A nice surprise for mama 🥹🤗

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  • @shoshannathomas-mccue2555
    @shoshannathomas-mccue2555 Рік тому +7359

    It’s so healing for me to see a parent actually coparenting by putting the child’s needs first ❤️

    • @sophiamallia5825
      @sophiamallia5825 Рік тому +39

      I absolutely love this my girls father and I are like this ! We don’t fight make scenes we show our daughters we can still love someone and not be with them ❤

    • @Perpetuallytrying
      @Perpetuallytrying Рік тому +24

      Yeah truly so healing. Like I feel like people are not giving her enough credit for this. So progressive and evolved and Myla will grow up strong and happy because of it.

    • @Perpetuallytrying
      @Perpetuallytrying Рік тому +5

      @@sophiamallia5825 good for you! Seriously, that’s huge!

    • @deehydrated
      @deehydrated Рік тому +9

      It feels nice, but I’m still bitter at my mom for making me hate my father. She lied and dramatized everything. My dad never said anything bad about her, so I assumed it was because she didn’t do anything wrong. I even stopped seeing him on weekends even though that’s all the time he was able to spend with me. It hurts that I never got to grow up with a father because she took that role from him.

    • @khylersturm7967
      @khylersturm7967 Рік тому +7

      i agree. i’ve lived in separate parent households my entire life. i was always the middleman for the coordination of rides, and i had to endure the constant complaining about and saying awful things about the other parent, just because they didn’t want to drive the extra ten minutes. it caused so much anxiety for me. they didn’t care about where i wanted to be, just their own convenience. i got my drivers license about six months ago so now i can go wherever i want. it’s so freeing.

  • @ameliahhh222
    @ameliahhh222 Рік тому +3846

    They more mature then 90% of co parents putting their baby first with no hesitation. After the situation she was in and I’m Assuming they were both sort of in. It’s genuinely so uplifting to see this. She’s one of the few people on social media that i genuinely think are a good role model. She has gone through so much and is still so incredible. This makes me so happy

    • @ReeLMLA
      @ReeLMLA Рік тому +28

      She is the REALEST.

    • @zoey_.1015
      @zoey_.1015 Рік тому +27

      My parents are like this too, they’ve had their ups and downs but they’ve ALWAYS put me first. Whichever parents house i want to be at they let me be there. They never talk bad about each other in front of me and keeps their problems between them. I’m so grateful for them 🥰

    • @abigailankrom9513
      @abigailankrom9513 Рік тому +5

      for real like my parents “co-parent” but not to this level. if i say i miss one of them the other will be like just call them or you’ll see them next week. like they argue more about who gets me when i could just yk decide for myself

    • @floram9853
      @floram9853 26 днів тому

      Adorable

    • @ChrissyStowe
      @ChrissyStowe 17 днів тому

      1❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂❤😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Its.dejaslays
    @Its.dejaslays Місяць тому +109

    “ I love it!” She is cute and kind it’s so nice seeing her like she heals me ✨💐

  • @JennJenn3404
    @JennJenn3404 Місяць тому +151

    “i WaNt To StRaIgHtEn It aNd pUt TwO BrAiDs In tHe FrUiT”😂😂😂

  • @melinapalmer8368
    @melinapalmer8368 Рік тому +2148

    she has her momma’s confidence 💗and the relationship you to have is really beautiful

    • @starmontanez2345
      @starmontanez2345 Рік тому +5

      😮

    • @baileymahon-mcgee6981
      @baileymahon-mcgee6981 Рік тому +5

      Yeah totally agree with you on that one ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @AlexiaClaire-di1ti
      @AlexiaClaire-di1ti 9 місяців тому

      🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢

  • @mrs.blackberry5721
    @mrs.blackberry5721 Рік тому +1016

    That side-eye she gave you whenever you pulled a knot in her hair was everything

  • @Summer_20243
    @Summer_20243 3 місяці тому +9

    The way she said I love it 🥹🫶🏻

  • @timberlynnkrumenauer7490
    @timberlynnkrumenauer7490 Рік тому +20

    As someone who had divorced parents who couldn’t co-parent to save their lives, I find these videos incredibly healing and I pray that this child grows to know she really did have the best parents!

