Her H.E.N.R.Y. Boyfriend MOVED HER FROM DALLAS For A SOFT LIFE! | Did Her Dreams Come True?
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- Her H.E.N.R.Y. Boyfriend MOVED HER FROM DALLAS For A SOFT LIFE! | Did Her Dreams Come True?
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A high financial status doesn’t exclude you from being a doormat simp. Eventually her looks will fade and he’ll be left with who she really is.
Or god forbid he has a career downturn
One thing I love about Gen z and younger millennials they are honest to a fault. Older generations use to be saying one thing and doing another.
Kevin Samuels talked about this. He said always have your woman working for you never let her sit home and do nothing.
Apparently, this young man never heard of, nor followed The Principles of Kevin Samuels!
Worst thing to do in dating is selling women a dream
So basically the only way to make a BW happy seems to be to never have expectations of her and be her silent investor
😂😂😂
That 6lack problems verse was so real especially me working in atl night life. So many girls wanna be rich and famous and not doing nothing.
Damn yeah I’ve done this too. Didn’t last 90 days. I made it too easy and ended up mad because she didn’t do anything. I set myself up.
That’s why you should’ve set benchmarks… first 30 days, should’ve had her write up a business plan- and present it to you… critique, modify as needed… start moving forward. You not setting some timeframes allowed her to rest in her complacency. The same thing has happened to women who bet on men who haven’t realized their path yet.
Bad move....never allow a woman into your space without having them invest in you and the space.
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It's very foolish to allow a woman to just float . Even if you have money. Very foolish 😒. This won't last the test of time . Ridiculous
Notice her LOVE was based on how much resources she can drain from him.. that were the therapist get involved.. Pay for Play America style..
She dove head first like a mfer into doing absolutely nothing for him and continueing to spend his resources
yup she did all that time in school and not want to use it he must have came home to a dirty home and got feed up
Very very foolish
I wouldn’t be no one insurance plan
She's lazy....... He hasn't proposed to her after 4 years. She needs to realize that she's not a wife.
Wow… even though she admitted that she basically does NOTHING she still (delusionally) believes that she “KNOWS her worth” and that she can “be an asset to someone out there in the world” ……why hasn’t she been an “ asset” to him??🤨….smh….Wow…
Notice her LOVE was based on how many resources she can drain from her Boyfriend. that were the therapist got involved.. Pay for Play America style..
You know its bad when even the famale therapist dont take the woman side
This is a perfect example of a bind that both of then are in. This is all self inflicted.
Ecclesiasticus 9:2
“Give not thy soul unto a woman to set her foot upon thy substance.”
This dude Is a walking target 🎯 for this girl. She will destroy him sooner or later
a simp will be a simp no matter how much money they have WHy complain it's pretty much the same and its really a shame.
Nice rhyme at the end
“Don’t let your boyfriend get in the way of your husband.” then her “boyfriend” looks up from his phone. Hahahahahaha
She wants to be a wife for content.
hee hee
Definitely some solid teachable moments with this one. He should've just set a firmer tone earlier instead of letting her live soft. It may have prevented her to do that ultimatum in public.
Shes not a wife.Why would he marry her?
Young men DONT do this
Exactly 💯
@@1SirAnthony good to see you brother 💪🏾
@@FREE_WILL_DEFENDER: Good seeing you, as well. Salute!
Definitely 🚩 he not going to be able to reel her back in. What happens when he wants her to cook? 😂
RIP Patrice O'Neal. "What would you really miss if your girl left"? A girl that laid up in your house for over a year doing literally nothing. A "content creator" that had to see a therapist to start doing bare bones domestic duties, ie. cooking, cleaning. Bro.... CUT YOUR LOSSES, be the bad guy. She's proven she's not a wife. Derrick jaxn is out here living his best life after being the literally embodiment of what women say they hate in men. You'll survive the fallout from this situation.
Casino is a classic! Ginger belonged to the streets!!!
