Former counsellor accuses Childline of giving harmful advice to kids with gender dysphoria

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  • Опубліковано 16 вер 2024

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  • @fraserreal8496
    @fraserreal8496 Рік тому +54

    Thank God for James Esses! Courage extraordinaire. He sacrificed a lot to speak up for children, and we'll be forever thankful.

    • @JCLAS01
      @JCLAS01 Рік тому +2

      Thank God for is son Jesus christ through him we are saved from all evil. 🙏🙌👑✝️

  • @annyoung6560
    @annyoung6560 Рік тому +69

    This is physical and emotional abuse. Why it’s allowed is mind blowing. The aftermath will be devastating.

  • @berean1703
    @berean1703 Рік тому +62

    James Esses is very clever and very reasoned.
    I hope he gets a bit pay out.
    Shame on those who do not stand up to this evil doctrine because they want an easy life.

  • @DavesGarden1714
    @DavesGarden1714 Рік тому +61

    Childline and similar organisations advising children want to be full investigated to see what they are actually teaching children

  • @HBTeamaker
    @HBTeamaker Рік тому +76

    Really good to hear a counsellor saying this. Very brave given that he is now fighting for his qualification essentially.

  • @outoforbit-
    @outoforbit- Рік тому +27

    Glad he wasnt put out by using the term pure evil because that's exactly what it is. If i needed therapy this is man i would be happy to pay for such services.

  • @colingreen6950
    @colingreen6950 Рік тому +38

    We're now living in world which defies belief , why are " CHILDREN " having their minds twisted by this abnormal NONSENSE . It's absolutely SHAMEFUL !

    • @JCLAS01
      @JCLAS01 Рік тому

      God Describes the Devil as a liar and a manipulator in the Bible as are those who do is will Deception, Lieing, Manipulating I'm seeing a lot of this when it comes to these innocent children God's Children. ATTACKING THE CHILDREN IS ATTACKING GOD.

    • @hyundaicanaliculli7549
      @hyundaicanaliculli7549 Рік тому +4

      It's satanic

    • @JordanRivers-hx2lr
      @JordanRivers-hx2lr Рік тому

      Ie . Isaiah 14:12-15. 2 Thess. 2. Revelation 13. 17:13. Ch. Three. Vs. Twenty.

    • @witlesswonderthe2nd883
      @witlesswonderthe2nd883 Рік тому

      Colin Green it’s grooming and psychological abuse.
      Schools are participating and setting the groundwork for this dross bombarded young minds.
      A five year old has all on tying their shoelaces, never mind the seeds been plant over them being the wrong gender.
      Add in teaching them graphic and complex sex education lessons, it’s no wonder so many minds are been blown and their mental health is suffering, poor kids are being traumatised.
      My 18yr old is so angry about young kids being robbed of their innocence and only something perverts would come up with and push on kids.

  • @coldbreeze6344
    @coldbreeze6344 Рік тому +17

    Stonewall should be shut down. NHS childline and many more need investigating leave kids alone let them play and grow up to be adults this is the reason they are confused stop messing with their heads

  • @emma24ism
    @emma24ism Рік тому +10

    I’m so glad that people like him are whistle blowing.

  • @bettycastro835
    @bettycastro835 Рік тому +25

    I never thought Child line was what the public was told it was !!

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +2

      It was started by the media. The propaganda machine. They are out to destroy innocence.

    • @kess6698
      @kess6698 Рік тому

      I heard many moons ago that Childline was created to filter victims of SA and protect the pedos at the BBC.

    • @hamishanderson6738
      @hamishanderson6738 Рік тому

      Fester Rancid's children.

  • @Monicablackbelt24
    @Monicablackbelt24 Рік тому +8

    I started volunteering at childline as an online counsellor and also saw messages about chest binders and puberty blockers.. I also felt extremely uncomfortable with the attitude towards children suffering gender dysphoria and you could feel the woke ideology was becoming a primary focus! For that and health reasons I sadly left .. they’re pushing good therapists out of the industry for propaganda pushers! It won’t end well!!

