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LoveAllah328 what about if the wife is the breadwinner of the family? She comes home, expected to cook, clean, pay bills and not even feel appreciated.
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Aairah Ahmad fear nothing which make you strong enough to fight and put your life down if it needs to be. Fear god? Love god but actions in fear are irrational.
Dear sister most of the marriages are breaking up now a days bcoz of lack of islamic knowledge from both side husband & wife. Hence I would like to suggest please know the rights of a husband WRT to his wife and act accordingly inshaallah ur married life will b very happy
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
We are failing to teach our younger generation that Marriage is Not something you take From but something you put Into. Marriage is Not about the individual desires but the joint production of some greater good. We also need to tell them that the ardour of those first years wanes leaving married couples as sexless partners beginning as early as their 50-s and often lasting until a partner passes. This is just the way it goes with aging Humans.
So it’s a woman’s duty to make sure her husband maintains his morality because “men are born this way by design”. When will the men stand up and take personal responsibility for their own behaviors and conduct. The bar has got to be higher than this
No its not a woman's duty and it is neither mentioned.. When married its duty of both man and woman to maintain each others morality.. Thats what he is trying to say
You missed the point. He’s saying that it’s is very hard for men to control themselves. Their weakness is women. So instead of the wife to keep nagging and lecturing him, she can help him get better. Isn’t this part of marriage? Trying to make each other better
the whole idea of this video is not to place burdens and hold spouses accountable for each other. it’s to understand there are are weaknesses and obstacles in marriage and to help one another by showing mercy and guiding each other. jumping to conclusions and spreading a faulty message to people is only going to make things worse. take the time to actually comprehend what the brothers claim is.
Men are super difficult..they are over complicated over sensitive..they go out to work and see skinny legs come home and see wife exhausted looking after his many kids.. she's not enough..for some men nothing is enough because they lack practical reasoning common sense understanding ..it's the mens ability to bring the best out in his wife will make him a men to be treasured in the hearts of a woman which is deep as oceans..Men are lost souls in so many ways they are always searching for something they often don't even know...we woman did not come to full fill all their hopes dreams and desires...we also have our own minds are capable of our thoughts hopes dreams.allah has given women the ability to bring another human beings to earth what a gift Allah has given us not because we are difficult or weak rather we have hidden strength and if men give us more respect..to our opinion needs and understanding..they would feel the blessings of peace all that comes with...
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
@@athreephanx6956 Religion has nothing to do with it, In religion Men have found perfect excuse for lack of understanding to blame women for their short comings. Women are not here on earth, To Be All that makes man happy. Happiness is your to find first than share it. In Qur'an didn't Allah compared The Sun to yousuf dream eleven stars The Sun The Moon. The sun being his dad moon his mum. The suns light is shared with the moon. Share your light with love. And you will see.
Idk my grandparents love eachother deeply like it is the first day now for 49 years . My grandma says she keeps the relationship new so that my grand dad will want her more each day
INSHALLAH i love my future wife and i will try to full fill all his needs i will try my best to become best muslim..,bcz our prophet says "The best among you is the best towards his wife".
Wives are not cats or house pets ,they are human beings equal with man , they deserve respect . There is no love if there is no respect to begin relationship .
I totally agree i was a good wife silenced myself for over 21 years of marriage my husband took full advantage over me abused me physically mentally emotionally now i decided to speak out it brought alot of changes when i spoke out and reported the matter to the police and gota protection order so silence works for some vut for me it didnt so i had to help myself
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
When I was 14 I looked at marriage in completely different way than now. I believe it's important to educate children about it and once they possess good knowledge about marriage they can grow up with the right qualities and get amazing spouses :)
You’re right. You have to watch even you are 14. In Islam when you are 15 you are considered as a major. Let’s me give you some advice. Don’t think that you’re still young. You must change your thinking and consider yourself as a major and intelligent person.
Oh, so the fake silence to manipulate the wife? The Prophet[saw] used to make a point of walking in and SMILING at his wife. amazing, he took the responsibility on himself. [saw].
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I'm really finding this Sheikh contradicting himself. Why does everything have to fall upon the women. i don't understand why do men have the right to look at other women but women don't have that right, Not that I would want to. But honestly, this sheikh is very traditional. The women in my family go to work too not just the "men." So men expect the women to go to work -come home and cook while the men come home and sit and chill and don't worry about anything. Happens in my household. Speaking facts. It honestly should be shared. What if god forbid your wife passes away? I will be teaching my sons inshallah to cook and help their wife in the kitchen its not just a woman's job but its a basic human skill . Men need to grow up and not be soo needy and stop treating their wife like a slave and stop checking out other girls at work and come home and not give attention or affection to their wife. That's just so wrong and this "scholar" saying that its in mens nature is totally wrong. I don't accept to believe this as if women can control their urges so can men. They need to be equally as respectful to their spouse.
I agree with the all the comments above! I also want to add that I am very logical even through I am emotional and that must bother men because they don’t expect women to be so in tune with reality. Giving a silence treatment is something I resent the most in an argument because why should I be apologising for something I didn’t even do? I mean where is the “reason” in that? I argue for the purpose of establishing the truth and resolving an issue. Silence and ignoring just postpones the issues and leads to resentment. Give me a man who will argue over the one who will give me silence and I will be grateful ten times over because this person actually cares enough to have a discussion or an argument and get to the bottom of things. Men don’t understand how important clarity is to women. Wallahi I am not even scared of my man cheating on me as much as I am scared of never finding out and being denied a choice to find a man who will respect me. This video has made me feel like “less” compared to a man which is not the way I believe Allah has intended. We were made in pairs, we are compatible and with good conversations and respect and love for Allah, we can lift each other up and be best friends even in times of weakness. Men who act in this childish manner need to learn how to communicate and express themselves and need to put their wives on the same level as themselves instead of a machine to birth them children, give them sex whenever they please and clean up and cook every day. We don’t mind doing all of the above, but you got to earn it. Nobody wants to be intimate with a man who comes home annoyed and can’t even lower his gaze. That’s not a man that’s a boy and boys have no business getting married.
