Maybe God wanted me to see this today. Earlier I was on the verge of giving up even contemplating suicide but I don't have the guts to do it😢. Like you, people see me as the strong one who is there for everyone but I suffer in silence. You are not alone in this and it is good to know I am not either as I can relate. I am praying that God will heal my heart because I honestly feel like I'm about to give up.
@annabella558 Font give up, my darling...I know it's not easy, but God is able, and I pray he will strengthen your heart .... I have been holding on to the hands of God ,So I know he won't let u go
Take it from me, Uncle Bumps. I am a long-time married man; life is not a bed of roses. But if you take the good with the bad, things will work out in the long run. Learn to prioritize. Don't put too much on your plate at once; you will be overwhelmed. Network with other like-minded people. And get help from friends, family, neighbors or professionals. And most importantly, stay focused on the big picture.
Liz you just gotta try slow down, there is no perfect life.There will be tuff days more than good days it's a work in progress. Both of you have challenging jobs and also the kids to deal with its a part of life.Chin up my girl God is able
I totally can relate so i understand but i just want to share with you my experience with my son who is now 26 yrs. He was not able to say words in sentences until he was five to six years and was in speech therapy from 2yrs right through high school… as a mother i often times worried about what his future will be like yet one strong principle he had was being independent and wanting to do things by himself. He was very smart with subject like Math and science also Chemistry as a matter a fact he did advance math in high school… at 26yrs he’s now a staff Sergeant in the Marine Core, Just brought his first home and doing absolutely well. Your beautiful girls are brilliant and they will do absolutely great just a matter of time.
I don’t normally comment but Liz, I feel you. This made me very emotional because I can understand how you feel. Who’s there for the strong ones? We give so much of ourselves and it often leaves us depleted but to God be the glory because he empowers and replenishes us. Stay strong..with God, there’s nothing we can’t over come. Blessings to you and your family ❤️
Hi guys watching u from NYC, Liz so far u are the realest, couples come on here and pretend that everything is great. Bless up u self there are going to be good and bad days , take it one step at a at a time me still love u guys ❤ by the way ur beautiful
Liz i feel your pain. {Who will support the strong one) i often give to family and friends but never can find anyone to pour into my cup when it's empty. If you decide to call a friend, they sometimes downloading on you before you can speak. So you just hold your own. i have a friend who is closer than a brother or sister. I just talk to daddy jesus about what ever i am going through, sing two song to him, after that i feel refresh and revitalized. You can call on Jesus he will give your peace in the midst of the battle.
No man is an island. Pause for self care periodically Liz. No one fakes mental health struggles. We fake being ok. Keep reaching out your village for help.
So glad you’re being transparent. It’s very hard to show up for the family and not for your self. You end up being burnt out. I’m there now physically and emotionally spent. Please show up for you . Your family sometimes don’t even realize that you’re need them to show up for you. Sometimes we need to get a person who is willing to be an accountability person for you . Keep praying.
Wait on the lord be of good courage, delay isn't denial, God will turn you tears into joy. You your husband and the twins are going to be fine in Jesus name. You're children are a gift for god they are going to be bless beyond you expectations in the might name of Jesus christ.
I am a speech patholgist here in the US, and I cannot explain how many parents (especially moms) share the exact same sentiments expressed. Liz, the truth is, you need also to take care of you dear. I am sending you lots of light and love❤
Weekly we often look out for your videos to get something…a smile, a word, a moment to help us (virgonation) make it through another day…without thinking about the moments you guys go through…sending prayers and love and support your way. We appreciate you guys! More than you think! Today may we not watch to receive but watch to give you guys a strength…in prayer or more
This sounds like Bascillia 😊. Blessings to your family too. We all have our valleys but we just have to weather the storm and stand still if we can’t find the strength to move. In the interim just give it to God n depend on him cuz He said “MY STRENGTH IS MADE PERFECT IN YOUR WEAKNESS” 2Cor12. It’s not easy sometimes as wives and mothers and businesswomen all at the same time but at some point when you hold your head up we realize that God took us through and we have no idea how…. BUT GOD!!❤
This is exactly how I feel nobody understands or tries to understand its just the kids n the family needs not mine n they don't care about my feelings at all
I think you should have fun and inspirational stickers on the wall. Put a low bookshelf in one corner , a play mat and two small bean bags in another corner and storage bins for their toys in another area
Liz, you make me teary. You are a human girl the creator got you. I pray for continued blessing on you and your family. We virgos are resilient people, however, we break down at times. Continue being strong for you and the family.
Play mat,with a desk and chair,adding letters,numbers,colors, and even sight words,a bookshelf for a library is a great way to start and add with the storage bins.
I don’t usually comment but I had to….Who is there for the strong one’s? This had me crying at 8:11 this morning (you just helped me released my bottled up tears) Girl you spoke to my soul. I am you and you are me (and as a Virgo we tend to take on so much, we don’t know when to pause but we cannot help our self). I’ll pray for you as I’ll pray for myself 🙏🙏 Thank you for that car talk, Liz! Stay Strong, Stay Positive
Liz jus do the do! You girl just do your Charity ok! You will feel fulfilled. I think you should both seek Counseling at least twice per Year. The Obamas did it ok. We love you family.🙏❤️😁
Liz, I have admired your strength, and I love that you can come and speak the truth about how life really is. Nothing in life is ever easy, and as women, we are all going through something. I just told myself a few years ago that I have to do some self research to find the real me outside of my family, so I totally understand. We are all going through something 😊😊😊 we will all be ok hopeful 🙏🙏🙏 God got us 🙌🙌🙌
You have a village. Don't ever question how much you do for your family. Even taking time for yourself is a pro for the family. Having been married 16+ years and having a demanding job outside of the family, I take my me time and just relax and recharge. I learned that the hard way. Rest and sabbatical is healthy. Keep working on prioritizing you. Ladies let's be the community we need.