  • @adam7802
    @adam7802 Рік тому +18

    Telling children hormone blockers are the answer instead of exploring it reminds me of when I've been diagnosed with depression... some doctors will literally just present anti depressants as the magic answer and aren't particuarly interested in exploring/addressing the problem. It is a slightly different issue, but nonetheless medicine in this country has become so focused on just finding a treatment that covers up the problem instead of investigating the root cause and treating that, which I find really frustrating.

  • @MelandraSmith
    @MelandraSmith Рік тому +2

    This man should be running for MP somewhere. He's thoughtful, sensible and clever.

  • @kingdom7777
    @kingdom7777 Рік тому +5

    The beast has come for our children! U need to wake up ppl.

  • @daisies4444
    @daisies4444 Рік тому +7

    Oh my goodness! An organisation that children have been taught was the place to go, that it was a safe place to be has absolutely gone 100% the other way and have now become the abusers!!!!

  • @user-ug8wx5er1w
    @user-ug8wx5er1w Рік тому +52

    Mental health is a serious problem

    • @Anonymous56657
      @Anonymous56657 Рік тому

      Only applies to us white people. Foreigners are just savages

    • @JCLAS01
      @JCLAS01 Рік тому +2

      More then covid is and was!

  • @georginawhitby1320
    @georginawhitby1320 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for speaking out against this

  • @nioengland
    @nioengland Рік тому +13

    The way it all adds up.. the perpetrators.. and the most appropriate solution to the problem
    worse than anything else in history.. every step of the way

  • @kitcat4512
    @kitcat4512 Рік тому +17

    When could childline ever have been seen to do the job they were supposed to do?

    • @Anonymous56657
      @Anonymous56657 Рік тому +1

      How the f**k would you know.

    • @mrnice7570
      @mrnice7570 Рік тому +1

      Good point, called them many times. No help whatsoever

  • @jintyc9133
    @jintyc9133 Рік тому +14

    Wow , thank you sir

  • @Etobicoke67
    @Etobicoke67 Рік тому +4

    Same problem with SurvivorsUK (for male survivors of sexual abuse when boys) with posters about how to pick up other men safely. Gender ideology and focus not on male survivors who did not experience safe intimacy as boys, just on those abused as teens and young adults. I did not feel listened to. Experiences of those abused from toddler age were overwhelming for the facilitators. More focus on identifying adult sexuality than developmental trauma.

  • @missmcphee8859
    @missmcphee8859 Рік тому +3

    James you are a fantastic man 👏

  • @witlesswonderthe2nd883
    @witlesswonderthe2nd883 Рік тому +7

    Has there ever been in time in history when children and especially those starting puberty ever thought that there’s something wrong with them.
    In previous generations they just had their classmates, social circles and society around them to compare themselves too, to initiate doubt in their minds.
    Now young minds have access and are bombarded with the latest trends, latest influencer’s, who incidentally can be extremely young on a world stage open to all kinds of negativity worldwide that they didn’t have before.
    You only have to look at child stars of the past to see the devastating impact of children placed and trying to function in an adult world, some never recover and end their own lives.
    What we seem to be facing now, is a worldwide phenomena of young minds having adults thoughts tipped inside their heads, most are confused because they lack the emotional knowledge and processing maturity to understand the manipulation abuse they are under.

  • @Anonymous56657
    @Anonymous56657 Рік тому +3

    GB NEWS watchers should be the ones giving out advice.

  • @Lelldorin84
    @Lelldorin84 Рік тому +3

    The only advice they should be giving children is "you are born a male or a female, you cant change that, learn to make peace with it".

  • @tammymarks
    @tammymarks Рік тому +20

    There's NO such thing like being born in the wrong body. You should love the life and body God gave you and count your blessings.

  • @scaa2941
    @scaa2941 Рік тому +6

    This is evil

  • @atamani725
    @atamani725 Рік тому +2

    When i was a Child i spoke as a Child, i thought as a Child, I reasoned as a Child...but when i became an Adult i put away Childish things...

  • @joannaennis7866
    @joannaennis7866 Рік тому +2

    Terrible misuse of facility to help vulnerable children. There should be an enquiry into this infiltration by Stonewall.

  • @ModernPict
    @ModernPict Рік тому +16

    UN and UNESCO guidelines discuss openly ‘Children having sexual relationships with other children or adults’
    As with the Schofield scandal, we are being prepared for kids having ‘relationships’ with adults, as long as the children are found to be giving consent.

