5 things to do if you don’t know what career to choose

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  • @velvetstorm4563
    @velvetstorm4563 4 роки тому +1279

    It's hard when I'm not genuinely interested in anything career wise, I just want money.

    • @its.rosayyy1359
      @its.rosayyy1359 4 роки тому +63

      Me too😔.

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +53

      Hi, thank you for your comment. It can be quite difficult to know what path to take. Sometimes engaging in a mindfulness activity such as journaling or meditating can offer reflection. Check out this video of mine for another fresh perspective ua-cam.com/video/Rskwct8hfg0/v-deo.html Wishing you the best xxx

    • @MajorBall
      @MajorBall 4 роки тому +6

      Facts

    • @LadyPR1
      @LadyPR1 4 роки тому +5

      Me too

    • @Kozykid2
      @Kozykid2 4 роки тому +5

      I felt this

  • @emilyx3749
    @emilyx3749 4 роки тому +276

    I’m currently sat here crying because I’m so stressed about my future. I’ve just gone into year13, last year in sixth form, and planning to go university in September 2021 and I have no idea what I want to do😭😭😭

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +14

      Hi Emily, I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling what to do. Sometimes it can be best to take time to reflect, to silence the stress, and to sit in silence to listen to your intuition and receive clarity. I hope you find the answers you are seeking soon. Wishing you the best. Stay strong xxx

    • @hanahowey
      @hanahowey 4 роки тому +3

      wish you the best x

    • @connie_daisy
      @connie_daisy 4 роки тому +21

      I’m a second year student and here’s what I’ve learnt; choose the subject that interests you, even if it doesn’t lead to a career directly. Lots of people who love say philosophy may not take it because they think it will not lead to an obvious career. I think, study what you love and then you actually give yourself three more years to think about it all the while you’re enjoying your degree subject. In fact, most people’s careers are vastly different from their degree. My sister did a dance degree and now she’s an estate agent. My mum did a sports degree and now she’s a business woman! Not to mention, you can always change career, they’re not life contracts!

    • @nicoleangela4155
      @nicoleangela4155 4 роки тому +1

      this is exactly me right now

    • @manofsteel9051
      @manofsteel9051 3 роки тому

      I gotta apply for uni in about a month. Don't know what I really want to do

  • @deirdretynan1781
    @deirdretynan1781 4 роки тому +125

    1) Give yourself a deadline
    2) Find out why you have been resistant to figuring things out
    3) What type of career is right for you
    4) Watch people who inspire you.

  • @aliyhatone-pah-hote3405
    @aliyhatone-pah-hote3405 4 роки тому +402

    Ok I haven't watched the whole vid yet but: I have too many things i want to do. I wanna be a marine, fashion designer, photographer, artist, Own a store, Voice actress, model😬, composer, interior designer, teacher, book editor, actress, author, and soooooo much more. When I get interested in one, that interest fades and I get interested in the next one and that process repeats randomly and I dont know what to do. Is there any way u could help me?

    • @blueberries2958
      @blueberries2958 4 роки тому +140

      I thought I was the only one. This perfectly describes me, it sucks because Im super indecisive as well😅

    • @reshmagv1158
      @reshmagv1158 4 роки тому +29

      This is me tooo I need someone to answer 😒

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +104

      Ha! Love all your interests. Here's one trick. If the interest fades, it's not one you'll be passionate about in years to come. If the idea is one that you can't shake, ie, it keeps coming back to you and niggling at you like "I really ought to have done this" explore WHY you've been too afraid to take action. Often there's a reason, you're drawn to distractions. It's safe to be distracted because it doesn't force you to talk action on what you're most drawn to but afraid of pursuing

    • @blueberries2958
      @blueberries2958 4 роки тому +17

      Joy Randolph 😮 im speechless, this honestly helps a lot. I literally just realized that most of the stuff i want to do is stuff I did in the past, and lost interest in. I still feel the need to continue them, because I still have all the materials for those certain things, and I don’t want to waste them. I also just love the idea of revisiting those hobbies again, but don’t actually WANT to revisit them. Theres about 3 things that have always stuck though, and I know the exact reason why I don’t exactly want to do it for each of them. This is seriously a total game changer!

    • @reshmagv1158
      @reshmagv1158 4 роки тому +4

      @@thejoyrandolphshow thank you! ❤️

  • @bubblecum6939
    @bubblecum6939 3 роки тому +33

    “You can fail at what you don’t want, so might as well take a chance at doing what you love”~Jim Carrey

  • @rachellsesbreno
    @rachellsesbreno 4 роки тому +94

    so im currently 16, last month i wanted to be a nurse. but i realized i don't want to be in a hospital looking and taking care of other people. i imagine myself getting jealous of other families cause i feel like I'll isolate myself when i get a job.

