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I'm watching this video for a friend 😂
Best comment ever!
Me too
I call cap
😆🤣
Okay that was funny
Moral of the story...
Must become a professional dom at all costs!!!!
Got it, thank you brother
Yes! And be wary of women whose exes were one.
Just beware there's a LOT more to being a Dom than bossing women around. There's an entire world of psychological considerations and knowledge you need to do that well and responsibly
@@dx5soundlabs939 OMG its so difficult I'm never going to remember all that!
Best sexual partner equals maximum commitment.
If not, there is residual distance and bitterness due to 'settling'.
I felt this in my bones
@@InnovatewithLes same😂
What do you mean by this? In layman’s terms. Please.
Stirling, a huge fan by the way, religiously see all videos and try to follow as much advice as can.
He is legit
@@x97s Thanks mate.
Stirling being a good big brother that a chap never had in life to answer questions... Unlike George Orwell
Cheers mate!
The best no bs channel on yt. Love the content. Much love from Croatia
Thanks mate.
I'm an amateur dom/daddy/primal and have been into kink for a few years. I 100% agree professional doms would be my biggest concern. It's one reason why I would never consider a kink non-vanilla woman as LTR material. If they had a dom that knew his shabari and how to use a (Hitachi wand) she's probably going to be an alpha widow.
What makes a good starting dom? Say I’d like to start now but have never done so before
@@JRCxyz I got into it though a site called, Fetlife and using an App called Kik joining and chatting with local kink groups.
What is LTR ive heard it before but cant remember
@@DRFESTERPUS69 It means, Long Term Relationship.
@@anthonys6100 Thanks!
I have a FWB with a high body count and she told me that her best ever was a dude with a smaller-than-average tool but he knew how to dominate.
She’s lying to you to make you feel better about your tiny tool.
@@ENDWOKEDEGENERACY 😂
Lol
A FWB with a high body count is likely not a good lay/benefit nor a good friend
@@AntiAnathema I’ve had multiple FWB that were amazing in bed
Anakin Skywalker: Is it possible to learn this power?
Palpatine: not as a jedi
did we just become best friends ?
@@Planksta45 only a sith deal with absolutes
Funny that you would ask that.
_"I was not elected to watch my people suffer and die while you discuss this invasion in a committee.”_
~ some flat chested cnut who is obviously in the itty bitty titty committee
I'll say this, as someone who Dom'd for several years, the bond you get from a sub is different. Even years later they still call me Daddy or Sir lol... The dynamics are powerful for sure, especially if you truly know what youre doing on the mental side of the game
This sounds like a skill I want to dive into. Where exactly do I start? I can already be dominant and consider myself pretty skilled in the bedroom but this is definitely something I want to explore.
@@scottverge938 you and puss boi above you are doms but I consider myself borderline psychotic. I never stop abusing the girls I’ve been with even after bedroom love😊
it would be interesting if you could get a woman (that is an open size queen), on the show to speak about women's preferences when it comes to male genital size and how they underplay it at times, so they don't lose out on attention from seemingly viable/dateable guys.
@Volition Iskey Sure it matters, but it's not the only thing. Large tits matter to most guys, but are they deciding factor in who you date longer term? I certainly hope for your sake it isn't. There are a ton of other physical/mental/personality considerations that come into play.
Same with height, wealth, hair etc. More is better, but if that's all that mattered then how do you explain guys without one or more of those things getting with women? Women will happily leave a guy with a large dick for numerous reasons, some of which might not make much sense to the guy being left behind.
@@i_kill_for_zardoz bingo
@Volition Iskey I disagree with this. Most girls if they say it doesn’t matter are being honest from a sex point of view. Men have bad hang ups about dick size. One thing that is true though and which Stirling stated is women care about what it looks like and the bigger the better. They associate a bigger knob with higher masculinity.
There’s videos all over the internet
@@ENDWOKEDEGENERACY yea with the most of them it matters whether they say it does or not. Some don’t care but you won’t find too many of those at the places men frequent to meet women
#1, it's bigger than hers
#2, she should have stayed with him
#3, get another woman and you'll be the biggest for the rest of your life, instead of her settling for you
#4, you could be top 1% and she still wouldn't be impressed if she's been with 200 guys. Should a man be ashamed of being top 1%? No, she's the problem, and it's the same if you're too 50%. And it's the same if you're not.