Teuta Knezevic I’m a Muslim guy, I cannot help but agree with every single thing you said. This is so true and this is very prominent in several households. Whenever I mention to some of my close friends that even if I’m not vocal, i believe in women empowerment, they’ll kinda make fun of me. Islam doesn’t teach us that the man comes home from work and chills and watches tv or whatever else while the wife cooks, watches the baby and feeds him/her, and does the house chores. It’s a shared responsibility, everything is shared, because they are sharing a life together! Men take this for granted at times, men take women for granted, Allah SWT has given women mental strength like no other.. it’s only our duty to be more diligent. Respect for your post 🙏🏾
Came here to say that too... I literally couldn't believe that he was advocating the silent treatment. Basically make the woman feel guilty for her actions.
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The truth is, she builds just as much resentment because she’s so bored doing domestic chores and changing diapers and having kids cry and tug on her all day while he’s at work with women smiling at him, and women well-dressed, hair and nails done, wearing heels on the train for his itchy gaze. He comes home and he wants her to act like these women who have smiled at him, but he doesn’t come home to smile at her, or build her up any more. He doesn’t care what she’s been through all day-heck, he doesn’t even want to know those things cause they bore him to death too! If she mentions the bathroom faucet is leaking he tunes her out because he dealt with enough problems at work and he doesn’t need more at home. She is so lonely, and losing more and more of herself every day. He gripes about dinner being late, or toys on the floor he stepped on barefooted, or the laundry not being ready. He’s mad that she’s not like the women at work. She really feels unappreciated now, and even oppressed. She receives no paycheck, no promotions, no slaps on the back from co-workers for a job well-done. There are no smiling men throughout her day. When she goes to bed-she’s exhausted and has absolutely no desire to be with her irritable husband who yelled at her and griped about her throughout the evening. He’s angry that she tenses up when he reaches for her, says she’s frigid, or holding out on him cause she’s “sulking.” But, in fact, he treats the women at work and on the train far better than her. She feels lost and alone and trapped. Invisible. Dead. She’s miserable. But he doesn’t care at all-he needs sex, dammit! He doesn’t want to hear that she’s feeling unappreciated and put down and unloved. So she withdraws into her black, silent world of enduring her crappy life....while he goes and finds another younger wife or mistress and blames it all on her for not smiling at him enough and giving him enough great, hot sex. He’s clueless that he actually molded her into the wife she has become. Their love died a slow and painful death. But he gets to replace her easily enough. She does not have that option. While he’s out laughing and making out with his new love interest who makes him feel like the greatest guy on earth by her smiles and wiles, he’s blissfully unaware that she’s home looking at a bottle of sleeping pills. Thankfully, the baby cries and the 4-year-old needs an asthma treatment so she gets up to carry on doing the work expected of her...the thankless work that never ends, and is comprehended by none, save her and God alone. The moment both children see her, precious goofy grins fill their sweet little faces and joy bursts inside her as her own smile cannot be contained. They reach for each other and enfold themselves together in a tight embrace of the purest of all loves.
I’m sorry to anyone that experiences this but never accept pure misery and resentment empathy,wisdom i.e emotional intelligence with some forebearance can nip this in the bud.Before it becomes entrenched inshaa’Allah.May Allah keep the Muslim spouses together ameen.
I don't know why all these hadith are all about how wife should treat their husband!!! Talk about how husbands should treat their wife too. We r human too we do more than mens do we need more attention than the egos they give us thinking oh I'm a husband you should respect me what no we r all humans there should be equality in everything!!!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Inshallah 1 day I’ll get married to a wife who fears Allah(swt), and base our love upon Islam!! Inshallah I’ll get a wife that will be permanent and enter paradise together and love eachother for eternity!! That’s real love❤️
Simple rules that will save you. Marry someone with same values and you will get a long way. Marry someone who belive in the same things as you and follow tips given in this video. Main points for happy marriage is to talk to eachother, communicate, respect each other and be kind to eachother. Say sorry alot if you do wrong. Insha Allah you will stay happy in this life and next.
ApolloBSG the response by Hafis A was based on a husband applying what the video advised. One who causes pain is far from Allah and that would be a different video.
it all starts with respect, value and care for each other IN BOTH PARTIES, love is the end result of all the hard work, if the tree cannot stand how can the fruit be born
If people interfere then chances are you'll get a Witch with a Capital B seriously don't let any1 interfere marry by knowing exactly who and what you are marrying?
study about woman nature & marriages then revise with her! she don't like GIVE HER UP! & study man nature to understand yourself better than what you know now!
I know men that lower their gaze they arent even married but they do. Ive met women that wont lower their gaze and others like myself who find it quite easy. I understand that men are different and the desires are different and their weakness is women, but Allah has never instructed anything that we can't handle or find impossible. Men should be lowering their gaze and trying hard for Allah first and then their wives. Its possible of course.
A smile for the husband doesn’t even work. Not even salam alaikum doesn’t work for the husband- we’ll probably for some If you have a incompatible marriage what are you supposed to do.
@@SaniWaniPlayz haram to date doesnt mean when a man is interested in you he cannot make a proposal to you parents, spending time to get to know each other is recommended under supervision of mahram, its the rest of your life if you believe Islam has your best interest at heart think about it why would Islam tell us to marry someone we dont know?
Each culture is different , that little time spent to get to know each other doesn’t mean nothing because people tend to be really fake just to get on the good list they can be charming and romantic everything you could wish for and after a few months or years you see the real side of the person and it’s not soo charming as once thought.
@@SaniWaniPlayz ur brainwashed by western media. u need to forget about marriage my boy :D. learn islam first then think about marraige. ur not ready for it
I wish it was that simple ... a smile does go long way and it can make the relationship even more stronger . Alhamduillah I did everything I can accordingly our Islam. He’s had a hard day at work and he’s stressed out but when he came home I would always greet him with a smile and dinner on the table ... I let him relax and have his ‘me’ time yet it wasn’t enough ... he was a person of drugs and paranoia and beating me up all the time .... sometimes you can do everything but it’s still not enough !!! That’s the reality
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
I love this channel but this video upsets me.. it's just as equally important for husbands to also show mercy and love to their wives by smiling at their wives when they come home. Also silence is NOT always the best answer when the wife asks what's wrong especially when that silence is accompanied by a stony gaze or a look of contempt. It's very stressful for the wife to keep guessing what she did wrong. Let both sides communicate and show mercy and love to each other. Thanks.
Do you women ever get happier? He did ask men to remain silent at the time of an argument so things wouldn't get escalated. Please stop with this men vs women nonsense. It was a great speech, a lesson for men.