    • @uchisi5763
      @uchisi5763 4 роки тому +36

      I wanna be a doctor but the amount of studying and the amount of time

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +19

      Always choose a career path that makes you feel excited for the present moment and future

    • @milk5002
      @milk5002 4 роки тому +9

      @@uchisi5763 yeah. Im not wasting my 20s for some fucking paper lol

    • @Marco-jm1mo
      @Marco-jm1mo 4 роки тому +2

      @@milk5002 I did that and it was for nothing

  • @givemestrength8416
    @givemestrength8416 4 роки тому +78

    I’m crippled with anxiety over this...I’m nearly qualified as a radiographer but it’s so boring...I’m 40 years old and have no clue what to do as I have a family to think of too..It s really getting me down

    • @onelove1468
      @onelove1468 4 роки тому +11

      @Give me strength Don’t be discouraged. It is never too late to find your passion. Life is all about creating yourself. And many of us will go through maybe 5 careers in our lifetime. It’s okay that you don’t want to do radiography! The great thing is, is that you figured that part out. Explore what things bring you joy and find careers in those subjects that you like. 🦋 Best of luck my friend.

    • @bullshiteshite
      @bullshiteshite 4 роки тому +6

      Same, I'm 41 and about to quit/lose my job and am thinking about going back to school for radiography or speech language pathology but I'm alone, no support system, and not sure I can find the money to go to school. I feel so stuck and my anxiety level is off the charts, I feel like I'll be dead soon.

    • @01919
      @01919 4 роки тому +8

      the_one please don’t give up hope, everything will work out I promise

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +10

      Thank you @Give me strength for your comment and courage for reaching out. It can be very difficult and overwhelming to know what career to choose. I'm sorry it's creating anxiety in your life. It's never too late to switch careers, you still have time. Try journaling each day and think about the possible careers that might bring you joy. This reflective exercise could bring you clarity and a creative outlet to release the anxiety. Sometimes, journaling and releasing our thoughts pen to paper provide an ability to reflect on our personal growth as it changes each day. Let me know if this helps. Also, even though you feel discouraged, there is a positive that at 40 you've had this realization. It's better to have this realization now rather than years. Wishing you the best in your life and your journey :)

    • @bullshiteshite
      @bullshiteshite 4 роки тому +1

      @@01919 Thanks, I hope so

  • @perezgiselle
    @perezgiselle 4 роки тому +12

    10/10 video! I’ve been a licensed hairstylist& barber for 4years, started working at my dream job at this cute barbershop and now I hate it and want to change careers and make more money. It’s so hard when you have already invested so much money,effort, and time into something and now you have to start over.

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Wow. Thanks so much for sharing your story. Yes!! When you've invested so much time and money, it can be like "Ahhhhhhhh!" You are so strong and amazing for recognising that wasn't the right path for you and pursuing what lights you up

    • @agungp3703
      @agungp3703 4 роки тому +3

      my dream is to become a hairstylist, could u pls tell me what makes u regret being a hairstylist and want to change ur career?

  • @dewberry150
    @dewberry150 3 роки тому +7

    i really don't think there is not anything i will want to do for 40 hours a week. i was hoping i'd figure something out by the time i graduated but i graduated last may and the more i work the more it feels that every job is going to ruin my life

  • @MoniqueD305
    @MoniqueD305 4 роки тому +117

    I genuinely have no interest in any industry at all whatsoever. So this still doesn’t help 😭

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +7

      Hi, thank you for your comment. I'm sorry to hear the video didn't help and you're feeling lost. Try watching this video for a different perspective ua-cam.com/video/Rskwct8hfg0/v-deo.html Wishing you the best. You will figure out what you want soon xxx

    • @birachel477
      @birachel477 3 роки тому +3

      I’m in the same boat.

  • @zenalevay2541
    @zenalevay2541 4 роки тому +23

    Im 19 and left school a few months ago. Did some volunteering but i gave that up because of covid, so i need to find a career and im sat at home stuck. I dont wana be living with my parents with no job at 20

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Zena, thank you for your comment. I'm sorry to hear you're going through a difficult time. Stay strong and you will find a job soon. Try watching this video for additional help ua-cam.com/video/Rskwct8hfg0/v-deo.html Wishing you the best xxx

  • @sadisticxbeauty
    @sadisticxbeauty 4 роки тому +10

    So my parents tell me to stick with nursing because I can always find a job in that field of work but I’m slowly starting to lose interest in it the more time passes. I’ve always had a passion for art but my mom says it isn’t a career I should rely on. I’m afraid that if I listen to them I’ll pick a career that I absolutely hate but if I go with my gut I’m afraid I’ll fail.

    • @pritika1406
      @pritika1406 3 роки тому +4

      I can't relate more and thinking about all this stresses me out

    • @bhaveshsharma5220
      @bhaveshsharma5220 3 роки тому

      mood

    • @yesno8785
      @yesno8785 3 роки тому

      I'm scared of failure too, and it's such a big stressor..

  • @justinebourke2811
    @justinebourke2811 3 роки тому +2

    Deadlines freak me out..when I have a deadline I get extremely anxious and wlll make myself sick witn it and never do it.

  • @Zoestone-m6g
    @Zoestone-m6g 4 роки тому +41

    Ok but what if there is nothing job wise I particularly “love”?