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +13

      Ands that's why they want to turn the children against their parents.

    • @DerekSpur-kk4wh
      @DerekSpur-kk4wh Рік тому

      Now you're getting it

  • @edwardnestor37
    @edwardnestor37 Рік тому +5

    Investigate Esther Rantzen.

    • @mrnice7570
      @mrnice7570 Рік тому +2

      And tatchell

    • @educational1651
      @educational1651 Рік тому +1

      @@mrnice7570
      One day, everything about him will be exposed, just like saville.
      And only stupid people will be shocked..

    • @gemmawalker7385
      @gemmawalker7385 Рік тому +1

      Never happen she in club you know that club were your above the law and they have the front to lecture other people cheeky so on soes

  • @berniefynn6623
    @berniefynn6623 Рік тому +6

    CHILD ABUSE AND NOT FOR THEM TO ,THIS A PARENTAL ISSUE.CHARGE THEM.

  • @Anonymous56657
    @Anonymous56657 Рік тому +9

    So now we don’t like childlike either? I’m running out of institutions which we are in favour of. At the moment it seems like reform party is the only squeaky clean one

    • @adam7802
      @adam7802 Рік тому +1

      This isn't even new news. This guy was sacked quite some time ago.

    • @Anonymous56657
      @Anonymous56657 Рік тому

      @@adam7802 then why are they posting it. I’m waiting for more Muslim grooming gang News. They love that story

    • @mrnice7570
      @mrnice7570 Рік тому

      ​@@Anonymous56657 not as much as the law loves to protect those self same Muslim grooming gangs eh

  • @chrisrattray8958
    @chrisrattray8958 Рік тому +6

    This is grooming for want of a better name.

  • @highmyope-ps2by
    @highmyope-ps2by Рік тому +12

    I wonder if that egregious old besom Esther Rancid ever apologised to Reed and Lilley about her part in the Shieldfield Nursery witch hunt.

    • @chrisaustin1697
      @chrisaustin1697 Рік тому

      I believe she only started childline to exuse herself after all she knew about jimmy savell and said nothing, but guess what KARMA bites back hard, she is now paying for her sins, she has stage 4 lung cancer.

    • @Merq-ko8di
      @Merq-ko8di Рік тому +1

      And her knowledge of Saville's behaviour 🤔🤔🤔

  • @fraserreal8496
    @fraserreal8496 Рік тому +6

    For an ideology so threatened by ‘genocide’, it sure has a lot of newcomers & wannabes.

  • @Jackie157_
    @Jackie157_ Рік тому +2

    Who is giving these children these drugs they need jail sentences for this people

  • @neilmatthews-zh4vl
    @neilmatthews-zh4vl Рік тому +4

    Stop giving money to child line, when they come round with the begging bole and make it plane in public when money is ask for in shopping centre that you will not support them on their operation on child line.

  • @emd1494
    @emd1494 Рік тому +3

    Wrf is going on! Im over the rainbow, im in wonderland. This is not real life.
    These kids are already infected by a social contagion and now the adults helping lead them down the path to hell

  • @lmg7503
    @lmg7503 Рік тому +2

    Any one starting this prounoun stupidity should be send of to the mental health program.

  • @emmacorbett3444
    @emmacorbett3444 Рік тому +10

    The mental health team needs to infiltrate the rainbow cult ASAP!

    • @Doctor1933
      @Doctor1933 Рік тому

      Rainbow has nothing to do with gay read your bible to understand what rainbow mean they never said it was gay rainbow you people said it was if that is the case are you calling revelation 10 the angel gay to

    • @Doctor1933
      @Doctor1933 Рік тому

      You keep calling this mental health problem words you will never fix it only push them away

    • @Doctor1933
      @Doctor1933 Рік тому

      I have training in my past about this we don’t call them mental illness it wrong

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому

      ​@@Doctor1933 the training at childline is for the nonces it would seem.

    • @Whiskey0880
      @Whiskey0880 Рік тому

      It's a mental rainbow cult.

  • @MissyL12789
    @MissyL12789 Рік тому +1

    What a hero James is. He has sacrificed his future prospects in order to try and protect children. Shame on those who have tried to shut him up

  • @lindaholland4896
    @lindaholland4896 Рік тому +6

    Children with worries should always speak to parents or teachers only.