Hearing your explanation about a pro dom leaves me with so many questions 😭😂😂
@@TigerBl00d lmao actually I did
Now everyone wants to be a “pro dom”. 🤦🏼♂️
What do they really do to get girls soo mind f*cked
This man actually helping men
I agree size doesn’t matter if you know how to please your girl and keep things fun in the bedroom. Learn a little massaging, get your oral game on point, fingers should be magical, also when you’re bumpin and grindin switch things up! I’m not just talking about positions but sometimes go slow and passionate, other times be a beast but most importantly make your actions show that you want her BAD! Hell get her going a random times of the day or random places. Lol whatever it is just be confident 💯
Amen to that!
None of that matters unless she is the type who sleeps around
As a woman YES!
It does matter though because anything you can do like that a dude with a big Dick can also do and it matters how much she’s turned on right off bat.
We all need a professional dom video
Here here!
I never really understood his explanation on " who is a professional dom"? Is it someone that makes her orgasm multiple times?
Yes! You never want to be her "Plan B". If you discover you are her Plan B, get out immediately.
Very informative video. Will keep this info in mind.
Cheers mate
Guys need to stop worrying so much about the size of their dick and do a better job taking care of their health so it keeps the ability to get rock solid. Exercise. Eat right. Get enough sleep. If they are over 40 and getting ED then get their testosterone levels checked. All that health stuff is to keep you getting hard. The guy it's attached to will have far faaaaaar more to do with how a woman perceives a man than the absolute size, but the ability to get it up sure matters. For the most part, the super majority of people who fetishize penis size are gay men. Most women only care about your dick size if it's so small as to be a legit medical condition, OR so girthy it's painful (super rare, we're talking 7" girth or more).
Also, if they are complaining that it's too long then that's user error because you can control the damn depth. If you're really long then slow down your thrusts and don't high speed into the cervix. This stuff should be basic common sense, but that's not so common anymore sadly it is now just "sensibility".
Yo that background sick
Thanks Jorge
Dude that Dom description of feeding a girl through the cage fucking killed me 😂 lmfao that’s also very fucked that people are into that but I guess it kinda makes since.
You never really know what you're into until you experiment
@@StirlingCooper this is true! Shouldn’t knock til I try it lol but I guess I said that coming more from a social aspect. That kinda seems like something girls with daddy issues and/or prior sexual abuse would be in to. This is anecdotal but had a buddy of mine confirm this.
Yep, I dated a young woman who was seeing a full time Dom (and I was not inexperienced at sex), but she admitted she could not stop seeing him.
Just because you have a nice pencil, it doesn't help your penmanship.
Lol, that thumb nail made me hungry. I hecka want bratwurst now.
The main truth starts at 4:56 fellas. Bravo!
Answer is at 3:17 & 6:40
When is your next live happening, love watching your opinions and the guests that come on too, Can't wait and a huge fan of your work.
Thanks mate.
Really like the beard! Love beards , neat ones like this .
I want to know more about what it means to be a "professional dom"
I would only be okay with it if she's relatively tight. I'm 7 pbel 5 EQ, so even though I'm bigger than average, I would still require her to be tight in a sense otherwise I'll feel like she would prefer a girthier guy like she had.
As a small women too much girth is just a no...I have had two children but am still small and will always be small...I am also short so there isnt much room for length either..average is perfect for me so no one has to THINK about being careful...remembering to BE careful is a drag...I prefer wild abandon once I get going and that means sized to ME. There cant be passion when it is uncomforable for her. Not every woman is an amazon.
@@latinaalma1947Mr average loves ur comment, done with imagination passion and love 💯💥
@@jayroberts9584 Thank you.. very kind
Use what you have to your best advantage....fingers are great to hit the right spots in a concentrated fashion...a guy who can do that and do all the general things Sterling discusses here is going to be memorable. He is right...size just isnt the be all and end all. My first experiences were married to a large Italian...too big for me and we were young he wanted sex everyday. I COULDNT handle that much, just anatomically, not everyday, and he had to be gentle not the best circumference and circumstance for memorable sex. I perfected my OTHER skills with him though to give that part of my body some relief, so that was a longterm benefit to me tomadd to my skills and for my future partners as well. I was married twice, my second husband died when I was 32 he was premature and small ....small wasnt a big issue, premature definitely WAS....I am a small woman...I had two children and I went back to being small...I will forever be small, so a supersize I would avoid...learned my lesson the hard way between mates...yeah just didnt work... SKILL for me is what counts and I have been with my current mate many years, a former swinger...HE knows what he is doing. My body count is low...Im a different generation, before the internet. Certainly since the 60s anyone who WANTED a high body count , that was certainly available, esp. In urban areas, and definitely for women...I was busy doing other things and not so inclined, though to each his or her own.
