Why Are Indian Parents Toxic?
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- Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
- If you've ever felt like your parents are the strictest in the world, you're not alone! In this video, we dive deep into the world of desi parents. From the challenges of navigating their love and discipline to understanding why Indian parents can be so controlling, we explore it all.
Let's uncover what's right, what's wrong, and what's just different about Indian parenting culture compared to the rest of the world. Whether you're a parent, a soon-to-be parent, or just curious about different parenting styles, we explore what makes Indian parenting unique and sometimes challenging.
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I faced bashing in my home the most for being fat, l was humiliated in every family circles and friends circles. I have also gone through days while food was made for maid in home while l was left in my room and was not called for the food...and many thrashing and threatening and now l don't talk to my mother and l hate her from the deepest of my heart. I am so indifferent now that even her absence won't affect me anymore
I am sorry you're having to go through all of that , indian parents can be the worst and most disheartening , i hope you have the strength to keep moving forward until you get out of that place.
Sending blessings ❤
@@lukky6648i have decided i will settle outside of India and either change my identity or just run away completely without informing anyone and blocking.
You left home?
Kudos to parents who bring up their children with love and teach them valuable lessons of life. But understand that this is a privilege. Not many children have supportive parents. There is a lot of emotional and physical violence in some households and their children grow up with trauma.
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There are only 2 persons whom I hate in this world -
1. My mom
2. My dad
I feel u.
me too
Me too, I just wish they get out of my life and I get house and food. The last thing they want to see is me being happy.
The day I came to US. I disowned my Indian Identity, right away.
Screw that swamp hole.
You need to be mentally strong to deal with Indian Parents, if you suffer from any kind of trauma, their is very little chance they can help you pull through, you have to fight your battles on your own.
This is exactly what is happening to me and they don't give AF about it and never try to even understand me not even once. I am always the one to be blamed from everywhere.
Many of my patients complain of mental trauma due to their parents, even married couples.
M sorry but feels like its just showing the positive out look .. Same Indian mentality ..Just because you keep the child all your life doesnt mean you did good . We have always been taught to understand our parents hide and gulp it but the amount of trauma that some people go through can not be denied . If we had social services against child abuse strong in India m sure so many parents will be sued
I don't know is it ok to say that some parents are too toxic they don't even help their children is most needy situation and even verbal abuse them to lowest. I am good student from school to my current college years with good in academics but they never gave me anything which i deserve and call me failure . When I came home from my hostel they literally fighting each other and give me mental trauma everytime situation is even worse when i study at home they literally blame me for everything and when i do workout and physical sports they tease me 😭 due to this i left playing basketball, cycling and running .... I don't know and tell this to comment section how much i hate my life .. even they compare me with children who are not near me by my standards....
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Same with me. My mother has no problem humiliating me in front of everyone. They tell everyone, even strangers my salary, my position and every personal detail that they know of. I left home and never came back but they still force me somehow to pay a visit where they insult & bully me for a whole week just to get a power trip. Especially my mother. She is a curse to be honest. Growing up I had decided to break any contact. There are many such people who should never have been parents. They have created nothing but misery in the world.
@@SuperGlue4321bro i decided the same pathway of yours whenever I do job I will cutoff from them and try to live my life according to my own rules. Even the dumb people have better life than me... When I had mental stress for very long time about some months it caused me mental breakdown instead understanding my condition they make fun of my condition in front of relatives and those @$$holes laughing like they are watching show ..... Fu(k00f this shitty pathetic life...
My childhood was a torture because of my parents, stepmother and my family, believe it or not but it’s the truth I endured it and it still pokes me and turns me into tears for hours without a reason 😢
More power to you🫂
They are definitely enmeshed family systems. Your feelings, thoughts, goals and aspirations should be your own instead of continuing to raise children who arent allowed to have their own identities.
Kids shouldn’t be a parents retirement fund. That worked for arranged marriages back in the day where nuclear families were not a thing.
Kids should also be allowed to express emotions and be nurtured and validated.
My parents cared plenty and I grew up in the west. They doted on me and made many sacrifices for me but they made sure I wasn’t burdened or guilted and that they set me up to have wings to fly and follow my dreams. That’s what parents should do. Say I love you, stop pushing the goal post on your children, don’t emotionally stunt them. Stop caring so much about what society thinks. Think about the human you made the decision to bring into this world and own that responsibility. They shouldn’t be indebted to you for life if you actually care about them
GETTING A JOB IN EARLY GENRATIONS TIME WAS INFACT VERY EASY , NOWDAYS IT IS VERY TOUGH DUE TO MORE POPULATION SURPLUS EDUCATED CANDIDATES AND OVER COMPETITION NOT AS SHOWN IN VIDEO
I believe that once my children get to a mature age. Like 16 or 18 I will let them make theirs own decisions.
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Unfortunate i too got orthodox one's 😅 but thats fine cant help it out habitual now
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Desi parents are good.. rather most of them are best... they may be strict but they stand by you and support you like a wall... this is nonsense to brand and generalise such a diversified society..
That support comes at the cost of blind obedience
Yeah
@@twoshakesofaratsass4748 may be you had such experience.. i have not seen around in my surroundings..and also sometimes discipline implemented by parents are not appreciated by youngsters..but that is much needed and we realise it later in life..
@@arcpd123 Haan you know nothing about toxicity
You my friend are privileged enough to not expirence a toxic household.
This video is complete nonsense
Mere sath roj esa hota hai 😢
Nope it isn't toxic parents exist.
@@vivekanandbhodkhe5317Are you away from them now?
You are the actual nonsense
Indian parents are not toxic, kids these days are being influenced by the western culture and adapting to all the toxicity from them. Yes, Indian parents are conservative and overprotective they will never give you something such as iPhones, cars or any expensive stuffs etc. they just want their kids to be successfull and buy their own stuff wid hard earned money. Parents know the value of money hence, they will always be worried for their kids not to fall in any loan traps or something dangerous which may lead to a trauma. If kids these days think Indian parents should raise their standards and label the parents as toxic becuz they r body shaming their kids or not listening to them or thrashing them becuz they may have done something wrong dat kid shud b lucky enough to have dat parents in their life becuz of such toxic parents their kids are now much stronger and can overcome anything easily.
u have been brainwashed
@@danielle-bi3tk u hate them cuz ur'e unlucky m glad dat ur parents didnt decided to throw u inside a trash can after u were born..or did they???
@@danielle-bi3tkdats y i have everything today also they taught me not to hate people like u who's been brainwashed by d western culture as well 😂😂😂😂
i think u're one of those guys who likes their own comment lol
@@SuvayanRoychowdhury u're one of those guys who gets bullied nd starts crying 😂😂😂
aab agar koi boleha mein sunny leone banna chahti hu, to ache ghar ka parents thodi na allow karega
Haa sare bachho ka sapna to sunny leone banna hain na? Because of this type of mentality of people , many kids become victims of depression and end their life.
Sunny leone to nahi par agar Virat Kohli, Kalpana Chawla ya phir Priyanka Chopra banna chahe to kya dikkat hai? Sabko doctor ya engineer hi banana jaruri kyun hai
But you watch Sunny leone, so cut the BS
Please shut up !