    • @Doctor1933
      @Doctor1933 Рік тому

      That is a good advice thank you

    • @TrebleSum
      @TrebleSum Рік тому +7

      Some teachers & parents are just as bad though, just as destructive & just as ideologically minded.

    • @Doctor1933
      @Doctor1933 Рік тому

      @@TrebleSum next time think before you use words then you will understand how to get their tension

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +9

      No just parents first.

    • @mariza101_
      @mariza101_ Рік тому +6

      Noo teacher they are evil 😈 like woke nooo Noo

  • @martyy4073
    @martyy4073 Рік тому +2

    Shut them down and prosecute them for child abuse

  • @honeybunch6473
    @honeybunch6473 Місяць тому

    And where is our government through all of this????

  • @johnathanrowley2707
    @johnathanrowley2707 Рік тому +2

    Childline should be ashamed and the staff needs investigating especially if this is going,the nspcc needs to stop following the narrative

  • @craigfowler7098
    @craigfowler7098 Рік тому +1

    Bravo that man

  • @Vates104
    @Vates104 Рік тому

    James is a worthy voice in these strange times.

  • @christopherjones67
    @christopherjones67 Рік тому +6

    Sexual orientation and gender identity are completely different.

  • @billhawkins192
    @billhawkins192 Рік тому +2

    Your kids are their playthings...

  • @collier8931
    @collier8931 Рік тому +1

    So NSPCC and Childline should be investigated by the police, that is if the police still know how to investigate anything.

    • @Merq-ko8di
      @Merq-ko8di Рік тому

      That might uncover to many skeletons in the legal system dating back to Saville , the BBC and Westminster 🤔🤔🤔

  • @SkoolNerds
    @SkoolNerds Рік тому +15

    This guy seems great. But where is his accent from. I too was doing my masters in psychology and was down marked over three essays for effectively saying there were only two genders and vaccine hesitancy isn’t just dumb conspiracy theories. It was in 2021. Now I have to pay the government 9 grand for nothing. The head of psychology had pronouns in his email signature of course.

    • @M15Guys
      @M15Guys Рік тому +5

      May be a common theme ... possibility of future claims once every one starts distancing themselves from the pro-noun sport .....

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +4

      I'm sorry to hear that, I did similar degree in late nineties when it wasn't as bad but it was certainly heading in the direction we are today. I literally felt depressed afterwards kicking myself for wasting 4 years but I can see it's utility in recent years as I can trace the source of the diabolical culture we are propagandised to live in to academia. If it's any consolation to you I know of 4 students in their 2nd year walked out of their degree together telling the university that they didn't want to be told what to think. That's in Scotland where the gov pays the tuition. It would seem that Satan is a scholar.

    • @sugarpuff2978
      @sugarpuff2978 Рік тому +5

      I was diagnosed as autistic at age 45 a couple of years ago. I get emails from my local autistic society which I would like to join to do their group therapy. One thing stops me doing it though. The person who sends the email puts what she identifies as on her emails and she is the person that hosts the group. I want absolutely no part in any of that and I would guess that the people in the group are actively encouraged to to tell how they identify. I want to do the therapy to get better but I flatly refuse to call anybody other than he or she. I have struggled all my life with my mental health and now I feel as though I can't take the offer of therapy because of the idealisations.

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +4

      @@sugarpuff2978 find out if there is a group for older people with autism. I think in that age group nobody is on board with any of the ideology. Also if someone is running a group proffesionally their personal life shouldn't come into it. And if they need reminding of that feel free to do so.

    • @creativelady882
      @creativelady882 Рік тому +4

      @Sugar Puff I had the same problem trying to get help for my autistic daughter through a local autism charity. They too were putting pronouns in emails. This is a red flag for me so I ceased contact with the organisation.

  • @Merq-ko8di
    @Merq-ko8di Рік тому

    Strange how Rantzen go offered this so soon after the Saville scandals .. .. .. the mind boggles 🤔🤔🤔

  • @BladeRunner21577
    @BladeRunner21577 Рік тому +4

    Do they have it or do they just want to be included

  • @johncatto5019
    @johncatto5019 Рік тому

    If this is indeed true the organisations must be deeply investigated and many members of staff sacked. Surely this must be illegal treating children like this.