Nothing makes me more mad than when i tell someone something over and over and it doesn’t translate but as soon as another person says it EXACTLY the same way i said it one time they all of a sudden see the light
Yeah that pisses me off to the T!! It just shows they never trusted or respected your judgment. Gettem out your circle asap
You just taught me something @mediumman, my girl is now on the bubble! 👍🏿💯
This was funny. Red flags galore.
Let a woman talk and they will tell on themselves all the time.
Bro its all fun and games until you have to sign a legally binding contract called a marriage license.
Guys take it from me NEVER EVER! marry or mess with a girl from Baltimore
Lol...I'll take your word for it 😅.
She'll get bored of him and cheat, we've seen this dynamic. If you cater to her and make her feel secured TOO well? She'll end up bored and what happens when a woman gets bored? ☕
This woman has no intention in marrying this man. If she wanted to,, and really loved him, she'd have married him year one.
@@Patricia-dd6ss she clearly does otherwise she wouldn't have a specific time at expecting him to propose😒
@@neon_one_neo3317 My dear! She's been with this gentleman for FOUR YEARS!
NOW she has her own money to move on, as she just admitted. All thanks to him, by the way. With all of the videos there's been about this subject...just how likely will this bw marry, or STAY married to this man?
As Medium Man hinted, marriage for her at this point could simply be for show.
After marriage, how much you wanna bet that she won't pull a "Tia Mowry", or what all these other bw over 25 do whenever they get married?
It's about the wedding, NOT the marriage for so many of them. No wonder more smart bm are marrying out! Sure can't blame them!
@@Patricia-dd6ss so you just agreed with me, I never said she actually liked him I said she wants him to marry her🤡
@@Patricia-dd6ss He didn't ask her to marry him, either. He isn't sure it's a good idea.
"I can be an asset to the next guy." Be an asset to this guy.
She knows her value?!?
She can take her talents elsewhere?
Delusion is a powerful drug
Mannn he not marrying this girl. He young, childless and has bread. He isn't even ready to settle down, he just doesn't want to be in the streets while he's building. But when he is ready, he will find a more wifely woman.
7:55: That relationship is on life support, and her man doesn't even know it. He is contributing to his own demise. I give them another two years max, before she needs to "find herself" and he's in the rear view mirror.
That would happen if she can find someone better, I doubt it. Or she marries him then divorce him after his big promotion to "find herself". Either way, you're most likely right
She ain't going nowhere though if he doesn't propose by her time line.
That "box", like white skin, covers up a lot of sins.
Yep
He’d be a foul to marry her as she is now
Beauty and the Beast, Lady and the Tramp, keisha and the simp.
hee hee
Exactly
I’ve been in the position when I was 24-26 paying ALL of the bills while living with a girlfriend who stayed home all day and did nothing. Not worth it at all. Ended up cheating on me and moved out while I was at work. Won’t be paying bills again until I’m married
Damn bro that’s cold!🥶 sorry that happened to you..
@@Goldenchild325 thanks mans it’s all good tho. I’m 29 now, you live and your learn. I wish the best this couple, I don’t want to project my failed relationship on to them. I see so many similarities between them and myself. The girl j had dated also aspired to be a content creator on UA-cam but she was just lazy and wanted to slum around the house. Like I said, more power to them. I personally wouldn’t be doing that again unless I’m married
Soon as I heard her say he said she ain’t got to do nothing but find her passion I was like this mans a dummy
I give it to her. She put her mind to finding her man instead of just tryna manifest it. So, kuddos.
Right she did what us millennials missed out on.
Poor little simp 😂
This wont end well.
Three options
1. He wife her and she stops all the new stuff
2. She leaves/loses him and spend the rest of her life trying to find this again and treating every dude like a bank
3. Divorce and he paying her for the rest of his life while she jumping the next jock
All 3
when he said u dont have to cook ! NOPE NOPE NO!!!!!!!! who the ?*! is he ??????🤣
She has 2 degrees. But they are 2 useless degrees.
