Been married for two years.. together ten years, three children our careers and life established. First year of marriage was this song to a T. Wanted to walk. He cheated. Never ever did that in all 10 years but we were literally roommates, fighting daily, no love no respect no friendship. Thankfully our lord worked us through it. Therapy, communication and taking time for us really helped us. This song though got me through it all. We’ve never been happier. Our marriage is solid. Forgiveness has been given and now we work TOGETHER! Thank you Bailey for this song! It brought BOTH of us together❤
I just got cheated on by my wife ,I thought she was so great and what a fool I was ,I guess it is what it is if I'm the clown I guess I should look the part hell with it ,GODBLESS everybody going thru stuff it's best sometimes to just be alone free of heartbreak ,all women claim all men are at fault but my experience has shown me something much different
@user-qm5on9gl3x sorry You are going through that It sucks to be cheated on I've been married twice and both of them treated me awful but I kept trying to stay and fix it I lasted over 20 years with my first husband He drank a lot and was abusive when he was drunk He always cheated The second one drank and did drugs He was abusive coming down off the drugs He swears he never cheated IDK if he did but I divorced him because I was so tired of being the punching bag I stayed single and started taking care of my mom and my nieces kids to save them from being in foster care my mom passed away the kids went back home after their mom got clean I stayed busy keeping my mind off my messed up life never doing drugs until one day something change inside me I tried to keep my head straight but failed miserably my life has been going downhill every since I tried using drugs and I want to get off them but it seems like I can't I tell myself I am stopping but I haven't Something always happens to cause me to lose my will power I HAVE.NOBODY NOW My family are deceased all but 1 sister and she is in a nursing home I never see her because my car has been tore up for over a year I can't afford to fix it I'm living in a run down camper I see no way out until God's timing and His willingness to show mercy and help me to figure out how to beat all this I HAVE FAITH in Him I'm asking for prayers and I will keep all of you in my prayers too Sorry for venting to you but I needed to get that out and I haven't able to because like I said I have nobody May God bless all of ya'll keep your faith and congratulations to the ones that are sober and still with their families
John 3:16-17 “For God so loved the world he gave his only begotten Son so who so ever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world but to save the world through him.” God bless everybody that is reading this prayers for you all and your family in Jesus Christ name amen 🙏
Marriage isn't a joke. I'm with my husband for 20years and I can't stand him even breathing sometimes and there're days when I love him so much that it feels like my chest will explode in a minute. I'm happy for you that you made it and you're on a good wave now. Greeting from Czechia.❤
This song didn’t make me cry; but it definitely ripped forward the memories of all the hell I put my wife through, and the grace and strength she had to put me against the wall and wake me up, most definitely saving my life… And THAT is what made me cry. What an incredible talent, a powerful song, and a bright future for Bailey Zimmerman. There, I just texted my wife to tell her I love her.
@Kc Leroux, Don't give up. Include her in every thing you do outside of work, I don't care what it is. After 32 year's married, my only marriage, his 3rd, 13 year's between us & been in rough spots, but they can always be gotten past. We do everything together, hunt, fish, ride, boat, camping, anything we used to do, we began doing again. Find something she truly wants to do & make the time to schedule it & I don't care if it's dance or pottery & she'll fall back in love again.
“Throwin in the towel takes some effort.” That line right there is as real as it gets. This song has grit and so much emotion in it. One of my favorite songs of all time.
@@nathanwalcott3959 both are hard for there own reasons I think it really depends on how bad the realaship has got staying together can sometimes can be harder for sure but at the the same time I think that the line still has value in some instances and it's often not talked about enough about the end of relationships like obviously it's hard but that line just really hit at something I think and it's hard to exsplain it hits at how mentally draining it is when you decide to cut off someone and it implies that the person been through that before and realizes like how tiring both choices can be.
This Song Is Open Different With Love Understand Respect Loyalty, honesty, honestly, it's like. Someone that have your heare and your heare has been broken but cant says how you feel about whet is going on and being confused about it
Been with my husband for almost 10 years, and I find this relatable. “For the record, shit Throwin' in the towel takes some effort So I'd rather ride it out for better weather Together” Spot on sometimes. Love this song so much 💕
Been with my wife since 98. Not only is she my wife but my dream girl. I feel you I am trying my best to save my marriage now. Not due to cheating but due to not showing her the love and affection she needs. I just hope its not to late as i fear there may already be someone giving that to her
Been married 35yrs. This song goes both ways. Fix or break. It ain’t easy but it can be worth it. We’ve seen our share but we ain’t quitting. We fix it and will continue to do so. I hope y’all can too
Over 20 years here. He is my best friend and also where at times I feel the most hate in my heart. But the hate stems from the love and it is always better after the fight when we push through. But not every relationship is, if it is toxic in any type of physical way..u HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND MOST. Leave for the kids. They see all. If he is wanted by every single woman that sees him, (my dude) it isn't his fault. Don't be mean to him for it, be ex nice. Always. He is human, he will make mistakes along the way. Let them throw it at him every time u are away and if u create a loving nurturing enviroment for him to come home to, he will. Don't fight him for porn, watch it w. Or bring home a hottie for him every once in awhile. (Bible thumpers.... shhh, we know. It is ok...quit being so cult like and judgmental, go smoke a joint) Never let them win. Being the queen is hard but it also just part of being the queen. Smile and keep quiet. It isn't worth it, I promise. The loudest words u can say in any situation is none. Nothing. Ever. I believe that more than I believe anything else and with every part of me. Not one word. Walk...smiling. U will get followed. He will stay and apologize and buy u gifts. Make him think he is losing u by not responding and .... Law of attraction. The energy u create is manifested and the universe gives u back to u. In every way. If u must stay, stay and lower ur expectations, assume he will always cheats and he can't hurt u, break u. And find a hot friend to ease the pain. Whatever is the case, make sure u r ok, and if not move around a lil. Cause love is for idiots but love can keep u warm at night and make life a lil more fun. God bless y'all. Ps don't u worry about the Home wrecker get what they have coming to them, u don't have to worry bout it. Ignore. ESPECIALLY IF THEY THROW IT I YOUR FACE. It will break their black lil heart not getting any reaction. Smile. Create. Pray. *Maleah.bianco Evans
I heard this song for the 1st time on my way to an appointment and it hit hard in the moment. We had been having some issues but didn't realize the extent until that afternoon. She told me there wasn't an "us' anymore and that she couldn't do it anymore. That was on June 14th and looking back now it needed to happen for us both after a couple months shy of 6 years. Now. I'm 50 something days sober, went back to school, and despite being separated we're slowly working things out and if all goes right we'll be one another's forever. Sometimes things need to fall apart to fall back together.
Wish the best bud, it's hard to give a dam these days, millions of distractions and tons of hidden agendas. Divorced 9 years and the only thing I hate is the distance it's put between me and my kids.
This is my situation but backwards. I am the woman. And me and my husband been together since we were in 9th grade. We are 32/33 now. He has battled with addiction and it’s tearing our marriage up. I CANT take anymore. I love him with every part of my heart. But MY heart is broken. 🥺🥺 I pray everyday that he will stop this mess and come back to his family. We have 2 beautiful children. But we have had enough of this addiction.
@@amandabailey5846 Addiction is a absolute heart break, it's sad how many thing someone can become addicted to, I feel you, being the oldest of 4 brothers I've been through alcoholism that tore my parents apart, my middle brother in and out of rehab his fieoncie who passed was a rn helped him dryout and get properly diagnosed and medicated. There is help out there if you find the currage to ask.
My husband of 14 years, our 3 children and I are broken💔 @Jose Gambino sends me this song, oh your words to this song has me on REPEAT 😢 I love my husband. Please pray for our marriage 🙏🏽 😭💔 🙏🏽
This dudes 3 songs are forever on my dirt road playlist! Fall In Love, Never Coming Home, Rock and a hard place! The passion,heartache, and true grit in his voice singing these lyrics hits so damn deep! It’s comforting to know that someone feels exactly what you did when you thought no one could! Keep on bringing these jams my boy!!!!! You’re saving us one song at a time
This song gets me in my feels. This is exactly where I was back in 2017 when my marriage fell apart. I won't say it was one person or the other, we both shared faults in the dissolution of our marriage. No one ever gets married thinking they will end up divorced. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. It sucks, it hurts like hell, but you pick yourself up and go on with your life. We were married for a few months shy of 14 years, and that's definitely not an easy thing to walk away from or start over from. I like to believe that we are better people for it. We kick ass at co parenting, we just didn't work out as a married couple.
I threw in the towel with my relationship. I broke my own heart, but I couldn't keep trying for nothing. I love that man, but there's only so much you can do if the other person doesn't try too. It's been over a month and the pain is still so raw. I miss him everyday, but I couldn't keep being treated that way.
This song makes me cry like a baby. I just lost my grand dad and this just breaks my heart into a million pieces. He was all I had left. I'm broken and lost now.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Both my folks have passed. Lost them both, I was young. I feel your pain. This song really hits hard. Again, sorry for your loss.😊
Mine died two weeks ago. 😢it’s so crazy to think about it bc it’s like I go back to being a kid spending summers with him and my grandma and just remembering they’d live forever.
