Even the director was begging her to speak her mind. The mom is controlling her house. Its evident because when the daughter in law asked her if she could help her issue with the daughter she said no. The family is not treating her right.
This thing that mother in laws do to subject the daughter in laws to unnecessary chores on the first day of meeting her, has to stop. She is your guest, treat her as a human being not a maid. The first day you met her you’re already expecting her to wash plate and clean your house, why?
The problem is you don't understand the game of first impression. She has to do it on the first day even if its all in the name of pretense. (there's already a narrative of in-laws out there, you don't want to experience that do you?)
@@maampeeb.c3948 yes nau. One can easily notice that she's extremely terrified of the old woman. She clearly looks like she has freedom before speech but bondage after speech
thank you for saying this joor, i felt it too, i knew from the start the kind of person she is, she is really strict and also passing that strictness to her daughter inlaw which is not totally okay but the moment she asked "what did she do to you (with her body language)" omo i just felt pity for the lady. with the look of things, it shows that the girl is holding back too much, she wouldn't want to say what's really in her mind for peace to reign.
He get sweet mouth too. He was just whining the father.... He said, I promise to never raise my hands on her or my voice except I'm singing for her. Mad oooo😂
Deborah if you are reading this,i pray God gives you strength because this your mother in-law is not it!! That woman is very controlling and loves only her son. That’s where her sister in-law took her character from. All the best sis.
I wish me and my mother-in-law can come here. She’s the sweetest person ever that woman really shows all her daughter-in-law‘s love. She really cares about all of us.
@@lemondropzs better single than a slave...because now is she happy? We've been made to feel like being single after a certain age is a curse, so we willingly end up in bad situations. It's sad
This mother-in-law is lowkey wicked even the director noticed she wasn’t comfortable The mother-in-law is only concerned about obedient and submission indeeed “obinrin lota obinrin”😢
You can even see the part where the mother in law said whenever her son and his wife had issues,she always supported the husband that's her son in the presence of both the son and his wife and later begged the wife and told her it's because she wants her to stay long/last in her husband's house
I don’t trust that mother in law… I feel like the girl is faking happiness and the way the mother in law is speaking sounds like she probably is a bully
I’m so proud of our fellow Africans brothers and sisters for starting to really open up on this kind of topic. Even though we still got a lot of work to do, it’s refreshing to see we’re in the progress.
Deborah is definitely holding back a lot in regards to her mother in law. The MIL seems very rigid , strict and comes across as someone who you have to walk on eggshells with.
You spoke my mind the only person she needs to submit to is her husband . The day that girl goes against her mother-in-law the relationship will go left . God help her
If your daughter in-law is obedient and you keep threatening her to b obedient or else there’ll be trouble, it’s scary.😂 I understand that she’s a fierce woman but if her daughter in-law becomes free and really say her mind even in the most respectful way, she will take it like the girl has started growing Wings or being stubborn.
Deborah and her mother-in-law are a case study😂. She seems so scared of her mother-in-law. As for the mother in law she is too blunt and that can hurt someone's feelings. The best relationship is Eniola and her father in law.
The thing is, moms-in-law expect a girl visiting with their son for the first time to do chores depends entirely on how the son talked about her prior to the meeting. If he has talked about her with respect and hyped her up when explaining to them, they would never ever try or expect her to collect broom and sweep or wash plates. There’s a difference between, “I’ve found a woman i want to marry, she’s a beautiful ekiti woman, runs her own successful fashion business and is everything i prayed to God for,” and “I’ve seen the girl i want to marry, she’s a tailor, from ekiti but doesn’t behave like them, she can cook and clean and wash clothes, and she’s okay sha.” Men, introduce your woman in a way that she seems untouchable, and nobody would dare to disrespect her.
Eniola's father-in-law's statement on her loving herself touched me❤🔥. I almost cried 😭😭😭😭😍. He really loves his daughter-in-law ❤🎉. Shey I'll not marry into their family bayi?😂❤
I come against every mama ajibola in form of a mother in-law in Jesus name. By God's grace, I get reminded almost on a daily basis that I am nice to my bones and I pray everyday that nothing makes me change so I will remain righteous in the eyes of my heavenly father but at the same time, my mama born me well. I am also wired to resist any form of bullying and oppression no matter what. Any mother in-law that wants to misbehave will see the benin girl in me I sha don't know why these types of mother inlaws do not meet their match in their daughter in-laws, instead they see the ones that walk on egg shells to please them. That's why i pray to God to bless the works of our ladies' hands coz when you have your own money and are doing well, no anyhow ruffian mother in-law will dare you. Mama ajibola is using the word 'Submit' as disguise to the words 'Suffer and don't forget to always swallow our nonsense'.
