"My Crush is a Herbalife Distributor" 😲 w/

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
  • Welcome to the new season of 'Asking For a Friend' 🥳! In this episode, we talk about the interesting world of online dating with ‪@naledimofficial‬ & ‪@moghelingz‬ 🔥 #DEFININGAFAF #RoadTo200K #TellYourTinderStory
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    Dennis Ngango: @Dennis Ngango (IG)
    Noma Plaatjie: @nomacles__ (IG)
    Bongani Baloyi: @Bongani_RSA (IG)
    Naledi Mallela : @/NalediMallela (IG)
    Banele Ndaba : ‪@moghelingz‬ (IG)
    This segment was inspired by Cindryrella!
    Producer: Dennis Ngango
    Videographer: Bongani Baloyi
    Host & Editor: Dennis Ngango
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 337

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  Рік тому +53

    Big Shout out to our guests and Carry1st for sponsoring this episode 🔥🔥 Check out the description box for the special offers and let us know your tinder stories in the comments section below 🥳!

  • @sr.kwanele
    @sr.kwanele Рік тому +491

    Anything with Naledi I watch😌

  • @noctanal9269
    @noctanal9269 Рік тому +112

    Noma and naledi would be brutally honest friends towards each other

  • @noxolo_mzobe7571
    @noxolo_mzobe7571 Рік тому +201

    Naledi's presence is felt🥰

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🏆

  • @Bayandandayi
    @Bayandandayi Рік тому +90

    Definitely would like Naledi and Banele again. This was really entertaining. Part 2? 🤣

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️

  • @kamoganopule
    @kamoganopule Рік тому +138

    Please Naledi’s facebeat has me CAPTIVATED 😫😫😍😍😍😍❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @andyngcobo_
    @andyngcobo_ Рік тому +106

    One thing about Defining? They never miss!!! I love your content so much🥹🫶🏽

  • @nm9285
    @nm9285 Рік тому +56

    Noma is my girl, all day everyday! I've also been told that my resting face is intimidating but this is how I am. If a guy likes me enough, he'll have the to courage to approach me, I CAN'T be "softer" or "more approachable" to suit him.

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Facts

    • @dimakatsomolepo7443
      @dimakatsomolepo7443 Рік тому +3

      Your face is not intimidating, they are intimidated 💁🏾‍♀️...
      And like you said, you can't be any more different than how your face was naturally created to be 😂, so it's really up to them

    • @nm9285
      @nm9285 Рік тому +1

      @@dimakatsomolepo7443 This👆🏾

  • @dikeledimonokwane3662
    @dikeledimonokwane3662 Рік тому +74

    Please i love Naledi and Bongani! ❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +4

      They are a lot of fun ❤

    • @nae2078
      @nae2078 Рік тому +3

      They carried this episode fr 😂

    • @lelethuwapi524
      @lelethuwapi524 Рік тому

      What's Bongani's channel name? And the other lady, does she also have a channel?

  • @nosivathotalla6847
    @nosivathotalla6847 Рік тому +39

    I'm here for miss Mamas.....Naledi my ultimate fav😍😍😍

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +1

      The ultimate fave ❤️‍🔥

  • @naomiehill278
    @naomiehill278 Рік тому +72

    Online dating is for those that don't have the time to go out much and always working and traditional dating is for the opposite that always go out to places, u are bound to meet lots of people. Different strokes for different folks.

  • @oleratolekalakala8549
    @oleratolekalakala8549 Рік тому +15

    Naledi is immaculate 😭😭😭we need to see her more

  • @masilenape5976
    @masilenape5976 Рік тому +22

    Bathong Naledi is a beauty❤️❤️❤️ yerrr miss Mamas

  • @phiwelove
    @phiwelove Рік тому +22

    I need them back 🤣 I enjoyed this. I like how Naledi and Noma bring different perspectives

  • @sisiphojacobs6038
    @sisiphojacobs6038 Рік тому +24

    Herbalife guy was recruiting he talks about the BENEFITS OF BEING A DISTRIBUTOR not herbalife and him distributing...it was INTENTIONAL. He was selling. No second date...