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi, thank you for your comment. It can be really difficult to find a career you love. Sometimes it takes more time and exploration to find it. Try watching this video where I talk about how I found my career. ua-cam.com/video/0WmyrnZcTDI/v-deo.html
      I hope it helps. Wishing you the best xxx

    • @thalias6945
      @thalias6945 3 роки тому +11

      this is my problem, i dont have an interest for anything

    • @jm8837
      @jm8837 3 роки тому

      why is this me haha

  • @Tiia922
    @Tiia922 3 роки тому +5

    I quit my job today, thank you so much for this. Attitude is so important when thinking about the next step!

  • @mixedemotions8141
    @mixedemotions8141 4 роки тому +6

    It’s time for me to choose subjects and it’s hard because I don’t really like labels,I just want to do

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi, thank you for your comment. It can be difficult to choose a career or path that feels right for you. Check out this other video of mine, it might help ua-cam.com/video/tGGuoaeTzVs/v-deo.html
      Wishing you the best xx

    • @mixedemotions8141
      @mixedemotions8141 4 роки тому

      Joy Randolph thank you♥️

  • @LainorLean
    @LainorLean 4 роки тому +24

    My older sis is in the exact same situation, she's pretty pressured cuz she was forced by our parents to make her choose medtech, she didn't liked it because it was too hard for her, so here I am lol, I tried helping but I don't know what's really been going on inside her lately

  • @JessentialLife
    @JessentialLife 4 роки тому +3

    Wow! This was a perspective changer. My work contract ends in 4 months and I have no idea what to do next. This video is SO REFRESHING.

  • @nimate.tijani1070
    @nimate.tijani1070 5 років тому +58

    Sincerely I pray you get TEDX platforms to share such things.. Thank you for this👌👌👌

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +7

      Wow. Thank you so much for the suggestion and encouragement to do public speaking on platforms like TedX. That really means a lot. Wishing you so much happiness and positivity in your life too xoxo

  • @wonwon5992
    @wonwon5992 4 роки тому +27

    I think instead of not knowing what to do with my life, I have to much that I want to do.
    I’m 15, love to dance, like music, like fashion, like acting, like volleyball, like modeling, like photography, like designing, art. Like how the fuck do I know what to do when there’s so much I can do LMAO just feeling hella lost and confused, I’m stressed that if I don’t pick one soon I’ll be to old to pick, let’s be real all these singers, athletes, etc. have trained for years, I’m 15 I need to pick one soon and work on it before I’m to “old”

    • @notawickedoldlady2290
      @notawickedoldlady2290 3 роки тому +1

      Ok but why are you exactly me. Why are you literally stealing my life 😭😭 I'm also 15 and I just have too many interests. I need to choose quick because we're choosing subjects in a few day ✨🤧

    • @fearless_stellar2944
      @fearless_stellar2944 3 роки тому

      Well choose one that you like the best.

    • @jaejustabouteverything696
      @jaejustabouteverything696 3 роки тому

      Become a professional photographer for swimsuit modeling.

  • @unusedflint6066
    @unusedflint6066 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much. I’ve always wanted to be an artist or animator, but I always thought i will never good enough. And because of this, I kept telling myself I don’t know what I want to do when I’m older. Even though I know that’s a lie.

  • @sadaqnur2651
    @sadaqnur2651 4 роки тому +4

    i'm 18. just finished high school and don't know what to take in college

  • @startrekgirl4245
    @startrekgirl4245 3 роки тому +9

    I'm still in college now and I'm getting a degree in supply chain management. I think my major is kind of interesting but I'm not sure I want to work in the field as a career. Part of the problem for me with choosing a career is having to start over or getting a master's degree. I live in the US so college is expensive and I'm going to have student loans. I don't want to go to grad school for something else and realize I don't like the choice I made and end up having extra loans.

  • @Alex-xk8cf
    @Alex-xk8cf 3 роки тому +2

    What if you want to go into business but don’t know what business you want to start

  • @alexisrobinette5519
    @alexisrobinette5519 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your video. I am currently active duty military for 6 more years by contract so that is one thing that’s holding me back in making a career change but trying to figure out what i want to do for my career change is where i am struggling. I am very creative. For example, i just planned and DIY majority of my wedding in a matter of 3 months. All the decor, floral (bouquets, boutonnières, centerpieces, and extras), everything, with the exception of the venue, food, and photography. But i really enjoyed the planning and creating my vision of my wedding, i also love photography and so does my husband but we are both just starting so we thought about me doing event planning, floral services with sola wood flowers, and photography together but I’m scared it wont meet our financial needs once i get out of the military as we currently have 3 kids and wanting more in a few years. Which makes me want to go to school for a bachelors degree as a fall back option. That part is the part I’m struggling on. I’m the kind of person that needs a backup option but nothing degree wise really interests me. How can I overcome this obstacle and figure out a plan for myself?