It's easy for you to notice that SHE'S ONE OF THOSE CRAZY WOMEN THAT WILL FIGHT FOR YOU IN A WAY THAT WILL SHOCK YOU. She said she learned not to interfere in marriage from experience, but if you objectively listen to her... You'd know she's a sweetheart inside all of that HARD WOMAN HARD WOMAN.
@@akoredeakeroro3064😂na lie, dey play. She says she doesn't interfere but still proudly states that her son tells her everything that goes on, like him washing his wife’s cloth.(if she isn't interested in interfering she’ll advice her son to stop bringing all their family talks and not her making such statement) Plus if she was a bad person or interferes would she say it.
@@mawannomiseunfunmi8841 and did she interfere? NO!!!! The son said it and she's even smiling about it that it's none of her business. Towards the end, the wife even said she does more than her step-mom.... If you've encountered these kind of women, you'd understand that they're tough and this lady seem to know her mumu button(RESPECT) so they'll always fight for her. Believe me, if someone talks bad about her behind her, she'd stand for her and most likely not tell her...
"I promised myself never to raise my hands, but i thank God more that i don't even have a reason to raise my voice, except I'm singing for her..." Love ittttttt😍😍🔥😅
Oh.. Debby married a man that doesn't know where to draw the line with His Mum. I feel so sad for her. For someone who went through this nonsense before My Husband put his feet down and said a resounding NO, I recognize the signs toooo well! Ajibola's Mum is a NO NO 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
There's something you didn't get.... She will support him in the wife's presence but later will let him know he was wrong. In her words, the reason she does that was for the daughter in law not to be quick to leave the marriage
I cried while watching this. My MIL died two years ago, she was the best MIL in the world. I regret no spending as much time with her, i just thought we still time on our side to do all the things we wanted to do.
In my husband family, his father and grandmother are the only one who welcomed, treated me like their own. Eespecially the grandmother, till today, noone knows that I've heard a conversation and she didnt accept them to criticise me. Unfornately, she passed this year. It was like she can see through you, to the depth of a person. Hum!!! May God grant her a peaceful continuation.
Great show. Though, I would have love to see a mother-in-law talk with her son-in-law. Secondly, the comments about the mother-in-law…😂 one thing we should know is that some of our elders are quick to see being REAL as being RUDE. Most of us know this, especially when you are from a particular tribe that doesn’t joke with respect. As much as Deborah doesn’t look happy, I understand that she is being diplomatic, and it is for her own good. It is well with her.
We can see from this video why mother in-laws always have issues with their children's spouses, the love and bond with the father-in-laws in this video just says everything.
You picked up broom the first day your daughter in law to be came to your house?? 🤣🤣🤣 Orisirisi The way I go fail all these useless tests ehn, God keep me way from such local people and their kids
This lady and her father in-law’s relationship is really good Also, the father and son in-law This is how it should be Lord help me to have this kind of in-laws 🙏
To summarize the mom inlaw is telling her daughter in-law to be slave to the family and if she stopped submitting her self to the family they will fight, i can't even imagine how the daughter in-law is feeling from the inside 😢😢
The father-in-laws and their children spouses are such a breath of fresh air. Deborah's mother in-law is lucky to have her. Their temperaments "match". Deborah seems to be handling the family and the marriage well. If not, may God strengthen her mentally, emotionally and physically to see it to the end.
I love the father and daughter in law relationship, they're my personal favourite. And also the father and son in law's relationship. They have so much respect for each other and get along well. Contrary to what people are saying, I think the mother and daughter in law have a good relationship but there's a catch, it is conditional. She has to be obedient and submissive at all times not matter the situation. If she is not, the relationship will get spoilt. Deborah is the type that is respectful and dutiful so there is no problem between them but I fear for her if a serious issue comes up that she has to stand up for herself. That's the only way they might get problems. I hope Deborah never mistakenly steps on her toes for peace to reign and I hope the mother in law learns to give out unconditional love someday.