  • @jaelenecasias1279
    @jaelenecasias1279 Рік тому +324

    I absolutely love that you and her dad coparent so well.

  • @Gogoboiiii
    @Gogoboiiii Рік тому +425

    Y’all are doing a wonderful job mom & dad!

    • @rebekahtowns
      @rebekahtowns Рік тому +1

      Y'all are doing a wonderful job Mom dad

    • @Diekeksjwba
      @Diekeksjwba 10 місяців тому +2

      @@rebekahtowns??

  • @LeslieRuthCann
    @LeslieRuthCann Місяць тому +4

    I love how positive you make her school experiences. You've shared that Myla's not a fan of school- but all your prep and excitement each day from special bagels to skin care is so wonderful!!!

  • @thihthuu
    @thihthuu Місяць тому +2

    She's so cute and also her voice 😊❤

  • @jenniferjennifer9973
    @jenniferjennifer9973 Рік тому +81

    Sometimes a girl just needs her mama 🤍

  • @Strawbebbyy
    @Strawbebbyy Рік тому +74

    I love that little letterman jacket 😭 soooooooo cuuuuute!

    • @Addie5
      @Addie5 2 місяці тому +1

      I have the same one (it’s from H&M btw)

  • @Carrot6768
    @Carrot6768 8 днів тому

    I love her voice when she said "i love it!" Shs sounded so cute and safe and so happy it was too wholesome for me

  • @IconicWalmartBag
    @IconicWalmartBag 9 днів тому +1

    She has the absolute cutest smile 😭😭

  • @stephnicole8242
    @stephnicole8242 Рік тому +117

    Love the co parenting and all positive vibes. That's what the child needs and deserves

  • @shamanllama
    @shamanllama Рік тому +47

    Thanks for putting your child before your emotions, and that goes for the father, too - we need more parents like y'all. Obviously, we need to heal homes, so they don't HAVE to be broken, but if you're gonna be separated, this is absolutely the best way to do it. Thank you so much!!!! Your little one is gonna be a great mama, some day!

  • @emilypashak9834
    @emilypashak9834 9 місяців тому +1

    Love the mama love ❤
    Lost my mom 3yrs ago and your videos mean so much to me sometimes.❤

  • @onlypsyche
    @onlypsyche Рік тому +1

    That is so great that you guys are flexible with her like that. Kids needs for one parent over the other ebbs and glows throughout their life so the fact that the both of you are good with this and nobody gets butt hurt about something that has everything to do with your daughters needs and nothing to do with your own is absolutely the healthiest and most wonderful thing I’ve seen! Congratulations on both of you being such great parents!

  • @saram4427
    @saram4427 Рік тому +162

    This is so inspiring to hear you can coparent like this. I’m 25 and going through a divorce I wanna make it as easy as possible for my twins and you are inspiring

    • @jasonraggett
      @jasonraggett Рік тому +2

      ❤❤

    • @fishy4873
      @fishy4873 Рік тому +5

      Hii my parents have been separated since I was three and got divorced when I was around five so I know a thing or two about coparenting from the view a kid and all I have to say is it is hard and stressful but coparenting requires listening to the other parent and to the kids when they are mature enough to understand what they are doing. My parents have recently switched up our schedule for swapping and to create that schedule they talked to us about it (they didn’t do a great job at keeping tension low but my parents are also polar opposites) and I personally love that. Also whenever/if ever you and the other parent feel comfortable with it just having both parents at an event even if it is only for a little it is still a nice feeling.

  • @miiichaella
    @miiichaella Рік тому +46

    It’s so nice to see this! I grew up in Sweden and my parents divorced when I was about 10. We didn’t really have a set schedule because my dad travelled for work a lot, but they never ever denied us seeing the other parents. Of course we got to see mom or dad whenever we wanted to, it’s our parent. They moved close enough that we could walk between the houses in about 20 minutes or so. My stepmom has become and extra parent/best friend and I’m so blessed to have them all in my life. Obviously divorce isn’t easy on anyone, but i was really lucky to have an overall great childhood with three parents. It always saddens me when children get stuck between the parents and kids who only got to see their dad one weekend a month. So happy you have a system that works well for the three of you, but primarily your daughter! ❤

  • @marcidinneweth-vz4ip
    @marcidinneweth-vz4ip 3 місяці тому

    I just want to squish Myla. She’s a little love bug. So wise at her age. You two are just sunshine in my day. Thank you, Ladies! Blessings to both of you and your families. ❤😊

  • @PyperMoore-ff2yl
    @PyperMoore-ff2yl 11 днів тому

    I love the way she says I love it. It’s so cute.

