FEEL LIKE GIVING UP TODAY | THE VIRGOS

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  • Опубліковано 2 гру 2023
  • In this video we show you another side to the “HAPPY” family you are used to. It’s a roller coaster of emotions Virgonation but we hope this video will impact someone somewhere going through a tough time. #TheVirgos #Virgonation
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  • @TheVirgos
    @TheVirgos  6 місяців тому +155

    Thank you Virgonation 🙏

    • @melmelgeorge-dunbar6899
      @melmelgeorge-dunbar6899 6 місяців тому +1

      You are most welcome guys! You hit the nail on the head Liz, I feel you for real but God is love. Love the positive vibes & words. Blessings! ❤❤

    • @annabella558
      @annabella558 6 місяців тому +5

      Maybe God wanted me to see this today. Earlier I was on the verge of giving up even contemplating suicide but I don't have the guts to do it😢.
      Like you, people see me as the strong one who is there for everyone but I suffer in silence. You are not alone in this and it is good to know I am not either as I can relate.
      I am praying that God will heal my heart because I honestly feel like I'm about to give up.

    • @fathmoniqueallen5609
      @fathmoniqueallen5609 6 місяців тому +1

      Lizzy, I know somewhere that u good to give the toys the girl outgrown

    • @fathmoniqueallen5609
      @fathmoniqueallen5609 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@annabella558 Font give up, my darling...I know it's not easy, but God is able, and I pray he will strengthen your heart .... I have been holding on to the hands of God ,So I know he won't let u go

    • @user-nf9iw6dx4y
      @user-nf9iw6dx4y 6 місяців тому +2

      @@annabella558just be strong because you’re stronger than you think you are

  • @prhayz1
    @prhayz1 6 місяців тому +4

    Take it from me, Uncle Bumps. I am a long-time married man; life is not a bed of roses. But if you take the good with the bad, things will work out in the long run. Learn to prioritize. Don't put too much on your plate at once; you will be overwhelmed. Network with other like-minded people. And get help from friends, family, neighbors or professionals. And most importantly, stay focused on the big picture.

  • @treshabryan4885
    @treshabryan4885 6 місяців тому +206

    Liz your honesty, openness and vulnerability is what makes me love you and your family. God's got you Hun. You can do it

    • @belindaplunkett4811
      @belindaplunkett4811 6 місяців тому +7

      Liz you just gotta try slow down, there is no perfect life.There will be tuff days more than good days it's a work in progress. Both of you have challenging jobs and also the kids to deal with its a part of life.Chin up my girl God is able

  • @valriebailey7567
    @valriebailey7567 6 місяців тому +3

    All families/marriages have issues. Pray 🙏 press on ❤ you are just a human being ❤God is in control and take it one day at a time.

  • @SHERAINEBernard-Dixon
    @SHERAINEBernard-Dixon 6 місяців тому

    Liz, continue to pray, have faith and trust God. God is not dead, He's still on the throne. With God in the vessel we can smile at the storm. God's got you. May God continue to richly bless you and your family ❤❤❤

  • @kerenegurley7345
    @kerenegurley7345 6 місяців тому +140

    So glad you’re being transparent. It’s very hard to show up for the family and not for your self. You end up being burnt out. I’m there now physically and emotionally spent. Please show up for you . Your family sometimes don’t even realize that you’re need them to show up for you. Sometimes we need to get a person who is willing to be an accountability person for you . Keep praying.

    • @lornamorris1568
      @lornamorris1568 6 місяців тому +2

      Just talk to God he is there for you in every test there is testimony

    • @lifewiththecoopers5969
      @lifewiththecoopers5969 6 місяців тому +3

      Wait on the lord be of good courage, delay isn't denial, God will turn you tears into joy. You your husband and the twins are going to be fine in Jesus name. You're children are a gift for god they are going to be bless beyond you expectations in the might name of Jesus christ.

  • @juss__red
    @juss__red 6 місяців тому +152

    I don’t normally comment but Liz, I feel you. This made me very emotional because I can understand how you feel. Who’s there for the strong ones? We give so much of ourselves and it often leaves us depleted but to God be the glory because he empowers and replenishes us. Stay strong..with God, there’s nothing we can’t over come. Blessings to you and your family ❤️

    • @user-oq2dm3wg1h
      @user-oq2dm3wg1h 6 місяців тому +1

      Good night to my Virgo Nation family Liz my dear we all feel like that sometime, keep going and take it one day at a time. ❤❤

    • @sharmainebernard4785
      @sharmainebernard4785 6 місяців тому +1

      I feel u pain Liz but hang on in there, God is there for u and ur family, He is the one who's there for the strong ones He made u strong❤🙏

    • @claudiapearson1472
      @claudiapearson1472 6 місяців тому +3

      Hi guys watching u from NYC, Liz so far u are the realest, couples come on here and pretend that everything is great. Bless up u self there are going to be good and bad days , take it one step at a at a time me still love u guys ❤ by the way ur beautiful

    • @Jennifer-gw7hi
      @Jennifer-gw7hi 6 місяців тому

      Liz i feel your pain. {Who will support the strong one) i often give to family and friends but never can find anyone to pour into my cup when it's empty. If you decide to call a friend, they sometimes downloading on you before you can speak. So you just hold your own. i have a friend who is closer than a brother or sister. I just talk to daddy jesus about what ever i am going through, sing two song to him, after that i feel refresh and revitalized. You can call on Jesus he will give your peace in the midst of the battle.