Aww the two male in-laws father in law and son in law are like biological father and son, I love their relationship! The father and daughter in law too are very cute I can tell the man is a good man
When he told his daughter in law to care for herself, that really touched me. She’s very lucky
Can I care for you too? 😊😊
Me, too❤. Like I almost cried😢😫😍😭. He's a good man, I tell you ❤.
I teared up ☺️
Those duo were the best for me ❤
Says so much about him and his family and how he raised his kids 👏🏾👏🏾
Eniola and her father-in-law….goals tbh
Frrr
It was so nice coming on the show
My father in law is my gee
Thanks for the beautiful comments ❤
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽, You're welcome!!!
Love it for you, honestly.
Yes darling we saw pure and honest love between you and your father in love 🥰
No doubt you are blessed ❤
when he said you should take care of yourself. I started bawling. He is so the best. He is clearly a great father and great father in-law.
That father and son in-law relationship 🥺
The wife is actually lucky
That father and daughter in law relationship, the kind I wish for. Such a special bond
🥺🥺
No one is talking about the dad in-law and the son in-law❤goals
These father in laws are the real GOATS!
Small education and common sense 💯
Father in-laws are always cool, na mothers dey always get problem
Education
Exposure
Seriously o
@@yomide_naturalsfr they be competing with theirs son’s wives.
Ajibola's wife looks tensed. It feels like she's holding back alot
Or maybe she's just not comfortable in front of cameras and not holding back anything.
I feel she is not so good at spoken communication
Yes she is tensed. You read it right. She's holding back alot
Even the director was begging her to speak her mind. The mom is controlling her house. Its evident because when the daughter in law asked her if she could help her issue with the daughter she said no. The family is not treating her right.
@@HeyMe75 I guess there is nothing like that because by looking at the lady eyes she is rather shy than scared.
This thing that mother in laws do to subject the daughter in laws to unnecessary chores on the first day of meeting her, has to stop. She is your guest, treat her as a human being not a maid. The first day you met her you’re already expecting her to wash plate and clean your house, why?
When it’s your turn to visit,sit down and let your mother in law do the chores
@kareemopeyemi4407 abi 😅😅😅😂
@@kareemopeyemi4407 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you, the measure is warped
The problem is you don't understand the game of first impression. She has to do it on the first day even if its all in the name of pretense. (there's already a narrative of in-laws out there, you don't want to experience that do you?)
Eniola's father-in-law telling her to get better at taking care of herself made me teary😭
So wholesome ❤
Aswrrr…. That’s the nicest thing said on this episode
Awww thats my dad and eniola is my sister in-love
@@OlamidebrownstitchesYour dad is an absolutely amazing man
This man without been told is a good man❤
Even Director noticed the tension from Deborah, omoooo
The guy who is a teacher is obviously growing... Love it. I see why the father in law is confident about making him his son-in-law
That lady standing with her mother-in-law looks like she's going through a lot and a lot is going through her💔
She is
😂😂😂😂😂 looks like??
@@maampeeb.c3948 yes nau. One can easily notice that she's extremely terrified of the old woman.
She clearly looks like she has freedom before speech but bondage after speech
@@CharlesRozay it's more like she has freedom of speech but no freedom after speech 😩😩
That “what did she do to you” sounded somehow. Like the MIL is ready to defend her daughter no matter what…
Exactly!!
Passive aggressive.
thank you for saying this joor, i felt it too, i knew from the start the kind of person she is, she is really strict and also passing that strictness to her daughter inlaw which is not totally okay but the moment she asked "what did she do to you (with her body language)" omo i just felt pity for the lady. with the look of things, it shows that the girl is holding back too much, she wouldn't want to say what's really in her mind for peace to reign.
And she defended her too
Realllll
THE GIRL'S MOTHER IN LAW SEEMS VERY CONTROLLING AND THE DAUGHTER IN LAW SEEMS LIKE SHE'S HOLDING BACK ALL SHE REALLY HAS IN HER IN MIND TO SAY
I dnt think so . She's just seems shy towards her which is normal for some people
I agree. Like she knows they will flog her if she talks anyhow 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@wakasukkuexactly! I don't get why some people don't just understand not everyone is comfortable in front of cameras.
@wynniefredugo3430 the mother in law seems to be supporting the sister in law financially 16:25 you can't bite the hand that feeds you.
