Hey Steve: The Audience Won’t Hold Back!

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  • During today’s Hey Steve, the audience could barely hold back their opinion!
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  • @jeffreylee7040
    @jeffreylee7040 5 років тому +3054

    It is better to be alone than to wish you were alone.

    • @rebeccacastro2525
      @rebeccacastro2525 5 років тому +42

      Well said.

    • @tangates8559
      @tangates8559 5 років тому +38

      Lord if I’d only known this when I was her age

    • @sallykenya2881
      @sallykenya2881 5 років тому +8

      So true.

    • @onyeilonyeil9468
      @onyeilonyeil9468 5 років тому +5

      Jeffrey Lee, dats a powerful quote

    • @rashidashabazz7319
      @rashidashabazz7319 5 років тому +8

      @@tangates8559 WE KNOW IT NOW and that's what COUNTS. 🙌💚🤣 EVERYTHING IS IN DIVINE ORDER 💚🙏😇❗

  • @thisuser1580
    @thisuser1580 5 років тому +3026

    Steve is absolutely right. At 19, what the HELL is there to argue about. The boy is doing nothing but holding her back in life.

    • @jpat989
      @jpat989 5 років тому +18

      @Not At This Time Yeah! That is his plan. She is going to be his work horse.

    • @zackery5678
      @zackery5678 4 роки тому +24

      Just wanna say theres no proof that she isnt part of the arguing as well cant put it all on the guy

    • @1st_b
      @1st_b 4 роки тому +15

      They always blame the guy, no one even asked if she’s doing anything that’s causing arguments, there’s no way all 3 daily arguments are about the one snapchat issue.

    • @zackery5678
      @zackery5678 4 роки тому +2

      @@1st_b facts

    • @tshimomogudi51
      @tshimomogudi51 4 роки тому +7

      how TF is it his fault they arguing

  • @Sarlinia
    @Sarlinia 5 років тому +2981

    It broke my heart when she was tearing up and stated that she did not have anyone in her life to tell her these things. I hope she takes Steve’s advice to heart and slows down and focuses on herself.

    • @Eradicatetheobvious
      @Eradicatetheobvious 4 роки тому +24

      Sarlinia that’s why Uncle Steve is here!

    • @queenestherc-squared802
      @queenestherc-squared802 4 роки тому

      me too

    • @dosma10
      @dosma10 4 роки тому +6

      @Nathaniel12345678910 not sure Wendy is the best adviser :(

    • @lolabaron8695
      @lolabaron8695 4 роки тому +8

      She's beautiful & she will rock her life 100%✨

    • @allyhenry007
      @allyhenry007 4 роки тому +10

      Sarlinia it broke my heart too I started crying before she stated why cause I don’t got a soul to tell me that stuff either .

  • @sbalchan
    @sbalchan 5 років тому +2037

    19? Ok. Child. You ain't start to live yet. Run. Run far away.

    • @ithinknot2694
      @ithinknot2694 5 років тому +9

      yes please run far away

    • @Getitgirlllll4717
      @Getitgirlllll4717 5 років тому +5

      Right! She will get it together!

    • @LeoDeki
      @LeoDeki 5 років тому +17

      she look 59 😂🤣😂😊

    • @ryangray9691
      @ryangray9691 5 років тому +58

      Zone6TV Once again someone has something demeaning to say. Don’t say anything about a woman that you wouldn’t want anyone to say about your mother, sister, grandma, female cousin, or aunt.

    • @highlyfavored2434
      @highlyfavored2434 5 років тому +2

      @@LeoDeki 😕

  • @feliciab6362
    @feliciab6362 5 років тому +2194

    Steve please keep in touch with her and help guide her...please!

    • @cristinalebron4077
      @cristinalebron4077 5 років тому +17

      felicia b I agree! 🙏🏼

    • @SPOKENWORDZ1970
      @SPOKENWORDZ1970 5 років тому +44

      Steve can't keep in touch with ERRAYbody 😜❤

    • @KkKk-og5it
      @KkKk-og5it 5 років тому +9

      Why she soo fat maybe she just eat too damn much.

    • @sofiael7350
      @sofiael7350 5 років тому +15

      @@marquittabelote9128 propably he's just a kid ,never mind him he doesn't know what he's saying .

    • @SAMack-xd2fn
      @SAMack-xd2fn 5 років тому +7

      Steve's show got cancelled. Maybe you need to followup with her...lol

  • @buggijai1246
    @buggijai1246 5 років тому +1352

    Oh, to be 19 again! Girl!!! Stay alone and love yourself!!!

    • @rosaazul88
      @rosaazul88 5 років тому +24

      I wish someone would've told me that!

    • @Mags765
      @Mags765 5 років тому +10

      Amen!

    • @cdw440
      @cdw440 5 років тому +10

      Fa real. You come First.

    • @jrios2344
      @jrios2344 5 років тому +5

      Yeeeesss indeed!!!

