I just cant believe its been four years since ben and callum first interacted. I remember watching this unfold right before my eyes and it was just beautiful. Ben wanted the best callum and for him to live his truth. Without ben getting involved and teasing callum, they wouldn’t be a married couple right now. Also whitney should thank ben for everything because imagine marrying a gay man and the truth never coming out or coming out later, wasting years of marriage. Not going through with the wedding benefited all three of them- ben whitney and callum.
she still had a right to be upset tho. imagine falling in love with someone thinking they're in love with you too and then it turns out that they not only cheated on you, but they're not even attracted to your gender? it's a tough pill to swallow
I identify with her a lot. Honestly, she should be a lot more unhinged than she is given what she’s been put through, so I forgive her wanting to kill Ben at one point and all that lol
Why does every gay coming out storyline in Eastenders involve cheating on, lying to, manipulating, scapegoating, vilifying and totally humiliating the heterosexual partner involved and it all gets a pass because ‘you’re so brave!’
I dont think you have actually seen this storyline have you? At no point did callum villify whitney - or scapegoat her - he was so desperate to not be gay that he was willing to spend his life with her and he loved her so much. He was absolutely devastated that they broke up and that he had hurt her.
This is soaps in general. It always has to be someone who we think is straight, but hiding their sexuality and then cheating on their girlfriend with a guy, this has been done to death.
@@poundshoplinda4476 In this case Callum was trying to save the relationship but Ben’s behaviour was absolutely outrageous, fucking this man behind her back, constantly antagonising her, making snide smug comments, making her out to be some desperate controlling witch right up to her damn wedding day. Then there was Christian and Syed (Ben learned from the best, I loved everything about Christian EXCEPT his perhaps inappropriate ‘awakening’ of Ben and clashing with Amira). Now w it h Suki and Nish, of course we want the gay women to skip off and live happily ever after and it’s easy to justify the cheating and manipulation this time because Nish is literally made a villain in the soap.
@@j04370859 Yep it drives me absofuckinglutely insane and also paints a really shallow and narrow view of LGBT relationships. It also seems like hate baiting the straights because if it’s making me this upset as a LGBTQ person myself then no wonder conservatives hate us, because he image that’s being portrayed really does look like they are out to destroy ‘our Green and pleasant country and Christian values’ and all that
Whats sad about this is that Whitney went through it before with Johnny (Mick Carters kid). I swear this show has a fetish for hurting some characters.
In this EastEnders UA-cam clip it's quite clear from my own life that there are more bisexuals out there than there are heterosexuals or gay men women often react negative to this especially if they've set up home together if two men lived together and one of them turn out to be bisexual it's more accepted at the same time of doing my review,,,, I decided not to leave women out often main think that their wife's are having an affair with another man and then they find out it's another woman it's not uncommon for women to do the same as bisexual men,,,, I hope this information from my own life experiences has been some help to some people good luck in finding your loved one
Has it not occurred to anybody that maybe Callum is bisexual. Clearly he was interested enough for them to be together that long and sleep together. Just because he discovered he is also attracted to Ben doesn’t make the cheating ok? Ok you like one bloke for the first time in your life and suddenly you were always gay and nothing that happened between you and your girlfriend/wife mattered
I just cant believe its been four years since ben and callum first interacted. I remember watching this unfold right before my eyes and it was just beautiful.
Ben wanted the best callum and for him to live his truth. Without ben getting involved and teasing callum, they wouldn’t be a married couple right now.
Also whitney should thank ben for everything because imagine marrying a gay man and the truth never coming out or coming out later, wasting years of marriage. Not going through with the wedding benefited all three of them- ben whitney and callum.
she still had a right to be upset tho. imagine falling in love with someone thinking they're in love with you too and then it turns out that they not only cheated on you, but they're not even attracted to your gender? it's a tough pill to swallow
Ugh ! * Thou art most uncool and unusual, rather. I am rightly Anti lbtq. ! I am COOL !!
Being gay is simply being light and happy, rather. * I am Cooly Heterosexual and gay.
She can never catch a break
Honestly. Whitney has one of the most tragic lives in enders....have cried with Whitney many a time lol
Such a beautiful looking woman aswell
I identify with her a lot. Honestly, she should be a lot more unhinged than she is given what she’s been put through, so I forgive her wanting to kill Ben at one point and all that lol
tony was brilliant in the coming out storyline
No he was just whiney and terrible as ever!!
siege week had me on the edge of my seat 😱
Tony Clay proved how talented he was during this storyline. Give him more to do and stop wasting that talent!
I agree
i love bianca " im gonna punch u in the face ben"
*Shes so beautiful* ❤
Callum who is now with ben !.. hard to keep up with who's been with who ..