  • @marviadawkins6653
    @marviadawkins6653 5 місяців тому +1

    God is able he will takes care of the family don't give up my darling

  • @DebbieHamilton-oy9df
    @DebbieHamilton-oy9df 6 місяців тому +37

    I totally can relate so i understand but i just want to share with you my experience with my son who is now 26 yrs. He was not able to say words in sentences until he was five to six years and was in speech therapy from 2yrs right through high school… as a mother i often times worried about what his future will be like yet one strong principle he had was being independent and wanting to do things by himself. He was very smart with subject like Math and science also Chemistry as a matter a fact he did advance math in high school… at 26yrs he’s now a staff Sergeant in the Marine Core, Just brought his first home and doing absolutely well. Your beautiful girls are brilliant and they will do absolutely great just a matter of time.

  • @StufffromtheCuffs
    @StufffromtheCuffs 6 місяців тому +92

    Weekly we often look out for your videos to get something…a smile, a word, a moment to help us (virgonation) make it through another day…without thinking about the moments you guys go through…sending prayers and love and support your way. We appreciate you guys! More than you think! Today may we not watch to receive but watch to give you guys a strength…in prayer or more

    • @jelisashenae3547
      @jelisashenae3547 6 місяців тому +3

      This sounds like Bascillia 😊. Blessings to your family too. We all have our valleys but we just have to weather the storm and stand still if we can’t find the strength to move. In the interim just give it to God n depend on him cuz He said “MY STRENGTH IS MADE PERFECT IN YOUR WEAKNESS” 2Cor12. It’s not easy sometimes as wives and mothers and businesswomen all at the same time but at some point when you hold your head up we realize that God took us through and we have no idea how…. BUT GOD!!❤

    • @TammyKayMac
      @TammyKayMac 6 місяців тому +2

      Wonderfully said 👏

    • @patriciaallison6811
      @patriciaallison6811 6 місяців тому +1

      I get u girl i know its not easy but God will get u through i🙏❤

  • @tayleshiablake466
    @tayleshiablake466 5 місяців тому

    Hey girl, I know it's hard but continue to hang on and surround yourself with persons that can help to keep your spirits up, praying helps as well, so continue to trust God, when I can't find the words to say, is just bawl before God, he understands tears. Love you girl. I'm praying for you and your family.

  • @mcbeandrew
    @mcbeandrew 6 місяців тому

    Magnificent God for whom nothing is impossible. I place my friend and her family in your hands. I pray dear God that you open doors for her where there are only windows. Mighty God move the obstacles that the enemy is throwing at her. Father God I pray that you will remind her through your works, that she is specially made crafted by your Devine grace and meant for greatness she is yet to understand. I pray God that you will continue to pour your blessings on Liz, Romain and the Girls in Jesus name I pray hallelujah!
    This broke me a little because you know I’m going through my struggles as well and you know me. Like you we don’t think it’s okay to burden others with the things that trouble us. But just know that when I’m at my lowest with just walls every side I turn. I always ask myself what would Liz do? The breakthrough you’re looking for is coming I believe it with every fiber of my being.

  • @lotus9259
    @lotus9259 6 місяців тому +40

    I am a speech patholgist here in the US, and I cannot explain how many parents (especially moms) share the exact same sentiments expressed.
    Liz, the truth is, you need also to take care of you dear. I am sending you lots of light and love❤

  • @mrsfrancis5046
    @mrsfrancis5046 6 місяців тому +120

    Living is hard, but if autism times 2, diabetes and hypertension have not stopped me; nothing will. Hang in there, peeps.❤

    • @prosperousk5477
      @prosperousk5477 6 місяців тому +4

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

    • @TheVirgos
      @TheVirgos  6 місяців тому +11

      💪

    • @sildareid
      @sildareid 6 місяців тому

      Good night turn to God his strength is perfect he is the one who gives u the idea to make soup and give so he wi u hold u beautiful family stay bless

    • @JANET.19645
      @JANET.19645 6 місяців тому

      Good day Virgo Nation and beautiful Virgo Family. I always say not everything on these Vlogs are perfect as shown. It’s just the best they show

    • @JANET.19645
      @JANET.19645 6 місяців тому +1

      Liz jus do the do! You girl just do your Charity ok! You will feel fulfilled. I think you should both seek Counseling at least twice per Year. The Obamas did it ok. We love you family.🙏❤️😁

  • @ladytj1
    @ladytj1 5 місяців тому

    Hang in there I'm there with you. Have to stop and think sometimes and give myself time and grace. I've always said.. to check in on the "strong ones" family and friends see me as the strong one. The one getting things together, helping with functions,mediating family friends, etc and there are times I need to be checked on, just hold the faith and try to carve out some time for you

  • @alicodner3704
    @alicodner3704 6 місяців тому +1

    I FEEL YOU LIZ...🤍🙏🏼
    I don't feel sad. I know you do want accomplish much, but remember you are one person and you have a responsibility to self, not being selfish but ensuring that you do have something in your cup before you can pour.
    Love you Liz...May God keep you and your family safe together...I know your girls are going to do well... don't worry 🤍🙏🏼❤️

  • @paulettrichards1091
    @paulettrichards1091 6 місяців тому +1

    Just take one day at a time the Lord is going to come through for you just continue praying and believing in him he is able and can do all thing.