  • @bellabby4989
    @bellabby4989 Рік тому +21

    I love how your daughter comes first . Instead of the parents being greedy with there time and energy. Love healthy parenting & communication.

  • @Mandy-ij3ss
    @Mandy-ij3ss Рік тому +37

    She is your twin! And I love when you share your coparenting journey. You are just freaking awesome!!!!

  • @lunareclipse4430
    @lunareclipse4430 Рік тому

    I love how open Abby is about co-parenting

  • @Amira-mc7vj
    @Amira-mc7vj Рік тому +1

    She's the cutest baby ever OMG 😍😍😍😭 I just want to give her a big hug

  • @akalilolove
    @akalilolove Рік тому +17

    Her daughter is her twin ❤

  • @nwocheckers
    @nwocheckers Рік тому +9

    i love both of of yalls energy so much keep doing what youre doing

  • @williamgibbs1670
    @williamgibbs1670 Рік тому +1

    So cute giving stormy baby but more appropriate love yll

  • @rosiebyrne2084
    @rosiebyrne2084 Рік тому +1

    SHE LOOKS SO CUTE AND HAPPY AND SO BEAUTIFUL

  • @itzzbreee
    @itzzbreee Рік тому +13

    your daughter is so pretty 😍

  • @thepurplegirl1111
    @thepurplegirl1111 Рік тому +7

    It’s so amazing that you and her dad are so flexible for this little girl! You always put her needs before yours. It doesn’t matter if you lose a day with that angle you are amazing! Best parenting ever!!❤️

  • @evajankoska9113
    @evajankoska9113 20 днів тому

    such a great mom she’s lucky to have you as one of her parents ❤

  • @Catherinereader-n3j
    @Catherinereader-n3j 7 днів тому

    “I love it!”🥹so cute

  • @Bellla447
    @Bellla447 11 місяців тому +4

    Who will love if sissy miyla as your child
    👇

  • @freyaholmes2847
    @freyaholmes2847 Рік тому +5

    Aww she is so cute🥰

  • @caths1619
    @caths1619 4 місяці тому

    I don’t remember my mother ever taking care of my hair.
    Good job for being a caring and loving mother!

  • @Hannah.123-4
    @Hannah.123-4 3 місяці тому

    The “I love it “ was sooooooooo cute 🥰

  • @aerinpokhrel8894
    @aerinpokhrel8894 Рік тому +4

    “ you look good? You feel good? You good!” I luv the parenting

  • @jimjam-io1ct
    @jimjam-io1ct Рік тому +4

    You guys are so beautiful!!❤

  • @jasonervoes1326
    @jasonervoes1326 Рік тому +2

    I love her hair

  • @dellalopez4228
    @dellalopez4228 6 днів тому +1

    I love her y'all ate so cute together

  • @piper1251
    @piper1251 Рік тому +4

    AHHHHHHH OMGGG TELL YOUR DAUGHTER IM IN LOVE WITH HER JACKET!!!!!! Where’d y’all get it from???

  • @user-dl7oe9ez2n
    @user-dl7oe9ez2n Рік тому +4

    Someone tell why a seven year old has better style than me

  • @user-tr4db4jn5x
    @user-tr4db4jn5x 5 місяців тому

    i love when she changed the pitch of her voice when she said “ i love it”

  • @FernandaLuna-hv4su
    @FernandaLuna-hv4su 14 днів тому

    “I love it”*baby voice* literally made my day so cute little girl 😊❤

  • @Ash71210
    @Ash71210 Рік тому +4

    Hi! I'm just curious if she has school the entire year, or does she just get out late?

    • @SE_Marie
      @SE_Marie Рік тому

      Her school just gets out a little later

    • @Ash71210
      @Ash71210 Рік тому +1

      @@SE_Marie oh ok ty

  • @matalynfreeman9826
    @matalynfreeman9826 2 місяці тому

    the ‘i love it’ was adorable

  • @trinnnn902
    @trinnnn902 11 місяців тому +1

    Shes so pretty!!!!