Liz, you have to be careful of overstimulation in the playroom. Think about the learning areas eg. reading, science/tactile, arts & crafts, music etc. etc. you don’t have to fit ALL the areas at once…use containers for storing. Use play rug instead of carpeting…create a cozy corner for the reading center and then build around it. You can use cubbyhole wall unit for toys and bookcase/ shelves for books. I know life comes at us hard at times, however, God got you and your family.
It’s a process Liz…be kind and gentle with yourself and it will translate to your family. Speaking as a mom with special needs children. Be strong and courageous for the Lord is with you.
We woman’s , mother’s, ladies and wives we always fall short for ourselves. We have to start to take care of ourselves, once a month get pamper, go shopping, go for a lovely meal with friends. Liz I clearly understood how you feel. It’s good to speak out how we feel so that we don’t feel like the world is crumbling down on us. Just keep pressing on and don’t let these issues break you. Keep smiling and know that you and your family is loved.
Liz, this is my reality right now! We as women always push ourselves aside and make sure to show up for everyone else. Truthfully, we have to make time for ourselves and build us back up. Remember you can’t pour from an empty cup, so take time to fill yourself up. Blessings to you and your family ❤
Hey Liz, I have been a silent Virgo nation fan from the beginning, but today, I had to speak....girl, I feel you, I feel the way you do a lot of days and your unpacking made me identify with the feeling....hold strong, there will be better days...❤
Hi Liz, In every relationship one person must be stronger . This is the story about life,you are not alone. Just remember that you have a job outside the home,what about Women who are Housewife. Everyone at one time feels that way. There is no books out there. Just 🙏.
Good Evening Liz. Thank you for sharing. I hear you loud and clear. After church on Sabbath I had a prayer meeting to address me...I am tired of my roller coaster....so I called in for backup through prayer...God loves it when we stop trying to be in control and let go by "Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." 1 Peter 5:7....Your sharing, your honesty is a blessing for us all female and male. I have been upset with myself for not being obedient to God in not allowing myself to heal through taking time away after losing my job, followed by by diagnosis with stage 1 cancer, surgery, healing then covid in that time I came across your youtube channel. I found you to both to be real and not trying to win over your audience with a life that does not represent your individualities. In closing, Much prayer, much power....BLESSINGS TO ALL!
Remember hon life is a learning process, I myself feel this way lately I can't work am sick no income but I can't give up, so as you ask who is there for the strong person but God is, so we can't let him down keep going rebuke sadness and depression, we love you all ❤ stay blessed 🙏
Big respect to Liz. I feel the same way. I have two kids and I’m also pregnant right now and I’m happily married but everything that you’re saying is like you’re speaking for me that’s exactly how I feel and I’m just happy to know that I’m not the only one that feels that way, keep holding your head up girl God got us
Hi Virgos, thank you for your transparency. Some may look at your videos for entertainment but your videos are instruments for inspiration. Liz, just as you pour into others, people will pour into you. I’ll be praying for you ❤
Liz omg Thank you.. Who do us strong ppl turn to?? Lean on or cry on hmmmm!!!!!!!!❤❤❤ Listen I will not say much but just do it my darling start working on those goals you're passionate about! I love you and I'm downloading some Women Strength to you hold on sis, it's just a phase God be with you🙏🏼🙌🏼❤❤
Liz, I appreciate your honesty. As women we need a safe space for us to talk about our issues. I always say as women we suffer in silence and secret. Talking is the best therapy. There is no secret in protecting our mental health and self care. You are not alone girl. We are cheering for you. You can do it. Take some time to rest and reset and take it one step at a time. Sending love and strength your way. This season don't last!
My dear i truly admire you for your HONESTY...YOU ARE NOT ALONE..ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD ASK US TO LAY DOWN ALL OUR BURDENS AT THE FOOT OF HIS CROSS AND LEAVE THEM RIGHT THERE HE WILL DEAL WITH THEM..GIVE ALL OUR WORRIES TO GOD
Bwoy Liz u hit the nail on the head. Couldn’t control the tears. As a woman, mother and wife sometimes we feel so stretched. I’m definitely going through the motions right now. My only source of comfort is praying.🙏🏾
My daughter, eyes dont lie, even when you smile. Lifes challenges never stops and at times its very overwhelming. Press on my darling you dont have to be always strong.just be determined, as you are. Love your family, yiu are such a sweet spirit. I do understand. God bless and cover your family. Trust and believe everthing will be fine. Thats life.
A lot of times us Ladies spend most of our time taking care of others and neglect our self.... speaking from experiences.... keep the faith Hun..... God got you.
I’m normally a silent watcher… in the background appreciating what you and your family share. Today base on your message I’m compel to say….. Liz you don’t have to be strong let god be your strength. You are one person hence babygirl you are putting too much on your plate! Quarterly give back is too much for you on top of being a mom! 😮
I actually just drop my son off at speech therapy before turning on this episode. I was just saying how hard it was to work and juggle therapy with my son between his school and my work. You just acknowledging the struggle just touched my heart . Thank you for being so transparent and acknowledging that some days are hard. Thank you Thank you . I can relate to what you said in this vlog. Keep going you are doing a great job!!