@@OlatundeO1 its like you guys wanted her to disrespect the woman??
The younger husband has great word choice. He speaks like a wise man.
I see it too
He get sweet mouth too. He was just whining the father....
He said, I promise to never raise my hands on her or my voice except I'm singing for her. Mad oooo😂
That guy Sabi pick words
As in ❤❤❤❤
Ajibola’s mother wants to walk on everyone 😅😭every sentence has “submission” abeg
she's so old-fashioned, my goodness.
Deborah if you are reading this,i pray God gives you strength because this your mother in-law is not it!!
That woman is very controlling and loves only her son.
That’s where her sister in-law took her character from.
All the best sis.
Facts
Exactly!!!!
Fact oo
😂
Yes o I can smell her stubbornness too
The two Father in laws are so chill. I love them, cant say same about Debbie's mil
I really love them both❤
Father in-laws rarely have issues. It's always the mothers
I wish me and my mother-in-law can come here. She’s the sweetest person ever that woman really shows all her daughter-in-law‘s love. She really cares about all of us.
I receive this in Jesus name. To be loved by my whole husband’s family
Please do. There are women with fantastic MIL and we need watch such videos abeg.
"it's none of my business. I don't get involved in their issues"
But proceed to say she knows everything 20:57
14:59 "take care of my child, my son and your baby"
Oh wow, best of luck to Deborah.
She scares me oh 🤣
Do you gettt....not even a mention of the caretaker😢
Crazy! That statement made me legitimately uneasy
Omo I shock o. I feel for her😢
She did nt add, that she should take care of her self ohh
Debby made herself a slave to the family from the first day😢😢😢
I feel so too 😢
You getttt like don't start what you can't keep up😢
But she was fearful from what her friends experienced with their in laws
@@lemondropzs better single than a slave...because now is she happy? We've been made to feel like being single after a certain age is a curse, so we willingly end up in bad situations. It's sad
This mother-in-law is lowkey wicked even the director noticed she wasn’t comfortable
The mother-in-law is only concerned about obedient and submission indeeed “obinrin lota obinrin”😢
And she was saying if she decides not to support her with money anymore...omo
You can even see the part where the mother in law said whenever her son and his wife had issues,she always supported the husband that's her son in the presence of both the son and his wife and later begged the wife and told her it's because she wants her to stay long/last in her husband's house
Exactly
Submitting herself to the family is crazy, omo 😭
Do you get 😂, omo that’s wild
It's not really a bad thing.
🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
😂😂😂😂some of these inlaws erhh😂😂😂😂😂😂. They should thank God for the inlaws they have cos some people won't take this nonsense. Because of marriage????😂
Where in the bible did it say that? She’s needs to chill
Very crazy
Simeon and his son-in-law is a goal😂😂... If I were the daughter or sibling I do be jealous of there relationship
I don’t trust that mother in law… I feel like the girl is faking happiness and the way the mother in law is speaking sounds like she probably is a bully
The girl probably have anxiety, you could see she couldn’t express herself well in good English.
i SENSED THE SAME THING, VERY TRUE
@@dinojnr001 more like it
Exactly, I don’t believe her when she says she’s been a good mother in law
Don't just jump into conclusion
I’m so proud of our fellow Africans brothers and sisters for starting to really open up on this kind of topic. Even though we still got a lot of work to do, it’s refreshing to see we’re in the progress.
It's apparent that Ajibola's family are showing that girl pepper
I feel so bad for Ajibola’s wife/Deborah!! It seems like there's something off! I pray for her peace and joy.
Deborah is definitely holding back a lot in regards to her mother in law. The MIL seems very rigid , strict and comes across as someone who you have to walk on eggshells with.
But I still feel like it's because she's camera shy😂😂😂...
the mother in law seems to be supporting the sister in law financially 16:25 you can't bite the hand that feeds you.
And she takes the advice personally to stay in her marriage no matter what. Even this show nor go spoil her marriage.
poor Deborah I felt the same
she is growing through alot. May God help her
That Ajibola's wife has so much more to say but she is probably scared 😢
Scared of after effect of her words so she's being mindful
11:50 This Father-in-law and son-in-law relationship is cute too.😊
Omo!!! “Submit your self to the family and to your husband” somebody help me spell SUFFER!!!😭😭 I reject this in the mighty name of Jesus
your mentality won't kill you
You spoke my mind the only person she needs to submit to is her husband . The day that girl goes against her mother-in-law the relationship will go left . God help her
I cringed she kept saying obedient… She’s looking for househelp not daughter in law
@@ArabicwithAmin amen!!!!