Bailey kills this song. I can literally feel the pain- it's so raw, real, and honest. This is a song everyone can relate to at some point in their life.
Just went to your concert at the Crawfish festival. My girlfriend of almost 2 years and I broke up a day or two later and this concert was the last memory we had the chance to spend together. I doubt this even gets noticed, but I just want to say thank you for the great memories man.
You’ll be ok. It sucks right n I love/hate my husband. I pray your young. Doesn’t make it hurt less but you have more time to meet someone. You’re noticed
Some songs just hit strait to your soul. When the artist sings with such passion and spirit and tou know exactly how it feels. This song also reminds me of " Only love can hurt like this".
Been married to my beautiful wife for 14 years last month and weve both been stuggling addiction to pills then heroin for the last 8 years. I got out of jail yesterday morning and my wife still has 10 more days left to do. I just did 3 weeks in the county had plenty of time to dry outand see what I've been messing up on and our marriage was go down fast but i tell you my feeling for that woman are as strong now as they were when we first start dating. Im so thankful i got my life back and my wife back. This is day number 2 for me keep me in the right path god i cant fail anymore.
1:01... tears rolling down your face... The genuine look of sadness in his eyes... when they know they fucked up... or you fucked up. A heart was shattered.
Going through a really tough long term heartbreaking marriage separation from my husband and this song explains everything I'm going through emotionally .... Hits me very sincerely
Same here...14 years...be strong...hope and pray for the best...and for the strength to overcome the pain...I'm 10 days in...9 days sober...(Pray more, worry less...saw it on the wall of a remodel house...took a picture...trying to remember it everyday.)
You are doing amazing. Keep it up . Lost my girlfriend of 6 years I know it’s nothing like that but I messed up the whole thing and I learnt to much , changing myself for the better so no one has to experience that. Has pretty much nothing to do with your comment but I needed to let that out
I let every important person ive ever loved walk away becouse of my addiction. My mother my fiancee my brother is the only one he came to me crying telling me me brother i love you but if you dont get your shit togetjer ima have to ealk away to...... here i am sober crying singinh this song on the corner trying to make ends meet. God i love you and i hope you know that im going to be on that stage spreading your gospel to all who needs it.
This hits so deep. Almost 13 years with the mother of my kid & i love her more still than i ever did. Shes worth trying to make it work but i dont think the feeling is mutual. I want better for my whole family, i want happiness for all 3 of us. I just feel stuck anymore.
Hi, been with my husband for 25 yrs. We have a 23 year old son. What a blessing kids are. He left me for his best friend's wife a few ago. Don't know why I'm replying cuz I rarely do. Guess I can relate. Hope things work out for you and your family. Why would anyone do that after 25 years of union. No word, No warning..I thought things were going great. Guess they weren't. Didn't see this coming. My son Is 19 and boy oh boy he's going through some rebellion. Understandably so. Guess all I can do is love him through it. Don't want Anyone's empathy. Don't need a reply, so don't feel obligated. Guess I just had to get it out and say it. Thanks to anyone who read this and prayers to everyone for happiness.😊
The emotion in this song makes me cry but I’m not in a hard place. The song is just that powerful. Great song writing and singing. This is a new staple for sure!
My husband and I will be CELEBRATING 25 YEARS THIS YEAR ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Never have we slept apart in anger. Never!! We promised each other when we spoke, our marriage vows out loud to God and each other, that we deal with it. Period. Not that we haven't had bad times, because we have. To my WARRIOR HUSBAND IGY6 FOREVER !!! Ann
Man...I have listened to this song so many times i cant count. It hits in a place I didn't know existed within me. It has brought me to tears to full on crying and singing at the top of my lungs.
This song can be interpreted a couple of diffrent ways- how about when you try so hard to be with someone but there are always obstacles in the way! Love it!
Literally! I take this song as what you said plus. There’s always someone else for them no matter how hard you try. That’s kinda how I take this song at least
Bailey Zimmerman where were back in 2019. Every song you release hits me hard and brings me back to my break up with my exfiance. Fighting for months to not lose her to later find out she had been cheating on me and my efforts were for nothing. Every song you release is filled with heart and soul. Please keep it up, you help far more people than you will ever believe
Everyone wants the beautiful relationship, not everyone wants to put in the work to have that beautiful relationship. . . Most are so addicted to the in love, butterfly, I'll die if I can't see them stage. The real relationship is after that. The life building stage. That's the beautiful. When two souls are completely comfortable together
I totally understand. I am tired of putting all the effort only to find I'm the only one who must want to be a happy family. Not a perfect man, definitely a broken man at this point. But I try to be the best man/dad I can. Stay strong, I believe that happiness will come.
This song speaks🗣️ volumes to the turbulent times in relationships! I have been with my husband for 24 years and JESUS does this song describe PAST emotions 🖤 💚❤️.
I was extremely fortunate to see this performed by Jet Harvey (songwriter) this last week at The Listening Room. Spectacular, so moving. Bailey is awesome too. Love, love this song.
If he isn’t winning the Zach Bryan is a close second! That’s just my opinion but both guys are definitely holding the future of country music in their hands!
This song really hits hard when you’re fresh out of a relationship especially when the reason is one lost interest in the other. It hits me hard but it’s such a good song. Great job on it!
For the record, throwing in the towel takes some effort… I’ve known that thought, felt that feeling. This song brought me back 10 years to the hardest break up of my life. I’m so grateful to have lived through it and make it to the other side. When you’ve been through this, the feeling is pretty much indescribable. Until Bailey summed it sumes it up with rhythm and rhyme. Thanks for giving the abstract a face! ❤
Lyrics: We've been swingin' and missin' It ain't broke yet, but damn, it needs fixin' Been a while since your kiss felt like kissin' It's just different We've been talkin' 'bout forever since we've been together Somethin' 'bout a ring makes you think we're better off with All this but we're caught in Between a rock and a hard place Red wine and mistakes Tears rollin' down your face When I walked out that door And that's when I lost it A midnight in Austin Damn, I'm exhausted What the hell's this all for? Is this where it mends or it breaks? Between a rock and a hard place For the record, shit Throwin' in the towel takes some effort So I'd rather ride it out for better weather Together Between a rock and a hard place Red wine and mistakes Tears rollin' down your face When I walked out that door And that's when I lost it A midnight in Austin Damn, I'm exhausted What the hell's this all for? Is this where it mends or it breaks? Between a rock and a hard place We've been talkin' 'bout forever since we've been together Something 'bout a ring makes you think we're better off with All this but we're caught in Between a rock and a hard place Tears rollin' down your face As I walked out that door And that's when I lost it Midnight in Austin Damn, I'm exhausted What the hell's this all for? Is this where it mends or it breaks? How much more of this can we take?
I know that a few days ago I hadn't heard of him and I was watching him on the video show on CMT playing FALL IN LOVE and I started checking out the guy on Google. I was excited by him for some reason and it blew my mind about how MANY people felt the same way.
To anybody reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind may clarity replace confusion. may peace and calmness fill your life
I'm tempted to sell my whole farm because it seems everything I have is broken or going wrong all the time no matter what I do also I worked on my grandparents farm for majority of my life time and now they have kicked me off and are starting to sell everything. I was hoping to keep the farm so then I'll have it for 5 generations.
This songs been on repeat for about 2 weeks. Seeing my relationship of 7 years come to a end. & I can’t help but break down all day long. Kids keeping me afloat. But my week with them is coming to an end. Then i don’t know what’s gonna happen. Wish I can go back to how relationships use to be & they would fix it before breaking it apart. Sorry for another sad comment everyone. I love this song.
If this ever gets read, know that you should keep this up. I appreciate the honesty and the energy. I'm currently living something that this could be a soundtrack for. Blessings to you and anyone reading this. Let's stay strong out there.
It hits differently when you're feeling this way while still in the relationship. It shouldn't hurt. I know he's my person. I can feel it. We're just both hurting and struggling more than we should be. 💜💔
I normally can't listen to love and heartbreak songs, the lyrics are usually too simple and the music is usually 4/4. But this one is so different. It is in 3/4 but has been swung, also the lyrics hit hard. I love this.🎉❤. Well done, Mr. Zimmerman. Well done, sir.
This song came out soon after i went out of a serious relationship and never thought something would hit me as hard as this song did. Great song! Keep doing you and making the music us people want
This song came out while I was in my training for the marine corps. I listen to it so much because while I was gone I got left and broken by the girl I was planning to marry. You make the pain numb out just by making music for me to listen too while hitting speeds people can’t even imagine. You help me clear my head brother. Keep singing Bailey because your music is inspiring and helps so many people. I wish I could do the same but right now it’s all thanks for being my all time favorite singer brother. You are amazing keep up the good work and I look forward to bringing your music along with me on my journey thro life
"If the Marine Corps wanted you to have a wife they would have issued you one." - Chesty Puller but on a serious note if you're still in brother I wouldn't plan on a stable happy relationship until you EAS
Just heard you and this song 1st time today on 99.5 in Ft. Worth, but I used to live in Austin. My favorite lines are “red wine & mistakes running down her face” and ““midnight in Austin.” Both create a mental video with so few words. Whooee! That’s some good song writing there! I’m a 71 yr old new fan! Hope you’ll be in FW soon!