Hi how long have you been working and how old is your son? Do you have help at home with him? I have a now 2 year old but I do not work now. I am home with him and daddy works but we have no relatives at all around. He has a sister but she's not really close by and my baby has assessment next month as he just turn 2. I am seeking hope to see if I will ever work again.
@venessaphilips4542 my son was diagnosed when he was 5. I had a family friend who is very close to me who watch him while I worked as therapy for him was costly so I had to work in order for him to start intensive speech therapy. He is now 14 and does ABA therapy 3 times a week. I also now work from home since the pandemic which helps alot.
@@altheaclarke7038 wow am so happy for you and tell your friend who watches him that I said I appreciate the help very much and I hope that it can be continuous. Even though we haven't met before but I know how hard it can be and how important it is to get help. Give your son a big hug for me as well and I am happy he has come this far. I am hoping the best for you and your family.
Hey girl, I know it's hard but continue to hang on and surround yourself with persons that can help to keep your spirits up, praying helps as well, so continue to trust God, when I can't find the words to say, is just bawl before God, he understands tears. Love you girl. I'm praying for you and your family.
Liz you are not alone. I had to take care of my Mom who had alzheimers as well as my little one being diagnosed with Autism. I had to take care of her and take my son to speech and Occupational therapy. I almost had a heart attack. My mom passed and I had to take time for me, whether a massage, a meditative moment , a happy hour etc. It's got better and still a work in progress. It's not easy being a woman I take it day-by-day. As so should you. I am the strong friend and always expected to be there for them and no one asks how am I. You've got this Liz ♥
Its hard, I am alone it is hard God gives me strength to go through it, it makes you a very strong woman, and can deal with what comes your way, be thankful.
I don't normally comment but this brought tears to my eyes. Liz you're strong,bold and beautiful. Life has it's ups and downs but my mother always say God's in control 🙏🏻. For you to be a young wife & mother who navigate the family reminds of the strong woman you are but at the same time you can pause breathe,tap yourself on the back and love you more for how strong you are. Remember outside of your immediate family,virgonation is your wider family and prayers,love & hugs to you plus the family always. God's continuous blessings 🙌 🙏🏻 ❤
Hang in there I'm there with you. Have to stop and think sometimes and give myself time and grace. I've always said.. to check in on the "strong ones" family and friends see me as the strong one. The one getting things together, helping with functions,mediating family friends, etc and there are times I need to be checked on, just hold the faith and try to carve out some time for you
It would be crazy to expect perfection in today’s world. Especially because we have seen you both going through the process & growth from country to town/ apartment to house/ single to married with twins/ balance regular life & public life…. Growing pains sis! No perfection! We respect your privacy & appreciate the transparency. Just know we are praying you all individually & as a family. You’re a youth couple in Jamaica without generational wealth… overall you guys are doing great 🙏 none of us have it figured out
Hello to the virgos, Phil 3: 15 I can do all things through Christ who gives you strength, take courage and take it one day at a time. As you were saying about the girls room I think you should put the huge decorative mats that has the ABC& and numbers, and put their little tables and chairs to do there home work and chark board.and the wall could stay white and do a little decorative stuff on the wall to make feel homely.
This is such a harsh reality. I just ended a call expressing to someone how difficult it is and how defeated I am feeling being a parent and trying to reach my son because being an involved parent is so tough but we continue to push through as each day will get better just be consistently consistent. Blessed love VirgoNation.
Just saw your expressing your vulnerability. Thanks for sharing. It resonated with me. I put my trust in the Lord. Some days, it's hard, but with God, I pushed through, and with Him, I keep pushing through.
@@jodianbennett7054, that's my reality too with an adventurous, question asking, always moving about boy that keeps me on my toes, but girl, we have to offer grace unto ourselves as we offer grace to each other. Bless you girl and season's greetings.
@@user-lenise876, told my girlfriend I was speaking to that it's truly because I know God for myself and He will never leave me so I continue to push throw. Girl, the plans are truly to prosper us so peace, grace and mercy be unto you and all of us. Season's greetings my dear and thanks so much for taking the time to connect as we all united. Virgonation moms praying each other through. 🫂
I'm very happy that Mrs. Virgo shared this side that we don't normally see, every family goes through good and bad times and seeing you share this very intimate detail of the downside, it boost me and my family to continue to push on and never give up. Thank you and God Bless you and your family.
Goodnight Virgonation. Liz, many many years ago, a wise man said to me. I must put myself first in everything that I do. I was running around doing things for the children. Hang in there baby girl, take time out for yourself. You guys are also settling in the new house. Things can be very overwhelming some days trust me. Sending love and light. You got this 🇬🇧🇯🇲
I tell you all the time that I admire your relationship/marriage and I aspire to one day share what you guys share....not the farytail life but the authenticity of a real marriage, the love you share and all that it takes to make it work. Liz you're a superwoman. I'm so proud of you for always showing up for your family. I admire your strength and your perseverance to push through every single day. Romain I am so happy that Liz and the girls have you. Everything that you do for your family is so admirable. You two are the reason you guys keep showing up for each other and the girls every single day. Love you guys endlessly❤
Cannot forget the girls...loving their growth. Play mats; Number, animal, letter charts that can be updated as they grow. Let them share their favourite colours and place items with those...items to build motoring skills, auditory and textured. Cut out shapes etc. Just start simple and build as you go along.❤
I know exactly how you feel. I cried (bawl) listening to you just now. I thought I was alone in this situation. It helps to know that there are others out there experiencing the same thing and that we can support each other. I literally feel like running away from it all. We need to form a support group.