  • @StephenWatkins-m7u
    @StephenWatkins-m7u 25 днів тому

    Omg she's so cute! You must have a great mom!

  • @AdriannaStLouis
    @AdriannaStLouis Рік тому

    Wow she’s so cute I wish my mother did that Ed was that nice to me and actually understands me and buys me the clothes I want

  • @Itz_cas
    @Itz_cas 10 місяців тому +1

    Your the mom we all wish we had
    👇

  • @brandiama9838
    @brandiama9838 5 місяців тому

    Awww❤ I love the relationship you guys still have! Makes for such a better life for the kids... ALWAYS, when both parents can be adults!!

  • @user-lu3op7jx8p
    @user-lu3op7jx8p 3 місяці тому

    "i love it" aw thats so cuteee

  • @MHS8807
    @MHS8807 Рік тому

    It’s so great to see people coparent in such a healthy way! All that matters is that baby girl! You’re doing a great job honey! From one former addict to another, I’m proud of you!!

  • @LH15258
    @LH15258 Рік тому

    When she said “I love it!” My heart was warmed instantly! She is so adorable 😭❤️

  • @Annabanana-hb4kx
    @Annabanana-hb4kx 4 місяці тому

    STWAP HER VOICE WHEN SHE SAID
    “I love it!”IS LITERALLY SO CUTE AND SWEET I ALSMOST CRIED

  • @Maresbracelets
    @Maresbracelets 5 місяців тому

    You guys should definitely do more of these they are just so fun to watch

  • @GillyandLucy
    @GillyandLucy 3 дні тому +1

    That outfit is so cute

  • @gottahavefaith2971
    @gottahavefaith2971 6 місяців тому

    I love her confidence. She’s such a sweetheart. She’s so grownup. Very pretty young lady. Momma you have every right to be proud of her and yourself. I’m a new subscriber and after hearing your story I am so very proud of you. Keep up the hard work. Wish I had a daughter to do all of that with. You’re so blessed. I can see 1 million followers in the near future. You definitely deserve it. 🎉

  • @TeaganHart-xj4sx
    @TeaganHart-xj4sx 4 місяці тому

    The pauses in the knots love🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @geraldinelafayette1838
    @geraldinelafayette1838 Рік тому

    Abby you are genuinely the BEST MOMMA! You remind me so much of my momma , who always told me, that no matter where I was or the time she would ALWAYS come pick me up! I miss her so much!

  • @catrin126
    @catrin126 4 місяці тому

    How much is she starting to look like you! Beautiful girl ♥️

  • @AMALIN_10
    @AMALIN_10 4 місяці тому

    This is so cute and adorable how y’all are willing to pick her up even if late at night

  • @andie3448
    @andie3448 Рік тому

    Your face when you were brushing her hair and combing straight through the knots sent me into a nostalgic breakdown 😂😂😂😂😂😭 I haven't laughed this hard in a while 😂 my God.

  • @Scarletgrace922
    @Scarletgrace922 4 місяці тому

    Myla is so lucky to have a mom like you

  • @Countrygirl-495
    @Countrygirl-495 Місяць тому +1

    I may do this to my hair when I go to church camp next week it would look so cute with my outfit

  • @Gracie-brooke
    @Gracie-brooke 2 місяці тому

    The “I LoVe It”. Made my heart fill up ❤❤

  • @user-fb6rm3uf4c
    @user-fb6rm3uf4c 4 місяці тому +1

    I love your channel because my parents are just like you and it's so relatable❤

  • @MNW0705
    @MNW0705 Рік тому

    Thank you Abbey and poppa bear for not taking it out on her. And helping each other. Y'all should be each other's biggest support. Cuz what makes you each of you happy, makes her happy. God bless you.

  • @lefish5277
    @lefish5277 Рік тому

    It’s sooooo nice you guys work together so much for her. She’s going to appreciate it so much when she’s older 😊

  • @maryr2930
    @maryr2930 3 місяці тому

    I love how you guys co-parent for her. Makes me wish my sister and her ex could do it for my nephew.