Such an amazing young man. Your songs speak to people from 20 to 50. Bailey, I'm sure you're going to be 2023s CMA artist of the year! Just a phenomen!! Don't ever stop❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
This song really just sums up life in general in certain seasons. I honestly fell in love with this song and have listened more times than I can count. This song was my first introduction to Bailey Zimmerman and I just love his music. Going to go see him at one of his shows in Texas
Your story telling..... it's healing. Thank you Bailey for helping me in a healing process I thought I was done with but I was only lying to myself. I'm excited for your arena tours where you're a headliner and I'll be front row. Keep going Bailey, God bless 🙌
To the one who's reading this, I hope you are doing alright, I hope that all the pain you are facing right now will turn into a great achievement. Always remember that God is always with us. He will bless, guide, and protect us.
Hearing this song makes me feel that there is other people that have the same problems that I do. I had gotten burned 8 years ago and got a divorce to the love of my life due to my accident. I have PTSD besides depression and anxiety every day is a struggle for me. I just started working out in the work force and it is a struggle every day to not take everything so seriously when I get offended by other people but it is hard to not feel that way. I am a good person and what I went through I don't wish on anyone. I keep moving forward after every incident that happens but it is hard and there are days that I was gone from this earth. Just maybe I would be happier. But for the last 4 months I went back to working out at the gym and it has been better but you get one bad apple that ruins the whole moment. I listen to this song every morning. It is a great song that you have made. God bless you.❤
Admittedly, this is where we are right now. Been playing this song on loop trying to figure out if it's going to mend or break for good. Never has a song captured a mood so completely.
Right there with ya. Almost 25 yrs w/ her and she tells me i don't love you anymore. Not where its going but know you aren't the only one going through it
Me and my hubby were here about 5 years ago. Remember, it's just a rough season, I promise, if u can get through this time, it's better than you can ever imagine on the other side of the hard place.
my beautiful granddaughter is really hurting from the relationship of 4 years shes been in and she just sent this to me 😭 OF COURSE I cried .. I HOPE AND PRAY HE COMES BACK I KNOW HE LOVES HER AND I KNOW SHE DOES..SHE TRULY DOES LOVE HIM .. life is tough thanks for putting a song to it .. you're 👍 great
@@BamryInParis it’s not weird . There such a thing called forgiveness. Maybe her Grandaughter was in the wrong. Why would you comment that’s it’s weird for a grandmother praying that her granddaughter’s family comes back together.
I know this song is about love and relationships, but 3 of my friends passed away in a car crash a couple months ago. One of the girls loved this song so much. I can’t listen to it without thinking of her 💔 Rest in Peace Kiya, Jeneva, Caleb 🕊️
This hit home for me. The girl I loved told me she fell out of love with me in the span of a couple days out of nowhere after months of being together and lied about her ex who she still has feelings for and lied about the relationship with her guy best friend to me. God only knows what else she hid from me. This songs helps me get through it all. I love this song so much, amazing job. Thank you
Kinda similar here but we were together 6 years and went through a lot together and weathered many storms together and I was told I was her soulmate and love of her life. The best in every way than anyone before me and how she could never imagine a life without me and we was engaged to get married and then she started being sneaky on that damn phone and started lying to me about who she's talking too. We were off social media for years we both agreed to it to focus on us and things were great then she gets back on social media of instagram and back on facebook and then she let those people in her ear alter her thinking. She started not being herself and instead of it being about us as a family her words for years she started making it about just her. She was changing her life around for the best for herself meeting me while on probation for past drug charges. The life she had before me was wreckless and bad and she met me in mental health group we were friends for months then she ask me out and I said yes and we started dating and I helped her in her wishes to change her life around for the better, no more drugs, no more bars, no more partying and just the wild life she lived before me and she had lost her kids to system cause of that life before and I was by her side in major support and helped her win them back and provided a better stable home and enviroment for her and her kids and everything was great for a while but then she wanted to argue more, started being mean and snappy at me ans started treating me like crap. She made me feel so low around others being super nice to random men in public and snappy mean to me and I'd ask her in the car why shes doing that and she'd say cause they ain't you. Just mean for no reason and started saying she had to give up being happy to be with me and yet she never had to be with me that's the thing she asked ne out and wanted to change her life around so I helped with that and she twisted it like I ruined her life of wreckless fun. She had to go to the hospital once and it was near 2 hours away and I drove that 3 times in a day back and forth getting stuff she needed or wanted from home as she had to stay several days there and their was 2 male nurses and she laughed and giggled with them and was nothing but bossy and snappy at me. She even made her 12 year daughter cry being mean to her too. When she got out and on the way back home she was on the phone with her mom telling her mom she needs a man like those nurses that understand her and I just shook my head. For years I went out my way for her and was praised by her and her family how great a man I am for her and so good to her. She praised me too and then she changed. See Im anti drugs and don't party and more introvert as I'm a sigma male. She loved that about me but it seems that wild extrovert side of her took over again and I stood in the way to her going out having her wild fun so she made herself not like me tge last 2 years of our 6 year relationship. She bragged to me for years how good she is at making herself not like someone to make it easier to get rid of them. She started hiding chats with guys from me and I caught her. The lies just piled up and things got really bad and she left. Then I left the home as it wasn't home no more. So yes I understand man. My ex turned narscissist and man they can destroy you inside out.
BLUExEYEDxSLICKT I’m so sorry that happened to you man. There’s a lot I left out that happened to me but our stories are very similar besides the duration of time. Crazy how I/we tried to fix someone and comfort them from thighs they did in their past only for them to turn back to it and want nothing to do with us. My ex got more secretive and would constantly entertain other guys and I let it slide because I loved her. What I’ve taken from what happened is that yes it ripped me to shreds but I think it was a blessing it ended now rather than later on. It showed me I shouldn’t let myself get stepped on and force myslef to be happy in a one sided relationship. It’s going to take me some time because I had trust issues before and now they are horrible from the countless lies that unfolded when we broke up. I know there’s another person for me out there I just wish this wasn’t part of the process. At the end of the day, as bad as it seems I know it’s for the best that you two ended things as you now know her true intentions. Things will get better
BLUExEYEDxSLICKT also today I found out that she started see and then dating another guy less than a week after we broke up even tho she told me she needed so much time to work on herself and could not commit to a relationship. If I’m going to be honest this really hurt me even though I thought I was over her. She pulled so many cards for a reason to why we needed to end things and I fought so hard for it to work but she refused to even try. She showed no emotion when we discussed ending things and only cried when she finally admitted she still loved her ex and wishes she never lost him. She had told me in the past it was a 4 day thing and not that they had been hooking up for months and dating for many more after that. The guy best friend thing wrecked me too as she told me he was like a brother to her and never had any feelings for him. When she told me she wanted to hook up with him and talked to him every day of our relationship that’s when I finally broke and gave up. The only happiness she showed that whole weekend we broke up is when she talked about and fantasied hooking up with a bunch of other guys. That’s when I knew I meant nothing to her. She then told me she just wanted a hookup from the start and saw I was the guy who treated her the best out of everyone and stayed for that. I felt/still feel so betrayed and I hope I can fully get over it soon. She always brought up her exes and I should have know all she ever wanted to get was jump around from guy to guy. She even told me she loved men and was proud of the amount of guys she got with and plan on getting with when she gets back to college. Never again will I let myslef get in that situation. I know it’s a building block in my life but I could have done without the trauma. It’s hard right now because I can’t see myslef in another relationship for the time being in fear of this happening again and the fact that she went right to another guy just makes me feel worthless. She very well could have cheated on me up I don’t think that if she did it would make me feel any worse than I did. I’m doing better now but I’m trying to cover up all the hurt my keeping myself busy.
BLUExEYEDxSLICKT a couple of songs that help me get through this and might help you if you ever feel down about your situation is Dear Rodeo/Monday Morning Merle by Cody Johnson, something in the orange by Zach Bryan, and Signed Sober you by Hardy. These aren’t the happiest songs in the world but help me know I’m not alone. Dear rodeo has always been my favorite song and now it means even more to me. Signed sober you is the newest one I’ve found and it’s really helped me a lot.
Bailey this song is EVERYTHING 🥹🥹🥹 it’s like we sat down and talked about my personal life and then you turned it into this song and “fall in love” thanks for giving the words I could’ve never spoken 💕
When my Dad passed away two yeas ago, my daughter played this at his funeral. I miss my Daddy so much and I am so glad my kids got to know him, they never got to know my mom as she passed when i was 15. This song makes me cry evertime I hear it. Thank you for such a beautiful song.
When I hear this song, I think of my cousin that was killed this year. Losing her is the hardest loss I've ever felt and it has been a year of grief, survivors guilt, tears. Love Bailey's songs... many of them help me cope with losing her. Every song lyric doesn't always have to fit your life or situation. They fit to you, just how they do. I imagine the tears running down my face, as she walked out the door (of life)... me losing it, feeling exhausted. And just having to move on with my life. Just wanted to share... Religiously also hits so hard, "at the back of this church, begging God just to stop the hurt". The hardest...is that the year leading up to losing her, I would hear "fall in love" and get so excited every time. She lived in South Carolina and I was finally thinking about moving there... so naturally the song was a fun sign. And now, it is something else. I couldn't imagine going back there now. Thx for anyone reading.
