Why are upper class men feminine?

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2024

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  • @action214live
    @action214live День тому +8

    The lower down you are in social class the more hard you have to be. It's savage at the bottom so you have to be more masculine to make it to the point you can live a soft life.

  • @mgtowalfa508
    @mgtowalfa508 3 дні тому +14

    I follow you on tiktok and love your tales. I'm middle aged (45) and grew up lower class bur eventually started a career in IT that placed me in upper class spaces for most of my career. That changed my whole outlook on life. Keep up the great work

  • @MyTruth1771
    @MyTruth1771 2 дні тому +9

    Because they are no longer warriors like they used to be. Almost all upper classes used to be military trained. Modern upper classes are technical clerical types.

    • @yuvrajee
      @yuvrajee День тому +3

      There are still descendants of nobility and upper class warrior aristocracy

  • @BlackGold805
    @BlackGold805 Годину тому +1

    It's when both ends of the spectrum are integrated that the best results are achieved. Great topic tho.

  • @Lordforgiv3_4
    @Lordforgiv3_4 21 годину тому +4

    In Japan the men dress very well, most of them have women we them. Masculinity varies from culture to culture. It’s about balance imo.

  • @HalfBlackSahraoui
    @HalfBlackSahraoui 2 дні тому +22

    Cause we're not cavemen

  • @travelingtheworld8949
    @travelingtheworld8949 День тому +8

    So sagging pants and sideways hats are manly in ya 30s and 40s?

  • @bigthangz5489
    @bigthangz5489 День тому +8

    is it only me or the hands of the presenter are moving waaaaaay waaaaay too much ??? 👀

    • @OneNiftyBoi
      @OneNiftyBoi 15 годин тому +1

      ..almost feminine like

  • @Zuplar.2018cruze
    @Zuplar.2018cruze 2 дні тому +5

    As someone who grew up in section 8 housing, this feels like therapy

  • @silasvicus5182
    @silasvicus5182 2 дні тому +4

    Spot on on the lack of travelling.

  • @AndreHarrisIi-zb8tx
    @AndreHarrisIi-zb8tx День тому +3

    I haven’t started the video yet but I’m sure it stems from the responsibilities each class of men would have. The lower class and middle class seem more masculine because the environment demands that

  • @tracywilliams7929
    @tracywilliams7929 День тому +2

    I wrote in an earlier post that good manners are not meant to be shown to those in a lower class. Nay, they were meant to keep powerful equals from feuding with each to the detriment of their social class. This is how anti-deuling laws came into existence.

  • @nwabisakotoloane4540
    @nwabisakotoloane4540 2 дні тому +3

    Hi there, great video. Could you please make a video addressing the differences between how lower class and upper class women conduct themselves?
    Thanks!

  • @CLEOFISTAYLOR
    @CLEOFISTAYLOR День тому +7

    I haven't seen many feminine high value men.

    • @busyrand
      @busyrand Годину тому

      Neither have I... My Fraternity Brothers are very successful. Buddy would not fit in at all...

  • @newjerseyselfdefense6199
    @newjerseyselfdefense6199 Годину тому +1

    There a quite a few things in here that need to be addressed that you have overlooked. I will be addressing these issues in a video with 24 hrs.

  • @steve19811
    @steve19811 2 дні тому +1

    Good video. It also revolves around inner confidence.

  • @silasvicus5182
    @silasvicus5182 2 дні тому +1

    This video takes me back to school days, when some of the girls used to say well dressed boys were weak men. And they loved the super rough neck.

    • @OneNiftyBoi
      @OneNiftyBoi 15 годин тому

      Thats female nature in its raw and truest form (caveman wiring). They then shape themselves to how the world works when they get older and change their ideals.

  • @beac8238
    @beac8238 День тому +3

    I’m a woman and I found this video helpful both personally and professionally. I always knew I liked rough around the edges, blue-collar, masculine men because my daddy was one and I grew up around those men. I work in a corporate setting and I am not attracted to the men here. I am a pretty, quiet woman and I’ve had uncomfortable experiences rejecting the white collar, effeminate types. I want to move up in the world and realized I need to move differently. I appreciate the video!