    • @cydneyl2772
      @cydneyl2772 5 років тому +1

      JAI BUGGI This!!!

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 5 років тому +937

    23 & still living with my parents!! There's no rush

    • @SuelyPio
      @SuelyPio 5 років тому +80

      I'm 27 just moving out, been in a relationship for 4 years now but took the time to grow for myself, got my education, my job and saved enough money for a good start. At 19? I was at University no worried about one guy, traveled ALOT by car and planes with my friends, made many friends and made a few mistakes. Thank God for the Mother I have who always talked to me and the fact that she lived all stages of her life, she influenced me to do the same.

    • @catecolamain
      @catecolamain 5 років тому +17

      Girl if you are helping in paying the bills and bringing food to the table, you just saved a great deal of rent. Moreover, you just can't feel alone. In addition, you can date safely following the 90 days role, if he wants you he will work hard for you. Finally, you are respected daughter and in future you will be a respect significant other/ a wife. In deed, no rush at all.

    • @celestematthews3266
      @celestematthews3266 5 років тому +3

      Dashelle Disna Take your time

    • @ChasingCarson
      @ChasingCarson 5 років тому +33

      I’m 22 and men are trying to rush me out the house. Why so you can live off me. I want to do things in order. I have a son and his father is deceased . I don’t want to rush and be stuck in a situation.

    • @celestematthews3266
      @celestematthews3266 5 років тому +14

      @@ChasingCarson Good for you focus on your child and never let a person rush you into something your not ready for.

  • @notesfromalicia
    @notesfromalicia 5 років тому +1297

    Pursue your education, travel, and find hobbies. Get to know yourself and solidify SELF LOVE.
    Signed,
    A 41 year old woman that wishes this young woman the best.

    • @tl6932
      @tl6932 5 років тому +20

      Alicia Graddick ditto!
      Signed,
      A 37 year old woman who wishes she'd done just that!

    • @connie7192
      @connie7192 5 років тому +8

      Co-signed
      CONSTANCE
      24yrs

    • @followGreatness
      @followGreatness 5 років тому +7

      And HIT THE GYM BABE! YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!

    • @kolurose2062
      @kolurose2062 5 років тому +6

      Alicia Graddick I’m 19 as well and needed this comment thank you ♥️

    • @jenniferhill8776
      @jenniferhill8776 5 років тому +5

      Thank you Alicia! Your words are doing a world of good

  • @vincygarifuna
    @vincygarifuna 5 років тому +456

    As a man with 4 daughters myself, when baby girl said that she had no one to speak to her like that. My heart just melted and the dad in me wish I could just hug her. May all of God’s goodness and blessings fall on this young lady and keep her strong.

    • @poeticlovee
      @poeticlovee 2 роки тому +15

      I wish I had a father who cares like that. It’s hard out here navigating life without an active father.

    • @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873
      @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873 Рік тому

      Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen

    • @Moiselle555
      @Moiselle555 Рік тому

      Trudat 💯. I wish I had a father like Uncle Steve and you. I just never had a good father to give me these advices. That's why I look up to Uncle Steve ✔️

  • @beatricecorley2157
    @beatricecorley2157 5 років тому +688

    Omg to hear her say.."I don't have anyone to tell me"..heartbreaking..sad..

    • @missmew3499
      @missmew3499 2 роки тому +10

      Absolutely. Then when she said "I lost my dad when I was young". I'm 47 and I just lost my dad in Oct 27, 2020 (I was 46). Gosh, I would've been happy passing before him. A daughter always needs her daddy. I hope this girl works on herself, and doesn't bother with that fool!!

    • @kandy1227
      @kandy1227 2 роки тому +2

      @@missmew3499 I’m soo sorry 😢

    • @NatureForce37
      @NatureForce37 2 роки тому

      @@missmew3499 GOODNESS. No no no ... you're his daughter. You're his little princess; his CHILD. Children, no matter how grown they are, are NOT supposed to pass before their parents. You say you would've been happy passing before him? Ma'am, you'd be DEAD before your dad, and your dad would not have been happy about that! It would tear him to pieces. That isn't the natural order of things, okay? Parents are supposed to be buried by their children, plain and simple. I hope you look back at all the great times you and with your father and smile about them! I hope you have peace. Enjoy your life! I am so very sorry for your loss.

    • @missmew3499
      @missmew3499 2 роки тому +2

      @@kandy1227 thank you so much. Blessings to you ❤️

    • @missmew3499
      @missmew3499 2 роки тому +1

      @@NatureForce37 you're right. My father would never want me to feel this way. When he was going through his cancer he would say "when I go, don't cry for me. Know that I'm not in pain or suffering anymore". Nevertheless, I miss him so much. Thank you so much for your kind words 💔😭😘❤️

  • @luvmifro1003lovesfamily
    @luvmifro1003lovesfamily 5 років тому +789

    Man! To be 19 again! The LAST THING I would be doing is settling down and trying to move in with a guy. Girl.. Go be 19!