  • @NoloMamps
    @NoloMamps Рік тому +59

    Indoda must not have a SIM card 😂😂😂

  • @KanyaSicam
    @KanyaSicam Рік тому +10

    I agree with Naledi 100000%% on the Herbal Life scenario ..

  • @thandomcence487
    @thandomcence487 Рік тому +58

    Anything with our fav Naledi I'm on 😁

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +1

      Love to see it ❤️‍🔥

  • @SimplyThabani
    @SimplyThabani Рік тому +13

    Love Naledi! her personality is top class
    LETS GOOOOO

  • @liindela_
    @liindela_ Рік тому +23

    I agree with Noma, don’t date your coworkers! 😭😂😂😭

  • @kingzaros548
    @kingzaros548 Рік тому +34

    Naledi and Bongani🤣🤣

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +2

      There's a lot going on 😭😂🤣

  • @lindavilakazi14
    @lindavilakazi14 Рік тому +40

    Enjoyed this episode so much and everyone's input. Please bring Naledi back for more episodes ❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Thank you Linda ❤️‍🔥

  • @Mapula1223
    @Mapula1223 Рік тому +18

    Naledi is hilarious please love her😂 Banele is sooo lovable hle 😊

  • @samukelisiwezungu1596
    @samukelisiwezungu1596 Рік тому +25

    I love @naledimofficial🥺💕, saw that she’s in the video and I was like I’m definitely watching my ultimate fav.

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Hope you enjoyed the episode 🥹❤️‍🔥

  • @tshepizakeya
    @tshepizakeya Рік тому +13

    Naledi is my favourite person 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @isanimunyai5334
    @isanimunyai5334 Рік тому +52

    Dennis is a calm 🥹. Awesome episode 👌🏽

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Thank you Isani 🫶🏾❤️‍🔥

  • @samukelisiwezungu1596
    @samukelisiwezungu1596 Рік тому +13

    That guy was definitely recruiting that girl😂😂💔.

  • @shantelndlovu9126
    @shantelndlovu9126 Рік тому +4

    I just saw Naledi and I clicked, didn't even check what it's about 🤣😅❤

  • @Noloyiso_M
    @Noloyiso_M Рік тому +8

    There's a way to talk about YOUR job/hustle, without selling it to the person you're dating.

  • @ItsthatSammy
    @ItsthatSammy Рік тому +11

    I love Naledi, I'm seeing Noma and Bongani for the first time and I love their energy

  • @matsekoramajoe
    @matsekoramajoe Рік тому +13

    Noma is the friend we all need. Mina I hear her. On everything.

  • @GracefulYvonne
    @GracefulYvonne Рік тому +34

    People actually meet up with you to sell you stuff, i once had an experience where this guy started selling me his hampers on the first date. 😂😂I blocked him when I got home... I was like anever!!!

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +1

      What were they trying to sell you 👀

    • @GracefulYvonne
      @GracefulYvonne Рік тому +11

      @@DEFINING those lunchbox packages, that have palony, cheese, russian... I'm like haiiii bo why don't you just give me then 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

    • @nolusizodlalisa5573
      @nolusizodlalisa5573 Рік тому +2

      No ways🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Naledi_Kibinyana
      @Naledi_Kibinyana Рік тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Naledi_Kibinyana
    @Naledi_Kibinyana Рік тому +29

    The herbal life guy was def recruiting🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @princassdiana
    @princassdiana Рік тому +15

    Naledi and Bongani 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that jump there by 14 mins mara 🤣

  • @tyresselinks1
    @tyresselinks1 Рік тому +8

    Naledi’s energy though 🤌😩😩

  • @lovelight8722
    @lovelight8722 Рік тому +12

    For the first time seeing Noma, I must say I really liked her energy. Also the whole panel was it shame

  • @liindela_
    @liindela_ Рік тому +8

    Please bring them back, what a great episode ✨

  • @ZimkhithaRoberts
    @ZimkhithaRoberts Рік тому +9

    Nalediiiiii ⭐️⭐️ OMG I love, love this girl ❤

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      She’s a lot of fun ❤️‍🔥

  • @zazinolutshungu1165
    @zazinolutshungu1165 Рік тому +4

    Can we have a part two with Naledi and Banele..... Noma re kopa guide hle ngwaneso.