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Isn't it strange, how the wife is expected to be the one who always takes the first step? So many husband's now frown and look at their wives as though they are something that squished under their shoe... yet she can make that all go away by beaming and breezing in ...and ignoring her day which may have been intensely lonely, hard work, and she may have missed him so much, yet - he has a frown, or ignores her when he walks through the door. =/
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
@al-Haifawi Assalamu alaykom wa rahma'tullah wa barakatu, it is not my marriage alone, it is witenssing all the hallmarks of naricisistic abuse in household after household. My own husband has walked me through everything, I am usually a bright and smiling person, now, I save those smiles almost as a protective armour, and my husband is confused. He has thrown all sorts of games, but I smile anyway, the sad thing is, I can smile because I no longer care a whit about him. Isn't that too sad? Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. I treat hi with kindness, respect, am cheerful and he is perplexed, I used to smile, only to see him act up until my smiles were no more, then he would smile broadly and be happy. Some men really are psychopaths or narcissists, and we should be careful to distinguish normal behaviour from calculated behaviour. What Nouman Ali ///khan is describing is cold calculated and has no basis in an honest and loving marriage. Allahu Alim.
@@amigaamigo5307 what does that mean to you? That she is not worthy of being treated well? If that is what you think then quite honestly you are missing out an enormous amaount of the seerah in order to justify bad treament.
When one have love for self they are none of what stated here people who love themselves never take another person for granted that true for man as it is for women.
Just because the wife doesn't smile at the husband or doesn't start a conversation it does not mean that the husband will get upset, some will and some won't. If I had a wife and she did... I won't get upset
I watched the video until 3:16 and want to make a comment, why would women justify men who dont lower their gaze if Allah told MEN and WOMEN to lower their gaze? I know women who wished they could have more than 1 husband, they also wish for handsome men in paradise. There are always exceptions, i think there are more women like that than we think, its just that women wish it secretely. There is also men whom 1 wife is enough for their life time as long as she's good to them. No good person can change a man or woman with perverted mindset, they are never gonna change if not with Allah's mercy.
As a women i can relate being a complicated creature. i can cry not because of him, but because of my own insecurities. I felt that i have tried my very best, give him everything of me to make him happy but STILL feel that i am not good enough for him. i feel frustrated with myself because i can't get any better for him. Eventhough i KNOW he does not think this way at all, but i have to fight with my low esteem everyday. Truth is, i am embarrassed with my low esteem, so i can't tell him what is wrong. So would just said 'nothing is wrong'. Truthfully, i think anyone would feel annoyed with me for whining about this,so i would rather not talk about it.
Assalamu aliakum sister if you are having hard times with your husband go and tell him what is wrong, it would be much better for you then being silent and hiding your anger but tell him in a good manner and plus nobody is feeling annoyed here i guess coz it is a public place and you said nothing wrong.
What about the women who walks with her husband and looks at other man and tries to hide it? And when they are leaving from that place she waves to that strangers?????
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Abdullah Rahmani I don’t believe this I thought it only men do this. I say if your not crazy and it’s true then say next!! Men can replace women easily and I say with a broken heart. Crazy crazy women are doing it too the end is near.
@@sarahwilson3804 truth is there is no specific gender are more to cheat. Woman cheats as much as men. If the heart is ugly and they dont have fear of God , anyone can cheat easily.
Every word is true here lots of things to learn for men and women. Super beneficial for ummah. Please adress more information how to be happy after marriage even though I am single 😊
Okay, so I'm 24 married to a Russian girl. MashAllah she converted herself to a Muslim. And we have a 4 months extremely gorgeous little baby daughter. I help her with almost everything, I'm honest to her, i buy her flowers basically I fulfill her every needs but my problem is she's extremely quiet all the time I know it's her personality but i do as a man needs to hear some words of love from her but i normally don't and it hurts a lot.. plus I'm in a foreign land , not a lot of Russian speaks English here so it just really painful everyday.
Give her time, maybe she’s shy or battling her own issues? Time will tell but I’m the meantime I hope Allah gives you ease and answers all your duas from Him Always try to remember that no human being’s love will compare to Allah’s love and when you establish a relationship with Him SWT (which I’m sure you have) you’ll see his love filling your heart and a journey with him where people and their affection will never match the love you get from Allah SWT
Ecstasy Craves expect good in every aspect of your life and trust that Allah will give you that good bro, you deserve to be happy and I know you’ll get that soon In’Shaa’Allah
I think the main reason is that most muslim people marry for the sake of their sexual desires or to leave home as soon as possible because of family issues or to get freedom. But getting married is not just to have halal sex and make children. There goes so much into it, above all being mentally prepared is so important but most people see marriage as a burden or escapism from doing haram things. They are not ready to spend a good life with someone and stay honest and loyal for the rest of their live. The social pressure gets so heavy on them that they just get married because everyone else is getting married. It's like their love stop at some point and just live for the sake of children and grandchildren. This says a lot about quality (love and care) over quantity (years of marriage). Maybe all this is the reason why I see that it's mostly non-muslim couples of old age more happier together than old muslim couples. They seem to be more honest, loving and caring towards each other regardless of their gender and they pass this teaching on to their children. And maybe thats why they can express their emotions and feelings better than what I have seen between muslim families and couples. But luckily I notice that it's changing, this generation is learning a lot of their elders and above all how to notice when their child is depressed, this is the most important thing which this modern generation understands and that's a good thing. Alhamdullilah.
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Women spend their days thinking of sex too you know. So if your wife refuses to sleep with you, it's either she's tired or you don't please her enough for it to be enjoyable for her. It's not only a man's need. Try to be more considerate of what your wife likes and doesn't and try to spruce it up a little too
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
.... then he keeps satisfying his temptations outside despite the smiles. That"s not always a matter of dissapointment. One who keeps satisfying his desires with other women, does the same repeatedly cheating the other with another. This goes on and on....
A L Shut up, you act like every single man is the same, we are humans and different.. Every person has his own soul, we are not victims this video is just recognizing the weakness we as men have. If i point out that i have an amputated leg and may run slower am i still the victim, or just pointing out what made me me?