    • @iamthatiam3652
      @iamthatiam3652 5 років тому +3

      luvmifro1003 how about even looking at one 😂🤦🏾‍♀️?

    • @courtney2262
      @courtney2262 5 років тому +4

      EXACTLY

    • @alexormulea
      @alexormulea 5 років тому +3

      We easily pass that stage without anyone to tell us the way Steve did... Sometimes there is someone to tell us but because they are not famous and "we grew up with them" we tend to be ignorant until it's late... She's lucky...

    • @nikkidiorr6347
      @nikkidiorr6347 5 років тому

      luvmifro1003 I agree.

    • @sabrinasmith2766
      @sabrinasmith2766 5 років тому +2

      Depends my friend got married at 16 and shes been married 14 years they travelling a few years etc.

  • @skytal487
    @skytal487 4 роки тому +272

    “Being by yourself is the perfect time to get yourself together “. I loved this quote.

    • @rabahkhatoon5063
      @rabahkhatoon5063 Рік тому +3

      I needed to hear this reminder today thank you 💕

  • @aliikar1884
    @aliikar1884 5 років тому +457

    For a DAY make this as HEY AUDIENCE PLEASE. .......😂😂😂

  • @exclusivesuperblend
    @exclusivesuperblend 5 років тому +631

    I hope she finds a father figure in her life💜💜💜
    Girl if you read this.... STEVE IS RIGHT I’m 38 and i’ve been there!!
    listen to Steve ... and don’t settle for less go for marriage with a reallll man girl. Focus on you and that man will come. In the Meanwhile you have a father in jesus💜💜💜 god bless you girl

  • @KimberlySanders-LadyK
    @KimberlySanders-LadyK 2 роки тому +182

    You're right Steve! I married at 19. HUGE mistake. Although we stayed married for 37 years, it was 36 very unhappy years and the last year we were separated going through the divorce. At 57, I'm divorced, homeless, and happier than I ever was during my marriage! Slow down, baby. My family tried to tell me and I didn't listen!

    • @Gustavonly1
      @Gustavonly1 2 роки тому +9

      God Loves you mama and Community we Love you In ways You Don't know! hold your breath tomorrow Holds Magic for better♥️♥️♥️🤞🙏🙏 #HaveFaith.

    • @rifaonpoint1050
      @rifaonpoint1050 Рік тому +4

      Wow thank you for sharing this 🤎

    • @m.layfette6249
      @m.layfette6249 Рік тому +4

      "Pain and sorrow may endure for the night, but Joy comes in the morning." God has not and will not forget you nor forsake you. Hold fast to your faith and that Mountain will fall into a valley, overflowing with His goodness and grace, mercy and unconditional Love. 💪🏾💜🙏🏾

    • @prisillaspace
      @prisillaspace Рік тому +1

      🌟🦋🙏❤️ I married at 21…
      24 yrs later and 3 children…
      I left …
      Best decision!
      Working on myself and my children.
      Soooooo sad.
      But I’m concentrating on what great things we’ll make happen!!!

  • @vsmith113
    @vsmith113 5 років тому +590

    She is very beautiful. I think she should focus on herself, God, and career. The guy sound like he need a place to live. God will send the right person in due time.

    • @jobinyangala9235
      @jobinyangala9235 5 років тому +4

      True

    • @vsmith113
      @vsmith113 5 років тому +1

      Not At This Time I agree with you. I pray the best for her

    • @legover9509
      @legover9509 5 років тому +4

      To be honest she ain’t beautiful .....call a spade a spade

    • @hannahabrahim7901
      @hannahabrahim7901 5 років тому +7

      I agree, she is indeed very beautiful, pretty face and genuine character. @Clinton Ababio That is very rude of you to say. Honestly honey, if you ain't got nothing good to say, don't say it all. That could be very damaging to a young person's self-esteem. Just learn to be empathetic, is all I'm tryna say.

    • @vsmith113
      @vsmith113 5 років тому +2

      Hannah Abrahim I agree ☝️

  • @dmason5249
    @dmason5249 5 років тому +256

    Hey hey hey...The name of this segment is "Hey Steve" if i knew y'all were coming i would've changed the name to "Hey audience" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👌🏾👏🏾

  • @anquanettewashington7176
    @anquanettewashington7176 5 років тому +178

    He should have gave her a hug you can tell she really needed one....

  • @neversaygoodbye4
    @neversaygoodbye4 5 років тому +128

    Aww! “I don’t want you to cry. I want you to listen.” He stayed so calm and fatherly. That was sweet! I hope she finds a man one day that she deserves!

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 5 років тому +480

    I ain't staying with anyone and we are arguing three times a day. And yes girl get hip to the flip game. Moving in at 19 🤦 sis ?

    • @TW-mg3ld
      @TW-mg3ld 5 років тому +3

      @Kay You What's wrong with women who move in with men without being married anyway? I have never lived with a man. He won't be with her in the long run. I guess some people want to get away from home.