  • @alex.gottfried
    @alex.gottfried Рік тому +15

    Naledi stwaaapt it I love you so much . My ultimate fav

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @RSATrands
    @RSATrands Рік тому +6

    I met my boyfriend on tinder, we've been dating for 2 years and a few months. We talking marriage now. We've never been on and off. I don't like people just walking up to me and just talking to me so online dating was the best way to meet people I also don't like dating colleagues. I feel like online dating makes it easier coz I really dont know how I would have met the love of my life if it wasn't for tinder.

    • @sengieshabalala2947
      @sengieshabalala2947 Рік тому +1

      Same. I prefer online dating too, because I don't care for strangers to talk to me.🌚
      I also met my man's on the 🔥app
      ❤️😘

  • @reshoketswelesufi9026
    @reshoketswelesufi9026 Рік тому +11

    Definitely want Naledi and Banele back

  • @Lady_Sonke
    @Lady_Sonke Рік тому +11

    Please bring the ultimate fave & moghelingz back please.🤣🥺

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Got you 🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @bongiwephasiwe5611
    @bongiwephasiwe5611 Рік тому +8

    Same panel, different conversation pls?😂❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +1

      We got you ❤️‍🔥

  • @thembangubeni99
    @thembangubeni99 Рік тому +4

    We don’t want them back Dennis we NEED THEM BACK 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾

  • @PreciousOfficial23
    @PreciousOfficial23 Рік тому +6

    Definitely here for my ultimate fav!! 😍😍

  • @siphosetufokazi112
    @siphosetufokazi112 Рік тому +10

    Ai one thing about dating your co-worker chile, it wont end well. I personally haven`t experience it but some of my colleagues are dating each other. One morning you comes to work and your partner didn`t satisfy you last night and now all that dissatisfaction you gonna take it out on each other here at work with us present. I`ve seen these things happen so no...doesn`t matter how much I like/love you, peace if you`re a co-worker. Andizi!

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Fair

    • @angelmadlala6353
      @angelmadlala6353 Рік тому +1

      True.. It usually never ends well.. It's just a few who will disagree but working in corporate spaces it's a huge negative for me

  • @KimNdou
    @KimNdou Рік тому +2

    “Akangabi ne simcard” 😂😭
    Mina ngiyakuzwa

  • @PeacefulPromises312
    @PeacefulPromises312 Рік тому +14

    I love Noma please!♥️

  • @Naledi_Kibinyana
    @Naledi_Kibinyana Рік тому +8

    Naledi and Bongani🤣🤣🤣Love them❤

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      They have great energy 😂

  • @AyisheMolefe
    @AyisheMolefe Рік тому +1

    "You'll be flirting in person next thing you're in a relationship"
    Moghelingz: YOH🤣😂😂😂😂😂

  • @phumeleleshongwe1832
    @phumeleleshongwe1832 Рік тому +4

    Not me screaming “perioooooodt”

  • @KabeloEmilyNell
    @KabeloEmilyNell Рік тому +8

    My problem is I never leave the house but I also don't believe my husband is in my phone so nkinga nje 😭

    • @thephoenixlady
      @thephoenixlady Рік тому

      Weeh girl same here, me and you same WhatsApp group 😂🥺

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Have you applied for Matched 👀❤️‍🔥

  • @dimpholehabe5080
    @dimpholehabe5080 Рік тому +12

    This episode was thoroughly enjoyed 😂

  • @ItsthatSammy
    @ItsthatSammy Рік тому +3

    Ngiyishayile Neh?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Naledi is cray cray and thats why she is my ultimate fave.

