phone call still gets me, everything she says makes my skin crawl. vile, vile human being.
Time stamp???????
@@niger216 the video is broke into chapters, you should be able to find it
@@niger216 just watch the whole thing, it's worth
@@niger21628:33???
Disgusting that she's just pretending to have all these mental health issues
i remember her as the girl who stalked bo burnham early in his career and made a rumor online that she was dating him (going as far as photoshopping herself into a pic with his real gf, and it spread all over the internet as a real photo… and i think she doxxed him iirc) until it went so far that he got the law involved - gabbie hanna, aka “the girl bo burnham filed a restraining order against”
yo WHAT
@@tarvitsenapua omg its CRAZY - to clarify by “doxxing him” i mean he used to live in a famous house that was used for movies and literally nobody knew that unless they were the type of person bo was scared of lol. she figured it out by analyzing his old vines and talked about showing up at his house … i think his current fiancée was the gf he was with when he lived there so yeeeea he got a restraining order cuz it was going really far. he was used to kinda weird stalkery stans cuz he appealed to teenage girls at the time but shit got SCARY
No shot this is real
Is this real? I wouldn’t be surprised with the weird vids of her singing his songs…
@@KingOfGaymes it’s 100% real, it happened in the earlier years of his career and she’s been documented on video owning up to it 😭 i’m pretty certain there’s videos on it here on youtube if ur curious
She seems to believe that "haters" just dislike her because they're either misinterpreting her actions, jealous, or just straight up haters. When really, we dislike her because she is a lying, manipulative, deflective, attention-seeking drama queen, who has proven herself unlikeable time and time again.
Big facts. 💯
Yea, Gabby needs her phone taken away.
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@@oinkerdoinker Yes tf she does. Could probably benefit from some sort of mental rehabilitation. Not even saying that to be mean. She's clearly not ok.
Lmao so basically yeah we hate her and straight up haters lmao because she's literally all that
42:29 “gabby is from Pennsylvania” LMFAOOO 😭😭😭
That nick guy is ducking creepy. Chronically online people really don’t know boundaries and think they’re besties with people they follow who don’t know or care for them.
Can't you just be an adult and spell out the word fuck or are you afraid your parents will check your profile
yeah I mean the whole video was a wild ride, but holly mother of fucks this dude is absolutely delusional way worst then Gabby.
"Everybody is saying get help, so I'm going to go into their house and try and force some pills"
What? which one of the two brain cells told you this was remotely a "normal" response or reaction
There's no way that wasn't staged
Xa,.,
This kid waltzes into a stranger’s house as if he is a PharmD that could find/identify her antipsychotic medication & make her take it?! He picks up antibiotics for her acne & thinks anything in a pill bottle would “help her.” 😂 No one in the LA canyons would just open their door to a random stranger needing to use the bathroom 🤦🏼♂️
As someone with a personality disorder, when you are experiencing psychosis or a very strong manic episode you truly do believe that your decisions and actions are rational. Like no matter how irrational they are your brain truly seems to rationalize it in your head. Mental health is so multifaceted.
it's diagnosed right? Sorry if I come off as a jerk, but you never know these days.
As someone who used to be raised by a parent with personality disorder, I wish I could've seen this all those years ago. Would've saved so many headaches and disagreements
She’s probably bipolar.
That sounds scary.. How do you truly know when you're going into psychosis or having the said very strong manic episode? It must be hard since it seems like to you everything is fine or that everything is normal but others seeing you as not that.. I'm a bit scared for my own mental health as well.
@@namueishleep3026 yeah, personally i only realize what it was after it happens and it's always exhausting. getting better at not letting it affect the people around me though
My friend had a schizophrenic episode and it looked an awful lot like this, its honestly frightening watching it.
I had a friend/neighbor who grabbed a piece of animal crap, put it in a jar and thought it was something super special and that he's never seen before. Im assuming maybe some sort of creature. During an episode.
@@xxluminousreveriexx not trying to sit here and make fun of someone’s psychological disorder but.. that is objectively pretty hilarious
Yeah it was just a public stunt, shes now talking about her new album and all the hundreds of tiktoks have been deleted.
@@pregnantleggies3696 its so hard to tell with a person like that, it could all be a lie or it could have been real. You cant trust a person who potentially has a schizophrenic episode, they can go in and out.
@@azkrouzreimertz9784 suppose that’s true but she’s pulled so many public stunts right before her songs drop, so if it was all for attention; it sadly would not shock me.
This came on my auto play a year later. Gabby has since left social media, moved back to her hometown, and is working as a personal trainer. I think she has finally learned social media is toxic for her mental health and has quietly left, at least for now. Honestly, I respect anyone who walks away from something like this for their mental health and to live a quiet life.
Not for long, she is back and tbh i don't really see any improvements. She still seems like someone in love with themselves.
Sorry to disappoint you but she's back and she seems like she didn't learn anything
She ain't the victim here
Same it's so crazy watching this all again a year later when we were all following the whole thing and how she just fell off the face of the earth after
lol, lmao even
She's literally just deleted all the videos and is promoting new music. She never changes.
eh. Bipolar is genetic. I suffer with it. IMO thats what she has.
Tbh, that better, for her to stop vlogging and just make music
She never changes because it works every time lol.
Wtf would you do? Fester in your fucked up past or try to move on?
@@doingbettereveryday you cant really move on until you've properly taken responsibility for what you're trying to move on from lol
Old Gabbie videos make me wonder how easily it was for people to be entertained a few years ago
Funny, I was intrigued by her storytime videos (the original lot, I didn't know she did more in this decade, last I remember was about the merchandise chaos.) but something just started twinging wrong near the end of the playlist.