    • @eklyps5248
      @eklyps5248 5 років тому +1

      They finna get broken up once one moves in, that's the true challenge if y'all stay together or not kuz you find out things u didn't know bout that person when u share everything. Young people are clueless and dumb nowadays, they have no clue. Hope she learned.....

    • @buddhafortune6166
      @buddhafortune6166 5 років тому

      @Kay You as always

    • @buddhafortune6166
      @buddhafortune6166 5 років тому

      @Kay You but good for ur friends though. Respect

    • @connie7192
      @connie7192 5 років тому +2

      She should move in to the LIB-RARRRRRRYYYYY.

  • @OhhHotDayumNicolette
    @OhhHotDayumNicolette 5 років тому +361

    Hey girl, if you're watching this please focus on yourself. My first serious relationship started at 19 and it took 4 years for me to learn I deserved better. I had several opportunities for success, travel, experience...but I put someone else before me. You are so lucky to be able to make this decision NOW. Strengthen the relationship with yourself because in the end, all we have is ourselves. Good luck

    • @happinesssomewhere18
      @happinesssomewhere18 5 років тому +17

      Same situation. I was 18 and put a guy first and failed at my career until i was 24 thank god i left his toxic ass. I am 25 now starting over.

    • @rayyisbaeee
      @rayyisbaeee 3 роки тому +5

      I was 17 with my first serious relationship and it has now took me 6 years to know that I just wanna focus on me and find myself. Unfortunately I live with him and am now pregnant. So get out before time flies and it's your whole life, I wish I could go back and have heard this advice and took it seriously!

    • @lovely_star1917
      @lovely_star1917 3 роки тому +2

      Thankyou for this !

    • @darcy3478
      @darcy3478 3 роки тому +2

      @@rayyisbaeee Just because you have a child together now doesn't mean you need to stay together, you can still be great parents even if you aren't together. If you still love him then talk to him, explain how you have been feeling like you want to learn more about yourself if he loves you he will support you as long as you don't mess him around. You can still work on yourself while you're in a committed relationship, but you need to discuss things with him or you will eventually start to despise him which isn't good for anyone involved. Good luck & congratulations on your beautiful baby, hopefully you can learn more about yourself & grow as a woman with his support but if that isn't possible don't stay because you have a child as they will pick up on it trust me, you can still be amazing parents but if you start to hate each other that affects your child. Take care hun & I hope everything works out for you, you will be fine just remember that 💛 stay safe.

    • @lillyceee
      @lillyceee 3 роки тому +3

      @@darcy3478 💯💯💯

  • @hiramalik5493
    @hiramalik5493 4 роки тому +118

    I felt that girl’s pain. Her inner child is hurting so much. When Steve said “now ima talk to you like your my daughter” that’s when I lost it. Hella started ballin’ 😢 👏🏽 Steve should’ve also hugged her. She needed that. I hope this girl becomes a CEO of a big ass company one day ♥️

  • @Corekidbeenybunny
    @Corekidbeenybunny 5 років тому +36

    Steve’s crowd is savage AF!!! 😂😂😂

  • @chosentiller7877
    @chosentiller7877 5 років тому +146

    At 19, you don't need that kind of stress. I'm 21, I started dating at 18 and it's one of my biggest regret. I ended it in a year so its two years now being single and having a time of my life. This single phase is important for personal development, actualization and finding your purpose. Work on your relationship with God, yourself and your career. God bless you. I pray He provides a father figure for you. You are loved and deserved to be loved by whoever comes into your life. From a sister to another 💕

    • @Probity100
      @Probity100 5 років тому +6

      Chosen Tiller Well said, beautiful words. Hope the young lady listens........

    • @britt1953
      @britt1953 2 роки тому +1

      Agreed. Relationships that young of age is usually not a great idea. Of course you can’t help how you feel for someone, but sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture

  • @vynguyenusa2463
    @vynguyenusa2463 3 роки тому +14

    “I’m talking to you as my daughter now..” thank you so much uncle Steve!

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 5 років тому +282

    My lil sister be 19... it’s a time of learning and making plenty of mistakes. Enjoy every minute of it!!

    • @tonychidubem2426
      @tonychidubem2426 3 роки тому +12

      And she will come out 25 with 4 kids and by den she has learn enough 🤠

    • @realtalkwithphil
      @realtalkwithphil 2 роки тому +5

      Experience is not always the best teacher when you can just advise her to avoid mistakes, especially mistakes that can be life changing and traumatic.
      Let her always confide in you for advise. It should only be a learning from her mistakes after you told her not to make the mistakes.

  • @msmylifegoldenellis5188
    @msmylifegoldenellis5188 5 років тому +136

    I've always loved Steve's audience because they always keep it real! He's probably got one of the best live audiences.

  • @BajanPana
    @BajanPana 5 років тому +77

    I started crying with her. I'm an adult now, but I never had anyone to explain things to me while growing up. Divorced and a single mom of two girls. I really hope that everything works out well for this young lady.