  • @OneNiftyBoi
    @OneNiftyBoi 15 годин тому +3

    It's because we live in a gynocentric world and "Social Class" is looked at in a somewhat feminine way. i.e. in the blue-collar world, the top in the class is the most resourceful person. At the gym the top of the class is the strongest person, in a battlefield the top of the class is the one who displays strategic leadership skills and controlled aggression.... it is relative to the environment.
    This sounds like a video for the creator to justify to himself (and others) why he thinks he is "soft". Sounds like being called soft is one of his insecurities.
    Anyway, this is an interesting topic, and he explained it well until he started rambling in the last half of the video.

    • @signasty4380
      @signasty4380 7 годин тому

      Agreed brother was definitely justifying be this way

  • @MiguelHernandez-rw4xu
    @MiguelHernandez-rw4xu День тому

    Well thought out perspective

  • @user-cm5tv3qg8o
    @user-cm5tv3qg8o 2 дні тому

    Great video! Thanks for your knowledge

  • @michaelvfit
    @michaelvfit 2 дні тому +2

    What about the Tate brothers? If you can make a short video on them it would be interesting

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  2 дні тому +4

      I’ll have to look into them first but sure

  • @JustPearlyThings
    @JustPearlyThings День тому +3

    My dad is the CEO of a pretty big software company. You nailed it.

  • @Subhan.....................56
    @Subhan.....................56 День тому +2

    I have seen very few upper class sef made rich man who are feminine

    • @radicaledwards3449
      @radicaledwards3449 День тому

      Its the ones who are born into wealth who are weak, I seen it so many times.

  • @theBSisreal
    @theBSisreal 2 дні тому +3

    My guess would be since they couldn't get chicks they studied more and indulged themselves into technology. Whereas the more alpha male type was swimming in the women. In general of course.

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  2 дні тому +6

      I don’t think that was the takeaway here at all. The idea that only “alpha men” attract women is false

    • @theBSisreal
      @theBSisreal 2 дні тому

      @@xavier.clb1 Who said anything about "only"?

    • @issac2939-n2i
      @issac2939-n2i 2 дні тому +5

      It is more so that upper class men are more educated and that education helps them understand they don't need to conform to the expectations that lower class men don't understand that they don't need to conform to.

    • @uncutversion471
      @uncutversion471 День тому +1

      Highly educated upper class men were not the athletic, popular types back in their youth so they make it up for it with intelligence, higher education and money, compared to the bad boy/alpha male types who got chicks because of their physical looks, soft skills and charisma on the flip side bad boys invest less time into higher education.

    • @beac8238
      @beac8238 День тому +1

      It’s instinctive for women to be attracted to the “primitive” hypermasculine part of man. It does not mean every woman will be attracted to that man because there are other factors that determine attraction beyond superficial red pill talking points like.

  • @mkr1445
    @mkr1445 2 дні тому +3

    Does Upper class automatically equate to above average intellect??

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  2 дні тому +10

      Intellect no, education yes. May not be the brightest but can spell and do basic math better than average (in America, where most of the country is illiterate)

    • @mkr1445
      @mkr1445 2 дні тому +3

      @xavier.clb1 Thanks, would be nice when if you can dive into .. upper class Education vs Normal Education. From Kindergarten until varsity... any dynamics that stand out

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  2 дні тому +3

      This is a great topic! Yes

    • @tracywilliams7929
      @tracywilliams7929 День тому

      I went to a top tier private day school. You don't do that without having the brains.

    • @tracywilliams7929
      @tracywilliams7929 День тому +2

      Since 1875 society has been transitioning to meritocracy. It's formula for success is
      IQ + HARD EFFORT = MERIT.

  • @MarkL-we8uk
    @MarkL-we8uk 2 дні тому +1

    Where does Donald Trump fit into this hypothesis?
    Very interesting discussion by the way. I saw an excellent interview with Chris Gardener (inspiration for Pursuit of Happiness) when asked about his struggle with breaking into financial services and if he believed it was to do with racism, he straight away said it was not, it was "placism" ie they couldn't figure where his "place" in the system belonged as he didn't go to certain schools etc...

  • @signasty4380
    @signasty4380 7 годин тому

    I stop after you called yourself elegant

  • @sarahfranco6802
    @sarahfranco6802 День тому

    8:40, 10:15