  • @sidonifreckleton7308
    @sidonifreckleton7308 6 місяців тому +30

    You have a village. Don't ever question how much you do for your family. Even taking time for yourself is a pro for the family. Having been married 16+ years and having a demanding job outside of the family, I take my me time and just relax and recharge. I learned that the hard way. Rest and sabbatical is healthy. Keep working on prioritizing you. Ladies let's be the community we need.

  • @veritafairclough3362
    @veritafairclough3362 6 місяців тому +59

    Sending love to the Virgo's ❤💖💝💝...Whatever you going through Liz trust God he will work it out in your favor favour 🙏🏾

    • @oneitabishop8484
      @oneitabishop8484 6 місяців тому +3

      ❤❤❤ love you guys

    • @oneitabishop8484
      @oneitabishop8484 6 місяців тому +1

      Please send some of those stuff my way

    • @murielmcleod4443
      @murielmcleod4443 6 місяців тому +3

      Have faith Liz the Lord will take u through your wilderness be strong love u guys ❤️💐🙏

    • @sherekiatodd220
      @sherekiatodd220 6 місяців тому +1

      Aunty Liz,dont give up dont give in this too shall pass...trust the process I tell you am going through some stuff but hey God is a good God

    • @sherekiatodd220
      @sherekiatodd220 6 місяців тому +1

      We love an appreciate you guys so much stay prayed up God a God nuff love an blessing

  • @carolfarquharson-smith3650
    @carolfarquharson-smith3650 6 місяців тому +1

    Who is there for the person? I know that feeling. During those times I look to God,he is definitely stronger than all of us.

  • @michelleonfroy960
    @michelleonfroy960 5 місяців тому

    You can do numbers, letters and sight words on the walls. Shevles for books and the containers for toys. Continue to stay strong and pray, pray, believe, believe.

  • @gratitudeisamus
    @gratitudeisamus 6 місяців тому +24

    Liz, you have to be careful of overstimulation in the playroom. Think about the learning areas eg. reading, science/tactile, arts & crafts, music etc. etc. you don’t have to fit ALL the areas at once…use containers for storing.
    Use play rug instead of carpeting…create a cozy corner for the reading center and then build around it.
    You can use cubbyhole wall unit for toys and bookcase/ shelves for books.
    I know life comes at us hard at times, however, God got you and your family.

  • @TheOmegaGamer339
    @TheOmegaGamer339 6 місяців тому +18

    It’s a process Liz…be kind and gentle with yourself and it will translate to your family. Speaking as a mom with special needs children. Be strong and courageous for the Lord is with you.

  • @joycechambers1935
    @joycechambers1935 6 місяців тому

    Please Liz take it easy we Virgo nation don’t want you to sad we love you so much when you guys going through anything we feel your pain too. We all are praying for you.

  • @kenishablackwood-carter1282
    @kenishablackwood-carter1282 6 місяців тому +1

    Hey Liz, I know you are a prayerful woman...and so this too shall pass. While it's safe to say "you can do this" , just want to say "take some time...find sometime"... Its evident you manage well but you need the 'me' time😘

  • @meleciallewellyn6571
    @meleciallewellyn6571 6 місяців тому +3

    I think you should have fun and inspirational stickers on the wall. Put a low bookshelf in one corner , a play mat and two small bean bags in another corner and storage bins for their toys in another area

  • @claudinewalters5552
    @claudinewalters5552 6 місяців тому +66

    I don’t usually comment but I had to….Who is there for the strong one’s? This had me crying at 8:11 this morning (you just helped me released my bottled up tears) Girl you spoke to my soul. I am you and you are me (and as a Virgo we tend to take on so much, we don’t know when to pause but we cannot help our self). I’ll pray for you as I’ll pray for myself 🙏🙏 Thank you for that car talk, Liz!
    Stay Strong, Stay Positive

    • @naomispencer7871
      @naomispencer7871 6 місяців тому

      U guys should keep giving away has u go along instead of poiling it up

    • @natashabowen1679
      @natashabowen1679 6 місяців тому

      I started crying myself, now I'm left to grow and care for an 8 year old in vulnerable stage of her life. All along I'm the strong one.

    • @user-jy7fy8tb1q
      @user-jy7fy8tb1q 6 місяців тому

      ​@@natashabowen1679..gm❤

    • @simonemorgan6180
      @simonemorgan6180 6 місяців тому

      That hit me hard also it's soo me :-(

    • @pamellabrooks957
      @pamellabrooks957 5 місяців тому

      God’s blessings

  • @sheryllewinson4564
    @sheryllewinson4564 6 місяців тому

    Just keep the faith my sister and pray no one is perfect but father God will c u true

  • @user-hn9qq5md1i
    @user-hn9qq5md1i 6 місяців тому +1

    Trust God and pray your girls will be OK God is an on time god ❤❤❤❤

  • @rikah3562
    @rikah3562 6 місяців тому +23

    This is my most appreciated video today💯. Women suffer in silence…guilty🙋🏽….BUT, we keep pushing through.
    Thank you for this Liz👍🏽💯

    • @colleenbingham7271
      @colleenbingham7271 6 місяців тому

      Mine too, here a little teary .