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage." If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Smile of the wife is a pretty damn big deal when your husband comes in and immediately is an asshole and blames it on the wife not being nice no no no you are only blaming women it's not gonna fly with God spoiler alert
"But now you must put them all away from you: wrath, anger, badness, abusive speech, and obscene talk out of your mouth. Do not lie to one another. Strip off the old personality with its practices, and clothe yourselves with the new personality, which through accurate knowledge is being made new according to the image of the One who created it... " "Accordingly, as God’s chosen ones, holy and loved, clothe yourselves with the tender affections of compassion, kindness, humility, mildness, and patience. Continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely even if anyone has a cause for complaint against another. Just as Jehovah freely forgave you, you must also do the same. But besides all these things, clothe yourselves with love, for it is a perfect bond of union." - The Bible, Colossians 3: 12-14 (The Apostle Paul)
I understand it's hard for men to lower gaze. However, I smile everyone regardless of their age, gender, ethnicity etc. I believe it is also Sunnah. I ask people I know or don't know how they are with pure intentions. It's unfair to categorize every women in train stations as if they try to lure men with their smiling! Only Allah knows whose intentions are bad or good.
@@dlhussain81 Did Prophet smile at only men or also women too? If a man smiles at a woman and if woman gets bad ideas about it, would the man be sinned?
defesen the prophet never sinned. He never even touched a non mahram woman. Don’t get defensive sister, you should learn your sunnah from the mothers of the believers.
defesen you have to also remember not everything he did is meant for us as a sunnah. Eg we can’t marry 11 times. A sunnah is that which he commanded us to do. He could’ve smiled at women possibly but he instructed us not to even look at non mahram women
I married to a guy who's so kind nd gentle to me before marriage but after the few months of marriage he shows his true color.. He use to beat me.. Nd abuse me in every sentence of talk.. With very bad words.. Nw He dont show interest in me nd he didn't talk to me the way he use to talk to me before.. His behavior is totally changed towards me.. He beats me very badly.. Nw i hv a daughter who is just 1 year old. I don't want to give this typ of environment to my daughter.. i dont know wht to do.. Plz plz somebody sugges me wht shld i do...
mr speaker i respect you, surely you know more than me but you don't no my husband when i see him with smile he say get away from me, don't you have work to do nd im just cursing myself. so what are you gonna say about it 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁. lol for my eng.
zyan khan that’s why marry a person who fears Allah. Pls ask him very softly where things went wrong n how can it be fixed so that Allah gives barakah in this marriage and make this marriage half Iman n way for Jannah
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LoveAllah328 what about if the wife is the breadwinner of the family? She comes home, expected to cook, clean, pay bills and not even feel appreciated.
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Wow, great advice 👍 beutifull words ♥
Aairah Ahmad fear nothing which make you strong enough to fight and put your life down if it needs to be.
Fear god? Love god but actions in fear are irrational.
What does God fearing had to do with mistreating women. Women are born to be mistreated
Subhanallah.This is my say also.Thanks for telling my words.
crystal snow you wouldn’t be saying that if your daughter was mistreated by her husband. You sick fuck.
I'm Christian but I find this very smart and helpful 🙂
Yes is very helpful
I hope that my future husband will love me forever and because of iman and Allah ...ya rabb 😭
Future husband ko ghar par ane smile kr dena sab thik rahega fir
Dear sister most of the marriages are breaking up now a days bcoz of lack of islamic knowledge from both side husband & wife. Hence I would like to suggest please know the rights of a husband WRT to his wife and act accordingly inshaallah ur married life will b very happy
'Ya Allah, if i were to fall in love, let her be the one whose heart is attached to you.'
@@shaikhtayyab7231 I will do that insha'Allah 😂
@@morningmist3413 good girl
"There's no enough *salt* in here"
I see you're a man of culture as well
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
I love how you speak calm and with respect. may allah bless u
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
I agree, except for the part where pretty women in public are called horrible, and sad
Please start Allah's name with capital letters
Allahouma Ameen Wa Iyaki
Capital A for Allah (swt)!
Can we make billion views for islamic videos rather than music videos?
Cuz the views are the purpose of these videos
@@rakiabey553 deserves it!
May Allah Swt guide all of us towards right path
@@serventofAllah01 INSHAALLAH!
no
Ya Allah .. grant every Muslimah a virtuous husband 🌺
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Ameen
Wht a bout wife ? 😉😈
Allahumma ameen
We know he does not some men beat and abuse them.
We are failing to teach our younger generation that Marriage is Not something you take From but something you put Into. Marriage is Not about the individual desires but the joint production of some greater good. We also need to tell them that the ardour of those first years wanes leaving married couples as sexless partners beginning as early as their 50-s and often lasting until a partner passes. This is just the way it goes with aging Humans.
So it’s a woman’s duty to make sure her husband maintains his morality because “men are born this way by design”. When will the men stand up and take personal responsibility for their own behaviors and conduct. The bar has got to be higher than this
No its not a woman's duty and it is neither mentioned.. When married its duty of both man and woman to maintain each others morality.. Thats what he is trying to say
3.17
You missed the point. He’s saying that it’s is very hard for men to control themselves. Their weakness is women. So instead of the wife to keep nagging and lecturing him, she can help him get better.
Isn’t this part of marriage? Trying to make each other better
Ramsha Navaid I agree it’s shameful but you missed my point too. Lol
the whole idea of this video is not to place burdens and hold spouses accountable for each other. it’s to understand there are are weaknesses and obstacles in marriage and to help one another by showing mercy and guiding each other. jumping to conclusions and spreading a faulty message to people is only going to make things worse. take the time to actually comprehend what the brothers claim is.
And people pay money to psychologists and psychiatrists just to learn these lessons. We are blessed with Quran and sunnah.
Men are super difficult..they are over complicated over sensitive..they go out to work and see skinny legs come home and see wife exhausted looking after his many kids.. she's not enough..for some men nothing is enough because they lack practical reasoning common sense understanding ..it's the mens ability to bring the best out in his wife will make him a men to be treasured in the hearts of a woman which is deep as oceans..Men are lost souls in so many ways they are always searching for something they often don't even know...we woman did not come to full fill all their hopes dreams and desires...we also have our own minds are capable of our thoughts hopes dreams.allah has given women the ability to bring another human beings to earth what a gift Allah has given us not because we are difficult or weak rather we have hidden strength and if men give us more respect..to our opinion needs and understanding..they would feel the blessings of peace all that comes with...
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
So true
Lust is a natural desire but it’s freewill that gives you power over it.
The same can be said of some women. The problem is not the gender. It the lack of deen. Lack of knowledge and understanding how to apply the religion.
@@athreephanx6956 Religion has nothing to do with it, In religion Men have found perfect excuse for lack of understanding to blame women for their short comings. Women are not here on earth, To Be All that makes man happy. Happiness is your to find first than share it. In Qur'an didn't Allah compared The Sun to yousuf dream eleven stars The Sun The Moon. The sun being his dad moon his mum. The suns light is shared with the moon. Share your light with love. And you will see.