Have you not been on TikTok?
its not like people en masse still to this day don't watch content just as trashy 😂
I feel like that brand of humor has become outdated too.
Yet you are probably someone who watches jars roll down stairs on tiktok.
This girl is a classic case of narcissism. One of the most telling traits is not being able to accept criticism and justify their actions taking a very defensive posture
Because they're trying to avoid shame. Narcissistic people are driven by their fear of shame. I can only imagine how dark it is for someone who experiences shame as such a debilitating, awful monster that you do anything to avoid it - even destroy your life and the loved ones around you. I really hope we find suitable and effective psychological therapies that help humans with NPD :'(( and better access to therapy and resources for those who've been in close proximity to them, especially children raised by them.
Also main character syndrome. It's bizarre how far in she's in her own lies. It's got to be so confusing and exhausting all the time living life like that, while you're actually all causing it to yourself. I feel sort of bad but she's so vicious to other people I also find it hard to feel empathy for her.
@@SerenEnfysthere is therapy and treatments for people with NPD. they just often, for some reason or another, (ex self-doubt or not recognizing the damage), don't take the treatment 😔 and even then it's becoming harder and harder to get good treatment for people.
Excellent deep-dive, clear unbiased presentation, calming voice. You sir, deserve so much respect
They say cocaine is one hell of a drug, but attention is by far the most addictive and we are the dealers
So true everyone responding and even commenting on her is making her $$ and giving her attention when we should be ignoring someone like that especially with a platform that big…… she makes me cringe with the narcissistic personalities…. She is creepy
@@douglasvice5750 agreed she is so creepy and draining
We truly live in a society
Power corrupts. Absolute power can even corrupt the noblist of men.
Truth. As a side note I rather deal with people who do drugs rather those who use attention as a drug.
God, as someone who has ADHD, it DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL to see Gabbie Hanna HIDE behind her ADHD. I get it. ADHD is a shit storm. It SUCKS to live with. But it is *NOT* AN EXCUSE FOR SHITTY BEHAVIOR. It reflects *TERRIBLY* on neurodivergent people. I'm SO. SICK. OF PEOPLE DOING THIS.
Edit: y'all quit bitching in the replies
Dude preach. I have ADHD myself and it's literally so hard to manage even on meds, it makes me feel like a social outcast. It's not oop silly haha quirky it's a lot more.. its a web of symptoms and issues
I've noticed a upcoming trend of more and more people saying they have ADHD in the last couple months, just to hide behind it like you said. It's the same as it was a decade ago with depression. All of a sudden everyone and their mom had it. I'm not saying everyone is faking it, but I'm sure most of these newly upcoming ADHD "patients" are self diagnosed and therefor most likely made up.
Which is not only sad but damaging for everyone who actually has to live with this condition.
As someone whos brother is bipolar, it is really damaging when someone claims to have it while only telling the stereotype symptoms, witch doesn't really fit, how she acts, or how bipolar people, type A acts which I thinks is the one she claims to have.
Yes!!!
facts, like its not a personality trait, you can not use it as an excuse to why your a jerk. and it does reflect bad on other nuradivergent normal and nice people
This is not just mania, this is psychosis. And it's public. Most people who go through this don't have millions of people watching and entertained by their illness.
Who just let's a random dude come and stay in their house. My God that was scary and uncomfortable
@@nevermusic 😂 right on the nose. True true.
@@octaviosilva5808 You are going to be surprised to find out about hookup culture lol
Lmao, okay Dr. Lemon. Real psychosis is far too mentally draining and irritating to be dancing like an idiot while recording yourself and editing the videos/adding captions to hundreds of videos in 2 days. Her ego is driving her to grasp for straws to gain back relevancy and attention. She just needs to put the phone down, eat healthy food and literally hydrate like Patrick always says. She’s literally just acting like an adult 14yo kid, saying the most generic “crazy” shit for sympathy.
As much as i never was rlly interested in Gabbies content. This current stuff is reminding me of Etika, so i hope she actually has people around her who can help her.
Your videos are great. I love learning more about companies, businesses, celebrities, and events. I would never pay attention to these people in real life, but your videos are so well made and interesting that I’ve just been binging all of them. Well done, sir!
Imagine when your actions make Rice Gum look like the good guy.
2 things can be true at once. I can assure you rice gun has never been a "good guy" and hell tell you himself he's an ass
What did RiceGum do?
@@chuuchuuutrain you can find that yourself easily
@@harlee9595 you could’ve just told them 💀
@@chuuchuuutrain five words
“Did it feel good thoughts”
And that’s not even the worst of it
I used to be in a relationship with a girl who idolized Gabbie Hanna. Looking back on how the relationship fell apart, I realize that her idolization and emulation of Gabbie should have been a massive red flag.
True, esp if they’re idolizing some essentially no-name like Gabbie then it’s def bc they can relate / identify w her. It’s like how I idolize Joe Goldberg from You.. it’s bc I have pretty bad stalker tendencies and can relate so much to that character and show. But the main difference being this character/actor is actually very cute and talented and the show is very entertaining which means I could love the show just bc I find it entertaining and the actor very attractive. But in your case, there’s really nothing Gabbie has that would cause a (I’m assuming) teen/young adult to idolize her besides relating a lot to her so it’s much more worrisome.
You’ve never been in a relationship quit lying
@@stancexpunksthe mental gymnastics you just made to convince the internet your stalking tendencies "aren't that weird" is crazy lmaoo
@@machinegurlllRIGHT?? THEY ADMITTED TO STALKING AND THEN WENT BUT LIKE YK GABBIE IS SM WORSE…
@@machinegurlll i was like "wait what?" a pretty bad stalker tendencies? aint no wayyyyy they just said it like its the most normal and common thing that people can develop, like its a part of growing up 😂😂
i feel bad for Patrick because he had to research, watch, analyze and write a script about all this youtube drama bullshit
Pat does it so we don’t have to. A true hero.
it’s not even UA-cam drama (presently anyway). it’s not even drama lmao
@@cm275 yes. he’s taking on for the team for doing this for us.