  • @CareBearKim
    @CareBearKim 3 роки тому +12

    What if you don’t really have a career you want you just want excessive financial stability for you and your family

  • @DaraKFulton
    @DaraKFulton 5 років тому +15

    Thank you for this video lady!! Love your tips and advice !❤

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching and commenting. Hope you get clear on what you'd like to do next xoxo

  • @ilivemylifeforthestarsthat3140
    @ilivemylifeforthestarsthat3140 4 роки тому +7

    I feel like I don’t want to be stuck in a office or hospital or building etc. , what are the best jobs where you get to travel the world?

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi Carmen, thank you for your comment. Because of the pandemic, many companies are either outsourcing or going remote. Now, you have several opportunities to work from your laptop with more freedom to travel. There are several fields online now such as marketing, copywriting, content creating, travel writing, engineering, coding, graphic design, virtual assistant, and many more. Wishing you the best and good luck with your job search xx

    • @velvetstorm4563
      @velvetstorm4563 4 роки тому +1

      Well you can be a flight attendant. You'd get tickets and discounts on airfare. But now isn't a good time for that since airlines aren't making enough money because of covid.

    • @velvetstorm4563
      @velvetstorm4563 4 роки тому +1

      I was thinking of being a flight attendant in the future if I didn't figure out what I want to do career wise.

  • @hoopla3871
    @hoopla3871 4 роки тому +13

    I'm seventeen now , when I was in my 8th grade I wanted to become a doctor. And this interest faded away when I was in 9th thinking about the syllabus and the busy schedules one will have taking Mbbs. And now I'm in 11th std I'm just so confused! ! One month ago I was again thinking about Mbbs and it again faded away coz of the same reason syllabus and busy schedules . And last week i was thinking about of become an electrical engineer again I lost interest in it again of the syllabus (I like physics a lot but still im afraid of studying physics). CAN ANYONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT OF THIS.... I'm fed up of this

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi, thank you for your comment. It sounds like you really enjoy the STEM field but are worried about the syllabus. Perhaps, you are concerned about your productivity and motivation levels at completing the level of required course work. But you might surprise yourself when you take the classes. The innate passion is certainly there and might give you the motivation you need to succeed. Wishing you the best xxx

    • @hoopla3871
      @hoopla3871 4 роки тому +1

      @@thejoyrandolphshow Thank you sister!!! Your words really gave me a good vibe.. Hope I'll be able to figure out asap😪😪!!!!!

  • @oliviachanea4550
    @oliviachanea4550 3 роки тому +2

    I definitely needed to hear this... thank you for this video

  • @elvenaubade
    @elvenaubade 3 роки тому +4

    I've been freaking out recently because I'm about to finish medical school and realized I only did it to appease my parents (your know, BIPOC eldest daughter syndrome) but I don't want to live my life miserable! I really want to do something I'm passionate about but everything feels so lackluster :(

  • @bhargaviks1139
    @bhargaviks1139 4 роки тому +4

    My god your voice gives me joy...No wonder your name is joy u have a apt name...Love to hear ur voice 😌

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +2

      Hi Bhargavi, that is incredibly sweet. Thank you so much, and thank you for your support. I greatly appreciate it xxx

  • @lightieee5020
    @lightieee5020 3 роки тому

    I wanna be a volleyball player/singer/voice actress and model. It’s really frustrating choosing one out of all the other things. I wanna do it all at once!

  • @fatimouattara2120
    @fatimouattara2120 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this video 👏🏾

  • @justinebourke2811
    @justinebourke2811 3 роки тому +1

    I wish I could just live offgrid in the wilderness and focus soley on self sufficiency and surviving off the land..then any free time would be spent ginding ways to create little luxuries and learning about all the plants and natural things I find and what their properties and uses are. I would never worry about a lousy career plan again 😊

  • @rachellebarrera9648
    @rachellebarrera9648 3 роки тому +1

    im 17 currently a High School Junior and i still dont know what i wanna do all i want i dont what i wanna i was thinking about art but im not sure if i wanna pursue it

  • @user-hs7wk7bn3g
    @user-hs7wk7bn3g 4 роки тому +27

    I’m currently doing a business course in college because my parents wanted me to choose business even though I don’t like it and find it extremely boring but I don’t want to let them down. I feel so trapped. I want to make my parents happy but in return I won’t be happy myself, I don’t even know what career I want. 😞

    • @uwupatricia3302
      @uwupatricia3302 4 роки тому +1

      Dont worry!! I’ve seen people say this like they dont like this career their taking but, try to find ways that make this career path enjoyable to you..If not then.. im not sire

    • @nadzy.13
      @nadzy.13 4 роки тому +6

      Hiii I think we're in a similar situation. My parents want me to become a doctor so I decided to just pursue it because I don't really know what I want :( I can't picture myself in any jobs 😞

  • @chelseamarieirisharagones934
    @chelseamarieirisharagones934 3 роки тому +5

    I want to become a pediatrician, I love kids and even love to cure them, but I'm scared with emergencies. I want to become a lawyer because I want to become the voice of the voiceless. I want everything to become balance. I hate lies. I want to become a lawyer but I'm not good at debating. I'm afraid in public speaking. I want to become a photographer but I want more or anything higher :( and lastly, I WANT TO BECOME A MODELLL, BUT HOWWWW? :((( please help me 🥺

  • @ArabellaCharm
    @ArabellaCharm 2 роки тому +1

    You're so pretty!