My fiancé broke up with me and this made me feel better. 🙏🏼
Alhamdulillah
Idk my grandparents love eachother deeply like it is the first day now for 49 years . My grandma says she keeps the relationship new so that my grand dad will want her more each day
Babeena_Gt _ that is truly amazing! Maasha Allaah, it would be great if you could give us some examples so that we benefit from it.
@@hodaa2823 I really hope that helps 💜🤗
INSHALLAH i love my future wife and i will try to full fill all his needs i will try my best to become best muslim..,bcz our prophet says
"The best among you is the best towards his wife".
Mohd Faiz 👍💕🥰💕👍good man will be a good husband by saying that god bless you.
Wives are not cats or house pets ,they are human beings equal with man , they deserve respect .
There is no love if there is no respect to begin relationship .
I totally agree i was a good wife silenced myself for over 21 years of marriage my husband took full advantage over me abused me physically mentally emotionally now i decided to speak out it brought alot of changes when i spoke out and reported the matter to the police and gota protection order so silence works for some vut for me it didnt so i had to help myself
The best reminder I have ever heard and the greatest advice really!!
Why am I watching this??? I'm only 14 lol
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
When I was 14 I looked at marriage in completely different way than now. I believe it's important to educate children about it and once they possess good knowledge about marriage they can grow up with the right qualities and get amazing spouses :)
Well... I guess from that point of view. It's alright then.
You’re right. You have to watch even you are 14. In Islam when you are 15 you are considered as a major.
Let’s me give you some advice. Don’t think that you’re still young. You must change your thinking and consider yourself as a major and intelligent person.
I guess to lower ur expectations 😊 ✌🏿
nouman ali khan is such a cool funny , decent and at the same time savage speaker hehe, loved his speeches, MAY ALLAH BLESS HIM ❤❤😍😜
Oh, so the fake silence to manipulate the wife? The Prophet[saw] used to make a point of walking in and SMILING at his wife. amazing, he took the responsibility on himself. [saw].
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
I'm really finding this Sheikh contradicting himself. Why does everything have to fall upon the women. i don't understand why do men have the right to look at other women but women don't have that right, Not that I would want to. But honestly, this sheikh is very traditional. The women in my family go to work too not just the "men." So men expect the women to go to work -come home and cook while the men come home and sit and chill and don't worry about anything. Happens in my household. Speaking facts. It honestly should be shared. What if god forbid your wife passes away? I will be teaching my sons inshallah to cook and help their wife in the kitchen its not just a woman's job but its a basic human skill . Men need to grow up and not be soo needy and stop treating their wife like a slave and stop checking out other girls at work and come home and not give attention or affection to their wife. That's just so wrong and this "scholar" saying that its in mens nature is totally wrong. I don't accept to believe this as if women can control their urges so can men. They need to be equally as respectful to their spouse.
I agree with the all the comments above! I also want to add that I am very logical even through I am emotional and that must bother men because they don’t expect women to be so in tune with reality. Giving a silence treatment is something I resent the most in an argument because why should I be apologising for something I didn’t even do? I mean where is the “reason” in that? I argue for the purpose of establishing the truth and resolving an issue. Silence and ignoring just postpones the issues and leads to resentment. Give me a man who will argue over the one who will give me silence and I will be grateful ten times over because this person actually cares enough to have a discussion or an argument and get to the bottom of things. Men don’t understand how important clarity is to women. Wallahi I am not even scared of my man cheating on me as much as I am scared of never finding out and being denied a choice to find a man who will respect me. This video has made me feel like “less” compared to a man which is not the way I believe Allah has intended. We were made in pairs, we are compatible and with good conversations and respect and love for Allah, we can lift each other up and be best friends even in times of weakness. Men who act in this childish manner need to learn how to communicate and express themselves and need to put their wives on the same level as themselves instead of a machine to birth them children, give them sex whenever they please and clean up and cook every day. We don’t mind doing all of the above, but you got to earn it. Nobody wants to be intimate with a man who comes home annoyed and can’t even lower his gaze. That’s not a man that’s a boy and boys have no business getting married.
Teuta Knezevic I’m a Muslim guy, I cannot help but agree with every single thing you said. This is so true and this is very prominent in several households. Whenever I mention to some of my close friends that even if I’m not vocal, i believe in women empowerment, they’ll kinda make fun of me. Islam doesn’t teach us that the man comes home from work and chills and watches tv or whatever else while the wife cooks, watches the baby and feeds him/her, and does the house chores. It’s a shared responsibility, everything is shared, because they are sharing a life together! Men take this for granted at times, men take women for granted, Allah SWT has given women mental strength like no other.. it’s only our duty to be more diligent. Respect for your post 🙏🏾
Came here to say that too... I literally couldn't believe that he was advocating the silent treatment. Basically make the woman feel guilty for her actions.
Masha Allah
Another fantastic lecture by Nouman Ali Khan
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
This really touched me keep teaching us
I was silent for many years my husband took alot of advantage over me so i decided to speak up
The truth is, she builds just as much resentment because she’s so bored doing domestic chores and changing diapers and having kids cry and tug on her all day while he’s at work with women smiling at him, and women well-dressed, hair and nails done, wearing heels on the train for his itchy gaze. He comes home and he wants her to act like these women who have smiled at him, but he doesn’t come home to smile at her, or build her up any more. He doesn’t care what she’s been through all day-heck, he doesn’t even want to know those things cause they bore him to death too! If she mentions the bathroom faucet is leaking he tunes her out because he dealt with enough problems at work and he doesn’t need more at home. She is so lonely, and losing more and more of herself every day. He gripes about dinner being late, or toys on the floor he stepped on barefooted, or the laundry not being ready. He’s mad that she’s not like the women at work. She really feels unappreciated now, and even oppressed. She receives no paycheck, no promotions, no slaps on the back from co-workers for a job well-done. There are no smiling men throughout her day. When she goes to bed-she’s exhausted and has absolutely no desire to be with her irritable husband who yelled at her and griped about her throughout the evening. He’s angry that she tenses up when he reaches for her, says she’s frigid, or holding out on him cause she’s “sulking.” But, in fact, he treats the women at work and on the train far better than her. She feels lost and alone and trapped. Invisible. Dead. She’s miserable. But he doesn’t care at all-he needs sex, dammit! He doesn’t want to hear that she’s feeling unappreciated and put down and unloved. So she withdraws into her black, silent world of enduring her crappy life....while he goes and finds another younger wife or mistress and blames it all on her for not smiling at him enough and giving him enough great, hot sex. He’s clueless that he actually molded her into the wife she has become. Their love died a slow and painful death. But he gets to replace her easily enough. She does not have that option. While he’s out laughing and making out with his new love interest who makes him feel like the greatest guy on earth by her smiles and wiles, he’s blissfully unaware that she’s home looking at a bottle of sleeping pills. Thankfully, the baby cries and the 4-year-old needs an asthma treatment so she gets up to carry on doing the work expected of her...the thankless work that never ends, and is comprehended by none, save her and God alone. The moment both children see her, precious goofy grins fill their sweet little faces and joy bursts inside her as her own smile cannot be contained. They reach for each other and enfold themselves together in a tight embrace of the purest of all loves.