He CHOSE to do it
He chose to do it for our entertainment.
I was like “I’ve seen this person before but WHERE” and then the monster meme pulled up and I was like “oh yeah, that makes sense”
I had a friend just like this, good god she manipulated me so many times and would constantly lie like Gabbie does in order to spin what happened into what she wanted to be the truth. A truly exhausting friendship with someone who can never see themselves in a bad light, never see that they're wrong, and always play the victim. Get out if any of ya'll are in a situation like this.
Very true. I've cut out and avoided people like that multiple times. They drain your happiness to the extreme. People like her unfortunately end up alone.
it reminds of my used-to-be guy friends who constantly dragged me into his drama with his romantic partners
Facts
I deal with this exact thing currently with my family. How can people be so far from reality. I suppose they’re just fried. They’re major alcoholics and drug addicts so that must explain it. Wet brain is terrible
My sister is definitely like that. I wouldn't blame it on drugs or alcohol. She does neither. Also has 6 kids.
Sad thing is that she’s cried wolf so much that she’s pushed everyone away that could genuinely help her.
it really was crazy to watch a legit psychotic episode in real time
Really sad. She has to live with her madness being online and public forever.
this was so well done.
This is the first Gabbie Hanna 'overview' video that seems to be done properly - a lot of them are hours because they end up getting into every single detail, which is exactly what Gabbie wants because it feeds the bickering not the actual conversation - but lack a bigger picture. Skipping the details on stuff like the brushes and Trisha helps make the picture very clear, which is Gabbie feels victimized no matter what people do.
I honestly never realized she’s always had the same sense of ‘humor’ and personality and literally every view was accidentally/purposely enabling her
🎯🎯🎯
This is exactly it. She showed us from square one who she was as a person and so many people enabled it by saying "oh its just a joke or a character". But from square one she showed us exactly what a trash human she is.
I feel like crying. The way she deflects, gaslights, and manipulates her friend and everyone else remind me so much of my boyfriend. It's extremely exhausting and draining to have a close relationship with someone like her. They blame everyone but themselves. They use their mental health issue as an excuse. I wish there was a way out.
Edit: I didn't expect this to blow up, thank you everyone for being so nice and supportive!
ya leaving. i left a bf like that.. then he stalked me.. i had to get a restraining order.. he nvr let up.. even yrs later. but then he died.. it was a pretty wild ride.. but i stood my ground... just ignore them n move on eventually theyll find someone else to torment n fixate on them. in the mean time get the police involved
@@lyndza1989 yeah girl leave him sounds like it wont be as hard as what Lyn dealt with!
If your boyfriend is taxing your mental health this much, you really need to find a way out. People like that can do a lot of damage to a person. Please, for the sake of your mental health, start finding an exit as soon as possible
@@coutureflamingo1924 I'm trying but I can't help but feel guilty because I know he doesn't have anyone else. We've been dating for two years. I met him when I was 15 and he's 9 years older than me. I know he's sick and he always makes me feel responsible for everything and he makes me decide for both of us.
@@nooneimportant460 I know I have to leave him soon now that he wants me to leave everything behind and move somewhere with him. He wants me to stop going to school and just live with him. I'm scared but at the same time I can see how much he needs someone.
I dont even know about most of these people, but the drama and the way you tell the complete story just gets me hooked everytime.
As a fellow bipolar person, I 100% believe she was experiencing psychosis. I’ve experienced it before and it’s such a bizarre state to be in. You experience things like feeling you can do anything and you are the best to ever do it. It all compounds on itself and leaves you looking extremely delusional and psychotic just like what the Tik Tok’s showed. I genuinely feel bad for her because those were the lowest points for me and it wasn’t blasted all over the internet. I really hope a redemption arc has yet to come but I’m not betting on it.
46:00
I honestly hope she gets proper treatment fir bipolar disorder
Same! Im bipolar mixed and this is what I look like during episodes.
Yup don't care if she is a shitty person 39:00 she is definitely having a manic episodes and the fact she uploaded all they tictoks says it all..mines can last 1 day to 3 weeks and I'm soooo high off of nothing I shop for shit I don't Need, don't sleep, obsessed over anything and think I'm psychic and ur right I' think I'm the best at EVERYTHING I DO. man I feel for her it sure hope she can get it together
Cocaine is a helluva a drug lol....
When she comes back after her “stoner arc”. I 100% believe the girl was doing harder drugs and was disassociating even more, her whole mental personality took a huge slope down… it wasn’t just strange, it was like watching the attention seeker on crack.
Also she is so far down the rabbit hole by the end of this video that I am also sure she can manipulate and lie her way out of wellness checks because she knows they are not the ones watching her on the media. Idk where her next chapter is but I hope we get her off the platform somehow so she can just be away from all the viewers… I think we would see so much improvement.
Yes, I think she's on some sort of stimulate. Crack, coke, meth or something
I agree, she absolutely manipulated her way out of the mental health checks and that's honestly really scary and unhelpful.
Cocaine + ginormous ego = the worst self destruction humanity can imagine
reminds me a lot of that bodybuilder guy ryan murphy who went through a religious mania after tripping on ayahuasca for a while
You have no intelligence
That dude that went into her house was definitely in the wrong in every way shape and form
Agreed
Definitely.
Yeah that was definitely a real thing that happened in real life. Totally, guys.