Been married for 29 years. I have been fighting for our marriage the entire time. Drugs drinking and other women were always front and center with him. I am at the breaking point. This song tells my feelings 100%.
@scottwilliams1709 Helloscottwilliams1709, Thank you for your answer. I do appreciate your simple hello and it did make me smile, I love the simple things of life. Have a great evening :)
Second divorce at 29 it is what it is. My generation just doesn't have family values anymore. Getting Injured in a car accident that wasn't my fault has cost me the love of my life twice. Men are loved for what we can provide and there will always be a better provider than you.
My wife who I was with for eight years and we have two beautiful baby girls with and one boy passed, left me five years ago for someone else and was able to take our girls with her across the country. Got into alcohol and had to get on meds to get out of the withdrawals and have been sober, but I still can’t settle for anyone else and it aches me every night of my life.
That sounds so awful. But just remember that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. You will undoubtedly always feel a sense of loss and grief but things will get better and life can suprise you in unexpected ways. Just keep pushing and don’t let negative thoughts take over. I’m sure you are a great guy
It hurts when you stood by his side and accepted everything and believed him that we can be family but it turns out it was all lies 😢 9 years of being together and going 4 years of being married. This song hits different when you are going through it ☹️😞
I've been obsessed with this song since it was just a few lines on tiktok. I never thought I'd feel this song in my soul when it came out, but life happens! LOVE this song
Sounds like real hillcounty Texas music. I don't know anything about this guy, but this will be huge. I live in Montana now. Haven't been home in 20 years... made me homesick and miss the Guadalupe river. The grueen dance hall....love it
Every time I turn on the radio I'm always switching stations looking either you or Morgan. Y'all are both my favorite artists by far no competition and it's great to see y'all touring together. I wish I could see a concert cuz I have ya'll on in my ears every day.
I had just ended my engagement after finding out he had cheated on me the whole relationship and then this song came out right after and a song has never made me cry harder or explained how I was feeling better than this.
You are the type of people I salute because I know people like you are going through hell and that's why it will never cheat on my girlfriend I'm young but i will never do something like that because people like that are cowards
It's like you wonder every day if there is someone out there that can make you feel like yourself again. Bring that joy back. I had to just be honest and end it. And some days I regret it, because no one wants to be alone. And starting over is so hard. But this song hit all the feelings.
Great song and performance. I just saw him perform this on the AMA’s. Even before I heard the lyrics, his delivery warmed my heart, so had to look him up on UA-cam.
This hits hard ❤ love this song sm it was all me and my cousins listened to! I won’t see them for a few years yet atm so when I miss them I know I always have this to sing to❤❤❤
This song believe it or not reminds me of my family...😔 all the fighting, bickering, backstabbing, separation, hate...the giving up on each other...being caught in the middle of it all and just being SO damn tired of it all & just wanting your family to pull their shit together & LOVE each other...🙏💜💪
@@ashleyphipps6645 Dont ride it out for your Babies. That will be for all the wrong reasons. U deserve to be happy you owe that to yourself and your Kid/Kids. Keep your headd up and stay strong. 🤫
If this song doesn’t make you stop and relive moments in the back of your mind nothing will. When you were feeling like everything was falling apart and you don’t know how you would keep going and now look how far you have come.
Been married for two years.. together ten years, three children our careers and life established. First year of marriage was this song to a T. Wanted to walk. He cheated. Never ever did that in all 10 years but we were literally roommates, fighting daily, no love no respect no friendship. Thankfully our lord worked us through it. Therapy, communication and taking time for us really helped us. This song though got me through it all. We’ve never been happier. Our marriage is solid. Forgiveness has been given and now we work TOGETHER! Thank you Bailey for this song! It brought BOTH of us together❤
Congratulations ❤ coming up our 40th anniversary- fixing worth it - 3 kids here, who married and coming on 10th grandchild in December
I just got cheated on by my wife ,I thought she was so great and what a fool I was ,I guess it is what it is if I'm the clown I guess I should look the part hell with it ,GODBLESS everybody going thru stuff it's best sometimes to just be alone free of heartbreak ,all women claim all men are at fault but my experience has shown me something much different
@user-qm5on9gl3x sorry You are going through that It sucks to be cheated on I've been married twice and both of them treated me awful but I kept trying to stay and fix it I lasted over 20 years with my first husband He drank a lot and was abusive when he was drunk He always cheated The second one drank and did drugs He was abusive coming down off the drugs He swears he never cheated IDK if he did but I divorced him because I was so tired of being the punching bag I stayed single and started taking care of my mom and my nieces kids to save them from being in foster care my mom passed away the kids went back home after their mom got clean I stayed busy keeping my mind off my messed up life never doing drugs until one day something change inside me I tried to keep my head straight but failed miserably my life has been going downhill every since I tried using drugs and I want to get off them but it seems like I can't I tell myself I am stopping but I haven't Something always happens to cause me to lose my will power I HAVE.NOBODY NOW My family are deceased all but 1 sister and she is in a nursing home I never see her because my car has been tore up for over a year I can't afford to fix it I'm living in a run down camper I see no way out until God's timing and His willingness to show mercy and help me to figure out how to beat all this I HAVE FAITH in Him I'm asking for prayers and I will keep all of you in my prayers too Sorry for venting to you but I needed to get that out and I haven't able to because like I said I have nobody May God bless all of ya'll keep your faith and congratulations to the ones that are sober and still with their families
John 3:16-17 “For God so loved the world he gave his only begotten Son so who so ever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world but to save the world through him.” God bless everybody that is reading this prayers for you all and your family in Jesus Christ name amen 🙏
Marriage isn't a joke. I'm with my husband for 20years and I can't stand him even breathing sometimes and there're days when I love him so much that it feels like my chest will explode in a minute. I'm happy for you that you made it and you're on a good wave now. Greeting from Czechia.❤
This song didn’t make me cry; but it definitely ripped forward the memories of all the hell I put my wife through, and the grace and strength she had to put me against the wall and wake me up, most definitely saving my life… And THAT is what made me cry. What an incredible talent, a powerful song, and a bright future for Bailey Zimmerman.
There, I just texted my wife to tell her I love her.
good for you man, hope you guys fix whatever is going on.
As someone whose been that woman, I am so happy for you guys- I know she must be so proud!
@Kc Leroux, Don't give up. Include her in every thing you do outside of work, I don't care what it is. After 32 year's married, my only marriage, his 3rd, 13 year's between us & been in rough spots, but they can always be gotten past. We do everything together, hunt, fish, ride, boat, camping, anything we used to do, we began doing again. Find something she truly wants to do & make the time to schedule it & I don't care if it's dance or pottery & she'll fall back in love again.
I hope you are doing a whole lot better now my brother
Brings back memories of my husband and I 😭
“Throwin in the towel takes some effort.” That line right there is as real as it gets. This song has grit and so much emotion in it. One of my favorite songs of all time.
Hell I tell you that’s the easy road though. It harder path staying together, but the road gets better ❤
@@nathanwalcott3959 both are hard for there own reasons I think it really depends on how bad the realaship has got staying together can sometimes can be harder for sure but at the the same time I think that the line still has value in some instances and it's often not talked about enough about the end of relationships like obviously it's hard but that line just really hit at something I think and it's hard to exsplain it hits at how mentally draining it is when you decide to cut off someone and it implies that the person been through that before and realizes like how tiring both choices can be.
That right there is the part that hits me the hardest 💔
Agree 100%. It broke my heart doing that...throwing the towel in is so hard. But mental health is worth it.
That line always reminds me of ‘Better Off Wrong’ by Randy Rogers Band.
This Song Is Open Different With Love Understand Respect Loyalty, honesty, honestly, it's like.
Someone that have your heare and your heare has been broken but cant says how you feel about whet is going on and being confused about it
Been with my husband for almost 10 years, and I find this relatable.
“For the record, shit
Throwin' in the towel takes some effort
So I'd rather ride it out for better weather
Together”
Spot on sometimes.
Love this song so much 💕
13 years and I know the feeling. I hope it gets better, for the both of us.
Been with my wife since 98. Not only is she my wife but my dream girl. I feel you I am trying my best to save my marriage now. Not due to cheating but due to not showing her the love and affection she needs. I just hope its not to late as i fear there may already be someone giving that to her
Girl me too 12 years now
@@McKaylaMHarris I'm 12 yea hoping the same
14 years I can relate. Good luck to all.
Been married 35yrs. This song goes both ways. Fix or break. It ain’t easy but it can be worth it. We’ve seen our share but we ain’t quitting. We fix it and will continue to do so. I hope y’all can too
Amen
Same.
Hope so brother..