Sybil Francis PhD clinical.psychologist
Nice topic
Thanks mate
I’m packed in girth as well, but my length is 5.5 inches lol
They'll love it.....
As long as you know to use it that’s all that matters bud!
same bruh. im both same as you in girth and length . both 5.5
@@Valhalla_Heathen what does that mean tho, how do you know how to use it?
And you dare to say you're packing?
4:35
(you never want to feel like a girl settling for you)
gold ...
I don't get it...can you explain please
@@radg7716 Well, here's an example; if she constantly talks about her ex - even when with you.
I would me more worried if her ex had a a bigger thicker wallet. What would make you feel more inadequate.
Please teach us how to be professional dom's
Well said
Thanks mate.
@@StirlingCooper Loving your content keep up the great work
Stirling can u make a video on how to become a dom?
Hahaha Everyone wants to be a pro dom now 😂
Deleting this after watching, can’t be caught looking at stuff like this 😂
good to know ill be unforgetable
Good man.
I like the backdrop Stirling...Exoplanetary Dick Game has always been the goal.
Thanks!
You're welcome mate
Her: Who do you think you are going to satisfy with that tiny thing?
Him: Myself
(courtesy of Irvine Welsh)
Are there any dom trainings for dudes who don't work in the sex industry but what to become good at it? Any recommendations?
Been there. Just try your best.
Wow this really put me at ease…
GEMS.
If a girl settles she settling for less
Love you ❤️❤️❤️
Cheers mate
I dont feel bad. What kind of a void do I got to fill?
I will have to agree with Mr Stirling here. If she have experienced a Dom and/or Master, i'm sorry guys but your "game" does not even exist against them.
I just slip the 5 inches and if they like it fine; if not that's fine too. As long as I get my rocks off I couldn't care less. Shrimp Roll 4 Life.
I now want to become a professional dom :D
so if the guy is a dom with a 6 inch (length) and 5 inch girth wang... are you still gonna be worried, Stirling?🙄
Yes
Unless you are Dredd or Mandingo
Hell it shouldn't. matter to you because they 304s. 😂😂😂
They call me snake , anaconda , among friends . The length its enough but the gurth , o boy , rather o girls , fringes ....
Interesting
What is a "professional dom" ?
Men domina a dominant guy who goes crazy on her
What is "Alpha Widowed"?
An ex partner she uses to compare a new partner to whose aspects d game/size, status/wealth etc can not be matched by a majority of men leaving her to build resentment towards the new partner over time as she will feel like she is settling for aspects of a man she had on a whole other level. This is why we should not promote female promiscuity as it increases the chance of the alpha window effect that leaves women unable to be satisfied and stay fully committed in a monogamous relationship. Comparison is the thief of joy as they say. Also incentive to be the best man you can be in all aspects to be the alpha not the one she feels she is settling for. Settling=resentment doomed relationship 😅
Didnt you post this before? I'm quite sure I've seen this before
Yeah same
I’m 7” but sometimes I feel like I want to be bigger 🤣
Same
Bruh you're literally the perfect size on an average scale
Same, 8" but still self conscious and want more
Well mate if you ever decide that's what you want, you should check out my book 😉
howtogrow.carrd.co/
I have been in 2 women that were honest with there sex life. Both had been with men who were packing on multiple occasions. Both said the sex was not terrible but not really satisfying. They said guys with big D’s think that’s all they have to bring to the table. None of the relationships lasted more than a month or so.
Lol she tricked u 😛 Thats what they say to inscure men with average or smaller dicks. The reality is most likely the big d guy used her for sex and then moved on after a month, and she cant cope and claim she was the one leaving.
Sorry to tell u, but these are the most likely scenario. No woman complain about a big dick, even the one where they say it hurt, cuz u can always pull back if YOU want. However, thats not satisfying for us, in the long run.