@@JackQNielsen right. 🤣
Come on guys, she had no reason to be scared of him. Her cleaning lady would have f'd him up and buried him in her heavenly garden.
Gabby wearing a “don’t let idiots ruin your day” shirt whilst crying over ricegum’s elementary rap is the most ironic thing I’ve ever seen
When an individual with an already large ego achieves that level of “fame”. It literally broke her brain
True I know if I experienced that type of fame I would have a hard time keeping my ego in check, so someone like her is basically a lost cause at this point lol
@@pricklycatsss if you can't keep your ego in check when you achieve "fame" thents that's kinda sad
@@ronel7836 you're lying to yourself if you think you would be completely 100% humble at all times with millions of fans and views and money lol
@@ronel7836 If you’ve not experienced it how can you speak on it
Yeah I think the fact that she took so much offense to everything and literally played the victim. You could tell that her insecurities were eating her alive and she was making it even worse by wanting to display everything in front of a camera causing her to spiral into a never ending down fall. She needs help.
I genuinely feel so bad for Jessi I have always felt she was genuine. Jessi has a normal life now she doesn’t obsess over social media. Jessi is just trying to live her life and live with her real trauma
Watching this unfold live was actually unnerving and scary.
I know quite a few people that have bipolar disorder and Gabbie reminds me of the ones with the most extreme cases. It is very hard to have a functional conversation and this type of platform will most likely end up taking her life at some point. Someone needs to help her.
I never paid attention to youtubers or internet celebrities so I am entirely reliant upon videos like this to fill me on on the madness of these people. You're doing good work.
Same here, I'm loving these videos
so glad to hear that i'm not the only one lol
yep me too. they're like "20 millions subscribers, 1 billion hashtag views" and I'm like "uhh.. who is this?"
I'll stick to listening to music. music hardly lets me down
I’m the same way. There are so many famous UA-camrs I’ve never heard of and videos like this make me very thankful that I was never into this awful part of the internet
@@mclovinlife4018 Right? not to be smug about it at all I swear but I feel like I wasted fewer hours of my life staring at these people than others did. Then again, I did spend a lot of time watching Nostalgia Critic...ah well none of us is perfect.
These documentaries are top of the line every time! Keep up the excellent work Pat!
This one kinda sucks
@@daviep9607 no it doesn't........
@@daviep9607 ehhh.. truth hurts.. she making her life "exposing" others.. and it needs to be said. everything catches up w u eventually
She's very committed to her ADHD, talking about it as if she was disabled. I've got ADHD too. I know people with this issue and everyone admits their ducks up and moves on, even if certain things happened because of the disorder. Once my grandma drove me to the train station one day before scheduled travel because I mixed up the date. I had the clearest picture in my mind of the ticket with the wrong date on it. However, I just apologized and vowed to put notifications on my phone, put important events on my calendar and double check because I can't trust my memories XD you can't be angry at people because their reaction to your mishaps even if you didn't mean to irritate them. She mentioned that if she had a cancer maybe people would be nicer to her. Well, diseases aren't force fields against anger, resentment or aversion. If you're being constantly overbearing and difficult, people won't do nothing above bare minimum. They gonna be cordial, they gonna help you whenever you ask but they won't think of you as your favourite person and that's in private settings. I'm sure people online get too involved in influencers' lifes and call themselves "fans" or random people who are as valuable as any other person. Gabbie however didn't care for followers or enthusiasts of her work but fans of herself.
ADHD is literally a disability though, like, legally speaking
@@Merjacevi ADHD as the name says is a disorder. I have ADHD, I've been in treatment for some time now. My doctor is very compassionate. He talks freely about suffering connected with the disorder but he underlines that it's not a disability. You can treat it. Legally, ADHD is considered a disability so working people could access help and rehabilitation. The disorder interferes with person's capacity to work and it's acknowledged as a reason for Social Security. Disability is defined in two categories: legal and scientific. People who are capable of living on their own without assistance who's disorder is managed by meds aren't considered medically disabled. ACCORDING TO MY DOCTOR.
@@Merjacevi I'd stick by it. Though my life has been destroyed due to bad diagnosis and lack of treatment, I wouldn't compare myself to people who are unable to survive without assistance or equipment. ADHD comes in many shapes and forms. People often deal with other mental or physical problems alongside ADHD. I'm invalidating their suffering, telling them to use a calendar. However, ADHD doesn't take from person's objective perception of reality/facts or their abilities to move though it's hard. It's not a competition but Gabbie uses ADHD as a force field against anything and everything. She's "the sick one", she requires preferential treatment but not much can be done by society to make her life easier. Some disabled people need elevators, some need parking spaces, other need quiet rooms in public spaces and assistance in public spaces, some rely on social awareness and compassion. Gabbie, however, wants to be treated by everyone as if she was their sick loved-one. When people resist, she says she's being bullied. Bit like Michael Scott after his morning battle with grill. Legally, she might be disabled and be eligible for benefits but in broader social context she doesn't require special treatment to survive and could do a lot to help others without sacrifice of her own safety, comfort or standard of living. At work or at school ADHD people need certain tools or approach but they're capable of surviving and living on their own without assistance. That's what I meant when implying she's been overestimating her condition. She's really privileged with money and options to get medication and best therapy and treatment possible. In a social context and through of my doctor, ADHD is not a disability. It's a disadvantage, disorder that might be horrific and lead to other problems if not treated, but it it doesn't take away from a person. I remember clearly when he told me this that. It makes life more difficult but it doesn't take away from a person and when properly treated/managed is a trait of many brilliant people.