This video was so emotional for me , I always ask that question , when your the strong one who do you turn to? God ! that's the answer . it's interesting to see how we women always wants to give back . We just need to start because there will never be a right time. Liz remember it's ok to take a break and restart. One thing , Liz clean !!!!!!!!!!!!. Azans have large play mats that you can use on the floor , book shelves is a must or you can make shelves on the wall. It's Christmas season, so the donating the toys would bring joy on children's face . Virgonation loves this family and we understand as we all have our low moments but the important thing is to never give up and keep pressing on. ❤❤❤❤
Liz you being transparent is a blessing this morning, majority female can relate, it's life on a whole we have to keep pushing and even though we show up for everyone else we must show up for us, the strong has no one which is extremely exhausting but i've realized it's just life. We stand with you and the Virgo family ❤Love you guys!
Liz, Romaine, I am pleased you guys have been honest and I am 💯 proud of you both. Chin up, as God is good ALL the time. You inspire so many , and as i am an older woman, probably older than your parents, I can only say life WILL ALWAYS be challenging. It is ok to play the clown BECAUSE it is part and parcel of life. With or without your weekly vlogs, I for one will be supporting your strive to do and be better. Firstly though remember you are first and your strength is vital for your girls to progress in life, whatever their spectrum abilities. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Life can be incredibly challenging, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Just know that your journey is filled with potential and resilience. You both are doing great. You have the strength within you to overcome this rough patch. Take a deep breath, reach out for support when you need it, and remember that you are capable of so much more than you think. Tough times don't last forever, and you'll come through this stronger than ever.❤
#Virgonation, thanks again. Liz, your authenticity and vulnerability are always so heartwarming. I love how real you are. Life hits hard sometimes but keep pushing. You are doing an awesome job. Just know how special you and Romaine are that God chose this journey for you. Love you guys and keep smiling.
Liz, continue to pray, have faith and trust God. God is not dead, He's still on the throne. With God in the vessel we can smile at the storm. God's got you. May God continue to richly bless you and your family ❤❤❤
Thank you Virgonation 🙏
You are most welcome guys! You hit the nail on the head Liz, I feel you for real but God is love. Love the positive vibes & words. Blessings! ❤❤
Maybe God wanted me to see this today. Earlier I was on the verge of giving up even contemplating suicide but I don't have the guts to do it😢.
Like you, people see me as the strong one who is there for everyone but I suffer in silence. You are not alone in this and it is good to know I am not either as I can relate.
I am praying that God will heal my heart because I honestly feel like I'm about to give up.
Lizzy, I know somewhere that u good to give the toys the girl outgrown
@annabella558 Font give up, my darling...I know it's not easy, but God is able, and I pray he will strengthen your heart .... I have been holding on to the hands of God ,So I know he won't let u go
@@annabella558just be strong because you’re stronger than you think you are
Take it from me, Uncle Bumps. I am a long-time married man; life is not a bed of roses. But if you take the good with the bad, things will work out in the long run. Learn to prioritize. Don't put too much on your plate at once; you will be overwhelmed. Network with other like-minded people. And get help from friends, family, neighbors or professionals. And most importantly, stay focused on the big picture.
All families/marriages have issues. Pray 🙏 press on ❤ you are just a human being ❤God is in control and take it one day at a time.
REALLLL REALITYYYY TALKKKKKK STRAIGHT888888
We love you all God is good you will make it happen 🙏
Liz your honesty, openness and vulnerability is what makes me love you and your family. God's got you Hun. You can do it
Liz you just gotta try slow down, there is no perfect life.There will be tuff days more than good days it's a work in progress. Both of you have challenging jobs and also the kids to deal with its a part of life.Chin up my girl God is able
U got this virgo nation...ik the feelings but continue trusting the most high
I totally can relate so i understand but i just want to share with you my experience with my son who is now 26 yrs. He was not able to say words in sentences until he was five to six years and was in speech therapy from 2yrs right through high school… as a mother i often times worried about what his future will be like yet one strong principle he had was being independent and wanting to do things by himself. He was very smart with subject like Math and science also Chemistry as a matter a fact he did advance math in high school… at 26yrs he’s now a staff Sergeant in the Marine Core, Just brought his first home and doing absolutely well. Your beautiful girls are brilliant and they will do absolutely great just a matter of time.
God is able he will takes care of the family don't give up my darling
I don’t normally comment but Liz, I feel you. This made me very emotional because I can understand how you feel. Who’s there for the strong ones? We give so much of ourselves and it often leaves us depleted but to God be the glory because he empowers and replenishes us. Stay strong..with God, there’s nothing we can’t over come. Blessings to you and your family ❤️
Good night to my Virgo Nation family Liz my dear we all feel like that sometime, keep going and take it one day at a time. ❤❤
I feel u pain Liz but hang on in there, God is there for u and ur family, He is the one who's there for the strong ones He made u strong❤🙏
Hi guys watching u from NYC, Liz so far u are the realest, couples come on here and pretend that everything is great. Bless up u self there are going to be good and bad days , take it one step at a at a time me still love u guys ❤ by the way ur beautiful
Liz i feel your pain. {Who will support the strong one) i often give to family and friends but never can find anyone to pour into my cup when it's empty. If you decide to call a friend, they sometimes downloading on you before you can speak. So you just hold your own. i have a friend who is closer than a brother or sister. I just talk to daddy jesus about what ever i am going through, sing two song to him, after that i feel refresh and revitalized. You can call on Jesus he will give your peace in the midst of the battle.