  • @channeledbyjabu
    @channeledbyjabu Рік тому +3

    😂 What's funny is that I have always been against dating coworkers or someone in the same schooling environment. However, right now, I'm dating a man I worked closely with and I agree with Bongani. When you find that one, the space in which you found him/her becomes irrelevant.

  • @malibongwedladla6874
    @malibongwedladla6874 Рік тому +10

    Loved this! You guys genuinely don't miss, like ever! Asibonge!!!
    PS. Does Noma have micro locs (her hairstyle), I love the colour on her 😍

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Malibongwe ❤

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Will ask her 🔥

  • @veero_promise2152
    @veero_promise2152 Рік тому +1

    Loool Noma is my girl . she is me. I get that a lot too, like o kwatetseng? an my answer is o tsena kae? I don't know you. why must I be smiling at you? Nooo. nd if u smiling at me , I be like do u know me ?

  • @zethumbiza9110
    @zethumbiza9110 Рік тому +8

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Not that first scenario, I'd perish

  • @CoachMasego
    @CoachMasego Рік тому +4

    Yes we want both of them back please

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Thank you Masego 🫶🏾❤️‍🔥

  • @nyanisisasekashiviti4145
    @nyanisisasekashiviti4145 Рік тому +7

    Enjoying this so much 🎉

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Nyanisi ❤

  • @ayandasam2269
    @ayandasam2269 Рік тому +2

    When I saw the ultimate fave I was like am watching this nakanjani❤️

  • @leratoradebe8770
    @leratoradebe8770 Рік тому +2

    I completely get there Noma is coming from in the 3rd scenario. I had a guy tell me on campus to smile more. Vele ke tshega le mang when I'm trying to get to class? Men suck at courting or trying to speak to a woman.

  • @anelisarange7838
    @anelisarange7838 Рік тому +10

    Naledi❤😂😂😂

  • @beecultured3468
    @beecultured3468 Рік тому +1

    He way Bongani said, "Single people!"💔

  • @sisiphomalabi5005
    @sisiphomalabi5005 Рік тому +7

    Noma is me dont tell me to smile, like no thank you

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      I'm glad she's not alone

  • @khensaniayanda2917
    @khensaniayanda2917 Рік тому +12

    Bring Shamiso back please, this was a great episode

  • @phumzilemakua9247
    @phumzilemakua9247 Рік тому +4

    Scenario 1: Naledi’s is solely based on the type of career , I’m sure if the guy was in the oil industry going on and on about his work it wouldn’t have been a problem idk

    • @angelmadlala6353
      @angelmadlala6353 Рік тому +5

      It would eventually become boring though, always discussing work 😴.. Tholukuthi personality dololo

  • @zimiienolisi6725
    @zimiienolisi6725 Рік тому +4

    Arghh I love Naledi😭😭

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Our ultimate fave 🥳

  • @thandomcence487
    @thandomcence487 Рік тому +6

    This was so nice to watch 😌❣️

  • @matumomohlabi7646
    @matumomohlabi7646 Рік тому +1

    I love Naledi and Noma perfect combo, a bit rough but love it

  • @dailydoseofkenny
    @dailydoseofkenny Рік тому +5

    lmao this was so funny, you gotta bring them back

  • @AccordingtoVee
    @AccordingtoVee Рік тому +1

    "He mustn't have a simcard"🙆🏿‍♀️😭😂

  • @zethumbiza9110
    @zethumbiza9110 Рік тому +7

    I'm mad about everthing you put out. I love your channel, such a wholesome bunch. Jongaaa

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much Zethu ❤

  • @aviwemnikina7942
    @aviwemnikina7942 Рік тому +5

    😄 I agree with Miss Mamas - Bra G made soulmates for some people 😅 the rest of us oho 🤧