  • @teabaggins2190
    @teabaggins2190 5 років тому +53

    Lmao Steve yelling at the audience 😂😂😂😂

  • @Getitgirlllll4717
    @Getitgirlllll4717 5 років тому +131

    Look at this pretty girl! Awww she cried!!! I felt so bad 4 her she said she didnt have anyone 2 tell her or talk 2 her. Its rough when u r young n tender cuz sometimes u jst dnt know any better. Im glad Uncle Steve talked to her. She will b ok. Watch this lil youngin is about 2 get her stuff 2gether and its gonna be on and poppin!!!! These ninjas betta watch out!!! She is comin to slaaaay!!

  • @SpeakUpWorld
    @SpeakUpWorld 5 років тому +133

    19 isn't old enough to be in the fast lane

  • @drewmole3713
    @drewmole3713 5 років тому +455

    Stop talking about her weight that has nothing to do with her situation

    • @morgandawn6413
      @morgandawn6413 5 років тому +22

      Or does it?

    • @Nick-zd5ni
      @Nick-zd5ni 5 років тому +46

      Her weight is her situation

    • @jaspertcrusty
      @jaspertcrusty 5 років тому +18

      So true at 19 I weighed 100 pounds young and cute.
      My boyfriend at the time was horrible. Thanks Jennifer 🌹 🌺

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 5 років тому +2

      @@Nick-zd5ni 😢😢😂😂

    • @stacywells6553
      @stacywells6553 5 років тому +30

      Baby, don't settle for less than you're worth! Take this from an older woman who's in her 40's, listen and take to heart what Steve is saying. I'm not taking your side neither your boyfriend's, but this isn't a "relationship". It sounds like you care for him or love him more than he does for you and it's one-sided on your part. You may not want to hear this, but I've been where you've been. You're only 19, baby it's not over. Focus on you and your career. You all are arguing for what? Letting go is easier said than done, but eventually he won't even enter your thoughts. The people who are blaming your weight for this relationship problem, I'd say don't listen to them because if you accept this as a reason why you won't have a successful relationship, you'll miss the person God really has created for you. Your "boyfriend" is showing you how much he respects and cares about you in the way he's treating you. You all are arguing probably because he really wants to break up with you, but maybe doesn't want to come out and say it if he hasn't already. Sounds like you all aren't mature enough to be in a relationship anyway. Maturity has nothing to do with age, it has more to do with how to learn how to handle yourself and situations which comes from experience. I don't want you to think all men are like this and become bitter. Love yourself no matter what, do what's best for you, let God love on you and show you how much you're really the apple of His eye!

  • @Marykhamisi24
    @Marykhamisi24 Рік тому +7

    I was about to say I’m 16 and even I know that’s not a good idea, but when she said she didn’t have anyone to tell her this stuff, it made me tear up. I hope she takes Steve’s advice!

    • @emaruzicavidenovic7619
      @emaruzicavidenovic7619 Рік тому +1

      God bless Steve for helping young people so wholeheartedly. As if he is loving father to everyone.❤

  • @alexormulea
    @alexormulea 5 років тому +14

    I am glad this girl came to Steve before life got messy... I hope she becomes super rich, finds the man of her dreams who'll love her and treat her right, gets surrounded by all the right people like today and has a blessed life...

  • @naw28878787
    @naw28878787 5 років тому +21

    This is heart breaking. You can tell she has no one to care for her. A family, a mother, a father, siblings, people who care for you and will advise you is truly a blessing. And for those have this, be grateful for it. I truly feel for her and wish her all the very best

  • @mjohnson5212
    @mjohnson5212 5 років тому +34

    Let him go, girl. He's trying to use you.

  • @jenniferreilly2559
    @jenniferreilly2559 4 роки тому +7

    I’ve been there. Wasted 7 years with a dude who wasted my time. Decided to be alone for a bit and met my now husband and we have s little family together. Best guy ever!!! (I’m 36 now).
    Don’t waste your time on him!!
    Also, I’m loving that audience member’s purple hair!

  • @RH-tv9hk
    @RH-tv9hk 4 роки тому +44

    I just love how on this show the audience always seems to support each other and Steve seems to genuinely care about people. I teared up too because I wish I had a Dad like Steve. I got ya girl💖

  • @angiemathew9005
    @angiemathew9005 5 років тому +40

    I feel like I need a daily conversation with Steve!!

  • @TheQueenPsChannel
    @TheQueenPsChannel 5 років тому +21

    Babygirl please don’t stay! My god you’re 19, go live your best life hunny.

  • @anthonyword6914
    @anthonyword6914 5 років тому +48

    I'm 47y/o. I have a daughter that's 30. I was married at 19 and clueless. She should take her time and live life. Don't be wreckless, but enjoy. At any age social media CAN be a distraction in a relationship. At some time a old friend will contact you at some point. It can be harmless, but hard to explain. I don't always agree with Steve. But he's right. I wish her the best. Our daughters needs the love only a father can give. PLEASE JUST A PERSONAL OPINION!!!!