    • @lornalewis1465
      @lornalewis1465 3 місяці тому

      The first man to go to God himself he has all answers u are looking for God have yu 🙏🏾 back and he's here u

  • @carlysing-uncut
    @carlysing-uncut 6 місяців тому +14

    Remember hon life is a learning process, I myself feel this way lately I can't work am sick no income but I can't give up, so as you ask who is there for the strong person but God is, so we can't let him down keep going rebuke sadness and depression, we love you all ❤ stay blessed 🙏

  • @marcialewis3216
    @marcialewis3216 6 місяців тому

    Liz, may the good Lord bless and keep you. And replace your worries with peace, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen

  • @purposefilledshan4905
    @purposefilledshan4905 6 місяців тому +1

    Liz omg Thank you.. Who do us strong ppl turn to?? Lean on or cry on hmmmm!!!!!!!!❤❤❤ Listen I will not say much but just do it my darling start working on those goals you're passionate about! I love you and I'm downloading some Women Strength to you hold on sis, it's just a phase God be with you🙏🏼🙌🏼❤❤

  • @debraslinger7574
    @debraslinger7574 6 місяців тому +14

    Hi Liz, In every relationship one person must be stronger . This is the story about life,you are not alone. Just remember that you have a job outside the home,what about Women who are Housewife. Everyone at one time feels that way. There is no books out there. Just 🙏.

  • @halfshaqtree
    @halfshaqtree 6 місяців тому +3

    Liz, you make me teary.
    You are a human girl the creator got you. I pray for continued blessing on you and your family.
    We virgos are resilient people, however, we break down at times.
    Continue being strong for you and the family.

  • @coleenstone1698
    @coleenstone1698 6 місяців тому +2

    This is exactly how I feel nobody understands or tries to understand its just the kids n the family needs not mine n they don't care about my feelings at all

  • @sharondaley7042
    @sharondaley7042 6 місяців тому

    This too will pass we all are humans no perfect couple all have good days and bads just keep praying.

  • @christinehowell9194
    @christinehowell9194 6 місяців тому +3

    Speech therapy works...you are on the right track ...early intervention

  • @michellelee4728
    @michellelee4728 6 місяців тому +31

    Hey Liz, I have been a silent Virgo nation fan from the beginning, but today, I had to speak....girl, I feel you, I feel the way you do a lot of days and your unpacking made me identify with the feeling....hold strong, there will be better days...❤

    • @sandratomlinson2633
      @sandratomlinson2633 6 місяців тому

      Hey Liz just pray God is in control he will carry you through all your problems

  • @yvettestephenson7294
    @yvettestephenson7294 6 місяців тому +1

    Kim if you were near me I would give you a big hug. Know exactly what you are going. Through. This too will pass. Keep pressing my girl❤❤❤❤

  • @DonnaJScott
    @DonnaJScott 6 місяців тому +1

    No man is an island. Pause for self care periodically Liz.
    No one fakes mental health struggles. We fake being ok. Keep reaching out your village for help.

  • @kaywilliams1636
    @kaywilliams1636 5 місяців тому +4

    Liz, I have admired your strength, and I love that you can come and speak the truth about how life really is. Nothing in life is ever easy, and as women, we are all going through something. I just told myself a few years ago that I have to do some self research to find the real me outside of my family, so I totally understand. We are all going through something 😊😊😊 we will all be ok hopeful 🙏🙏🙏 God got us 🙌🙌🙌

  • @shawnaleesinclair5841
    @shawnaleesinclair5841 6 місяців тому +8

    God is with u and the family always dont give up pray on

  • @abernard347
    @abernard347 6 місяців тому

    When i was raising my daughter i was a single mother it was so hard for me .i of to take her to day care then go to work after work i had to pick her up .sometimes i just break down and cry .i know what you are going through. Now my daughter is 18 years preparing for college. You kids will soon grow up Liz and your are going to look back on jorney and you are going to be so happy.

  • @marvarowe1233
    @marvarowe1233 6 місяців тому

    God's got us the strong ones. We turn to Him. Remember also you both continue to keep that open communication between each other.
    Play mat I think would work best for that room.

  • @tashamccallum3669
    @tashamccallum3669 6 місяців тому +22

    Liz, this is my reality right now! We as women always push ourselves aside and make sure to show up for everyone else. Truthfully, we have to make time for ourselves and build us back up. Remember you can’t pour from an empty cup, so take time to fill yourself up. Blessings to you and your family ❤

  • @SuperKikigal
    @SuperKikigal Місяць тому

    My oldest son needed speech therapy as well. Being new parents we doesn’t always pick up on things. Stay strong, don’t be hard on yourself. You are awesome parents. I’m a new subscriber and I love seeing your little family. So beautiful. The girls going to be ok. ❤🙏🏿

  • @soniacunninghamcampbell2210
    @soniacunninghamcampbell2210 6 місяців тому

    Just trust God Liz I know the feelings girl,hold on when you are the strong ones God's is your helper.