Glad they didn't go through the wedding love watching Ben and Callum scenes
I agree I love watching the Ben and Callum scenes
I agree I love watching Ben & Callum scenes I think that Callum should’ve stayed with Ben a lot more longer ❤
Anyarogan 625 I think Callum and Johnny will get together
Ugh ! * Thou art a freak. Rather. Thou art most uncool and dull.
I am rightly Anti lbtq. Rather. I am COOL ! *
Ben convince to Whitney about Callum's sexuality and his brother beat Ben at pride.
*This* again??
Can we talk about how hot that burgundy suit looks on ben?
Omg ye
@@eeperson00 Frr but now he’s not as hot as he was before
Ben doesn’t look different at all when you compare 2019 ben and now ben other than shaven face. Still looks handsome, hot and cheeky as ever.
@@Owen47468 omg I wish he had shirtless scenes though ahh
Fr ❤
Why does every gay coming out storyline in Eastenders involve cheating on, lying to, manipulating, scapegoating, vilifying and totally humiliating the heterosexual partner involved and it all gets a pass because ‘you’re so brave!’
Sorb what do you mean
I dont think you have actually seen this storyline have you? At no point did callum villify whitney - or scapegoat her - he was so desperate to not be gay that he was willing to spend his life with her and he loved her so much. He was absolutely devastated that they broke up and that he had hurt her.
This is soaps in general. It always has to be someone who we think is straight, but hiding their sexuality and then cheating on their girlfriend with a guy, this has been done to death.
@@poundshoplinda4476 In this case Callum was trying to save the relationship but Ben’s behaviour was absolutely outrageous, fucking this man behind her back, constantly antagonising her, making snide smug comments, making her out to be some desperate controlling witch right up to her damn wedding day. Then there was Christian and Syed (Ben learned from the best, I loved everything about Christian EXCEPT his perhaps inappropriate ‘awakening’ of Ben and clashing with Amira). Now w it h Suki and Nish, of course we want the gay women to skip off and live happily ever after and it’s easy to justify the cheating and manipulation this time because Nish is literally made a villain in the soap.
@@j04370859 Yep it drives me absofuckinglutely insane and also paints a really shallow and narrow view of LGBT relationships. It also seems like hate baiting the straights because if it’s making me this upset as a LGBTQ person myself then no wonder conservatives hate us, because he image that’s being portrayed really does look like they are out to destroy ‘our Green and pleasant country and Christian values’ and all that
Nice ❤
Whats sad about this is that Whitney went through it before with Johnny (Mick Carters kid). I swear this show has a fetish for hurting some characters.
Lee*
Ballum 💙💙.
Ugh ! * Thou art most uncool and unusual. Rather. I am rightly Anti lbtq. I am COOL !
What in christs name is bianca wearing
In this EastEnders UA-cam clip it's quite clear from my own life that there are more bisexuals out there than there are heterosexuals or gay men women often react negative to this especially if they've set up home together if two men lived together and one of them turn out to be bisexual it's more accepted at the same time of doing my review,,,, I decided not to leave women out often main think that their wife's are having an affair with another man and then they find out it's another woman it's not uncommon for women to do the same as bisexual men,,,, I hope this information from my own life experiences has been some help to some people good luck in finding your loved one
Poor whitney all her relationships go wrong ive got no sympathy for callum he should of been honest in the beginning he carried on lying
Bianca looks old, like she's in her 60s here
Callum were interesting whence romancing whitney. Rather. That image is being ruined. *
Wasn't this ages ago?
It was it was in 2019 before ben and Callum got together
Has it not occurred to anybody that maybe Callum is bisexual. Clearly he was interested enough for them to be together that long and sleep together. Just because he discovered he is also attracted to Ben doesn’t make the cheating ok? Ok you like one bloke for the first time in your life and suddenly you were always gay and nothing that happened between you and your girlfriend/wife mattered
no ❤
ben wasn’t the first guy he had feelings for
@@shaunacurley1032no. They never got back together. Calum and Ben are married now
Sadly, even within LBGTQ+ circles, bi sexual people face prejudice. I think you make a good point and I think the character is.
Hi Ang no problem thank you 😊
Ben and Callum deserve a proper wedding
In UK Can they get married in church?
They’re already married
@@justaperson2222 I know that, but can they do in church? a second wedding by religious rite
@@robertoibarra8992depends on the church, Catholic and C of E won't do it I don't know about other denominations.
Ugh ! * Thou art most uncool and unusual. Rather.
I am rightly Anti lbtq. Rather. I am COOL ! *
4 and I will need to work with the family too I think I have to arrange to be a few friends and
So Whitney just forgot that bisexual people exist? You can like both.
Ugh ! *
Thou art rather weird.
Whitney needs to be axed now and the producers need to give someone else a chance in the process!!
That dress was awful
Well at least it wasn't white.
No.
Ohh witney is always running away from her problems such a Joke
Was dis new or back then episode
This was 2019
@@justaperson2222 ok 👍