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 5 років тому +63

    Omg run girl you are 19 once you move in together the arguments will only get intensive. Girl go live your life. Be happy and be free.

  • @SuperKrock5
    @SuperKrock5 5 років тому +44

    It’s so hard when you’re 19 to see cause you’re 19! You don’t have a lot of wisdom yet.

  • @glasshalffull4061
    @glasshalffull4061 4 роки тому +11

    "I don't have nobody to tell me anything like that...like...I lost my dad when I was young." - Sweet Girl
    "That's what Uncle Steve for. That's why Uncle Steve is here." - Steve
    This warmed my heart! Thanks for looking out for her Steve.

  • @daniellegreer7135
    @daniellegreer7135 5 років тому +244

    Unfortunately, her bf probably feels he can mistreat her because she’s overweight...she’s beautiful and it seems that she may have a low self-esteem. She needs to focus on herself and what brings her happiness.

    • @judeokoye9466
      @judeokoye9466 5 років тому +60

      there are some men that target overweight women, they believe they can take advantage of them.

    • @recklessnotion1899
      @recklessnotion1899 5 років тому +5

      @@judeokoye9466 bc they got no self worth

    • @genesisthompson3240
      @genesisthompson3240 5 років тому +10

      Ha cuz what if he’s overweight too?

    • @daniellegreer7135
      @daniellegreer7135 5 років тому +16

      Kay You...men treat you how you allow them to treat you period...if a woman is thin or fit and a man mistreats her he may have tapped into an insecurity that may not be related to her weight or appearance. However, my thought is most people that mistreat/disrespect others are truly the insecure ones.

    • @daniellegreer7135
      @daniellegreer7135 5 років тому +5

      Genesis Thompson...this could very well be the case...but in my opinion society focuses more on women’s appearance and desirability than men. I’ve heard unattractive overweight men put down their counterparts many times. Also remember that men can be more visual than women when it comes to dating. It seems to me there is a double standard when it comes to men’s appearances vs women’s appearances. If a man is powerful, successful, and has status then the works overlooks his unattractiveness. However, a woman can be equally or more successful, but the world will still judge her on her beauty or lack there of.

  • @carmenmcallister5222
    @carmenmcallister5222 5 років тому +11

    I was 19 when I got married the first time. I didn't even know who I was as a person. You "think" you're an adult....boy was I wrong.
    I've told both of my girls - 21 & 17 - WAITING is not a bad thing. Not having a boyfriend in NOT a bad thing. Grow to love yourself, to know yourself and be content in yourself before you go and bring someone else into the equation.
    Good advice (as usual) Steve!

  • @CK-yo7ub
    @CK-yo7ub 5 років тому +17

    I officially declare Steve Harvey to be my uncle! He has kept me from making many a mistake

  • @justruthb
    @justruthb 5 років тому +20

    I just wanted to hug her! Knowing what I know now, I wish I could go back to 19 and do it again. Baby girl you'll be alright! Listen to Steve, leave that boy and go live your life!

  • @jenniferakufo9575
    @jenniferakufo9575 5 років тому +53

    This segment brought me to tears. I cried when she cried. For the Same reason. Oh how I wish what I know now I knew then when I was her age. My experiences had a major affect on me as I got older. I had nobody to tell me about life’s woes either. My father unfortunately passed on from cancer back when I was 14. So I navigated some things on my own. But all praise due to my God who has seen me through. I’m a better person & have a stronger spirit/feel of discernment because of my experiences. She’s such a beautiful girl. She can do bad all by herself. Great advice uncle Steve!! Young women need to hear this!

    • @guapzilladinero9949
      @guapzilladinero9949 5 років тому

      Jennifer akufo Smile

    • @ffadelf
      @ffadelf 5 років тому

      We always not listening to the older when they advise us then later feeling sorry.

  • @reigncoatcouture5391
    @reigncoatcouture5391 5 років тому +8

    @3:38 So touching - Steve should write a book for young women who grew up without their dads or a strong male figure in their life and tell them things (Lessons) that he would tell his daughters about how life is and what to try to avoid. Qualities that make you a good person and a strong woman. What to look for in friends and the way you should be treated by a man etc. There should also be a guide for you men too teaching the strong values and life lessons.

  • @finally97
    @finally97 5 років тому +84

    And this is one of the many reasons why I love Uncle Steve. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. That segment helped more than just her. Please keep up with her and give us an update after she graduates and gets her job as the Physician Assistant.

  • @assassinwolfdog3079
    @assassinwolfdog3079 5 років тому +113

    Steve you're so funny bro you make me laugh every time

  • @ihsandeeb
    @ihsandeeb 3 роки тому +23

    Steve has a heart of gold and such an incredible personality, god bless him!!