  • @elisehiggins9403
    @elisehiggins9403 6 місяців тому +14

    We woman’s , mother’s, ladies and wives we always fall short for ourselves. We have to start to take care of ourselves, once a month get pamper, go shopping, go for a lovely meal with friends. Liz I clearly understood how you feel. It’s good to speak out how we feel so that we don’t feel like the world is crumbling down on us. Just keep pressing on and don’t let these issues break you. Keep smiling and know that you and your family is loved.

  • @lionesswenz7599
    @lionesswenz7599 6 місяців тому +13

    I don't normally comment but this brought tears to my eyes. Liz you're strong,bold and beautiful. Life has it's ups and downs but my mother always say God's in control 🙏🏻. For you to be a young wife & mother who navigate the family reminds of the strong woman you are but at the same time you can pause breathe,tap yourself on the back and love you more for how strong you are. Remember outside of your immediate family,virgonation is your wider family and prayers,love & hugs to you plus the family always. God's continuous blessings 🙌 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @sterlingthomas9106
    @sterlingthomas9106 6 місяців тому

    My dearest Liz…let go and let God! In time all things will come together. You have aan that loves you; and with that reciprocated love, you can climb mountains I prayer for your family daily ❤ I just love the semetry between you both. God bless! Patience and time does the trick!

  • @marjoriereid-sharpe4868
    @marjoriereid-sharpe4868 6 місяців тому

    It's ok Liz...ur doing the right thing,talk,talk,talk.
    We tend to sewwp things under the carpet too much.
    So many ppl are hurting.
    Therapy is very valuable to help ppl work out what's really happening ...don't stop sharing

  • @naidaknate
    @naidaknate 6 місяців тому +18

    Bwoy Liz u hit the nail on the head. Couldn’t control the tears. As a woman, mother and wife sometimes we feel so stretched. I’m definitely going through the motions right now. My only source of comfort is praying.🙏🏾

    • @lucilleblake1534
      @lucilleblake1534 6 місяців тому +2

      Liz, prayer change things , Pray❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @JANET.19645
      @JANET.19645 6 місяців тому +3

      Prayer is the key

  • @maureenstewart1186
    @maureenstewart1186 6 місяців тому +11

    Good Evening Liz. Thank you for sharing. I hear you loud and clear. After church on Sabbath I had a prayer meeting to address me...I am tired of my roller coaster....so I called in for backup through prayer...God loves it when we stop trying to be in control and let go by "Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." 1 Peter 5:7....Your sharing, your honesty is a blessing for us all female and male. I have been upset with myself for not being obedient to God in not allowing myself to heal through taking time away after losing my job, followed by by diagnosis with stage 1 cancer, surgery, healing then covid in that time I came across your youtube channel. I found you to both to be real and not trying to win over your audience with a life that does not represent your individualities. In closing, Much prayer, much power....BLESSINGS TO ALL!

  • @joelbeazer3081
    @joelbeazer3081 6 місяців тому

    Liz there's this plastic shelf containers thst you can purchase for the books and even toys can go in there. Here's the name of it
    "Humble Crew Supersized Wood Toy Storage Organizer, Extra Large, Grey/White"
    I wish i could post a pic.the kids can have easy access to choose what they want.
    Also itllbe great to do large play mat so they can lay down and read and also play on the mat.
    With these baskets it saves space.

  • @galed7429
    @galed7429 6 місяців тому

    Liz, we all have feelings of defeat. Sometimes it’s hard and you have to sit, think, and hit the reset button. Gob will bless your family. Remember, communication is the key.

  • @lorrainelambert2943
    @lorrainelambert2943 6 місяців тому +7

    My dear, their are times when one will feel like that....but you can control the feelings, not the other way around...it will pass

    • @annabella4082
      @annabella4082 6 місяців тому +1

      I am feeling burnt out as well and the truth is it’s me , I need to start putting me first while I continue to figure me out😊

  • @sherrimacoy458
    @sherrimacoy458 6 місяців тому +14

    Liz, I appreciate your honesty. As women we need a safe space for us to talk about our issues. I always say as women we suffer in silence and secret. Talking is the best therapy. There is no secret in protecting our mental health and self care. You are not alone girl. We are cheering for you. You can do it. Take some time to rest and reset and take it one step at a time. Sending love and strength your way. This season don't last!

  • @carlafrancis9372
    @carlafrancis9372 6 місяців тому

    Sigh wow i can relate it get really hard im a disable mom my baby girl is 3 an its hard her dad is here but seems not here sigh liz its hard im writing this with tears running down my cheeks i think i was alone thank u for giving me a reasurance im not alone.....WE CAN DO THIS GIVING UP IS NOT AN OPTION .....MY DAUGHTER IS MY STAR SHE IS MY REASON CAUSE MY MOM DIE WHEN I WAS ONLY 12 YEARS OLD I CANT LET HER GO THROUGH WHAT I WENT THRU..... IM HERE LIZ AN ANYONE WHO NEEDS A LISTENING EAR ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @paulawoolcock8716
    @paulawoolcock8716 6 місяців тому

    Just do it iam doing minds it about 4 years now.its not easy but feeding the homeless its a joy for me and my husband...