No man is an island. Pause for self care periodically Liz.
No one fakes mental health struggles. We fake being ok. Keep reaching out your village for help.
So glad you’re being transparent. It’s very hard to show up for the family and not for your self. You end up being burnt out. I’m there now physically and emotionally spent. Please show up for you . Your family sometimes don’t even realize that you’re need them to show up for you. Sometimes we need to get a person who is willing to be an accountability person for you . Keep praying.
Just talk to God he is there for you in every test there is testimony
Wait on the lord be of good courage, delay isn't denial, God will turn you tears into joy. You your husband and the twins are going to be fine in Jesus name. You're children are a gift for god they are going to be bless beyond you expectations in the might name of Jesus christ.
Just take one day at a time the Lord is going to come through for you just continue praying and believing in him he is able and can do all thing.
I am a speech patholgist here in the US, and I cannot explain how many parents (especially moms) share the exact same sentiments expressed.
Liz, the truth is, you need also to take care of you dear. I am sending you lots of light and love❤
Your truth is what will forever set u apart ! Blessings to u we all going thru it but God is able 🙏
Speech therapy works...you are on the right track ...early intervention
You all have a bless weekend love you all you all are a beautiful family
Weekly we often look out for your videos to get something…a smile, a word, a moment to help us (virgonation) make it through another day…without thinking about the moments you guys go through…sending prayers and love and support your way. We appreciate you guys! More than you think! Today may we not watch to receive but watch to give you guys a strength…in prayer or more
This sounds like Bascillia 😊. Blessings to your family too. We all have our valleys but we just have to weather the storm and stand still if we can’t find the strength to move. In the interim just give it to God n depend on him cuz He said “MY STRENGTH IS MADE PERFECT IN YOUR WEAKNESS” 2Cor12. It’s not easy sometimes as wives and mothers and businesswomen all at the same time but at some point when you hold your head up we realize that God took us through and we have no idea how…. BUT GOD!!❤
Wonderfully said 👏
I get u girl i know its not easy but God will get u through i🙏❤
i really do know exactly what you are talking about, as i too find myself in this place from time to time.
Sending love to the Virgo's ❤💖💝💝...Whatever you going through Liz trust God he will work it out in your favor favour 🙏🏾
❤❤❤ love you guys
Please send some of those stuff my way
Have faith Liz the Lord will take u through your wilderness be strong love u guys ❤️💐🙏
Aunty Liz,dont give up dont give in this too shall pass...trust the process I tell you am going through some stuff but hey God is a good God
We love an appreciate you guys so much stay prayed up God a God nuff love an blessing
I felt this so so much as I’m suffering in silence. When is too much too much
This is exactly how I feel nobody understands or tries to understand its just the kids n the family needs not mine n they don't care about my feelings at all
Bookshelves would look super
A playmate
Desk n chair for writing homework stuff like that
I think you should have fun and inspirational stickers on the wall. Put a low bookshelf in one corner , a play mat and two small bean bags in another corner and storage bins for their toys in another area
Trust God and pray your girls will be OK God is an on time god ❤❤❤❤
Liz, you make me teary.
You are a human girl the creator got you. I pray for continued blessing on you and your family.
We virgos are resilient people, however, we break down at times.
Continue being strong for you and the family.
Play mat,with a desk and chair,adding letters,numbers,colors, and even sight words,a bookshelf for a library is a great way to start and add with the storage bins.
I don’t usually comment but I had to….Who is there for the strong one’s? This had me crying at 8:11 this morning (you just helped me released my bottled up tears) Girl you spoke to my soul. I am you and you are me (and as a Virgo we tend to take on so much, we don’t know when to pause but we cannot help our self). I’ll pray for you as I’ll pray for myself 🙏🙏 Thank you for that car talk, Liz!
Stay Strong, Stay Positive
U guys should keep giving away has u go along instead of poiling it up
I started crying myself, now I'm left to grow and care for an 8 year old in vulnerable stage of her life. All along I'm the strong one.
@@natashabowen1679..gm❤
That hit me hard also it's soo me :-(
God’s blessings
This too will pass we all are humans no perfect couple all have good days and bads just keep praying.
Living is hard, but if autism times 2, diabetes and hypertension have not stopped me; nothing will. Hang in there, peeps.❤
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Good night turn to God his strength is perfect he is the one who gives u the idea to make soup and give so he wi u hold u beautiful family stay bless
Good day Virgo Nation and beautiful Virgo Family. I always say not everything on these Vlogs are perfect as shown. It’s just the best they show
Liz jus do the do! You girl just do your Charity ok! You will feel fulfilled. I think you should both seek Counseling at least twice per Year. The Obamas did it ok. We love you family.🙏❤️😁
I can contest to that Liz always has a smile on her face
Liz, I have admired your strength, and I love that you can come and speak the truth about how life really is. Nothing in life is ever easy, and as women, we are all going through something. I just told myself a few years ago that I have to do some self research to find the real me outside of my family, so I totally understand. We are all going through something 😊😊😊 we will all be ok hopeful 🙏🙏🙏 God got us 🙌🙌🙌
The transparency!! People dont get that u guys are humans also..🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You have a village. Don't ever question how much you do for your family. Even taking time for yourself is a pro for the family. Having been married 16+ years and having a demanding job outside of the family, I take my me time and just relax and recharge. I learned that the hard way. Rest and sabbatical is healthy. Keep working on prioritizing you. Ladies let's be the community we need.