  • @mimiortiz3168
    @mimiortiz3168 4 роки тому +7

    Steve should have a segment called ASK UNCLE STEVE filled with young audience like her❤️

  • @shandranewell2837
    @shandranewell2837 4 роки тому +2

    Dont ever look for a partner..God will send him to you!!!!..but u have to be happy before he gets to you!!

  • @joshuavildor2824
    @joshuavildor2824 4 роки тому +16

    Besides his comedy, I admire Steve’s wisdom. I wish to grow wise and develop understanding like him.

  • @chasimbarose6608
    @chasimbarose6608 5 років тому +43

    The moment there erupt petty arguments in any relationship, just open your eyes wide you will see something

    • @lilouliving
      @lilouliving 5 років тому

      What do you mean ? I feel like I’m experiencing this

    • @chasimbarose6608
      @chasimbarose6608 5 років тому +1

      It's the truth sweetheart

  • @shakinapunter2854
    @shakinapunter2854 5 років тому +5

    Awww Uncle Steve I love your message, I ‘m 39 and I am teary-eyed listening to your message to this young lady!!!👏🏾🙏🏾👌🏾😁

  • @katiajanz-sanchez5068
    @katiajanz-sanchez5068 4 роки тому +5

    When in doubt get the hell out!!!

  • @applescience1065
    @applescience1065 5 років тому +7

    Self love first. Don't let him knock you up and screw up your life.

  • @lilyflacks485
    @lilyflacks485 4 роки тому +5

    this episode is one reason I watch Ask Steve. He gets it, understands her vulnerability and courage, and helps her with kindness and honesty, like a good uncle. I hope she followed his advice.

  • @exclusivesuperblend
    @exclusivesuperblend 5 років тому +54

    HEEYYYYY HEYYYYYY HEYYYYYY LISTEN TO ME🤣😅👀👀👀

  • @hiphopson
    @hiphopson 5 років тому +23

    Great advice! I seriously hope she takes heed of what was said. She seems sweet and on a path to a rewarding career! Go enjoy your life young lady!

  • @lorrainebailey7304
    @lorrainebailey7304 5 років тому +5

    😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Run sister those people have you back
    Oooh don't cry you be fine am so proud of you because you are going to school nuff Respect and love 🇯🇲🇯🇲💯💯💯💯👍

  • @BelindaJoy
    @BelindaJoy 5 років тому +53

    Oh to be 19 and in love again... it feels like he is the only one in the world. And no matter what advice you get, you tell yourself "they don't know what this feels like!" Now over the age of 50 I can say I am so glad I learned not to settle. To have standards. I could have settled and stayed with a guy that never wanted to be seen in public with me. Or stayed with a guy that kept telling me to change. Or stayed with a guy that played mind games 24/7.
    She will need to learn, and it is best at her young age, when to stay and when ti walk away.

  • @larissangwe
    @larissangwe 5 років тому +6

    She will be so great in the future! She’s smart enough to figure out something is wrong and she has great goals for her future even without someone to give her life advice! You go girl!!! You gon’ be alright! ❤️❤️

  • @adlihkristopher5790
    @adlihkristopher5790 4 роки тому +2

    i love you Steve u tell it as it is 👍

  • @mayhaddad7025
    @mayhaddad7025 Рік тому +2

    I really felt her pain when Steve Harvey said I’m going to talk to you like your my daughter. Right away I felt that pain in her heart not having a parent/Dad to fill that empty spot in her heart.
    Please stay strong and stay positive.

  • @Ari_princess21
    @Ari_princess21 5 років тому +16

    I can't say it's to young cause my husband was 19 when we got married and he is 31 today we are still together. The only part that gets me is the arguing and haven't even made any real commitments yet. Run honey run

  • @ILoveMyMelanin.
    @ILoveMyMelanin. 5 років тому +3

    I wish I was 19 again and wished my father would have given me the encouragement that Steve is giving her. I would have made better decisions with men.

  • @bobbydavis7518
    @bobbydavis7518 3 роки тому +4

    Steve harvey is not only my favorite comedian, hes someone that truly cares about others

  • @Shavier777
    @Shavier777 5 років тому +2

    I teared up when she said she was crying because she does not have anyone to talk to her like Steve did. So many young women need to be given pearls of wisdom. Older women, please be helpers to a young woman you may know in your life. It may make a huge difference to her future.

  • @jamillacamilla6953
    @jamillacamilla6953 5 років тому +3

    I literally teared up when she said that

  • @Mario_1611
    @Mario_1611 4 роки тому +30

    Her: "I'm only nineteen"
    Me: **Cleaning my spectacles**

    • @Checkersss
      @Checkersss 4 роки тому

      Same lol she doesn’t look 19..