  • @bangpinkfamily711
    @bangpinkfamily711 4 роки тому +35

    Rn I'm 13, I want to be a doctor but I'm scared and IDK why, I also want to be a model but I feel insecure about my self, my father want me to be a lawyer but I feel I can't do it and I feel it's really hard, I have so many interested in life but idk which of those are for me and I'm very very lazy, I feel jealous when my friends know what they want to do in the future, sometimes I feel like I wish I was them and anything I don't even know what I'm good at, it feels like I don't have a purpose.... Idk anymore help me...

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +5

      Hello, welcome to this channel. 13 :) Wow, you're thinking about your career so early. There's so much in what you've said. Stay tuned for future videos as I'll be addressing what to do about limiting beliefs about what you fear you can't do and also negative thoughts you have about yourself like you feel very very lazy.
      There's power in our words. And to break the chains, the first step is to talk more positively about yourself. Stay tuned to my UA-cam channel or google videos on limiting beliefs and positive affirmations - they could be helpful right now

    • @BriW3
      @BriW3 4 роки тому +4

      You’re so young. I literally can relate to you tho. My father also wanted me to be a lawyer. I wanted to pursue the medical field and be a model so I can see what you mean by all of this.. wow

    • @nezuko_3d
      @nezuko_3d 3 роки тому

      I'm like u but I'm 15, and i still don't know exactly what i want i really want to develop myself but I don't know wich career should I choose i tried many things like programming but i liked it just in the beginning I'm easily getting bored and I'm always looking for something new I just want to carry on a specific career

  • @caitlinmurphy3039
    @caitlinmurphy3039 3 роки тому

    Thank you!!! xx

  • @caitlinfessler3909
    @caitlinfessler3909 3 роки тому +1

    I really have no idea...I like the sound of some things like set production design but it’s too much of a commitment for me. I want to study something that with secure me a job or just to have something to fall on. And change career when I really know. What things can you study that are the most useful?

  • @winnieboateng5334
    @winnieboateng5334 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much Sis🙇🏾‍♀️I needed this.

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi Winnie, thank you for your support, and I'm so grateful to learn you enjoyed the video. Wishing you the best x

  • @adrynahscott4327
    @adrynahscott4327 3 роки тому +2

    I really want to one day own my own business,but I have no idea what kind of business to make.

  • @Stellarose168
    @Stellarose168 3 роки тому

    Love love love this video ❤️Thank u so much!

  • @tharpeaddy
    @tharpeaddy 4 роки тому +1

    Your skin is so pretty. I want it!

  • @selinapoochie
    @selinapoochie 3 роки тому +1

    I know I like to be helpful to people, but currently as a physical therapist I keep on Getting hung up on any mistakes I do because I'm dealing with health and I can't get over rude people's remarks. I don't know how I'm going to live like this forever

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  3 роки тому

      You can be absorbed by your feeling of failure or you can see this as opportunity to learn how to grow stronger in spite of the remarks you get. No successful person on earth got there without rude remarks or a ton of failures. Most people make it mean they can’t do it. Successful don’t let their failures or criticism mean anything negative about them or their potential

  • @SD-qb6ft
    @SD-qb6ft 4 роки тому +1

    i dont know if i want to be a teacher, a nurse, a social worker, a finance but I hate studying science so I really don't know but I'm leaning towards an English teacher but idk

  • @earthlynubian7650
    @earthlynubian7650 4 роки тому +6

    27 cant figure out what I want to major in so I put school on hold.

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi, thank you for your comment and for watching. It can be really overwhelming and difficult to know what path to choose. You're not alone. Try watching this video of mine for extra inspiration ua-cam.com/video/0WmyrnZcTDI/v-deo.html Please let me know what content you would like to see from me that might help you? Wishing you the best xxx

  • @Prettygirlblessed
    @Prettygirlblessed 2 роки тому

    I’m number two and I think it’s because I get into things and it can get to a fork in the road and I stop also alot of times I stop to soon I need to push through

  • @muskan8542
    @muskan8542 3 роки тому

    Such an insightful video👍

  • @marjelynmarquises2140
    @marjelynmarquises2140 3 роки тому +1

    Good advice sis 😘

  • @mayaaaa222
    @mayaaaa222 4 роки тому +7

    Currently I am 13, I want to be either a model or doctor I am just so confuse and idk what I want to do.

    • @clkoenig9716
      @clkoenig9716 4 роки тому +3

      Become a part-time model while studying to become a doctor

    • @rperry5936
      @rperry5936 4 роки тому

      I’m 23 and I still struggle whether to do something that really helps the world, or something more creative that I have passion for. It’s a struggle.