Mmmm, I'm skeptical
High percent of women prefer men with average size penis.
Marry a virgin.
Problem solved.😉
How do you become a professional Dom?
04:43 Wow. This.
a woman who truly loves u & has morals wld never broach the subject..a sane woman..
there's no good reason to discuss it with her..nothing good will come of it
This is not fantasy land🤷♂️
@@marcusconley5503 his right tho. The women who love you are ashamed to even approach the topic
I had a "first" for the first time. My girlfriend has been with a guy who was huge. We've always been open. I'm really big, so I've always been the guy that was the biggest guy a girlfriend has been with. I'm like Johnny Sins, and the other guy is Dred(example). I don't know, it bugs me a bit. Who knows it's probably all in my head.
You said you grew yours, what method/s did you use?
What about when you find a video they made and he’s got a micro… I felt bad bro. Lol
Watching this for my ex's friend.
If you can't paint the ceiling, paint the fuck out of the walls 🤔
How do I become a profesional dom? Im into that and feel like i do it well
Go on I’m the internet and sell your services looool
How do you get girth???
My takeaway: become a professional dom.
it'd all f'in work.
i get no pleasure.
MOST IMPORTANTLY i look for someone i respect/admire particularly in the intelligence category.
anything that would put her below me makes me lose attraction to her instantly.
f'in sucks but it is what it is.
this applies only in the bedroom. outside the room i'm....well.... not subservient
How do you make it longer please tell us
Send me a dm on IG mate. There are some things I can't talk about on YT @cooperstirling
instagram.com/cooperstirling
Dead lmao 🤣
Girth😍
Can you provide an example of a professional domme?
Wish you had addressed the issue from the audience point of view, not yours necessarily as a pro pôrn star.
Could’ve been a much better video.
But thank you
men got no choice how long is his sausage so what's the point to complain about it by women?
@Chris Dean perhaps.
Anyone searching professional dom after this?
Just have a lot of money and nothing will matter.
Money only opens the door mate
Teach us all we need how to be dom man?
I'm average sized and the attractive women I've dated all cared about size and wanted at least 7 inches .
Mr. Cooper I think you're trying to be politically correct sir. If it's attractive to women if a man to have a big dong and the lady finally gets the big dong you are gonna have to become a magician or a professional Dom that still needs to prove himself in other areas to get a chance to prove as a Dom that she the big doing she had wasn't her best.
All I'm saying is, there's too much work that needs to be done which many may not even be able to get to the point of being her best. It's a lost cause, the relationship is dead. A man convincing himself that he is the best she has had is 10X the delusion of fat/ unattractive women when they say they are 10s.
Professional doms???? What’s that???
Did you keep your thumb in the thumbnail intentionally? 👀
Deletes history
Dredd 😂
The answer is not to date or marry non virgin women.
Makes no sence u mean only date a virgin
@@Corey-iw4ot yeap
@@lixxor6 are u a virgin
At the end of the day if you can really learn how to be great in that department it doesn't matter. I have FWB's who's husband's, boyfriend's, etc have huge members. I'm above average but not huge. Some of these guys are ridiculously big but their wives, gfs, whatever still go out if their way to come have sex with me on a regular basis. Like Sterling I've also grown mine and I'm a comfortable size but it's the skill that I bring that keeps them coming(pun intended) edited to add: NOT huge lol
how’d you grow it
@@Riley-hj6ik honestly I don't really know jelqing and stretching helped and just overall taking way better care of myself seemed to work for me
Grow it ? Like most of us , Ive heard / seen loads of crap out there about this topic . rather suspect and fake . Like supplement pills that claim to do all this etc etc . Big loads and size
I think it shouldn't be supported to be unfaithful.
@@captainfuture2882 Yeah, I agree. Pretty messed up that some people think sleeping with women who are married or in relationships is ok.
The comments about professional doms in the last 2 min are hilarious.
Stirling where’s your willpower u noob
Get to the point
Why even bother with a girl who had ANY ex. Bigger or not. No hymen, no diamond.
Lol you have no options other than teens
@@Lestergreen77 well a man has to count his blessings
12 year age range is best
You're going to die alone
Second
First
Actually it's a reloaded video
@@xmo552 oh
Mines 7.5 x 5.25 and apparently to my ex im “puny”