How to Live Free + Overcome People Pleasing with Byron Katie | EP 45

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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2024

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  • @SMinerva22
    @SMinerva22 4 місяці тому +12

    You are both so wise and beautiful.
    This really got me thinking, what does it even mean to "like" someone? We want them to approve of us? Provide validation that we are "good" or "right"? Ultimately, I believe this stems from a lack of parental validation. Once i was able to identify and grieve the approval and validation I never received from my parents, I was finally able to heal my own need to be "perfect" for others. I finally learned that another's emotional experience has nothing to do with me and is not my responsibility to manage or fix. The freedom I feel now is profound. Thank you both.

    • @SaralinaLove
      @SaralinaLove 4 місяці тому +1

      Beautiful ❤🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @the1972bulldog
    @the1972bulldog 4 місяці тому +4

    1,111 views 11 hours ago and its exatly 11am Thursday here in Australia.
    Thank You both so Much for a Beautiful Show
    🙏🏻💙✌️🌟🧡🖖🤍

  • @behnooshazizi926
    @behnooshazizi926 4 місяці тому +3

    Amazing , I love love love Byron Katie , thank you Alyssa ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @patriciayorklive
    @patriciayorklive 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi Katie! It's me - Patricia from Salt Lake City. I just want to say that I have loved doing the work all these years,
    But beyond that - to read your books, especially a
    A Thousand Na 35:01 mes for Joy and a Mind at Home with Itself puts me in the awakened state.
    I use the audio versions as meditation. I immediately know who I AM . ❤

  • @krystenann
    @krystenann 4 місяці тому +3

    I would love to see Martha Beck on your show 🧡🧡 I know it would be such a beautiful conversation between the two of you

  • @howismichellesochill
    @howismichellesochill 3 місяці тому

    5:33 I totally feel that. With the work no matter what situation I find myself I know I can do the work and I will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @mitramalekzadeh9988
    @mitramalekzadeh9988 3 місяці тому +2

    It's about time. Hi Byron 👋 I'm a fan

  • @MariaJMcMahon
    @MariaJMcMahon 4 місяці тому +13

    The self cannot be found in books. You have to find it for yourself, by yourself.’

    • @JessicaLark
      @JessicaLark 4 місяці тому +2

      Everything is the self. You find yourself in all of it.

    • @MariaJMcMahon
      @MariaJMcMahon 4 місяці тому +2

      @@JessicaLark You miss the point. You go inside to find the self as opposed to searching for it outside of your self. Everything is not the self. The self is connected to everything.

    • @SaralinaLove
      @SaralinaLove 4 місяці тому

      ​@@MariaJMcMahon❤❤❤❤ yes!

    • @claresmith9261
      @claresmith9261 4 місяці тому

      ⁠@@MariaJMcMahonEverything is the self , outside and in because everything we perceive is within our world

    • @MariaJMcMahon
      @MariaJMcMahon 4 місяці тому

      @@claresmith9261 You're overcomplicating and missing the simple point I'm making, which is that we're constantly being encouraged to read this book or that, or to listen ti the wisdom of this person or that person, when in truth we all have our own inner teacher and guide. We need to go within to find our own inner teacher.

  • @maghraouihicham7568
    @maghraouihicham7568 4 місяці тому

    Thank you very much for both of you.... getting connected to our authenticity and spontaneity requires us to work deep inside ourselves and question our beliefs and ideas that we have acquired throughout our life unconsciously through our family and society.

  • @CJMilli
    @CJMilli 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m reading A Thousand Names for Joy & it’s life changing x liberating! I was so excited to see this chat between you two 🩷

  • @user-jf7hh3hd5j
    @user-jf7hh3hd5j 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for your podcast. It has inspired me!

  • @sanelaimamovic2621
    @sanelaimamovic2621 4 місяці тому +10

    Adore Katie 😊 she helped me in my search for real me. My first "mentor" and she don't know it😅

  • @helenee.5462
    @helenee.5462 4 місяці тому +3

    ❤ Wow, so real and powerful.

  • @mindeerosen644
    @mindeerosen644 4 місяці тому

    So beautiful to witness! Very powerful !! ❤

  • @stacieivey7104
    @stacieivey7104 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for your podcast. ❤

  • @SMinerva22
    @SMinerva22 4 місяці тому +8

    As a side note, it rubs me the wrong way how much this woman cuts you off...I sense that you clearly look up to and respect her, but that does not mean that you deserve to be cut off everytime you open your mouth to say something...there is a way to address this respectfully as well. No matter how much we look "up" to someone, our inner workings and perspectives still deserve to be fully heard and allowed. ❤

    • @waiataaroha
      @waiataaroha 3 місяці тому +3

      relax ..... Byron katie is brought to talk not to listen and we came to listen to her not to the host. Hosts need to listen more and talk less .....

  • @stacieivey7104
    @stacieivey7104 4 місяці тому

    Byron Katie is wonderful. ❤You should have Sara Landon on your podcast too.

  • @Andrew-dg7qm
    @Andrew-dg7qm 4 місяці тому

    Hi Katie, I love reality!

  • @peaceTraveler-mn3pr
    @peaceTraveler-mn3pr 4 місяці тому +1

    Of course, maybe it was just me and as interview went on it was so much more fluid
    Thank you for your comments

  • @staciejean
    @staciejean 4 місяці тому

    Loved this episode! When I went to download The Work app for my Android it said that the app" isn't available for my device because it was made for an older version" Please update🙏❤

  • @anitoroyan272
    @anitoroyan272 2 місяці тому

    How to relax when Lebanon is getting attacked?

  • @jan141965
    @jan141965 4 місяці тому

    It comes back to what your then boyfriend did work on: “Do I need them to like, love me?”

  • @kimberleyganschow8663
    @kimberleyganschow8663 4 місяці тому +2

    You had this amazing guest on, and you hardly gave her the space to talk?

  • @peaceTraveler-mn3pr
    @peaceTraveler-mn3pr 4 місяці тому +15

    Byron is amazing - I wish the host However, gracious talked much less and let this master share her wisdom and let the conversation flow more. There was too much of an agenda. I’ve seen that with over and over again with host that part was disappointing for me. I have to say.

    • @refreshingtwist
      @refreshingtwist 4 місяці тому +6

      I completely disagree. This is a beautiful conversation! Both voices are valid! ❤

    • @margienegri1210
      @margienegri1210 4 місяці тому +7

      I too completely disagree. I really appreciated both of the inputs. Beautiful video all around.

    • @yoonan9756
      @yoonan9756 Місяць тому +2

      "The host talked too much that it was disappointing for me" - Is that true? Can you really absolutely be sure that is true?

    • @Corrans
      @Corrans Місяць тому

      I thought the host spoke beautifully and did a great job!❤

  • @markshaw153
    @markshaw153 5 днів тому

    Another chance missed for Byron to unleash Her power. Host too much blah blah "look at me what i know...."

  • @Ellinors
    @Ellinors Місяць тому

    Wow UA-cam is becoming more and more unbearable. The adds really ruined the experience of listening to this clip. I felt I listened to the adds and Katie an equal amount of time. And no I don’t want to pay for an add free experience. I want the old yt back. And I will boycott the brands that do their advertising in this way. It gives me a bad feeling that I don’t think they want us to associate with their brand