Who is there for the person? I know that feeling. During those times I look to God,he is definitely stronger than all of us.
Liz, you have to be careful of overstimulation in the playroom. Think about the learning areas eg. reading, science/tactile, arts & crafts, music etc. etc. you don’t have to fit ALL the areas at once…use containers for storing.
Use play rug instead of carpeting…create a cozy corner for the reading center and then build around it.
You can use cubbyhole wall unit for toys and bookcase/ shelves for books.
I know life comes at us hard at times, however, God got you and your family.
I always wonder too mama keep strong love you God bless and
This is my most appreciated video today💯. Women suffer in silence…guilty🙋🏽….BUT, we keep pushing through.
Thank you for this Liz👍🏽💯
Mine too, here a little teary .
The first man to go to God himself he has all answers u are looking for God have yu 🙏🏾 back and he's here u
Sometimes me jus want a hug and someone say to me yu got this I cried alot most time but got God we ladies
God is with u and the family always dont give up pray on
It feels like alot but that's because it's BIG DREAMS!! Keep at it because it will be worth it!!!
It’s a process Liz…be kind and gentle with yourself and it will translate to your family. Speaking as a mom with special needs children. Be strong and courageous for the Lord is with you.
God almighty He never fails ❤❤love ❤❤❤
I love the reality 😢God we see you and your family through ❤
We woman’s , mother’s, ladies and wives we always fall short for ourselves. We have to start to take care of ourselves, once a month get pamper, go shopping, go for a lovely meal with friends. Liz I clearly understood how you feel. It’s good to speak out how we feel so that we don’t feel like the world is crumbling down on us. Just keep pressing on and don’t let these issues break you. Keep smiling and know that you and your family is loved.
Just keep the faith my sister and pray no one is perfect but father God will c u true
Liz, this is my reality right now! We as women always push ourselves aside and make sure to show up for everyone else. Truthfully, we have to make time for ourselves and build us back up. Remember you can’t pour from an empty cup, so take time to fill yourself up. Blessings to you and your family ❤
Hey Liz, I have been a silent Virgo nation fan from the beginning, but today, I had to speak....girl, I feel you, I feel the way you do a lot of days and your unpacking made me identify with the feeling....hold strong, there will be better days...❤
Hey Liz just pray God is in control he will carry you through all your problems
God is in control faith and prayer works yes liz so true
Hi Liz, In every relationship one person must be stronger . This is the story about life,you are not alone. Just remember that you have a job outside the home,what about Women who are Housewife. Everyone at one time feels that way. There is no books out there. Just 🙏.
Liz you turned on the waterworks today… God is with you! Love you mama, take time for yourself
Good Evening Liz. Thank you for sharing. I hear you loud and clear. After church on Sabbath I had a prayer meeting to address me...I am tired of my roller coaster....so I called in for backup through prayer...God loves it when we stop trying to be in control and let go by "Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." 1 Peter 5:7....Your sharing, your honesty is a blessing for us all female and male. I have been upset with myself for not being obedient to God in not allowing myself to heal through taking time away after losing my job, followed by by diagnosis with stage 1 cancer, surgery, healing then covid in that time I came across your youtube channel. I found you to both to be real and not trying to win over your audience with a life that does not represent your individualities. In closing, Much prayer, much power....BLESSINGS TO ALL!
Dont give up girl .Be strong. God got you .❤keep going.
Remember hon life is a learning process, I myself feel this way lately I can't work am sick no income but I can't give up, so as you ask who is there for the strong person but God is, so we can't let him down keep going rebuke sadness and depression, we love you all ❤ stay blessed 🙏
Even the rich have bad days, we are a human
Big respect to Liz. I feel the same way. I have two kids and I’m also pregnant right now and I’m happily married but everything that you’re saying is like you’re speaking for me that’s exactly how I feel and I’m just happy to know that I’m not the only one that feels that way, keep holding your head up girl God got us
Yes!!!
We suffers in silence❤❤
I love u to the moon❤
Ur a tool modle❤❤❤❤❤
Hi Virgos, thank you for your transparency. Some may look at your videos for entertainment but your videos are instruments for inspiration. Liz, just as you pour into others, people will pour into you. I’ll be praying for you ❤
Liz omg Thank you.. Who do us strong ppl turn to?? Lean on or cry on hmmmm!!!!!!!!❤❤❤ Listen I will not say much but just do it my darling start working on those goals you're passionate about! I love you and I'm downloading some Women Strength to you hold on sis, it's just a phase God be with you🙏🏼🙌🏼❤❤
Liz, I appreciate your honesty. As women we need a safe space for us to talk about our issues. I always say as women we suffer in silence and secret. Talking is the best therapy. There is no secret in protecting our mental health and self care. You are not alone girl. We are cheering for you. You can do it. Take some time to rest and reset and take it one step at a time. Sending love and strength your way. This season don't last!