It's a disorder not a disability & over here they are removing adults treatment that had been helping. Adults who weren't treated as children but need it now. Replacing it with nothing, sorry officially labled 3rd line of treatment (AKA LAST RESORT) seizure causing anti-depressants or meds require HEART monitoring while on it...basically anything you're GP can prescribe w/psyc special cert number, cuz no psychiatrist will see you anymore...long established medical history be dammed.....& ironically "no healthcare systems" USA let's GPs had out meds like candy w/o qualifications.....see it all sucks, everywhere, one way or another.
ADHD is a spectrum in terms of functionality. Some people struggle more than others with ADHD and with different aspects of it. Some people might struggle more with memory or attention.
new sub here! apart from context, your way of dissecting things and the whole video was top notch man! I watched without blinking my eye . very well done!
you taking the time to flesh out gabbie's entire history, including the good, the bad, the hard to find screenshots and deleted content, putting it together in a coherent and intelligent way, and uploading it like this was so well done. I've never heard of you before but this video was recommended to me. I'm going to subscribe because I'm so impressed. thanks for your hard work
Another important thing to note about her series: remember the video made about her joke stealing? In the series, she admits to tracking down the person who made it, who was a minor at the time, and finding his address and the school he went to. No, I’m not kidding. It’s in one of the first episodes, you can find reuploads here on UA-cam.
Whaaaaaat
@@xocreme that was exactly my reaction at the time
Yep
@@robinmitchells I remember the backlash from that ... Truly unhinged shit dude
The switch from hip hop to these type of vids on this channel was the best thing you could've done. And the hip hop fans can always follow your 2nd channel as well🔥
16:20 that Zac Efron meme killed me lmfao
I could never imagine getting angry at a youtuber for not posting. Then again I don't really watch youtubers that just post about themselves.
Because those people think the UA-camrs are their friends
As someone with Bipolar, if that was an "act" she deserves an Oscar. That was full-blown. I feel terrible for her, basically livestreaming her mania to the world. That's going to be in the public domain forever. I'm glad I didn't have a massive online audience following my episodes, it's embarrassing enough when it's only a few people who witness it.
I know a bipolar (type 1 with psychosis) person in real life and she's exactly like Gabbie. So I agree. Strangely enough, she has the same sense of humor too.
I was diagnosed with Bipolar syndrome as a kid and people have been throwing my diagnosis in my face even my own family ever since then, saying shit like “you are going to end up being a serial child molesting murderer” simply because those types of trash are diagnosed as Bipolar. They say this all because I would tell them to F$&@ off and to leave me alone then proceeded to progressively get angrier and angrier (never physical) as they pushed me.
I literally grew up thinking I was a monster because of what my “friends” and family said to me about being Bipolar and about my diagnoses being linked to such terrible terrible walking breathing human trash.
It took me years to manufacture a persona that is basically stoic and slightly sarcastic to appease those around me, to keep people from judging me as such a horrible person just because my emotions are all over the place.
Now they just think I am a sarcastic asshole, who is seriously indifferent. Even tho In my head I am screaming and crying wishing I could have a personality or emote without everyone judging and tearing me down.
@@MikeRaist What you experienced is psychological and emotional abuse. There is NO connection or correlation between bipolar disorder and serial killers or child molesters (or any other types of evil people). None. Zero. The people in your life saying these things to you are either profoundly ignorant or they are vicious liars. Either way, they were abusive to you, and if your parents were involved then they are hypocrites, because treating your child like that is a form of child abuse.
You have no obligation to keep people like that in your life, even if they are family. It's not worth having toxic, abusive people around you, who will always try to knock you down. You don't have to put up with it. You can leave and have no or very limited contact with the ones that abused you, while keeping contact with the good people you know in your life.
I strongly recommend you consider seeing a therapist or counsellor who can help you deconstruct the lies you were told. A good therapist can teach you how to identify exactly when and how people are being abusive or manipulative, how to understand their tactics and thinking, and can support you in setting firm boundaries with the toxic people around you so they can't attack you anymore. They can also help you learn how to live without needing to constantly keep your mental guard up (it's exhausting), so you can re-connect with and grow the part of you that wants to have normal positive emotions. You might meet the right therapist straight away, or you might need to try more than one before you find the right one for you. That's normal.
If you can't afford, or don't want to see a therapist, then consider joining a support group, either online or in person, for people who have grown up living with toxic families. There are organisations out there who can help, but it can even be something as simple as a Reddit group. You are not the only person who has had to grow up surrounded by abusive people, and talking with other people who have also gone through that can be very helpful. Getting the toxic people out of your life opens the door to finding good people, who you can have normal, safe relationships with. It's all a process that takes time and some effort, but you can do it.
@@MikeRaistIm sorry you’re going through this. You’re so strong. Hang in there ❤️🩹
@@attumsky123thanks for the love. I deal with it just fine, it suck’s but meh whatever.
Man I’m just gonna say as someone with ptsd from sexual assault if my best friend LISTENED to the person that hurt me and it triggered a flashback (like how she did for Jessie), would probably make me have such a horrible spiral. I know she’s done other bad things but that struck such a chord, like you actually have to be so full of yourself to believe you’re entitled to “sides” in a sexual assault. Especially one of your friends, like Gabbie is truly such a shitty person for that. I hope none of her friends ever confide in her with something like that because clearly she doesn’t actually care or respect the people in her life, she just sees it as potential content
I hear you, I would spiral too. I hope you are doing okay! ❤
thanks for trauma dumping to an audience that doesn't need to hear it
@@elliot_ratwtf is your problem?
@@elliot_ratyour welcome
Scary to see this happen online so publicly as someone who was friends with a guy who went through manic episodes and psychosis. Felt like having his old text messages read back to me-if anyone tells you they’re speaking with god or something “higher”, they need to get checked out immediately.