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi Mia, it's common to feel lost on the career you want. Sometimes it can be helpful to emerge yourself in that field through volunteering at a hospital or going to casting calls to see what lights you up and brings you the most joy. I hope you have received some clarity since you posted the comment. Wishing you all the best xxx

  • @bridgetbanx3689
    @bridgetbanx3689 3 роки тому +1

    Now there is me who is not inspired by anyone but wants to mke money not even knowing what carriers I want I think am in my own wold🥵🥵

  • @jakeobbrown4743
    @jakeobbrown4743 3 роки тому +1

    I'm 26 single father of a 3 year old beautiful girl and I need a job but don't have a ride anywhere I don't know anybody to help me I barely have any family left. I'm LITTERALY stuck and don't know what to do on top of that I'm very antisocial what do I do...

  • @priyapadayachee5796
    @priyapadayachee5796 3 роки тому +1

    I’m 16 but I want a career in the government or international relations. Either a foreign service officer or an international aid worker. But I don’t know how to get there, what steps should I take?

  • @alicesierra8805
    @alicesierra8805 4 роки тому +1

    This is so good thank you so much!

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi Alice, you're welcome. Thank you for commenting, and I'm happy you found the video helpful. Wishing you the best x

  • @yogasena_1701
    @yogasena_1701 3 роки тому

    I dont know what to choose, my career and business...im doing both at the same time..

  • @terrific2540
    @terrific2540 4 роки тому +2

    You just opened my eyes..lol..thanks

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Yvonne, I'm grateful to know the video resonated with you. Thank you for your support. Wishing you the best xxx

    • @terrific2540
      @terrific2540 4 роки тому

      @@thejoyrandolphshow thank you💓

  • @kalpic11
    @kalpic11 4 роки тому

    Very helpful!

  • @Akira_Stories
    @Akira_Stories 4 роки тому +4

    I want to become an animator but my mom said I need another job and that's something I should do on the side so I'm trying to figure out what I wanna do ;-;

    • @mattcarson3365
      @mattcarson3365 3 роки тому

      Be an animator! There are jobs with successful companies and you can have an incredibly enjoyable career. My issue is that I have never really been passionate about anything, if you're passionate and interested definitely give it a go. With animation you will also learn software tools which is hugely transferable. If it's a massive issue with your family, maybe look at FrontEnd or UX/UI development, this will give you coding skills and excellent career path which will take you into animation if you decide to pursue it later in life.

  • @joshvar
    @joshvar 2 роки тому

    I’m currently in the IT FIELD and honestly as abnormal as it sounds, the field is not for me, I’m looking for a career that’s a lot more hands on without anything white collar desk related.

  • @afterglcw5050
    @afterglcw5050 3 роки тому

    im currently a sophomore in college and i’ve done a couple general courses under science, pharmaceuticals, and biology stuff, i’m aiming somewhat to become a doctor or pharmacist or something of that sort. but being a tattoo artist really interests me. but i don’t know if it’s steady at all and my family would disapprove of myself having tats. and it’s not anything any of my cousins are doing. but i don’t know why i don’t really have a drive to actually become a computer scientist or doctor like everyone else. maybe it’s the past years of not being around other motivated people

  • @anjukashyap1696
    @anjukashyap1696 2 роки тому

    You are so beautiful😍 sis and your smile 👌always stay beautiful God bless ❤

  • @yolandimare1
    @yolandimare1 3 роки тому +1

    Here's a trick: Look around your room. What books do you have? What topics keep repeating. Those are the things you are drawn to.

  • @skylark4736
    @skylark4736 3 роки тому

    This helped a lot! Thank You! 💗🙏

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  3 роки тому +1

      Hi Sky, I am so happy to hear this video helped you. Wishing you the best xxx

  • @nancysalinas4364
    @nancysalinas4364 4 роки тому +3

    Hey I’m a 20 year old mom my daughter will be 3 soon I don’t know what I want to do I’m really stuck I want to do something that I will make good money and be able to support my family stable I haave been on my own since I was 16 I don’t know very much about anything I graduated high school but I don’t know what I want to study but I want to start like next month as soon as possible I’m stuck between esthetics and nail esthetics or a photographer I’m really good at getting super beautiful pictures. I’m scared if I do esthetics I won’t make good money or if I do nails I won’t be a “great “ nail artist.. etc please help me what do I do?

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Worry not about IF you'll be great... or if you'll make "GOOD" money.
      Good money comes when you're great at something. And you become great at something that you're obsessed with and really enjoy doing, learning and becoming excellent at it.
      So explore which thing gives makes you feel alive and full of joy. The more obsessed you are, the more likely you are to be on the right path

  • @sivadilip97
    @sivadilip97 4 роки тому

    I want tp become software developer
    But dont know how to code what's the solution

  • @your_purple_soul
    @your_purple_soul 4 роки тому +1

    Awesome video

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi, thank you for your support and I am so happy you enjoyed the video xxx

  • @homeb_ouy5510
    @homeb_ouy5510 3 роки тому

    As for me, every just doesn't feel right..I don't know where I belong.😥😥😥

  • @QTalent100
    @QTalent100 4 роки тому

    Great video very positive

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  3 роки тому +1

      Hi Q, thank you for your comment. I'm happy you like the video. Wishing you the best xxx

  • @michellemarie1197
    @michellemarie1197 4 роки тому +4

    Everyone wants to be an entrepreneur and professional youtuber....