@@Ttw221 amen. The part where she made everyone know that is she is helping her daughter in law sent chills down my spine.
I hope Jibola watched this. How does he feel watching his wife tremble before his mother and that his sister should get a grip
I hope he protect her seriously
It’s so unfortunate but the truth is that he’s probably worse so he may not give a damn
He sees this live. He knows
If your daughter in-law is obedient and you keep threatening her to b obedient or else there’ll be trouble, it’s scary.😂 I understand that she’s a fierce woman but if her daughter in-law becomes free and really say her mind even in the most respectful way, she will take it like the girl has started growing Wings or being stubborn.
Women will be women.
Agreed! Although, that statement growing wings is crazy and reveals the mentality of people who think being free is a bad thing.
Exactly
Not all women is bad this one experience bad mother in-law na make her be bad mother inlaw
See her son here@@amir_official2007
Deborah and her mother-in-law are a case study😂. She seems so scared of her mother-in-law. As for the mother in law she is too blunt and that can hurt someone's feelings.
The best relationship is Eniola and her father in law.
The thing is, moms-in-law expect a girl visiting with their son for the first time to do chores depends entirely on how the son talked about her prior to the meeting.
If he has talked about her with respect and hyped her up when explaining to them, they would never ever try or expect her to collect broom and sweep or wash plates.
There’s a difference between, “I’ve found a woman i want to marry, she’s a beautiful ekiti woman, runs her own successful fashion business and is everything i prayed to God for,”
and
“I’ve seen the girl i want to marry, she’s a tailor, from ekiti but doesn’t behave like them, she can cook and clean and wash clothes, and she’s okay sha.”
Men, introduce your woman in a way that she seems untouchable, and nobody would dare to disrespect her.
I can’t count how many times she told her to be obedient 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I dey fear on the girls behave
Likeee
I cringed😂 she Dey find househelp …not daughter in law
Could just be her choice of words, they seem cool tho
Bruh ... The day Deborah decides to speak up, they'll she has changed. That lady is holding back!
Her MIL is a red and orange flag in one.
Say na orange😭😂
But I really feel for her. Feels like a bondage
the mother in law is a Rainbow flag!! she is red, green yellow, everything. I feel sorry for the girl
17:13 “he loves to be among ladies even when he was young” that doesn’t make him a lover boy that makes him a player😭😂😂
Who will tell her? 😂😂
I peeped that too
Ajibola wife de suffer 😂😂😂😂nothing you wan tell me
Thank you! I thought I was the only one that noticed😩
No be lie
Real
😂 no be lie
It’s a lie
This teacher just dey give him father in law rizz😂😂
abi o😂 He said, I promise to never raise my hands on her or my voice unless I'm singing for her. Mad oooo😂
@@joeadeleke😂😂😂 love that for him
The father inlaw said you’re special to me 😭❤️❤️
I love their relationship.. very beautiful
Eniola's father-in-law's statement on her loving herself touched me❤🔥. I almost cried 😭😭😭😭😍. He really loves his daughter-in-law ❤🎉. Shey I'll not marry into their family bayi?😂❤
😂😂😂
I come against every mama ajibola in form of a mother in-law in Jesus name.
By God's grace, I get reminded almost on a daily basis that I am nice to my bones and I pray everyday that nothing makes me change so I will remain righteous in the eyes of my heavenly father but at the same time, my mama born me well. I am also wired to resist any form of bullying and oppression no matter what.
Any mother in-law that wants to misbehave will see the benin girl in me
I sha don't know why these types of mother inlaws do not meet their match in their daughter in-laws, instead they see the ones that walk on egg shells to please them.
That's why i pray to God to bless the works of our ladies' hands coz when you have your own money and are doing well, no anyhow ruffian mother in-law will dare you.
Mama ajibola is using the word 'Submit' as disguise to the words 'Suffer and don't forget to always swallow our nonsense'.
AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Eniola and her father in law and Sowemimo and his father in law's relationship is everything to be honest 😭❤️
Ajibola’s wife has something to say aside this….. she’s going through alot
I know some wives can be annoying, but some mother inlaws are too much, huh
@@may_beeharuno2195 very serious.