This is why the story of “the boy who cried wolf” is important for kids to learn before they grow up.
Fame went over her head. She is a narcissistic human being. This individual will never own up to her mistakes. It is always someone else's fault. A difficult person to live with.
“I was forced to find a way to survive” literally turning off the phone and stepping away was all you had to do
I don’t know who many of the people are that you make videos about, I’m not that deep into social media content and trends, but I love how your videos expose that world in well researched and produced mini documentaries!
“I am a woman of color” “Gabbie is from Pennsylvania” idk why but that got me 😂
Everything after minute 40 is definitely a manic episode.
I had a roommate who struggled with that type of headspace, got diagnoses for schizophreniform disorders and then has moved to narcissism disorders in search for answers.
This is the problem with crying wolf. When it’s the real thing, people don’t believe it.
I can’t blame anyone who thinks she’s faking a breakdown. I don’t want to say I don’t believe she’s genuine… But part of me doesn’t. And that makes me feel shitty as someone who considers herself an empathetic, understanding, intelligent person who takes mental health seriously. But… I can’t forget the things I’ve seen
Understandable AF
Imo
But {& keep in mind Im commenting this before getting past Patrick's manscaping ad- in the video, so I'm very ignorant at this point!} I believe her more than Trisha Paytas' {while I'm also ignorant on this topic} use of {possibly faked} mental illness to distract & boost her image/visibility.... but regardless, there is no doubt in my head that they both suffer from some forms of mental illness {as most people do to some extent} that are more intense than the common person... even though they have been misdiagnosed {whether by a doctor or by themselves} &or made elements/diagnoses up
This whole video proved she lies allot. Even now, people were mad at her for the contest thing, and instead of having them mad she wants everyone to be worried about her instead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Is it common for someone to only suffer a manic episode for the first time in their thirties?
@@kingayy9267 she might've just never filmed it, and it's not impossible to develop certain mental illnesses later in life, just rare
Absolutely agree!
The way you referenced suicslide as self-delete, got me wheezing
Honestly this girl just reminds me of every girl my from high school/college years who were rich as hell as kids/growing up, then suddenly got hit by the world and reality and shit, and instantly became these completely different people who would act one way, but were so transparently hating every second of no longer having everything handed to them in their lives, but acted like everything was just overly perfect all the time.
Yeah… she fits the bill hard.
Honestly it’s kinda wild to me how people think she’s faking her bipolar episodes. Like….she must be an incredible actor because damn she portrayed mania and psychosis so much better than so many Hollywood actors could.
@@Raya-ir4tm This episode is clearly different from times she was just acting. There’s no way she could act this good for a bit.
@@astralaurora4165 You could if you've lived it and can simply remember what/how to do it.
@@Roadent1241 Usually you don’t remember how you act in psychosis or manic episodes. That’s why when ppl say fucked up things, it isn’t just their true thoughts coming out, their agency is completely gone. When you come out of it, you find out you did a bunch of shit you remember nothing about.
@@astralaurora4165 But you have it on film so you have a reference to copy.
I think that people's trust has worn out. Because she's lied before, it makes sense why some might question if this is real. If she never lied about her mental illness, I bet there would be fewer people who would claim that this fake. I agree that this time it seems real, but I completely understand why some may have their doubts.
Wow, I actually met her a few years ago. She was super nice to me and seemed level-headed. DEFINITELY shows that you never know what someone is going through behind closed doors.
I feel like her life would be so much better if she wasn’t famous
I've met plenty of people like this that have no fame whatsoever.
Her life would be so much better if she actually just stfu for once lmaooo
@@chanty2192 yea but they don’t have people always watching them
I know non-famous people like this and you can trust me, they're still miserable and hard to be around.
I feel she allows under peoples comments get under her skin way to much
She is an example of how to not give idiots attention because once they taste some they’ll do anything to chase that high again
A new example is the Island Boys 😂
@@gerardwilliams2547and fousey
jessi's story made me feel sick to my stomach. bless her heart. :(
Lol love the ad transition
Her screen name for Twitter in one of the screenshots is “Trauma Queen” … while 100% of her “traumatic experiences” is herself being “bullied”(but not actually bullied just reasonably criticized) for her narcissistic, dishonest, & manipulative behavior. Self awareness level 0
Trauma queen is an awesome song by Agoraphobic Nosebleed...or is it Pig Destroyer?? I forget. Either way it's a banger
Everyone says Gabbie Hannah is narcissistic and only cares about herself but that was never more clear to me than when I heard the phone call. If you are a survivor of a seriously life-altering traumatic event, or close to someone who is, you know that the #1 thing a survivor wants is to MOVE ON. GH basically made it all about her and how SHE wanted to catch him she SHE wanted to talk to him, and she was literally ignoring every single thing that her distraught friend was saying. She was so disgustingly self absorbed about it and tbh anyone who still watches her or defends her in this situation is absolute scum.
I just remember glaring at the screen when she was just carrying on and on and Jessie was there obviously crying in her voice (nevermind the cam) and going "Can I call you later?" and Gabby just ignored her?? Obviously intentionally but still, to claim that's your best friend and disbelieve her???
When I've upset my friends I've immediately withdrawn and apologised and tried to change the subject or cheer them up but been extremely hesitant, surrounded by eggshells for months if not years afterwards.
I've had this as recently as 2 years ago when I lost the group of friends I had. I assume it all culminated and I don't know what the breaking point was. What I did. What I need to fix.
I still don't know how to react as an adult in my third decade, there's no script to follow because everybody's different. I don't even have a draft to work with.
Sorry, point is, I do not carry on with the painful subject. Hurting them hurts me. WHY WAS SHE ENOUGH OF A HORRIBLE PERSON TO???