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Michelle, yes many people do. Wishing you the best in your dream job xx

  • @Queens538
    @Queens538 4 роки тому +4

    My struggle is I don’t have no qualifications so it going to be hard to get a degree .😕

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi Danie, thank you for your comment. I am so sorry to hear you're feeling low about your future. You don't often need any qualifications to receive a degree. Universities typically ask for a high school diploma and others, such as community colleges, are easier to receive a degree. You have options. Stay strong. Wishing you the best xxx

  • @sylviasalim5775
    @sylviasalim5775 4 роки тому +1

    Yushh now I know what career I can have thank you! ❤️❤️

  • @marielfrancisco7465
    @marielfrancisco7465 3 роки тому

    Hi im actually into baking and art but im being practical than being passionate about what I really wanted I havent told this to my parents and Im just having what if's like what if we cant afford if I take fine arts since the schools here are very expensive and the materials I needed should be also provide by myself so I was wondering if I cant take fine arts then what should I get as a course then?? I also wanted to try pyschology but im actually not good at memorizing things like terms or words and I hate Science but im kinda good at math and I actually wanted to be a fashion designer, business woman, artist, a commercial model, video editor and a baker at the same time I dont know what to do anymore😭

  • @riaab24
    @riaab24 4 роки тому

    I always wanted to be a lawyer, but now looking at the life style such as staying on the phone with someone, listening to peoples problems, idk the routine and lifestyle isn’t for me although I do love what a lawyer is.

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Ria, thank you for your comment and for your support. If you still love what a lawyer represents and the idea of being one, it might be worth looking more into the career or speaking to a lawyer to gain their perspective. Try watching this video of mine for some inspiration ua-cam.com/video/0WmyrnZcTDI/v-deo.html Wishing you the best xxx

  • @daisysaxby4238
    @daisysaxby4238 3 роки тому +2

    Hi, chelsea is actually my favourite football club! im 14 and i was wondering if a career in womens football is worth it and is it sustainable? Also is it do-able?

    • @yolandimare1
      @yolandimare1 3 роки тому

      Hi Daisy. You wil actually have to go talk to some of these football players. Ask them some questions about the career.

  • @kemmyexists
    @kemmyexists 4 роки тому

    I'm 17 and I dont rlly know what o wanna do

  • @demsiary
    @demsiary 4 роки тому

    this helped me thank u so much :(

  • @King-rv4fz
    @King-rv4fz 3 роки тому

    Uh is this only for girls because I need help to.

  • @malva6176
    @malva6176 4 роки тому

    I’m not sure what to do, sociology or speech pathologist.. I just want something that has more advantages and has more opportunities

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi M, thank you for your comment and for your support. It can be difficult to find out what career path to choose. Keep researching, and looking. You'll find your answer soon. Try this video for additional help ua-cam.com/video/c0_YNHDauDE/v-deo.html Wishing you the best xxx

  • @albertparish1729
    @albertparish1729 4 роки тому +5

    I feel like I can hear a bit of British in your accent. I might be completely wrong but I'm interested. Do you spend a lot of time in the UK? lol random question ik but I really feel like I can hear a little British🤔

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +10

      Ha. Not random at all. I live in England... but my accent is confusing because I wasn't born in England.
      English wasn’t my first language. I was born in Lesotho and spoke an African language.
      When my family moved and I went to international schools in Ghana and Cambodia and needed to learn English to attend school.
      I first learned English from American teachers at American International schools in Africa and Asia. That’s where I developed an American accent.
      Later on in my childhood, I moved to England and learned English English.
      Hence why my accent is mixed. That’s why I have what I call a “confused accent” 😂

    • @albertparish1729
      @albertparish1729 4 роки тому +2

      @@thejoyrandolphshow Ah yes that does explain your accent. You have a very interesting story!
      I'm half French and Half English and French was my first language. I grew up in Egypt for my first 10 years and started school in a British international school and Malaysia for a couple years in another international school so in the UK (where I live now) people don't notice that I have a particularly different accent from most but they're completely ubable to pinpoint the area of the UK that I'm from since my accent basically comes from hanging out with kids from all over the world.

  • @vivianahernandez6335
    @vivianahernandez6335 4 роки тому

    I need help ...I’m 16 and a junior in high school taking college classes, but I am not sure what career I want to pursue at first I wanted to become a lawyer but the college I go to doesn’t have a degree on it so they told me I had two choices either find something related to the career so I could have a associate degree related to law and continue to a law school and finish becoming a lawyer or find something different from law and still get a associate degree in a different pathway and use it as plan B and later on go to a university or law school to be a lawyer ... but I don’t know if I should actually even be a lawyer since I’m afraid of losing a case and having that guilt and being a failure....what advice can you give me? and what do you think I should do?