  • @honeybunch6473
    @honeybunch6473 Місяць тому

    Stonewall is nothing but personal experiences. It is not science based. These ideologies will be a shameful scar on helping proffessions whohave bullied and acted in direct conflict with the proffessionals guidelines which proffessional bodies have themselves breached.

  • @bbchoi-jy7vs
    @bbchoi-jy7vs Рік тому +5

    Beware of unscrupulous counsellors and social workers. They work for their political agenda rather than for the benefits of their clients.

  • @Jackie157_
    @Jackie157_ Рік тому +1

    Where is children protection services what world is this these children are at risk and they are abusive attitude's

  • @samr8603
    @samr8603 Рік тому

    “When the Fox hears the Rabbit scream he comes a-runnin', but not to help.”
    ― Thomas Harris, The Silence of the Lambs

  • @stephfoxwell4620
    @stephfoxwell4620 Рік тому +3

    ......Esther.

  • @jack_timber
    @jack_timber Рік тому +4

    Bit late, I read this in The Spectator 19th of May!

    • @berean1703
      @berean1703 Рік тому +4

      Not everyone reads The Spectator.

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +2

      ​@@berean1703 I have recently started reading it, it is more on target than all the other newspapers.

  • @geordieboyiz
    @geordieboyiz Рік тому

    I'm not surprised!

  • @MelandraSmith
    @MelandraSmith Рік тому

    Dreadful.

  • @ModernPict
    @ModernPict Рік тому +2

    ALSO: Scottish curriculum includes advice from childline in some guidelines/books. I don’t know about English curriculum
    e.g. ‘Childline says that 80% of their calls are from trans teens discussing suicide’

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +5

      Not at all surprising if strange adults go into a school sounding authoritative and expert to tell young children not to trust their own perceptions of reality. I can tell you as a person who has worked in mental health that that is how to make a child have mental health problems, it's extremely cruel to tell children not to trust their own perceptions of the world around them. This has never before in the history of humanity been normalised.

    • @witlesswonderthe2nd883
      @witlesswonderthe2nd883 Рік тому +4

      Kathleen it is been done purpose full scale across the board.
      I have an 18yr old who is really p off with how they’re going after and attacking innocent you minds.

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +2

      @@witlesswonderthe2nd883 I know, I have a 15 year old nephew who in his words, thinks it's totally weird. But when they are going for the really young children in primary schools I cannot at this point imagine how that will turn out. I pray for children and parents in this country, and in the end that's the only answer. I have seen justice been done when I prayed for it and more than once.

  • @patriciadrury8557
    @patriciadrury8557 Рік тому

    I read that in 1947 there was a Neurenberg code and the ender operation s were not allowd and this rule still stands ?

  • @sparagmos4748
    @sparagmos4748 Рік тому

    When Stonewall are involved you know it will be a shit show ☹️

  • @shadow.banned
    @shadow.banned Рік тому

    Thanks.

  • @gavinbissell8847
    @gavinbissell8847 Рік тому +6

    Schofield- "hello childline, do you deliver?"

  • @Jukilady
    @Jukilady Рік тому +6

    I can see our country’s young people are all going to have no fertility and our numbers will degenerate into nothing

  • @WMeier-kd8hz
    @WMeier-kd8hz Рік тому

    You don ´t treat body dismorphia by cutting of bodyparts. Why treat gender dismorphia by doing so?

  • @IBTU
    @IBTU Рік тому +3

    Gender what? 😂😂😂

    • @kitcat4512
      @kitcat4512 Рік тому

      Gender is a modifiable determinant of health across the life course, according to the UN SDGs..

    • @malevolentmoose
      @malevolentmoose Рік тому +2

      Gender deez nuts
      Gender dysphoria is a proper mental health condition, not something made up within the general gender ideology, if that's what you're asking.

    • @mrnice7570
      @mrnice7570 Рік тому

      Gender dysphoria is a mental illness that deeply disturbs sufferers

  • @julieatkin3188
    @julieatkin3188 Рік тому

    Sorry no more donations from me , i will give to other children's charities im not paying for this

  • @phoebegreig6523
    @phoebegreig6523 Рік тому

    Great... Childline are Groomers...