I’m sorry to anyone that experiences this but never accept pure misery and resentment empathy,wisdom i.e emotional intelligence with some forebearance can nip this in the bud.Before it becomes entrenched inshaa’Allah.May Allah keep the Muslim spouses together ameen.
It does if you’re with the right person.
Don’t take each other for granted the battle to win each other’s hearts doesn’t end after marriage.
I don't know why all these hadith are all about how wife should treat their husband!!! Talk about how husbands should treat their wife too. We r human too we do more than mens do we need more attention than the egos they give us thinking oh I'm a husband you should respect me what no we r all humans there should be equality in everything!!!
just a smile
Soniya Jhan I think you miss numbers of Hadith which says men to care wives? Should I share if u need?
you should read the hadiths and aayahs about ''how to treat the wives'''
Mashaa Allah ! May Allah reward you with all good !
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Oh my God yes I'm a woman and sometimes i don't just know when I'm crying sometimes and sometimes its just too complicated to explain him
Ya Allah Please save my struggling Marriage AMEEN!!!
Manuel Ruffin copy the link and send it to him or her, and dont say anything just let the video do all the talking
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
@@cryptxonecoin2098 at times it can bring opposite results than what was expected
Aw Ameen for you, don’t give up
May Allah answer your duas in the way you desire Ameen
@@AairahAhmad Im a Brother NOT a sister
Mash Allah shukran for the beautiful message
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
marry me and save me and yourself from zina
Inshallah 1 day I’ll get married to a wife who fears Allah(swt), and base our love upon Islam!! Inshallah I’ll get a wife that will be permanent and enter paradise together and love eachother for eternity!! That’s real love❤️
Simple rules that will save you. Marry someone with same values and you will get a long way. Marry someone who belive in the same things as you and follow tips given in this video. Main points for happy marriage is to talk to eachother, communicate, respect each other and be kind to eachother. Say sorry alot if you do wrong. Insha Allah you will stay happy in this life and next.
Same... Vice versa... When the wife comes home from work and gets frowned upon. Expected to do everything.
What about husbands don't love there wife just give them pain how a wife can smile after that
keep smiling... once he will realize.
@@hafi029 what a load of rubbish, why should a wife have to put up with a horrible husband
ApolloBSG the response by Hafis A was based on a husband applying what the video advised. One who causes pain is far from Allah and that would be a different video.
@Joe Average I don't imitating non mouslim. Respect mouslim or non mouslim I ask a question only don't judge if you don't know
Khadija Koroniou if you comment then expect people to say things you won’t be happy with. If you don’t like it then go ask your imam
I hope my future wife will love me forever :)
it all starts with respect, value and care for each other IN BOTH PARTIES, love is the end result of all the hard work, if the tree cannot stand how can the fruit be born
If people interfere then chances are you'll get a Witch with a Capital B seriously don't let any1 interfere marry by knowing exactly who and what you are marrying?
Be worth loving and she will love you forever insha Allah :-)
study about woman nature & marriages then revise with her! she don't like GIVE HER UP! & study man nature to understand yourself better than what you know now!
No she will not...give her lots of money
MashAllah, such an informative yet entertaining video, thank you a lot!
With Allah's power my husband will love me forever.
Babyface Mariam please I wish that to be true best bet found a man who fear Allah and acts on it. Men are not like women they are super self.
The sheikh lecture always got laughter in it that really makes it unique and awesome listening to.
Much needed.. jazak allah khayran
I know men that lower their gaze they arent even married but they do. Ive met women that wont lower their gaze and others like myself who find it quite easy. I understand that men are different and the desires are different and their weakness is women, but Allah has never instructed anything that we can't handle or find impossible. Men should be lowering their gaze and trying hard for Allah first and then their wives. Its possible of course.
A smile for the husband doesn’t even work. Not even salam alaikum doesn’t work for the husband- we’ll probably for some
If you have a incompatible marriage what are you supposed to do.
then why did you get married in the first place if it was incompatible
wenjingsaf because no one knows what kind of partner you’ll end up with and since it’s haram to date you end up with the complete opposite person.
@@SaniWaniPlayz haram to date doesnt mean when a man is interested in you he cannot make a proposal to you parents, spending time to get to know each other is recommended under supervision of mahram, its the rest of your life if you believe Islam has your best interest at heart think about it why would Islam tell us to marry someone we dont know?
Each culture is different , that little time spent to get to know each other doesn’t mean nothing because people tend to be really fake just to get on the good list they can be charming and romantic everything you could wish for and after a few months or years you see the real side of the person and it’s not soo charming as once thought.
@@SaniWaniPlayz ur brainwashed by western media. u need to forget about marriage my boy :D. learn islam first then think about marraige. ur not ready for it
Alhmdulillah I learned many good things from this lecture....May Allah bless you "LoveAllah328" 😊😊😊
this is just sad .may Allah guide us all on the straight path and prevent us from departing it...
I hope i can find and mary a man who will love me unconditionally..
Masa Allah...what a powerful reminder....summa ameen 😍😍😍
I needed this so badly right now
I wish it was that simple ... a smile does go long way and it can make the relationship even more stronger . Alhamduillah I did everything I can accordingly our Islam. He’s had a hard day at work and he’s stressed out but when he came home I would always greet him with a smile and dinner on the table ... I let him relax and have his ‘me’ time yet it wasn’t enough ... he was a person of drugs and paranoia and beating me up all the time .... sometimes you can do everything but it’s still not enough !!! That’s the reality
After watching 5 min of video.....(Thinking)Why i clicked on this video im not even married?