Over 20 years here. He is my best friend and also where at times I feel the most hate in my heart. But the hate stems from the love and it is always better after the fight when we push through. But not every relationship is, if it is toxic in any type of physical way..u HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND MOST. Leave for the kids. They see all. If he is wanted by every single woman that sees him, (my dude) it isn't his fault. Don't be mean to him for it, be ex nice. Always. He is human, he will make mistakes along the way. Let them throw it at him every time u are away and if u create a loving nurturing enviroment for him to come home to, he will. Don't fight him for porn, watch it w. Or bring home a hottie for him every once in awhile. (Bible thumpers.... shhh, we know. It is ok...quit being so cult like and judgmental, go smoke a joint) Never let them win. Being the queen is hard but it also just part of being the queen. Smile and keep quiet. It isn't worth it, I promise. The loudest words u can say in any situation is none. Nothing. Ever. I believe that more than I believe anything else and with every part of me. Not one word. Walk...smiling. U will get followed. He will stay and apologize and buy u gifts. Make him think he is losing u by not responding and .... Law of attraction. The energy u create is manifested and the universe gives u back to u. In every way. If u must stay, stay and lower ur expectations, assume he will always cheats and he can't hurt u, break u. And find a hot friend to ease the pain. Whatever is the case, make sure u r ok, and if not move around a lil. Cause love is for idiots but love can keep u warm at night and make life a lil more fun. God bless y'all. Ps don't u worry about the Home wrecker get what they have coming to them, u don't have to worry bout it. Ignore. ESPECIALLY IF THEY THROW IT I YOUR FACE. It will break their black lil heart not getting any reaction. Smile. Create. Pray. *Maleah.bianco Evans
@@maleahbianco . I think you and my Bride would be great friends.... #healthy
I heard this song for the 1st time on my way to an appointment and it hit hard in the moment. We had been having some issues but didn't realize the extent until that afternoon. She told me there wasn't an "us' anymore and that she couldn't do it anymore. That was on June 14th and looking back now it needed to happen for us both after a couple months shy of 6 years. Now. I'm 50 something days sober, went back to school, and despite being separated we're slowly working things out and if all goes right we'll be one another's forever. Sometimes things need to fall apart to fall back together.
good luck from a random 13 year old. love you my brother
Wish the best bud, it's hard to give a dam these days, millions of distractions and tons of hidden agendas. Divorced 9 years and the only thing I hate is the distance it's put between me and my kids.
Good luck, the hard work always pays off in the end, no matter the outcome.
This is my situation but backwards. I am the woman. And me and my husband been together since we were in 9th grade. We are 32/33 now. He has battled with addiction and it’s tearing our marriage up. I CANT take anymore. I love him with every part of my heart. But MY heart is broken. 🥺🥺 I pray everyday that he will stop this mess and come back to his family. We have 2 beautiful children. But we have had enough of this addiction.
@@amandabailey5846 Addiction is a absolute heart break, it's sad how many thing someone can become addicted to, I feel you, being the oldest of 4 brothers I've been through alcoholism that tore my parents apart, my middle brother in and out of rehab his fieoncie who passed was a rn helped him dryout and get properly diagnosed and medicated. There is help out there if you find the currage to ask.
My husband of 14 years, our 3 children and I are broken💔 @Jose Gambino sends me this song, oh your words to this song has me on REPEAT 😢 I love my husband. Please pray for our marriage 🙏🏽 😭💔 🙏🏽
Praying let God's will be done in Jesus name Amen ❤️
Thank you please PRAY 🙏🏽 I MISS MY HUSBAND TREMENDOUSLY ❤💔
Prayers
🙏🙏🙏🙏
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This dudes 3 songs are forever on my dirt road playlist! Fall In Love, Never Coming Home, Rock and a hard place! The passion,heartache, and true grit in his voice singing these lyrics hits so damn deep! It’s comforting to know that someone feels exactly what you did when you thought no one could! Keep on bringing these jams my boy!!!!! You’re saving us one song at a time
You can add Never Leave to your list of songs now sir!
And Waiting
Never coming home!! Ugh…they’re all so good!!
You should listen to "waiting"
Ongggg those my favorite songs
This song gets me in my feels. This is exactly where I was back in 2017 when my marriage fell apart. I won't say it was one person or the other, we both shared faults in the dissolution of our marriage. No one ever gets married thinking they will end up divorced. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. It sucks, it hurts like hell, but you pick yourself up and go on with your life. We were married for a few months shy of 14 years, and that's definitely not an easy thing to walk away from or start over from. I like to believe that we are better people for it. We kick ass at co parenting, we just didn't work out as a married couple.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I am currently going through the process and it’s very encouraging to hear you came out of it stronger.
I threw in the towel with my relationship. I broke my own heart, but I couldn't keep trying for nothing. I love that man, but there's only so much you can do if the other person doesn't try too. It's been over a month and the pain is still so raw. I miss him everyday, but I couldn't keep being treated that way.
I've been going through it...I keep going back and hurtin myself. I love her with everything in me but at some point you have to start lovin yourself!
I’m going though it. I lost myself by begging someone to love me right. I helped them fight their demons while they became mines. 😢
How’re you doing now? I was where you’re at a year ago. Now, we’re back together and it’s the best thing I could have asked for
proud of you girl!
I know how that feels I'm going through it now except I love her and wan to be with her so my dumbass stays and its stupid or I am
This song makes me cry like a baby. I just lost my grand dad and this just breaks my heart into a million pieces. He was all I had left. I'm broken and lost now.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Both my folks have passed. Lost them both, I was young. I feel your pain. This song really hits hard. Again, sorry for your loss.😊
Same my aunt died and I miss her so much 😢
Mine died two weeks ago. 😢it’s so crazy to think about it bc it’s like I go back to being a kid spending summers with him and my grandma and just remembering they’d live forever.
@@lcjones0519 so very sorry for your loss..❤️
We are all lost trying to find our way.
Bailey kills this song. I can literally feel the pain- it's so raw, real, and honest. This is a song everyone can relate to at some point in their life.
Hello Marie 👋 how are you ?
Just went to your concert at the Crawfish festival. My girlfriend of almost 2 years and I broke up a day or two later and this concert was the last memory we had the chance to spend together. I doubt this even gets noticed, but I just want to say thank you for the great memories man.
Definitely is noticed
You’ll be ok. It sucks right n I love/hate my husband. I pray your young. Doesn’t make it hurt less but you have more time to meet someone. You’re noticed
Down in mississippi?
Sometimes the memories are just so suffocating. I get it though.
How you doin man?
Some songs just hit strait to your soul. When the artist sings with such passion and spirit and tou know exactly how it feels. This song also reminds me of " Only love can hurt like this".
Been married to my beautiful wife for 14 years last month and weve both been stuggling addiction to pills then heroin for the last 8 years. I got out of jail yesterday morning and my wife still has 10 more days left to do. I just did 3 weeks in the county had plenty of time to dry outand see what I've been messing up on and our marriage was go down fast but i tell you my feeling for that woman are as strong now as they were when we first start dating. Im so thankful i got my life back and my wife back. This is day number 2 for me keep me in the right path god i cant fail anymore.
Praying for you and your wife.
Hang in there buddy
Same path dude got out a month ago ladies in treatment rn if you want it keep that energy no matter what
I will be praying for you and your wife I believe in y'all if you need someone don't hesitate to reach out everyone needs someone to talk to
That's beautiful and relevant to me and my own true love... I love you guys
1:01... tears rolling down your face... The genuine look of sadness in his eyes... when they know they fucked up... or you fucked up. A heart was shattered.
Going through a really tough long term heartbreaking marriage separation from my husband and this song explains everything I'm going through emotionally .... Hits me very sincerely
Same here...14 years...be strong...hope and pray for the best...and for the strength to overcome the pain...I'm 10 days in...9 days sober...(Pray more, worry less...saw it on the wall of a remodel house...took a picture...trying to remember it everyday.)
same here, 19 years, 3 kids and my heart is broken..it’s been a month and I don’t know if I can go on😢
You are doing amazing. Keep it up . Lost my girlfriend of 6 years I know it’s nothing like that but I messed up the whole thing and I learnt to much , changing myself for the better so no one has to experience that. Has pretty much nothing to do with your comment but I needed to let that out
Momma always told me growing up sometimes you need the song and sometimes you need the message. The message hits a lot harder the older you get.
I tell you you need song and a good beer😊😊
Yeah the older I get the more it hits better
Facts💔🙏
Real shit ❤
Best thing I ever heard
I let every important person ive ever loved walk away becouse of my addiction. My mother my fiancee my brother is the only one he came to me crying telling me me brother i love you but if you dont get your shit togetjer ima have to ealk away to...... here i am sober crying singinh this song on the corner trying to make ends meet. God i love you and i hope you know that im going to be on that stage spreading your gospel to all who needs it.
This hits so deep. Almost 13 years with the mother of my kid & i love her more still than i ever did. Shes worth trying to make it work but i dont think the feeling is mutual. I want better for my whole family, i want happiness for all 3 of us. I just feel stuck anymore.
Hi, been with my husband for 25 yrs. We have a 23 year old son. What a blessing kids are.
He left me for his best friend's wife a few ago. Don't know why I'm replying cuz I rarely do. Guess I can relate. Hope things work out for you and your family. Why would anyone do that after 25 years of union. No word, No warning..I thought things were going great. Guess they weren't. Didn't see this coming. My son Is 19 and boy oh boy he's going through some rebellion. Understandably so. Guess all I can do is love him through it. Don't want Anyone's empathy. Don't need a reply, so don't feel obligated. Guess I just had to get it out and say it.