  • @user-xq2xv4bl5h
    @user-xq2xv4bl5h Місяць тому +1

    I love your videos I love your videos and I cannot stop watching him I love Abby

  • @gemmamulvaney4944
    @gemmamulvaney4944 4 місяці тому

    She the cutest thing she looks like a baby fairy 🧚‍♀️ she’s so beautiful and cute 🥰

  • @ur_fav_delayna
    @ur_fav_delayna Рік тому

    "You look good you feel good, UR GOOD"
    love that wish my mom was more like you

  • @grace4334
    @grace4334 Рік тому

    I love that you put her want and needs before your own, I’m sure that means so much to her to have such a positive relationship even though her parents aren’t together

  • @Sports4life1130
    @Sports4life1130 7 місяців тому

    I remember this being the video that made me so interested in you guys. I love seeing such an amazing duo and I can’t wait to see you guys grow even more in life and in UA-cam ❤

  • @Ohthetruthisoutthere
    @Ohthetruthisoutthere 15 днів тому

    YOUR SHORT HAIR IS THE 💣 GIRL!

  • @𝔾𝕣𝕖𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕒𝕪𝕤𝟙𝟜𝟚𝟙

    I wish I had a mom like this she puts her child’s needs and want’s first

  • @Sal_the_rat
    @Sal_the_rat Рік тому +1

    The fact that she’s wearing the Stranger Things shirt I love it I literally love Stranger Things, so much. Should you think it is my hobby? I watch it every day and my room is literally dedicated to Stranger Things. I literally have a Clock in my wall.

  • @angelenepingue2113
    @angelenepingue2113 9 місяців тому

    I really love how you guys are so flexible with how she spends her time, I wish my parents were more like this when I was her age

  • @Gabs_and_Mila_13
    @Gabs_and_Mila_13 22 дні тому

    I love it!! So cute and then she fell and goes “oh” so cuteeee

  • @LyndsayBeerman
    @LyndsayBeerman 4 місяці тому

    You are an amazing mom and Bobby must be a good dad❤

  • @emmahaynes3906
    @emmahaynes3906 6 місяців тому +1

    I love how adorable she looks btw where did you get the jacket from

  • @jadegrayson4283
    @jadegrayson4283 5 місяців тому +1

    GORGEOUS!

  • @aurora6563
    @aurora6563 2 місяці тому

    I love how she’s so confident and SHES SO PRETTY so are you abbey I have been watching you guys for a while and watching it grow ❤❤

  • @CamiVslays
    @CamiVslays 6 днів тому

    She has the most adorable voice in the world❤

  • @user-dw7ml9gt7e
    @user-dw7ml9gt7e 3 місяці тому

    She tried to talk then couldn’t that made me laugh and her fruit when she ment front ❤❤ myla is so adorable

  • @itsmira.11
    @itsmira.11 Рік тому

    danggg she has the cutest little outfits!

  • @lillianswan776
    @lillianswan776 Рік тому

    Spent many nights crying myself at dads missing my mom and vise versa but then feeling guilty that i wasnt appreciating the time I had with them. I wish my parents had been this understanding and patient.

  • @user-fk6se5nr5p
    @user-fk6se5nr5p Місяць тому

    Her little voice I'm gonna die such a cute voice

  • @Urlocalidiot2345
    @Urlocalidiot2345 11 місяців тому +1

    Myla is actually the sweetest child alive 🥰

  • @lynixkendrick4248
    @lynixkendrick4248 Місяць тому

    Abbey you really will give me the confidence to do with my coparenting because I am a child that goes through that and I just want to say thank you to you and your daughter for giving me confidence to deal with something that shouldn’t have to happen but sadly is

  • @Ingrid354
    @Ingrid354 9 місяців тому

    SHE SO PRETTY FOR HER AGE ESPECIALLY

  • @kimberlyk8196
    @kimberlyk8196 7 місяців тому

    This is so adorable the way you spend time together

  • @beingonpurpose2852
    @beingonpurpose2852 5 місяців тому +1

    My mom has claim on me but she lets me go to my father's house every month for 4 days at least. He is awesome last time I was with him we went to the water park it was so fun I love my mom and dad.
    God bless you guys ❤

  • @jessicahinton3971
    @jessicahinton3971 5 місяців тому

    "You look good, you feel good, you are good" Thats my new motto😊

  • @CarlaOfstie
    @CarlaOfstie 19 днів тому

    Love her outfits, they are so cute❤