My dear i truly admire you for your HONESTY...YOU ARE NOT ALONE..ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD ASK US TO LAY DOWN ALL OUR BURDENS AT THE FOOT OF HIS CROSS AND LEAVE THEM RIGHT THERE HE WILL DEAL WITH THEM..GIVE ALL OUR
WORRIES TO GOD
Bwoy Liz u hit the nail on the head. Couldn’t control the tears. As a woman, mother and wife sometimes we feel so stretched. I’m definitely going through the motions right now. My only source of comfort is praying.🙏🏾
Liz, prayer change things , Pray❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Prayer is the key
My daughter, eyes dont lie, even when you smile. Lifes challenges never stops and at times its very overwhelming. Press on my darling you dont have to be always strong.just be determined, as you are. Love your family, yiu are such a sweet spirit. I do understand. God bless and cover your family. Trust and believe everthing will be fine. Thats life.
My dear, their are times when one will feel like that....but you can control the feelings, not the other way around...it will pass
I am feeling burnt out as well and the truth is it’s me , I need to start putting me first while I continue to figure me out😊
A lot of times us Ladies spend most of our time taking care of others and neglect our self.... speaking from experiences.... keep the faith Hun..... God got you.
I’m normally a silent watcher… in the background appreciating what you and your family share. Today base on your message I’m compel to say….. Liz you don’t have to be strong let god be your strength. You are one person hence babygirl you are putting too much on your plate! Quarterly give back is too much for you on top of being a mom! 😮
God
Look at my girls they are so beautiful ❤💖💓
Cheer up and give praises to the Almighty God for everything ❤❤❤
Life is short. Keep it simple. Material things are temporary. Do not burden yourself with the things of life.
I actually just drop my son off at speech therapy before turning on this episode. I was just saying how hard it was to work and juggle therapy with my son between his school and my work. You just acknowledging the struggle just touched my heart . Thank you for being so transparent and acknowledging that some days are hard. Thank you Thank you . I can relate to what you said in this vlog. Keep going you are doing a great job!!
Hi how long have you been working and how old is your son? Do you have help at home with him? I have a now 2 year old but I do not work now. I am home with him and daddy works but we have no relatives at all around. He has a sister but she's not really close by and my baby has assessment next month as he just turn 2. I am seeking hope to see if I will ever work again.
@venessaphilips4542 my son was diagnosed when he was 5. I had a family friend who is very close to me who watch him while I worked as therapy for him was costly so I had to work in order for him to start intensive speech therapy. He is now 14 and does ABA therapy 3 times a week. I also now work from home since the pandemic which helps alot.
@@altheaclarke7038 wow am so happy for you and tell your friend who watches him that I said I appreciate the help very much and I hope that it can be continuous. Even though we haven't met before but I know how hard it can be and how important it is to get help. Give your son a big hug for me as well and I am happy he has come this far. I am hoping the best for you and your family.
Hey girl, I know it's hard but continue to hang on and surround yourself with persons that can help to keep your spirits up, praying helps as well, so continue to trust God, when I can't find the words to say, is just bawl before God, he understands tears. Love you girl. I'm praying for you and your family.
Liz you are not alone.
I had to take care of my Mom who had alzheimers as well as my little one being diagnosed with Autism.
I had to take care of her and take my son to speech and Occupational therapy.
I almost had a heart attack.
My mom passed and I had to take time for me, whether a massage, a meditative moment , a happy hour etc.
It's got better and still a work in progress.
It's not easy being a woman I take it day-by-day.
As so should you.
I am the strong friend and always expected to be there for them and no one asks how am I.
You've got this Liz ♥
Chin up sis, Gid give You His perpetual peace❤❤❤❤❤
Liz never comment before I myself is the same position I can relate to that when being the back one who do u go to. Well I look to the most I.
Its hard, I am alone it is hard God gives me strength to go through it, it makes you a very strong woman, and can deal with what comes your way, be thankful.
I don't normally comment but this brought tears to my eyes. Liz you're strong,bold and beautiful. Life has it's ups and downs but my mother always say God's in control 🙏🏻. For you to be a young wife & mother who navigate the family reminds of the strong woman you are but at the same time you can pause breathe,tap yourself on the back and love you more for how strong you are. Remember outside of your immediate family,virgonation is your wider family and prayers,love & hugs to you plus the family always. God's continuous blessings 🙌 🙏🏻 ❤
Hang in there I'm there with you. Have to stop and think sometimes and give myself time and grace. I've always said.. to check in on the "strong ones" family and friends see me as the strong one. The one getting things together, helping with functions,mediating family friends, etc and there are times I need to be checked on, just hold the faith and try to carve out some time for you
It would be crazy to expect perfection in today’s world. Especially because we have seen you both going through the process & growth from country to town/ apartment to house/ single to married with twins/ balance regular life & public life…. Growing pains sis! No perfection! We respect your privacy & appreciate the transparency. Just know we are praying you all individually & as a family. You’re a youth couple in Jamaica without generational wealth… overall you guys are doing great 🙏 none of us have it figured out
Wow this vulnerability was beautiful!!! ❤❤❤
Hello to the virgos, Phil 3: 15 I can do all things through Christ who gives you strength, take courage and take it one day at a time. As you were saying about the girls room I think you should put the huge decorative mats that has the ABC& and numbers, and put their little tables and chairs to do there home work and chark board.and the wall could stay white and do a little decorative stuff on the wall to make feel homely.
God got you liz❤❤❤and we got you guys virgonation all day everyday 🙏 🙌 ❤️
This is such a harsh reality. I just ended a call expressing to someone how difficult it is and how defeated I am feeling being a parent and trying to reach my son because being an involved parent is so tough but we continue to push through as each day will get better just be consistently consistent.