  • @salminahlephondo2407
    @salminahlephondo2407 Рік тому +3

    Please bring banele and naledi back

  • @ChasingtheCoin
    @ChasingtheCoin Рік тому +1

    My ultimate ultimate fave ❤️✨️. One thing about her ke sana uzaymela into yakhe

  • @sinenkhosivilakati9474
    @sinenkhosivilakati9474 Рік тому +4

    Kwatsi Moghelingz I watch😌😘😍

  • @luluthomehlomakulu3181
    @luluthomehlomakulu3181 Рік тому +1

    This was teww good! I want more. 🥺

  • @refiloephoku
    @refiloephoku Рік тому +6

    Moghelingz is so funny😂😂😭

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      And relatable ❤️‍🔥🫶🏾

  • @esethurafeni2326
    @esethurafeni2326 Рік тому +1

    Thank you 💖 I really enjoyed this 🙌

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Thank you Esethu 🥹❤️‍🔥

  • @Bayandandayi
    @Bayandandayi Рік тому +2

    We loooove Naledi🥺🥺🥺

  • @lillianletlaka5868
    @lillianletlaka5868 Рік тому +4

    Whenever I see Naledi I stop

  • @shuliehasiciimbwe7540
    @shuliehasiciimbwe7540 Рік тому +1

    Ooouuuffff QUALITY!!❤

  • @thapelo_x_tp
    @thapelo_x_tp Рік тому +6

    Jolang guys, jolang😭😂

  • @athidlova8246
    @athidlova8246 Рік тому

    (scenario 3) I understand Noma shame😂. haibo! umntu must make you smile if they actually want to see you smiling.

  • @Smixh_luna
    @Smixh_luna Рік тому

    “I know what you making 💰 and it’s not enough” 😭😭😅

  • @neondou4142
    @neondou4142 Рік тому +4

    🛎 Gang

  • @pamelangobeni9726
    @pamelangobeni9726 Рік тому +2

    Banele ❤

  • @Noloyiso_M
    @Noloyiso_M Рік тому

    On dating your colleague some of us are lucky. We have associates ie, we report to different HRs, work for different companies but share a building.

  • @Anything-Anywhere103
    @Anything-Anywhere103 Рік тому +1

    Lol I throughly enjoyed this ❤❤❤HBD😂😂😂😂wow 😍 please bring more

  • @keamabuza858
    @keamabuza858 Рік тому +1

    I get Noma, I always get those comments of looking standoffish and mean so they have never approach me but it's like why do you conclude on something you don't know 🤔
    Ke nale R.B.F and that's just how my face is until I'm actually interacting with someone 😅

  • @kholofelonkoana3804
    @kholofelonkoana3804 Рік тому +2

    No my ultimate fave is a bad influence 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣#datingcoworker

  • @munashefaith3964
    @munashefaith3964 Рік тому

    When i saw Naledi on the thumbnail...i just knew that this was the one.......😍

  • @enduranceholdon4932
    @enduranceholdon4932 Рік тому +2

    You Don’t Meet People In Person From Tinder If You’re Not Sure. Start With Video Calls Till You’re Sure. People Are Doing This Online Dating Wrong Yaz

  • @Communityliving
    @Communityliving Рік тому

    No second date. He knew what he was doing

  • @neilwe__2958
    @neilwe__2958 Рік тому +3

    I really enjoyed today's episode 😂❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому +1

      Thank you 🥹❤️‍🔥

  • @samukelisiwezungu1596
    @samukelisiwezungu1596 Рік тому +7

    Naledi😂😂

  • @SiphosamTTheYouTuber
    @SiphosamTTheYouTuber Рік тому +1

    Definitely want them back

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Рік тому +7

    Now I’m interested in joining tinder🤔

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  Рік тому

      Do the right thing, promo codes in bio ❤❤

    • @nae2078
      @nae2078 Рік тому

      Same 😂 these stories are giving me so much hope