It's easy for you to notice that SHE'S ONE OF THOSE CRAZY WOMEN THAT WILL FIGHT FOR YOU IN A WAY THAT WILL SHOCK YOU.
She said she learned not to interfere in marriage from experience, but if you objectively listen to her... You'd know she's a sweetheart inside all of that HARD WOMAN HARD WOMAN.
@@akoredeakeroro3064😂na lie, dey play. She says she doesn't interfere but still proudly states that her son tells her everything that goes on, like him washing his wife’s cloth.(if she isn't interested in interfering she’ll advice her son to stop bringing all their family talks and not her making such statement)
Plus if she was a bad person or interferes would she say it.
@@mawannomiseunfunmi8841 and did she interfere? NO!!!! The son said it and she's even smiling about it that it's none of her business.
Towards the end, the wife even said she does more than her step-mom.... If you've encountered these kind of women, you'd understand that they're tough and this lady seem to know her mumu button(RESPECT) so they'll always fight for her.
Believe me, if someone talks bad about her behind her, she'd stand for her and most likely not tell her...
I like Lekan and his father inlaw relationship. He married well😊he's so happy.
I luv the educationist , the first thing he said was he gave the man the first yes
The father in laws and their in laws are so sweet. The relationships are so wholesome and I’m very very here for it. I love beautiful in law stories ❤
Godforbid this ajibola’s mother😂
That is your opinion it works for them so I guess it may not work for you
Likee. That woman is not a good mother in law. There’s nothing you fit tell me
Ajibola's mother is too possessive. God help their marriage 😢
@@Everinnywhat makes you think it works for “them” it definitely doesn't work for that wife.😢
@@mawannomiseunfunmi8841 I guess but she could state that to her husband or to the mother-in-law if she can’t that’s her cross to bear
Eniola and her father in law are goals😩😩😩
This Ajibola's mother is the kind of mother-in-law you pray against.
100%
With all your might😭
It's obvious she is such a bully, and the lady was being cautious of words to use because omo*100000000😂
💯
As a South African this show just made me love this nation even more.... There's nothing as beautiful as humility and humbleness. ❤
The lady that’s with her mother Inlaw sounds so scared
These in-laws are all nice to each other. what a miracle😂
let's say not the mother in law 😬
An irony though.
Mot all of 'em.
You too you know. Lool
"you do more than my mother" there's more pain on that than truth from Deborah
"I promised myself never to raise my hands, but i thank God more that i don't even have a reason to raise my voice, except I'm singing for her..." Love ittttttt😍😍🔥😅
If they were asked these questions separately I wonder if Debby's answers would change...seems tense and her mother in law's look😢
This is nice to see the father in law and son-in-law are goals , Deborah I hope she is really happy
Simeon and Lekan, I love their relationship 🥹❤️
And the Ajoje’s are so beautiful to watch❤️❤️😭😭
This video is so sweet to watch. Thank you Daddy Ajoje for loving my sister genuinely ❤❤❤❤
Awwwwn
Deborah looks and sounds traumatised 😢she withholding alot of things
Can you please send special hugs and thank you to the daddy's. They are awesome!!
😂’’you need endurance 😂’’ for sis-in-law wey Dey do anyhw😂😂
Dyg!! 😂😂 why not talk to your daughter, why should I endure the bs?
The way I screamed
The way I screamed
The way I say ah to this ehn
Debby simply doesn't want trouble after the show😢
Exactly, she was just walking around eggshells throughout
Exactly what I just commented!
Wow. Deborah. The Lord is your strength o. This your Mother-in-law is something else
How'd you know? You just judged her whole personality from these short clips... Omo ehn
Oh.. Debby married a man that doesn't know where to draw the line with His Mum. I feel so sad for her. For someone who went through this nonsense before My Husband put his feet down and said a resounding NO, I recognize the signs toooo well!
Ajibola's Mum is a NO NO 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Exactly
Mummy’s boy😭
Imagine supporting her son when hes wrong,tufiakwa
There's something you didn't get.... She will support him in the wife's presence but later will let him know he was wrong. In her words, the reason she does that was for the daughter in law not to be quick to leave the marriage
@@kosisolucy9150that will even push the wife to leave faster and make her feel like they are ganging up on her
@@kosisolucy9150there's something you didn't get. That's terrible behavior. You wouldn't like it if it happened to you.