Thanks to anyone who read this and prayers to everyone for happiness.😊
Your not alone brother
You're not as alone as it feels now. We are all around you. Reach out. Dont give up!
People fall off man it's just life keep your head up you got your kids be thankful to that.
Yo this my shit and I'm black good music you don't understand loving a woman it goes deep.
The emotion in this song makes me cry but I’m not in a hard place. The song is just that powerful. Great song writing and singing. This is a new staple for sure!
exactly
THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤
My husband and I will be CELEBRATING 25 YEARS THIS YEAR ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Never have we slept apart in anger. Never!!
We promised each other when we spoke, our marriage vows out loud to God and each other, that we deal with it. Period.
Not that we haven't had bad times, because we have.
To my WARRIOR HUSBAND
IGY6 FOREVER !!! Ann
That's good advice
Man...I have listened to this song so many times i cant count. It hits in a place I didn't know existed within me. It has brought me to tears to full on crying and singing at the top of my lungs.
My husband and I ahve been really struggling lately. I have no idea what is going to happen, but this song makes me feel seen. Thank you for that.
Hello Alli 👋 how are you ?
Wishing u both the best
This song can be interpreted a couple of diffrent ways- how about when you try so hard to be with someone but there are always obstacles in the way! Love it!
I feel ya!
Literally! I take this song as what you said plus. There’s always someone else for them no matter how hard you try. That’s kinda how I take this song at least
Makes me think of my husband and I struggling through life together. Just stuck between a rock and a hard place.
And then he unexpectedly dies 😢
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Bailey Zimmerman where were back in 2019. Every song you release hits me hard and brings me back to my break up with my exfiance. Fighting for months to not lose her to later find out she had been cheating on me and my efforts were for nothing. Every song you release is filled with heart and soul. Please keep it up, you help far more people than you will ever believe
Everyone wants the beautiful relationship, not everyone wants to put in the work to have that beautiful relationship. . . Most are so addicted to the in love, butterfly, I'll die if I can't see them stage. The real relationship is after that. The life building stage. That's the beautiful. When two souls are completely comfortable together
Well said the real relationship starts when you have a couple of years together that’s when you have to work at it together
Married 5 years. Together 10. 3 kids, And this is where we're at. It's hard to fight for your marriage when you're the only one fighting.
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I totally understand. I am tired of putting all the effort only to find I'm the only one who must want to be a happy family. Not a perfect man, definitely a broken man at this point. But I try to be the best man/dad I can. Stay strong, I believe that happiness will come.
Amen brother
Same boat brother hope shit gets better for us😥
This song speaks🗣️ volumes to the turbulent times in relationships! I have been with my husband for 24 years and JESUS does this song describe PAST emotions 🖤 💚❤️.
I was extremely fortunate to see this performed by Jet Harvey (songwriter) this last week at The Listening Room. Spectacular, so moving. Bailey is awesome too. Love, love this song.
This song will be number one on the charts. This kid will be nominated for best new artist at the CMA's this year.
It’s certified gold & platinum already
If he isn’t winning the Zach Bryan is a close second! That’s just my opinion but both guys are definitely holding the future of country music in their hands!
Along with Morgan Wallen
This is some INCREDIBLE WRITING.i agree with ya 100% . Best New dude.
Damn this hits home
The way this song gives me chills every single time and I can keep it on repeat and it NEVER gets old. Damn it mannn ❤️❤️❤️
Is it still on repeat?
@@tastychemicals7830 sure is 😌
Great voice and lyrics I love it
I love this song 🎉 so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉
Nobody breaks your heart like somebody who says they love you......
Yes for sure
definitely
Yeah, losing someone’s love makes you feel unlovable
Isn’t that the truth
@@livinglifeleonawell said
It’s not often you hear music that makes you feel something anymore.❤
Yes, I second this…🥺🎸🤘🏾
If it dont make ya feel something, it aint music.
Man I always say they don't make good music anymore but you just worded it so beautifully
Fr but u should try Religiously I relate to it so much
Word!! Had this song on repeat the last couple days.
This song really hits hard when you’re fresh out of a relationship especially when the reason is one lost interest in the other. It hits me hard but it’s such a good song. Great job on it!
For the record, throwing in the towel takes some effort… I’ve known that thought, felt that feeling. This song brought me back 10 years to the hardest break up of my life. I’m so grateful to have lived through it and make it to the other side. When you’ve been through this, the feeling is pretty much indescribable. Until Bailey summed it sumes it up with rhythm and rhyme. Thanks for giving the abstract a face! ❤
Lyrics:
We've been swingin' and missin'
It ain't broke yet, but damn, it needs fixin'
Been a while since your kiss felt like kissin'
It's just different
We've been talkin' 'bout forever since we've been together
Somethin' 'bout a ring makes you think we're better off with
All this but we're caught in
Between a rock and a hard place
Red wine and mistakes
Tears rollin' down your face
When I walked out that door
And that's when I lost it
A midnight in Austin
Damn, I'm exhausted
What the hell's this all for?
Is this where it mends or it breaks?
Between a rock and a hard place
For the record, shit
Throwin' in the towel takes some effort
So I'd rather ride it out for better weather
Together
Between a rock and a hard place
Red wine and mistakes
Tears rollin' down your face
When I walked out that door
And that's when I lost it
A midnight in Austin
Damn, I'm exhausted
What the hell's this all for?
Is this where it mends or it breaks?
Between a rock and a hard place
We've been talkin' 'bout forever since we've been together
Something 'bout a ring makes you think we're better off with
All this but we're caught in
Between a rock and a hard place
Tears rollin' down your face
As I walked out that door
And that's when I lost it
Midnight in Austin
Damn, I'm exhausted
What the hell's this all for?
Is this where it mends or it breaks?
How much more of this can we take?
I love every song this kid has come out with. The rawness of his voice is really refreshing! You know it’s him as soon as he starts singing.
The mark of a great artist is you know who it is without being told
I know that a few days ago I hadn't heard of him and I was watching him on the video show on CMT playing FALL IN LOVE and I started checking out the guy on Google. I was excited by him for some reason and it blew my mind about how MANY people felt the same way.
THANK YOU ❤🔥
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You know this is a great song, because it hits like a punch to the gut
yes
The words you can’t seem to find for explaining how you feel.
What you want to say but can’t find the right words
it do
To anybody reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind may clarity replace confusion. may peace and calmness fill your life
😢thank you for sharing! I needed this today.
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I'm tempted to sell my whole farm because it seems everything I have is broken or going wrong all the time no matter what I do also I worked on my grandparents farm for majority of my life time and now they have kicked me off and are starting to sell everything. I was hoping to keep the farm so then I'll have it for 5 generations.
That made me cry n I appreciate it cus I feel it n I kno I'm not alone
Its never going to brother. Listen to the lyrics, they are very literal for many of us and we can't forget her. Not ever
This songs been on repeat for about 2 weeks. Seeing my relationship of 7 years come to a end. & I can’t help but break down all day long. Kids keeping me afloat. But my week with them is coming to an end. Then i don’t know what’s gonna happen. Wish I can go back to how relationships use to be & they would fix it before breaking it apart. Sorry for another sad comment everyone. I love this song.
Hugs and more hugs❤
If this ever gets read, know that you should keep this up. I appreciate the honesty and the energy. I'm currently living something that this could be a soundtrack for. Blessings to you and anyone reading this. Let's stay strong out there.
Same. Found his song on a tiktok and it's all I can listen to. Also check out Change by him
This one, Change, Never Coming Home. All of them are fire good keep it up.. 💯 they all have True meaning..
It hits differently when you're feeling this way while still in the relationship. It shouldn't hurt. I know he's my person. I can feel it. We're just both hurting and struggling more than we should be. 💜💔
Yes! That's where we are too..
I definitely feel you on that one… prayers for everyone going through a hard place🙏🏼
@@meghandavenport85 💜
@@cassieleigh2027 💜
❤ keep the faith!
I normally can't listen to love and heartbreak songs, the lyrics are usually too simple and the music is usually 4/4. But this one is so different. It is in 3/4 but has been swung, also the lyrics hit hard. I love this.🎉❤. Well done, Mr. Zimmerman. Well done, sir.
This song came out soon after i went out of a serious relationship and never thought something would hit me as hard as this song did. Great song! Keep doing you and making the music us people want
Same...
Check out my cover of this song on my UA-cam some people say I sing it better than Bailey
yep same here
Same.
just got outta a 3 year relationship and thus song hit the spot
This song came out while I was in my training for the marine corps. I listen to it so much because while I was gone I got left and broken by the girl I was planning to marry. You make the pain numb out just by making music for me to listen too while hitting speeds people can’t even imagine. You help me clear my head brother. Keep singing Bailey because your music is inspiring and helps so many people. I wish I could do the same but right now it’s all thanks for being my all time favorite singer brother. You are amazing keep up the good work and I look forward to bringing your music along with me on my journey thro life
"If the Marine Corps wanted you to have a wife they would have issued you one."
- Chesty Puller
but on a serious note if you're still in brother I wouldn't plan on a stable happy relationship until you EAS
This might sound cliched as all hell but: Thank you for your service, bro.