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
But maybe u r gonna be? So u must educate urself before u get married
It took me after 9 mins
@@AairahAhmad "Marry a man" you say.....im a man.
Faisal Tung wedding bells anyone 💍👰🏻🤵🏻
I love this channel but this video upsets me.. it's just as equally important for husbands to also show mercy and love to their wives by smiling at their wives when they come home. Also silence is NOT always the best answer when the wife asks what's wrong especially when that silence is accompanied by a stony gaze or a look of contempt. It's very stressful for the wife to keep guessing what she did wrong. Let both sides communicate and show mercy and love to each other. Thanks.
EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING!!!
Do you women ever get happier? He did ask men to remain silent at the time of an argument so things wouldn't get escalated. Please stop with this men vs women nonsense. It was a great speech, a lesson for men.
Bro you are good at speeches! MashaAllah
To ALL Men: the technique he described works! I’ve been married almost 6 years Alhamdulillah and I can testify that it works!
Amazing content
Very true
Love you bro 🌷🌷🌷
Jazakumullah kheir
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
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So women is bassicly a living meme of "no u" in argument
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Isn't it strange, how the wife is expected to be the one who always takes the first step? So many husband's now frown and look at their wives as though they are something that squished under their shoe... yet she can make that all go away by beaming and breezing in ...and ignoring her day which may have been intensely lonely, hard work, and she may have missed him so much, yet - he has a frown, or ignores her when he walks through the door. =/
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
@al-Haifawi Assalamu alaykom wa rahma'tullah wa barakatu, it is not my marriage alone, it is witenssing all the hallmarks of naricisistic abuse in household after household. My own husband has walked me through everything, I am usually a bright and smiling person, now, I save those smiles almost as a protective armour, and my husband is confused. He has thrown all sorts of games, but I smile anyway, the sad thing is, I can smile because I no longer care a whit about him. Isn't that too sad? Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. I treat hi with kindness, respect, am cheerful and he is perplexed, I used to smile, only to see him act up until my smiles were no more, then he would smile broadly and be happy. Some men really are psychopaths or narcissists, and we should be careful to distinguish normal behaviour from calculated behaviour. What Nouman Ali ///khan is describing is cold calculated and has no basis in an honest and loving marriage. Allahu Alim.
Mohammad said a woman is worth half a man.
@@amigaamigo5307 what does that mean to you? That she is not worthy of being treated well? If that is what you think then quite honestly you are missing out an enormous amaount of the seerah in order to justify bad treament.
Asiya Mohammed that he didn’t believe in equality
Best psychology on marriage is in Islam. But they who don't believe will not believe. May Allah save us from Fitna.
When one have love for self they are none of what stated here people who love themselves never take another person for granted that true for man as it is for women.
So much lovely videos they make to guide us to teach us. And we are indulge in music and shamelessness stuff. May Allah protect our imaan.
Just because the wife doesn't smile at the husband or doesn't start a conversation it does not mean that the husband will get upset, some will and some won't. If I had a wife and she did... I won't get upset
He mentioned that may be first few days you won’t mind. But months and then even 10 years it would likely take a toll on you.
That's a very big IF bro. You don't even have a wife how would you know.
May Allah give me and those who are struggling to find someone a loving, healthy, passionate, loyal spouse. Ameen.
Powerful words
I watched the video until 3:16 and want to make a comment, why would women justify men who dont lower their gaze if Allah told MEN and WOMEN to lower their gaze? I know women who wished they could have more than 1 husband, they also wish for handsome men in paradise. There are always exceptions, i think there are more women like that than we think, its just that women wish it secretely. There is also men whom 1 wife is enough for their life time as long as she's good to them. No good person can change a man or woman with perverted mindset, they are never gonna change if not with Allah's mercy.
As a women i can relate being a complicated creature. i can cry not because of him, but because of my own insecurities. I felt that i have tried my very best, give him everything of me to make him happy but STILL feel that i am not good enough for him. i feel frustrated with myself because i can't get any better for him. Eventhough i KNOW he does not think this way at all, but i have to fight with my low esteem everyday. Truth is, i am embarrassed with my low esteem, so i can't tell him what is wrong. So would just said 'nothing is wrong'. Truthfully, i think anyone would feel annoyed with me for whining about this,so i would rather not talk about it.
Assalamu aliakum sister if you are having hard times with your husband go and tell him what is wrong, it would be much better for you then being silent and hiding your anger but tell him in a good manner and plus nobody is feeling annoyed here i guess coz it is a public place and you said nothing wrong.
What about the women who walks with her husband and looks at other man and tries to hide it? And when they are leaving from that place she waves to that strangers?????
Abdullah Rahmani in this case jealousy can be very deadly and the devil will take any opportunity he can grab
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
then he married with a wrong woman, a low creature.
Abdullah Rahmani I don’t believe this I thought it only men do this. I say if your not crazy and it’s true then say next!! Men can replace women easily and I say with a broken heart. Crazy crazy women are doing it too the end is near.
@@sarahwilson3804 truth is there is no specific gender are more to cheat. Woman cheats as much as men. If the heart is ugly and they dont have fear of God , anyone can cheat easily.
Mashallah how much intelligent are you mashallah
May ALLAH protect our iman
Ameen
Every word is true here lots of things to learn for men and women. Super beneficial for ummah. Please adress more information how to be happy after marriage even though I am single 😊
Okay, so I'm 24 married to a Russian girl. MashAllah she converted herself to a Muslim. And we have a 4 months extremely gorgeous little baby daughter. I help her with almost everything, I'm honest to her, i buy her flowers basically I fulfill her every needs but my problem is she's extremely quiet all the time I know it's her personality but i do as a man needs to hear some words of love from her but i normally don't and it hurts a lot.. plus I'm in a foreign land , not a lot of Russian speaks English here so it just really painful everyday.
Language barrier is so difficult I also can't talk to my crash cause I'm foreigner and she doesn't speak english, my god help all of us
just let her know about it before its too late.trust me it will change in sha Allah
Give her time, maybe she’s shy or battling her own issues?
Time will tell but I’m the meantime I hope Allah gives you ease and answers all your duas from Him
Always try to remember that no human being’s love will compare to Allah’s love and when you establish a relationship with Him SWT (which I’m sure you have) you’ll see his love filling your heart and a journey with him where people and their affection will never match the love you get from Allah SWT
@@jannathbegum1603 thank you for your kind words. I appreciate it a lot.