  • @shaunatee
    @shaunatee 6 місяців тому +8

    Hi Virgos, thank you for your transparency. Some may look at your videos for entertainment but your videos are instruments for inspiration. Liz, just as you pour into others, people will pour into you. I’ll be praying for you ❤

  • @gem2501
    @gem2501 6 місяців тому +4

    It would be crazy to expect perfection in today’s world. Especially because we have seen you both going through the process & growth from country to town/ apartment to house/ single to married with twins/ balance regular life & public life…. Growing pains sis! No perfection! We respect your privacy & appreciate the transparency. Just know we are praying you all individually & as a family. You’re a youth couple in Jamaica without generational wealth… overall you guys are doing great 🙏 none of us have it figured out

  • @sharonhill9599
    @sharonhill9599 6 місяців тому

    God is there for you. Keep praying. You have a beautiful family so put your trust in God.
    Take your time. You will get there.

  • @h.grantwatson7991
    @h.grantwatson7991 6 місяців тому +1

    Liz, the very same way that you are talking to us through the camera, that's the very same way that I talk to God. Sometime I feel He is far away and not listening. I tell him just that "God you feel far away". I remember that I cannot trust my feelings only. I go to and try to trust His Word. I repeat the appropriate scripture for the situation and ask Him to help me to trust Him more and to know and walk in His will more. Recently I was depressed. I owned it, was able to identify the root cause and have placed it squarely before Him. I cannot solve the problem. I have received His Peace. He has promised to hear and to answer. I pray, count my blessings, share them & praise while I wait. My spouse and I love and admire you and your family. You are in our prayers.

  • @debbieblake3218
    @debbieblake3218 6 місяців тому +4

    Hello to the virgos, Phil 3: 15 I can do all things through Christ who gives you strength, take courage and take it one day at a time. As you were saying about the girls room I think you should put the huge decorative mats that has the ABC& and numbers, and put their little tables and chairs to do there home work and chark board.and the wall could stay white and do a little decorative stuff on the wall to make feel homely.

  • @altheaclarke7038
    @altheaclarke7038 6 місяців тому +24

    I actually just drop my son off at speech therapy before turning on this episode. I was just saying how hard it was to work and juggle therapy with my son between his school and my work. You just acknowledging the struggle just touched my heart . Thank you for being so transparent and acknowledging that some days are hard. Thank you Thank you . I can relate to what you said in this vlog. Keep going you are doing a great job!!

    • @venessaphilips4542
      @venessaphilips4542 6 місяців тому +1

      Hi how long have you been working and how old is your son? Do you have help at home with him? I have a now 2 year old but I do not work now. I am home with him and daddy works but we have no relatives at all around. He has a sister but she's not really close by and my baby has assessment next month as he just turn 2. I am seeking hope to see if I will ever work again.

    • @altheaclarke7038
      @altheaclarke7038 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@venessaphilips4542 my son was diagnosed when he was 5. I had a family friend who is very close to me who watch him while I worked as therapy for him was costly so I had to work in order for him to start intensive speech therapy. He is now 14 and does ABA therapy 3 times a week. I also now work from home since the pandemic which helps alot.

    • @venessaphilips4542
      @venessaphilips4542 6 місяців тому

      @@altheaclarke7038 wow am so happy for you and tell your friend who watches him that I said I appreciate the help very much and I hope that it can be continuous. Even though we haven't met before but I know how hard it can be and how important it is to get help. Give your son a big hug for me as well and I am happy he has come this far. I am hoping the best for you and your family.

  • @dianabrown7165
    @dianabrown7165 6 місяців тому +2

    This video was so emotional for me , I always ask that question , when your the strong one who do you turn to? God ! that's the answer . it's interesting to see how we women always wants to give back . We just need to start because there will never be a right time. Liz remember it's ok to take a break and restart. One thing , Liz clean !!!!!!!!!!!!. Azans have large play mats that you can use on the floor , book shelves is a must or you can make shelves on the wall. It's Christmas season, so the donating the toys would bring joy on children's face . Virgonation loves this family and we understand as we all have our low moments but the important thing is to never give up and keep pressing on. ❤❤❤❤

  • @roseeast1265
    @roseeast1265 6 місяців тому +1

    REAL MEDZ LIZ👍, A LOT OF PPL ONLY PRESENTS THE GOOD ON SOCIAL MEDIA BUT NEVER THE BAD TIMES, SO I GENUINELY APPLAUD YOU TO SPEAK ON IT. 👏 🙌 I 👍👍 😘

  • @kaysiabuckland5505
    @kaysiabuckland5505 6 місяців тому +17

    Big respect to Liz. I feel the same way. I have two kids and I’m also pregnant right now and I’m happily married but everything that you’re saying is like you’re speaking for me that’s exactly how I feel and I’m just happy to know that I’m not the only one that feels that way, keep holding your head up girl God got us

  • @sophiamcc435
    @sophiamcc435 6 місяців тому +43

    This is such a harsh reality. I just ended a call expressing to someone how difficult it is and how defeated I am feeling being a parent and trying to reach my son because being an involved parent is so tough but we continue to push through as each day will get better just be consistently consistent.
    Blessed love VirgoNation.