When I hear this song it makes me remember all I lost when I walked out the door. It's a tear jerker and it's hits soul deep.
Just heard you and this song 1st time today on 99.5 in Ft. Worth, but I used to live in Austin. My favorite lines are “red wine & mistakes running down her face” and ““midnight in Austin.” Both create a mental video with so few words. Whooee! That’s some good song writing there! I’m a 71 yr old new fan! Hope you’ll be in FW soon!
Such an amazing young man. Your songs speak to people from 20 to 50. Bailey, I'm sure you're going to be 2023s CMA artist of the year! Just a phenomen!! Don't ever stop❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@@fredhonest7258 bro you gotta chill out
@@fredhonest7258 Fred pulling honestly
Zach bryan
This song really just sums up life in general in certain seasons. I honestly fell in love with this song and have listened more times than I can count. This song was my first introduction to Bailey Zimmerman and I just love his music. Going to go see him at one of his shows in Texas
Hello Julie 👋 how are you doing today??
Your story telling..... it's healing. Thank you Bailey for helping me in a healing process I thought I was done with but I was only lying to myself. I'm excited for your arena tours where you're a headliner and I'll be front row. Keep going Bailey, God bless 🙌
To the one who's reading this, I hope you are doing alright, I hope that all the pain you are facing right now will turn into a great achievement. Always remember that God is always with us. He will bless, guide, and protect us.
“Tears rolling down your face as I walked out that door” it’s real when someone knows you love them but won’t love you the same.
True I’m always going through it 24/7
exactly
Amen
That's a fact going threw it tonight matter or a fact
Same here goin through it rn.. time to put that focus towards myself
As a wise man once said: anyone can enjoy the lyrics, but its not until you have been through it do you understand the lyrics.
going though a break up rn and she dont wanna fix it soo ig we ball
You can feel it in your soul 😢
@@Funwithcatsandbirds I said that.
I was married a long time and now divorced and still in love...I get it...
@@ItsVettoprobably same rn man😔😖😭
The fact that this song explains the unexplainable
Took the words right out of my mouth
Hearing this song makes me feel that there is other people that have the same problems that I do. I had gotten burned 8 years ago and got a divorce to the love of my life due to my accident. I have PTSD besides depression and anxiety every day is a struggle for me. I just started working out in the work force and it is a struggle every day to not take everything so seriously when I get offended by other people but it is hard to not feel that way. I am a good person and what I went through I don't wish on anyone. I keep moving forward after every incident that happens but it is hard and there are days that I was gone from this earth. Just maybe I would be happier. But for the last 4 months I went back to working out at the gym and it has been better but you get one bad apple that ruins the whole moment. I listen to this song every morning. It is a great song that you have made. God bless you.❤
Admittedly, this is where we are right now. Been playing this song on loop trying to figure out if it's going to mend or break for good. Never has a song captured a mood so completely.
Hope ur situation goes smoothly brother! Just remember whatever happens, u are where u are supposed to be. Much love your way!
Right there with ya. Almost 25 yrs w/ her and she tells me i don't love you anymore. Not where its going but know you aren't the only one going through it
@@Hobbiman 24 here and she said the same a couple months back.
@@Hobbiman how do you cope with something like that? I know it has to be hard
Me and my hubby were here about 5 years ago. Remember, it's just a rough season, I promise, if u can get through this time, it's better than you can ever imagine on the other side of the hard place.
my beautiful granddaughter is really hurting from the relationship of 4 years shes been in and she just sent this to me 😭 OF COURSE I cried .. I HOPE AND PRAY HE COMES BACK I KNOW HE LOVES HER AND I KNOW SHE DOES..SHE TRULY DOES LOVE HIM .. life is tough thanks for putting a song to it .. you're 👍 great
She’s very lucky to have you as a safe place to land. I miss my grandma so badly .
Do you really want him back in her life if he hurt her previously?
Idk the story but that seems weird
@@BamryInParis it’s not weird . There such a thing called forgiveness. Maybe her Grandaughter was in the wrong. Why would you comment that’s it’s weird for a grandmother praying that her granddaughter’s family comes back together.
❤️ love this song!! Married 12 years as of march. MARRIAGE TAKES BOTH WORKING TOGETHER!! DONT EVER GIVE UP!! TRUE LOVE STILL EXIST!! ❤️❤️
God bless you kids! We made it 25 years sadly somethings happen. But I am cheering you guys on! 🥳🥳
I hope my "ex" and me can overcome her depression and have the love you have and many more years together.
Had people ask are you okay. You just get good at hiding the pain. But damn that you okay struck a nerve I ain’t had in a long time.
I know this song is about love and relationships, but 3 of my friends passed away in a car crash a couple months ago. One of the girls loved this song so much. I can’t listen to it without thinking of her 💔 Rest in Peace Kiya, Jeneva, Caleb 🕊️
This hit home for me. The girl I loved told me she fell out of love with me in the span of a couple days out of nowhere after months of being together and lied about her ex who she still has feelings for and lied about the relationship with her guy best friend to me. God only knows what else she hid from me. This songs helps me get through it all. I love this song so much, amazing job. Thank you
Kinda similar here but we were together 6 years and went through a lot together and weathered many storms together and I was told I was her soulmate and love of her life. The best in every way than anyone before me and how she could never imagine a life without me and we was engaged to get married and then she started being sneaky on that damn phone and started lying to me about who she's talking too. We were off social media for years we both agreed to it to focus on us and things were great then she gets back on social media of instagram and back on facebook and then she let those people in her ear alter her thinking. She started not being herself and instead of it being about us as a family her words for years she started making it about just her. She was changing her life around for the best for herself meeting me while on probation for past drug charges. The life she had before me was wreckless and bad and she met me in mental health group we were friends for months then she ask me out and I said yes and we started dating and I helped her in her wishes to change her life around for the better, no more drugs, no more bars, no more partying and just the wild life she lived before me and she had lost her kids to system cause of that life before and I was by her side in major support and helped her win them back and provided a better stable home and enviroment for her and her kids and everything was great for a while but then she wanted to argue more, started being mean and snappy at me ans started treating me like crap. She made me feel so low around others being super nice to random men in public and snappy mean to me and I'd ask her in the car why shes doing that and she'd say cause they ain't you. Just mean for no reason and started saying she had to give up being happy to be with me and yet she never had to be with me that's the thing she asked ne out and wanted to change her life around so I helped with that and she twisted it like I ruined her life of wreckless fun. She had to go to the hospital once and it was near 2 hours away and I drove that 3 times in a day back and forth getting stuff she needed or wanted from home as she had to stay several days there and their was 2 male nurses and she laughed and giggled with them and was nothing but bossy and snappy at me. She even made her 12 year daughter cry being mean to her too. When she got out and on the way back home she was on the phone with her mom telling her mom she needs a man like those nurses that understand her and I just shook my head. For years I went out my way for her and was praised by her and her family how great a man I am for her and so good to her. She praised me too and then she changed. See Im anti drugs and don't party and more introvert as I'm a sigma male. She loved that about me but it seems that wild extrovert side of her took over again and I stood in the way to her going out having her wild fun so she made herself not like me tge last 2 years of our 6 year relationship. She bragged to me for years how good she is at making herself not like someone to make it easier to get rid of them. She started hiding chats with guys from me and I caught her. The lies just piled up and things got really bad and she left. Then I left the home as it wasn't home no more. So yes I understand man. My ex turned narscissist and man they can destroy you inside out.
BLUExEYEDxSLICKT I’m so sorry that happened to you man. There’s a lot I left out that happened to me but our stories are very similar besides the duration of time. Crazy how I/we tried to fix someone and comfort them from thighs they did in their past only for them to turn back to it and want nothing to do with us. My ex got more secretive and would constantly entertain other guys and I let it slide because I loved her. What I’ve taken from what happened is that yes it ripped me to shreds but I think it was a blessing it ended now rather than later on. It showed me I shouldn’t let myself get stepped on and force myslef to be happy in a one sided relationship. It’s going to take me some time because I had trust issues before and now they are horrible from the countless lies that unfolded when we broke up. I know there’s another person for me out there I just wish this wasn’t part of the process. At the end of the day, as bad as it seems I know it’s for the best that you two ended things as you now know her true intentions. Things will get better
BLUExEYEDxSLICKT also today I found out that she started see and then dating another guy less than a week after we broke up even tho she told me she needed so much time to work on herself and could not commit to a relationship. If I’m going to be honest this really hurt me even though I thought I was over her. She pulled so many cards for a reason to why we needed to end things and I fought so hard for it to work but she refused to even try. She showed no emotion when we discussed ending things and only cried when she finally admitted she still loved her ex and wishes she never lost him. She had told me in the past it was a 4 day thing and not that they had been hooking up for months and dating for many more after that. The guy best friend thing wrecked me too as she told me he was like a brother to her and never had any feelings for him. When she told me she wanted to hook up with him and talked to him every day of our relationship that’s when I finally broke and gave up. The only happiness she showed that whole weekend we broke up is when she talked about and fantasied hooking up with a bunch of other guys. That’s when I knew I meant nothing to her. She then told me she just wanted a hookup from the start and saw I was the guy who treated her the best out of everyone and stayed for that. I felt/still feel so betrayed and I hope I can fully get over it soon. She always brought up her exes and I should have know all she ever wanted to get was jump around from guy to guy. She even told me she loved men and was proud of the amount of guys she got with and plan on getting with when she gets back to college. Never again will I let myslef get in that situation. I know it’s a building block in my life but I could have done without the trauma. It’s hard right now because I can’t see myslef in another relationship for the time being in fear of this happening again and the fact that she went right to another guy just makes me feel worthless. She very well could have cheated on me up I don’t think that if she did it would make me feel any worse than I did. I’m doing better now but I’m trying to cover up all the hurt my keeping myself busy.