I wish I had maybe a percentage of her confidence and ability to human...
I think the most telling point of the phone call, is that it APPEARS that Gabbie was actually the one to record part of it - her voice is crystal clear and the other is echoey. Gabbie also appears calm and composed; both of these seem to point to Gabbie actually being the person to record the conversation and maybe she thought it had made her look LESS like a POS? It would make sense, considering her track record of gaslighting
One time, about a year ago, I interrupted my friend to tell him "I'm sorry, I really don't care or want to hear about Gorillaz lore." And I still feel bad for that.
I don't understand how someone could show as much callous disregard for a friend, let alone a best friend, as Gaby does in that phone call
Anyone who claims people are "absosulte scum" for defending GH in that situation is not just an idiot but is engaging gross and almost comically unsubtle manipulation. I think Jessi herself, and by extension you, are being manipulative but it's possible (and in fact likely) you don't realize that's what you're doing. It's very clear from the conversation that GH _had_ moved on but did so in a way that Jessi didn't like. I certainly understand why she was upset with GH and ending their friendship was absolutely the right thing to do, but even in 2020 it's clear she still has no desire to just MOVE ON. I have no idea how you square that with "recording a 3 hour phone call, editing the footage to show people the parts I want them to see and then releasing it on the internet".
The idea that if someone has been victimized in the past that means they themselves are and were incapable of victimzing others is dangerous and harmful. Anytime you proceed with absolute certainty that your actions are obviously and inherently morally pure you're being (in the vernacular of the day) toxic.
I wanted to add that ADHD -- real ADHD, not tik-tok "I do these quirky things because I'm so forgetful" ADHD -- can be seriously debilitating. ADHD is often misunderstood as something that only happens in children and/or only affects a person's ability to sit still and pay attention. As someone who didn't get diagnosed until I was 32, ADHD has negatively affected my emotional regulation, my time management, my ability to plan for the future, my relationships, relationship with food and drugs, and drive to get important things done (along with many other things I'm failing to remember right now).
ADHD sucks. It has affected my ability to see the potential consequences of my actions and led to me making very stupid choices. Even worse, it has affected my ability to see how certain negative outcomes were almost entirely my fault. For example, I nearly failed out of college in my senior year, despite having good grades the previous years and getting through the toughest classes. I literally failed a 1-credit class called "Beginning Guitar" that I could've easily passed simply because I didn't go to class. I also could've requested to withdraw from the class at nearly the end of the semester without hurting my GPA, but I simply forgot to do this. This is just one example, but the whole year was a clusterf**k despite my credit load being lighter than previous years and not having any exceptionally challenging classes. I blamed all of my problems on my ex-girlfriend (the timing sucked, and she sort of cheated on me... but that's another story) and my instructors as I figured they all were out to get me. It wasn't until years later that I realized how lazy I was and how lenient my instructors had been.
All of that said, ADHD is no excuse for bad behavior, especially manipulating and lying to others. ADHD might make me more sensitive to criticism, and I may react disproportionately when my wife does something I find upsetting. However, I don't use it as an excuse. I apologize and try to be better. Thank God my wife is patient and understanding, but if she decided that my behavior isn't tolerable, she has no obligation to stay with me and just deal with it. I'm chronically late to things, and even though it's common with people who have ADHD and I don't mean to disrespect other people's time, ultimately it is disrespectful, and no one should feel obligated to wait for me or accommodate me just because I struggle with something.
It's easy to blame your problems on others, and lying and manipulating can give you short-term success. However, this behavior will likely ruin you in the long-term. You may be successful on the outside, but you'll know that you're a POS and that your success is undeserved. Hard to be happy when you know you're a fraud. The sooner you take ownership for your mistakes and responsibility for your life, the sooner you can begin working on yourself and improving your situation. You can't improve if all of your problems are someone else's fault...
Sorry for the rant. Hopefully this helps someone!
Oh for christ sake get over yourself. You are even worse than those annoying ADHD TikTokers and I have my diagnosis since 1999 lol
I don't have too much to add because my energy is low right now, but I just want to say, I can at least partially understand. I just recently got diagnosed with ADHD at 18. It explains so much of my life and has made me realize I'm not actually a lazy fuck up, I just don't function the same way everyone has expected me to. School was hell growing up because of it and not knowing what to do to cope or be more productive. I do my best and am actively working on getting better, but the way I have felt about myself all my life has been almost completely explained by this diagnosis. Its a horrible thing to deal with and even worse to go through so much of your life without knowing what's "wrong with you". I completely agree that it isn't an excuse for treating people like shit, and a lot of people with ADHD don't do that. I just try not to be too harsh on people with ADHD about productivity or personal struggles because I know how hard it is to find resources.