    • @Kim-ii5wx
      @Kim-ii5wx 6 місяців тому +2

      I myself just finish venting on the phone about what am going through

    • @jodianbennett7054
      @jodianbennett7054 6 місяців тому +6

      It's really rough especially being a single parent....no 1 to turn to but you. Sigh

    • @user-lenise876
      @user-lenise876 6 місяців тому +4

      Just saw your expressing your vulnerability. Thanks for sharing. It resonated with me. I put my trust in the Lord. Some days, it's hard, but with God, I pushed through, and with Him, I keep pushing through.

    • @sophiamcc435
      @sophiamcc435 6 місяців тому +2

      @@jodianbennett7054, that's my reality too with an adventurous, question asking, always moving about boy that keeps me on my toes, but girl, we have to offer grace unto ourselves as we offer grace to each other. Bless you girl and season's greetings.

    • @sophiamcc435
      @sophiamcc435 6 місяців тому

      @@user-lenise876, told my girlfriend I was speaking to that it's truly because I know God for myself and He will never leave me so I continue to push throw. Girl, the plans are truly to prosper us so peace, grace and mercy be unto you and all of us.
      Season's greetings my dear and thanks so much for taking the time to connect as we all united. Virgonation moms praying each other through. 🫂

  • @rosiecunningham2789
    @rosiecunningham2789 6 місяців тому

    Play mats are the best along with their table and chairs
    Sleeping mat for their nap time at one corner of the room

  • @sebertevans2639
    @sebertevans2639 6 місяців тому

    Honestly that's how I feel more time like I am suffering I have no one to turn to but God and my mom to take care of your family sometime its very hard you don't even have time for you. As a single mother with 4 kids and have to work out that's even harder I pray for help most day but I believe one day thing will work itself out by the grace of God

  • @kiralovely2954
    @kiralovely2954 6 місяців тому +7

    I’m normally a silent watcher… in the background appreciating what you and your family share. Today base on your message I’m compel to say….. Liz you don’t have to be strong let god be your strength. You are one person hence babygirl you are putting too much on your plate! Quarterly give back is too much for you on top of being a mom! 😮

  • @novelettetaylor4623
    @novelettetaylor4623 6 місяців тому +3

    The strong people turn to God, because God is the source of our everything, and he will send help and people from Darius places only if we trust and believe in he I haven’t been watching you guys for a long time, but for the short period that I’ve been watching, I can say truly love you guys and I know that God will always be there for you because you’re a good person❤🙌

  • @EnthusiasticArchery-iy5fp
    @EnthusiasticArchery-iy5fp Місяць тому +1

    Its hard, I am alone it is hard God gives me strength to go through it, it makes you a very strong woman, and can deal with what comes your way, be thankful.

  • @shcaemmanuel3691
    @shcaemmanuel3691 6 місяців тому

    Bookshelves would look super
    A playmate
    Desk n chair for writing homework stuff like that

  • @ginaalexandra_
    @ginaalexandra_ 6 місяців тому +17

    Liz you are not alone.
    I had to take care of my Mom who had alzheimers as well as my little one being diagnosed with Autism.
    I had to take care of her and take my son to speech and Occupational therapy.
    I almost had a heart attack.
    My mom passed and I had to take time for me, whether a massage, a meditative moment , a happy hour etc.
    It's got better and still a work in progress.
    It's not easy being a woman I take it day-by-day.
    As so should you.
    I am the strong friend and always expected to be there for them and no one asks how am I.
    You've got this Liz ♥

    • @stephaniestewart8271
      @stephaniestewart8271 6 місяців тому

      Chin up sis, Gid give You His perpetual peace❤❤❤❤❤

    • @winsomevirgin2326
      @winsomevirgin2326 6 місяців тому

      Liz never comment before I myself is the same position I can relate to that when being the back one who do u go to. Well I look to the most I.

  • @delshabolt8196
    @delshabolt8196 6 місяців тому +3

    🫂 sending virtual hugs for you Liz 🫂 u r not alone

  • @yvonnewillis9413
    @yvonnewillis9413 6 місяців тому

    Iam so proud of you no fake make it real the fake smile every day like you always on a mountain becaues we now there is a valley but when you reach the valley you still smile and share with us love your family❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @natalee3230
    @natalee3230 5 місяців тому +2

    The transparency!! People dont get that u guys are humans also..🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @WeBake_Ja
    @WeBake_Ja 6 місяців тому +5

    I tell you all the time that I admire your relationship/marriage and I aspire to one day share what you guys share....not the farytail life but the authenticity of a real marriage, the love you share and all that it takes to make it work.
    Liz you're a superwoman. I'm so proud of you for always showing up for your family. I admire your strength and your perseverance to push through every single day.
    Romain I am so happy that Liz and the girls have you. Everything that you do for your family is so admirable. You two are the reason you guys keep showing up for each other and the girls every single day.
    Love you guys endlessly❤

  • @sandrawhite4251
    @sandrawhite4251 6 місяців тому +4

    Goodnight Virgonation. Liz, many many years ago, a wise man said to me. I must put myself first in everything that I do. I was running around doing things for the children. Hang in there baby girl, take time out for yourself. You guys are also settling in the new house. Things can be very overwhelming some days trust me. Sending love and light. You got this 🇬🇧🇯🇲

  • @marvawoolery1389
    @marvawoolery1389 6 місяців тому +2

    A lot of times us Ladies spend most of our time taking care of others and neglect our self.... speaking from experiences.... keep the faith Hun..... God got you.