“Not everyone in your husband’s family will embrace you” wow, what a beautiful statement 😊
I cried while watching this. My MIL died two years ago, she was the best MIL in the world. I regret no spending as much time with her, i just thought we still time on our side to do all the things we wanted to do.
God forbid Ajibola’s mother ooo. What’s this? 😂😂😂
In my husband family, his father and grandmother are the only one who welcomed, treated me like their own. Eespecially the grandmother, till today, noone knows that I've heard a conversation and she didnt accept them to criticise me. Unfornately, she passed this year.
It was like she can see through you, to the depth of a person. Hum!!! May God grant her a peaceful continuation.
Amen🙏🏾
You Ghanaian??❤
When someone is tensed like this and you are smiling casually like everything is fine. There's a deep thing behind
Great show. Though, I would have love to see a mother-in-law talk with her son-in-law.
Secondly, the comments about the mother-in-law…😂 one thing we should know is that some of our elders are quick to see being REAL as being RUDE. Most of us know this, especially when you are from a particular tribe that doesn’t joke with respect. As much as Deborah doesn’t look happy, I understand that she is being diplomatic, and it is for her own good. It is well with her.
We can see from this video why mother in-laws always have issues with their children's spouses, the love and bond with the father-in-laws in this video just says everything.
The father in law are so sweet!
12:34 They are my favourite duo here. Eniola has an amazing relationship with her father-in-law.
You picked up broom the first day your daughter in law to be came to your house?? 🤣🤣🤣 Orisirisi
The way I go fail all these useless tests ehn, God keep me way from such local people and their kids
Amen
Me to oooh 😂
Amen o
Amen!
Likeeeee
If she like make she sweep tarred road I go just dey look am😂😂😂😂😂😂
This lady and her father in-law’s relationship is really good
Also, the father and son in-law
This is how it should be
Lord help me to have this kind of in-laws 🙏
Deborah blink twice if you need help 😭😭😭😭
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To summarize the mom inlaw is telling her daughter in-law to be slave to the family and if she stopped submitting her self to the family they will fight, i can't even imagine how the daughter in-law is feeling from the inside 😢😢
Your mother in law doesn’t love you period! Look at her body language and turn of her voice😏. The lady with her Father in law won in life😍
The father-daughter in law relationship is top notch
Debora was scared so much that she turn the light concerning the cooking,that girl isnt free.....
This is why it’s always best to know yourself and have a backbone.
I feel like Ajibola's wife is on eggshells with his mum😢.
She looks tensed.
Being your in law fav is a blessing because they will value you alot and respect you.
God please I need the type of father-in-law you gave to Eniola🙏
😁 thats a good prayer, he is the best daddy in the world
I love the way Lekan speaks. he is well educated and loves to play with words. He is indeed a fun to be with
Simeon and his son in law made me smile too.
That mother in-law interfer's in her daughter inlaws relationship well. you can tell the young lady dones't wanna talk too much.
I feel like soon-to-be married couples should come on this show with their families to know if it’s worth going ahead
Aswear
The father-in-laws and their children spouses are such a breath of fresh air.
Deborah's mother in-law is lucky to have her. Their temperaments "match". Deborah seems to be handling the family and the marriage well. If not, may God strengthen her mentally, emotionally and physically to see it to the end.
Ajibola's Mother and wife should sign up for Nollywood
Ajibola mother is an actor in the Yoruba movie industry
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Eniola and Sowemimo won. Their FILs are the best. Wonderful and super humans. God bless them.
I love the father and daughter in law relationship, they're my personal favourite. And also the father and son in law's relationship. They have so much respect for each other and get along well. Contrary to what people are saying, I think the mother and daughter in law have a good relationship but there's a catch, it is conditional. She has to be obedient and submissive at all times not matter the situation. If she is not, the relationship will get spoilt. Deborah is the type that is respectful and dutiful so there is no problem between them but I fear for her if a serious issue comes up that she has to stand up for herself. That's the only way they might get problems. I hope Deborah never mistakenly steps on her toes for peace to reign and I hope the mother in law learns to give out unconditional love someday.
That submit yourself to the family statement dey vex me abeg
She just dy do blah blah blah got me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aww the two male in-laws father in law and son in law are like biological father and son, I love their relationship! The father and daughter in law too are very cute I can tell the man is a good man