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Viviana, thank you for your comment. You certainly could continue to pursue law after receiving your associates degree. If the only reason you don't want to pursue law is the fear of failure, then you should still pursue law. No matter what field we pursue in life we will have to face failure at some point. Failure provides many benefits such as increased growth, experience and knowledge. If you lose a case, you will have a better skillset to face the next case, and win 10 more. Spend some time in a quiet place to reflect, listen to your intuition and receive clarity. Stay strong. Wishing you the best xxx

  • @akshitashukla7846
    @akshitashukla7846 4 роки тому

    I'll figure out what I want to do😊

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  3 роки тому

      Hi Akshita, I love your positivity and affirmation. You most certainly will. Wishing you the best xxx

  • @joycea3290
    @joycea3290 4 роки тому +1

    I feel I can't do it .

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Joyce, it sounds like you're going through a difficult time and questioning yourself and your capabilities. I know failure can feel intimidating and fearful but failure leads to growth. It is through failure that we become stronger, more resilient, and more adaptable. You are more than enough, and you can do it. This is your time to shine, to overcome the challenges, and to achieve the life you want. I believe in you. Take care, and wishing you the best xx

  • @ladythetruck733
    @ladythetruck733 2 роки тому +1

    It sucks when you drive trucks. I have no time for shit😔

  • @leroach1860
    @leroach1860 4 роки тому

    I am 15 a little late to get into things since I already chose between business and economics and physics and chemistry. I went with the scientific field because I guess it has a bigger field choice and if I go with science I can easily change back or take a course, unlike science which takes more time. Lmao adding on my parents kinda forced me into it. My mother always wanted me to become a surgeon like my father. Not forcing me here but she wants me to be like him. I mean I like surgery and all I don’t dislike it really, I just fear my whole life being just this. My father works a lot I mean yes it’s obvious but I don’t want to not have other time for side hobbies I am an artist and I need to work on commissions sometimes. Idk man this whole thing messes with my mind 😭

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому +1

      Hi, I'm sorry to hear you're struggling with what to choose. It seems you're trying to make yourself happy as well as your family. I completely understand. I hope you receive the clarity you're seeking. Remember it's never too late to change. Wishing you the best xxx

  • @oniekapeart9539
    @oniekapeart9539 3 роки тому

    Yes I want to make up mind at last omg

  • @joycea3290
    @joycea3290 4 роки тому

    I Joyce A-deg-bo-ye-ga am afraid of fail and impossible .

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi Joyce, I'm so sorry you're feeling low about yourself. Try not to fear failure. Failure is a step to success and is a learning opportunity. Check out this video of mine to learn how to overcome worry and fear of failure ua-cam.com/video/MsMSDhyPr2s/v-deo.html Wishing you the best xxx

  • @adilshah6664
    @adilshah6664 3 роки тому

    im starting to hate life lol. Once you graduate, that is where life becomes a pain (at least in my case)

  • @joycea3290
    @joycea3290 4 роки тому

    Joyce A-deg-bo-ye-ga feels that she is not good enough .

  • @deebee3491
    @deebee3491 4 роки тому

    Thank you love

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      You're welcome. Thank you for your support and happy to know you enjoyed the video xxx

  • @the12hourfamilygang94
    @the12hourfamilygang94 4 роки тому +4

    At this point of my life😂i don't even know what i want to do or if i want to
    I was planning on committing a crime and living in jail with free supplies until i figure it out😂😂😂
    So im really grateful for this video💕

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi Tania, thank you for your comment. I'm grateful you're grateful for this video and found it helpful. It can be quite a challenge to discover what path to take. Check out this video of mine to receive a different perspective ua-cam.com/video/Rskwct8hfg0/v-deo.html Wishing you the best xx

  • @ravikiransiddi8876
    @ravikiransiddi8876 3 роки тому

    Wooooow

  • @-.-7675
    @-.-7675 3 роки тому

    Why im afraid of a 1 year deadline huh? Cuz fucking capitalism will make me live on the streets

  • @Torquetrr1
    @Torquetrr1 4 роки тому

    Ha ha am a boy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @CALILIFE8251
    @CALILIFE8251 4 роки тому +2

    Man I got my cdl 4 months ago but can’t get a dam job I regret becoming a truck driver now I want another career but don’t know which one to pick even if I did I ain’t got no money. Life is really hard without money I blame my parents for bringing me to this world bringing me into this competition that I didn’t ask to be in I probably sound stupid asf but I just wanted to share my feelings

    • @thejoyrandolphshow
      @thejoyrandolphshow  4 роки тому

      Hi, thank you for your comment. I'm so sorry to hear you're experiencing a difficult time through the pandemic. Don't regret becoming a truck driver. Your job is out there. Try watching my other videos for a different perspective ua-cam.com/video/mLrdV4wyi9M/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/LoNfs2gUln8/v-deo.html