  • @teneshahunter8445
    @teneshahunter8445 6 місяців тому

    Girl I know your feelings of feeling like giving up but let us continue to press along...I always smile but sometimes deep down my heart is weak and sad but for the sake of your family press along and always remember God is able

  • @desroyhylton9410
    @desroyhylton9410 6 місяців тому +3

    I'm very happy that Mrs. Virgo shared this side that we don't normally see, every family goes through good and bad times and seeing you share this very intimate detail of the downside, it boost me and my family to continue to push on and never give up. Thank you and God Bless you and your family.

  • @lorenasull5735
    @lorenasull5735 6 місяців тому +16

    God chooses his strongest soldiers to fight biggest of wars! You both are chosen. Thanks for the transparency it is nourishing. Continue to let this medium be a vehicle for knowledge and resources for the girls developmental trajectory. There are parents and professionals willing to carry you. Let the playroom reflect their individual likes and interest so they will be more motivated to do their work as kids which is to play and develop through play.🙏

  • @catherinechung-qz8be
    @catherinechung-qz8be 6 місяців тому

    My dear give god thanks sometimes it rough but keep the faith beside you are independent

  • @user-ph6hg9hu6s
    @user-ph6hg9hu6s 3 місяці тому

    You all have a bless weekend love you all you all are a beautiful family

  • @nastasiasmith-williams6629
    @nastasiasmith-williams6629 6 місяців тому +7

    Liz you being transparent is a blessing this morning, majority female can relate, it's life on a whole we have to keep pushing and even though we show up for everyone else we must show up for us, the strong has no one which is extremely exhausting but i've realized it's just life. We stand with you and the Virgo family ❤Love you guys!

  • @carolangell2072
    @carolangell2072 6 місяців тому +20

    Thank you for sharing Liz. Yes we do have our days that we have to put on the best foot forward and really we laugh and smile through whatever we going through just to keep the energy around us positive so that others can feel that positivity and not what we are dealing with when the doors are closed on the outside. Keep pushing and keep going because every problem always have a solution. Let us continue to accept the things we cannot control by trying to changing it. I for one definitely had to learn to let go and let God. We appreciate you Virgos, we are continuously praying for you both and that whatever it is, God will see you both through. My spouse and I are going 33 years yesterday and it wasn't easy, especially with communication, but we learn to communicate eventually, with time, but the love is stronger more than ever as we grow older. Love you both and God bless.

    • @lydias.w.7524
      @lydias.w.7524 6 місяців тому

      Happy belated Wedding Anniversary 🎉

  • @dezrineellis287
    @dezrineellis287 6 місяців тому

    My daughter ur not alone just ride out ur storm God is right there with you am praying for you and ur family ur strong love u

  • @sherikawhite6186
    @sherikawhite6186 6 місяців тому +1

    I have been there girl many times I feel like giving up I am the strong one in my relationship who got my back when I need somebody is no one around for me I know your pain

  • @debraslinger7574
    @debraslinger7574 6 місяців тому +3

    Life is a lot of up and down. Communication is the key.I have been with my husband for Forty-eight years. Sometimes it tough ,when you have Children it's real. Romain , Liz and thecGirls you all will Great with God blessing.

  • @childofgod2379
    @childofgod2379 6 місяців тому +3

    Dear Liz, God has your family in his hands ..keep believing and praying without ceasing.. All will be well in his own time. We have no control over anything as we may seem. You have this platform for a reason this is your giving back ...joy laughter and meaningful happiness. God's got this.🕊️💕🙏

  • @MonicaFoster-tv4ch
    @MonicaFoster-tv4ch 6 місяців тому

    liz jus pray and ask god to show you the way he will lead you . will put in my morning worship .

  • @rmak2950
    @rmak2950 5 місяців тому

    Stay strong my sister U have extended family cheering for u. Liz my heart goes out to U both and the little girls. The realities of life are powerful to share.

  • @lattybrown8623
    @lattybrown8623 6 місяців тому +9

    Sending a hug for you Liz we love you so much 💗..thank you for the transparency..this is a motivation for a lot of us female..

  • @althiatiawhite
    @althiatiawhite 6 місяців тому +5

    I know exactly how you feel. I cried (bawl) listening to you just now. I thought I was alone in this situation. It helps to know that there are others out there experiencing the same thing and that we can support each other. I literally feel like running away from it all.
    We need to form a support group.

  • @msann7988
    @msann7988 6 місяців тому

    We are not alone … we are not alone … as a mom and a wife I feel you Liz.. .. Stay strong

  • @bloomycolemen7640
    @bloomycolemen7640 5 місяців тому

    Liz remember your only human the Bible says there's a season for everything there is absolutely no human being that is always happy but u know what you have a husband that will not give up he'll be there for you and you for him unity is always strength and remember God is always a prayer away so please guys stay strong we love you ❤😊