BLUExEYEDxSLICKT a couple of songs that help me get through this and might help you if you ever feel down about your situation is Dear Rodeo/Monday Morning Merle by Cody Johnson, something in the orange by Zach Bryan, and Signed Sober you by Hardy. These aren’t the happiest songs in the world but help me know I’m not alone. Dear rodeo has always been my favorite song and now it means even more to me. Signed sober you is the newest one I’ve found and it’s really helped me a lot.
Bailey this song is EVERYTHING 🥹🥹🥹 it’s like we sat down and talked about my personal life and then you turned it into this song and “fall in love” thanks for giving the words I could’ve never spoken 💕
When my Dad passed away two yeas ago, my daughter played this at his funeral. I miss my Daddy so much and I am so glad my kids got to know him, they never got to know my mom as she passed when i was 15. This song makes me cry evertime I hear it. Thank you for such a beautiful song.
When I hear this song, I think of my cousin that was killed this year. Losing her is the hardest loss I've ever felt and it has been a year of grief, survivors guilt, tears. Love Bailey's songs... many of them help me cope with losing her. Every song lyric doesn't always have to fit your life or situation. They fit to you, just how they do. I imagine the tears running down my face, as she walked out the door (of life)... me losing it, feeling exhausted. And just having to move on with my life. Just wanted to share... Religiously also hits so hard, "at the back of this church, begging God just to stop the hurt". The hardest...is that the year leading up to losing her, I would hear "fall in love" and get so excited every time. She lived in South Carolina and I was finally thinking about moving there... so naturally the song was a fun sign. And now, it is something else. I couldn't imagine going back there now. Thx for anyone reading.
Been married for 29 years. I have been fighting for our marriage the entire time. Drugs drinking and other women were always front and center with him. I am at the breaking point. This song tells my feelings 100%.
No matter how brutal, heartfelt lyrics make the best songs. Looking forward to more music from Bailey.
First time I heard one of your song, I was hooked, what a voice you got and the emotions in your songs, unreal so deep and humble. Love it Love it :)
Me as well love this song and got what I got by Jason Aldean
@scottwilliams1709 Helloscottwilliams1709, Thank you for your answer. I do appreciate your simple hello and it did make me smile, I love the simple things of life. Have a great evening :)
Second divorce at 29 it is what it is. My generation just doesn't have family values anymore. Getting Injured in a car accident that wasn't my fault has cost me the love of my life twice. Men are loved for what we can provide and there will always be a better provider than you.
Same thing happened to me brother "couldn't give her attention" after being bed ridden after the accident and truck got totaled
Literally one of my favorite songs of all time. I heard it and it broke me........💔😢
This hits deep down to my heart…. I’m so blessed to be able to find my wife of 13 years now. With her I wouldn’t be the man I’m now. I love u Maria
Congratulations, keep working on your relationship everyday or you'll wake up one day and she'll be gone. God bless the two of you
Amazing song! I really love it!
It's incredible!!! One of the best songs I have heard in a long time.
My wife who I was with for eight years and we have two beautiful baby girls with and one boy passed, left me five years ago for someone else and was able to take our girls with her across the country. Got into alcohol and had to get on meds to get out of the withdrawals and have been sober, but I still
can’t settle for anyone else and it aches me every night of my life.
That sounds so awful. But just remember that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. You will undoubtedly always feel a sense of loss and grief but things will get better and life can suprise you in unexpected ways. Just keep pushing and don’t let negative thoughts take over. I’m sure you are a great guy
It hurts when you stood by his side and accepted everything and believed him that we can be family but it turns out it was all lies 😢 9 years of being together and going 4 years of being married. This song hits different when you are going through it ☹️😞
This song really hits home.Been married 33 years this month. I Love him more each day....Love can b exhausting...but definitely worth it.❤
This song hits hard, thank you Bailey for this beautiful song brother ❤
I love you Bailey! 😘
I've been obsessed with this song since it was just a few lines on tiktok.
I never thought I'd feel this song in my soul when it came out, but life happens! LOVE this song
Same here I was checking UA-cam daily til he dropped it
Sounds like real hillcounty Texas music. I don't know anything about this guy, but this will be huge. I live in Montana now. Haven't been home in 20 years... made me homesick and miss the Guadalupe river. The grueen dance hall....love it
Ryan,you can see a video with gruen hall in the music video Damn Strait by Scotty Mccreery,enjoy it,this song by Bailey should be higher in the charts
I say the same!, lovely song.. perfect, makes me turn back on time.. Saludos desde Chile. :)
How are you Nicole Gipson
This song hits so hard. I repeat it at least 10 times a day if it more singing on top of my lungs.
same
Every time I turn on the radio I'm always switching stations looking either you or Morgan. Y'all are both my favorite artists by far no competition and it's great to see y'all touring together. I wish I could see a concert cuz I have ya'll on in my ears every day.
same theyre the best\
Yes I feel the same
The his song hit the spot I’m going thru it right now and this just made me feel like dang love muffin I’m sorry and it’s my fault
Mann this guy can singggg. I love his music and can’t wait for more to come ❤️
I had just ended my engagement after finding out he had cheated on me the whole relationship and then this song came out right after and a song has never made me cry harder or explained how I was feeling better than this.
You are the type of people I salute because I know people like you are going through hell and that's why it will never cheat on my girlfriend I'm young but i will never do something like that because people like that are cowards
I hope you make it brotha
Man. Your blowing us away with your voice and your skills. You and your team are AWESOME. good job Fam. !!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
“Damn I’m exhausted. What the hells this all for?”
Hit me hard.
10000%
Frr
Yep😢
the emotion in this video is so amzing
Keep Your Faith Been There Still There But All Keep going no Matter what❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
This song hits hard, nobody tells you after a few years together you hit a roommate stage and it’s here that it’ll either mend or break.
Going through this now. Trying to navigate and find our way
@@ronniesickinger6799 same here... giving it another try and hoping to mend
Currently experiencing this after 10 years of marriage.Praying with everything in me that we make it.
Currently in the roommate phase of our 12 year relationship. Damn it’s hard. I want to try but he doesn’t. So I have given up trying any more.
currently there in my 2 year marriage. i refuse to just give up on him. hes MY person. my mental health hasnt been the best. but im fking trying hard.
It’s the throwin in the towel for me!! I married two years ago after 9 years and things just ain’t the same!! This song is everything ❤
Same here. Something changed when we got married and I don’t know up from down anymore 😭 I feel So lost!
It's like you wonder every day if there is someone out there that can make you feel like yourself again. Bring that joy back. I had to just be honest and end it. And some days I regret it, because no one wants to be alone. And starting over is so hard. But this song hit all the feelings.
Great song and performance. I just saw him perform this on the AMA’s. Even before I heard the lyrics, his delivery warmed my heart, so had to look him up on UA-cam.
This hits hard ❤ love this song sm it was all me and my cousins listened to! I won’t see them for a few years yet atm so when I miss them I know I always have this to sing to❤❤❤
Imma have this song on repeat for a while. I love your music keep up the good work and I can't wait to see more music.❤
This song believe it or not reminds me of my family...😔 all the fighting, bickering, backstabbing, separation, hate...the giving up on each other...being caught in the middle of it all and just being SO damn tired of it all & just wanting your family to pull their shit together & LOVE each other...🙏💜💪
Rips my heart every time! Still love it! Very, very good song!
Someone in a struggling relationship here. This song hits, and I hope we can make it work but if we can’t I’ll be binging your songs.
Same here brother
Same here 😭 11 years in and trying my best to ride it out for better weather.
Same here man, we ain’t broke but damn it needs fixin 🙁
@@ashleyphipps6645 Dont ride it out for your Babies. That will be for all the wrong reasons. U deserve to be happy you owe that to yourself and your Kid/Kids. Keep your headd up and stay strong. 🤫
praying for you brother
Listening to this hit on top 40. Man I’m glad others see how great an artist you are. Keep on keeping on.
2:53 gives me chills everytime! Song is so damn good.
Hey man you probably won’t read this but my dad’s friends with your cousin Justin. I had no clue this was you😂
Yea right 🙄
@@colette8 I’m dead ass serious.. I used to live down the road with his cousin. His name is Justin Zimmerman. I live in Decatur IL
If this song doesn’t make you stop and relive moments in the back of your mind nothing will. When you were feeling like everything was falling apart and you don’t know how you would keep going and now look how far you have come.
Dam Bailey!!! Yes! Your voice makes my heart race! Haha. Stay real and raw don’t let the labels change you because you already have it!