Ecstasy Craves expect good in every aspect of your life and trust that Allah will give you that good bro, you deserve to be happy and I know you’ll get that soon In’Shaa’Allah
I like that Uncharted pic for the thumbnail.
I wish your speeches never end....👍❤
I think the main reason is that most muslim people marry for the sake of their sexual desires or to leave home as soon as possible because of family issues or to get freedom. But getting married is not just to have halal sex and make children. There goes so much into it, above all being mentally prepared is so important but most people see marriage as a burden or escapism from doing haram things. They are not ready to spend a good life with someone and stay honest and loyal for the rest of their live. The social pressure gets so heavy on them that they just get married because everyone else is getting married. It's like their love stop at some point and just live for the sake of children and grandchildren. This says a lot about quality (love and care) over quantity (years of marriage). Maybe all this is the reason why I see that it's mostly non-muslim couples of old age more happier together than old muslim couples. They seem to be more honest, loving and caring towards each other regardless of their gender and they pass this teaching on to their children. And maybe thats why they can express their emotions and feelings better than what I have seen between muslim families and couples. But luckily I notice that it's changing, this generation is learning a lot of their elders and above all how to notice when their child is depressed, this is the most important thing which this modern generation understands and that's a good thing. Alhamdullilah.
Can't help smiling at how beautiful the speech is. Islam is beautiful. :) barakallahu fiik.
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Women spend their days thinking of sex too you know. So if your wife refuses to sleep with you, it's either she's tired or you don't please her enough for it to be enjoyable for her. It's not only a man's need. Try to be more considerate of what your wife likes and doesn't and try to spruce it up a little too
What cause less passion people usually take each other for granted. They stop growing as a couple.
Thank you so much
Just a smile it is not expensive... That's really
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Exactly “Smile “ matter
Jazakkallahu khair....most difficult relationship is husband & wife.....should have balance...& Allah swts rahamath...May Allah make everything ease..
Some of the views in this are just personal and stereotypes really puts you off from clicking on such videos.
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Mashallah ..Shukran
When my husband come home I started to hide , because he likes to shout . And if i smile that makes my husband angry .
beautiful !!! ❤
5:11 the kids will see and she'll be shy and wont do it lol
Well I’m not married yet.. but Insha Allah I will have a wife that loves me and I love her.. like forever..
who dare dislike this...
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Bots. Or, humans that don't agree with him. Because, humans can't HANDLE the truth, so they find excuses.
Hatun from speakers corner
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
HyperMangi if the truth be known we wouldn’t work pay tax or listen to the media.
We would hang our leaders.
Very inspirational
May Allah SWT grant all the Muslim men & women piety ,patience & understanding of our deem Also May Almighty bless Br.Numan
.... then he keeps satisfying his temptations outside despite the smiles. That"s not always a matter of dissapointment. One who keeps satisfying his desires with other women, does the same repeatedly cheating the other with another. This goes on and on....
This is BS! Men can lower their gazes. Just be responsible. Dont act like a victim plz!
A L Shut up, you act like every single man is the same, we are humans and different.. Every person has his own soul, we are not victims this video is just recognizing the weakness we as men have.
If i point out that i have an amputated leg and may run slower am i still the victim, or just pointing out what made me me?
masha Allah i'm from somalia 🇸🇴
"Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman's heart, nor will he mistreat or take advantage."
If you want to get Married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you.
2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan. Aameen!! Please don't forget to subscribe for more videos !!
Pornagraphy has destroyed marriages
I swear all the fact he saying abt husband and wife thats soooo true,
Smile of the wife is a pretty damn big deal when your husband comes in and immediately is an asshole and blames it on the wife not being nice no no no you are only blaming women it's not gonna fly with God spoiler alert
"But now you must put them all away from you: wrath, anger, badness, abusive speech, and obscene talk out of your mouth. Do not lie to one another. Strip off the old personality with its practices, and clothe yourselves with the new personality, which through accurate knowledge is being made new according to the image of the One who created it... "
"Accordingly, as God’s chosen ones, holy and loved, clothe yourselves with the tender affections of compassion, kindness, humility, mildness, and patience. Continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely even if anyone has a cause for complaint against another. Just as Jehovah freely forgave you, you must also do the same. But besides all these things, clothe yourselves with love, for it is a perfect bond of union."
- The Bible, Colossians 3: 12-14 (The Apostle Paul)
I understand it's hard for men to lower gaze. However, I smile everyone regardless of their age, gender, ethnicity etc. I believe it is also Sunnah. I ask people I know or don't know how they are with pure intentions. It's unfair to categorize every women in train stations as if they try to lure men with their smiling! Only Allah knows whose intentions are bad or good.
defesen the prophets wives smiled at strangers? It’s a sunnah to smile at others for men not women
@@dlhussain81 Did Prophet smile at only men or also women too? If a man smiles at a woman and if woman gets bad ideas about it, would the man be sinned?
defesen the prophet never sinned. He never even touched a non mahram woman. Don’t get defensive sister, you should learn your sunnah from the mothers of the believers.
@@dlhussain81 Dear brother, I know that Prophet never sinned. But I'm just curious. Did he smile at women too?
defesen you have to also remember not everything he did is meant for us as a sunnah. Eg we can’t marry 11 times. A sunnah is that which he commanded us to do. He could’ve smiled at women possibly but he instructed us not to even look at non mahram women
Good explain
It's funny how he explains but effective as always 😊
Masha Allah...thank u 👌
I married to a guy who's so kind nd gentle to me before marriage but after the few months of marriage he shows his true color.. He use to beat me.. Nd abuse me in every sentence of talk.. With very bad words.. Nw He dont show interest in me nd he didn't talk to me the way he use to talk to me before.. His behavior is totally changed towards me.. He beats me very badly.. Nw i hv a daughter who is just 1 year old. I don't want to give this typ of environment to my daughter.. i dont know wht to do.. Plz plz somebody sugges me wht shld i do...
Maashaa Allah very effective speech
mr speaker i respect you, surely you know more than me but you don't no my husband when i see him with smile he say get away from me, don't you have work to do nd im just cursing myself. so what are you gonna say about it 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁. lol for my eng.
zyan khan that’s why marry a person who fears Allah. Pls ask him very softly where things went wrong n how can it be fixed so that Allah gives barakah in this marriage and make this marriage half Iman n way for Jannah