I don't see it, I'm thinking this guy maybe was raised by a single mother? I don't see her value. She seems like a child. She thinks having two useless degrees is better than one useful degree. One degree in engineering from a good program. Would out earn either one of those bachelor's degrees typically.
Why did he try to mold this woman when he could just simply find a woman who's already wife material? He could go to Columbia or Brazil or anywhere with the kind of money he makes. He could go to Kenya or Eritrea if he wants a black woman and not an afro-latina. I'm just very confused by his behavior.
Good point bro he didnt require anything from her , so he did set the tone.
If you don't make them work for it they NEVER WILL!!! I made that mistake and paid dearly!!!! I was 29 she was 19. She graduated college and came to me. Floated for 3 years. Soon as she figured it out and made her 1st 6 figs I was expendable. MAKE THEM EARN IT!!!!
Just because he say he dont need you to do anything dont mean u just stand there and do nothing. So the dishes? Laundry? Nothing? U should want to do as much as possible to show gratitude at least
I think this guy just set her up to see what she would do. In that timeframe, she did not present herself as a wife. It may be too late for her now, and she certainly cannot try to give him an ultimatum without having proving that she is a wife.
40:35 don't let your husband get in the way of husband #2
There are a lot of gems in this video.
Social media really has a hold on the mentality of alot of females
In this fictional story, this dude is doomed. 😢
Fictional?
@@mediumman This poor dude IS doomed, though! Whether they marry or not, she's not staying with him for life. As soon as she can, she's gone. I hope he's paying attention to social media on this!😮💨
What southern dude would marry a Baltimore chick
🤣
🤣🤣
On God he different
"If he doesnt propose, ill leave cause I can be an asset to someone else" lol lady u do nothing, you're the definition of a liability.
That's what I was thinking. I would not marry her. She's not ready yet.
😅😅😅
I just got to that part and said the same thing 😂😂😂😂 ASSET? How? 😅
She’s doesn’t have to contribute on bills and she doesn’t have to cook or clean? Dude, you living with a child, a dependent. Any woman living with me gotta earn her keep, ain’t no “soft life” over here.
It's even sadder for me to see these things play out. Growing up I had to do shores since the age of 7.
They always love to talk about broke, bummy dusty men...THIS is the female version looks like.
That’s very true!
He has other women already all due respect. I know the Frat culture. You are not getting 100% provision AND loyalty from a Frat guy. If he is paying for everything, he has at least one side piece. You only get loyalty if the women is invested financially. Thats how it typically works
I wish I saw this in 2009. And again in 2014.
The provider enabled this situation, she got lazy.
Bro has fkd himself. He can redeem himself by not proposing to her
This is his fault. Women need an assignment and direction just like we do. If she is your woman you have to let her know what you need her to do to help you in addition to what God may have for her. You can't have a woman that is idle. An idle person is a chaotic person and she will eventually get bored or frustrated. Once that happens there will be major problems. Give her an assignment and set expectations that she has to meet. She has expectations of you whether she voices them or not, so you need to be clear with her what you expect
If he has not married her by now, it is less likely to happen. He is getting the cow and the milk without putting his assets at risk.
He should keep their status riflght where it is. The minite he marries her things will chnge significantly for him.
Facts. Think you can change them. It aint gone happen
I'm actually in a similar situation I however did place expectations on my women and set a standard and she's following through
I hope one of his friends sends him your video. It might be interesting to see how things turn out!
I’m a Henry
And I wouldn’t do any of the ish that man did.
Making over 200k and working on my continuation to a million
My chick still works, and gonna keep working. Don’t gotta be a hard job but it’s gonna be something especially if she gonna want half of what I got if a divorce ever happens
What do you do for work
Engaging in cooking and cleaning activities should evoke a sense of therapeutic satisfaction rather than being perceived as burdensome for a woman. If it falls into the latter category, a woman may develop a strong aversion towards performing household chores that are expected to come naturally to them.