@motherearth7303 you basically explained my life story i got diagnosed at 18 too 5 years ago i’m fustraited at my mom for not getting me diagnosed earlier because my life wouldve been much easier because i always just thought i was just stupid because i did so bad in school my teachers wanted to move me to a smaller class for kids with learning disabilities so like there were signs that there was something that should be checked out and ive had tics caused by adhd my entire life when i was a like a 2 old my mom took me to a doctor while i was having tics and the doctor thought i was having a seizure but it was just me having tics cuz i was exited, my adhd doctor later told me only 20% of people w adhd have tics but they are fustraiting at times too when i’m stressed or overwhelmed i start to tic like i start moving my fingers above my eyes and flexing my upper body and shoulders and adhd meds make them worse and its tiring for the body sorry for the ramble lol
@oonah5853 oh my God no way. I stg if that's what I've been dealing with. I also have been diagnosed with adhd. And the amount of people who don't understand that adhd can lead to depression anxiety paranoia and a multitude of different things it gets frustrating. Like I've had one person try to call me out for reaching out when I was depressed to the ones I thought were my friends saying it was an attention grab. If you know me you know I'm not social. But for the first time I tried to speak up about how I have been feeling and then I just got attacked by this person I thought was my friend. I'm antisocial, and and introvert but weirdly enough, if I'm separated from people and licked away in my room [because im antisocial] for a lil bit like I was at the time I get extremely depressed. So I tried to reach out and got backlash from it which in the end teaches us to keep things locked away. Now I'm diagnosed with not only adhd but major depressive disorder which I'm just starting to get under control. And you can see I have adhd because this topic went elsewhere. I'm sure these dots won't connect for you like they did with my brain lmao. But she never understood me or anything about me. It was always if she can get through it then so can I and I'm just making a big deal and I feel that that mindset toward people with adhd can be so damaging because they feel they aren't enough. They're not doing enough. And now being 23 I'm still struggling so much with adhd and the depression and everything else but I'm just now learning to manage 🙃 it's not just a hyper disorder and I really wish people could understand what all it is and what it can cause. I'm sorry I'm rambling now. I can't see what I wrote prior but I know I go on long tangents about things that seemingly don't connect 😂😂 I've struggled with thinking I'm crazy and that there's something wrong with me, it's just really refreshing to be able to relate with so many people like me!
Thank you for this. I don't have ADHD, or anything of the sort. I also don't know too much about it, so thank you for giving me some insight.
Yo this was well produced!!
She knows exactly what she's doing, and that's getting attention. She's a hollow shell
Naw bro I feel like she’s actually very gone mentally
can he do Eugenia Cooney next? hella interesting rabbit hole
I'm so mad at her I could spit
@@julioaugusto1529 I get pissed off thinking about the ppl who have followed her for a long time/care about her going through emotional Rollercoasters just bc Gabbie wants attention. It's sick
@@plantdaddy7738 who?
You conveyed a long story in a short effective time and all in a very nice voice! 😅
I knew someone like this. I’m so glad that I’m no longer involved in their life but the whole experience legitimately left me with crippling PTSD. People who are this manipulative are dangerous and can ruin your lives in an instant. Great video Patrick, keep it up
The video of Jessi sobbing while on the phone is heartbreaking. Even if, EVEN IF, which I know this is such bullshit, she thought she couls be a vigilante and get Curtis to confess or something. Just fucking apologise. Stop trying to justify, admit that you fucked up, that your hurt Jessi, and you're sorry and you never would've wanted Jessi to feel betryed or hurt in this way. Gabby is manipulative and has such an ego that she can't even admit she messed up and that she felt she could be the hero that gets Curtis' confession. Jessi handled all of this with grace and compassion, when she had every right to be vengeful, angry, and destructive.
Coming from a diagnosed persons with ADHD and Im sure multiple others; ADHD does not make you a asshole nor should it be a excuse to be one either
bullshit ppl always have excuses.. and using mental illness as an excuse to abuse others is DISGUSTING
right it just makes you more forgetful, easily distracted etc. it’s not the core of who you are
You may be an exception, however, it actually is common for people with ADHD to have anger issues/short temper and get irritable much quicker than the average neurotypical person.
@@MrFloat777 Let’s clarify that. They may get impatient and frustrated at themselves more easily, yes. But “anger issues” - taking it out on others, having a temper, flying into a rage, qualities we link with a person who has anger management problems - is not common. Those are qualities you’d more closely associate with a mood disorder - bipolar, borderline personality disorder, etc.
@@strnglhld just gonna pop here really quick to say that ADHD does make it really hard to regulate emotional responses for some people.
That's just my personal experience :/ (as someone who has ADHD)
29:22 Dear people, this is a perfect example of what GASSLIGHTING is! Learn from it and recognise it around you. Most importantly call it out!!
Ironic that her shirt says "Don't let idiots ruin your day" yet she let's things ruin her day 💀
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i laughed at that lol
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@@harriska i didn't copy any comment, I stated my opinion which btw other people can have the same opinion, goober.
She's a good example of the reason people with mental health issues are looked down on and downplayed. I'm sure her mental health problems are valid, but there's a way to handle it. This is just hard to watch.
I actually am bipolar and I didn't have my first manic episode until I was 30, it was really scary. Just ignore her she'll calm down give it a few months. Thanks Patrick.
she isn't faking her insanity, she's intentionally exacerbating the symptoms for attention, ultimately sending her mind down a spiral she can't escape or even reduce anymore. no matter what she does, she can't go back to how she used to be or even similar. she's simply done too much damage to her psyche by letting her condition escalate. I have family with bipolar, and they've never been as bad as her, their highs aren't nearly as high and they maintain functional lives responsibly because they tackled the issue immediately. I have different issues, and while I haven't been to a doctor still, I've at least done everything I can to help reduce stress to live a better life for myself and so I can be better for others. she seems to have zero interest in this, as she believes she's already her best self. she's delusional and I don't know who her doctors are, but they must not give a single shit if she's actually even seeing one at all.
She was definitely manic. I had a roommate who went manic and this brought back memories. Its sad and scary but I def believe she was in an episode 100%
Please make another video about her, she did a lot of stuff since this video
Reminder: If you are mentally unwell, that does not excuse horrible behaviour. It explains the reasoning behind said actions, possibly leading to external help of psychologist and therapy, but not mean you are the victim of your actions.
"If you're a content creator, avoid creating a drama as much as possible." - Man who witnessed many creators' fall
In her 8+ years of fame she hasn’t even ever accidentally made me laugh
I fell asleep and woke up to this video playing in the background and as a 40yo male, this is an entire life's worth of drama packed into a 40 minute video that I'm happy to close and walk away from.