    • @brenita60
      @brenita60 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂

    • @Jeah1911
      @Jeah1911 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣 sale here... thought I heard it wrong

  • @Alladathings
    @Alladathings 5 років тому +6

    This was such a good segment, that's why I love Steve, he's funny but he also has a heart for people

  • @SPerez-du9jm
    @SPerez-du9jm 5 років тому +13

    Hey Mr Steve love how you handle a serious topic lighten it up and still gets your point across with all due respect
    kudos to you Sir

  • @LilChelle
    @LilChelle 2 роки тому +4

    If she needs someone to talk to her and guide her I’ll gladly take that role on. If you’re reading this hit me up below with a reply ❤️

  • @taetwy4026
    @taetwy4026 3 роки тому +8

    This is my favorite segment I've seen from Steve he was so loving and firm with that worthy, beautiful, intelligent young lady I pray that she took Steve's advice to heart and that she has successfully completed her PA program and if she happens to read this please know that there are people in the world that unconditionally care for and love you sis and pray that every blessing possible comes your way and you take them and run exceeding any expectations you may have in your heart and mind may God's mercy, favor and grace continue to cover you sis in Jesus name Amen, Amen and Amen! I also pray that someone from the show stayed in touch with her at least for a little while because you could tell that her spirit and soul were longing for that positivity and wisdom that was being poured into her...🙏🙏🙏

  • @chriscanada3809
    @chriscanada3809 Рік тому +1

    This young lady was needing Dad advice. Good on Steve for giving that moment to her.

  • @idgaf6995
    @idgaf6995 4 роки тому +1

    I am alone and it's actually way more good then surrounding yourself with fake ppl it's no harm to be alone...❤️😊

  • @HeatherShineify
    @HeatherShineify 4 роки тому +15

    I’ve been binging on Steve videos for days now and I love him more and more 😁

  • @toughnut3972
    @toughnut3972 5 років тому +15

    Steve you're funny & wonderful human being.❤

  • @clairetebid3772
    @clairetebid3772 Рік тому

    Dear God. I don't wanna leave this earth without having A "HeY Steve " session with Uncle steve . Amen

  • @LisaLisa001
    @LisaLisa001 5 років тому +2

    Smart girl to ask for advice in the right place. I wish you luck young lady. You have a bright future!

  • @sheeshneesh
    @sheeshneesh 5 років тому +8

    She is in school to become a physician assistant. That’s no job for a dummy. She’s smart, beautiful, and seems to have a lovely personality. One day a man will cherish you like you’re suppose to be cherished. Be blessed. 💕

  • @reneesmith695
    @reneesmith695 2 роки тому +3

    I wish I had someone like Steve in my life when I was a young girl. He is the best! ❤️

  • @risamuirhead263
    @risamuirhead263 4 роки тому

    Where is the love button for that advice?! Every young female needs to hear this.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @marissa6854
    @marissa6854 3 роки тому +2

    Lol I was screaming with the audience too 😅😂

  • @jesie_ray9852
    @jesie_ray9852 2 роки тому +3

    2:27 Steve screaming reminds me of math classes 🤣🤣

  • @melindalee4574
    @melindalee4574 5 років тому +4

    Why am I crying 😭 for her! Gurl...TRUST! In a year or so you will say child he wasn’t even remotely worth my damn time!

    • @philstewart345
      @philstewart345 5 років тому

      Some woman are afraid of being alone, therefore will anything for companionship!

  • @Mary-wj3zz
    @Mary-wj3zz 3 роки тому +2

    Broke my heart when she started tearing up and stated she doesn’t have anybody to tell her what Steve told her.

  • @MihaelaV68
    @MihaelaV68 5 років тому +3

    “Uncle Steve” = sweet person ( now I know why everyone loves him, including me)

  • @healinghub1112
    @healinghub1112 2 роки тому +4

    The girl is so genuine and mature. I am sure if she gets the right guidance in life she is gonna make a caring and bright human.

  • @gabef3521
    @gabef3521 5 років тому +8

    "BACK THEN THEY DIDNT WANT ME, NOW IM HOT AND THEY ALL ON ME." - MIKE JONES

  • @mckayfam3090
    @mckayfam3090 4 роки тому +5

    I want more episodes. This show can't end on me!😭
    Always good advise and feel good segments.

  • @diedriegibbs6938
    @diedriegibbs6938 5 років тому +4

    When she said he was talking about moving in with her this coming March. I yelled at my cellphone screen "no, you better not. If he's acting like this and talking abou living together, think about how he's going to treat you when y'all cohabitating". Young lady, nope. Concentrate on your education. Once you have that BS., you'll see the people you attract into your life.

  • @rashidashabazz7319
    @rashidashabazz7319 5 років тому +3

    I felt that STEVE❗. VERY POWERFUL 😤💚🙏❗I AM SOOOOOOOO VERY HAPPY and GRATEFUL that YOU have those BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS 🤩😘🙌 OUR CHILDREN are OUR GREATEST TEACHERS 😇💚❗

  • @sabrinajones5597
    @sabrinajones5597 4 роки тому +3

    My heart broke for her 💔

  • @frances3112
    @frances3112 3 роки тому +1

    I like that man in the audience with the blue shirt. He saying no to moving in!

  • @winnetjamela2827
    @winnetjamela2827 5 років тому +2

    Steve I am crying.