  • @rongablue
    @rongablue Рік тому +1

    Interfering with God’s creation…
    It’s SATANIC. God help our kids!
    We were warned Luke23: 28-29

  • @time4advancement244
    @time4advancement244 Рік тому +1

    LGBTV is here to stay.
    Accept it Brits

    • @Merq-ko8di
      @Merq-ko8di Рік тому

      Where is my freedom of choice 🤔 in a democracy MAJORITY STILL RULES

  • @JesusSaves-mr3hp
    @JesusSaves-mr3hp Рік тому +5

    The Bible says that we are all sinners in danger of hell and in need of God’s grace. Jesus Christ, the Son of God, died on the cross for our sins, was buried, and rose again. Whosoever believes this will receive free forgiveness for all his/her sins. We do not earn Heaven by our good deeds. The Bible says “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9).

    • @mariaobeirne514
      @mariaobeirne514 Рік тому +4

      Believing alone isn't enough. Deeds are needed as well. Salvation can be lost even if one believes.

    • @M15Guys
      @M15Guys Рік тому +3

      yeah, this is not helpful with this issue .....

    • @annyoung6560
      @annyoung6560 Рік тому +3

      The devil is going after our children and the adults are allowing it.

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +2

      The Bible never tells us to sit on our backsides and do nothing. The young man been interviewed is doing great work and at risk to his career, he is taking up the cross. Faith without works is dead. Works without faith doesn't last. Faith and sloth don't go together. Anyway you should know that you can't take one passage from the Bible and treat it as all of the Bible, I think someone called Calvin did that once, I know as I was raised in the Bible according to, and filtered through one bloke named Calvin. Thankfully I joined another denomination who have the fullness of the Christian Faith.

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- Рік тому +1

      ​@@mariaobeirne514 spot on the devil himself knows God exists.

  • @Doctor1933
    @Doctor1933 Рік тому +3

    Stop treating them like they are mentally unstable finding out what is really going on in them

    • @simonmuhamed1071
      @simonmuhamed1071 Рік тому

      They do have a mental disorder, just like a person who has an eating disorder or body dysphoria. You wouldn't agree with a person suffering from anorexia that looked like a skeleton by saying 'Yes you do look fat, let's put you on a diet!' You would treat their underlying mental health disorder and not affirm it.

  • @Tommy-vm7br
    @Tommy-vm7br Рік тому +1

    this ‘news’ channel is such a joke 😂 it’s like it’s a skit??? asking someone what they want to be called is a test of if someone is on board with religious ideology? what world is he living in🤣?? it’s not that deep and not a huge deal. i hugely disagree with children transitioning with hormones/surgery before they’re 18 but if they truly believe they were born in the wrong body, then what’s the big deal in calling them what they want to be called

    • @simonmuhamed1071
      @simonmuhamed1071 Рік тому +7

      What about using a term that reflects the truth, or are you against science and facts preferring fiction? What if the child thought they were a dinosaur, would you go along with that too?

    • @Whiskey0880
      @Whiskey0880 Рік тому

      You are either ignorant or evil.

    • @Tommy-vm7br
      @Tommy-vm7br Рік тому

      @@simonmuhamed1071 the fact is simon, there’s trans people in the world. boo hoo. a lot of these discover it as a kid and go on to transition as adults. calling them by what they want to be called doesn’t hurt anyone. we all know when you’re in bed at night you watch this kinda p*rn and then blast them because you’re ashamed of urself. it’s okay simon i hope you overcome your issues

    • @educational1651
      @educational1651 Рік тому +4

      @@Tommy-vm7br
      There’s no such thing as born in the wrong body. That’s absurd.

    • @Shadrach666
      @Shadrach666 Рік тому +5

      @@Tommy-vm7br Nobody is 'born in the wrong body'. We are born with the genetics we inherit from our parents (one male one female), our sex is determined by our DNA and chromosomes. You might, like many people, conflate gender with sex, but they are entirely different things. There are people who change their diet, dress in a particular way, have surgery and take chemicals to alter how they appear. You cannot change the chromosomes you were born with, and no 'body' is the 'wrong' body. It just might not be the one you want, desire, wish for. It is the same body no matter what you do - yes you can modify it, but your DNA and chromosomes remain unaltered