If it falls into the 2nd category, discover that early on...then move on!
@@Patricia-dd6ss Facts 💪🏾
Oh yeah, after finishing the video the interviewer got all the great Intel for her man!
He definitely needs to pay attention to that 💯😂
This is so true. I tried to change my baby's momma. Thought I was invincible. 😂
39:53 😮 LMAO...
Edit: gotta add the "sprinkle, sprinkle"
You guys know communications & psychology are 2 degrees that goes nowhere & for her to say “ I can do bad all by myself “ before moving to Dallas if things fell apart. Bro if you ever read this get TF away from her
All the women in her family married young. But cant cook or didnt want to clean and laid around for 2 years
The late K. Samuels told these young men you to be somewhere between 30 to 35 to be at the top of your career before settling down for serious relationship leading to marriage.
Only the young men who know of KS would know about that. That's why these type of spaces are so important!
She needs to propose to him….(and he needs to turn her down).
What if he gets sick?
She's out
Honestly, I feel like this guy has low self-esteem. And him moving her in with no job definitely looks bad if he kicks her out!
Unless she get some wife mentorship, she may fumble him fr! But it’s also his fault for not having any standards.
What's with all the therapy?
there you go…good question
seems like “therapy” is the new bs cope
Passport please smh 🤦🏾♂️
Exactly dude basically marrying a liability imagine having kids with her smh
Red flag run bro run
Saying you want to be a content creator is like saying you wanna start a company. The idea should come first, then learn to incorporate the business. One can easily lose sight of the objective when the result is priorized.
It's his fault for allowing this lady to be this way with him. But, she should've reciprocated his energy by using all of that time she had to actually figure out what she wanted to do. Then she gives HIM a timeline? Lmao
She's super fake
Couldn't be me and thats all i got to say about that
Ultimatums are never good! Gone head & leave dog. Especially a deadline that was intentional from the beginning.
they didn't have a sit down talk BEFORE moving her to Dallas??!!!!! LIESSSSSS.....
This one got the devil in her, and she smart Smh
So he was patient with her but she wont be patient with him. Nah
If he had any intentions on marrying her, he would be on camera claiming his woman. This i promise you he wont marry her.
Marriage should've been the first thing they discussed before her moving out there. To me, that would be crazy to move to a new state, leaving your comfort zone, your family support for a man that's not your husband. In my opinion, they should've been married after the first year, so, that's on her to allow that man to do that. I do hope he marries her, though. She seems like a great catch, though.
Actually, he should've seen whether she could cook, or clean for him first! It's odd that he didn't already KNOW that about her!
A good catch how?
@@dragonfly4494 Dude is caught up on the outside packaging, and not paying attention to what's inside!
She trying to finish the story like Cody
Man requested one thing. Didn’t get it but the woman have the nerve to give a deadline. Prenup King at the minimum.
I'm about a third through the video. I think he's realized that he's created a monster and doesn't know if he wants to marry this woman at this point.
Edit: He better be careful, she'll be saying don't let your husband get in the way of your new husband
Pre-nups I am not sure they work.So I would ask her to get a job based on her two degrees.If that did not fit we would have to part ways
This lady was not taught or refuse to learn any skills to be an asset to a husband. Run fast not slow.
It all went 📉 real fast after she made that statement at 40:42
This won’t end well, dude is a fool
Some of our young brothers are really lead astray. Focus on yourself. This grifting 304 ain't worthy.
The bottom line is that she shouldn't be that damn delusional to believe that she doesn't have to contribute. How about showing some appreciation? He brought you in; you can at least cook and clean even if he said she doesn't; the expectation is still you should do something.
I’m trying to figure out why she felt ok with living with a man and not adding to his life? I just value reciprocal relationships. It only makes sense