Blessed love VirgoNation.
I myself just finish venting on the phone about what am going through
It's really rough especially being a single parent....no 1 to turn to but you. Sigh
Just saw your expressing your vulnerability. Thanks for sharing. It resonated with me. I put my trust in the Lord. Some days, it's hard, but with God, I pushed through, and with Him, I keep pushing through.
@@jodianbennett7054, that's my reality too with an adventurous, question asking, always moving about boy that keeps me on my toes, but girl, we have to offer grace unto ourselves as we offer grace to each other. Bless you girl and season's greetings.
@@user-lenise876, told my girlfriend I was speaking to that it's truly because I know God for myself and He will never leave me so I continue to push throw. Girl, the plans are truly to prosper us so peace, grace and mercy be unto you and all of us.
Season's greetings my dear and thanks so much for taking the time to connect as we all united. Virgonation moms praying each other through. 🫂
Kim if you were near me I would give you a big hug. Know exactly what you are going. Through. This too will pass. Keep pressing my girl❤❤❤❤
I'm very happy that Mrs. Virgo shared this side that we don't normally see, every family goes through good and bad times and seeing you share this very intimate detail of the downside, it boost me and my family to continue to push on and never give up. Thank you and God Bless you and your family.
So true sometimes I feel down but tell myself I will fight and not give up you guys are love ❤
Goodnight Virgonation. Liz, many many years ago, a wise man said to me. I must put myself first in everything that I do. I was running around doing things for the children. Hang in there baby girl, take time out for yourself. You guys are also settling in the new house. Things can be very overwhelming some days trust me. Sending love and light. You got this 🇬🇧🇯🇲
A play pen or a play mat would be awesome with the storage bins for now 👏🏿
I tell you all the time that I admire your relationship/marriage and I aspire to one day share what you guys share....not the farytail life but the authenticity of a real marriage, the love you share and all that it takes to make it work.
Liz you're a superwoman. I'm so proud of you for always showing up for your family. I admire your strength and your perseverance to push through every single day.
Romain I am so happy that Liz and the girls have you. Everything that you do for your family is so admirable. You two are the reason you guys keep showing up for each other and the girls every single day.
Love you guys endlessly❤
REAL MEDZ LIZ👍, A LOT OF PPL ONLY PRESENTS THE GOOD ON SOCIAL MEDIA BUT NEVER THE BAD TIMES, SO I GENUINELY APPLAUD YOU TO SPEAK ON IT. 👏 🙌 I 👍👍 😘
Cannot forget the girls...loving their growth. Play mats; Number, animal, letter charts that can be updated as they grow. Let them share their favourite colours and place items with those...items to build motoring skills, auditory and textured. Cut out shapes etc. Just start simple and build as you go along.❤
I know exactly how you feel. I cried (bawl) listening to you just now. I thought I was alone in this situation. It helps to know that there are others out there experiencing the same thing and that we can support each other. I literally feel like running away from it all.
We need to form a support group.
My dear give god thanks sometimes it rough but keep the faith beside you are independent
Sending a hug for you Liz we love you so much 💗..thank you for the transparency..this is a motivation for a lot of us female..
This video was so emotional for me , I always ask that question , when your the strong one who do you turn to? God ! that's the answer . it's interesting to see how we women always wants to give back . We just need to start because there will never be a right time. Liz remember it's ok to take a break and restart. One thing , Liz clean !!!!!!!!!!!!. Azans have large play mats that you can use on the floor , book shelves is a must or you can make shelves on the wall. It's Christmas season, so the donating the toys would bring joy on children's face . Virgonation loves this family and we understand as we all have our low moments but the important thing is to never give up and keep pressing on. ❤❤❤❤
Liz you being transparent is a blessing this morning, majority female can relate, it's life on a whole we have to keep pushing and even though we show up for everyone else we must show up for us, the strong has no one which is extremely exhausting but i've realized it's just life. We stand with you and the Virgo family ❤Love you guys!
God is in control Liz, I know exactly how you feel... Just know we love you 💓💓
Liz, Romaine, I am pleased you guys have been honest and I am 💯 proud of you both. Chin up, as God is good ALL the time. You inspire so many , and as i am an older woman, probably older than your parents, I can only say life WILL ALWAYS be challenging. It is ok to play the clown BECAUSE it is part and parcel of life. With or without your weekly vlogs, I for one will be supporting your strive to do and be better. Firstly though remember you are first and your strength is vital for your girls to progress in life, whatever their spectrum abilities. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing God is in control of everything and he will see you through continue to press 🙏🙏🙏
Life can be incredibly challenging, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Just know that your journey is filled with potential and resilience. You both are doing great. You have the strength within you to overcome this rough patch. Take a deep breath, reach out for support when you need it, and remember that you are capable of so much more than you think. Tough times don't last forever, and you'll come through this stronger than ever.❤
liz jus pray and ask god to show you the way he will lead you . will put in my morning worship .
#Virgonation, thanks again. Liz, your authenticity and vulnerability are always so heartwarming. I love how real you are. Life hits hard sometimes but keep pushing. You are doing an awesome job. Just know how special you and Romaine are that God chose this journey for you. Love you guys and keep smiling.
Liz, continue to pray, have faith and trust God. God is not dead, He's still on the throne. With God in the vessel we can smile at the storm. God's got you. May God continue to richly bless you and your family ❤❤❤